Congrats on child #3. Great analysis as always. The ignorance of that woman is staggering. She does not understand what marriage is. The vows you take before God and man states: in sickness and health, for richer or poorer, till DEATH do us part. Those vows sound far from prostitution to me.
Thank you and exactly! She is referring to all marriages. Could “modern marriage” be characterized as such? Sure. But proper marriage between a man and woman who care for each other and have pure morals… absolutely not.
I totally agree / people who don’t highly regard the Will of God will do their earnest to bring down principles and values- like should the takeaway from her comment be “aw yeah Im convinced- might as well become a prostitute”
That woman is kinda right. A marriage is transactional. A man will help you mostly if he finds you attractive. Once he doesnt want you sexually he starts cheating on you. He will keep you as servant, cook or nanny bcuz you bring this benefits. Everything is about give & take.
Lol that’s what I think too.. But I really don’t argue with humans anymore. Let her reach 50 and let her come back and tell us if the husband is WONDERFUL, CARING … Let them lose a job, money and see if all the happiness is still there. Personally I learned from grandmas, aunties, cousins and I quietly also watched the male relatives. How they ran after YOUNGER women behind their wife’s BACKS! Then I watched the women relatives and had genuine conversations with them. If I meet a good hardworking man THEN and only then will I put time on the endeavor. Otherwise life in this world is too FINITE to make bagging a man the SOLE purpose of my existence. Also bear in mind MOST men like LIGHTSKINNED, YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN that they can brainwash & manipulate. Watch all the videos of musicians, rappers etc. If you don’t fit in this category they will WIFE you if you have a good career, some money etc. Sometimes you may have these things and you still will be left out here all alone - haven’t we learned from just Pearly things 😂??
if she has tatoos anywhere on her abdomen, chest, neck, or face, fellas DO NOT PUT NO CHILDREN IN THAT RECEPTICAL. That should be considered child abuse if you choose to do so.
@@RidingInCarsWithMen you are obviously a lil slow. what does attraction have to do with putting children into a 304??? I never said anything about attraction, i just gave solid advice on telling men to STOP putting babies in unrighteous woman. Yall comment anything on posts that yall don't understand🤣🤣🤣
She was speaking hyena, of course happily married women would be offended comparing tricking to marriage. Marriage had benefits including tax deductions, sex work benefits is money that fluctuates that she can make $1000’s of dollars to few $100’s of dollars. OnlyFool and Instagram models are struggling and some cases are broke. Some even committed suicide cause they really wanted a husband like you and others. They don’t understand that if you want a husband, you have to want to be a wife. This hyena in the video is going to be a booty call, alone with plants and pets, sugar mama for a younger man at best. The sisterhood of struggle is already turning on each other or some of them left sisterhood cause they are tired of not having a good man. More women like you need to speak out against this nonsense. Cause men these days can’t know the difference between the lionesses from the hyenas cause they won’t separate themselves from them.
😅 I mean metaphorically she's not totally wrong... There are many women that have and will leave their husband when the finance stops, the same way there are many sex workers/women who won't give up sex if the money isn't available ...lol
@@lovelygal8145 🙂 I mean a prostitute could be a wife (to some) while a wife could be prostituting herself (to others)... Almost like half empty or Half Full... Depending on The situation and who's viewing it... By definition a wife is a female that is married ... But the word marriage has many contexts to it. So there are many ways two people could actually be considered married... so honestly it's all subjective...lol
Slumflower Hour is a vibe tho. And the only vibe I'm getting here is pick me mean girl energy. It's okay to disagree on principles. But she will be the first to tell you she DOESNT WANT TO BE A WIFE. Not everyone has to want the same things. Let's no be jumping down everyone's throats for a difference in opinions 😐
A vibe? Can you give me three reasons as to why? “Pick me” 🤣 I am picked, love💍💍💍 She doesn’t want to be a wife, that is fine but to characterize something sacred as sex work is disrespectful. Marriage and sex work are two different things, apples and shoes, and this what I explained in my commentary. Thanks for watching 😉
@@BELLARINGS it is work bcuz men expect this whenever they like it and the majority don't put the effort to prepare the woman for this. They react negatively when rejected and act entitled to wife's body.
Nevermind, who are the men you’re speaking of? My husband’s body belongs to me too. My husband doesn’t always expect sex and I deny his passes. Nothing is 100% on both sides. I am not saying those types of men don’t exist but I think you’re making an inaccurate generalization.
@@BELLARINGS I'm not generalizing anything but it's reality that shows low quality men are about 70% and too many are entitled to sex from first date. The last generations of men around 30-40 years old are man babies with mommy issues. It's all I hear and see online or around me. If you're lucky to have a good man ...good for you but don't ignore the muddy dating pool.
Just because a woman is married doesn't mean she wife material. Nowadays being a wife is kinda sad. A mistress gets more affection & gifts from your husbands than you ever have. Men are not worth the trouble.
I have seen men be in debt with their wife but pay their mistress bills so you ain’t lying !! Wife is a fancy title for a slave. Marriage was never created for “romance” it was created for a trade off between farther and men. Women need to stop being delusional. Married men are always single once they leave the house as if they’re embarrassed to be married, they know they have a slave at home so they’re outside looking for something new always. The hunting never stops
@@djaeger-k5m id say people cheat about the same amount. For women it’s usually in retaliation or she was just loose anyway. For men, it’s consider normal & expected to happen
@@RidingInCarsWithMen nobody considers it’s normal for men… only women may be conditioned to consider that… men cheat when their women aren’t putting out and try to act like putting out is a chore….
@@djaeger-k5m Speak for yourself. I never cheated till now. Cheaters are usually very unhappy with themselves with low self esteem. They cheat for validation.
Congrats on child #3. Great analysis as always. The ignorance of that woman is staggering. She does not understand what marriage is. The vows you take before God and man states: in sickness and health, for richer or poorer, till DEATH do us part. Those vows sound far from prostitution to me.
Thank you and exactly! She is referring to all marriages. Could “modern marriage” be characterized as such? Sure. But proper marriage between a man and woman who care for each other and have pure morals… absolutely not.
I totally agree / people who don’t highly regard the Will of God will do their earnest to bring down principles and values- like should the takeaway from her comment be “aw yeah Im convinced- might as well become a prostitute”
That woman is kinda right. A marriage is transactional. A man will help you mostly if he finds you attractive. Once he doesnt want you sexually he starts cheating on you. He will keep you as servant, cook or nanny bcuz you bring this benefits. Everything is about give & take.
Lol that’s what I think too.. But I really don’t argue with humans anymore. Let her reach 50 and let her come back and tell us if the husband is WONDERFUL, CARING … Let them lose a job, money and see if all the happiness is still there.
Personally I learned from grandmas, aunties, cousins and I quietly also watched the male relatives. How they ran after YOUNGER women behind their wife’s BACKS!
Then I watched the women relatives and had genuine conversations with them. If I meet a good hardworking man THEN and only then will I put time on the endeavor. Otherwise life in this world is too FINITE to make bagging a man the SOLE purpose of my existence.
Also bear in mind MOST men like LIGHTSKINNED, YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN that they can brainwash & manipulate. Watch all the videos of musicians, rappers etc. If you don’t fit in this category they will WIFE you if you have a good career, some money etc. Sometimes you may have these things and you still will be left out here all alone - haven’t we learned from just Pearly things 😂??
Exactly !! The content creator is delulu… she hasn’t studied men
It's like you've never seen an old married couple
@@radhiadeedou8286 The women are mostly trapped or unhappy in long marriages..
@@nevermind7241They aren’t
Because the you simply have no idea about marriages.
Men don’t leave marriages as often so quit the babbling
if she has tatoos anywhere on her abdomen, chest, neck, or face, fellas DO NOT PUT NO CHILDREN IN THAT RECEPTICAL. That should be considered child abuse if you choose to do so.
Y’all comment anything onto the internet just say you not attracted. It’s not hard🤣
@@RidingInCarsWithMen you are obviously a lil slow. what does attraction have to do with putting children into a 304??? I never said anything about attraction, i just gave solid advice on telling men to STOP putting babies in unrighteous woman. Yall comment anything on posts that yall don't understand🤣🤣🤣
Tell em' Bella..it is so refreshing to see young, black, feminie wives again..congrats on your new bundle of joy!.. ❤
Thanks for watching!✨
How does one equate marriage to sex work?
Conflating the role of a (good) wife and sex worker is nasty work.
The inhale and exhale 🤣
You are so fire!
She was speaking hyena, of course happily married women would be offended comparing tricking to marriage. Marriage had benefits including tax deductions, sex work benefits is money that fluctuates that she can make $1000’s of dollars to few $100’s of dollars. OnlyFool and Instagram models are struggling and some cases are broke. Some even committed suicide cause they really wanted a husband like you and others. They don’t understand that if you want a husband, you have to want to be a wife. This hyena in the video is going to be a booty call, alone with plants and pets, sugar mama for a younger man at best. The sisterhood of struggle is already turning on each other or some of them left sisterhood cause they are tired of not having a good man. More women like you need to speak out against this nonsense. Cause men these days can’t know the difference between the lionesses from the hyenas cause they won’t separate themselves from them.
Bella great breakdown.
😅 I mean metaphorically she's not totally wrong... There are many women that have and will leave their husband when the finance stops, the same way there are many sex workers/women who won't give up sex if the money isn't available ...lol
So does that “metaphorically” make a prostitute a wife?
@@lovelygal8145 🙂 I mean a prostitute could be a wife (to some) while a wife could be prostituting herself (to others)... Almost like half empty or Half Full... Depending on The situation and who's viewing it...
By definition a wife is a female that is married ... But the word marriage has many contexts to it. So there are many ways two people could actually be considered married... so honestly it's all subjective...lol
Grand Rising BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE
Slumflower Hour is a vibe tho. And the only vibe I'm getting here is pick me mean girl energy. It's okay to disagree on principles. But she will be the first to tell you she DOESNT WANT TO BE A WIFE. Not everyone has to want the same things. Let's no be jumping down everyone's throats for a difference in opinions 😐
A vibe? Can you give me three reasons as to why?
“Pick me” 🤣 I am picked, love💍💍💍 She doesn’t want to be a wife, that is fine but to characterize something sacred as sex work is disrespectful. Marriage and sex work are two different things, apples and shoes, and this what I explained in my commentary. Thanks for watching 😉
@@BELLARINGS it is work bcuz men expect this whenever they like it and the majority don't put the effort to prepare the woman for this. They react negatively when rejected and act entitled to wife's body.
@@GoddessOfLoveEnergy333 She is not a pick me. You got triggered bcuz she's living her Life better than other women.
Nevermind, who are the men you’re speaking of? My husband’s body belongs to me too. My husband doesn’t always expect sex and I deny his passes. Nothing is 100% on both sides. I am not saying those types of men don’t exist but I think you’re making an inaccurate generalization.
@@BELLARINGS I'm not generalizing anything but it's reality that shows low quality men are about 70% and too many are entitled to sex from first date. The last generations of men around 30-40 years old are man babies with mommy issues. It's all I hear and see online or around me. If you're lucky to have a good man ...good for you but don't ignore the muddy dating pool.
Just because a woman is married doesn't mean she wife material. Nowadays being a wife is kinda sad. A mistress gets more affection & gifts from your husbands than you ever have. Men are not worth the trouble.
I have seen men be in debt with their wife but pay their mistress bills so you ain’t lying !! Wife is a fancy title for a slave. Marriage was never created for “romance” it was created for a trade off between farther and men. Women need to stop being delusional.
Married men are always single once they leave the house as if they’re embarrassed to be married, they know they have a slave at home so they’re outside looking for something new always. The hunting never stops
Oh please stop with ur misandry… women cheat more than men ffs
@@djaeger-k5m id say people cheat about the same amount. For women it’s usually in retaliation or she was just loose anyway. For men, it’s consider normal & expected to happen
@@RidingInCarsWithMen nobody considers it’s normal for men… only women may be conditioned to consider that… men cheat when their women aren’t putting out and try to act like putting out is a chore….
@@djaeger-k5m Speak for yourself. I never cheated till now. Cheaters are usually very unhappy with themselves with low self esteem. They cheat for validation.