Sister Pam, I'm grateful to The LORD for ALL that HE is doing in your life. You are a blessed and talented woman. Continue being a light and walking lockstep with CHRIST.
I think She’s trying her best to work through her emotions to express herself…..want to encourage her to stay positive and keep the music love in her heart 🙏🏾🎧
If you can lie about someone on such a big platform then retract in a clear manner to absolve them - this is so vague. This apology just seems like it was done for formality's sake cause people been bringing up her lying.
I like Pam. She was and still is my favorite in Total 😎. But fandom aside, while this “confession” is a first step in the right direction, she didn’t specify (here anyway) what the lie was. So this is partially rectifying. Atonement (as Christians should well know) includes making one whole after damages as much as they can be. Unless she specified the lies elsewhere, this confession is more for her conscience than it is about restoring those damaged by her lies. She did admit she lied on her ex husband regarding abuse. Gotta do the same thing here or elsewhere if it is “another confession”. That is how you take back what was written, albeit not literally off the pages.
❤❤❤ she's right we all go through that testimony when he's trying to help you reveal the things you have done to hurt others and not just think about the things people did to you to hurt you and honey I went through that 2016 and 17 he will expose you for you to clean your life up and help others around you because it's no reason to lie when the truth reveals everything your lies will always come out so why not just tell the truth it's who you want to be it is who you are🎉🎉
At the end of the day we have all done something wrong rather it be intentional or accidental. If you come to your senses and come out of that life of wrong, that means not only are you growing mentally but you are realizing you are a child of God and was distracted. I give her much flowers for confessing
Hey Nnamdi. I know a lot of people are confused about what she may be talking about, but I just ran across something last week that may shed some clarity on her confession. Apparently, one of the things that she confessed about was the accusation that she made in 2019 about her ex-husband Jamie Long of the group Pretty Ricky. She admitted to lying about him forcing himself on her, as well as, other women in a recorded video. I don't know what else she may have lied about, but this is just one thing.
Sadly, the people who "don't know" how to search for answers online and READ won't ever find this easily accessible comment and will, therefore, remain in the dark about it. 😂
@@jdfodio Yeah, I feel you. The crazy thing is that I wasn't even looking for it. I ran across it by looking for a live performance with Biggie that I remember Total not getting a good reception for. 😉
What is she even talking about I just hear a lotta words that don't make sense to me if I don't know what or who she's talking about... I honestly think the church has shamed her for being who she truly is and she looks miserable and unhappy because of it which explains why she was lashing out on the show
As the saying goes, honesty is the best policy...But what is the so called lie? Could this be a ploy for those whom haven't yet read the book to now go out and purchase it? I thought confessing meant telling people about the subject so that they could get the whole picture...Just saying,!
I like Pam and she is talented, but her credibility is low. And people may not want to work with her on projects because she keeps being untruthful. Also, Pam was correct when she apologized to the people who purchased her book. The untruths could cause problems with the company who published her book and also with Amazon, who is one of the sites who sells the book. In the long-run, she is only hurting herself. Unfortunately, she will be like the Boy who Cried Wolf. Her credibility and career is on the line.
I actually read her book and I don’t think she lied about anything. Love her as an artist and creative, but she’s still lost as a woman. This is weird.
@@christopherlewis2194 She was muscled and FORCED into retracting and recanting her statement. Your “sisterhood” conspiracy holds no weight, just like this “apology”.
Palema ur a juwel of God Jesus Christ dont shy away stand with Him ❤ His our secret Pavilion and our strong hold LOVE u sis what a Mighty God we serve amen.
There are many critics in these comments. But at 51 yo, i have YET to see ANYBODY apologize on such a large platform. Just in my own life, there are people who claim to be such huge believers but have committed trifling and devastating offenses - and won't acknowledge, much less apologize to save their lives. This had to be VERY hard for her. But see, the lie was told on a public platform so she had to rectify the same way. (I have to be honest and say that I really don't believe she lied and something else is going on, but that's my opinion.) But if she did actually lie and went on record to tell the truth like this, i promise you, she has more integrity than most.
Are you apologizing for the rape allegations? I hope so because that man didn’t seem like the type. Especially how he loves his new wife! Good work for coming clean!
I like 702 i still rock to trippin im 43 so what ever she did or said is the past everyone has done something bad . at least she is honest and apologized to whoever it was. i have respect for this beautiful queen keep ur head up. Pam move on and keep on keeping on
Diddy is involved in this,she’s probably talking about excerpts in the book pertaining to him. I was kinda holding out my verdict on homie but now it’s getting bleak
I didn’t even know Pamela had a book out or had this stuff going on. I just remember her from the 90s, being super-dope as the lead singer of Total. 1. If this confession was coerced, then Pamela should go to the police. 2. If she’s “fake confessing”, or in other words, lying just to get people to read her book then she is disgraceful. 3. If this confession is true then why wouldn’t she say what she specifically lied about in the book? If it is true, Pamela do you know how much MORE I would’ve respected & honored you if you aired exactly what you lied about in your book? When I first saw this video I had no idea that was Pamela Long. She looks NOTHING LIKE the way she used to look when she sang with Total.
She’s apologizing for at least one or more untruths (lies) but what she should do is ask the publisher to Recall this book by taking all out of circulation, issuing full cash refunds to anyone that desires to return her book with false information… the book can still be salvaged by removal false print and replacement in writing any corrected details, then re-issue as a revised manuscript for publishing.. otherwise you have a non-fiction bio of really fictionally written book of lies. You can’t rewrite history, but we can tell the truth and saying I apologize is big part of it but for what reason !? It does not fix the untruths, but first things done would be to take that book 📚 OUT of circulation, actions have always spoken louder than words. Much ❤️ to Pam, she is only human and as she finds her way, Best wishes. ☮️🙏🏽
I appreciate anyone who can come clean and be honest. She’s human and she took accountability. And guess who forgives her if you all don’t? God! We’re all flawed, no one is perfect. God bless you Pam. I’m a forever fan.
It’s not our business to what the lie is, but we do know that Pamala Long repented for her sin before God, and others like myself by asking for forgiveness, and by showing humility. That’s the message here 😎
Ok, so you are telling the truth before anyone else. Why would you lie in a book? Apologize but never say what for. She said she lied in a book. So that lie was loud. That apology needs to be just as clear and loud as you did in that book. Hopefully it wasnt toward anyone and they sue
Diddy is involved in this,she’s probably talking about excerpts in the book pertaining to him. I was kinda holding out my verdict on homie but now it’s getting bleak
Much respect Ms. Pam. None of us are perfect. A lot of us understand and get it. Sending positive hugs and energy.
Awwww Pammy! Her conscious got to her. At least she still has one 😊
I have nothing but respect for her. It takes a lot courage to admit when you're wrong.
Sister Pam, I'm grateful to The LORD for ALL that HE is doing in your life. You are a blessed and talented woman. Continue being a light and walking lockstep with CHRIST.
I think She’s trying her best to work through her emotions to express herself…..want to encourage her to stay positive and keep the music love in her heart 🙏🏾🎧
Respect for coming clean
I can respect it! Good for you Pam.
If you can lie about someone on such a big platform then retract in a clear manner to absolve them - this is so vague. This apology just seems like it was done for formality's sake cause people been bringing up her lying.
Exactly
She been threatened to say this so she sayin she lied because the powers that be threatend her life
That part
I'm curious what she is apologizing for lying about. She wasn't specific at all.
That's true. She's said it's something written in her book. It opens up more questions than answers 😓
Somebody told her to retract that believe that
In previous interviews, she admitted that she lied about her ex husband sexually abusing her.
Maybe she didn't want to open old wounds.
She said her husband raped her but she's a big fat liar smh
I like Pam. She was and still is my favorite in Total 😎. But fandom aside, while this “confession” is a first step in the right direction, she didn’t specify (here anyway) what the lie was. So this is partially rectifying. Atonement (as Christians should well know) includes making one whole after damages as much as they can be. Unless she specified the lies elsewhere, this confession is more for her conscience than it is about restoring those damaged by her lies. She did admit she lied on her ex husband regarding abuse. Gotta do the same thing here or elsewhere if it is “another confession”. That is how you take back what was written, albeit not literally off the pages.
She came off so robotic. I don’t know what’s going on, but that was painful to watch.
She looks nervous.
I believe she is reading from her notes
Much Respect
Hi Pam....my fav girl from Total...🇿🇦 Hope you are good
It takes a strong person to allow theirselves to say "I apologize", and most people do not have that today unfortunately.
Thank U for being Honest 💯 🇺🇲 👏
Id love to know which parts, that would help. Helps not question the whole book.
Seems like entertainers are repenting and exposing more of the industry these days🤔
I feel like she “Has” to say it was all lies to save her life
Bless u Pam, Love u girl.....
❤❤❤ she's right we all go through that testimony when he's trying to help you reveal the things you have done to hurt others and not just think about the things people did to you to hurt you and honey I went through that 2016 and 17 he will expose you for you to clean your life up and help others around you because it's no reason to lie when the truth reveals everything your lies will always come out so why not just tell the truth it's who you want to be it is who you are🎉🎉
I have always loved her voice..very unique
Much respect Pam👍👍👍
Jesus be exalted through you Pam good job!
Much respect
She was so smooth i love pam..
How can i book TOTAL for a show in Indianapolis
At the end of the day we have all done something wrong rather it be intentional or accidental. If you come to your senses and come out of that life of wrong, that means not only are you growing mentally but you are realizing you are a child of God and was distracted. I give her much flowers for confessing
love you 😍 can't wait to read your book always loved your fashion...nobody's perfect ❤️
Like you said in your song Trippin
She’s not saying anything… lol. What confession?
Can consumers get their money back for false advertising?
Not often one hears so stark a confession in public life; didn't even use euphemisms.
I just hope this sista is ok.
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Hey Nnamdi. I know a lot of people are confused about what she may be talking about, but I just ran across something last week that may shed some clarity on her confession. Apparently, one of the things that she confessed about was the accusation that she made in 2019 about her ex-husband Jamie Long of the group Pretty Ricky. She admitted to lying about him forcing himself on her, as well as, other women in a recorded video. I don't know what else she may have lied about, but this is just one thing.
Sadly, the people who "don't know" how to search for answers online and READ won't ever find this easily accessible comment and will, therefore, remain in the dark about it. 😂
@@jdfodio Yeah, I feel you. The crazy thing is that I wasn't even looking for it. I ran across it by looking for a live performance with Biggie that I remember Total not getting a good reception for. 😉
What is she even talking about I just hear a lotta words that don't make sense to me if I don't know what or who she's talking about... I honestly think the church has shamed her for being who she truly is and she looks miserable and unhappy because of it which explains why she was lashing out on the show
As the saying goes, honesty is the best policy...But what is the so called lie? Could this be a ploy for those whom haven't yet read the book to now go out and purchase it? I thought confessing meant telling people about the subject so that they could get the whole picture...Just saying,!
My thoughts as well.
She already told it. Google is a non-lazy person's friend.
@@jdfodio 😂
God bless you!!!!!🙏
Not sure if the Universe can make it right without the specifics🤔
"The universe" is the creation, not The Creator.
@@jdfodio It's a shame that you don't know Mama Universe, time to wake up possibly...
@@jdfodio Amen. All Power and Glory belongs to God🙌❤️
ACCOUNTABILITY IS WHAT GOD WANTS US ALL TO DO
What were the lies? I have seen a video where she apologized for lying about her ex husband assaulting her.
But what are the lies told in the book?
I hope she becomes more front right with her confession
My question exactly maybe the whole book was a lie 👀
I like Pam and she is talented, but her credibility is low. And people may not want to work with her on projects because she keeps being untruthful.
Also, Pam was correct when she apologized to the people who purchased her book. The untruths could cause problems with the company who published her book and also with Amazon, who is one of the sites who sells the book. In the long-run, she is only hurting herself. Unfortunately, she will be like the Boy who Cried Wolf. Her credibility and career is on the line.
I actually read her book and I don’t think she lied about anything. Love her as an artist and creative, but she’s still lost as a woman. This is weird.
That's their sisterhood B.S. she admitted to lie you still don't want to believe it SMFH
@@christopherlewis2194 😆
@@christopherlewis2194 She was muscled and FORCED into retracting and recanting her statement. Your “sisterhood” conspiracy holds no weight, just like this “apology”.
Since you read 📚 her book, what do you believe she may have lied about??
@@Nina513 Why speak as u know for sure
Palema ur a juwel of God Jesus Christ dont shy away stand with Him ❤ His our secret Pavilion and our strong hold LOVE u sis what a Mighty God we serve amen.
God delivers and sets free.
God forgives everyone
Repentance and turning to Jesus is the answer.
It’s called living in truth and being guilty free
Not really, what did she lie about?
CONVICTION😢 AND SHAME😢 LIFES TWO BEST TEACHERS
What exactly did she lie about in her book?
I wish she was more specific about what she's apologize for
Can you make another book?
Great now wait be patient and watch God move you to heights beyond belief 🙏 🙌 💪
There are many critics in these comments. But at 51 yo, i have YET to see ANYBODY apologize on such a large platform. Just in my own life, there are people who claim to be such huge believers but have committed trifling and devastating offenses - and won't acknowledge, much less apologize to save their lives. This had to be VERY hard for her. But see, the lie was told on a public platform so she had to rectify the same way. (I have to be honest and say that I really don't believe she lied and something else is going on, but that's my opinion.) But if she did actually lie and went on record to tell the truth like this, i promise you, she has more integrity than most.
Are you apologizing for the rape allegations? I hope so because that man didn’t seem like the type. Especially how he loves his new wife! Good work for coming clean!
Maybe she didn't do anything to anyone ,maybe the hurt she did was to herself and she was feeding herself in finally being able to ,speak her truth ..
How can she stand herself smh poor hubby lied on by a closet lesbian smh
What she lied about?
It’s all good I’m glad you are regretful!!
I like 702 i still rock to trippin im 43 so what ever she did or said is the past everyone has done something bad . at least she is honest and apologized to whoever it was. i have respect for this beautiful queen keep ur head up. Pam move on and keep on keeping on
She was with TOTAL. I liked 702 as well.
Still lookin good Pam ❤
She still seems very trapped in whatever she’s struggling with. So much so that she’s not able to say what the lie was
'Pieces'...Not whole....Much love on your journey
She's so beautiful!! 💋💋💋💋
We are ALL, created in HIS, image. He never has/is/will, forsake you. Correct us? Indeed. Forsake us? Never....
Sooooo we just confessing but not touching on what IT is we're actually confessing. I felt like I was running in circles listening to this🙄
Is she talking about being with women ?
Diddy is involved in this,she’s probably talking about excerpts in the book pertaining to him.
I was kinda holding out my verdict on homie but now it’s getting bleak
She’s not admitting to what she lied about because she still wants that book to be promoted so you have to buy it it’s all about business still
No respect
Love u
we forgive you diva
I didn’t even know Pamela had a book out or had this stuff going on. I just remember her from the 90s, being super-dope as the lead singer of Total.
1. If this confession was coerced, then Pamela should go to the police.
2. If she’s “fake confessing”, or in other words, lying just to get people to read her book then she is disgraceful.
3. If this confession is true then why wouldn’t she say what she specifically lied about in the book? If it is true, Pamela do you know how much MORE I would’ve respected & honored you if you aired exactly what you lied about in your book?
When I first saw this video I had no idea that was Pamela Long. She looks NOTHING LIKE the way she used to look when she sang with Total.
She’s apologizing for at least one or more untruths (lies) but what she should do is ask the publisher to Recall this book by taking all out of circulation, issuing full cash refunds to anyone that desires to return her book with false information… the book can still be salvaged by removal false print and replacement in writing any corrected details, then re-issue as a revised manuscript for publishing.. otherwise you have a non-fiction bio of really fictionally written book of lies. You can’t rewrite history, but we can tell the truth and saying I apologize is big part of it but for what reason !? It does not fix the untruths, but first things done would be to take that book 📚 OUT of circulation, actions have always spoken louder than words. Much ❤️ to Pam, she is only human and as she finds her way, Best wishes. ☮️🙏🏽
I appreciate anyone who can come clean and be honest. She’s human and she took accountability. And guess who forgives her if you all don’t? God! We’re all flawed, no one is perfect. God bless you Pam. I’m a forever fan.
What did she lie about?. If this is a good cleanse, good for u.👍🏾
Yeah… lies have a pesky way of interrupting blessings. We’ve all lied. I know I have.
Something is wrong with this lady 😂
It’s not our business to what the lie is, but we do know that Pamala Long repented for her sin before God, and others like myself by asking for forgiveness, and by showing humility. That’s the message here 😎
Ok, so you are telling the truth before anyone else. Why would you lie in a book? Apologize but never say what for. She said she lied in a book. So that lie was loud. That apology needs to be just as clear and loud as you did in that book. Hopefully it wasnt toward anyone and they sue
Smdh they done made her stfu damn
Your not a Christian. Don't steal anything from people who belive in god. I think alum is not done with his prayer yet
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Diddy is involved in this,she’s probably talking about excerpts in the book pertaining to him.
I was kinda holding out my verdict on homie but now it’s getting bleak