Just use your future thinking Ni. Know that the hardest part is to get to the eye of the storm, know that when you don't act from the position of your fear you are already changing the world.
I so needed to hear this!!!! The pain of putting in the work after study and training and not getting that response. You're right. I have to learn to sit through the uncomfortable emotions and not create narratives of being unlikable, hated, rejected, not popular, weird, etc. I will put this on my playlist and listen when the responses are dry and i need encouragement. I love you, Wenzes❤ Thank you again.
Thank you so much Wenzes for creating this video. For the first time in my life I actually understood what’s been holding me back. It’s the fear of creating something tangible that doesn’t measure up to my vision. And also the fear that something I hold dear may not be of much significance to someone else. But now I understand that none of this is my business. People understand and appreciate things based on their own understanding and life experience. That has nothing to do with me or my gifts. Besides, there will always be someone who benefits from what I can share. So it’s important to make my gift visible, tangible and find-able in the real world to connect with people through it, in a healthy way. That way I can actually contribute and add value, and maybe even change someone’s life for the better ❤
I've been watching your videos for a while now, and i just want to say thank you for existing & doing what you do! So often i feel misunderstood & like an alien. Here i feel seen and understood.. like someone somewhere understands.. and that my dear is enough.
Merry Christmas Wenzes! To all INFJs on planet earth. Your success is just outside your comfort zone. With Wenzes by your side I know you will make it to that epic life you deserve. 🎄
5 EASY STEPS FOR INFJs TO START UNLEASHING THEIR UNIQUE GIFTS 1:12 _ Step #1 Old onto the version of yourself you want to be 5:40 _ Step #2 Create your gift 9:10 _ Step #3 Facing your fear, sharing your gift 13:56 _ Step #4 Sit in discomfort 17:35 _ Step #5 Jump to the next level
I can't say I'm exactly in a Hermit Mode now, but it's close. There are some important things coming up so I'm "taking time to save time" and doing some careful self-examination, strategizing, and just plain going over things that matter to me. I'm still choosing to communicate with people, getting out of the house and enjoying life. But there are some important items on my mind, and I already have some pertinent journaling to show for it. So this particular video addressed my situation well. Two things that you've suggested here are helping me make this time even more effective. One of them is the book ATOMIC HABITS which you have mentioned earlier, and I have been reading, enjoying and using a great deal. The other is EFT - tapping which you highly recommend - and I highly agree. I'm working with something (significant for me) and using it now, along with general use. I think this video can be a big help for us to review as the new year comes up. Good work!
This resonates with me. I actually had an imposter syndrome and got so pressured with my talents. Social media has been overwhelming for me. I stopped posting and would usually deactivate my socials. I'm sort of a hermit nowadays. Cant share everything in writing. Thanks for this video.
I have been going through all of these points over the past year. Thank you so much for putting my thoughts out there in this video and many other videos. I appreciate you :)
Isn't it kind of our business if we have to work with those people? I've been uncomfortable for some time. I understand what it is. Trying to be the change I want to see has brought on a lot of resistance over several years.
It's interesting everything she says in her videos I practice because I'm an INFJ. For me, the value that these videos have is the realization that I am much more than I could ever learn. To be or not to be. It's either an INFJ or not. There is no way to learn to be an INFJ because of the gifts that cannot be learned. A second value is learning. Much more in the sense of improving than learning. We perfect who we are with Wenzes. Thanks for the videos.
I would like to know how Wenzes deals with life's variables. How to act when everything seems to have gotten out of control. I would like to know how she thinks when we arrive at a place in life that we could only imagine being.
thank you very much. i download the poster and its useful! i already made all..but work not done evidently. relations is not ready for sure, invasive tought was here often. little by little but i am on good path even i have premenopause in gift! hahaha anyway take care of self is in the all cycle of life, exercise, eat well, sleep well, set boundaries and be proud of, no age for that! big hug
How can you know me so well when we've never met! I retired in June and so I am deep in hermit mode. Now I have to learn how to at last be myself. It's very frightening.
IF you make your product perfect then the only thing standing in the way of your success is your lack of knowledge in how to market said product. So get on that. [This is for the advanced infjs]
The none accomplish yet INFJ must in their time planing line; need to improvise. It is in this way they will became, the best INFJ they are, born to be.
Have you considered increasing the length of your videos? I love listening to 1hr + video on one subject that has a lot of detail. You have to consider your audience, is it INFJs, I have heard they like long videos, I am not sure about that, but I do. I want to hear you go into a little more depth and be uncomfortable and give some examples about your life. You do not need to be perfect when talking about this subject. , don't keep yourself to yourself. I have not listed to your other videos yet, so maybe you do all of this. Also, have you considered that your audience is only 2% of the world? the other percent of the world does short videos btw. Anyways you mentioned giving your gifts to others, I would like to know why this is important as much of what I have to offer someone might take a glance at it, enjoy it for a second, and go on to the next thing. I do have a drive for enlightenment, but to be productive in society may not necessarily bring about enlightenment. Anyways my point here is that you mentioned both gifts to help others and enlightment for self, but you did not go into depth, but you could.What are your reflections about the topic? I bet there is endless stuff that could be discussed with this topic.
What is helping you or holding you back from sharing your ideas with the world?
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Those around me only see a hobby when it is my life's work.
I share often. 😎✌️
Just use your future thinking Ni. Know that the hardest part is to get to the eye of the storm, know that when you don't act from the position of your fear you are already changing the world.
What is helping me is that I've gotten to where I don't give a crap what people think of me. 😂 I embrace my weirdness and uniqueness. 😁
Being an INFJ is the perfect balance of being in Heaven and Hell at the same time.
Blake's marriage of heaven and hell?
Some are both. It's what's in your heart ❤️ is what needs to shine through. 4:02
I so needed to hear this!!!! The pain of putting in the work after study and training and not getting that response. You're right. I have to learn to sit through the uncomfortable emotions and not create narratives of being unlikable, hated, rejected, not popular, weird, etc. I will put this on my playlist and listen when the responses are dry and i need encouragement. I love you, Wenzes❤ Thank you again.
This series is gold!
I was wary of buying into this whole INFJ thing. Wenzes is the user's guide to myself I wish I'd had a long time ago.
Thank you so much Wenzes for creating this video. For the first time in my life I actually understood what’s been holding me back. It’s the fear of creating something tangible that doesn’t measure up to my vision. And also the fear that something I hold dear may not be of much significance to someone else.
But now I understand that none of this is my business. People understand and appreciate things based on their own understanding and life experience. That has nothing to do with me or my gifts.
Besides, there will always be someone who benefits from what I can share. So it’s important to make my gift visible, tangible and find-able in the real world to connect with people through it, in a healthy way. That way I can actually contribute and add value, and maybe even change someone’s life for the better ❤
I've been watching your videos for a while now, and i just want to say thank you for existing & doing what you do! So often i feel misunderstood & like an alien. Here i feel seen and understood.. like someone somewhere understands.. and that my dear is enough.
Merry Christmas Wenzes! To all INFJs on planet earth. Your success is just outside your comfort zone. With Wenzes by your side I know you will make it to that epic life you deserve. 🎄
So so true. Don't know where I would be without wenzes!
5 EASY STEPS FOR INFJs TO START UNLEASHING THEIR UNIQUE GIFTS
1:12 _ Step #1
Old onto the version of yourself you want to be
5:40 _ Step #2
Create your gift
9:10 _ Step #3
Facing your fear, sharing your gift
13:56 _ Step #4
Sit in discomfort
17:35 _ Step #5
Jump to the next level
You might find the extraordinary there. 6:29
I can't say I'm exactly in a Hermit Mode now, but it's close. There are some important things coming up so I'm "taking time to save time" and doing some careful self-examination, strategizing, and just plain going over things that matter to me. I'm still choosing to communicate with people, getting out of the house and enjoying life. But there are some important items on my mind, and I already have some pertinent journaling to show for it. So this particular video addressed my situation well.
Two things that you've suggested here are helping me make this time even more effective. One of them is the book ATOMIC HABITS which you have mentioned earlier, and I have been reading, enjoying and using a great deal. The other is EFT - tapping which you highly recommend - and I highly agree. I'm working with something (significant for me) and using it now, along with general use.
I think this video can be a big help for us to review as the new year comes up. Good work!
This resonates with me. I actually had an imposter syndrome and got so pressured with my talents. Social media has been overwhelming for me. I stopped posting and would usually deactivate my socials. I'm sort of a hermit nowadays. Cant share everything in writing. Thanks for this video.
I really needed to hear this. Thank you very much for this video❤
I have been going through all of these points over the past year. Thank you so much for putting my thoughts out there in this video and many other videos. I appreciate you :)
This is a great lesson. You pay attention to people.
Thanks!
Isn't it kind of our business if we have to work with those people?
I've been uncomfortable for some time. I understand what it is. Trying to be the change I want to see has brought on a lot of resistance over several years.
Merry Christmas ❤
Thank you Wenzes.
It's interesting everything she says in her videos I practice because I'm an INFJ. For me, the value that these videos have is the realization that I am much more than I could ever learn. To be or not to be. It's either an INFJ or not. There is no way to learn to be an INFJ because of the gifts that cannot be learned. A second value is learning. Much more in the sense of improving than learning. We perfect who we are with Wenzes. Thanks for the videos.
Poetry and a you tube chanel💖👌🎉thank you
Beautiful words!
I would like to know how Wenzes deals with life's variables. How to act when everything seems to have gotten out of control. I would like to know how she thinks when we arrive at a place in life that we could only imagine being.
Another video of high resonance, I learned
My therapist also emphasizes sitting with uncomfortable feelings until they pass.
To lead is my aim
thank you very much. i download the poster and its useful! i already made all..but work not done evidently. relations is not ready for sure, invasive tought was here often. little by little but i am on good path even i have premenopause in gift! hahaha anyway take care of self is in the all cycle of life, exercise, eat well, sleep well, set boundaries and be proud of, no age for that! big hug
How can you know me so well when we've never met! I retired in June and so I am deep in hermit mode. Now I have to learn how to at last be myself. It's very frightening.
In all fairness I find ppl don’t care about my ideas so I end up playing devil’s advocate. Now I just don’t at all
IF you make your product perfect then the only thing standing in the way of your success is your lack of knowledge in how to market said product. So get on that. [This is for the advanced infjs]
The none accomplish yet INFJ must in their time planing line; need to improvise.
It is in this way they will became, the best INFJ they are, born to be.
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Have you considered increasing the length of your videos? I love listening to 1hr + video on one subject that has a lot of detail. You have to consider your audience, is it INFJs, I have heard they like long videos, I am not sure about that, but I do. I want to hear you go into a little more depth and be uncomfortable and give some examples about your life. You do not need to be perfect when talking about this subject. , don't keep yourself to yourself. I have not listed to your other videos yet, so maybe you do all of this. Also, have you considered that your audience is only 2% of the world? the other percent of the world does short videos btw. Anyways you mentioned giving your gifts to others, I would like to know why this is important as much of what I have to offer someone might take a glance at it, enjoy it for a second, and go on to the next thing. I do have a drive for enlightenment, but to be productive in society may not necessarily bring about enlightenment. Anyways my point here is that you mentioned both gifts to help others and enlightment for self, but you did not go into depth, but you could.What are your reflections about the topic? I bet there is endless stuff that could be discussed with this topic.
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