Love is a disease the same way as oxygen is. Without it, you die. With it you're able to live and expirience life. Love is not the illness. Lack of love or untrue love is❤️
I met this girl at the gym and we started talking for a few months. Soon I started to catch feelings and I found myself slowly falling in love with her. This girl was everything, after so many years of feeling lonely and feeling like I could never have what other guys and what my friends talked about, this was a breath of fresh air. But in the end I got rejected, same like all the other times I tried. I think I have a built in defense mechanism to where I can't show my affection to what I really want to show since in the past it hasn't been reciprocated to what I wanted. I truly did like this girl, but I feel like I let I slip by, again. We would have the best talks, we laughed, and we talked deep into conversations about ourselves and our goals and aspirations. At least she made my life a little better for a time. Now I struggle with the internal conflict of staying as just her friend, or leaving her. Because I know while she expects a real friend, I can't be that guy. The friendship wouldn't be real. Maybe in another universe, with a different me.
"I think I have a built in defense mechanism to where I can't show my affection to what I really want to show since in the past it hasn't been reciprocated to what I wanted." THIS
I wanted to marry that man, he knows my darkest secrets, the ugliest sides of me and fought by my side for years undyingly. Then randomly he just gave up and left. Sometimes things hurt so bad for so long the pain angers you. It angers you that someone could do that to you, that life is this unfair to you, that you did everything right and in the end it wasn't ever enough. It was never going to work from the start. It angers you so bad that you swallow it and move on with your life out of spite for how wronged you feel. But dont worry, it only gets worse from here 🙂
No man..I don't want to hear that.. please don't say it again... don't kill my imagination... There I am her king and she is my queen..and we have a large kingdom..we look out of the window every night ,we talk about our most loving thought before we go sleep,we kept our hands together.. everything just looks majestic..she is like tell me I love you thousands time in a day..and we are enjoying mannn..I am just teenager man..I have a same life that others have..so don't kill this buddy..I don't want to see him dieee...
thats what hurts me the most and i get hurt over that. one of the biggest things that i get upset about bc what we did made me feel special then if they do that with someone else it just makes u feel like u mean nothing and that youre nothing but a puppet
The unspoken apology that i never got nor deserved. This is what fuels me to be better. Im in the gym and doing all these cool things with my life yet i feel so attached to one girl who left me. I hope any of yall dont have to go through this alone we in this together fr
True that. in a world with so much hate, we got each others backs lmk if you need to talk my dude you’ll get through this and become the best version of you anyone’s ever seen. You got this champ. We’ve all got this
@@ERIMUSPERFORMANCEUKhow have you been lately? What have you been up to? Do anything fun, go anywhere nice? Personally I've been alright. Made a new leg and bench press PR recently. Work's been okay, boring as usual. I went out to a nice restaurant a few days ago. That's pretty much it
@@es-rh8oo I’m doing okay thank you mate, I’m just getting some work done on my car and hopefully it’ll be on the road in a few months. I’m off for December but as soon as January hits I’ll be out working again I’m glad to hear you’re doing good, what restaurant did you go to? (More importantly what’d you get???) Ps. What’d you do for work if you don’t mind me asking?
These comment sections full of random strangers w different heartbreaking stories and stuff is the most realest thing I find on social media. Hope u all having a good time
This is quite literally the most gut wrenching thing I could find given recent events, everything that was said was basically what she told me before she left, I've never recoiled at hearing words so fast like the start of this
I dated this girl for 3 moths last summer. We hit it off texting and calling for a month before she moved back to my state, and then when we got to meet we clicked really well. She had a magical energy, and I can't express how much nearly every moment we spent filled me with wonder and excitement for the future. But then she had to break it off, she told me that with her severe anxiety together with not really knowing how to communicate with me when she was having problems. I don't think I was very attentive to the needs she had, but she told me it was her and she just needed to work on herself and that while what we had was amazing it just wasn't the right time for her. We kept in touch, and around New Years she reached out and wanted to see me again, just get dinner and catch up. Maybe talk about getting back together, too. I was thrilled, and on New Years Day I was gonna pick her up and take her out for the night. 20 minutes before I was leaving she texted me she couldn't do it, and cancelled the plans. It broke my heart again. While no matter what it's over for good I'm glad that we had what we did have, as short as it was. I've had a few girlfriends but that one was very special, and I hope she finds the right person when she's ready.
That ain't bad man, I'd rather have a girl break up for a reason like that then a chick cheat or just end up wasting your time/leading you on. Just wasn't the right time man, that's okay.
That sounds like b.s. when women say that they're only sparing your feelings, they don't want to just come out and tell you they found someone else or think they can do better🙄
For four years i truly gave her everything i was, the last time we fought, she told me i wasnt worth being believed in or loved. Its been 6 months since that, everyday im at the gym, everyday that i look in the mirror, everyday someone tries talking to me, i remember those words, you are not worth being loved or believed in. She left, shes enjoying her life, i feel like my life is on autopilot, i catch myself crying in my car, at the gym, just randomly tearing up. I will never love again man.
I feel you man, I’ve never had a girl show any interest in me. One day a friend told me that no girls wanted to date me, I felt exactly how you did, keep moving forward dude, good times are ahead
Listen man, I don’t know you but I know you’re deserving of being loved and believed in. That girl didn’t deserve you and she said what she said only out of spite and to fuck with you. Don’t let her drag you down and don’t let her win. I know it’s hard right now but just keep doing what you love and one day you will find someone that you can love and that loves you back. Like I said, I don’t know you, your name or where you live but I believe in you and I love you, brother.
i dont know man, i can relate with that last sentence so much bruh, i jus dont think ill ever be able to talk to another girl, almost like a curse that can never be broken, because no matter what happens its hard to forget the memories you had with that one certain person and its like completly impossible to even talk to other girls, i hope the curse breaks bro
Just had a talk with this girl I have been seeing for a month, after trying my absolute hardest in every text, conversation, and moment we shared she tells me today that she cant be with me because she was getting "too attached". This woman was strong willed, caring, funny, beautiful, and smart. It seems that even when I do everything right, I still get it wrong.
Yo man I’m just a kid but you are going to make it. In times like this you gotta be strong. I do not know the specifics of your situation. But let time do its thing. Don’t do rash decisions because of your emotions. Just chill and try to feel everything that you are feeling. Maybe you are frustrated or sad or even a bit mad or you don’t really know why. If you have friends or even your family then talk to them. They don’t need to give you solutions. You need someone close to you to talk to. You need to get everything out. Don’t hold it in just because some people say that men shouldn’t be too emotional. Of course you should not go overboard. Just try to accept the feelings you are feeling. At the end of the day you have your dreams your passion and your own stuff. It’s hard but maybe you can talk to her again and try to get a better view from her perspective. 4 months ago I lost my girlfriend that I was together with for almost 2 years. I know I’m still young but it just somehow happened. I wasn’t a good boyfriend. I was one of the guys that were scaredy-cat fully commit to a girl because of the fear of missing out. I thought that my youth was to used to explore and date all kinds of women. But now that I have lost her I really feel so stupid for not showing her the love she deserved. She was so kind and showed me her love. It’s not like we didn’t have good moments but sometimes I asked myself if I really loved her because it was my first ever relationship. Now I have changed because of her. It was just randomly after the summer break and she broke up through Text but it’s fine. I have talked to my friends and they have really helped me. I tried to talk with herabsinken and tell Herthas I want to start again with her. Because I knew that I would be better. Because I know knew that I really loved her. I miss the cuddling and he little stuff. I had a talk with her and she said that she sometimes misses the relationship too. She is btw in my class so sometimes She even tho she broke up grabbed my arm to seek closure and all. That talk we had was in October tho so I don’t know if she still feels the same. But this Friday I’m going to talk to her to clear things up for myself because last week we had a really close Moment and then this week she is now very touchy with another guy in class. She has become more touchy with other guys in general. She just often says one thing then does the other. So in conclusion just let time do its thing. Do your own thing. And then maybe if the time and the vibe is right. Have a chat with her about it if you still feel like you need it to better understand her. And don’t think that you are the problem. Don’t let this affect you too much. You gotta remind yourself that you deserve good things. Maybe if she needs it give her space. I hope you guys talk it out and can be together. No need to rush things. Can’t rush or force love. But you can try real hard and in the end if she stills says no then you knew you tried everything. And yea I hope you make it bye
@@lostie4683brother I wanna give you and the other guy a hug :( we're gonna be okay. This journey is tough but we're gonna make it, I know we will, we have to
Don't blame yourself. If she is being honest and she doesn't want a relationship because she is getting “too attached” it's probably because she was hurt in the past and didn't have the time to fully heal from her trauma. Nothing to do with you personally.
It’s not that you’re best isn’t enough, it’s that she simply didn’t appreciate you. I have a saying You can cast a broad net and possibly catch many fish, but if you cast a line with the right bait, in time you will catch what you truly want.
you are not alone about that man. i created to be alone. i am invisible at society. i tried so many times, i tried everthing but i surrender now. i dont have anything. i am just waiting. my death.
Bro i've been working out for so long, i recently met this new girl at my gym and things going well so far. but deep inside i know this might either be good or another character development
Im sorry to say this but 99% of woman will make you suffer, I hope it goes good, but dont be suprised, I recently went through hell, through the darkest path of my Life. Life with her was bright but hopeful she abandonded me and hurt me intentionally, things arent the same anymore...
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone." "I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy. Because they know what it's like to feel absolutely worthless and they don't want anybody else to feel like that." ~Robin Williams
The second paragraph a lot. I gave my friend a call after i felt so down feeling so lonely friends didntgive me a call since highschool for 5 months. He was in a darker place and had very dark thoughts. Im glad i gave the call before things became permanent.
One day in football practice I realized to myself, I’m not who I am anymore. I just don’t show happiness that much anymore. I’m always bad or average at everything I truly do. I hate being trash and not doing anything for my team, all I do is make mistakes on the field and sell the team. I remember we were tied 14-14 and I let up a touchdown after letting up a double move. Broke my heart into pieces, felt like I couldn’t breathe. I js wanted to sit down and cry at that moment and I still don’t know why I’m so terrible and everything. I work and work but I guess it won’t be enough. I’m just a young kid with big dreams but low happiness.
Continue grinding man, to have the highs you need to have the lows. Everyone has their lows from time to time, you're at one right now, but no worries brother it'll get better just don't give up ever man. Don't forget about what I said now when you get famous, keep grinding brother, put your head down and grind. Don't give a shitt what others think. It'll all work out.
Bro i truly feel you, just KEEP GOING, ive been there too and believe me it doesnt matter if you are bad, if you GRIND and spend a lot of time on what you like in the end you will end a fucking beast. Just dont give up and dont let those feelings won over you. Wish you the best 👑👑
Everything will be okay. Keep moving forward, you’re still young there’s a lot of time ahead of you. If you really want to excel at the sport then outwork everyone around you. Failure is the stepping stone by which you will find your greater self. Godspeed.
i listened to this while working out after i broke up with a girl that wanted me first. i was still healing from another person and i decided to give this girl a chance and it was going great she really seemed like she was into me and my friends said the same thing but one day she decided to end things out of nowhere i felt used i felt like no matter what i did i was never good enough but now i’m trying to get back on my two feet and leave it in the past.
I've never been in a relationship, I am extremely afraid of rejection, but if I were to somehow be in a relationship by a divine miracle this is pretty much what the final result would look like
bro don't love girls , they just going to break ur heart , but if u want to feel what i'm saying , go on , and u will regret idk , ma girl just left me after 8 yr of dating , i kept asking her if she's going to leave me , and she always said no , but that day is today , and i'm alone , i feel bad , i feel so bad so bad so baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad , sorry i was just letting go of my feeling , anyway , don't bro , cya :)
@@salahsalouaniwell tbh it’s cringe and weird if you keep asking your girlfriend if she’s going to leave you, it makes you sound pathetic and like a small child not wanting to be left alone. That’s partly on you my man.
This video is about a relationship, but for myself, I have never had one. Not once in my entire life. I'm 21 now, and the days just all seem the same. When I wake up, and do my daily things, go to work, or whatever, bedtime comes before I know it. And when I come home to an empty apartment, it is desolate, and it feels like my day never even began. It feels like the days pass by just by blinking. A month has gone by like this, but my mind doesn't register it. I am so emotionally drained that I don't feel like a human, and I wonder how long I can keep this up.
You should try adding some small things into your routine. If you feel like your life is on autopilot and nothing's really amounting to anything, it means that you're stuck in a state of numbness. If you want to be able to start getting better, try doing some small things apparently that you can add in like working out the gym or trying to take long walks hell even going to a favorite restaurant or community events can be ateast something different. Necer hurts to try subtle changes to add some flavor to the day.
She told me I was too good for her and that she’d never feel like enough for me. Whether it was her way of letting me down easy or a genuine warning for what our future would’ve been, who knows. I don’t think that part matters in the big picture, we couldn’t be together either way and if I truly did love and care for her I had to respect her feelings. I did, we haven’t talked in years and I still see her name pop up from time to time whenever I end up on instagram or Twitter since we’re still mutuals on those sites. I haven’t had the guts or heart to try reaching out to her again, don’t know if I ever will. Some things just aren’t meant to be, and I think sometimes loving people from afar or letting people leave your life for their comfort is sometimes necessary in order to move on and develop more as a person. Moving on never gets easier, we just get better at dealing with it
I’m no cupid, but I think you should reach out to her. A girl told me the same thing once(being too good for her), and I think she means she didn’t wanna dissappoint me, I wouldn’t deserve being hurt. And why would she hurt me? Because she doesn’t feel ready to be in a relationship, doesn’t feel like she’s good enough to be a good partner yet. But I think if a girl says that, you should exactly push forward and convince her you’re the guy. Girls wanna live in fairytales. They’d rather have things happen to them. So what she means is that basically she’s shocked she found a guy she would wanna be partners with. But if you’re asking her for approval to be her guy - you won’t get the approval. Its manly for a man to be the one that decides. She’s waiting for you to decide. Being too good for her is a way for her to say: idk, do you really like me? A weird girl like me? You decide! At least that’s my experience, a girl told me the same thing, and I just kept her in the friendzone, because i wasnt sure she really liked me. Months went by, she found some handsome dude, but dumped him in the end and came back to me saying nothing would compare to me. She was just waiting for me to make the move all this time.
Honestly i feel the person talking. Ive never really lost feelings for people until we were already done...sometimes we lose feelings for someone, not always because theres someone better, we just feel so drained. Relationships are hard and take a lot of commitment. It starts to feel like a chore to keep showing ur affection. To all the guys who lost them, take some time off and reflect. Treat yourself and spend some time alone. Its okay to mourn that loss love.
That just irritates my soul. The audacity to leave and still say they want the best for you, and that they still love you. What about the times when i wanted to leave early on, before we fell in love , before all the promises, before we shared those years together and got engaged.
@@OptimisticNihilist1244 How do you know there is such a thing as afterlife? There is no "beforelife", so why should we think life continues? It began with your brain developing to a state of conciousness and it'll end with your brain. I just hope my conciousness doesn't end before my brain like with dementia.
I spent three years with a guy, getting to know him. He knows all my insecurities, and the things I've never shown or told anybody else. He was my first kiss, my first cuddle, and my first date. All for him to go and date someone else two weeks after he told me that I would be his girlfriend
@@yidmutlulosing all hope is freedom. when you try to hope about something that's sheer luck, it runs away from you. the best way is to attract not chase and most importantly keeping the doors open for opportunities and entering action with boldness.
@@YourAverageRUclipsCommentorits been 4 months since you wrote this valuable comment dude. you are totally right. we all have to leave it all. let everything go and stop tryning to control the things we wont be able to change. not because you did something wrong. just let it go. I hope you ok as well man. stay strong. we have to stay strong.
Anyone else get thw feeling that no matter what you do no matter what you say everything always gets messed up in the end so you push yourself away knowing that whoever gets close could get hurt
I imagine this is what happened to us as well. I met the girl I truly loved on the 29th august 2023 at our university freshman camp. We confessed our mutual love on the last night. All went great for 3 and a half months, we study the same major so we saw each other on almost all of our classes. Spent almost all weekends at either my or her place, went to places in the city where we go to uni, we truly loved each other. A few weeks ago her only grandma passed away on the 29th of november and since then her attitude to everything changed. Less than a week later she wanted to talk to me, where she told me she felt like something broke inside of her and lost the ability to love. I wanted to make her understand that grief can be hard to overcome, but never lasts forever and that I'm patient and can give her all the time she needs. I even said that I'll stay next to her in everything and help her get through all this and one day we'll laugh at this together, that how bad it could've been, but she refused. She left me there without explanation. The worst thing is, after 3 and a half months of giving her nothing but affection, understanding, patience and love, she's been acting like I did something bad to her, and acts like a stranger to me, and I think I'll never get a clear explanation as to why she choose to end everything we built up.
id be lying if i said you'll move on, you see im 20 and never had one. at my age for some reason i dont care to have one anymore, it just seems to me that nowadays we dont matter, to them we may not. all i can say man is if you care move on, its all you can do but if everything went down with her then become the best version of yourself, prove your own doubts wrong.
Who cares lol, not saying this to be mean but bro if she didn't look for you for comfort, and just broke up. She just wasn't for you. Just understand this. This world is this simple: They either like you, or they don't. If they don't like you, Theres no way to make them like you. Nothing you can do. You are you, Don't change for anybody. They will hate regardless. Once you tried everything you could of done, Thats it. Why be sad (for a long time) If you couldn't of changed it? Don't waste years and potential new relationships dwelling. World keeps spinnin.
@@joepaddy7239We met since and discussed what went on between us in the last two weeks. Just like in this video she told me she just didn't feel the flame anymore, not because of me, but because of her. We'll be best friends though, I know, because we were before we started dating. I still miss what we did together, but I know I have to move on. Thanks man for writing your thoughts by the way, means a lot knowing that I'm not talking into empty void.
i think the exact reason why she broke up with you is this sentence " after 3 and a half months of giving her nothing but affection, understanding, patience and love" , women don't like to be overwhelmed with love , they could easily lose interest if you always show how much you love or care about them , it's yucky for them: the clinginess or the strong attachment , that's why you treat every girl like it could be replaced , and you never show them you care too much , cause if you do and if she knows that your relationship matters more to you than to her , it'll go downhill from there , be cold to chicks , give them validation but not too much , it's a really delicate balance , and if she still wants to break up then you didn't care in the first place so still a win win and you hop on to the next one , there is nothing as damaging as the mentality of a soul mate or a "special" girl , cause when she's gone (and there is always a probabilty that she'll be gone) your grief will be like no other, no matter how many enjoyable conversations you have had , no matter how much she seems to truly love you , it could all go to shit 180 degree after a day , and you aren't able to predict that , well whatever the case hope you have a good recovery my guy i know it's really hard.
met a girl through work and she went to the same high school. we talked about life and our future together but she was a senior and i was a junior at the time. we were young. idk whats wrong with me though because i never really expressed how much i really cared and loved her, i was and still am angry teen. that probably led her away from me, along with other bad influences that we called acquaintances. her and i dont talk anymore, i know it was my fault to support her while she was working for her family ultimately before she started hanging with the wrong crowd. 2 years later leads to the present, where there is another girl at my new job who is just as great as the first one, but i think ive done fumbled her as well for the same reason, because of my lack of ability to show affection, i know this new girl is going to distance herself away from me soon, if she hasnt done that already. i am just an introvert and like to think about life and many other things, i dont like to talk too much about things that dont give me happiness, i dont really smile no more either, i dont know whats wrong wit me vruh☠️
My girl kissed another guy at homecoming I couldn't go because I wasted my time for 3 weeks 7hours every class period I went to see her I kissed I hugged I gave her my jackets and my special bracelet all for her to kiss another guy some fucking beaner
2.5+ years together- I’ve known this woman for over two and a half years. It started out really casual and slowly but surely we became more than just a one time fling. That first time we met was exciting and perfect: our first date, and we hit it off. The time progression couldn’t be anymore perfect, I started to like her and then I started to love her- care for her more than anyone else. We did so many things together, and I cherished every moment. Every moment big or small- it was precious to me. We developed such a deep emotional and physical bond. But despite that, deep down we both knew the end was coming: I knew this because she kept bringing it up. And when it did- it broke my heart; all those memories came flashing before me as we called things off. It was so much that I cried hard for many days. I saw her one last time after one month since we broke it off to seek closure. We carried out the day like we were still together; however, we knew the end was coming. I said my last goodbye to her and cried again. We exchanged a few final texts and finally I cut off everything: it was hard. The person I’ve spent of most of my time with; texting every single day is now just a stranger that I have memories of. I will always love her and cherish those memories. I was able to grow as a person because of her; she changed me for the better. I will never forget you. Even now I’m with someone else I still think of you. Goodbye.
You still thinking about her? I feel you bro, i understand all that feeling. Nothing was the same after that, it doesn't care if you get a new girl, nothing will be like it was and it just sucks man. Ty for sharing your experience bro i understand it all.
The only thing Jesus loves is allowing wars and diseases in the world and watching innocent people and kids dying and not even doing anything to save them. He definitely loves us very much lmfao
It's insane how much a guy or a female can love each other and then sooner or later one of them are so done that you wake up to a text message and they say they're done with you. That's got to be the most tragic message to get, knowing you had your future planned, knowing you had goals you wanted to achieve with them, knowing this and that and it was all crushed for what? I've been through so much just with one girl, she changed my life, she made a new me, she tore me down in pieces and found ways to fix it just to make it worse, she did things others couldn't, she did so many other things I loved and kept hurting me and left me at the end for what? Left me depressed for 8 months, left me sad, left me in a moment where I got suicidal and so much more. Never get attached and take more time to figure your partner out.
Nah. Always let your heart be close, to be near. Let yourself suffer. Grow through it. Be thankful for the privilege of knowing and loving. Love deeper and deeper. Become kind. Become so strong that even blows to you mean nothing. Become love. You will be so very sad, but on the other side, if you try to make the best of it, you will be stronger. You will love more. You will be kinder. You will be more thankful.
@@FridgemaxxedHybridoreanLifta Its more like, Do your best, but understand if it didn't work, it just didn't work. Don't let it affect everything else. World isn't out to get you, You are good enough your probably more then good enough, that person just wasn't the one for you. Thats it
Love is for suckers. This world only belongs to the strong. Be ruthless, be cold, and be merciless. Treat women as a commodity not as a priority. Ironically, they will love you more because of it.
I met this girl at a party I went to, we got to know each other and then started talking for a couple months. After a while I caught feelings for her and had the encouragement to ask her out, we went on a couple dates and I fell deeper and deeper in love w her to the point where she made any other girl unattractive instantly, but after a year of dating I wanted to propose to her and I wanted to surprise her by pretending to go out for a bit and then sneaking back in after a hour, but as soon I walked in our house, I walked in on her cheating on me.
Jesus will bring you salvation after death and give you everything you deserve though it may seem like he doesn’t exist he truly does and all you need is faith to be blessed with the greatest gifts you’ll ever receive give “Jesus is the God for the weary and burdened and he shall give you rest”
Ive been crying so hard my face hurts. The deepest void I can physically feel in my chest is unbearable. I'll either eventually kill myself or ill lose my mind and challenge life until it kill me first. Whatever happens, anywhere is better than here.
You need yourself , you have to improve to the level that when you see yourself in mirror you be like , hell yeah , that's the one I need , that's the one I need to love , that's the only one that I actually need , once you achieve that level of self loving , and appreciate for what you are , your perspective will change , trust me , I've been there , once your alone and has nothing to lose , you have alot to gain and rebuild yourself to the point that you don't need to rebuild it again , it's hard for everyone , but they say , no pain no gain
If this is what she told me when she left I would’ve understood. But I had to learn this on my own. My feelings eventually died for her. If she came to me today and asked me if we could be together again, I’d say no. Eventually we all move on.
Thought I’d get used to it but every time I see someone laughing or giggling with someone else the pain comes washing over me like a tsunami. My loneliness still fucking hurts, it still fucking haunts, and all I want is someone to open up to.
I'm gonna metaphorically pull out two chairs- one for you, and one for me. Sit down and tell me what's bugging you. You might not know me, but it helps to just get it out, to have someone acknowledge your struggles. I can't force you to do anything but know the offer stands.
@@invalidusername6158 thanks I appreciate it usually I’m not like this but eventually I just be having depressive episodes sometimes. I moved a lot when I was young so I didn’t have a lot of friends, this left me with subpar social skills which in turn gave me an inability to make some. I definitely improved a lot since then(got some confidence, started playing American football and other sports) and eventually I did make some friends but I just don’t feel all that close like I feel easily replaceable.
@@ainakbasu8398You remind me of myself. I moved many times as well. The moving around really does make it hard to make friends and more importantly, keep them. It sounds like your not sure of your place in your friend group and what you mean to them. I wish I could tell you I have an answer for that, but I don't. What I can say is finding real friends is hard, but the search is worth it. Finding that person or people who have your back through thick and thin is worth it. You just gotta put yourself out there and be true to yourself, which it looks like you're already doing. From my perspective, you're on the right track.
My first gf changed my life because I never thought I would ever have a gf, and I thought so little of myself. I miss her so much, but I am thankful for just meeting her in life.
My mom taught me to respect women but how do i give my respect to someone who doesnt even care abt how i feel or how i tried theres no point in trying anymore cause in the end i always get hurt.😂
Respect women as women. Don’t make YOUR relationships override how you feel about other humans that are just living like you are. I’ve always tried to be around women because of how much they actually care for you, just listen to your mom and try to find a WOMAN in your life. Just know girls won’t respect you as much as women will.
People who say they hate women and people who say they hate men are speaking only off of personal experiences and bias. Half the entire population of the world is men, the other half is women. So, you don’t respect half the population? Or are you just gay? 😅
@@JJ-vp3bdbecause women basically have no incentive anymore to be wives for a man. they can get their own job, get their own car, pay for their own clothes, pay their own bills, pay for their own food, go out to parties and do drugs and drink whatever, not to mention they can freely sleep around with men whenever they please. With all of this, why would women want to be like an old traditional wife who’s sole responsibility is to care for one man and their children. That life isn’t as fun compared to living your own life how you please though in my opinion it is definitely more fulfilling
This is what i want to tell my Ex so bad... But I'm afraid to Hurt her even more. I felt so stuck. No drive. No ambition. No challenges. I had to get out... And I'm sorry for that. I really loved her.
Can’t fucking escape wanting to return to the times when we were together and both happy with each other, it’s been 7 months since then and 2 months since she’s been together with another person. It was the happiest time in my life, and now it feels like I’m destined to spiral into more and more depressive states. I feel guilty whenever I try to have fun due to not addressing my more pressing issues, and I lack the motivation and discipline to spend time productively for prolonged periods of time. I feel like there’s nothing good or pleasurable going for me in the future, and I’ve never been competitive, so there’s no pressure to improve. Honestly feels like I’m waiting for a miracle to change this mindset, I’m not seeing a way out.
A year ago, I matched with this girl on a dating app, but she said she was only looking for clients for tattooing but it didn’t matter to me. I fell for her HARD, and I can tell she did too but I was too late. I confessed my feelings twice to her, telling her how I felt. But she said she needed to focus on herself since she got out of a toxic relationship a month prior to us matching. But the vibes felt like we were actually something. I actually started believing she was the “one” but no, she said she sees me more like a brother and that hurt me. And the next thing I know, she’s at this other guy’s apartment, who she barely knows and stayed until 1 am. I’m broken now, on my birthday since this happened to me just last night. My only birthday wish is to go back and see what I did wrong and fix it Edit: she’s talking to someone else now, and I’m going through it
Read between the lines gents, "you didn't change, I changed". She probably tried to grow with you, but it's you who wouldn't improve. "There's nothing you could have done", she wanted you to, but she didn't want to force change on you. Whatever happens boys, always be working on improving yourself & the rest will fall in place. Don't do it for her, do it for you.
I think you misread it. It not always on a physically level but also on a mental one aswell. As we get older our personality changes and sometimes our partners change in the opposite direction we do
@@darkyoumemento5307 It's a benefit, but not the point. It's a biproduct of having your stuff figured out and being self-assured. Growth can help you "keep" her, but you shouldn't be self improving for anyone other than yourself & maybe your kids if you have them. Don't put others up on that pedestal.
Nothing ever works out for me, it seems like no girls want me or show any interest. There was countless times where I thought a girl was finally giving me attention just to find out she wanted one of my friends. Eventually one of my friends just told me that no girls wanted to date me. I met this girl in my class this past year, as time went on I slowly started to like her more and more. And for the first time in my life she showed interest back. I’m a shy person, but after a month of mustering up the courage I finally asked her out. Things were going great and I went on my first date with her. It was the best day of my life. I texted her the next day, and she ghosted me.
Don't catch feelings till she does my bro. Even then keep them under wraps so that they can't be manipulated by others. Until she moves to your movements and thoughts don't let yourself catch feelings. Be the rock that let's the waves crash around it.
it looks like we are starting to lose communication, she is moving further and further away from me every day, there is nothing I can do.. I’d rather be lonely again..
I entered a kickboxing gym and met some of my friends there and there was this girl I liked and she liked me back but those 2 of those "friends" wanted her for them self and so they started doing things to shift her attention away from me such as action depressed so she would go talk to them and leave me to walk back home alone and many more things and now im writing this as im giving my last bits of energy in to become a pro fighter as i have nothing else to lose its either make it or suicide
Man, I understand you perfectly, I have also lived it and I only know that being alone is rubbish because I do have family and friends but I don't feel complete but life goes on and many times I have thought about ending my life but life goes on.
suicide is for cowards. it is not an option. life is always worth living. you cant just give up on your life just for a few moments in the grand scheme of your life. it doesnt make sense.
I was with a girl for nearly a year, she was the sweetest girl I ever met. I offered to take her out to see Scream 6 and we hung out and started a relationship, I never felt happier. Then earlier this year, she told me she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. She said I was the best she ever been with. I still love her.
It’s been 7 years and i dream about her sometimes and all the hurt comes back. The fact that i thought i moved on but my mind seems to bring me back, I’ve dated after her but it’s never been the same, i was so young and naive that i look back and see all the signs and wish i knew what i know now. They say “don’t let the past define you” or “ your past doesn’t define you” but i know that I’ve changed since I’m full of resentment and can’t move past it i have trust issues with anyone who shows me love so i brace for the worst and expect the least I know why im not good with relationships in general i don’t like who i am and am working to be better.. all that to say im not nihilistic or some angsty person I have found my faith and know there’s more to look forward too Just expressing my grief
Met this girl at a event where I was with my friends we got along so good there and after the event we were texting very much because it was a long distance thing. After a while I took a 10h train and was first time at her house for a few days. After that I was unsure if I could do a long distance relationship, I still loved her but I took to long to think about if I want to be with her or not and the next time we met in person after like 2 months she said that she missed me and also loved me but she can't go into a realationship right now because she is not mentally ready. Now I am just heartbroken and completly destroyed inside and I pray every day that she will eventually change her mind one day.
That only means she still wants to mess with other guys and save you for last. Don’t be a placeholder. When a girl truly likes you, she will make herself available.
I'll always think of her, the one woman whom I was ready to dedicate everything for. I hope you're well with that little girl you have now. Every day, I wish it was our child. I dream of it. Good luck in your life. I wish you nothing but the best.
In another life, maybe it was you and me. Maybe in that life we did all the things we said we would. But we got this one instead. You were my friend, my love, and now a stranger. But you will always be my favorite memory. In this life, and in the next.
It’s been a year and a half with this one girl, we broke up a week ago and ended it on good terms but I feel like I made a mistake. Life just got in the way, all this school and work just to be living a happy life, man it’s fucking hard. I really pray that i get to be back with her again. We’re just giving it time to be able to complete our goals. although it’s hard I’m glad me and her are friends. Her smile never fails to make me remember all the flooded memories when we were together. It’s so hard I just love her so fucking much.
maybe in another Universe…
i wanted it to be this one.
Maybe in another lifetime
@@MogulFN.same.
in another time line
Where there no you in it…
Love is a disease, spread by sweet words and gentle touches.
And is also the biggest lie.
Man fuck that shit
Love yourself more
Love is a disease the same way as oxygen is. Without it, you die. With it you're able to live and expirience life. Love is not the illness. Lack of love or untrue love is❤️
The only true love, is God’s love.
I met this girl at the gym and we started talking for a few months. Soon I started to catch feelings and I found myself slowly falling in love with her. This girl was everything, after so many years of feeling lonely and feeling like I could never have what other guys and what my friends talked about, this was a breath of fresh air. But in the end I got rejected, same like all the other times I tried. I think I have a built in defense mechanism to where I can't show my affection to what I really want to show since in the past it hasn't been reciprocated to what I wanted. I truly did like this girl, but I feel like I let I slip by, again. We would have the best talks, we laughed, and we talked deep into conversations about ourselves and our goals and aspirations. At least she made my life a little better for a time. Now I struggle with the internal conflict of staying as just her friend, or leaving her. Because I know while she expects a real friend, I can't be that guy. The friendship wouldn't be real. Maybe in another universe, with a different me.
she wasnt the right one just wait my guy good luck im here for u !
This shit sad bro, dw king ull find the one soon
This resonates with me more than you may ever care to know. Thank you for making me feel less alone
I don't want to be pushy or corny, but find God. HE is ALL you need. The only thing that can satisfy the human heart is the one who made it...
"I think I have a built in defense mechanism to where I can't show my affection to what I really want to show since in the past it hasn't been reciprocated to what I wanted." THIS
what hurts is the most is knowing that she's going to do what we did together with another person.
I wanted to marry that man, he knows my darkest secrets, the ugliest sides of me and fought by my side for years undyingly. Then randomly he just gave up and left. Sometimes things hurt so bad for so long the pain angers you. It angers you that someone could do that to you, that life is this unfair to you, that you did everything right and in the end it wasn't ever enough. It was never going to work from the start. It angers you so bad that you swallow it and move on with your life out of spite for how wronged you feel. But dont worry, it only gets worse from here 🙂
@@Kur0miiiii well said.
No man..I don't want to hear that.. please don't say it again... don't kill my imagination... There I am her king and she is my queen..and we have a large kingdom..we look out of the window every night ,we talk about our most loving thought before we go sleep,we kept our hands together.. everything just looks majestic..she is like tell me I love you thousands time in a day..and we are enjoying mannn..I am just teenager man..I have a same life that others have..so don't kill this buddy..I don't want to see him dieee...
Real
thats what hurts me the most and i get hurt over that. one of the biggest things that i get upset about bc what we did made me feel special then if they do that with someone else it just makes u feel like u mean nothing and that youre nothing but a puppet
7yrs of dating since we were teenagers she break it off without saying a word still can’t get over it completely
She does not care about you at all anymore. Women throw men under the bus and cheat on them all the time and it doesn't hurt them at all.
@@SUPEROGRE5000 both men and women do this, it just happens sometimes and it sucks like a mf
how can someone u dated for 7 years break it off without saying a word. that doesnt make sense
@@bobdole7292probably blocking him on everything and ignoring him, sucks for it to end like that especially after spending so much time together.
@@bobdole7292 People are just shitty in life.
I truly believe there is no stronger weapon of healing or destruction other than love.
For some it heals them.
Others it destroys them.
Agreed…
And for some, it does both simultaneously.
Brother…..I have to workout just to relax love has crippled me
love has ruined me so so bad.
The unspoken apology that i never got nor deserved. This is what fuels me to be better. Im in the gym and doing all these cool things with my life yet i feel so attached to one girl who left me. I hope any of yall dont have to go through this alone we in this together fr
Thank you man
Thank you.
True that. in a world with so much hate, we got each others backs lmk if you need to talk my dude you’ll get through this and become the best version of you anyone’s ever seen. You got this champ. We’ve all got this
@@ERIMUSPERFORMANCEUKhow have you been lately? What have you been up to? Do anything fun, go anywhere nice?
Personally I've been alright. Made a new leg and bench press PR recently. Work's been okay, boring as usual. I went out to a nice restaurant a few days ago.
That's pretty much it
@@es-rh8oo I’m doing okay thank you mate, I’m just getting some work done on my car and hopefully it’ll be on the road in a few months. I’m off for December but as soon as January hits I’ll be out working again
I’m glad to hear you’re doing good, what restaurant did you go to? (More importantly what’d you get???)
Ps. What’d you do for work if you don’t mind me asking?
everything reminds me of her.
same here but all we have is eachother
real af bro
real, that makes me wanna cry and harm myself so badly
@Tarkov615 well don't bro your strong you have got this far you can keep going love you bro
fr bro i js broke up with my first kiss bc she said she didn't want to have a relationship with god
These comment sections full of random strangers w different heartbreaking stories and stuff is the most realest thing I find on social media. Hope u all having a good time
i want desperatley to feel the trials and tribulations of love, the mountains and the valleys, but i fear i never know what its like
I love to read these comments👍
This is quite literally the most gut wrenching thing I could find given recent events, everything that was said was basically what she told me before she left, I've never recoiled at hearing words so fast like the start of this
this and any traffic swerve game hits hard, had the same excuses, contrived.
I dated this girl for 3 moths last summer. We hit it off texting and calling for a month before she moved back to my state, and then when we got to meet we clicked really well. She had a magical energy, and I can't express how much nearly every moment we spent filled me with wonder and excitement for the future. But then she had to break it off, she told me that with her severe anxiety together with not really knowing how to communicate with me when she was having problems. I don't think I was very attentive to the needs she had, but she told me it was her and she just needed to work on herself and that while what we had was amazing it just wasn't the right time for her. We kept in touch, and around New Years she reached out and wanted to see me again, just get dinner and catch up. Maybe talk about getting back together, too. I was thrilled, and on New Years Day I was gonna pick her up and take her out for the night. 20 minutes before I was leaving she texted me she couldn't do it, and cancelled the plans. It broke my heart again. While no matter what it's over for good I'm glad that we had what we did have, as short as it was. I've had a few girlfriends but that one was very special, and I hope she finds the right person when she's ready.
Dam Yu okay
At least you’ve had girlfriends dude. Being lonely for a long long time sucks
That ain't bad man, I'd rather have a girl break up for a reason like that then a chick cheat or just end up wasting your time/leading you on. Just wasn't the right time man, that's okay.
That sounds like b.s. when women say that they're only sparing your feelings, they don't want to just come out and tell you they found someone else or think they can do better🙄
I feel the same way. It sometimes feels as if the ones we want are the ones who are the hardest to achieve
For four years i truly gave her everything i was, the last time we fought, she told me i wasnt worth being believed in or loved. Its been 6 months since that, everyday im at the gym, everyday that i look in the mirror, everyday someone tries talking to me, i remember those words, you are not worth being loved or believed in. She left, shes enjoying her life, i feel like my life is on autopilot, i catch myself crying in my car, at the gym, just randomly tearing up. I will never love again man.
I feel you man, I’ve never had a girl show any interest in me. One day a friend told me that no girls wanted to date me, I felt exactly how you did, keep moving forward dude, good times are ahead
Good and you shouldn’t. Love is only for the weak. Your tears should only be shed for victory not for love.
Listen man, I don’t know you but I know you’re deserving of being loved and believed in. That girl didn’t deserve you and she said what she said only out of spite and to fuck with you. Don’t let her drag you down and don’t let her win. I know it’s hard right now but just keep doing what you love and one day you will find someone that you can love and that loves you back. Like I said, I don’t know you, your name or where you live but I believe in you and I love you, brother.
i dont know man, i can relate with that last sentence so much bruh, i jus dont think ill ever be able to talk to another girl, almost like a curse that can never be broken, because no matter what happens its hard to forget the memories you had with that one certain person and its like completly impossible to even talk to other girls, i hope the curse breaks bro
@@ilikepancakes2368that just aint it bro u know that urself. Just a defense mechanism
The pain never goes away, you just learn to better endure it.
this audio combined with retire… it’s so good
Just had a talk with this girl I have been seeing for a month, after trying my absolute hardest in every text, conversation, and moment we shared she tells me today that she cant be with me because she was getting "too attached". This woman was strong willed, caring, funny, beautiful, and smart. It seems that even when I do everything right, I still get it wrong.
Yo man I’m just a kid but you are going to make it. In times like this you gotta be strong. I do not know the specifics of your situation. But let time do its thing. Don’t do rash decisions because of your emotions. Just chill and try to feel everything that you are feeling. Maybe you are frustrated or sad or even a bit mad or you don’t really know why. If you have friends or even your family then talk to them. They don’t need to give you solutions. You need someone close to you to talk to. You need to get everything out. Don’t hold it in just because some people say that men shouldn’t be too emotional. Of course you should not go overboard. Just try to accept the feelings you are feeling. At the end of the day you have your dreams your passion and your own stuff. It’s hard but maybe you can talk to her again and try to get a better view from her perspective.
4 months ago I lost my girlfriend that I was together with for almost 2 years. I know I’m still young but it just somehow happened. I wasn’t a good boyfriend. I was one of the guys that were scaredy-cat fully commit to a girl because of the fear of missing out. I thought that my youth was to used to explore and date all kinds of women. But now that I have lost her I really feel so stupid for not showing her the love she deserved. She was so kind and showed me her love. It’s not like we didn’t have good moments but sometimes I asked myself if I really loved her because it was my first ever relationship. Now I have changed because of her. It was just randomly after the summer break and she broke up through Text but it’s fine. I have talked to my friends and they have really helped me. I tried to talk with herabsinken and tell Herthas I want to start again with her. Because I knew that I would be better. Because I know knew that I really loved her. I miss the cuddling and he little stuff. I had a talk with her and she said that she sometimes misses the relationship too. She is btw in my class so sometimes She even tho she broke up grabbed my arm to seek closure and all. That talk we had was in October tho so I don’t know if she still feels the same. But this Friday I’m going to talk to her to clear things up for myself because last week we had a really close Moment and then this week she is now very touchy with another guy in class. She has become more touchy with other guys in general. She just often says one thing then does the other.
So in conclusion just let time do its thing. Do your own thing. And then maybe if the time and the vibe is right. Have a chat with her about it if you still feel like you need it to better understand her. And don’t think that you are the problem. Don’t let this affect you too much. You gotta remind yourself that you deserve good things. Maybe if she needs it give her space.
I hope you guys talk it out and can be together. No need to rush things. Can’t rush or force love. But you can try real hard and in the end if she stills says no then you knew you tried everything.
And yea I hope you make it bye
@@lostie4683brother I wanna give you and the other guy a hug :( we're gonna be okay. This journey is tough but we're gonna make it, I know we will, we have to
Don't blame yourself. If she is being honest and she doesn't want a relationship because she is getting “too attached” it's probably because she was hurt in the past and didn't have the time to fully heal from her trauma. Nothing to do with you personally.
It’s not that you’re best isn’t enough, it’s that she simply didn’t appreciate you.
I have a saying
You can cast a broad net and possibly catch many fish, but if you cast a line with the right bait, in time you will catch what you truly want.
@@poesiamoderna Doesnt make sense, she just doesnt like the guy in that way and didnt want him to feel bad
I loved her more than anything.
real
she dosent like me
I'm definitely going to die alone 😂
thug it out
REAL
Not if you go out there and chase the world
@@fear4441cure to male loneliness:
you are not alone about that man. i created to be alone. i am invisible at society. i tried so many times, i tried everthing but i surrender now. i dont have anything. i am just waiting. my death.
The cashier watching me by the cheapest shotgun and one shell
buy*
Aw man this made me bawl, this is what she said without saying everything
real
Bro i've been working out for so long, i recently met this new girl at my gym and things going well so far. but deep inside i know this might either be good or another character development
W, hope it turns out good
Don't force anything, let things come as they go and go with what you feel is right.
@@666ep thank you bigbro
@@GigglesYeahMan i will
Im sorry to say this but 99% of woman will make you suffer, I hope it goes good, but dont be suprised, I recently went through hell, through the darkest path of my Life.
Life with her was bright but hopeful she abandonded me and hurt me intentionally, things arent the same anymore...
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone."
"I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy. Because they know what it's like to feel absolutely worthless and they don't want anybody else to feel like that."
~Robin Williams
Damn never seen the second part of that quote
describes my social life in 2 phrases
Quotes hit harder than my drunk dad
Damn that second quote could not have been more relatable. Dude knew exactly what he was talking about.
The second paragraph a lot. I gave my friend a call after i felt so down feeling so lonely friends didntgive me a call since highschool for 5 months. He was in a darker place and had very dark thoughts. Im glad i gave the call before things became permanent.
One day in football practice I realized to myself, I’m not who I am anymore. I just don’t show happiness that much anymore. I’m always bad or average at everything I truly do. I hate being trash and not doing anything for my team, all I do is make mistakes on the field and sell the team. I remember we were tied 14-14 and I let up a touchdown after letting up a double move. Broke my heart into pieces, felt like I couldn’t breathe. I js wanted to sit down and cry at that moment and I still don’t know why I’m so terrible and everything. I work and work but I guess it won’t be enough. I’m just a young kid with big dreams but low happiness.
Continue grinding man, to have the highs you need to have the lows. Everyone has their lows from time to time, you're at one right now, but no worries brother it'll get better just don't give up ever man. Don't forget about what I said now when you get famous, keep grinding brother, put your head down and grind. Don't give a shitt what others think. It'll all work out.
Bro i truly feel you, just KEEP GOING, ive been there too and believe me it doesnt matter if you are bad, if you GRIND and spend a lot of time on what you like in the end you will end a fucking beast. Just dont give up and dont let those feelings won over you. Wish you the best 👑👑
Everything will be okay. Keep moving forward, you’re still young there’s a lot of time ahead of you. If you really want to excel at the sport then outwork everyone around you. Failure is the stepping stone by which you will find your greater self. Godspeed.
Stay strong, king 👑
@@brx926 they say highs and lows but all I genuinely had in my life are lows fr.
i listened to this while working out after i broke up with a girl that wanted me first. i was still healing from another person and i decided to give this girl a chance and it was going great she really seemed like she was into me and my friends said the same thing but one day she decided to end things out of nowhere i felt used i felt like no matter what i did i was never good enough but now i’m trying to get back on my two feet and leave it in the past.
Them last words “i was just calling to say i hope you’re ok”😪 nah bro that got me
If depression had an image
I've never been in a relationship, I am extremely afraid of rejection, but if I were to somehow be in a relationship by a divine miracle this is pretty much what the final result would look like
there are ugly guys who get girls just because they are not afraid of rejections.
probably gonna be the exact same over her man
bro don't love girls , they just going to break ur heart , but if u want to feel what i'm saying , go on , and u will regret
idk , ma girl just left me after 8 yr of dating , i kept asking her if she's going to leave me , and she always said no , but that day is today , and i'm alone , i feel bad , i feel so bad so bad so baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad , sorry i was just letting go of my feeling , anyway , don't bro , cya :)
@@salahsalouaniwell tbh it’s cringe and weird if you keep asking your girlfriend if she’s going to leave you, it makes you sound pathetic and like a small child not wanting to be left alone. That’s partly on you my man.
yeah i think u r right i just loved her so much , thanks bro @@crxde_
This upload was like the nail in the coffin
real
This video is about a relationship, but for myself, I have never had one. Not once in my entire life. I'm 21 now, and the days just all seem the same. When I wake up, and do my daily things, go to work, or whatever, bedtime comes before I know it. And when I come home to an empty apartment, it is desolate, and it feels like my day never even began. It feels like the days pass by just by blinking. A month has gone by like this, but my mind doesn't register it. I am so emotionally drained that I don't feel like a human, and I wonder how long I can keep this up.
You should try adding some small things into your routine. If you feel like your life is on autopilot and nothing's really amounting to anything, it means that you're stuck in a state of numbness. If you want to be able to start getting better, try doing some small things apparently that you can add in like working out the gym or trying to take long walks hell even going to a favorite restaurant or community events can be ateast something different. Necer hurts to try subtle changes to add some flavor to the day.
@@TheSoundwave92exactly that, otherwise this cycle won't end anytime soon
She told me I was too good for her and that she’d never feel like enough for me. Whether it was her way of letting me down easy or a genuine warning for what our future would’ve been, who knows. I don’t think that part matters in the big picture, we couldn’t be together either way and if I truly did love and care for her I had to respect her feelings. I did, we haven’t talked in years and I still see her name pop up from time to time whenever I end up on instagram or Twitter since we’re still mutuals on those sites. I haven’t had the guts or heart to try reaching out to her again, don’t know if I ever will. Some things just aren’t meant to be, and I think sometimes loving people from afar or letting people leave your life for their comfort is sometimes necessary in order to move on and develop more as a person. Moving on never gets easier, we just get better at dealing with it
“You’re too good for me” is a generic line for a girl to say when she doesn’t have feelings for you, but can’t explain why even to herself.
I’m no cupid, but I think you should reach out to her. A girl told me the same thing once(being too good for her), and I think she means she didn’t wanna dissappoint me, I wouldn’t deserve being hurt. And why would she hurt me? Because she doesn’t feel ready to be in a relationship, doesn’t feel like she’s good enough to be a good partner yet.
But I think if a girl says that, you should exactly push forward and convince her you’re the guy. Girls wanna live in fairytales. They’d rather have things happen to them. So what she means is that basically she’s shocked she found a guy she would wanna be partners with. But if you’re asking her for approval to be her guy - you won’t get the approval. Its manly for a man to be the one that decides. She’s waiting for you to decide. Being too good for her is a way for her to say: idk, do you really like me? A weird girl like me? You decide!
At least that’s my experience, a girl told me the same thing, and I just kept her in the friendzone, because i wasnt sure she really liked me. Months went by, she found some handsome dude, but dumped him in the end and came back to me saying nothing would compare to me. She was just waiting for me to make the move all this time.
Honestly i feel the person talking. Ive never really lost feelings for people until we were already done...sometimes we lose feelings for someone, not always because theres someone better, we just feel so drained. Relationships are hard and take a lot of commitment. It starts to feel like a chore to keep showing ur affection. To all the guys who lost them, take some time off and reflect. Treat yourself and spend some time alone. Its okay to mourn that loss love.
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That just irritates my soul. The audacity to leave and still say they want the best for you, and that they still love you. What about the times when i wanted to leave early on, before we fell in love , before all the promises, before we shared those years together and got engaged.
i feel the death is more confortable than being in love.
Don’t
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fact.
How do you know that you are not going to get tortured for eternity after you die ?? Live bro, live.
@@OptimisticNihilist1244 How do you know there is such a thing as afterlife? There is no "beforelife", so why should we think life continues? It began with your brain developing to a state of conciousness and it'll end with your brain. I just hope my conciousness doesn't end before my brain like with dementia.
I spent three years with a guy, getting to know him. He knows all my insecurities, and the things I've never shown or told anybody else. He was my first kiss, my first cuddle, and my first date. All for him to go and date someone else two weeks after he told me that I would be his girlfriend
The one will come, she will support you and be at your side. We are MEN, we are warriors on our own, NEVER give up, FIGHT and achieve still.
That day is very far off than the day death is near to thee
fuck "the one" nobody cares anymore about love. love is bitch
Nah, warriors have always been a small minority of all men.
Your 100% right
i love how this channel combines audios and music. Never give up on this, please.
It's great for listening and writing.
still silently hoping that time has made a mistake and separated a time for us to find each other again.
but what if i don't hope it one day?
Same bro same.....
@@yidmutlulosing all hope is freedom.
when you try to hope about something that's sheer luck, it runs away from you. the best way is to attract not chase and most importantly keeping the doors open for opportunities and entering action with boldness.
sadge for us, agree with you..@@YourAverageRUclipsCommentor
@@YourAverageRUclipsCommentorits been 4 months since you wrote this valuable comment dude. you are totally right. we all have to leave it all. let everything go and stop tryning to control the things we wont be able to change. not because you did something wrong. just let it go. I hope you ok as well man. stay strong. we have to stay strong.
"If you don't explicitly fight for something, you might as well just expect it not to do it for you either."
Anyone else get thw feeling that no matter what you do no matter what you say everything always gets messed up in the end so you push yourself away knowing that whoever gets close could get hurt
Yes i do actually. You’re not alone 🖤
love is the most twisted, unjustified and brutal curse of them all
I imagine this is what happened to us as well. I met the girl I truly loved on the 29th august 2023 at our university freshman camp. We confessed our mutual love on the last night. All went great for 3 and a half months, we study the same major so we saw each other on almost all of our classes. Spent almost all weekends at either my or her place, went to places in the city where we go to uni, we truly loved each other. A few weeks ago her only grandma passed away on the 29th of november and since then her attitude to everything changed. Less than a week later she wanted to talk to me, where she told me she felt like something broke inside of her and lost the ability to love. I wanted to make her understand that grief can be hard to overcome, but never lasts forever and that I'm patient and can give her all the time she needs. I even said that I'll stay next to her in everything and help her get through all this and one day we'll laugh at this together, that how bad it could've been, but she refused. She left me there without explanation. The worst thing is, after 3 and a half months of giving her nothing but affection, understanding, patience and love, she's been acting like I did something bad to her, and acts like a stranger to me, and I think I'll never get a clear explanation as to why she choose to end everything we built up.
id be lying if i said you'll move on, you see im 20 and never had one. at my age for some reason i dont care to have one anymore, it just seems to me that nowadays we dont matter, to them we may not. all i can say man is if you care move on, its all you can do but if everything went down with her then become the best version of yourself, prove your own doubts wrong.
Who cares lol, not saying this to be mean but bro if she didn't look for you for comfort, and just broke up. She just wasn't for you. Just understand this. This world is this simple: They either like you, or they don't. If they don't like you, Theres no way to make them like you. Nothing you can do. You are you, Don't change for anybody. They will hate regardless. Once you tried everything you could of done, Thats it. Why be sad (for a long time) If you couldn't of changed it? Don't waste years and potential new relationships dwelling. World keeps spinnin.
@@joepaddy7239We met since and discussed what went on between us in the last two weeks. Just like in this video she told me she just didn't feel the flame anymore, not because of me, but because of her. We'll be best friends though, I know, because we were before we started dating. I still miss what we did together, but I know I have to move on. Thanks man for writing your thoughts by the way, means a lot knowing that I'm not talking into empty void.
@@WorldKeepsSpinninhe doesn’t need anyone to care stupid sped ass
i think the exact reason why she broke up with you is this sentence " after 3 and a half months of giving her nothing but affection, understanding, patience and love" , women don't like to be overwhelmed with love , they could easily lose interest if you always show how much you love or care about them , it's yucky for them: the clinginess or the strong attachment , that's why you treat every girl like it could be replaced , and you never show them you care too much , cause if you do and if she knows that your relationship matters more to you than to her , it'll go downhill from there , be cold to chicks , give them validation but not too much , it's a really delicate balance , and if she still wants to break up then you didn't care in the first place so still a win win and you hop on to the next one , there is nothing as damaging as the mentality of a soul mate or a "special" girl , cause when she's gone (and there is always a probabilty that she'll be gone) your grief will be like no other, no matter how many enjoyable conversations you have had , no matter how much she seems to truly love you , it could all go to shit 180 degree after a day , and you aren't able to predict that , well whatever the case hope you have a good recovery my guy i know it's really hard.
met a girl through work and she went to the same high school. we talked about life and our future together but she was a senior and i was a junior at the time. we were young. idk whats wrong with me though because i never really expressed how much i really cared and loved her, i was and still am angry teen. that probably led her away from me, along with other bad influences that we called acquaintances. her and i dont talk anymore, i know it was my fault to support her while she was working for her family ultimately before she started hanging with the wrong crowd. 2 years later leads to the present, where there is another girl at my new job who is just as great as the first one, but i think ive done fumbled her as well for the same reason, because of my lack of ability to show affection, i know this new girl is going to distance herself away from me soon, if she hasnt done that already. i am just an introvert and like to think about life and many other things, i dont like to talk too much about things that dont give me happiness, i dont really smile no more either, i dont know whats wrong wit me vruh☠️
I met the girl of my dreams and it seems like she's really in love with me...if she's like all the other girls in the end, i am going to die inside
I am very interested keep us updated please 🙏🏿
@@zlvno okey sure Bro🙏🏽
My girl kissed another guy at homecoming I couldn't go because I wasted my time for 3 weeks 7hours every class period I went to see her I kissed I hugged I gave her my jackets and my special bracelet all for her to kiss another guy some fucking beaner
Same here , if it doesn’t work I don’t know what I’ll do .
@@nxc_06 i wish you much love bro
Thank you. It’s been awhile since I was in a relationship but hearing this again made me realise I’m aight being alone. Cheers !
2.5+ years together- I’ve known this woman for over two and a half years. It started out really casual and slowly but surely we became more than just a one time fling. That first time we met was exciting and perfect: our first date, and we hit it off. The time progression couldn’t be anymore perfect, I started to like her and then I started to love her- care for her more than anyone else. We did so many things together, and I cherished every moment. Every moment big or small- it was precious to me. We developed such a deep emotional and physical bond. But despite that, deep down we both knew the end was coming: I knew this because she kept bringing it up. And when it did- it broke my heart; all those memories came flashing before me as we called things off. It was so much that I cried hard for many days. I saw her one last time after one month since we broke it off to seek closure. We carried out the day like we were still together; however, we knew the end was coming. I said my last goodbye to her and cried again. We exchanged a few final texts and finally I cut off everything: it was hard. The person I’ve spent of most of my time with; texting every single day is now just a stranger that I have memories of. I will always love her and cherish those memories. I was able to grow as a person because of her; she changed me for the better. I will never forget you. Even now I’m with someone else I still think of you. Goodbye.
You still thinking about her? I feel you bro, i understand all that feeling. Nothing was the same after that, it doesn't care if you get a new girl, nothing will be like it was and it just sucks man. Ty for sharing your experience bro i understand it all.
Yeah, I think about her every day; it sucks.@@tempest7184
What was the reason y'all stopped talking. This makes no sense. Wtf?
Jesus loves you, he will never leave you, nor forsake you. No greater love than God has for you 🤍❤️
They did
The only thing Jesus loves is allowing wars and diseases in the world and watching innocent people and kids dying and not even doing anything to save them. He definitely loves us very much lmfao
It's insane how much a guy or a female can love each other and then sooner or later one of them are so done that you wake up to a text message and they say they're done with you. That's got to be the most tragic message to get, knowing you had your future planned, knowing you had goals you wanted to achieve with them, knowing this and that and it was all crushed for what?
I've been through so much just with one girl, she changed my life, she made a new me, she tore me down in pieces and found ways to fix it just to make it worse, she did things others couldn't, she did so many other things I loved and kept hurting me and left me at the end for what? Left me depressed for 8 months, left me sad, left me in a moment where I got suicidal and so much more.
Never get attached and take more time to figure your partner out.
Nah. Always let your heart be close, to be near. Let yourself suffer. Grow through it. Be thankful for the privilege of knowing and loving. Love deeper and deeper. Become kind. Become so strong that even blows to you mean nothing. Become love. You will be so very sad, but on the other side, if you try to make the best of it, you will be stronger. You will love more. You will be kinder. You will be more thankful.
@@FridgemaxxedHybridoreanLifta Its more like, Do your best, but understand if it didn't work, it just didn't work. Don't let it affect everything else. World isn't out to get you, You are good enough your probably more then good enough, that person just wasn't the one for you. Thats it
Love is for suckers. This world only belongs to the strong. Be ruthless, be cold, and be merciless. Treat women as a commodity not as a priority. Ironically, they will love you more because of it.
@@ilikepancakes2368 That’s some good advice, thank you.
maybe. just maybe. in another universe I would chase my dreams.
make that this universe, you only have one shot please take it!
you only have one life. make it count. dont worry about society and people; just do it. even if you have to become an asshole.
in another universe it would work out mabey
@@mtyre05 I don’t even remember writing this comment it was a joke
@@Player_769 oh say less😂
my worst fear is hearing this from him
If he really loves you he wont at least thats what i believe but people change and life moves on, hope your okay
this gives me shivers
I met this girl at a party I went to, we got to know each other and then started talking for a couple months. After a while I caught feelings for her and had the encouragement to ask her out, we went on a couple dates and I fell deeper and deeper in love w her to the point where she made any other girl unattractive instantly, but after a year of dating I wanted to propose to her and I wanted to surprise her by pretending to go out for a bit and then sneaking back in after a hour, but as soon I walked in our house, I walked in on her cheating on me.
move on and act like nothing happened.
Thank god that you found out that before marriage !!
Fvck...
no amount of time can undo what was done
he hurts me sm but i cant let him go
If the relationship is toxic, let him go. You will find someone better 🌺
i’ll treat u better and that nika aswell,i’m teach him who’s king here(big dick king lol)
This felt so reassuring, yet so heartbreaking.
Nunca tive a oportunidade de amar alguém além da minha própria família.
Jesus will bring you salvation after death and give you everything you deserve though it may seem like he doesn’t exist he truly does and all you need is faith to be blessed with the greatest gifts you’ll ever receive give “Jesus is the God for the weary and burdened and he shall give you rest”
Tomorrow's another day.
You never know when they'll show up
I might be late but love is beautiful. Love is so beautiful that it hurts sometimes. I hope you find love one day and I hope it treats you right.
she never gave me a apologoy like this
"i dont have time, sorry" i heard that one too many times
we aint makin it thru 3 am with this one 🔥🔥
Ive been crying so hard my face hurts. The deepest void I can physically feel in my chest is unbearable. I'll either eventually kill myself or ill lose my mind and challenge life until it kill me first. Whatever happens, anywhere is better than here.
@@Kur0miiiiitoo real😂
@@silenthills209 i was so in my feelings that night bro 💀💀💀
@@Kur0miiiii ending it all soon
@@silenthills209 bro are you good????
Day 507,846 of thugin this shi out (I’m not mentally ok and I need someone bad)
thug it out
I need help
You need yourself , you have to improve to the level that when you see yourself in mirror you be like , hell yeah , that's the one I need , that's the one I need to love , that's the only one that I actually need , once you achieve that level of self loving , and appreciate for what you are , your perspective will change , trust me , I've been there , once your alone and has nothing to lose , you have alot to gain and rebuild yourself to the point that you don't need to rebuild it again , it's hard for everyone , but they say , no pain no gain
@@Mikey-nz6deJesus Christ is the answer bro “come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will get u rest” god bless
U need Jesus, my dear friend. Talk to him 🙏❤️
Suffering alone like a real man is hard
imao id say im a solid 7-8 but i got no game dawg
All men must learn to suffer alone. It is what build us to become stronger. This is our fate and it is a fate we must embrace.
If this is what she told me when she left I would’ve understood. But I had to learn this on my own. My feelings eventually died for her. If she came to me today and asked me if we could be together again, I’d say no.
Eventually we all move on.
Thought I’d get used to it but every time I see someone laughing or giggling with someone else the pain comes washing over me like a tsunami. My loneliness still fucking hurts, it still fucking haunts, and all I want is someone to open up to.
I'm gonna metaphorically pull out two chairs- one for you, and one for me. Sit down and tell me what's bugging you. You might not know me, but it helps to just get it out, to have someone acknowledge your struggles. I can't force you to do anything but know the offer stands.
@@invalidusername6158 thanks I appreciate it usually I’m not like this but eventually I just be having depressive episodes sometimes. I moved a lot when I was young so I didn’t have a lot of friends, this left me with subpar social skills which in turn gave me an inability to make some. I definitely improved a lot since then(got some confidence, started playing American football and other sports) and eventually I did make some friends but I just don’t feel all that close like I feel easily replaceable.
It's all going to get better bro just keep grinding man. The pain will subside at some point.@@ainakbasu8398
@@ainakbasu8398You remind me of myself. I moved many times as well. The moving around really does make it hard to make friends and more importantly, keep them. It sounds like your not sure of your place in your friend group and what you mean to them. I wish I could tell you I have an answer for that, but I don't. What I can say is finding real friends is hard, but the search is worth it. Finding that person or people who have your back through thick and thin is worth it. You just gotta put yourself out there and be true to yourself, which it looks like you're already doing. From my perspective, you're on the right track.
@@invalidusername6158 thanks, you don’t have any idea how much this meant to me
I dont even wanna die I js don't wanna be here anymore.
rs
felt like i needed this apology cuz the girl i once knew would never say this
My first gf changed my life because I never thought I would ever have a gf, and I thought so little of myself. I miss her so much, but I am thankful for just meeting her in life.
My mom taught me to respect women but how do i give my respect to someone who doesnt even care abt how i feel or how i tried theres no point in trying anymore cause in the end i always get hurt.😂
Respect women as women. Don’t make YOUR relationships override how you feel about other humans that are just living like you are. I’ve always tried to be around women because of how much they actually care for you, just listen to your mom and try to find a WOMAN in your life. Just know girls won’t respect you as much as women will.
How come there are less women around anyways
@@lmpyuychiasimp
People who say they hate women and people who say they hate men are speaking only off of personal experiences and bias. Half the entire population of the world is men, the other half is women. So, you don’t respect half the population? Or are you just gay? 😅
@@JJ-vp3bdbecause women basically have no incentive anymore to be wives for a man. they can get their own job, get their own car, pay for their own clothes, pay their own bills, pay for their own food, go out to parties and do drugs and drink whatever, not to mention they can freely sleep around with men whenever they please. With all of this, why would women want to be like an old traditional wife who’s sole responsibility is to care for one man and their children. That life isn’t as fun compared to living your own life how you please though in my opinion it is definitely more fulfilling
This is what i want to tell my Ex so bad... But I'm afraid to Hurt her even more. I felt so stuck. No drive. No ambition. No challenges. I had to get out... And I'm sorry for that. I really loved her.
Goddammit dude I don't even know what to call this feeling
Definitely in another universe. I believe it.
All this love that I have for you, can't be in vain. I refuse to believe it. I refuse
Can’t fucking escape wanting to return to the times when we were together and both happy with each other, it’s been 7 months since then and 2 months since she’s been together with another person. It was the happiest time in my life, and now it feels like I’m destined to spiral into more and more depressive states. I feel guilty whenever I try to have fun due to not addressing my more pressing issues, and I lack the motivation and discipline to spend time productively for prolonged periods of time. I feel like there’s nothing good or pleasurable going for me in the future, and I’ve never been competitive, so there’s no pressure to improve. Honestly feels like I’m waiting for a miracle to change this mindset, I’m not seeing a way out.
I pray God gives me a man who hasn’t had his first love
I feel the pain in this guy eyes.
i love her right now but i feel like she'll leave one day.
real
she isn't real, move on, talk to ur friends man she aint worth it anymore
@@styluspixelsproduction513damn :(
So stop loving her and end it right now. Listen to your instincts. They may be correct.
A year ago, I matched with this girl on a dating app, but she said she was only looking for clients for tattooing but it didn’t matter to me. I fell for her HARD, and I can tell she did too but I was too late. I confessed my feelings twice to her, telling her how I felt. But she said she needed to focus on herself since she got out of a toxic relationship a month prior to us matching. But the vibes felt like we were actually something. I actually started believing she was the “one” but no, she said she sees me more like a brother and that hurt me. And the next thing I know, she’s at this other guy’s apartment, who she barely knows and stayed until 1 am. I’m broken now, on my birthday since this happened to me just last night. My only birthday wish is to go back and see what I did wrong and fix it
Edit: she’s talking to someone else now, and I’m going through it
Read between the lines gents, "you didn't change, I changed". She probably tried to grow with you, but it's you who wouldn't improve. "There's nothing you could have done", she wanted you to, but she didn't want to force change on you. Whatever happens boys, always be working on improving yourself & the rest will fall in place. Don't do it for her, do it for you.
I think you misread it. It not always on a physically level but also on a mental one aswell. As we get older our personality changes and sometimes our partners change in the opposite direction we do
@@Therealferm i do believe OP was talking about mental
@@kalexyx556 he means development and i meant personality
"Don't do it for her, do it for you," but the benefit in this message is keeping her.
@@darkyoumemento5307 It's a benefit, but not the point. It's a biproduct of having your stuff figured out and being self-assured. Growth can help you "keep" her, but you shouldn't be self improving for anyone other than yourself & maybe your kids if you have them. Don't put others up on that pedestal.
At least she could upfront.
about to annihilate my legs with some heavy ass circles (i forgot what her voice sounds like)
Oh mann if only we could go back to the good old days
Will be good
Been there, drown in that shit.. this speech sounds so familiar, sadly. People are fucking selfish man..
Nothing ever works out for me, it seems like no girls want me or show any interest. There was countless times where I thought a girl was finally giving me attention just to find out she wanted one of my friends. Eventually one of my friends just told me that no girls wanted to date me. I met this girl in my class this past year, as time went on I slowly started to like her more and more. And for the first time in my life she showed interest back. I’m a shy person, but after a month of mustering up the courage I finally asked her out. Things were going great and I went on my first date with her. It was the best day of my life. I texted her the next day, and she ghosted me.
Don't catch feelings till she does my bro. Even then keep them under wraps so that they can't be manipulated by others. Until she moves to your movements and thoughts don't let yourself catch feelings. Be the rock that let's the waves crash around it.
if i saw this comment at 5 i woulda been up but now 7. years later at 13 all i want is her man
i just sent her my face but she hasn’t responded
well i don’t really blame its its 4:30,i sent it to like 8 other people and neither of them have seen them yet
it was me and shrek kissing lol
Truth right here. You sound like someone who’s got experience lol. Some men just have to learn the hard way.
i am 15 years old and i always cry to this because i never had a girlfriend and i never felt love and i only get my parents love
it looks like we are starting to lose communication, she is moving further and further away from me every day, there is nothing I can do.. I’d rather be lonely again..
thug it out
that image hits...
I entered a kickboxing gym and met some of my friends there and there was this girl I liked and she liked me back but those 2 of those "friends" wanted her for them self and so they started doing things to shift her attention away from me such as action depressed so she would go talk to them and leave me to walk back home alone and many more things and now im writing this as im giving my last bits of energy in to become a pro fighter as i have nothing else to lose its either make it or suicide
Man, I understand you perfectly, I have also lived it and I only know that being alone is rubbish because I do have family and friends but I don't feel complete but life goes on and many times I have thought about ending my life but life goes on.
Make it to the big leagues brother. For all of us.
invite her to the house and block those other nikas
Shit bro become strong and give those two snakes some shit, let them know that they are the real POS for sabotaging you.
suicide is for cowards. it is not an option. life is always worth living. you cant just give up on your life just for a few moments in the grand scheme of your life. it doesnt make sense.
I was with a girl for nearly a year, she was the sweetest girl I ever met. I offered to take her out to see Scream 6 and we hung out and started a relationship, I never felt happier. Then earlier this year, she told me she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore.
She said I was the best she ever been with.
I still love her.
Talvez teve algum motivo pra ela querer terminar
@@Ain2.0-y4b She never told me. Said she was stressed and dealing with stuff outside of our relationship. Life stuff.
She send me this.
It’s been 7 years and i dream about her sometimes and all the hurt comes back. The fact that i thought i moved on but my mind seems to bring me back, I’ve dated after her but it’s never been the same, i was so young and naive that i look back and see all the signs and wish i knew what i know now. They say “don’t let the past define you” or “ your past doesn’t define you” but i know that I’ve changed since I’m full of resentment and can’t move past it i have trust issues with anyone who shows me love so i brace for the worst and expect the least
I know why im not good with relationships in general i don’t like who i am and am working to be better.. all that to say im not nihilistic or some angsty person
I have found my faith and know there’s more to look forward too
Just expressing my grief
FUCKING HELL...THIS AUDIO AND THIS DIALOGUE REALLY TEARING MY HEART 🔪 💔
This was exactly how it went, and it still didn't feel like enough. I still feel empty
Met this girl at a event where I was with my friends we got along so good there and after the event we were texting very much because it was a long distance thing. After a while I took a 10h train and was first time at her house for a few days. After that I was unsure if I could do a long distance relationship, I still loved her but I took to long to think about if I want to be with her or not and the next time we met in person after like 2 months she said that she missed me and also loved me but she can't go into a realationship right now because she is not mentally ready. Now I am just heartbroken and completly destroyed inside and I pray every day that she will eventually change her mind one day.
I'm really sorry for that man, hope you're doing alright though.
Hope you’re doing alright man I know it hurts
thug it out
long distance relationships are a recipe for a disaster.
That only means she still wants to mess with other guys and save you for last. Don’t be a placeholder. When a girl truly likes you, she will make herself available.
“Funny how they always want to be friends after they rip your guts out.”
- Ace Levy, Starship Troopers (1997)
Don't ever tell somebody to understand when you know what you did to them wasn't fair.
real.
I'll always think of her, the one woman whom I was ready to dedicate everything for. I hope you're well with that little girl you have now. Every day, I wish it was our child. I dream of it. Good luck in your life. I wish you nothing but the best.
I hate my self and there is nothing desireable about me
real
You can change that. You can always change that.
@rhett3185 normie don't Gaslight
@@Womendeservebetter1average blackpiller
@@rhett3185absolutely not true, stop gaslighting mfs it’s literally evil
the picture is from an album by billy cobb, good guy
In another life, maybe it was you and me. Maybe in that life we did all the things we said we would. But we got this one instead. You were my friend, my love, and now a stranger. But you will always be my favorite memory. In this life, and in the next.
It’s been a year and a half with this one girl, we broke up a week ago and ended it on good terms but I feel like I made a mistake. Life just got in the way, all this school and work just to be living a happy life, man it’s fucking hard. I really pray that i get to be back with her again. We’re just giving it time to be able to complete our goals. although it’s hard I’m glad me and her are friends. Her smile never fails to make me remember all the flooded memories when we were together. It’s so hard I just love her so fucking much.
man this shit hit me so hard man
I clicked on this hoping itd be a song and now im reminded....