So true. Do not fall in love, go in love with your eyes wide open. Do not ignore bad attitudes and bad treatment. It's a sign of who they really are. I decree that after waiting this long, that I would not choose wrong in Jesus name.
Ladies🤦🏽♀️what u can't endure in courtship don't lie to urself that you'll endure it in marriage. Seek God's guidance about who to marry bcz this is a lifetime choice.
This is pathetic! Unfortunately some women taking foolish decisions like this Nneka still exists despite all these awareness on abuse!! It's heart breaking!
Unfortunately sad that this happens in Real life there are even other women will go to an extend of commiting suicide in the name of love, to get the attention of the husband who Care less. 😢😢God have Mercy on your people.
YES, UNDERSTAND SIGNS & WARNINGS IS RIGHT...ESPECIALLY IN TODAY'S WORLD..BAD PEOPLE EVERYWHERE...NOT ONLY IN RELATIONSHIPS...BUT ON THE JOB, PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION, MALLS, RESTAURANTS ETC...BE ALERT..
I really enjoy the the Pastors and their daughter is growing up so fast she is so talented. They are so good for couples and married people. I pray that God continues to bless the pastors and their church members.
Now, how about making a skit where someone who have such struggles actually change. This video just sent me through a series of thought and it is very timely. It was lastnight I was speaking to my wife to be how some series of events in the past is behind my raised voice and anger outbursts. I have never hit her nor raised my hands to do so, nor is it ever my intention to hurt her in any way. But I will not sit down amd wait for that to happen before I decide to do something. I realize that the root may be inferiority. God is helping me. I praying, meditating on the word, by the holy spirit I have come to terms with some of those past experiences. Seeing a video which encourages that this can be overcome may be pretty helpful.
Yes it can be worked on, it is the holy spirit that changes a man not a human, however I don't think I'll advise this change to happen in marriage o, my opinion tho
It’s good that you are acknowledging this evil sin in your life. Make sure you get good, biblical pastoral counselling as well from your pastor/ spiritual leader, so that you are held accountable and supported in making the right changes.
God bless you for your openness and acknowledging the behavioral pattern of abuse in your relationship. That admission is the beginning of the change you desire. However, the desire has to be accompanied with actions. Take steps commensurate to the change you want. If you are a Christian, there are numerous publications on the subject to help you in your journey. You may want to consider speaking to a Christian counselor that will work you through the journey. Better still, you can reach out to the Winlos, the producers of this short video. The couple will be a tremendous help to you. God bless you!!
I just have this actress in my mind for so long ... the one playing the main role . May the Almighty God bless you and may His grace and mercies continue to flow in your life... You are the Apple of Gods eyes and He has so many good things in store for you ❤
Me too, she’s always in my thoughts. I truly pray the Lord diligently rewards her. She makes every role so real that you might think she’s actually experienced all. She’s a trophy and I’m sincerely proud of her. God bless her wherever she is.
People primarily decide whether they want to change or not by themselves. Yes they can be influenced but the final decision lies with them. Even the Lord honours and respects the free will of humans. Lol, this brother Seun wasn't even interested in changing, only affirming his weaknesses and pushing the responsibility of prayer to another person. May God help us not to make foolish decisions in the name of 'changing people'. I actually cringed at one of the slaps, lol.. God bless you Winlos!
We need not spiritualize what has been revealed. When you pray and fast for someone who is not ready for transformation, you must be ready to wait until they are ready.
Lord I thank you for delivering me from toxic relationship, he keeps saying it's just a push, in my opinion, victims of abuse should see a therapist, that's why it's difficult to leave the relationship with all the signs. I have been there, but thank God for his love.
As you continue watching this post I want to pray for you.... Any evil spirit from your mother's & father's house manipulating your helpers to reject and help you may they backfire now in Jesus name. Amen
This physical torture is same as emotional trauma. Abeg, if you see those red flags...please flee. The right one who deserves you will come. Every woman deserve the best life can bring. After leaving, try and work out on yourself- be happy, know who you are and grow into who you are meant to be. Everything will fall into their places in due time. All the best to us all.
Thanks to you. This saturday, by God's Grace, we will watch 12.45 movie in our church in France. Remember francophone family for translation. We really enjoy your vid !
Sisters like this one stop pointing your fingers and crying 'Sheun, Sheun' when you knew what you were getting into. It's better to be single than unequally yoked. God causes all grace to abound, so yes, there is a grace to wait patiently on the Lord - 1 Peter 5: 10 and Galatians 5:22. Don't allow the devil to deceive you, God is the one who made marriage and knows the right husband or wife for you. So, don't rush into a relationship or marriage to join the 'imaginary' club you think married people are part of. When you give God control there is a peace that nothing or no one can take from you! P.S. That "small push", plus heartbreak led to a dead Nneka. If you're in a situation like this. Repent and ask God for help and leave. God's grace is able to keep you if you let him. Thank you for another inspirational video.
Alot of ladies has willingly subjected themselves to these kinds of treatment all in the bid to get married....its so unfortunate...may God help everyone going through Similar cases as this...its well
Nwe gi weakness eme guy?😂 He's proud of his weakness🤦 - who does that? Red flags are always there from the start except for those who turn a blind eye to it. A lesson for all. It is well!
That you're married to a man, that does not make him your husband. Your enemy cannot be your husband, even JESUS in John 4: 14-19., Woman even the man you're married to now is not your husband. So be wise in your choices. The wrong choice can lead you to hell and untimely death.
This is so sad and it happens in reality, may God help us. This Sheun was a devil, and sometimes you can be manipulated in a relationship whereby your partner makes you feel that it's your fault that is why they behave that way towards you. To pray is not foolishness, you need discernment.
“This isn’t mine?” Duhhh. Women like these are broken, they run away from accountability and then play victim. The signs are there, believe them…your life is not a joke. Why die in the name of love?
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A CRIME PUNISHABLE BY THE LAW..SEND HIS SORRY BEHIND TO PRISON...AND IT IS ALSO A SIN... MEN, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF. IMAGINE, BEATING HIS WIFE BECAUSE HE HIMSELF IS A CHEAT AND LACKS SELF CONTROL AND SELF DISCIPLINE...THE RED FLAGS WERE ALL THERE...🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩She chose to IGNORE THEM...
Father!! Hmm,A LEOPARD NEVER CHANGES ITS SPOTS. Change?? What change? For the worse I guess. Some women needs to wake up! Then again these things are more spiritual. God help us!
I pray that God will borrow our sisters sense, how can a man slap you in a relationship and you will say he will change. The truth is that any character exhibited by a man or woman in relationship will follow them to marriage.
Don't pray for an abuser under the same roof...
Run away for your life.. say no to domestic abuse.... both male and female
A man who loves his weakness and is not even doing anything about it is dangerous.
💯!!
Exactly
The signs and attitude you casualize in relationship, will magnify in marriage 💯💯💯. God will help us.
So true. Do not fall in love, go in love with your eyes wide open. Do not ignore bad attitudes and bad treatment. It's a sign of who they really are.
I decree that after waiting this long, that I would not choose wrong in Jesus name.
Correct ohhh
Sooo soo true. Spirit of familiarity
Facts
Thank you..
May the spirit of the living God lead us to make the right choices in life. Thank you so much the WinLos.
My Pastor once taught us that CHOICE IS EVERYTHING... You have to prayerfully choose
This time Lord, I am involving YOU. Help me make the decision that is aligned to your will in Jesus Name!
AMEN
Amen
Amen
Don't be desperate to get marry. Run if you see any red flag
Ladies🤦🏽♀️what u can't endure in courtship don't lie to urself that you'll endure it in marriage.
Seek God's guidance about who to marry bcz this is a lifetime choice.
This is pathetic! Unfortunately some women taking foolish decisions like this Nneka still exists despite all these awareness on abuse!! It's heart breaking!
Unfortunately sad that this happens in Real life there are even other women will go to an extend of commiting suicide in the name of love, to get the attention of the husband who Care less. 😢😢God have Mercy on your people.
You are right ooo. They only watch things like this and never learn. I know one like that
Calling wickedness a weakness, sad
Imagine sometimes we are warned, but we still decide to fall to into such, by overlooking such warnings, may God help us to understand signs
May GOD help us to obey HIM in JESUS Name Amen.
YES, UNDERSTAND SIGNS & WARNINGS IS RIGHT...ESPECIALLY IN TODAY'S WORLD..BAD PEOPLE EVERYWHERE...NOT ONLY IN RELATIONSHIPS...BUT ON THE JOB, PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION, MALLS, RESTAURANTS ETC...BE ALERT..
I really enjoy the the Pastors and their daughter is growing up so fast she is so talented. They are so good for couples and married people. I pray that God continues to bless the pastors and their church members.
I must not make a wrong choice in Jesus name. Thanks.
The Winlos
Now, how about making a skit where someone who have such struggles actually change. This video just sent me through a series of thought and it is very timely. It was lastnight I was speaking to my wife to be how some series of events in the past is behind my raised voice and anger outbursts. I have never hit her nor raised my hands to do so, nor is it ever my intention to hurt her in any way. But I will not sit down amd wait for that to happen before I decide to do something. I realize that the root may be inferiority. God is helping me. I praying, meditating on the word, by the holy spirit I have come to terms with some of those past experiences. Seeing a video which encourages that this can be overcome may be pretty helpful.
Trust me, if you persist on seeking God, He will surely change your life 🙏🙏
Yes it can be worked on, it is the holy spirit that changes a man not a human, however I don't think I'll advise this change to happen in marriage o, my opinion tho
@@graceoludammy Thanks for this response Grace🤝
May God increase your wisdom
It’s good that you are acknowledging this evil sin in your life. Make sure you get good, biblical pastoral counselling as well from your pastor/ spiritual leader, so that you are held accountable and supported in making the right changes.
God bless you for your openness and acknowledging the behavioral pattern of abuse in your relationship. That admission is the beginning of the change you desire. However, the desire has to be accompanied with actions.
Take steps commensurate to the change you want.
If you are a Christian, there are numerous publications on the subject to help you in your journey. You may want to consider speaking to a Christian counselor that will work you through the journey. Better still, you can reach out to the Winlos, the producers of this short video. The couple will be a tremendous help to you. God bless you!!
I just have this actress in my mind for so long ... the one playing the main role . May the Almighty God bless you and may His grace and mercies continue to flow in your life... You are the Apple of Gods eyes and He has so many good things in store for you ❤
Amen! Thank you so much🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️
Me too, she’s always in my thoughts. I truly pray the Lord diligently rewards her. She makes every role so real that you might think she’s actually experienced all. She’s a trophy and I’m sincerely proud of her. God bless her wherever she is.
The joy of wedding bell versus the joy in marriage.
May God protect us from men with anger issues, Violence etc.. and when a guy doesn't respect you his friends family will talk to you like crap aswell
Can one walk upon hot coals without being burnt? The Signs we ignore in courtship will be a major disaster to deal with in Marriage.
Powerful!!! And emotional. My sister lived this. Thank God she is alive today
People primarily decide whether they want to change or not by themselves. Yes they can be influenced but the final decision lies with them. Even the Lord honours and respects the free will of humans.
Lol, this brother Seun wasn't even interested in changing, only affirming his weaknesses and pushing the responsibility of prayer to another person.
May God help us not to make foolish decisions in the name of 'changing people'.
I actually cringed at one of the slaps, lol..
God bless you Winlos!
My Lord Jesus, help us to heed wise counsel you have placed in our lives!
The choices you make in life will either shorten or lengthen your lifespan.... hmmm thank you for this video
Hhhhhhhh
We need not spiritualize what has been revealed. When you pray and fast for someone who is not ready for transformation, you must be ready to wait until they are ready.
What you said is nothing but the truth
Lord I thank you for delivering me from toxic relationship, he keeps saying it's just a push, in my opinion, victims of abuse should see a therapist, that's why it's difficult to leave the relationship with all the signs.
I have been there, but thank God for his love.
Entering into a relationship with your head is very necessary
O God, help us to make the right choices in life in Jesus' mighty name, Amen 🙏
Amen o is very important o
Amen
This is where desperation leads to. Dear sisters let's wait for God's time. You can't change anyone.
Love is sweet. Marriage is the eye opener😊
Hmmmmm LORD have mercy. Oh GOD please protect and deliver us, may we not make wrong choices in JESUS Name Amen.
Don’t casualize the signs if you don’t want to become a casualty
It's good to have wise friends around you....who is in your circle??? Marriage will not change an abusive man.
Thank you family,,, great One
😭😭😭😭 this is exactly what my friend is suffering from 😭😭 God please she need your help
Has your friend accepted the fact that there is a problem?
Yes but she still there 😭😭😭 hoping that God will change the man
Wickedness is NOT weakness! We will NOT marry wrongly in Jesus' Name.
Ameeeen!
As you continue watching this post I want to pray for you....
Any evil spirit from your mother's & father's house manipulating your helpers to reject and help you may they backfire now in Jesus name. Amen
Amen
Amen! 🙏
This physical torture is same as emotional trauma. Abeg, if you see those red flags...please flee. The right one who deserves you will come. Every woman deserve the best life can bring.
After leaving, try and work out on yourself- be happy, know who you are and grow into who you are meant to be. Everything will fall into their places in due time. All the best to us all.
So sad we have to be careful who we let in our lives we must seek God. Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Choices and decisions, Oh Lord impact us with your Spirit of Wisdom and Discernment in Jesus name. Amen.
Ladies, fight back...don't let that slap go unchallenged...I wouldn't...🤬🤬🤬🤬
You see what happened when she wanted to challenge the slap🤔
Eeeeeh for sure the choice matters... God have mercy upon us and give us a spirit of wisdom
Thanks to you. This saturday, by God's Grace, we will watch 12.45 movie in our church in France. Remember francophone family for translation. We really enjoy your vid !
Sure
This is very insightful, thank you Winlos.
Sisters like this one stop pointing your fingers and crying 'Sheun, Sheun' when you knew what you were getting into. It's better to be single than unequally yoked. God causes all grace to abound, so yes, there is a grace to wait patiently on the Lord - 1 Peter 5: 10 and Galatians 5:22. Don't allow the devil to deceive you, God is the one who made marriage and knows the right husband or wife for you. So, don't rush into a relationship or marriage to join the 'imaginary' club you think married people are part of. When you give God control there is a peace that nothing or no one can take from you!
P.S. That "small push", plus heartbreak led to a dead Nneka.
If you're in a situation like this. Repent and ask God for help and leave. God's grace is able to keep you if you let him.
Thank you for another inspirational video.
So very true
Alot of ladies has willingly subjected themselves to these kinds of treatment all in the bid to get married....its so unfortunate...may God help everyone going through Similar cases as this...its well
Great video.
People will see red flags but will decide to use it to sew 2 piece😏
You can never change any man
Let God lead🙏
Nwe gi weakness eme guy?😂
He's proud of his weakness🤦 - who does that? Red flags are always there from the start except for those who turn a blind eye to it. A lesson for all. It is well!
God, please help me make the right choice in marriage 🙏🙏🙏
🎶🎤🎵🎼Ekoueme ehh Ekoueme! Ekoueme ehh Ekoueme! You are the living God oh Eze no one like you! 🎶🎼🎵🎤
Hahaha when did you become s change agent,? that's a good one.!
The victims acting skills 👏👌💯❤.
That you're married to a man, that does not make him your husband. Your enemy cannot be your husband, even JESUS in John 4: 14-19., Woman even the man you're married to now is not your husband. So be wise in your choices. The wrong choice can lead you to hell and untimely death.
Pray, you are not praying enough!!😂😂😂 thumbs up to this teaching👍🏾
This is so sad and it happens in reality, may God help us. This Sheun was a devil, and sometimes you can be manipulated in a relationship whereby your partner makes you feel that it's your fault that is why they behave that way towards you. To pray is not foolishness, you need discernment.
Am blessed thank you for the videos
Help me oh Lord 🤲
Women have to learn. If they slap you during dating, they will beat you in marriage. Leave abusers alone. You can not change anyone!
she is reading books how to collect slap or what?
may God help us ooo
A blessing
Praise the lord
May the LORD help us make a good choice in our lives before our marriage
“This isn’t mine?” Duhhh. Women like these are broken, they run away from accountability and then play victim. The signs are there, believe them…your life is not a joke. Why die in the name of love?
When did you become change agent😅🤣🤣🤣😂
Nneka🥺🥺. After all the advise 😭
Merci The Winlos
Thank you jarre
That kind of weakness ,na waaa oooo . May God help us 😬
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A CRIME PUNISHABLE BY THE LAW..SEND HIS SORRY BEHIND TO PRISON...AND IT IS ALSO A SIN... MEN, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF. IMAGINE, BEATING HIS WIFE BECAUSE HE HIMSELF IS A CHEAT AND LACKS SELF CONTROL AND SELF DISCIPLINE...THE RED FLAGS WERE ALL THERE...🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩She chose to IGNORE THEM...
These slaps must not be real.
My cheeksss....
Thanks for the message well passed. God bless your consistence over the years
Good work
Cheeeeiiiii!!!!I had one who was like this ",you are not praying for me"
Amen
Nneka is really blessed
How?? She died....
@@wandaanderson8779 who told you
In the skit she died but in real life she’s just playing a role as an actress
God help us 🙌
Father!! Hmm,A LEOPARD NEVER CHANGES ITS SPOTS. Change?? What change? For the worse I guess. Some women needs to wake up! Then again these things are more spiritual. God help us!
Wow powerful lesson here ❤️
Powerful
I pray that God will borrow our sisters sense, how can a man slap you in a relationship and you will say he will change. The truth is that any character exhibited by a man or woman in relationship will follow them to marriage.
God ahbeg oh 🥺🙏
Anger issues People 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ JAPA
Thank God He saved me from destruction.
God please help us to make the right choice
Wat i love abt God ,he will show you all things that are hidden if you trust him you wont Go wrong
The ladies who actually follow men who treat their wives like this in their presence, are they okay?
Same question I ask..same knife that stick sheep will stick to the goat.. Lord have mercy 😢
I have the same question !!! Like can't you see?
@@annetteburke4179 Lord have mercy 🙌🏽
@@JohnChapter17 Exactly
They believe their case will be different
Kai...!!
God forbid bad marriage oh 🙏.... And the man will go ahead and marry another lady 🤷...
The winlos attack me directly 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you the winlos
I love it
single Christian sisters pls open your eyes and also hear word!!!! receive instructions oo
Hmmm.... May no one see the repeat of what happened to a popular gospel singer in Nigeria in Jesus name. Amen
😅😅😅funny until it happens
Its the am dealing with anger issues for me 😂
😂 As per badge of honor.
Ooohh My God!!!!!!
I'm Praying For Him.. Fasting For Him...🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄..
We Need More Minutes... More Wine 🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷...This Is Deep...Due To Public Demand.....30 Minutes Please.
This guy is evil oo. 😀
He is slapping his wife and claims that is his weakness. But, he is not slapping his girlfriend. His weakness knows limit. 😀
He will slap de girlfriend if he marries her with such behavior men lyk dat don’t change
The worst case scenario the goodmen are dumped for the damn men. In the name of badguys knows best.
Hmm
yah true this is a lesson
What is the way out for those who have made these mistakes, any way out?
Leave o....Run...I don't support divorce but it's better to divorce than be called a diseased
Tell your partner to seek counseling or get him/ her a therapist if he/she refuses then you japa