NTA. If they want a baby sitter then they need to PAY for one like any other parent. SHE had three children. SHE doesn't get to just dump them off on others for free without even asking as she pleases.
I'm sure sister must be tired, but that's not the way to go about it, my sister has triplets too, but when the family gathers she doesn't take that attitude of "now they're your problem" no, she stays mommy-mode and although we try to help her, on our own volition, she doesn't make the children other people's problem, OP'S sister is completely on the wrong here. Good thing OP didn't allow it anymore. 🎉
I think the husband needs to step up. If the sister is a house wife that would be hard but assuming she works the husband needs to step up. On vacation both parents need to make sure they're parenting their kids. Ofc it's hard, it would feel like they have no break but it seems like the husband is much more of a passive parent. The sister is definitely the AH still
The best thing was "I hope I don't have to make another update...UPDATE!!!"
NTA. If they want a baby sitter then they need to PAY for one like any other parent. SHE had three children. SHE doesn't get to just dump them off on others for free without even asking as she pleases.
I'm sure sister must be tired, but that's not the way to go about it, my sister has triplets too, but when the family gathers she doesn't take that attitude of "now they're your problem" no, she stays mommy-mode and although we try to help her, on our own volition, she doesn't make the children other people's problem, OP'S sister is completely on the wrong here. Good thing OP didn't allow it anymore. 🎉
I think the husband needs to step up. If the sister is a house wife that would be hard but assuming she works the husband needs to step up. On vacation both parents need to make sure they're parenting their kids. Ofc it's hard, it would feel like they have no break but it seems like the husband is much more of a passive parent. The sister is definitely the AH still