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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
  • i need someone smart to tell me what the hell they just communicated in that silence because they really do speak their own language
    so so many questions.... what's really stopping sydney from telling carmy about the offer? what did carmy really want to say? why does that sauce on the plate look like the scarf sydney is wearing??
    sorry again for the mess, that's me trying to bypass copyright
    Scene is from The Bear Season 3 Episode 9.

Комментарии • 118

  • @eme.261
    @eme.261 Месяц назад +259

    Carmy: a brilliant and caring man who's so riddled with trauma that he's destroying himself and the people around him. A truly tragic character. 😢

    • @sitaro1207
      @sitaro1207 Месяц назад +5

      "Caring"

    • @joeymejia794
      @joeymejia794 Месяц назад

      @@sitaro1207Carm is an asshole, and got his problems, but he is definitely caring. You can see it, he just keeps fucking himself up and pushing people away with his self destructive behavior, but he does care about everyone.

    • @Ambereigh
      @Ambereigh 14 дней назад

      Whose he destroying?

  • @ariqsyafwan4987
    @ariqsyafwan4987 Месяц назад +207

    Anyone who supports the idea that Sydney should move to that new place with that "Ever" chef, i'm just gonna remind yall that season 3 confirms that HE was the one who always leaves the smudges on the plates and blame it one everyone else back in season 2, he's not a better alternative to Carm he is gonna be WORSE

    • @Perciprius_91
      @Perciprius_91 Месяц назад +19

      Good point

    • @aadliafiq
      @aadliafiq Месяц назад

      That loud mouth nerd will pay her better and give her medical insurance so i understand why she is considering it . Plus at lHe looks like at least already dealt with his baggage or at least capable of controlling it and we can't say the same with Carmy now

    • @BleedingHeartFlowerCrying
      @BleedingHeartFlowerCrying Месяц назад +22

      I actually don't like that guy and I really hope Sydney doesn't decide to leave Carmy and his gang of Chefs because they are her cooking family....Even though they are a very dysfunctional family, they are still a family and she is a big part of that family now!

    • @lixiehearts
      @lixiehearts 13 дней назад +1

      i was thinking that!

    • @sophitran
      @sophitran 10 дней назад +1

      Such a juicy ! Clocking ! Bravo bravo 👍🏼

  • @Keesha_Hardy
    @Keesha_Hardy Месяц назад +191

    The sauce looks like Syd's scarf

    • @eme.261
      @eme.261 Месяц назад +9

      @@Keesha_Hardy -- I noticed that, as well. If Carmy does hold repressed romantic feelings for Syd, sadly, it would be best for her to run the other way. At this stage of the story/the character's life, he's far too emotionally damaged to offer anything other than emotional trauma. Syd grew up in a loving and emotionally gentle home; she's not prepared for the sh*t storm Carmy would drop on her head.

    • @Keesha_Hardy
      @Keesha_Hardy Месяц назад +3

      ⁠@@eme.261Well, the good thing is that he has taken one big step imo by confronting his abusive ex-boss in S3E10, so hopefully he’s on the path of continued healing & growth. Neither of them are ready for one another, despite Sydney’s upbringing being an emotionally gentle one in comparison to Carmy’s. Sydney is pretty guarded due to her mom’s death (maybe?) and other things that we have yet to know, but I hope they delve into.

  • @sriharimenon7502
    @sriharimenon7502 Месяц назад +52

    Oh how did I not see this?
    The dish carm's working on *looks like Syd*

  • @callateyescucha8860
    @callateyescucha8860 Месяц назад +55

    They have something.. tht we needed to exploit

  •  Месяц назад +170

    oh my god i didnt catch the sauce part- these two are going to kill me. i think they're endgame, but carmy is so stupid he's literally throwing her and her talent away

    • @Aluc1d
      @Aluc1d Месяц назад +4

      I assumed the sauce thing was that it seems like it should be an emulsion, but it's splitting. Could be totally reading that wrong though.

    • @dvdscds9539
      @dvdscds9539 Месяц назад +11

      @@Aluc1d I can understand that. I do feel like if it was because the emulsion was broken, he wouldn’t have been staring that hard.

    • @marianag.5
      @marianag.5 Месяц назад +3

      Do they really want Sidney and Carmy to have a romantic relationship, considering all the emotional issues Carmy has? He needs to sort out many things on his own before he can be in a relationship. I'm not sure if they can make Carmy progress in just one season, especially if it's supposed to be the last.

    • @neonrays28
      @neonrays28 Месяц назад +4

      ​@marianag.5 yeap we really think so- they're at least going to end on a hopeful now.

  • @keelajones5733
    @keelajones5733 Месяц назад +89

    When ever Syd tells carm she is thinking about leaving it's going to crush him 😢😢❤

  • @Artimao
    @Artimao Месяц назад +119

    Honestly don't understand how people are hating Carmy so much. His bad choices and the way we are invited to understand the path he followed are exactly the things that make his character interesting. He is not a bad guy, he is a product of trauma

    • @othelliusmaximus
      @othelliusmaximus Месяц назад +33

      Everyone in that kitchen has trauma. He's the only one who doesn't seem to be growing with it and takes it out on other people. It's draining

    • @GoldnDusty
      @GoldnDusty Месяц назад +14

      @@othelliusmaximusShall we go down the list, one by one, and discuss how each character has a support network which caters specifically to their way of doing things, which helps them process their trauma and be their best? There were two people who didn't, Carmy and Syd. Syd had similar terrible habits to Carmen and as she connected more with other members of staff, she flourished and outstripped Carmy in her maturity. Carmen has Sugar, sure, but their conjoined damage puts a wall between them - this might change now that Nat's started to connect with their mum, but who's to say. The whole point is that he's stagnating because he thinks he's strong enough to endure it, but he isn't, because he's been trying to escape it his entire life. It's an exploration of what that damage does to people, not "Hey, look at this one guy and how badly he processes his trauma." Jesus christ.

    • @othelliusmaximus
      @othelliusmaximus Месяц назад +5

      @@GoldnDusty and none of that is anyone else's problem. Nor an excuse for taking it out on his staff.

    • @andrewstephens1176
      @andrewstephens1176 Месяц назад +10

      Understanding the reason someone acts badly doesn't mean you have to like the fact that he acts badly. You can have sympathy for him while also not liking who he is today - even if he is putting work into being a likeable person in the future?

    • @aliyahbeanmean
      @aliyahbeanmean Месяц назад +7

      And he needs to get it sorted out

  • @sci-figameguy8241
    @sci-figameguy8241 Месяц назад +106

    Interesting way to ask her out on a date

    • @Coolhandchris5
      @Coolhandchris5 Месяц назад +9

      He wasnt asking her out on a date lol

    • @dragontear134
      @dragontear134 Месяц назад

      Ppl can't be friends with the opposite gender apparently

    • @BatmanHQYT
      @BatmanHQYT Месяц назад

      You shipper types are delusional

    • @livingbyfaith1
      @livingbyfaith1 Месяц назад +4

      ​@@Coolhandchris5 right, I agree. He just asked her to be his + 1 to a funeral.

  • @choujinzz7212
    @choujinzz7212 20 дней назад +8

    People don't understand you aren't supposed to like Carmy right now. This whole season was about not liking him and who he is becoming despite his journey. That despite so much good influence from Ever and French Laundry and the other wonderful culinary faces in his life, he is ultimately a product of trauma. That isn't something you settle in one season. It's why the season ends the way it does because it doesn't want that quick relief from closure. It wants to fully dive into Carmy's intense and obsessive ideals in cooking that appeared far before Chef David ever treated him like shit and stayed long afterwards as a fixation of his desire to do right in one part of his life(love,family,work). Remember what state Carmy even came to New York in and what event triggered all of this. It was never healthy nor healing from beginning, middle, and end.

  • @neonrays28
    @neonrays28 Месяц назад +83

    How he starred at that sauce that was unconsciously inspired by Sydney's scarf. Saying im going crack it eventually. Yeah dude youre in love with Sydney and your trauma is keeping you from fully enjoying life with her.
    Antis about to come over here and get severely frustrated idc idc
    Especially when I say even claire was used as a distraction from enjoying a partnership with Sydney.

    • @keelajones5733
      @keelajones5733 Месяц назад +12

      @@neonrays28 Thank You for saying that , I was thinking 🤔 that ! Somebody is fixing to go crazy replying 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @neonrays28
      @neonrays28 Месяц назад +11

      ​@keelajones5733 yeah I saw on Twitter she wore different versions of polka dot scarves throughout this season. Definitely meant for her - she also wore a polka dress for marcus mom's funeral...

    • @keelajones5733
      @keelajones5733 Месяц назад +13

      @@neonrays28 Also he is really trying to get a ⭐ Star for her. Because that is what she wanted.❤️

  • @civee9357
    @civee9357 Месяц назад +7

    If food is love and Carmy invites Syd to Ever...

  • @lol55832
    @lol55832 Месяц назад +44

    All the people hating on this season have a - never dealt with mental illness or b - really didn't pay attention to the first episode at all. Not all moments are perfect, but I love how slow this season was, how they tried things, and how so much of this show centred around "reviews". That this meta context is going over your heads is just bizarre

    • @neonrays28
      @neonrays28 Месяц назад +11

      Oh yes I discovered all thw meta context and it made me fall in love with season 3. It will definitely be the season people look back in and see it wasn't bad at all

    • @caroline-gy2em
      @caroline-gy2em Месяц назад +8

      i know people complained about “nothing happening” or things feeling unfinished, but that seemed so clearly intentional! if the next part does what i think they’re trying to do, i think people will be able to look back at this season and appreciate everything it set up.

  • @forest4tree
    @forest4tree Месяц назад +97

    Carmy’s behavior here is so depressing.

  • @trueglitterdust
    @trueglitterdust Месяц назад +103

    I hope Syd takes the job and puts herself first for once. Panic attacks are no joke….she needs to make her mental health her priority.

    • @philliesfan3414
      @philliesfan3414 Месяц назад +9

      Welcome to Carms life. He’s been suffering from panic attacks since we first met him. And if Sydney is getting panic attacks and too much pressure here. She won’t be able to handle it anywhere. Don’t forget no one wanted to take a chance on Sydney except Carmy. She owes everything to Carmy

    • @othelliusmaximus
      @othelliusmaximus Месяц назад +47

      ​@@philliesfan3414 she doesn't owe him anything.

    • @laurenj6802
      @laurenj6802 Месяц назад +30

      ​@@philliesfan3414You are such a weirdo for this character. I see you comment on anyone who critiques Carmy.

    • @philliesfan3414
      @philliesfan3414 Месяц назад +1

      @@laurenj6802 because it’s stupid to constantly play Syd as the victim like she isn’t fucked up in her own right. She has authority issues along with abandonment issues and short tempered. Everyone forgets she stabbed Richie in season 2 for no other reason other than he was being an asshole

    • @carloscastaneda7886
      @carloscastaneda7886 Месяц назад +4

      Yeah ... Syd sucks. She may be creative, but doesn't have what it takes to be CDC of a Michelin restaurant. Taking the job would be her demise.

  • @keelajones5733
    @keelajones5733 Месяц назад +105

    Also you noticed , she is the only one he keeps apologizing too❤❤❤

    • @FarmerJAB
      @FarmerJAB Месяц назад +3

      Grow up. Every sexy romantic thought is about Claire. He says very clearly about Claire, not Sydney “she’s peace”. He invited her to the Ever party as a work colleague. They arrived separately because it wasn’t a date. He didn’t engage with her and he just her left her there. If you think that’s romance or a date or love, then you’ve got a massive problem.

    • @keelajones5733
      @keelajones5733 Месяц назад +23

      @@FarmerJAB you the one that needs to grow up ,he doesn't give 2 f...s about Claire or he would apologize or answer his phone, In Truth he is all about Sydney , just wait and See 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @FarmerJAB
      @FarmerJAB Месяц назад

      @@keelajones5733. I assume you are very young and very very inexperienced. You certainly don’t know a damn thing - so look this up... the actors themselves have shut down rumours of a romance between Carmy and Sydney. They themselves have said “no”. Several times. Use Google. There is a difference between who you have fondness for at work and you fantasise over sexually. Who are you having sex with in your dreams - for Carmy that is Claire. You’ll understand as you mature or when you take your gooey-eyed goggles off

    • @FarmerJAB
      @FarmerJAB Месяц назад

      @@keelajones5733Carmy fantasises about sex with Claire. He thinks about her kiss. The sexy intimate skin-touching thrill of being in bed naked with Claire. He thinks of sexual intimacy with Claire. With Sydney he thinks of the kitchen and cherry reductions. You’ll understand later.

    • @Keesha_Hardy
      @Keesha_Hardy Месяц назад +20

      @@FarmerJAB​​⁠​⁠He had a panic attack last season (S2E9) and the first clip we see him freaking out about is him having sex with Claire, so I wouldn’t say that he’s fantasizing about that.
      Also, right after this scene in this video, he goes into the fridge & it’s like he’s going to try to call Claire & apologize, but he says it out loud and doesn’t call her instead. Then as he’s leaving the fridge, he hears Claire’s voicemail telling him she loves him and he closes the walk-in door, cutting that thought off, like he’s closing the door on that relationship or something.
      I don’t know, we’ll see what happens in the next season, but I feel like if he really wanted to be with her again, he would’ve reached out to her before the 9th episode of the 3rd season.
      I’m not shipping him & Sydney, but it’s interesting how easy it is for him to apologize to her compared to anyone else in this show. He didn’t even apologize to Richie until Sydney told him to. I think that’s what OP is pointing out.

  • @livingbyfaith1
    @livingbyfaith1 Месяц назад +11

    The fact that they zoom in on that sauce is crazyyyyyy. Just like ep 1 szn 3...... they are telling us a story with that plate. Storer needs Jesus for gaslighting the sydcarmy fans😂😂😂

  • @drewforsyth1993
    @drewforsyth1993 Месяц назад +19

    You're telling me that these two aren't in love?

    • @keelajones5733
      @keelajones5733 Месяц назад +4

      @@drewforsyth1993 Thanks , Because I really think so, but we are going to find out in season 4 , if she leaves !!!

  • @BronwynAlexandriaa
    @BronwynAlexandriaa Месяц назад +25

    He sucks. 😢

  • @Grimlock987
    @Grimlock987 Месяц назад

    Who in the hell eat meat like this? Looks raw.

  • @JocksRu
    @JocksRu Месяц назад +16

    The Carmy hate driven by the writers has been the most frustrating part of S3. They’ve completely upended his character and personality to suit a narrow and woke agenda.

    • @laceystephens8800
      @laceystephens8800 Месяц назад +66

      what woke agenda? I agree his character has been making a lot of poor choices, but in the context of the show that concept doesn’t even apply. There’s nothing woke about subpar character writing

    • @Keesha_Hardy
      @Keesha_Hardy Месяц назад +63

      Carmy’s personality hasn’t been upended, he’s unfortunately behaving somewhat like his abusive ex boss. If you notice, this whole season has shown how he has picked up things from each of his previous bosses, including Chef Terry. The good thing is that Carmy is not a narcissist like his abusive ex boss & will acknowledge his wrongdoings.
      He’s been present physically, but stuck mentally in the past with Claire, his mom, his career thus far & it’s gonna take him some time to get through this period. It doesn’t mean that the writing is woke or subpar.

    • @dr.badass702
      @dr.badass702 Месяц назад +20

      Oh no! Not Woke! 😢

    • @Vim-eo2zy
      @Vim-eo2zy Месяц назад +1

      ​@@dr.badass702half of you people just spit shit out your mouth, don't even know what woke is and overuse that word way too much lol

    • @cfinley81
      @cfinley81 Месяц назад +1

      Wtf are you even TALKING ABOUT??? 🤦‍♀️🙄🤣😂🤣🤣 I think this show is wayyyy too advanced for you. Go watch your cartoons, chap!

  • @EVONOPOLIS
    @EVONOPOLIS Месяц назад +4

    Couldn't stand Sydney in this season, Carmy needs to grow up and develop as a character already, this whole entire season with its poor writing needs to change. Don't get me wrong I like Carmy but he needs to deal with his mental issues so that he can have a better character arc.

    • @yiledute
      @yiledute Месяц назад +10

      what if his character is not meant to grow, what if his arc is him failing?

    • @EVONOPOLIS
      @EVONOPOLIS Месяц назад +2

      @@yiledute I'm honestly not sure, I would like for him to grow and evolve. Carmy is my favorite character in this entire show but the way this season was written wasn't what I hoped for it to turn out, it was a filler season.

    • @laurenj6802
      @laurenj6802 Месяц назад +44

      ​@@EVONOPOLISWhat did Sydney do??? Or your just one of those people who likes to hate her for no reason.

    • @EVONOPOLIS
      @EVONOPOLIS Месяц назад +3

      @@laurenj6802 There is a reason, she's annoying.

    • @LucidKay9114
      @LucidKay9114 Месяц назад +14

      @@EVONOPOLIS I think that's a reflection of yourself.

  • @user-ip1rj3vd2w
    @user-ip1rj3vd2w Месяц назад +1

    Please remove her from this show 😭

    • @hwykiddd
      @hwykiddd Месяц назад +19

      Wtf why

    • @Keesha_Hardy
      @Keesha_Hardy Месяц назад +14

      Find a different show

    • @Keesha_Hardy
      @Keesha_Hardy Месяц назад +14

      @@hwykidddThey never have a good reason why.

    • @HazelDell
      @HazelDell Месяц назад +19

      Please remove yourself from your computer and go touch grass.

    • @sarahayele386
      @sarahayele386 13 дней назад +7

      Nah I’d stop watching if she left