My Unfinished Quilt Taught Me Something Unexpected About Perfectionism

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  • Опубликовано: 16 янв 2025

Комментарии • 68

  • @margaretmonroe1604
    @margaretmonroe1604 9 часов назад

    So pretty and cheerful. It will be loved because you made it. As long as I’ve been quilting I keep learning from my quilts. Life is tied into them, grief is part of life and I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @margaretmlydon6910
    @margaretmlydon6910 4 часа назад

    Love your quilt top. Colour arrangements are beautiful. I too find sewing to be therapeutic. ❤👏 👏

  • @dianajones8837
    @dianajones8837 3 часа назад

    What an absolutely wonderful quilt. You have put the colours and blocks together beautifully. Very well done, especially for a first quilt and while coping with your grief at the same time. Keep going. Diana (UK) xxx

  • @pamlacey136
    @pamlacey136 16 часов назад

    Great job!! The issues that we face when quilting are just part of our journey to learn and be a better quilter. You will think of all these things the next time you make a quilt. The quilt is looking so pretty.

  • @PiNkSpRinkLe1
    @PiNkSpRinkLe1 2 дня назад +8

    Gorgeous. When I decided ,"Finished is better than perfect", I started making and FINISHING quilts right and left. Just do it.

  • @betsyofarrell6134
    @betsyofarrell6134 19 часов назад

    Stunning quilt. Keep moving forward. 🌸

  • @SewSoUnique
    @SewSoUnique День назад

    Love it. Quilt around and find out!!!! Love that line!!!!!

  • @stitchann
    @stitchann День назад +2

    Looks prefect to me. The baby and Mom will love it. Remember Done is better than perfect.

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      Thank you! You are so right, done is better than perfect and a lot warmer too ;) ❤

  • @lindanonnenmann1112
    @lindanonnenmann1112 День назад +1

    Little baby wont even notice if the points are sharp and exact...she will just be cozy and warm under your "blanket of love". The colors are so cheerful and bright. What a wonderful project to guide you along in your grieving process. ❤

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      You're absolutely right! It’s all about the love that goes into the project, not just the perfect points. Thank you for your kind words!

  • @carybradley3968
    @carybradley3968 5 часов назад

    I just stumbled on your story and I am so glad I have. I’m about to put my first block quilt together and am hesitating too, worried lines won’t perfectly match up. You saying answer isn’t in watching screen, but in using my sewing machine spurred me to just do it! Nobody cuddles with perfection, haha! Very sorry for your grief, and glad you are working thru it, and growing this quilt and documentation to help this quilter (and probably many others) flourish! Many, many thanks to you and your grandmother who planted these seeds within you!!! :)

  • @Dranma51
    @Dranma51 День назад +1

    It’s beautiful! In the world of quilters we know that God says nothing is perfect. For your first quilt it’s fantastic!

  • @ninapelirroja
    @ninapelirroja День назад

    I am happy to see that you are doing better

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      ✨💛 Gotta love a little chaos haha, but more chaos in compositions and less in life please 😅 Thank you for watching and the support 💥

  • @hazelem1266
    @hazelem1266 19 часов назад

    I started sewing in 2020 and, as a nurse it really grounded me. I decided to make 4 story/ photo quilts of irregular blocks for my granddaughter and 3 children, all totally hand pieced and quilted. I took two years with the first and 20 months for the second and I took them to different countries to deliver them. I am now busy 4 months with my third quilt. At 68 I’m grateful for my health and hope it lasts so that after this one, I can finish the last one for my daughter, to whom I would also like to deliver in South Africa. After that I will make a quilt for myself and, if there are any more grandchildren, see how I go.

  • @JoLeneTunison
    @JoLeneTunison День назад

    No I love it just the way it is. Great job Beautiful

  • @sharondauz880
    @sharondauz880 День назад +1

    Beautiful! I love the fabrics you chose.

  • @livingandcraftingwithms-Alex-
    @livingandcraftingwithms-Alex- День назад +1

    its sew cute not everything has to be perfect to be loved baby will love it and thats what maters and Also I want to say I am sorry for your loss and I hope you keep quilting you did a great job

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      Thank you for your kind words! You're absolutely right 💜. I will definitely make another quilt I loved working on it.

  • @treyshields7848
    @treyshields7848 День назад

    Absolutely stunt you did a fantastic job the color the layout, the ironing. You should be extremely proud of yourself. I am sorry that it was a grieving process that started this journey, but that was a wonderful way to honor your grandmother.

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      Thank you for the lovely comment. I think my grandma would have loved it too 💜

  • @markw6609
    @markw6609 День назад

    Yes, beautiful!

  • @venite_makes_things
    @venite_makes_things День назад

    Niet alleen gewoon heel mooi, ook een heerlijk rustgevende video, dank je!

  • @sheilawilliams2875
    @sheilawilliams2875 23 часа назад

    It's beautiful. You did a great job.

  • @wendyallisonbarnes1187
    @wendyallisonbarnes1187 День назад

    Absolutely gorgeous!

  • @louisesuffolk
    @louisesuffolk День назад

    Beautiful design and colours

  • @AvivaHadas
    @AvivaHadas День назад

    Its early in the video for a comment, but I am impressed with your blocks, I wouldn't worry about direction (If one is off its noticeable, if they are all random, not so much) & your value distribution is great. I love the little imperfections, they show the hand of the maker...

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      "If one is off its noticeable, if they are all random, not so much" Good point! I think that is something to look out for. Thank you! The little imperfection turned out to be the secret ingredient 😊

  • @yvonnegregory6728
    @yvonnegregory6728 День назад

    Beautiful!

  • @alexwalksinnature
    @alexwalksinnature День назад

    Really beautiful 😍! I love that you did not turn the blocks. Now the quilt will not have an up and a down side if you understand what I mean 😊. You can use it in every direction without looking “wrong”.

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад +1

      You are so right! I'm glad I went with this look too. Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment ❤

  • @knittynancy
    @knittynancy 3 дня назад

    You are doing a wonderful job of "finding out"! The top is lovely, and when it is quilted, will make a wonderful quilt for snuggling or making a blanket fort.

  • @fernie5128
    @fernie5128 2 дня назад

    I am so sorry for your grief and happy that you found one way to "deal" with it.
    One of the kiddos in my family remarked that she liked that the images were not all aligned as it allowed her, when the quilt was over her, to look down and see "right side up" images and that it made the quilt more fun for her. So there we are - out of the mouths of babes. Your quilt top is beautiful.

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      That is such a sweet story 💜 I love how children look at the world, it's often so much kinder and more creative. Thank you for sharing!

  • @elizabethamis9376
    @elizabethamis9376 2 дня назад

    Your quilt top is beautiful. Thanks for sharing ❤👍from Somerset UK

  • @paulaphillips9745
    @paulaphillips9745 День назад

    I love this quilt...the colors are great❤

  • @debbi-t1z
    @debbi-t1z День назад

    Beautiful

  • @whateverislovely8654
    @whateverislovely8654 2 дня назад

    The quilt is beautiful. I did 2 quilts when I started quilting not even knowing about nesting seams or proper quilt seam allowances. I just went for it and those quilts got done and are used and that’s the point of it all.

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      Absolutely! Done is better than perfect and a lot warmer too when it comes to quilts 😅. Thank you for watching!

  • @kristamorehead-mcnutt1714
    @kristamorehead-mcnutt1714 2 дня назад

    It's absolutely gorgeous!❤

  • @christinacooperfilm
    @christinacooperfilm 3 дня назад +2

    "quilt around and find out." 🤣 What a beautiful piece, Charlotte! "I had so many questions... the answers would have to be earned by sitting behind a sewing machine and not staring at a screen." Get out of my head! lol I often find myself in a similar spot when editing - because I'm doing it alone. I have questions but no one to help guide - unless I'm on a screen. Then I get distracted or overwhelmed and freeze from the project because if I can't do it "right" should I even attempt? Funny thing though, it's something I am trying to help guide my "perfectionist" daughter through as well. If only I would take my own advice. It just gets so scary sometimes, especially if it's something I'm doing for someone else. Thank you for sharing your journey with this project. I'm exciting to see the next!

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  2 дня назад

      I mean editing is also a form of piecing, but you are piecing together a story 😆 Editing is such a solo endeavor for the most part. I really enjoy it when It gets to a point where I can ask for feedback. I have to say that doing the "Perfect Cut" with Lewis as a teacher helped so much with editing. I enjoy it way more than before. Too bad Lewis doesn't quilt because I'm sure he would nail that process too 😂. But yeah perfectionism can be so debilitating! I hope your daughter can overcome it or learn to deal with it better. How wonderful that you are helping her with that ❤

  • @coreygilles847
    @coreygilles847 3 дня назад

    It is so lovely! ❤❤❤

  • @rinskeverberg
    @rinskeverberg 2 дня назад

    Hij wordt zo mooiiiiiiii!!

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  2 дня назад

      Dank je! ZO leuk om steeds meer van de quilt te kunnen delen 😊

  • @sandywhite7914
    @sandywhite7914 2 дня назад

    I started a quilt then had a bereavement and finished it 2 years later, it’s the most badly put together quilt ever but it’s my favourite

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  День назад

      So sorry for your loss and glad to hear you also have a perfectly imperfect quilt. I often think of the mistakes as the special ingredient ❤

  • @donnaluker625
    @donnaluker625 3 дня назад +2

    It's beautiful, Charlotte. It's so bright and happy. You're figuring it out as you go and you're doing great. I noticed your pinned notes to help you keep track of block positions. I do that, too. I also use photos.
    Remember Wabi-Sabi:
    The Japanese philosophy of wabi-sabi is all about accepting the imperfect and finding beauty in the flawed.
    Wabi-sabi reminds you that nothing is permanent, that imperfections are perfect, and simplicity isn’t a bad thing. It gives you permission, if you need it, to be yourself. And that in itself feels like a victory.
    💙

    • @CharlotteKanStudio
      @CharlotteKanStudio  2 дня назад +1

      Thank you so much for your encouraging words! The little notes pinned to the stacks help a lot. Having systems to organize it all is a must. Normally, I would take so much time to figure out a system, but it was a good lesson to keep going.
      The wabi sabi philosophy is beautiful and touching 💙