If the ex wife is foolish enough to be giving her ex husband and the ex babysitter a ride that's her stupidity. I like when judge Lynn said , YOUR NOT THE ONE WHO WAS HURT, that very cold selfish man said she should be over it . The young lady is rachet but she's also easily manipulated because she is so young.
Judge Lynn Toler She is so amazing and very insightful and inspiring! I love her honesty and fairness! She is Cool and real! Thank you for your precious soul!
YESSS ❤ THE ONE & ONLY JUDGE LYNN TOLER IS THE ORIGINAL AKA UNFORGETTABLE AND VERY MUCH MISSED DIVORCE COURT JUDGE ❤ We are waiting on you Judge Lynn Toler 😘💕
Great advice for the third couple. That man is amazing and she is spoiled ❤❤❤❤ I know that because I am as well but she has to appreciate that man. He can talk to her a few times but it doesn't have to be 50 times.
Judge Lynn😂 "My Baad!" 😂❤- Tiffany is spoilt and he did it. The reason he's doing things he wasn't doing in the beginning is because he's working way more than in the beginning 🤨. Mom's don't Porsche- Mom's SUV😂😂😂
Judge was the BEST judge ever on TV!! Man she was sooo accurate and on point!! I wish she was still on divorce court! I use to watch it faithfully cause everything she said could be applied to every day life! Miss you Judge Toler!!!!
Judge Lynn PALEEEEEEZE come back!!! Can you at least start an advice channel so we can call in, zoom in or something! Take your time whenever you're ready. But we miss you and love you. ❤
It doesn’t appear that she’s been keeping the grandchild away from him, however, it does appear that she has rules and boundaries as any decent, protective parent/guardian would. He wants it on his terms and when he’s ready as he’s already shown us. No sir, get a visitation schedule nailed down first and let it be court ordered if needed. You can’t just pop up at their home.
She not a racism because she trusted this home-wrecker into her house. Women do not let woman live with you because this will happen at the end of the day! The ex-wife is beautiful his loss!
Judge Lynn is the best!!! ❤ her loadzzzzzzzzzz!!! It's like the show has her DNA in it!!! I love watching the show - and I've never even been married - just love watching to spot pitfalls from a physical and emotional dimension. God bless Judge Lynn, as she blesses the World.
Love this❤❤❤the second couple.... u can tell they love each other ...... Guys if u read this plz listen to Judge Toler!!! Don't allow these foolish misunderstandings to tear u apart! I could tell by the way he looked u & she looked at u, sir! This seriously touched my ❤️💜❤️!!! It's nothing but the enemy trying to steal your joy! If u could/would really listen to what the other person is saying & take time to really think Abt what they said & compromise just a little bit, I can tell that u will begin to see changes in the other person. If u want the things around u to change, you must be the first thing to change. Truly consider how the other person is feeling. Try to put yourself in their shoes. I believe in u guys!!!
I’m sure right now Judge Lynn misses Judge Lynn….stay strong Your Honor…we’re Praying for Your n Family’s strenghth n grace throughout this continued situation.We LUV YOUR LOGIC N ADVICE…GODS BLESSINGZ….FOREVER
She is immature and materialistic she doesn’t deserve him. He needs a woman who loves him more than the things he can give her. Love when Judge Lynn told her that she’s the problem.
If the baby had been adopted or in foster I don't know if he would even be trying to see the gra dchild it's only because the ex wife has her. Smh petty
This is exactly the reason why I"m single, independent, make my own money, have my own house and car, and live a life very happily void of a selfish, cheating man.
I honestly cried for Mr. Muhammed " he's such a sweetheart..am out here praying for a man like him..she got him Nd like a yam head" she out here acting the part of an *SS !! With all that advice from judge Lynn she still thought that he's in the wrong?! I feel for him
❤ so true. Have you watched the other judges and say when they giving their advice it's like they only scratch the surface. They don't go deep enough for me. In my mind I be like Judge Toler, would of said it completely different. I be like she would of said "this" "this" and "that" she be on point saying exactly what be needed. Even clear enough for is to utilize at home...❤😊
I hope the producers or whoever is in charge of casting can see the comments… WE WANT LYNN TOLER BACK! She’s so wise and is cut from a different cloth. She’s unbiased and reasonable.
I feel Lucy pain , she’s heartbroken , I’ll be devastated if my husband cheats and choose the babysitter, that babysitter and her ex have no moral, they will get Back what they give
The fact that the ex and his new thing are like “it’s the past we are moving on” is absolutely astonishing. I loved JLs statement that NO ONE HURT YOU!!! What a lack of insight and utter selfishness.
When I heard "if it ain't Samara's way" I thought immediately that the ship had sailed on that marriage. I'd love to hear about how that marriage faired and how they benefitted from the judges advice.
Judge Toller you are more than a divorce court judge. You gave sound advice on life track. My heart is still grieving over the loss of you’re beloved husband. I was windowed at 28 but I had to be strong for my tw children who were 6 and 10 at the time. They are both in their 40’s doing well with wonderful families. May God give you the peace and grace to go forward. Your spirit cannot be duplicated. We love you.🙏🙏❤️❤️
This came up on my page and I saw your comment. I lost my husband when I was 32 and our son was 5. It's been 34 years and I still miss him. I have dated and there hasn't been anyone else. I'm ok but special occasions still bring me down 😢
I miss Judge Lynn.Please bring her back.Divorce Court has never been the same since .I do employ a lot of her advice in my life and it works.My daughter swears by her advice too.
The guy from the first case is very disgusting for sleeping with the babysitter who is too young for him. Third case, the 51 year old should have no business getting with a 31 year old and his children needs to tell him to find someone his own age.
CANT WAIT TIL HE CHEATS ON THE BABY SITTER! IF HW CHEATED WITH YOU HE'LL CHEAT ON YOU OR SHE WILL CHEAT ON HIM ... THAT WOULD BE GreaT. KARMA ON BOTH OF THEM!
The 3rd person said the wife was racist! If she was racist she would not hire her to babysitting her husband’s kin! None senses woman thought she was play that card will make judge Lynn to be on her side!!! No! Judge Lynn saw through her intentions!
@@shirleyfrancois9907 Not with people half their age, they're not. 51 & 31 does not go together at all. This is the way to be an adult, not dating or sleeping with people a lot older or younger than you. True fact!
He didn't want the child at first, and he and his baby sitter girlfriend moved to Puerto Rico. Why does he want to see the grandchild now when he didn't want it at first? Come on. Nothing is settled for the ex wife. The woman is still hurt. Miss Judge Lynn. May the Almighty continue to guide, protect, bless, and keep her safe.🙏🏼
Last wife is very immature, self-centered, and greedy. Don’t bug him so much that he misses being with a woman closer to his own age. Let her go and move on! Two fools!!!
Man number three, I will take him if his wife doesn’t want him. Who wouldn’t appreciate a man like him…Some women have it all and don’t know it. Signed, Single mom for life.
May Allah bless you. He gave yo u the capacity to guide people to respect each other and point out the areas they should improve on to achieve a happy life together.
❤❤❤❤❤ hello Lola I love the way you do your work is beautiful. God bless you just told do what you need to be done. You’re a wonderful person. I love you and I’m one of your friend. Chabilia loves you.
3rd case: he is a beautiful Man. He loves his wife and will do anything to make her happy. However, sis you are a spoil brat and really need to grow up and understand what a wife does and is.
The lady in the first case, She think she's white 😂😂😂 Sorry Luz if everything hit rock bottom in they tell all black and brown people to go to Africa or somewhere in the Caribbean you will be on a airplane or boat with the rest of us.
#3 the judge should've given them a DIVORCE that poor man is gonna die trying to give that ungrateful girl what she wants. All she talked about is materialistic things where is the emotion in her? GOLDDIGGER is what she really is PERIOD!! I LOVE THE JUDGE & MISS HER.
Kids are not a pawn to be used to get back at your ex. That being said, the guy from the first case treated his ex horrible. There is no excuse for it. To even give a non-family member custody of your grandchild was worse. But, as evil as that was, the ex was just as bad using the kid to get back at him.
That's exactly what my live in bf's ex wife is doing right now.. And it may very well be that that ends us because instead of dealing with it the proper way he went and got drunk and took it out on me.. And I can't live like that.. He came home stone drunk and telling me that she called asking him when he's coming back to her showing her breasts and feeling up herself on a video call, and she is using their son to make contact with him because he lives with me, so she sent his son to spend two weeks so that she can have access to him because she knows he will have to stay in his family's house with his son and if he doesn't they're going to say he doesn't care about his son.. And when I asked him why didn't he just tell her that he's in a live in relationship (she knows from talking to his family) he says that she wants to hear it from him and that he's afraid because she threatened to put him in court for maintenance of the child and he doesn't have a regular job.. Even tho he built her house and left her with everything including over $90,000 in savings including her sons money that he kept she wanted access to it and he gave it to her.. I don't see a problem with him giving her money for his son even if it's not much but if she takes him to court for maintenance he can get locked up if at any time he doesn't pay it and he's afraid of jail.. I want him to trust me enough to know that I won't leave him if she takes him to court and I will ensure he has more than enough money to pay but it's like he doesn't trust me or there's something more going on that I don't know about.. I honestly don't know how much more of this I can take.. I am thinking about moving out from my apartment but I can't tell him and I can't even tell my Landlord because my bf and my landlord are related.. And I live next door to his family house.. 😢😢😢 I am just praying for guidance from the Lord because my heart is hurting and I am feeling like this situation is too much for me to deal with.. I was feeling overwhelmed by his 'baggage' in the beginning of our relationship but now.. I am feeling like I have to run away from him because when he gets stressed he goes to the bottle and that's the worst.. Even if when he hits me I fight back it's still not the ideal situation for me to live in because I have to think about my mental health and well being.. And right now I feel like I have been taking too much crap and I want out.. I love my apartment and I wished I could stay in it until I'm finished with college but I can't even study about that now because I am feeling like living in this apartment with him may be the end of me.. I get so frightened when I think about the future because of his drinking.. He doesn't do it regular but when he does he's a completely different person.. He disrespects me and he hits me.. Without the alcohol he's near perfect.. So good for me and to me it's scary... But the moment he drinks.. I realise that I can't be with him.. He told me once that I can't stop him from drinking.. But I can leave him.. And I believe I will..
When he found out that she over rode his answer when she asked him if he could pick up his son, he started to drink from the moment he realised his son was coming and I kept asking myself why was he drinking and he knows it was our last day to spend together.. Like why would you want to spoil that..? But it's only after when he confessed what she did to him on the video call that I realised what he was saying all the time was true.. That if she over rode his decision to wait and still sent him it meant she had other plans.. I understood but I couldn't understand why he would take it out on me 😭😭😭 we were so happy prior to that.. I still can't understand it and I want to run away from him because I think it's spiritual what's going on and I can't fight in this state... I really can't.. I feel so weak
Judge Lynn is drop dead gorgeous!!! Period! I can't get enough of her. She is so witty, intelligent and charismatic😍😍
Judge Lynn, if you see this, I freaking miss you.
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Yes we do🤎🤎
Yes, we do!!!
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I Miss Judge Lynn TOO 👍 Because She's So Wise And Very Fair
Everyone misses Big E , even though he only did a couple of videos. Judge Toler talked about him all the time and made the world love him to.
Facts she made us love him by how endeared she talked about him
You’re so right.
The ex and current baby moma is trifling!! How are they going to ask his ex for a ride? Just no shame! I miss Judge Lynn ! She was and is the truth!
So trifling...I would have told them to lose my number
I miss judge Lynn but I still watch her old shows everyday. A very smart woman
If the ex wife is foolish enough to be giving her ex husband and the ex babysitter a ride that's her stupidity. I like when judge Lynn said , YOUR NOT THE ONE WHO WAS HURT, that very cold selfish man said she should be over it . The young lady is rachet but she's also easily manipulated because she is so young.
Much love to Judge Lynn! And RIP to Big E ❤
😢😢😢
@@erinnicole1798❤❤❤😢
Big E died?!
@@ekdaufin1485yes 😢
I thought her husband died. She's still alive
Judge Toler is a strikingly beautiful woman!
She sure is
I can’t get over how beautiful she is!
Yes her beauty and intellect are mind blowing she is a wife in every sense of the word
Facts
Yes she is, and so intelligent, and classes...
I miss Judge Lynn too.
The only ones that do not miss her are the ones who never saw her!
Amen, thank you 😊
Judge Lynn Toler
She is so amazing and very insightful and inspiring! I love her honesty and fairness! She is Cool and real!
Thank you for your precious soul!
1st case. He will regret his decision that young girl will be leaving him that relationship will not last.
I miss judge Lynn
YESSS ❤ THE ONE & ONLY JUDGE LYNN TOLER IS THE ORIGINAL AKA UNFORGETTABLE AND VERY MUCH MISSED DIVORCE COURT JUDGE ❤ We are waiting on you Judge Lynn Toler 😘💕
Judge Lynn is PHENOMENAL
Me too💔
Judge Toler is the GOAT!!!🐐
@@serenalampkin8241
I agree ☝🏽
This man Mohammed is so humble. He was quiet, respectful and nice. I got emotional when judge told him how of a nice man he is.
Judge Lynn Toler is the CUTEST BLACK WOMAN ON AMERICAN TV!!!
She is 63 years old now AND STILL LOOKS FANTASTIC!!!!
She's on tic Tok and great advice and videos
Cute is for kids, she's beautiful and gorgeous as a bw on tv as you stated 😊
Judge Lynn I love your smarts & wisdom, so I now binge watch you on RUclips & other platforms… 🙏🏽 RIP Big E …. Judge your a blessing to this world 🥰
Judge Lynn is EVERYTHING!!
I like the way judge Lynn honored Mr Mohammed in the 3 case. I feel he his really a good man and it's so sad to see how he is treated.
They had the nerve to want her to transport them around like wtf
And they ring her when they need money!!!
I watched different Divorce Court. To me judge Lynn Toler is the best. Miss seeing her. So sorry for the lost of her husband.
Great advice for the third couple. That man is amazing and she is spoiled ❤❤❤❤ I know that because I am as well but she has to appreciate that man. He can talk to her a few times but it doesn't have to be 50 times.
Judge Lynn😂 "My Baad!" 😂❤-
Tiffany is spoilt and he did it.
The reason he's doing things he wasn't doing in the beginning is because he's working way more than in the beginning 🤨.
Mom's don't Porsche- Mom's SUV😂😂😂
Judge was the BEST judge ever on TV!! Man she was sooo accurate and on point!! I wish she was still on divorce court! I use to watch it faithfully cause everything she said could be applied to every day life! Miss you Judge Toler!!!!
Judge Lynn is a Judge and mother in all right to so many she would never physically meet. I miss you Ma'am.
I miss you too Judge Toler
PLEASE COME BACK
Judge gave great advice during the second case. I just love her ❤❤❤❤
RIP Big E. We love you Lynn Toler and miss you. PEACE BE WITH YOU
i love miss lynn and i miss her on divorce court. she is a one of a kind. god bless that lady that is caring for her ex husband grand baby
Judge Lynn PALEEEEEEZE come back!!! Can you at least start an advice channel so we can call in, zoom in or something! Take your time whenever you're ready. But we miss you and love you. ❤
I love Judge Lynn's wisdom & common sense language. Awesome Lady. Dxf
It doesn’t appear that she’s been keeping the grandchild away from him, however, it does appear that she has rules and boundaries as any decent, protective parent/guardian would. He wants it on his terms and when he’s ready as he’s already shown us. No sir, get a visitation schedule nailed down first and let it be court ordered if needed.
You can’t just pop up at their home.
She not a racism because she trusted this home-wrecker into her house. Women do not let woman live with you because this will happen at the end of the day! The ex-wife is beautiful his loss!
Judge Lynn is the best!!!
❤ her loadzzzzzzzzzz!!!
It's like the show has her DNA in it!!!
I love watching the show - and I've never even been married - just love watching to spot pitfalls from a physical and emotional dimension.
God bless Judge Lynn, as she blesses the World.
The last wife is selfish, immature and delusional. I would give anything to have a man like that.
Love this❤❤❤the second couple.... u can tell they love each other ...... Guys if u read this plz listen to Judge Toler!!! Don't allow these foolish misunderstandings to tear u apart! I could tell by the way he looked u & she looked at u, sir! This seriously touched my ❤️💜❤️!!! It's nothing but the enemy trying to steal your joy! If u could/would really listen to what the other person is saying & take time to really think Abt what they said & compromise just a little bit, I can tell that u will begin to see changes in the other person. If u want the things around u to change, you must be the first thing to change. Truly consider how the other person is feeling. Try to put yourself in their shoes. I believe in u guys!!!
I’m sure right now Judge Lynn misses Judge Lynn….stay strong Your Honor…we’re Praying for Your n Family’s strenghth n grace throughout this continued situation.We LUV YOUR LOGIC N ADVICE…GODS BLESSINGZ….FOREVER
She is immature and materialistic she doesn’t deserve him. He needs a woman who loves him more than the things he can give her. Love when Judge Lynn told her that she’s the problem.
Thank you for shutting her down, Judge Toler. You are the greatest and the most gorgeous.
Love always.
If the baby had been adopted or in foster I don't know if he would even be trying to see the gra dchild it's only because the ex wife has her. Smh petty
Judge Tolear I miss your show and your wise counsel to the couples m
The case in the Middle with the drill sergeant husband... Oh my goodness! I would not be able to stand that man
Much love to Judge Lynn!
That black girl gonna go to Puerto Rico with him. Forward, he older she gonna find someone else and do him like he did Luz.
2ND guy dressed like a preacher,pimp, undertaker and Mr. Clean all in one.
😂😂😂
I miss judge Lynn so much I wish me n my fiancé could see her before your union. 😢
The Judge needs to come back, we need wisdom
That poor Mr. Mamood! I feel sorry for her, too, in a way. She's probably going to be alone and lonely when she gets old.
"Motherhood don't Porsche! Motherhood SUV's!"
This is exactly the reason why I"m single, independent, make my own money, have my own house and car, and live a life very happily void of a selfish, cheating man.
I miss her too😂.she's so real
hey
If it doesn't work I'm available and I will appreciate a Good Man like him.❤😅😊🎉
🙋♀️Me too me too !
I so wish old shows will be re-shown
I know, right? As well as Judge Mablean and Judge Faith
Me too
I loved Judge Lynn Toler and Judge Mabelean
This is why I subscribe to RUclips I binge watch the old shows all day.
@@queennola3039 is it very expensiv?
The last girl does NOT love that man.
I honestly cried for Mr. Muhammed " he's such a sweetheart..am out here praying for a man like him..she got him Nd like a yam head" she out here acting the part of an *SS !! With all that advice from judge Lynn she still thought that he's in the wrong?! I feel for him
Ikr she's selfish and ridiculous
Judge Lynn has the wisdom of Solomon!! I miss you so much!! Hope you come back!!
❤ so true. Have you watched the other judges and say when they giving their advice it's like they only scratch the surface. They don't go deep enough for me. In my mind I be like Judge Toler, would of said it completely different. I be like she would of said "this" "this" and "that" she be on point saying exactly what be needed. Even clear enough for is to utilize at home...❤😊
I hope the producers or whoever is in charge of casting can see the comments… WE WANT LYNN TOLER BACK! She’s so wise and is cut from a different cloth. She’s unbiased and reasonable.
Period
I feel Lucy pain , she’s heartbroken , I’ll be devastated if my husband cheats and choose the babysitter, that babysitter and her ex have no moral, they will get Back what they give
The fact that the ex and his new thing are like “it’s the past we are moving on” is absolutely astonishing. I loved JLs statement that NO ONE HURT YOU!!! What a lack of insight and utter selfishness.
He's sooo sweet, rare gem
When I heard "if it ain't Samara's way" I thought immediately that the ship had sailed on that marriage.
I'd love to hear about how that marriage faired and how they benefitted from the judges advice.
Me too!
Judge is sooo good.
Last case maaan he fyneee
Judge Lynn is a beautiful person
There is no way that that maid was coming close to me, muchless both of them sitting in my car. They are just shameless.
This woman is the pic in the dictionary beside "" gold digger. ""
Judge Toller you are more than a divorce court judge. You gave sound advice on life track. My heart is still grieving over the loss of you’re beloved husband.
I was windowed at 28 but I had to be strong for my tw children who were 6 and 10 at the time. They are both in their 40’s doing well with wonderful families.
May God give you the peace and grace to go forward.
Your spirit cannot be duplicated. We love you.🙏🙏❤️❤️
This came up on my page and I saw your comment. I lost my husband when I was 32 and our son was 5. It's been 34 years and I still miss him. I have dated and there hasn't been anyone else. I'm ok but special occasions still bring me down 😢
Great show❤ love Judge Lynn
I miss Judge Lynn.Please bring her back.Divorce Court has never been the same since .I do employ a lot of her advice in my life and it works.My daughter swears by her advice too.
You are the best judge LYNN ❤
The guy from the first case is very disgusting for sleeping with the babysitter who is too young for him. Third case, the 51 year old should have no business getting with a 31 year old and his children needs to tell him to find someone his own age.
CANT WAIT TIL HE CHEATS ON THE BABY SITTER! IF HW CHEATED WITH YOU HE'LL CHEAT ON YOU OR SHE WILL CHEAT ON HIM ... THAT WOULD BE GreaT. KARMA ON BOTH OF THEM!
The 3rd person said the wife was racist! If she was racist she would not hire her to babysitting her husband’s kin! None senses woman thought she was play that card will make judge Lynn to be on her side!!! No! Judge Lynn saw through her intentions!
I am so glad the Step Grandma Lisa god custody of the granddaughter he didn't want to care for she seems like a sweet lady
51&31 they're adults tho
@@shirleyfrancois9907 Not with people half their age, they're not. 51 & 31 does not go together at all. This is the way to be an adult, not dating or sleeping with people a lot older or younger than you. True fact!
I love you divorce court ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️❤️
He didn't want the child at first, and he and his baby sitter girlfriend moved to Puerto Rico.
Why does he want to see the grandchild now when he didn't want it at first?
Come on.
Nothing is settled for the ex wife. The woman is still hurt.
Miss Judge Lynn.
May the Almighty continue to guide, protect, bless, and keep her safe.🙏🏼
Damn, Mr. Ortiz why did you do that to your wife?
Last wife is very immature, self-centered, and greedy. Don’t bug him so much that he misses being with a woman closer to his own age. Let her go and move on! Two fools!!!
Judge Lynne Toler is the best
God bless you judge Lynn ❤😂 great show
You are telling her the truth
Ms. Honorable Judge Lynn Tolor. 💯🔥 beyond a reasonable doubt 💋
I miss you judge Lynn you’re a common sense wonderful judge
She's so IMMATURE
Man number three, I will take him if his wife doesn’t want him. Who wouldn’t appreciate a man like him…Some women have it all and don’t know it. Signed, Single mom for life.
May Allah bless you. He gave yo u the capacity to guide people to respect each other and point out the areas they should improve on to achieve a happy life together.
❤❤❤❤❤ hello Lola I love the way you do your work is beautiful. God bless you just told do what you need to be done. You’re a wonderful person. I love you and I’m one of your friend. Chabilia loves you.
Out of all the divorce court judges I love Judge Lynn Tolier she missed from this life's learning show
How many different levels of foolishness can you come up with.....classic
3rd case: he is a beautiful Man. He loves his wife and will do anything to make her happy. However, sis you are a spoil brat and really need to grow up and understand what a wife does and is.
The lady in the first case, She think she's white 😂😂😂 Sorry Luz if everything hit rock bottom in they tell all black and brown people to go to Africa or somewhere in the Caribbean you will be on a airplane or boat with the rest of us.
Guyz like Mohammed might just be 5 in this planet 🌎❤️😮.. because how can a man so sweet be with such a lady?🤷♀️
Love and respect her forever!! Very unique i love her!
Judge Lynn is a quick logical thinking woman
Judge Lynn is just wonderful
That last plaintiff.... whew ... what a joke 😂
And she is full of command sense and I love her!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Why is she giving him money? Mrs Ortiz should not answer his phone calls.
The way they are holding hands looks like he is controlling
she is all he has left...he better hold on, cause he done burnt down all the support...
HE IS!!! SHE NEEDED A DADDY, OBVIOUSLY!
100%
#3 the judge should've given them a DIVORCE that poor man is gonna die trying to give that ungrateful girl what she wants. All she talked about is materialistic things where is the emotion in her? GOLDDIGGER is what she really is PERIOD!! I LOVE THE JUDGE & MISS HER.
The 2nd couple was so adorable ❤❤❤😂😂😂
I love this Court
This woman is 'I want l want' and never 'I give'. a classic gold digger. Yes you are a gold digger 😂
38:00 she was smitten tryna play like she wasn’t 😂
I miss you so much judge
Much Love Judge Lynn
Kids are not a pawn to be used to get back at your ex. That being said, the guy from the first case treated his ex horrible. There is no excuse for it. To even give a non-family member custody of your grandchild was worse.
But, as evil as that was, the ex was just as bad using the kid to get back at him.
That's exactly what my live in bf's ex wife is doing right now.. And it may very well be that that ends us because instead of dealing with it the proper way he went and got drunk and took it out on me.. And I can't live like that.. He came home stone drunk and telling me that she called asking him when he's coming back to her showing her breasts and feeling up herself on a video call, and she is using their son to make contact with him because he lives with me, so she sent his son to spend two weeks so that she can have access to him because she knows he will have to stay in his family's house with his son and if he doesn't they're going to say he doesn't care about his son.. And when I asked him why didn't he just tell her that he's in a live in relationship (she knows from talking to his family) he says that she wants to hear it from him and that he's afraid because she threatened to put him in court for maintenance of the child and he doesn't have a regular job.. Even tho he built her house and left her with everything including over $90,000 in savings including her sons money that he kept she wanted access to it and he gave it to her.. I don't see a problem with him giving her money for his son even if it's not much but if she takes him to court for maintenance he can get locked up if at any time he doesn't pay it and he's afraid of jail.. I want him to trust me enough to know that I won't leave him if she takes him to court and I will ensure he has more than enough money to pay but it's like he doesn't trust me or there's something more going on that I don't know about.. I honestly don't know how much more of this I can take.. I am thinking about moving out from my apartment but I can't tell him and I can't even tell my Landlord because my bf and my landlord are related.. And I live next door to his family house.. 😢😢😢 I am just praying for guidance from the Lord because my heart is hurting and I am feeling like this situation is too much for me to deal with.. I was feeling overwhelmed by his 'baggage' in the beginning of our relationship but now.. I am feeling like I have to run away from him because when he gets stressed he goes to the bottle and that's the worst.. Even if when he hits me I fight back it's still not the ideal situation for me to live in because I have to think about my mental health and well being.. And right now I feel like I have been taking too much crap and I want out.. I love my apartment and I wished I could stay in it until I'm finished with college but I can't even study about that now because I am feeling like living in this apartment with him may be the end of me.. I get so frightened when I think about the future because of his drinking.. He doesn't do it regular but when he does he's a completely different person.. He disrespects me and he hits me.. Without the alcohol he's near perfect.. So good for me and to me it's scary... But the moment he drinks.. I realise that I can't be with him.. He told me once that I can't stop him from drinking.. But I can leave him.. And I believe I will..
When he found out that she over rode his answer when she asked him if he could pick up his son, he started to drink from the moment he realised his son was coming and I kept asking myself why was he drinking and he knows it was our last day to spend together.. Like why would you want to spoil that..? But it's only after when he confessed what she did to him on the video call that I realised what he was saying all the time was true.. That if she over rode his decision to wait and still sent him it meant she had other plans.. I understood but I couldn't understand why he would take it out on me 😭😭😭 we were so happy prior to that.. I still can't understand it and I want to run away from him because I think it's spiritual what's going on and I can't fight in this state... I really can't.. I feel so weak