$1,000s of dollars wasted 💔 Dani's embarrassing declutter

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  • @SpaceMakerMethod
    @SpaceMakerMethod  2 месяца назад +15

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    • @elainehails3403
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  • @GotAnUmbrella
    @GotAnUmbrella 2 месяца назад +495

    I live for the Dani decluttering series. The ruthless is just *chef's kiss* you can tell she was so ready to change her life.

  • @Quntah888
    @Quntah888 2 месяца назад +314

    Please don’t stop this series after the doom room is finished.. I would love to see what declutter comes out of that kitchen 🤩

    • @bethirwin7445
      @bethirwin7445 2 месяца назад +18

      Yes! Kitchen please!!🙏

    • @ChristianAnneSmith
      @ChristianAnneSmith 2 месяца назад +15

      Yes, more Dani!

    • @lindaroyal8161
      @lindaroyal8161 2 месяца назад +21

      Agree - I'd like to see the entire apartment decluttered & organized, it's a great space.

    • @bethirwin7445
      @bethirwin7445 2 месяца назад +11

      @@lindaroyal8161 And Dani is fun! I’d love to go shopping with her. She has great taste 🌹 Then we could rein each other in after we found all the good stuff 🤣

    • @olagerta8199
      @olagerta8199 2 месяца назад +2

      Mee too! I want to see the results "after" 😊

  • @GotAnUmbrella
    @GotAnUmbrella 2 месяца назад +171

    I was absolutely screaming at the progress made even at the beginning of the video Dani is a MACHINE!

  • @sandrab5477
    @sandrab5477 2 месяца назад +168

    She's such a warrior! I am so happy for her to finally let go of the stuff that was cluttering her space and mind.

  • @rebeccacartier153
    @rebeccacartier153 2 месяца назад +196

    I’m only six minutes in and I can’t believe the living room is a living room…
    If I were dani I would use the second room as a closet and get all those clothes out of her bedroom so she can have a restful least full calm sleeping area.

    • @lauramitchell6725
      @lauramitchell6725 2 месяца назад +14

      EXACTLY!

    • @cocosky86
      @cocosky86 2 месяца назад +10

      Yessss!

    • @dgiovanni662
      @dgiovanni662 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm overwhelmed by the 10 minutes of just putting things into groups. Maybe this is the way it works for some, but I just get into one box have 2 piles tradh or donate😊

    • @tiffytattoo2450
      @tiffytattoo2450 2 месяца назад +2

      @dgiovanni662 maybe Dana K White's approach is more your thing. I personally couldn't take out everything either. So stressfull. Not my method, but it's great if works for others!

  • @Kate.West.
    @Kate.West. 2 месяца назад +260

    Don’t be mad at yourself! Be mad at the marketing that aggressively tells you to buy this stuff! And going forward remember that anger when you are in a shop thinking of making a purchase, and leave it at the shop. You are doing an AMAZING job 😊

    • @teethdotcom
      @teethdotcom 2 месяца назад +12

      be spiteful!!!! it’s an incredible motivator >:)

    • @Kate.West.
      @Kate.West. 2 месяца назад

      😂

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 2 месяца назад +6

      Seriously, be mad at that because even with expiration dates, most of those products are made with unhealthy chemicals. Look for simple, pure, beauty applications for natural ingredients. Like Rosehip Oil is awesome. And then there's lots of natural recipes on Pinterest. And I had a friend whose grandma even taught her how to make her own Almond Oil. Is was like a right of passage in their culture. What all of the real beauty of beauty are we missing out on because we are expensive cosmetic aisle consumers?

    • @fredmckibben6872
      @fredmckibben6872 2 месяца назад

      All these "thrifting, refurbashing home decor" channels and Amazon, Temu . Facebook Mktplace, Craigslist etc only add fuel to the fire

  • @lauramitchell6725
    @lauramitchell6725 2 месяца назад +88

    Okay,hear me out. I was crestfallen when she said in a previous video about making a guest room out of the doom room.😢 Realistically,she needs a storage room because she has ALOT of items that aren’t used on a daily basis. My suggestion: get two of those sturdy,metal restaurant shelves and put them against the wall that has the bump out at the bottom.(This will allow for necessary airflow) Designate one for all of the camping gear and the other for the Xmas box,art supplies,cat carrier,etc. Keep all of the fans and vacuum where you put them,another fact of life. I would LOVE to see two of those big white cabinets (if two would fit) replace all of the small,open storage in her kitchen! Talk about calming the chaos,one could be for her food,the other for pet food,leashes and a bag of shopping bags.(Maybe even backup toiletries if needed.) She would then have room to use the various kitchen furniture in her bedroom and living room if so desired. Lastly,this would make room to put the clothing racks on that side of the storage room so that she has ONE ,HUGE WALK-IN storage closet but her bedroom,living room and kitchen will be calm,organized and pleasant LIVING SPACES!🙌🏻

    • @HumanimalChannel
      @HumanimalChannel 2 месяца назад +4

      Excellent suggestions!

    • @valeriaswanne
      @valeriaswanne 2 месяца назад +8

      The issue with having a room for storage is that it just gives you a reason to keep buying and keep hoarding. "Oh I can just put it in the spare room." It's a massive container that they think won't ever fill up, perpetuating the mental problem of "I've got space/I can make space" endlessly.
      I've dealt with this from my last two SOs. They see the extra room as storage and keep buying things we don't need or use OR refuse to get rid of items that have been in boxes for the last 20 years because "we've got the space". I'm trying to use the room for our kid, and he's shoving boxes of kitchenware into the closet! We don't have the space, and maybe I want to put clothing in the closets, not boxes of 1980s figurines 😂 When we moved in, he was so excited "look at this big extra room!" Honey. It's 9'x9' (3mx3m). It's not that big 😅 "we can fit the bed, crib, recliner, and shelves in there!" No... no... not even close!

    • @lauramitchell6725
      @lauramitchell6725 2 месяца назад +4

      @@valeriaswanne I absolutely get what you’re saying and am sorry for your experiences. I may be wrong about the future of this idea but since she truly doesn’t have any other storage,I think it would be sufficiently full ALREADY with her CURRENT necessities,like the camping gear, pet cage,cleaning supplies,fans,etc. along with the clothing racks from the bedroom. Especially if she views it as “the storage/closet” and not “the spare room”. In fact, I actually think that a more empty space like a guest room would lead to MORE room for random stuff.

  • @maruskaa3134
    @maruskaa3134 2 месяца назад +141

    So in love with this series. Thank you April it's really inspiring 🤍. Also can we take a moment to acknowledge Dani's plants wall. How gorgeous is that 😍🤭.

    • @VeganMangoQueen
      @VeganMangoQueen 2 месяца назад +9

      Yes I was thinking this too I love them! 🪴 🌱 🌺

    • @pattiwhite9575
      @pattiwhite9575 2 месяца назад

      I love plants but that was a hot mess. She needs the space to store things.

  • @TheSUPERHAPPY1
    @TheSUPERHAPPY1 2 месяца назад +55

    Dani better have multiple frequent folow-up maintenance videos because I really enjoy her!

  • @darleneh608
    @darleneh608 2 месяца назад +44

    Food for thought: the reason the doom room got so out of hand is that the stuff that was legitimately supposed to be stored there (camping gear, seasonal decor, etc) was just dropped there in piles rather than being stored in an organized way.
    If you put the storage stuff on shelves, and smaller stuff in tubs that are clearly labeled, you can sort each category into its own zone and make it easier to get at. Plus, on a shelf you're using some of the height in the room, so that will help maintain access and open space in the rest of the room.
    When your intentional storage items are stored less haphazardly, it makes it harder to add to the problem by just dumping a few more things on top of the same pile.

  • @cantocant2346
    @cantocant2346 2 месяца назад +41

    Being able to open a door all the way is transformative. When I was at my worst, I had doorways and windows blocked. Now nothing blocks my doors and windows and I feel free.

  • @fianorian
    @fianorian 2 месяца назад +57

    I think only a 'declutterer' could empathise so strongly with the vehemence that could be put behind the phrase, "I'm done!" when sorting stuff.

  • @Joce123
    @Joce123 2 месяца назад +53

    I love it when people undecluttering sites immediately get the trash out of the apartment or house.

  • @lr50plus54
    @lr50plus54 2 месяца назад +66

    Every empty box and bag made me literally EUPHORIC!!!!! I kept fantasizing about how all that trash and donate stuff was leaving the house….

    • @SpaceMakerMethod
      @SpaceMakerMethod  2 месяца назад +2

      💛😁😘

    • @Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik
      @Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik 2 месяца назад +10

      for expired brand new cosmetics, pls ask morticians whether they need donation. especially beginner morticians who still learning. ofc its not doable in korea coz they cremate.

    • @albertagrown
      @albertagrown Месяц назад

      ​@@Yosatorn.Asavapatr.NaptvikWhat a _FANTASTIC_ _IDEA!!_ I've got some expired cosmetics and it feels like such a shame to toss them. I'm going to call around to our local funeral homes. 👍🏼

    • @Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik
      @Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik Месяц назад +1

      @@albertagrown thank you. myb also try asking morticians education program/ schools 🙏🏽

    • @albertagrown
      @albertagrown Месяц назад

      @@Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik There is one up in Edmonton... I wouldn't mind paying to ship it to them! I actually always wanted to be a mortician, actually. But... Life happened! Lol

  • @judyrilling1232
    @judyrilling1232 2 месяца назад +47

    Congrats, Dani! You won't waste money on anything anymore because you'll know what you have and where it is! Keep up the hard work!

  • @jmarie1959
    @jmarie1959 2 месяца назад +84

    As a "plus sized woman", I totally sympathize with the cartoon characters on the clothing rant. And I also have the same weakness for cosmetics. Dani's apartment is looking so wonderful. Awesome job ladies!

    • @bethirwin7445
      @bethirwin7445 2 месяца назад +13

      Yes! I’m 6’ tall & don’t want to wear cartoons or look like I put on somebody’s curtains! 😤 What are the designers thinking???!!! 💭

    • @janelte
      @janelte 2 месяца назад +6

      I find the choice in colours is either poisonous tropical fish or melting gelati ... or black. And everything is synthetic. Just demoralising.

    • @bethirwin7445
      @bethirwin7445 2 месяца назад +4

      @@mohenn22smith27 I think they’re lazy. It’s easy to slap together cheap sacks out of the lowest cost material. Actually tailoring garments that flatter a woman’s body as opposed to a stick thin teenager requires actually designing as opposed to slapping a label on.

    • @jenniferpearce1052
      @jenniferpearce1052 2 месяца назад +2

      @@mohenn22smith27 I've found that horizontal stripes work better on me than vertical ones. At least the horizontal ones are longer at hip and shoulder than waist by a little bit. Whereas all i can do with vertical stripes is count how many thousands of them for across the front of my shirt.
      I'm with you on the hatred for spaghetti straps. I've never met a busty woman who would chose a strapless bra except under duress.

    • @cvelasquez8041
      @cvelasquez8041 2 месяца назад +4

      Me too, because as a plus size woman I hate buying clothes because they are either cartoonish or I look like a circus tent. But perfume, jewelry, makeup always fit. It's so easy to buy too much of that and then let it rot in my house 😅

  • @myneoangel4299
    @myneoangel4299 2 месяца назад +36

    It’s so sad and frustrating to see all those beauty items get tossed. The way women are aggressively targeted to buy beauty products is just criminal. It’s a huge issue for women and the environment. Thank you for showing us all this, Dani! You are a decluttering queen! Hopefully we all can learn from this.

    • @cassandraknight8804
      @cassandraknight8804 2 месяца назад +3

      Totally agree

    • @TheSamjane4
      @TheSamjane4 2 месяца назад +2

      Everyone had a choice to just not buy them…it’s not the ads fault you can’t resist

    • @Ponygirl07
      @Ponygirl07 2 месяца назад +3

      @@TheSamjane4men do it too. Every tool, expensive tennis shoes or sporting equipment.

    • @TeaRose9
      @TeaRose9 2 месяца назад

      @@TheSamjane4true but society programs is to constantly buy , buy, buy so people begin to mindlessly buy more and more and it becomes an addiction but we think it’s “normal” until we awaken to the fact that it’s not healthy or necessary.

  • @cocosky86
    @cocosky86 2 месяца назад +39

    Would love a declutter series of Dani's whole apartment! You are doing so well Dani! Wish you all the best ❤️

  • @theboujieproletariat
    @theboujieproletariat 2 месяца назад +61

    Dani is so strong and mature as a person. My partner is adhd like her. He is overwhelmed with mess/clutter but also cant help creating it. He loves to be kind and give things to someone who needs it but cant really organise that practically. I am inspired by April's approach with Dani because she stops her from feeling bad. She doesnt treat Dani like she is different or defective for forgetting where stuff was kept or poorly organising the home. Dani is kind and creative and she must be a great teacher. My partner also likes to teach... I want to praise his skills and creativity more, and will not criticise his messiness after seeing this series of videos. I have been inspired to change my attitude and not to shame or belittle even if I am frustrated by mess. I will no longer say things critically.
    Thanks Dani for telling us you are Adhd in the first episode because this is a very positive awareness-raising and educating poing for viewers like me ❤

    • @runemagged21
      @runemagged21 2 месяца назад +12

      I fully empathize and maybe my recent breakthrough will help in some way...
      My ADHD clutterbug partner is so stressed by any amount of pressure to declutter, so after too many fights, we finally decided to move to a slightly bigger apartment (850 sq.ft. 2BR) where he could have an office space to himself with his own clothing closet - to serve as a dedicated "container" for everything he's working through letting go of.
      Now the pressure is off, I only help when asked. We were able to use the moving truck to empty his storage unit as well, so overall rent is similar.
      Was it frustrating to pack up all that junk for the move? Yes. But is the entire rest of the house now clear and calm? YES. And with that, he is understanding what a fully functional space can bring to both our chaotic lives.
      Wishing you both harmony in this process ❤

  • @emummy2
    @emummy2 2 месяца назад +21

    A good reminder that sometimes all we need is to have someone to come alongside us to help us focus and move forward on decluttering (and life?!)

  • @karenc1733
    @karenc1733 2 месяца назад +46

    Best series!! Dani! You are a star! 🤩
    You are literally all of us compressed into one woman in one apartment.

  • @eyrunsigrunardottir6977
    @eyrunsigrunardottir6977 2 месяца назад +28

    You are SO right about the big size makeup pallets, it´s so wasteful. This was a bit hard to watch but now it´s time to draw a line in the sand an just go on with this new experience and wisdom. We have all been there at one time or another and then we downsize.

    • @ericastivison121
      @ericastivison121 2 месяца назад +3

      I agree! It WAS a bit hard to watch, especially the makeup portion. It hurt my heart a bit! But the progress is so palpable and inspiring! Go Dani and April!!!

  • @bill11097
    @bill11097 2 месяца назад +57

    Loving this series. I work Wednesday to Saturday and then this comes out on my Sunday morning when I'm getting ready to face the day. So inspiring and well done to Dani she's doing so well

    • @theboujieproletariat
      @theboujieproletariat 2 месяца назад +3

      My work pattern too. I have been decluttering along with these 2 on my Sundays off :)

  • @AmajDesignsCo
    @AmajDesignsCo 2 месяца назад +26

    Not embarrassing but motivational! it's ok to realize when we've overspent in a huge declutter but we need to let the past go, and move forward as we get better with less consumerism in the future.

    • @maryf7224
      @maryf7224 2 месяца назад +10

      Yes, I am also uncomfortable for the same reasons with the choice of name for the video - as well as the broken heart emoji - because the video's message is a positive and hopeful one.

    • @valeriaswanne
      @valeriaswanne 2 месяца назад +1

      I sometimes look back at all the money I've wasted on things I've gotten rid of over the years. It's tough. It makes me feel bad, like I wasted my life working only to waste all my money on things I'll never see again. It's like... "what do I have to show for my life?"
      And then I get over it and clean something. I decluttered those items for a reason, even if I don't remember it.

    • @bodaciousmo
      @bodaciousmo 2 месяца назад +1

      I’ve been there- taking care of so many things and wanting to be a good friend. Had someone come into my home and then reminded me of how much money I spent, I doubt I would have invited them back. I was disappointed with the title as well. Dani’s personality is more of a “Dedicated to make the finish line 💪🏻” I hope she reads this and knows there is no shame in forgetting about a box of cosmetics. 🩷

  • @oliviac5476
    @oliviac5476 2 месяца назад +3

    As an animal lover, i adored seeing the pets run around and (not) help. They were lil cheerleaders and spiritual support for their mama.

  • @chericez
    @chericez 2 месяца назад +22

    i am emotionally invested in this declutter unlike any other declutter i've ever watched. we love dani!

    • @SpaceMakerMethod
      @SpaceMakerMethod  2 месяца назад +2

      Eee thank you 💛💛💛😁❤️❤️

  • @crystalkissoon4514
    @crystalkissoon4514 2 месяца назад +17

    I think Dani might be my favorite person to watch declutter, she's just so real with her expectations now.

  • @therenatagomes
    @therenatagomes 2 месяца назад +26

    I love Dani, she’s so precious ❤ I don’t know what she plans to do with the second room, but I think it would be great if it turned out as an open closet! So she can move all drawers from her bedroom and place the art she has!

  • @lauramitchell6725
    @lauramitchell6725 2 месяца назад +22

    At 16:58, “I swear I saw some Christmas stuff” (pans to the red and gold swag with lights in the hallway ceiling) ???

    • @zabmcauley5647
      @zabmcauley5647 2 месяца назад +5

      I had a good giggle about that timing about Christmas stuff, not sure if it was intentional or not. I love it either way, that's how goes when we become clutter blind

  • @vcanadian1971
    @vcanadian1971 2 месяца назад +28

    I’m on a declutter high with Dani🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @lucyoconnor4562
    @lucyoconnor4562 2 месяца назад +24

    "Is this for North Korea? No that's for sanding" 😂😂 love it 👏👌🤣 as someone who has gone through a very similar declutter over the past 9 months or so, bloody well done to Dani. Its extra tough to declutter in a relatively small space (I know!) And to put herself out there is so brave and generous. Well done to everyone and love the rebranding. Wishing you both the very best for the Year of the Dragon 🙏😁❤️

  • @Lily993
    @Lily993 2 месяца назад +7

    I watched three videos of this project while I was decluttering myself. It felt like all three of us were friends together doing this. It was great! Dani is a warrior, she’s a fierce declutter, and you’re so supportive, April. I had a lot of fun watching you!

  • @user-cq6vu8wz7l
    @user-cq6vu8wz7l 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm blown away that people have the kind of money to be able to buy this much stuff! Girl you will be so cash rich if you can curb the buying for sure!

  • @elkevogel6910
    @elkevogel6910 2 месяца назад +20

    The video was too short i cannot wait until the next. Dani is wunderful and she speaks out of my soul❤

  • @Kate.West.
    @Kate.West. 2 месяца назад +14

    Would swapping the rooms round so this room is her bedroom be a good idea? Looks like the door placement would mean that the bed could go against the long wall, and a wardrobe would be in a better place….. or even store no cloths in her bedroom and have this as a dressing room?

  • @tonimika7900
    @tonimika7900 2 месяца назад +15

    Do you really need to get rid of expired makeup? Sure, if it smells bad and is a cream product, I can see that, but honestly I would have used many of the things she threw away. I don’t trust corporations that say makeup expires so quickly. I think it is a ploy to get you to throw it out and buy more.

    • @nolasavedmysoul
      @nolasavedmysoul 2 месяца назад +5

      If it’s kept in a cool dry dark place, powder products can last YEARS after the “expiration”. You can also sanitize it with spraying rubbing alcohol. But you’re right about cream products…those gotta go lol

    • @thatgirlirish5492
      @thatgirlirish5492 2 месяца назад +4

      Agreed!! I just made a comment saying the same thing and then I saw yours. So glad that some people do know this. As a former MUA, as long as the powder products are in a cool dry place and sanitized every so often they will last YEARS!

    • @jenniferpearce1052
      @jenniferpearce1052 2 месяца назад +4

      Year's ago I watched a Canadian program where they took their old cosmetics to be tested. Mascara, which "they" always say to discard after 6 months had almost no bacteria in it. If you have an infection, sure it's going to be gross. But unused stuff should be fine. Korea is humid though. The mold that was a problem behind all the stored things could be an issue.

    • @taraa3456
      @taraa3456 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree, I use things and they are fine way after the predicted dates. I think it’s about profits not health.

  • @jen....
    @jen.... 2 месяца назад +16

    Dani's place is going to look so amazing when you're finished. That's a good size room to reclaim!

  • @peggynorton5145
    @peggynorton5145 2 месяца назад +8

    I decluttered two bags of clothes while switching to my summer clothes. I donated to my former daughter in law who is a teacher to high risk kids. They have a store at school they can shop in with pounts for good behavior.

  • @Pammellam
    @Pammellam 2 месяца назад +2

    Dani, I know how it is to buy, over buy, certain items. You seem to buy a lot of nice cosmetics and clothes. I buy spices and cooking ingredients that I don’t end up using. Lots, lots and lots! I know you have good intensions! Me too. I want to cook with those things but for some reason, I don’t. You want those lovely clothes and make-up…
    Recently my son came for a visit, I’m older and he helped me declutter my pantry. I couldn’t believe how much stuff we got rid of. Boxes, boxes, boxes and more boxes and bags of food, ingredients cooking tools, etc, empty jars, boxes, boxes, saved shopping bags in piles and piles put in the trash. And what is nice and surprising is that I don’t miss those items! _I feel good!_
    Thanks for sharing your journey! You are an inspiration!

  • @bethirwin7445
    @bethirwin7445 2 месяца назад +16

    Took me all morning to watch this as it kept inspiring me to get up & declutter or categorize stuff 😱 Thank you, Dani ❤ You’ve inspired me to clear so many spaces!🎉🎉🎉

  • @notbe7
    @notbe7 2 месяца назад +13

    these declutters have inspired me to declutter my entire house as well and being ruthless !! thank you so much (i didnt know that I had so much stuff stuffed inside other stuff)

  • @PK-nf3jg
    @PK-nf3jg 2 месяца назад +19

    Feeling exhausted as i started watching the video, but ended up motivated to start sorting seasonal clothes, and finally letting go of several pieces of clothing that i just havent been able to make work for me - I've been shuffling them around my wardrobe every season for several years 😂
    always look forward to the videos and love seeing the progress!❤

  • @Brigitte_Cantin
    @Brigitte_Cantin 2 месяца назад +16

    So close, so close ❤ wow, I'm impressed I could see at the end how discouraged she felt for all that waste. I'm so glad you are pointing her in the right direction so that it never happens again. You need a Cape on your t-shirts 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😻😘😘💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Wilma.Flintstone
    @Wilma.Flintstone 2 месяца назад +7

    I love how nosey pets are, it's so cute how doggie is sniffing everything and wanting to know what you're doing, LOL

    • @rocioiribe5841
      @rocioiribe5841 2 месяца назад +2

      i kept focusing the doggy going back and forth and back and forth, looked like what is happening lol

  • @Jazzatic2011
    @Jazzatic2011 2 месяца назад +4

    I love the disbelief that the storage room is the same size as the bedroom.

  • @misst2474
    @misst2474 2 месяца назад +7

    Dani, I'm with you! Kiddies and cartoon logos on plus size women's clothing are an absolute "NO, NO!!". I hated wearing them as a kid. I will no longer buy such items!!

  • @lindagallacher2187
    @lindagallacher2187 2 месяца назад +14

    Loving this decluttering series with Dani. As you say April, things get worse and overwhelming before they get better. Dani looks empowered now when she is going through her things ❤

  • @laurabarham338
    @laurabarham338 2 месяца назад +14

    Let me give you a word from the other side...I went through my own declutter journey about 10 years ago. Got through my own doom room decluttered all of my clothes and cosmetics and stuff and it radically changed my life. These days I routinely declutter (I freaking love it, the dopamine rush I get when I get stuff out of my house is real!) and I am so mindful now of what I bring into my house. I hope this journey is the beginning of a new life for you. I wish you luck and happiness this year and beyond!

    • @TeaRose9
      @TeaRose9 2 месяца назад

      I learned to be mindful of what I buy, which ultimately was the problem.

  • @joburg23
    @joburg23 2 месяца назад +8

    Dani is my spirit animal. Like this series has resonated with me so much because like her I have sooooo much stuff but I have been so inspired to start ruthlessly decluttering and getting rid of things. Thank you Dani for sharing your journey!!! You are helping so many people in the exact same position, I promise!

  • @cactusrose2374
    @cactusrose2374 2 месяца назад +4

    FABULOUS JOB, Dani!! Blessings for facing all those emotions! All us recovering “pile- it” people have done the duplicate road!You are doing an AMAZING job!! Keep up the great job!!

  • @CaitlynAlice
    @CaitlynAlice 2 месяца назад +11

    Just gotta say I love Dani and this entire series. Have looked forward to these videos each week ever since the first!!

  • @francine6485
    @francine6485 2 месяца назад +8

    Wow she is very unusual to declutter so well. Good dream client to video because we all are watching and wanting to see her let go and declutter and have a big transformation. It's the clients that won't let go that it's actually very anxiety and frustrating to watch this is going to be one of your best video series.

  • @middlelle
    @middlelle 2 месяца назад +8

    As a bbw, my problems with clothing are 1-flowers, flowers, flowers. Large, medium small flowers in terrible color combinations. 2-what happened to regular sleeves?

    • @thurst3224
      @thurst3224 2 месяца назад +1

      Middlelle.... yes, the sleeves!

  • @michelleperea7407
    @michelleperea7407 2 месяца назад +5

    Dani you are amazing. Please do the entire apartment. It’s so fun watching you declutter. I’m sure you don’t need help to finish but I’m selfish and want to see you do it all!

  • @nomifish
    @nomifish 2 месяца назад +21

    Daniiii Dani Daniiiii!! What a wonderful start of the day!

  • @smz5302
    @smz5302 2 месяца назад +7

    Dani - You're still young. I have friends who have been buying and buying into their 70's with no decluttering along the way. You are so very fortunate to figure this out now! Here's to a new future...and more $$ in your bank account...or toward vacations...whatever you love. Congratulations!
    PS: Everything I buy now, I think things like, "Do I have space for this?" And always, always...one in, one out. I just got a beautiful, new jacket. My oldest jacket went into the donation box. New slippers? The old ones went into the trash, as they were beyond donating.

  • @JessicaNicole4444EBCVintage
    @JessicaNicole4444EBCVintage 2 месяца назад +2

    OMG. The algorithm brought this to me cause I TOTALLY need to do the same thing!! Would love having someone to do it WITH me...especially since I have ADHD and CAN NOT finish one thing without getting distracted with another, then another, and so on! LOL

  • @TheRoseLensLifestyle
    @TheRoseLensLifestyle 2 месяца назад +9

    Love this - the stare down you were getting from Dani's cat in the last few minutes was SO funny - think he hates the camera. :P

  • @DB-fq8kp
    @DB-fq8kp 2 месяца назад +10

    You are doing amazing letting go! You could use the extra space in the doom room for your hanging clothes and make the bedroom have more space.

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn 2 месяца назад +6

    I have to admit I’m just guilty with beauty products. I subscribed to years ago to Boxycharm and Ipsy and I have literally boxes and clear containers full of products. I plan on this summer to go through my two closets and get rid of so much. So much waste but I did at least cancel my subscriptions a year ago. It’s just embarrassing and frustrating that I allowed myself to do this. I also have a purse and wallet hoarding problem. I just don’t understand why I do this.

  • @ChapterandConverse
    @ChapterandConverse 2 месяца назад +4

    The way I relate to the bags of makeup and clothes with the tags on. It's so hard to confront my stuff and this series is so encouraging to watch - I feel so much less alone in my mounds of stuff. Excited to continue the series. Amazing progress Dani! You are my inspo!

    • @A2-mp5jb
      @A2-mp5jb 2 месяца назад

      hello kid. normally i would roast your ass for your comments but im in a good mood today so i will give you a pass

  • @samanthafilologia
    @samanthafilologia 2 месяца назад +8

    I'm so proud of you two! I'm eager to see the final result when everything is done and April will have rearranged forniture! Congrats, Girls!!!!!

  • @KACn5582
    @KACn5582 2 месяца назад +5

    I certainly understand the whole process of accumulating "stuff" I just decluttered about 50 pairs of pants. Plus size also. Each one was a journey to find the 'perfect pair'. Maybe they fit at one time. Maybe I thought I could slim down and fit them. Before the sorting etc I was actually looking on line for more. I have ... 20 left. I feel ya Dani!!!

  • @marycaswell6894
    @marycaswell6894 2 месяца назад +8

    Great job girls. I love watching Dani just LET IT GO!! Inspiration for me to do the same. ☮💜 from Wisconsin

  • @Iquey
    @Iquey 2 месяца назад +2

    This is so eye opening. For most of my life, my mom has shown me to be really sensible with makeup purchasing. Her daily makeup fits inside a ziploc bag. A compact powder, a concealer, and some eyeshadow and eyeliner/brow pencil, and she doesnt wear much on her lips besides lip balm. Still beautiful and strong at age 59. ❤

  • @ChasingTravelAdventure
    @ChasingTravelAdventure 2 месяца назад +1

    Clear the floor and clear the chaos 👀 TOOK A HIT to my soul with that. There are a lot of tips for purging my DOOM "ROOMS"

  • @mariafrancescademaddis2560
    @mariafrancescademaddis2560 2 месяца назад +12

    You got this Dani! So proud and so inspired to get cracking on my dumping room! ❤❤❤

  • @jmarie1959
    @jmarie1959 2 месяца назад +11

    I was thinking that she could put all of her camping gear in that big grey box she moved out of the room?

  • @DianeC1975
    @DianeC1975 2 месяца назад +7

    Excellent progress. She can feel really proud of her decluttering muscles now. Great job!! 👍💐❣️

  • @tayzza51999
    @tayzza51999 2 месяца назад +15

    I love this series your killing it Dani keep going

  • @ravent3016
    @ravent3016 Месяц назад

    Good for Dani that she made this commitment to declutter. I can see that the root cause was moving from a larger space to a smaller one without decluttering. Without even considering any shopping problems, the square footage doesn't add up. Her home will be more peaceful when she is done, and the livability will be greater. Yay for her!

  • @mountaingarden8823
    @mountaingarden8823 2 месяца назад +4

    Dani is incredible! And I share her sentiment about juvenile style in big girl clothes, WHY do they do that???

  • @lindaroyal8161
    @lindaroyal8161 2 месяца назад +3

    She's doing so well, she's super motivated and that's great! Look how far she's come already. She has a cute apartment, it will be so nice to have it all finished and use the spaces as intended. Good job!

  • @brittwanderer4261
    @brittwanderer4261 2 месяца назад +3

    I adore these series. I love Dani, she's such a genuine, down to earth, radiant woman ♡♡
    Its okay to grieve the things you bought and didn't use- its easy to get caught in the spiral of being angry or disappointed in yourself about wasting money... but what you're doing now is going to change your life! And it's bought some of your buying and storing behaviours to light, what an encouraging and uplifting way to learn and take control of your space and the things you own ♡♡♡

  • @candylove1234
    @candylove1234 2 месяца назад +3

    I have gone through, and am still going through my decluttering journey and my attitude to shopping has completely changed. Even the thought of bringing something into my house that I dont need makes me nervous now 😂

  • @thatgirlirish5492
    @thatgirlirish5492 2 месяца назад +3

    Don’t throw away powder products that are new in packaging! Many powder formulas are just fine. They only put those dates on there to cover their rears for the one random obscure thing that may never happen. Unless it’s a special formula much of that stuff is fine. The old stuff that gets dicey are when people are constantly using products or dirty brushes and never sanitize them or their products. I’m using UD palettes from 2015 and they perform just as well as they ever did and I am just fine. But I’m OCD about sanitizing. Those dates are part of them making you believe you need to throw away stuff and buy more from them. Cream or liquid products are a different story though because those harbor bacteria after a year or two, those I wouldn’t put on my face.

  • @toocooltobeold
    @toocooltobeold 2 месяца назад +4

    I can't believe how much stuff she has. She is doing an amazing job letting go. I can't wait to see her finished space. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Pammellam
    @Pammellam 2 месяца назад +1

    I want to see Dani’s home when she is done, not part way….!!
    She is so motivated. It’s wonderful!
    Good job!

  • @graceaxisa4213
    @graceaxisa4213 2 месяца назад +3

    This is the difference that REALLY wanting to let things go makes! That feeling of freedom and joy can't be beat. Well done ladies!

  • @DipityS
    @DipityS 2 месяца назад +3

    This was so much fun, thank you to Dani for sharing her journey with us - the excitement of clearing a space and offloading unwanted things to give her room to breath and just be - it's contagious. You can see lovely pupper getting excited along with the two of you and dancing about 😊

  • @c.jakubowski6549
    @c.jakubowski6549 2 месяца назад +6

    You are doing a a great job. I can see the stress releasing from your face and the happiness shining through. Retrain on shopping, using what you have and purchasing with thought to it. The savings will be amazing❤️🐕🐕 your animals are so precious.

  • @VeganMangoQueen
    @VeganMangoQueen 2 месяца назад +7

    This is so satisfying, great job Dani. you are going to feel so much better after this! 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @vonkatheviking
    @vonkatheviking 2 месяца назад +1

    I needed this declutter, it's so wonderful to see others help others out, God gave up hands to help each other up not push others down and this is truly beautiful. I'm a minimalist but it's because I'm afraid of owning too much or having too many belongings, I grew up in foster care homes and some where hoarders and it ramped my OCD up to extremes, now I have only a few of things, like I'm too minimal on clothing but I do laundry 3 times a week and everyone in our house has their favourite sweater at all times. So we keep our favourite things. ✌️ 💛 🇨🇦🕯️💪 So proud of you Dani, it's not easy, proud of you each step at a time. You rocked this declutter wtg ladies. ✌️A clear space feels so good and shows your hard work.

  • @jowen3627
    @jowen3627 2 месяца назад +4

    I love checking in on ex-pats. She is doing a great job getting things in order! Would love to see more than 1 more vid. Thanks for offering this content!

  • @ravent3016
    @ravent3016 Месяц назад +1

    Unused non-liquid cosmetics (eye shadow, powder, etc) will last longer than the companies say. It's the liquid ones that go bad in six months, such as foundation, lotions, mascara

  • @barbarajean7208
    @barbarajean7208 Месяц назад +1

    I love how helpful the pup is!

  • @kittydebs
    @kittydebs 2 месяца назад +2

    🐱Good job Dani! i appreciate you for being vulnerable and sharing this. it gave me inspiration to tackle my clutter💜

  • @melocoton7
    @melocoton7 2 месяца назад +1

    sometimes I get so stressed over seemingly still having too much shit, but in comparison to her I am a minimalist. I've been slowly working through my things for the past 2 years and I am finally approaching my goal 💕 these videos are super motivating to continue and not fall back into old habits

  • @keelienne
    @keelienne 2 месяца назад +3

    Goodness Dani, I simply love you 😃
    Your humor is just the best, thanks for sharing with us 💜
    And nice to see that the two of you are finally warming up!

  • @ChristianAnneSmith
    @ChristianAnneSmith 2 месяца назад +4

    I am adoring this series! Can you keep going with Dani? Kitchen next!

  • @yumiNYC
    @yumiNYC 2 месяца назад +5

    This episode was so satisfying! Love this series.

  • @valerinaDREAMER
    @valerinaDREAMER 2 месяца назад +5

    I recently did a declutter pass of beauty products, so I can definitely empathise with the waste of unused/expired products, and cost.
    Also thanks for the calm and kind way you show and explain things. It’s definitely been helpful to know that it’s ok to declutter in multiple passes and calm the chaos as I go. All super helpful when tackling a big area on my own that may take longer than just one day.

  • @emilasmith4279
    @emilasmith4279 2 месяца назад +5

    Love this series. Dani is soooooo me! What of course we have two large floaties in our spare rooms! I can so relate! ❤

  • @a-game7203
    @a-game7203 2 месяца назад +1

    Amen! Thank you for the motivation to keep going! I already told myself this is the year I will be freed of all of this clutter! We have been working on our basement and garage mostly. I have been learning to detach from things that no longer serve me. 🙏 ❤

  • @user-vr9nt9kq6t
    @user-vr9nt9kq6t 2 месяца назад +1

    I have magnetic pallets and take the pans out of all the extra packaging. That way I have all my makeup in two pallets that I use regularly. Smaller storage.

  • @fernbrisot325
    @fernbrisot325 2 месяца назад +1

    2016 was the start of peak makeup. So many of the items that expired in 2018 were popular in 2016.

  • @chantelbritton-cole397
    @chantelbritton-cole397 2 месяца назад +4

    I agree with the cartoons on plus! Or the missing shoulders! Ugh. Just make the same clothes. I feel her pain💖

  • @christinequintana881
    @christinequintana881 Месяц назад +1

    Your storage cabinets are beautiful. I can't wait to see what you do in that room. Great progress 👏

  • @susancollins1881
    @susancollins1881 2 месяца назад +2

    Love this series with Dani. Can't wait to see it come altogether