Hi Yogi and Kabeer, Dumpkin here! 😊 Thank you so much for helping Pumpkin with his doubts. I told him the same-that everything will be fine with time and we should always prioritize our happiness. I also came out to my mom a few weeks ago. I always believed she would understand me. She’s a bit upset, but now she’s like, “It’s your life, live it on your terms.” The only thing is she doesn’t want relatives to know, and I think that’s fine. We can do this for our families, at least until India becomes more open and people move past certain stereotypes. Thanks again! Love from Pumpkin and Dumpkin ❤️
Believe me rn it feels like "everyone should know and accept us" but as u grow older u will realise urself how it was dumb of u to think of it this way, cause ppl talk and use ur differences/weakness against you. RELATIVES/COWORKERS OR RANDOM PPL DON'T NEED TO KNOW CAUSE IT'S NOT THEIR BUSINESS (excluding family), kya hi karegi unki acceptance?, kyo itni importance di jaye external logo ko? what's of prime importance is you both being happy and safe. Protect what you have and stay strong, good luck ❤
Pumpkin's family chose their own happiness. To put it clear that for them their happiness is more important than Pumpkin's happiness, even if it does not impact them.
Wo log so called apni ijjat ki chinta kar rahe hai.. Fir chahe unka baccha andar hi andar ghutta rahe.. Such parents are very toxic jinki soch society ke rules and regulations ke hisab se change hoti rehti hai..
'Not a therapy session' is now the life saving guide for today's n future generations. Thanks Y. K. for again this intellectual talks and suggestions. ❤ If possible please include my question as well in upcoming episodes. My one suggestion if possible take atleast 4 to 5 questions as u r coming only once in a week.
I really like these series , ye suggestions kiski kitni help karenge ye to bta nhi sakta but jo humlogo ki overthinking hai isko jarur kam kar sakte hn , thankyou so much for initiating this serious, lots of love ❤ for both of u guys from Agra 😊😊
Laksh, my only 2 cents would be that no one should have that kind of importance to make you question “Am I not good enough?”. That guy made a choice by ghosting you or giving you the wrong signal but, now you have the choice to take control of your happiness. Excel in your career, get a revenge bod, or go meet other “hunks” 😂 (but always be safe). You’re 19, the world is your sev poha 😂😂
In initial 2-3 mnt I was like "han ye kar lo pehle😂" just kidding. What I analysed in today's episode is fear of being judged. So according to a psychologist's study only 4/10 people actually judge/notice us but due to lack of self confidence we feel that 10/10 are looking at us, judging us. But actually no one even cares what the sh*t is going around them. The main problem is in our own perception to see our own personality. So make a strong vision to overcome by that.❤
Meri puri family meri sadi k bde bde spne sja k baithe . Ki hum ye krenge wo krenge . Meri sisters bolti hai ki tu sadi k bad bivi ka mt hojana . Or mere nephews roj planning krte hai ki mama ki sadi me kya phnenge . Unko kese kahu ki me tum logo k liye bhabi nhi. Jija lane ki firak me hu . Unke spne todna nhi chahta bt muje ldkiyo me ghnta intrest nhi hai 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂
Hlo dear, Ravi this side m 28year old by profession m an cosmetologist plz reply coz bhut dipressed hu future ko lekr ......Mere 6year relationship rhi h & hum dono ek dusre k sath ok rhe hai alwys but meri family nhi mani m aaj b mere partner k liye stand lena chahta hu but I don't knw ki ky family k against hokr jana no doubt 200% try b kia smjhane ka unko but they can't so ky mera stand lena galat hoga ya nhi plz suggest coz kisi or ki side jana ya life m as a partner dekhna to dur sochna b gussa aata h ab b last 2 month s hum baat nhi kr rhe aaps m family ka khna h esi relationship m baad m pchtana hi pdega but mere saasu mom is ok ki hum sath rh skte h so m confuse hn no doubt vo b settled h job m or me too but fr b plz suggest 🙏
Hi Yogi and Kabeer,
Dumpkin here! 😊
Thank you so much for helping Pumpkin with his doubts. I told him the same-that everything will be fine with time and we should always prioritize our happiness.
I also came out to my mom a few weeks ago. I always believed she would understand me. She’s a bit upset, but now she’s like, “It’s your life, live it on your terms.” The only thing is she doesn’t want relatives to know, and I think that’s fine. We can do this for our families, at least until India becomes more open and people move past certain stereotypes.
Thanks again! Love from Pumpkin and Dumpkin ❤️
Believe me rn it feels like "everyone should know and accept us" but as u grow older u will realise urself how it was dumb of u to think of it this way, cause ppl talk and use ur differences/weakness against you. RELATIVES/COWORKERS OR RANDOM PPL DON'T NEED TO KNOW CAUSE IT'S NOT THEIR BUSINESS (excluding family), kya hi karegi unki acceptance?, kyo itni importance di jaye external logo ko? what's of prime importance is you both being happy and safe. Protect what you have and stay strong, good luck ❤
@@mitesine totally agree with you buddy.
@@writeordraw7297 lots of love and luck to both of you ❤️
@@mitesine I agree with you and Thanks a lot for the motivation! 😊
@@yogiandkabeer Thanks🤩❤️
Pumpkin's family chose their own happiness. To put it clear that for them their happiness is more important than Pumpkin's happiness, even if it does not impact them.
Wo log so called apni ijjat ki chinta kar rahe hai.. Fir chahe unka baccha andar hi andar ghutta rahe..
Such parents are very toxic jinki soch society ke rules and regulations ke hisab se change hoti rehti hai..
'Not a therapy session' is now the life saving guide for today's n future generations. Thanks Y. K. for again this intellectual talks and suggestions. ❤
If possible please include my question as well in upcoming episodes.
My one suggestion if possible take atleast 4 to 5 questions as u r coming only once in a week.
I really like these series , ye suggestions kiski kitni help karenge ye to bta nhi sakta but jo humlogo ki overthinking hai isko jarur kam kar sakte hn , thankyou so much for initiating this serious, lots of love ❤ for both of u guys from Agra 😊😊
Whenever I watch you guys, Mera din ban jata hai
Hey guys I can totally feel the nostalgia about those songs, thanks for making me remember them. loved the episode.
Just light hearted ❤
omg!!! you guys forgot Tera Mera Pyar Sanam by Bombay Vikings and Falguni Pathak
Radio Pe Suna Tha Socha Nahi Tha Kabhi In Badmasho Dekhunga Live Pe 😂😂 Naughties - God Bless You ❤
Very touching podcast ❤
I can relate to the cricket and gym thing
I think this is the 5th time Kabeer mentioned Laila Majnu, gotta see it for real.
Laksh, my only 2 cents would be that no one should have that kind of importance to make you question “Am I not good enough?”. That guy made a choice by ghosting you or giving you the wrong signal but, now you have the choice to take control of your happiness.
Excel in your career, get a revenge bod, or go meet other “hunks” 😂 (but always be safe). You’re 19, the world is your sev poha 😂😂
In initial 2-3 mnt I was like "han ye kar lo pehle😂" just kidding.
What I analysed in today's episode is fear of being judged.
So according to a psychologist's study only 4/10 people actually judge/notice us but due to lack of self confidence we feel that 10/10 are looking at us, judging us. But actually no one even cares what the sh*t is going around them.
The main problem is in our own perception to see our own personality.
So make a strong vision to overcome by that.❤
cute couple. ❤❤❤❤
Meri puri family meri sadi k bde bde spne sja k baithe . Ki hum ye krenge wo krenge . Meri sisters bolti hai ki tu sadi k bad bivi ka mt hojana . Or mere nephews roj planning krte hai ki mama ki sadi me kya phnenge . Unko kese kahu ki me tum logo k liye bhabi nhi. Jija lane ki firak me hu . Unke spne todna nhi chahta bt muje ldkiyo me ghnta intrest nhi hai 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂
Hi
Hlo dear, Ravi this side m 28year old by profession m an cosmetologist plz reply coz bhut dipressed hu future ko lekr ......Mere 6year relationship rhi h & hum dono ek dusre k sath ok rhe hai alwys but meri family nhi mani m aaj b mere partner k liye stand lena chahta hu but I don't knw ki ky family k against hokr jana no doubt 200% try b kia smjhane ka unko but they can't so ky mera stand lena galat hoga ya nhi plz suggest coz kisi or ki side jana ya life m as a partner dekhna to dur sochna b gussa aata h ab b last 2 month s hum baat nhi kr rhe aaps m family ka khna h esi relationship m baad m pchtana hi pdega but mere saasu mom is ok ki hum sath rh skte h so m confuse hn no doubt vo b settled h job m or me too but fr b plz suggest 🙏
Agar tum dono pakke convinced ho ki saath rehna hai, to sab aage jaake nipat jayega..
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