I’m retiring & turning 65 this year, excellent health, got over 5 million, no debt & I only have one step child, I can’t imagine counting on any child in old age. I see total freedom & magic ahead!
Yes, the world has changed. Filial piety only exists in Chinese historical dramas. Do not rely on your children in old age. Hold on to your assets and don't give them away. Your assets are your insurance in old age.
These are the realities of life for Senior Citizens. Sad but true. Being strong willed and independent no matter what your circumstance is, gives you peace n stability. Make your will, but hold on firmly to your assets till you breathe your last! Leave no reason to regret n be sad! Live in the NOW and enjoy each moment of each new day, with Gratitude and Thanksgiving to THE BLESSED HOLY TRINITY, GOD ALMIGHTY, our Heavenly Father, JESUS CHRIST, The only Son of God and THE BLESSED HOLY SPIRIT, the Comforter and Guide who provides, protects and watches over you as HE has promised OVER AND OVER AGAIN in HIS HOLY WORD, The BIBLE. You will never feel lonely because God Promised that ‘HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU TELL THE END OF THE AGE’. (Hebrews 13:5) “ Let your manner of life be without covetousness, and be content with such things as ye have; FOR HE HATH SAID, I WILL NEVER LEAVE THEE, NOR FORSAKE THEE.” Hallelujah, Amen This is my humble opinion 👑✝️🔥🕊️🛐💞☮️
Exactly, I have a friend who gave everything to his kids, but when it came time to divide his estate among them, they immediately sent him to a nursing home alone after they got their share.
Honestly we have dragged our children in meaningless race 25:00 of carrier for more and more to acquire success. High comipetition creat High pressure. High instability High work load causes health issues. Satisfaction, peace has no meaning. Thus our children are in rat race.Totally lost within themselves. They have no time time for their family. Even they don't spaire time for themselves. Then how can parents expect help or support from them. We have encouraged them to adopt such type of life style. They are not responsible for our condition You should be in present time. Time is such a strong factor, every thing is fastly changing so if possible support them financially provided no expectations. If you are not financially sound then you manage your self. Above stories are lesson to us we must be independent. And don't forget our children are not guilty. They have there own problems. Their priority is different. So live independent. Don't invest in grand children. I am also 66 and living independent with my wife. Don't think of future. Future has its own plan for you.
Of course, I did. As an older Chinese person, I practise filial piety. However, I am witnessing the world change to a sorrowful state. Therefore, I don't expect my children to be filial to me, especially here in the West.
Elderly people should join a community, like a church, and make friends. That's how one deals with loneliness in old age. Children can't be trusted to help their parents always because they have a stressful life.
Excellent video as usual. Depending on children in your old age could be the biggest mistake of your lifetime. Get a pet as they are wonderful. Video 9.
In our religion teaching, it is a compulsory for children to love their parents till the end of life, paradise is under their feet. Children are appropriately repay their parents kindness given when they were small. So, we like living together with our old parents. They feel safe and secure living under their childrens' affection, while waiting for God's calling.
I am 63 years old, living alone, my story is different, I do online selling to send my granddaughter to college. After dropping off orders i treat myself eating in a restaurant. go to sing along in a mall. but i must be careful with whom mengle with, sometimes to protect myself i need to change the expression of my face to tiger look to avoid someone trying to approach me. I meet different people. Some nice, some rude.
Such is life. Never give your children all your money. Keep it and live a good life. After your death, the children will, nevertheless, inherit from you.
Comment: 9 means agreed to what you had posted. It’s all REALITY now a days. Like my mom & dad they look after 17 grandchildrens but when my mom turned 93 two of her daughters said none of them can take care of her.😢😢😢
I am 66 years old with few millions to my Retirement alone, a Bachelor with one adopted son. I did gave him a million for his Business and the remainings for my old age...hope and prayed that it is enough for me in old age times alone without my son and his wife...I'd planned to live alone without them but they are always welcome to visit me...but no asking for money only when I am in my grave then all go to my son and some for Charities...Don't you all agreed in my this Wise Arrangements...Amen🙏🏽🌷🕊️🍃
Beautiful story. We have one life to live to enjoy, focus on ourselves first, and expect things to no one.
I’m retiring & turning 65 this year, excellent health, got over 5 million, no debt & I only have one step child, I can’t imagine counting on any child in old age. I see total freedom & magic ahead!
wat did you do for a living
Yes it's true prepare for the future never relie on other even your children❤❤❤
Yes, the world has changed. Filial piety only exists in Chinese historical dramas. Do not rely on your children in old age. Hold on to your assets and don't give them away. Your assets are your insurance in old age.
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These are the realities of life for Senior Citizens. Sad but true. Being strong willed and independent no matter what your circumstance is, gives you peace n stability.
Make your will, but hold on firmly to your assets till you breathe your last! Leave no reason to regret n be sad!
Live in the NOW and enjoy each moment of each new day, with Gratitude and Thanksgiving to THE BLESSED HOLY TRINITY, GOD ALMIGHTY, our Heavenly Father, JESUS CHRIST, The only Son of God and THE BLESSED HOLY SPIRIT, the Comforter and Guide who provides, protects and watches over you as HE has promised OVER AND OVER AGAIN in HIS HOLY WORD, The BIBLE. You will never feel lonely because God Promised that ‘HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU TELL THE END OF THE AGE’. (Hebrews 13:5) “ Let your manner of life be without covetousness, and be content with such things as ye have; FOR HE HATH SAID, I WILL NEVER LEAVE THEE, NOR FORSAKE THEE.”
Hallelujah, Amen
This is my humble opinion 👑✝️🔥🕊️🛐💞☮️
9 this is reality .
Thanks for the insights about old age
Agreed.
Pls, continue sharing, principles...in a way that manifest...in an example like this.😊
Thank you.
Só true .
Eye opener,i really appreciate your counsel
Exactly, I have a friend who gave everything to his kids, but when it came time to divide his estate among them, they immediately sent him to a nursing home alone after they got their share.
Hello, I'm 80 (I feel 47) and still live alone! I prefer it that way!
I agree, I’m 73 and quite happy on my own I wouldn’t change it.
I’m grateful.
Thank you very much for this information. I rate the information 9
I love your channel. Sad but sooo true😢😊
Honestly we have dragged our children in meaningless race 25:00 of carrier for more and more to acquire success. High comipetition creat High pressure. High instability High work load causes health issues. Satisfaction, peace has no meaning. Thus our children are in rat race.Totally lost within themselves. They have no time time for their family. Even they don't spaire time for themselves. Then how can parents expect help or support from them. We have encouraged them to adopt such type of life style. They are not responsible for our condition You should be in present time. Time is such a strong factor, every thing is fastly changing so if possible support them financially provided no expectations. If you are not financially sound then you manage your self. Above stories are lesson to us we must be independent. And don't forget our children are not guilty. They have there own problems. Their priority is different. So live independent. Don't invest in grand children. I am also 66 and living independent with my wife. Don't think of future. Future has its own plan for you.
Very true.
Thanks
Thank for huge lessons
So truthful .!!!
As parents you expected your children to call you often, but did you call your parents often when your parents had retired?
Yeees I did❤
Of course, I did. As an older Chinese person, I practise filial piety. However, I am witnessing the world change to a sorrowful state. Therefore, I don't expect my children to be filial to me, especially here in the West.
Elderly people should join a community, like a church, and make friends. That's how one deals with loneliness in old age. Children can't be trusted to help their parents always because they have a stressful life.
also, a church is a better place to meet people than anyother place I can think of, even better than the workplace!
Very inspiring
Excellent video as usual. Depending on children in your old age could be the biggest mistake of your lifetime. Get a pet as they are wonderful. Video 9.
It's better to be rich in old age without children than be poor with children. Raise a dog or cat instead. They are forever loyal and loving.
In our religion teaching, it is a compulsory for children to love their parents till the end of life, paradise is under their feet. Children are appropriately repay their parents kindness given when they were small. So, we like living together with our old parents. They feel safe and secure living under their childrens' affection, while waiting for God's calling.
I am 63 years old, living alone, my story is different, I do online selling to send my granddaughter to college. After dropping off orders i treat myself eating in a restaurant. go to sing along in a mall. but i must be careful with whom mengle with, sometimes to protect myself i need to change the expression of my face to tiger look to avoid someone trying to approach me. I meet different people. Some nice, some rude.
It never interred my mind to rely on my offspring. I don’t quite understand why anyone would think that.
Lesson for the young, STAY CHILDLESS!
Raise a dog or cat instead. They are forever loving and loyal.
Money don’t make children ,sometimes we have nothing when we have children but we survive,survival is the key❤
Great idea and wisdom having with this content info..thnks
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
Thank you for the information.
9 very good, Thank you
Such is life. Never give your children all your money. Keep it and live a good life. After your death, the children will, nevertheless, inherit from you.
Comment: 9 means agreed to what you had posted. It’s all REALITY now a days. Like my mom & dad they look after 17 grandchildrens but when my mom turned 93 two of her daughters said none of them can take care of her.😢😢😢
Oh wow sad
Que sera sera. Future not ours to see. What ever will be will be
I am 66 years old with few millions to my Retirement alone, a Bachelor with one adopted son. I did gave him a million for his Business and the remainings for my old age...hope and prayed that it is enough for me in old age times alone without my son and his wife...I'd planned to live alone without them but they are always welcome to visit me...but no asking for money only when I am in my grave then all go to my son and some for Charities...Don't you all agreed in my this Wise Arrangements...Amen🙏🏽🌷🕊️🍃
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I don't see any reason for so many sacrifices for those little monsters!!
Dogs and cats are forever loving and loyal
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