My sincerest condolences Maya, and fuck anyone daring to criticize your demeanor when sharing personal tragedies. I hope you’re able to grieve as peacefully as possible and that you can do everything you need to for self care
Tough week for sure. Glad her parents are alright. Surrounding yourself with animals means you're going to encounter death a lot more. I'm sure she knows that but it's probably the first time during the conception of Alvaeus.
Im so sorry Maya, i hope these upcomig weeks the mourning gets easier and you feel better. I send you, your parents, Bella, the alveus staff, and your friends close ones the best wishes🌺
QT, if it's helpful, as a medical dispatcher, the tests we would do with someone via phone while paramedics were en route were 1. Can they say "the early bird catches the worm" correctly? (your speech is fine) 2. Can they smile? (Also fine) 3. And can they raise both arms equally? (If this isn't easy, that would be easily explained by pinched nerves, not just a stroke). I'm not a doctor, but I have dispatch experience, and I've also seen someone having a stroke. My opinion may not matter much, but I think strokes are pretty obvious and routine, so if you were having a stroke, it would've been easy for that doctor to diagnose. I understand that mental illnesses skews thinking, though, so I understand your concern
Maya, dissociating during the amount of stress you are currently experiencing is normal and I would honestly expect it to happen. Psychologically, things become a disorder once it interferes with your life and functioning - so in this case if you were dissociating regularly and unable to manage that. but also, qt is right that there is no set amount of trauma that you need to have experienced in order to develop it or meet diagnostic criteria.
the "worst thing about me getting on a plane is everyone talking about me getting on a plane. It makes me not want to get on a plane" is so real and was the FIRST thing I thought about when I heard. Like it's always so much fun when you conquer your anxiety for one moment and now that moment is everyone you know's favourite topic (and they're trying to be nice so you aren't even allowed to be mad).
It's like when I tell people I have arachnophobia and the first thing they do is tell me the worst spider story they have. like great now I'm going to think about this for the next week
@@Ethanpariz it is rough 😭 i am so scared of most bugs (even the "nice" ones like butterflies) and maya made me care about them!!!! so now im just scared and i cant do anything about it because if i kill it or someone else kills it i will be sad!!!!!!
It does suck but it’s necessary to grow. Better to have everyone celebrate your accomplishments instead of pushing everyone away and have nobody left in your corner
Sending all the love to you Maya. Take all the time you need to process and begin healing. We will still be here supporting and loving you from behind a screen 🩷🩷🩷
I just wanted to say thank you for both being so open and honest and vulnerable with your emotions and your relationship I’m a trans girl (out for 3 years) and don’t have many close friendships and I have emotional and dissociative issues and I’ve felt so alone with my feelings, so hearing both of you be openly yourself and not scared to express your emotions genuinely helps me so much And I’m certain there are many other who you have helped
I did shower today, and I am proud of myself! Everyone is different but I think its healthy for me to be proud of something I've done that I didnt think I could do that day. I have to celebrate my wins so I can remember I had wins next time I'm so down I cant shower. I don't know how i'd feel if people other than my very close friends also praised me though! I hope you can take the win for yourself and I hope you know that people generally have the best intentions.
Sorry for your loss. I appreciate you girls talking about these things because I just lost a loved one recently and the holidays have not been the same.
This was a surprisingly good episode for me to listen to. This was one of the worst years of my life and have gone through beat for beat a lot of what Maya listed and it was just nice to hear them talking about how they process grief and trauma. Thanks for sharing.
That was me a couple of years back, it was one of the worst years of my life. I promise with time things get a little easier to deal with. Take care of yourself, the both of you
I’m sorry for your losses Maya, it’s a lot for anyone to process and go through. Wishing you and your family well, please take some time for yourself to process things. We all process differently but we also all need our space. Hope things start turning around for you soon.
This episode was chaos, I hope Maya is processing all those situations the best way possible. I'll make sure to also comment on how beautiful Maya's signature is when I get my X-mas card.
Imagine being the assistant tuning in to watch this Wine About it to hear about how awesome he was for flying and driving for hours if not days to get Maya her Passport so they could get to the concert, and then hearing about how QT would have been just as happy (if not happier) watching the concert at home or in the hotel in Seattle.
omg Maya - I saw the posts about your animal ambassadors but I did not know about everything else - that is so freaking difficult and confusing. I really, really hope 2025 is much kinder to you and I hope you take the time you need to process and grieve. Sending you so much love and hugs
Oh my god Maya...Sending my condolences to you and hoping your parents recover well! that is so much to take on at once. You are so so strong, even being present for the podcast and for your streams is a crazy amount of effort and dedication.
I understand the not wanting everyone to "congratulate" getting on a plane. Like when you are bedrotting with a depressive episode not understanding what was happening as a child and when you take all the energy to get out of bed, suddenly the whole family is making it like a big accomplishment and it innately sounds condescending. I don't want to be rewarded about something that shouldn't have taken me much effort it sucks.
I'm so sorry, Maya.. I can't imagine so much loss at once. I've had similar experiences but not that close together.. I hope you can process it all, though sometimes it's hard to say what "processing" even is.
Oh man, hearing what Maya went through is insaneeeee. I recently lost my dog of 8 years very suddenly and that was devastating, I can't even imagine what she's going through :( Hope everyone has the bestest of vibes this holiday
I definitely understand the frustration with people talking about QT getting on a plane. Just because she forced herself to face a fear once, doesn't mean that fear has now gone from her. It is still something she doesn't like doing and people hopping on the QT flying train is just going to make it harder for her to do it in the future.
QT and Maya already talked about it as everything happened. This was them recapping it for the pod, no consoling was necessary because the consoling already happened
per both QT and Maya, they talk on the phone every single day without fail pretty much and they console each other constantly in private. QT was also there in person with Maya as most of these events were unfolding. she also said her main goal as Maya was recapping for the pod was not pushing her to get upset/cry and that’s also why she kept things moving pretty quickly.
@@nicolaspapasidero9441Maya specifically said that she, in her moment of anguish, had to be considerate of how QT might feel because it could cause QT to spiral. QT is bad at consoling. And that’s fine, not everybody is good at it, but it’s hard to say “it happened off the podcast” when Maya and QT are discussing it… not happening off the podcast.
@@samfuel Maya wishing she could have been considerate of QT’s hypochondria when it came to all the health details of her friend’s passing really indicates nothing about QT being able to console her and be there for her... it’s not like QT overhearing health details suddenly caused her to stop functioning as Maya’s best friend. Maya has named QT and Caleb as basically her entire primary support system and Maya prefaced the segment with “QT has heard this every single day.”
@@LiveOutLoud321you can be bad at consoling someone and be a great support system. Many people don’t need consoling. QT can be a very valuable friend and be very bad at consoling, they’re not mutually exclusive.
When I lost my father, my sister quoted that "grief is the price we pay for love" by Dr Colin Murray Parkes. It made me feel a little better, there is something dignified to being mourned. It means that you were/are loved. I hope that Maya's friend lived a rich life full of love and experiences, even if he or she was taken away way too early.
Bro wth is up with the universe trying to absolutely diabolically rock mayas shit. She does so much for the betterment of the world (as a planet, the natural aspect of it to be specific) you’d think the universe would give back to her? She’s so kind and compassionate and sweet… and even since the start of her streaming journey she’s been getting her ass handed to her- obviously she’s had a lot of big wins and it’s not like she’s In a constant state of torment but out of seemingly nowhere she randomly has CRAZY moments like this where the universe just gives her the hardest time and I feel so bad because she doesn’t deserve it at all. 😭💀
Just a note, generally people shouldn't just try to process trauma and write stuff down soon after it happens. Typically you shouldn't be doing it while it's still raw. Similar to trying to do physical therapy on a broken arm while it's still flopping around broken. I'm not a therapist, but I have heard some therapists talking about this.
Maya, you are so strong 😢 all these deaths and awful events to end the year, cheers to 2025 being immensely better ❤ your community is behind you more than you'd ever know ❤ internet hugs from us
Listening to these first 15 minutes has me wondering if Maya and QT bouncing their pain and destroyed mental state off each other for content is a good idea because holy shit
dude i love that this speaks so much to the personalities of the two podcasts The Yard talking about QT's flight: Lud's a HERO getting her on that plane Wine About It talking about QT's flight: ..... yeah no, wasn't worth it, and shut up
I'm so sorry for your losses and recent scares Maya. While your therapist is on leave if you need to talk to a professional please reach out to another therapist. I wish you and your loved ones health
December has been terrible for me too. Our pet fish died, my car broke down during Thanksgiving so it's been in the shop in a different city than me for a month, and I got swapped to a new team at work last minute and have had to relearn a lot of office politics. It's gotta be Mercury or whatever
This has been the worst week of the year for me too! Nothing to compare to everything Maya has been through. One of my upstairs neighbors somehow clogged the plumbing system and my sink has been overflowing. Even though I’ve talked to them and told them to stop using their sink and dishwasher! BUT THE CRAZY PART IS THAT ITS GALLONS AND GALLONS OF CHICKEN BROTH. And also kind of miso broth-y. There’s little bits of greens and mush as well. Which is just so baffling. WHO HAS SUCH A COPIUS AMOUNT OF RAMEN TO PUT DOWN THEIR DRAIN??
I'm so sorry Maya, I've just lost my cat this month and its been so incredibly hard. I know these animals arent your pets but they sure are you world and I can't imagine how awful you must be feeling right now. I wish you the best.
Yes without a doubt this is the most cursed December… don’t know what’s in the air but hope everyone dealing with things (including Wine Abt It girlies) can feel support and get through it
I don’t even know who you are really, but Maya I’m so sorry to hear about all of the death/reminders of mortality happening to your kin. It’s not only horrible to deal with all of those events separately, but when they happen in conjunction, it’s even more devastating.
It's just hard to dance in the stands. For me personally since the levels of the chairs get higher, I feel like I stand out and it makes me nervous. Unlike where its all level in the GA floor.
Death do b happening sometimes tbh. They TRULY do not think it b like it is, but it do. Cutie barred out of her mind at a T-Swift show is a crazy fucking visual tbh
I hope you guys read comments, QT if you're feeling tingles down the arm, tell the doctors to do an EMG, or some sort of nerve study. Especially if you feel it in the neck/trap as well, it sounds like a pinched or compressed nerve to me.
Exactly what I came here to comment. It's incredibly common for shoulder injuries to cause pinched or impinged nerves. Given her tense shoulder it's probably just some pressure mildly pushing on a nerve. A quick and easy test to determine it is with a muscle relaxant and anti-inflammatory, such as Ibuprofen (Advil) and Methocarbamol (Robax Platinum). Take those before a warm bath and I bet she'll feel much better.
sending so much love maya❤ and qt as a big hypochondriac too i get you so much, my health anxiety literally ruins so many of my days bc i think i have everything which just makes it worse and i get more anxious and the cycle continues 😭 went to urgent care bc of similar symptoms, my left side was tingly and hurting so i was like oh heart attack! so for a week it just got worse so i had to go and turns out it was some nervous system thing and i was like oh! and immediately went away💀
12:06 omgg i did this when my cousin got asymptomatic covid and everybody was pale faced that he was gonna die and i said outloud omg what if i have it from him now😭😭😭and he was standing right next to me
27:04 Jesus christ QT what a horrible thing to say after your friend dealt with your shit throughout that whole process and has just had the worst week of all time. Mental illness isn't an excuse for being a bad friend and saying horrible shit.
Damn… i go in and out of thinking QT is great… and this. I wanted to erase her transitioning about her arm rashes and hypochondria right after maya talking about her friend passing away. And I justified it by thinking “I’m sure behind closed doors, QT was there for her and provided some comfort” but no.. maya said she was being mindful of QT worrying about dying when she got the phone call. And then I got to the part you timestamped. I agree so much that mental health isn’t an excuse. And I hope that we are just seeing moments and in real life QT isn’t like this.
QT said on stream that every time Maya felt like she was about to cry ,she would insert herself into the conversation to distract Maya from crying. She said and i quote, "I would rather look like an asshole than her cry on the episode". SO who's a bad friend now bozos?
Maya knows exactly what QT means even if she phrased it poorly and QT clearly wasn’t saying that she didn’t want Maya there… and I can also concur that QT stated on her stream that her main goal when they were recording was to move the pod along for Maya’s sake (and QT clearly knows Maya infinitely better and what she can do to best support her best friend at any given moment than we do as viewers). per both QT and Maya, they talk every day and constantly are consoling each other in private.
I feel like everyone is getting rashes rn! My dad got a rash on different parts of his body and then so did my grandma’s bf and then I got a rash all over my chest which I had to be put on high dose prednisone for (and still isn’t gone) and now i’m hearing qt has one too like what is going on why does everyone have a rash rn
I felt bad for Maya when QT told her that she didn't have a good time at the concert partly because of her :( and that maybe she would have had a better time with someone else. If that had been said to me, I would have felt reaaaaally bad
I get drawing that conclusion but I don’t think QT was saying it like she wouldn’t have wanted Maya there regardless and it seemed like Maya wasn’t taking it the wrong way either. when they went to the concert in LA, QT demanded that Maya be on one side of her and Lud on the other in the box she bought. also QT has said her OCD attaches itself to certain people and Maya is one of the very few so I’m sure Maya knows her presence was critical just in general.
Today was awful I cried at work. Whatever is in the universe right now it's bad mojo. Hope you girls are hanging in there. Also I don't even think it's an irrational phobia doctors famously don't pay attention to women. ❤
My sincerest condolences Maya, and fuck anyone daring to criticize your demeanor when sharing personal tragedies. I hope you’re able to grieve as peacefully as possible and that you can do everything you need to for self care
Holy cow what a way to start the episode 😭😭😭😭
Tough week for sure. Glad her parents are alright. Surrounding yourself with animals means you're going to encounter death a lot more. I'm sure she knows that but it's probably the first time during the conception of Alvaeus.
Just started the episode…I hope Maya has a better 2025 that sounds so rough ❤❤❤
QT too of course (we’re all going through it I guess…😢)
It's sweet that QT brought her emotional support Maya to the Taylor Swift concert.
Maya, I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through, losing so much in such a short time, you are so resilient! keep up all your amazing work
Im so sorry Maya, i hope these upcomig weeks the mourning gets easier and you feel better. I send you, your parents, Bella, the alveus staff, and your friends close ones the best wishes🌺
My god maya has experienced like 3 of my most traumatic experiences of my entire life in the span of like a week I feel so bad I can’t imagine
QT, if it's helpful, as a medical dispatcher, the tests we would do with someone via phone while paramedics were en route were 1. Can they say "the early bird catches the worm" correctly? (your speech is fine) 2. Can they smile? (Also fine) 3. And can they raise both arms equally? (If this isn't easy, that would be easily explained by pinched nerves, not just a stroke). I'm not a doctor, but I have dispatch experience, and I've also seen someone having a stroke. My opinion may not matter much, but I think strokes are pretty obvious and routine, so if you were having a stroke, it would've been easy for that doctor to diagnose. I understand that mental illnesses skews thinking, though, so I understand your concern
Maya, dissociating during the amount of stress you are currently experiencing is normal and I would honestly expect it to happen. Psychologically, things become a disorder once it interferes with your life and functioning - so in this case if you were dissociating regularly and unable to manage that.
but also, qt is right that there is no set amount of trauma that you need to have experienced in order to develop it or meet diagnostic criteria.
IT'S WINE ABOUT IT WEDNESDAY!!!! Audio listeners Maya and QT don't want you to see that they held hands on their flight to Vancouver
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the "worst thing about me getting on a plane is everyone talking about me getting on a plane. It makes me not want to get on a plane" is so real and was the FIRST thing I thought about when I heard. Like it's always so much fun when you conquer your anxiety for one moment and now that moment is everyone you know's favourite topic (and they're trying to be nice so you aren't even allowed to be mad).
It's kinda like when you leave your room for the first time and everyone in the house is like "Look who came out of their cave"
It's like when I tell people I have arachnophobia and the first thing they do is tell me the worst spider story they have. like great now I'm going to think about this for the next week
@@arsenshere having arachnophobia and being a Maya fan must be rough
@@Ethanpariz it is rough 😭 i am so scared of most bugs (even the "nice" ones like butterflies) and maya made me care about them!!!! so now im just scared and i cant do anything about it because if i kill it or someone else kills it i will be sad!!!!!!
It does suck but it’s necessary to grow. Better to have everyone celebrate your accomplishments instead of pushing everyone away and have nobody left in your corner
Sending all the love to you Maya. Take all the time you need to process and begin healing. We will still be here supporting and loving you from behind a screen 🩷🩷🩷
I just wanted to say thank you for both being so open and honest and vulnerable with your emotions and your relationship
I’m a trans girl (out for 3 years) and don’t have many close friendships and I have emotional and dissociative issues and I’ve felt so alone with my feelings, so hearing both of you be openly yourself and not scared to express your emotions genuinely helps me so much
And I’m certain there are many other who you have helped
Maya, you are so incredibly strong. Wishing you nothing but love while you grieve and heal, you're in all of our thoughts
We love Maya, Alveus, and all the ambassadors. I hope things start being easier Maya. I'm so sorry for the losses this year.
I did shower today, and I am proud of myself! Everyone is different but I think its healthy for me to be proud of something I've done that I didnt think I could do that day. I have to celebrate my wins so I can remember I had wins next time I'm so down I cant shower. I don't know how i'd feel if people other than my very close friends also praised me though! I hope you can take the win for yourself and I hope you know that people generally have the best intentions.
Sorry for your loss. I appreciate you girls talking about these things because I just lost a loved one recently and the holidays have not been the same.
This was a surprisingly good episode for me to listen to. This was one of the worst years of my life and have gone through beat for beat a lot of what Maya listed and it was just nice to hear them talking about how they process grief and trauma. Thanks for sharing.
You and me both 🥲
This Christmas and New Year is going to majorly suck for me. 🥲
That was me a couple of years back, it was one of the worst years of my life. I promise with time things get a little easier to deal with. Take care of yourself, the both of you
I’m sorry for your losses Maya, it’s a lot for anyone to process and go through. Wishing you and your family well, please take some time for yourself to process things. We all process differently but we also all need our space. Hope things start turning around for you soon.
This episode was chaos, I hope Maya is processing all those situations the best way possible. I'll make sure to also comment on how beautiful Maya's signature is when I get my X-mas card.
Imagine being the assistant tuning in to watch this Wine About it to hear about how awesome he was for flying and driving for hours if not days to get Maya her Passport so they could get to the concert, and then hearing about how QT would have been just as happy (if not happier) watching the concert at home or in the hotel in Seattle.
I heard a therapist say once, that trauma happens when you think you're safe, and then you suddenly aren't.
maya’s nails are SO CUTE i cant
Oh my gosh Maya 😢 I’m so sorry. I only knew about the Alveus passings. When it rains it pours 💔 I hope things get better in 2025.
I wish you the best maya, you do wonderful things for our world. Forever grateful and our thoughts will be with you ❤❤
I’m so so so deeply sorry maya for all this loss. Hoping the best for you and sending lots of love and positive vibes. ❤🥺
omg Maya - I saw the posts about your animal ambassadors but I did not know about everything else - that is so freaking difficult and confusing. I really, really hope 2025 is much kinder to you and I hope you take the time you need to process and grieve. Sending you so much love and hugs
Oh my god Maya...Sending my condolences to you and hoping your parents recover well! that is so much to take on at once. You are so so strong, even being present for the podcast and for your streams is a crazy amount of effort and dedication.
Maya "my friend died and animals died"
Qt "i got a rash"
I understand the not wanting everyone to "congratulate" getting on a plane. Like when you are bedrotting with a depressive episode not understanding what was happening as a child and when you take all the energy to get out of bed, suddenly the whole family is making it like a big accomplishment and it innately sounds condescending. I don't want to be rewarded about something that shouldn't have taken me much effort it sucks.
I'm so sorry, Maya.. I can't imagine so much loss at once. I've had similar experiences but not that close together.. I hope you can process it all, though sometimes it's hard to say what "processing" even is.
Maya ❤❤ hope it gets better
Oh man, hearing what Maya went through is insaneeeee. I recently lost my dog of 8 years very suddenly and that was devastating, I can't even imagine what she's going through :( Hope everyone has the bestest of vibes this holiday
6:25 WTF Maya I'm so sorry.
jesus.... i'm so sorry to hear about what you went through maya.... my condolences
Oh Our sweet sweet Maya 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
*sending you all the positive hugs we could collect*
I love doing a rebrand and like doing a while ass shoot for it and then it still talking 2 months to actually change the look
We need to bring back the classy dresses and wine pour. Im sure there are some alcohol free single serve wines out there
maya i think has broken the record of personal tragedies in 1 week
I definitely understand the frustration with people talking about QT getting on a plane. Just because she forced herself to face a fear once, doesn't mean that fear has now gone from her. It is still something she doesn't like doing and people hopping on the QT flying train is just going to make it harder for her to do it in the future.
Sorry to hear that Maya. I’m sending love and healing your way
I thought I was bad at consoling but QT is on a whole other level
QT and Maya already talked about it as everything happened. This was them recapping it for the pod, no consoling was necessary because the consoling already happened
per both QT and Maya, they talk on the phone every single day without fail pretty much and they console each other constantly in private. QT was also there in person with Maya as most of these events were unfolding. she also said her main goal as Maya was recapping for the pod was not pushing her to get upset/cry and that’s also why she kept things moving pretty quickly.
@@nicolaspapasidero9441Maya specifically said that she, in her moment of anguish, had to be considerate of how QT might feel because it could cause QT to spiral. QT is bad at consoling. And that’s fine, not everybody is good at it, but it’s hard to say “it happened off the podcast” when Maya and QT are discussing it… not happening off the podcast.
@@samfuel Maya wishing she could have been considerate of QT’s hypochondria when it came to all the health details of her friend’s passing really indicates nothing about QT being able to console her and be there for her... it’s not like QT overhearing health details suddenly caused her to stop functioning as Maya’s best friend. Maya has named QT and Caleb as basically her entire primary support system and Maya prefaced the segment with “QT has heard this every single day.”
@@LiveOutLoud321you can be bad at consoling someone and be a great support system. Many people don’t need consoling. QT can be a very valuable friend and be very bad at consoling, they’re not mutually exclusive.
Jesus christ maya is going throught it, I hope things improve soon😭
thinking of you Maya!! 💗💗💗💗💗 I admire how capable you are in situations like that to persevere
When I lost my father, my sister quoted that "grief is the price we pay for love" by Dr Colin Murray Parkes. It made me feel a little better, there is something dignified to being mourned. It means that you were/are loved. I hope that Maya's friend lived a rich life full of love and experiences, even if he or she was taken away way too early.
I hope u guys have better days ahead. ❤
Bro wth is up with the universe trying to absolutely diabolically rock mayas shit. She does so much for the betterment of the world (as a planet, the natural aspect of it to be specific) you’d think the universe would give back to her? She’s so kind and compassionate and sweet… and even since the start of her streaming journey she’s been getting her ass handed to her- obviously she’s had a lot of big wins and it’s not like she’s In a constant state of torment but out of seemingly nowhere she randomly has CRAZY moments like this where the universe just gives her the hardest time and I feel so bad because she doesn’t deserve it at all. 😭💀
Just a note, generally people shouldn't just try to process trauma and write stuff down soon after it happens. Typically you shouldn't be doing it while it's still raw. Similar to trying to do physical therapy on a broken arm while it's still flopping around broken. I'm not a therapist, but I have heard some therapists talking about this.
Maya, you are so strong 😢 all these deaths and awful events to end the year, cheers to 2025 being immensely better ❤ your community is behind you more than you'd ever know ❤ internet hugs from us
sending you lots of love maya!
Jesus Christ maybe Maya needed to sit this week out ❤ hope she's doing ok
Damn, Sorry Maya. Thats rough. wishing yall well.
Maya your nails are insane in this ep!! I always love seeing how you get your nails done bc they’re always so fuckin cute
IM SO SORRY MAYA!!!!❤❤❤❤
Oh my gosh maya I hope your therapist has her schedule cleared after vacation I am so sorry you've had to deal with all of that
Listening to these first 15 minutes has me wondering if Maya and QT bouncing their pain and destroyed mental state off each other for content is a good idea because holy shit
I'm so sorry Maya, this is devastating 💔
Would it be possible to remove the line in the middle and kind of blend the sets together, so it looks like ur in the same room
I think that might be the plan w the new sets !
Holy shit maya that’s awful. I really hope you catch a much needed break ❤ sending love and energy
Sending you so much love Maya!! ❤️ Been there! Shitty Things tend to happen in numbers. So so so much love girly !
dude i love that this speaks so much to the personalities of the two podcasts
The Yard talking about QT's flight: Lud's a HERO getting her on that plane
Wine About It talking about QT's flight: ..... yeah no, wasn't worth it, and shut up
Meanwhile, Fear& 😢
I'm so sorry for your losses and recent scares Maya. While your therapist is on leave if you need to talk to a professional please reach out to another therapist. I wish you and your loved ones health
Amazing podcast.
December has been terrible for me too. Our pet fish died, my car broke down during Thanksgiving so it's been in the shop in a different city than me for a month, and I got swapped to a new team at work last minute and have had to relearn a lot of office politics. It's gotta be Mercury or whatever
41:42 maya with the absolutely flawless thwomp impression
What a terrible end of the year for maya:/ if you need a break we'll understand 🙏
This has been the worst week of the year for me too! Nothing to compare to everything Maya has been through.
One of my upstairs neighbors somehow clogged the plumbing system and my sink has been overflowing. Even though I’ve talked to them and told them to stop using their sink and dishwasher!
BUT THE CRAZY PART IS THAT ITS GALLONS AND GALLONS OF CHICKEN BROTH. And also kind of miso broth-y. There’s little bits of greens and mush as well.
Which is just so baffling. WHO HAS SUCH A COPIUS AMOUNT OF RAMEN TO PUT DOWN THEIR DRAIN??
I'm so sorry Maya, I've just lost my cat this month and its been so incredibly hard. I know these animals arent your pets but they sure are you world and I can't imagine how awful you must be feeling right now. I wish you the best.
Goated ZocDoc ad read QT
Yes without a doubt this is the most cursed December… don’t know what’s in the air but hope everyone dealing with things (including Wine Abt It girlies) can feel support and get through it
14:03 YES why does December have hands like chilllll
I don’t even know who you are really, but Maya I’m so sorry to hear about all of the death/reminders of mortality happening to your kin. It’s not only horrible to deal with all of those events separately, but when they happen in conjunction, it’s even more devastating.
I don't want to be parasocial, but it's so awful and unfair how life can gang up on you like that, and I wish you all the best Maya!
It's just hard to dance in the stands. For me personally since the levels of the chairs get higher, I feel like I stand out and it makes me nervous.
Unlike where its all level in the GA floor.
Death do b happening sometimes tbh. They TRULY do not think it b like it is, but it do.
Cutie barred out of her mind at a T-Swift show is a crazy fucking visual tbh
sending so much love to Maya and QT
its been a rough ride
what a tragic episode. here's hoping we all have a better 2025. your guys content does help make the world better :)
What is Maya’s lip combo???? Love it need it
holy shit maya. i am sorry. ♥
Not the thumbnail and title change 💀
I hope you guys read comments, QT if you're feeling tingles down the arm, tell the doctors to do an EMG, or some sort of nerve study. Especially if you feel it in the neck/trap as well, it sounds like a pinched or compressed nerve to me.
Exactly what I came here to comment. It's incredibly common for shoulder injuries to cause pinched or impinged nerves. Given her tense shoulder it's probably just some pressure mildly pushing on a nerve. A quick and easy test to determine it is with a muscle relaxant and anti-inflammatory, such as Ibuprofen (Advil) and Methocarbamol (Robax Platinum). Take those before a warm bath and I bet she'll feel much better.
17 title changes later
sending so much love maya❤
and qt as a big hypochondriac too i get you so much, my health anxiety literally ruins so many of my days bc i think i have everything which just makes it worse and i get more anxious and the cycle continues 😭 went to urgent care bc of similar symptoms, my left side was tingly and hurting so i was like oh heart attack! so for a week it just got worse so i had to go and turns out it was some nervous system thing and i was like oh! and immediately went away💀
listening to qt's side after the yard is peak content - also cristian is goated for the passport thing
QT is so me 😂
"the last needle on the haystack"
I hope everyone has a better 2025 to maya and qt and all the wine about it fans. I hope we have a good year
12:06 omgg i did this when my cousin got asymptomatic covid and everybody was pale faced that he was gonna die and i said outloud omg what if i have it from him now😭😭😭and he was standing right next to me
27:04 Jesus christ QT what a horrible thing to say after your friend dealt with your shit throughout that whole process and has just had the worst week of all time. Mental illness isn't an excuse for being a bad friend and saying horrible shit.
Damn… i go in and out of thinking QT is great… and this. I wanted to erase her transitioning about her arm rashes and hypochondria right after maya talking about her friend passing away. And I justified it by thinking “I’m sure behind closed doors, QT was there for her and provided some comfort” but no.. maya said she was being mindful of QT worrying about dying when she got the phone call. And then I got to the part you timestamped.
I agree so much that mental health isn’t an excuse. And I hope that we are just seeing moments and in real life QT isn’t like this.
QT said on stream that every time Maya felt like she was about to cry ,she would insert herself into the conversation to distract Maya from crying. She said and i quote, "I would rather look like an asshole than her cry on the episode". SO who's a bad friend now bozos?
@@natsudragneel5356 I can only assume you are young.
@@ShowMeYourTeeth Is that the best retort you could come up with? how is that relevant to this argument at all?
Maya knows exactly what QT means even if she phrased it poorly and QT clearly wasn’t saying that she didn’t want Maya there… and I can also concur that QT stated on her stream that her main goal when they were recording was to move the pod along for Maya’s sake (and QT clearly knows Maya infinitely better and what she can do to best support her best friend at any given moment than we do as viewers). per both QT and Maya, they talk every day and constantly are consoling each other in private.
I mean by looking at you and talking to you it's undeniably obvious you're not having a stroke lol
I just wish QT would try to not complain AS much about peoples reactions to her who clearly have good intentions and are trying to support her.
where are the chapters/timestamps?
jesus christ Maya. I'm so sorry, and also jesus christ.
I love the Vancouver Aquarium :3
My fav pod is baaaaaaaack
I feel like everyone is getting rashes rn! My dad got a rash on different parts of his body and then so did my grandma’s bf and then I got a rash all over my chest which I had to be put on high dose prednisone for (and still isn’t gone) and now i’m hearing qt has one too like what is going on why does everyone have a rash rn
14:51 Last needle on the haystack??? What does that mean lol
Not QT and I having a pinched nerve same time
I felt bad for Maya when QT told her that she didn't have a good time at the concert partly because of her :( and that maybe she would have had a better time with someone else. If that had been said to me, I would have felt reaaaaally bad
I get drawing that conclusion but I don’t think QT was saying it like she wouldn’t have wanted Maya there regardless and it seemed like Maya wasn’t taking it the wrong way either. when they went to the concert in LA, QT demanded that Maya be on one side of her and Lud on the other in the box she bought. also QT has said her OCD attaches itself to certain people and Maya is one of the very few so I’m sure Maya knows her presence was critical just in general.
sending love maya stay strong crodie
Today was awful I cried at work. Whatever is in the universe right now it's bad mojo. Hope you girls are hanging in there. Also I don't even think it's an irrational phobia doctors famously don't pay attention to women. ❤