the reality show only i remember
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How are you 23 hours early?
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Unrelated but did you sew your top? Because I just bought that exact fabric to make a blouse also love ur top btw!
I want to buy CJ a beer. Shutting down micro-aggressions, calling out producer riggery AND scoffing at beauty being calculable followed by voicing his disgust at the plastic surgery business? In the 2000s? What a guy. Hope he's doing well.
Beauty is in the eye of Tyra Banks describes most of the shows that she hosts
I just kinda wanna point out that there was a little racist moment regarding the "boy" comment, there's a history (dating back to Jim Crow) of southerners using that term against fully grown black men. Depending on the context, such as this one, it can be considered a racial epithet akin to the n-word or other ethnic slurs.
Yeah that definitely seemed really charged...
see, it felt weird to me but i did not know that historical context! good to know, thanks
I was 26 and had never heard of that usage when i called a Black coworker “boy” in the same way i called female coworkers “girl”. He knew i wasn’t being racist, explained why it wasn’t okay, and i learned.
So i don’t *assume* the one guy meant it in a racist way, but it’s definitely something to take notice of and see if his other behavior supports the racist meaning of the term.
Wow I didn’t know that. Thank you for making this comment to explain the historical context behind the “boy” comment.
@@alisaurus4224 based on the way he put on that accent and then changed that word but still said family im pretty sure it was intentional
watching early reality tv really makes you realize the microaggressions and baby racism towards minorities. Like of course a 6'3 black man is not going to touch or comfort a crying little white girl, a man, in general, would be hesitant to do that
That’s why it’s hard for me to watch shows like this cause every time without fail, some racist shit goes down.
Not to mention that they failed a black woman because she was uncomfortable being approached by a large white man who says "anything can happen in Vegas." JFC if that wasn't staged it probably traumatized her
I completely agree
Yeah, and when the other dude called him 'boy'? Yikes
There’s also the fact that beauty standards are notoriously Eurocentric.
That guy shattered that woman's whole world when he made her consider that beauty wasn't scientific or objective
Maybe she meant biologically (very basic example: men with bigger backs are considered more attractive because of evolution), but even then it doesn't completely apply. What we find naturally beautiful still is very subjected to personal taste
@@PumaArg and very subjected to which decade year etc
@@PumaArg biologically that's still subjective... beauty is literally always subjective. there's no way around it because human brains are far too varied to have any massive ideologies that everyone will accept at any given point. people don't even all THINK the same way. For example, some people can actually visualize whatever they're thinking about, even if that thing is abstract. Other people literally can't see images in their head. They just... think. And that's hard for people who feel colors to understand. The only thing objective about human sexuality is that it's all subjective.
@@PumaArg no? beauty literally i something cultural, for YOU and YOUR culture men with bigger backs may seem more attractive, but i can assure you that other cultures find other traits a lot more attractive...
@@PumaArg it's funny you say this because the media characters that become internet boyfriends are almost always skinny. Timothy Chalamet, Benedict Cumberbatch, Dylan o Brian, Harry Styles, none of them have broad backs. The things considered more attractive to men are not what women statistically want. Kind like how more women prefer dad-bods to muscles.
are we all going to just ignore the absolute cinematic mastery of that cameo or what
The people who refused to hug the man were even very polite about it. If a stranger, much bigger than me, tried to touch me I would PUSH THEM
Like CJ was completely right, even if there is a “science” to beauty it’s a socially influenced one based on what society considers beautiful. It’s really weird watching the all white hosts call the only black contestant argumentative too
love the acknowledgment of identity and safety when it comes to doing "good" deeds. As a single woman, I'd be pretty scared being approached by a tall, guy way stronger than me who is talking in a weird way and invading my personal space. I also think the show doesn't really differentiate between "niceness" and "goodness." A lot of the smaller tasks like taking a photo for a stranger are "nice" and "polite," but don't automatically make you a good person. They tell me nothing about someone's kindness or moral fiber, because moral fiber doesn't make for solid tv.
yes!! And just generally how outgoing and social someone is. Like no I don't want to make small talk with a creepy stranger how does that make me a bad person
@@emilykate0835 exactly!
exactly. before julia explained the bit about the "sweaty old man" i was already feeling anxious for the woman who had to be "nice" to him to get a pass
Very well put!
the whole "sweaty man thing" is so weird, if I see a random old person try to talk to me-- IM GONNA BE SCARED 😭😭😭
Ooof, that “boy” moment is fucked. He even put the cartoon southern accent on it. He also specifically knew that out of “boy” and “family” which CJ both complained about which one he needed to change first.
Good point! I'm from the South and know not to use that word to refer to Black men, but I like to give others the benefit of the doubt, but seeing you point this out tells me it probably wasnt a mistake.
The Southerny accent on "boy" was noticeable & caused a reflexive cringe on hearing it, but I would not have picked up on how quickly he changed his statement to just replace "boy" to be less pointedly offensive. That's a hell of an observation to pick up on to really lay out the racism that guy was leaning hard into.
Also crazy that the black guy was painted as the show's "chaotic" or even "villainous" role there - at least today would have the benefit of social media to immediately correct a producer-engineered narrative like that.
True Beauty: people are only truly beautiful if they're also beautiful inside
Also True Beauty: PhySIcAL ATtraCtIVnEsS iS sCIenTifIc
Yeahhh that “boy” comment made me flinch. Why is nobody discussing how blatantly racist and unfair CJ’s experience was. Like there’s so much to unpack.
"those are not her jeans, I mean I usually buy a 25 but this time specifically I brought a 27" girl what?
This is her way of 'denying' they were the other contestant's jeans while still pointing out she's skinnier than her lol
as soon as that girl said “if she’s gonna fight that hard for a pair of jeans she can have them” I was 100% sure they were not her jeans
never watched this show but we stan CJ his comment in episode one should’ve like instantaneously made him the winner lmao
Jenny Nicholson, Sarah Z, and Julia Cudney are the holy trinity of RUclipsrs resurrecting lost internet pop culture and I am HERE for it!
You should check out izzzyzzz she also makes internet culture videos!
and mila tequila! she does 2000s pop/internet culture! :-)
excatly! i can watch 2 hour long videos from them on any subject and i know i'll be entertained
Also strange aeons, shanspeare, khadija mbowe, anordinarydream, tee noir, starpuppy, unicorn of war and lots more!!
@@princessmanitari4993 I haven't watched most of those people, will have to check them out. Love this pop culture history/anthropology genre!
those hair streaks are really pretty they suit you a lot
I would LOVE to see the judges and host let that sweaty random guy give them hugs after hearing him say, "Anything happens in Vegas... 👀"
That test was WAY out of line imo. No woman (or man lbr) would feel comfortable in that scenario.
Also why would you approach a crying little girl on the street, who you don't know and who doesn't know you??? It's called "stranger danger" for a reason. Call the authorities or something. I mean if the kid was hurt in some way sure, approach them to help, but otherwise you might just end up scaring them more cuz you're a stranger.
let’s talk about the elephant in the room that this show is extremely biased on a racial basis. both outer beauty wise and inner beauty wise. their moral dilemmas are social interactions and minorities obviously have to be more wary of certain interactions.
You can tell she used ALL of her good place vocabulary for this
That cameo, _how_
Teach us your secrets Julia, teach us
i literally just asked him to say "all julias are truly beautiful" and the rest was all him haha
@@juliacudney i'm a melina julia so yay!
The Cameo video was Incredible
julia, you’re glowing in this vid🤩
@TUM um what? 😂😂
That's what I thought in literally the first couple seconds of the video! She looks absolutely beautiful 🙌
YOU REALLY ORDERED A CAMEO FOR THIS VIDEO I CAN'T-
JULIA YOU DID NOT GET HIM ON CAMEO, I SIMPLY CANNOT
as someone who hates interacting with strangers, I would have been eliminated from this show so fast
20 seconds in and I just had to say I switched from watching on my tv to my phone so I can comment how good you look
Them thangs thangin. Respectfully ofc☺️
wait that makes it an even more flattering compliment thanks
Cleanest sponsorship transition I’ve ever seen.
Gosh, 2000s and 2010s reality show were on a whole other level, as much as they were abusive to its casts, they were infamously iconic
Being unaware of my surroundings is basically how I self-actualize.
Not to mention some lady in a lift is literally not my business like i have a place to be and she does too why do i have to be staring at her
I am autistic and I would, by their metrics, fail a lot of the "moral dilemmas" by nature of. Not knowing how to talk to people or read social cues.
Omg I’m also autistic! I would NEVER be able to hug a stranger or confront an irresponsible pregnant lady
Also autistic and even my non autistic partner wouldn't hug a stranger
Oh gosh, reality TV from early 2000s to early 2010s... weird, crazy, and yet better then the crappy reality TV on today - with exceptions of teen mom and crap like that lol 😂
Does anyone remember Beauty and the Geek? That’s the early 2000s low budget reality show that raised me 😩
I remember it. I still cant get over that pair where the guy was really nice, but the girl was clearly not stupid, but very smart and manipulative
@@Ottolineification Nate and Cece? Im like 99% sure they were actors. still tv gold
omg yes! that show was extremely fake tho lol, I know someone who auditioned but refused when they told him to shave his beard to look geeky lmao
Lmao omg why did I watch that so much... My mum hated it when I would put on American trash TV, she did not get the allure at all 😆
I adored that show! My brother once said he wanted to apply purely to do a geeky nude calendar...
i had no idea what show you were talking about until you showed the jeans freakout moment and then i had a brainblast moment of me watching this show when i was a kid and my mother disapproving of me omg
i specifically remember a scene in the second season where i think craig?or billy? (he was in the finale line up with two others) was allowing girls to do body shots off of his belly button??)
Incredible cameo
Also what a slam-dunk way to sign off
I didn’t even know this show existed before now but I am angry on CJ’s behalf
Anne Shirley approves of those sleeves☕
Marilla Cuthbert on the other hand thinks it’s a waste of fabric.
Matthew on the other hand will buy you a puffed sleeved dress.😊
Someone show me the fan video of Julia's hair because I can't get enough of it every time.
These shows have always made me so paranoid. I'm already pretty shy so people approaching me out of nowhere, or the idea of confronting people makes me pretty uncomfortable. Once on holiday a lady asked me to take a photo of her, but when I had trouble with her camera and asked her to show me how she just yanked it away and stormed off. The early 00s seemed to constantly drill into us that there was one right way to react and one wrong way, which would make you a bad person but in reality there's so many different aspects to consider that you really can't judge people on these fake scenarios
Plot twist: the real moral dilemma was actually the show itself. Which only the most perceptive people could see through. You cracked the code.
babe wake up new julia just dropped
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I am absolutely living for this Wuthering Heights look you’re sporting
Julia I would LOVE to hear you talk about Survivor. Not sure if you're a fan or just mentioned it for this video but it truly is amazing reality tv.
Omg that show introduced me to reality shows
you seriously look ethereal in this video
Not gonna lie when I saw true beauty I thought of the Korean manhwa turned k-drama
I've been reading it since it first came out so it is very much so ingrained in my brain
Please do the new gossip girl when it comes out
kinda feels like this video was made SPECIFICALLY with me in mind... obscure and often forgotten reality shows are my jam!!
Oh my gosh…. Daisy is so cute 🥺💕♥️♥️♥️ I bet she gives the best cuddles. Sorry sbxhsjf I love dogs. Love this video, the whole “lost reality shows” topic is one I really enjoy! Jenny Nicholson also has hilarious stuff on a ghost hunting show as well as a reality show about “cave people” and “future people”.
How good would a Jenny and Julia collab be 😍😍
@@Kyrridwen420 omg soooooo good. Love them both :D
Nice shout out to Unreal. Pretty solid show. Plus looking up The Bachelor's history, UnReal itself is pretty damning
The way I thought "I don't know how to end videos" was the preamble for a conclusion. Well played, Julia. Well played.
I feel like i'm the only one that remembers Bridalplasty 😂. Awesome video Julia! 💓
im sorry but the editing on this video was honestly amazing, actually laughed out loud multiple times
can’t handle the fact that they used the same dramatic sound effects as kitchen nightmares xx
This entire show is just combination of “Are You Hot?” and “The Surreal Life.”
I used to love What Would You Do! I was obsessed with it in middle school haha.
Same and I don’t know why!!! That show did things to my anxiety..
The jeans thing is so weird. It makes me wonder if the people running the show had somebody steal or move a contestant's jeans any time they needed more conflict.
24:11 Being aware of your surroundings could also be interpreted as being nosy. Sometimes it’s better ethically to mind your own business and let other people make their own choices.
Julia looks like the Bridgerton princess we actually deserved
I wanted to watch this but I wasn’t allowed because Vanessa Lachey was in it and my older sisters hated her for “what she did to Jessica Simpson” which is funny to think about now but thank you for making this, I can live vicariously about watching it through your hilarity ❤️
You just keep giving us content, thank you🙏🏾
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25:00 As someone who gets anxiety from being hugged, this stranger is invading their personal space and being inappropriate.
you seriously need at least a million followers. all your videos are consistently great.
"Where Were They Then?" is an analytical framework that we need to be using way more often.
The queen hath returned
And to drag Tyra Banks no less
bruh....this has unlocked a core memory, i cant believe i remember the protein shake guy
Sending a message that a person should be polite to other person even though he/she is not comfortable with it, or has a bad feeling about it is VERY dangerous. If I was approached by that man with a sentence "everything can happen in Vegas" - like what??
I always appreciate youtubers doing their sponsor in a different set so I know when to stop skipping
I’m feel vindicated knowing I didn’t hallucinate this show
“I’m freaking out” 😂 👖
i was about to comment why did they renew the show for a second season if the catch is that contestants dont know that it's about inner beauty too then i realized all reality shows are fake anyway
a new Julia video in less than a month? We're blessed today 🥰
A VISION!! Hair and makeup stunning as usual
can't BELIEVE I didn't already have notifications on I've been waiting for this!!
The ONLY moment I remember from this show is the pregnant lady one, and that challenge has haunted me for YEARS. Every so often, I just consider that moment and what the "right" thing to do would be!!
My mother constantly said it's wrong to question a parents decision what to do with their kids b/c it's none of your business, but she also raised me in an extremely abusive household so I sometimes think 'of course she'd say that, that doesn't make it moral'. But on the other hand there is some truth to it. I don't know why that woman would be smoking. What if she's a recovering drug addict and the only way she could pry herself away from drugs was smoking?
And even if an assumption that's she's just selfishly hurting her child for her own enjoyment was true, how would me confronting her change that??? Like genuinely? Me calling this woman out as being a bad person for smoking while pregnant is NOT going to change her worldview? There's no way she doesn't already know smoking is bad for her child, so even taking the charitable route of asking if she's aware what she's doing in the most polite way imaginable would be insulting???
It HAUNTS me.
unReal is the reason i don't watch reality tv lmao, i was scarred
DAISY😭😍💕 what a goofy wholesome dog omg I love herrrrr
omg the quality of this video is SO GOOD! i cant stop watching it
Oh my gracious THANK YOU!! I have been waiting for a RUclipsr to talk about this show, I used to think I was the only one who watched, I’m so glad you remembered this!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Julias reign supreme 👑
Your hair loooks BOMB so shiny and beautiful 🥺
OMG I REMEMBER THIS SHOW. I had totally forgotten all about it but those clips really brought back / unlocked some memories.
The lighter parts at the front of your hair look so cute!! Thanks for the upload, made my night :)
i loved this show so much omg
All your videos make me so happy! Thank you for making them
a new video already?! omg yay
JULIA UR GLOWING
Julia I am in awe of how good that top suits you, you really look beautiful in it !
I loved this show, I have been looking for episodes forever. this and Solitary, which is crazy
I'm already excited
YOU GOT A CAMEO LETS GO
That cameo, omg
girl you look so pretty!! great vid
you have such a charismatic way of speaking
YOU LOOK STUNNING 🤩
Girl… your hair, your shirt!!!! You are serving looks like always 🥵
love your top!
OMG THIS SHOW BROUGHT BACK SO MANY BAD MEMORIES. I was way too young to watch this show but for some unknown reason Star TV (the channel in Vietnam that specifically aired only reality shows from USA) aired this show right after I got home from school. There was this one awkward moment when my dad walked into my room right when they start playing footages of the contestants hanging out at a club. Overall it was the best introduction to "reality" show for me.
No because the cameo SENT ME