HOA KAREN PROHIBITS ME BUILD RAMP FOR MY DISABLED SON! I Am the Owner of this Land r/EntitledPeople

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @machendave
    @machendave Год назад +11

    Brother and family just pay for a new back door and a lift... sorted. BTW It's the homeowner that does not want the ramp, not a HOA

  • @richewilson6394
    @richewilson6394 Год назад +13

    Op needs to tell that sister that if she we'll have to live with the fact that there are sometimes you won't be able to get your way on certain things. Even if it is a handicap accessory there's no way you can install a ramp at every single house or place that this kid's going to go to in his life. His friends may not have the money to be able to afford a ramp to have them over they're just going to have to learn to lift him out of the chair and bring him in that way once in a while.

    • @little1942
      @little1942 Год назад +5

      I’m also disabled. But can walk without a cane in my home most of time. Outside, not so much. Shopping, definitely not. Sometimes, I can’t walk at all.
      Several years ago, I took the Hunter safety course. During our field test, the instructor told me there were some obstacles that I may not be able to get through. He looked a little embarrassed as he said, “Realistically, I’m afraid you may have to come to grips with the fact that there are just going to be some places you won’t be able to go.”
      I smiled and said, “I came to that reality years ago. I know I can’t go too far into the woods. But my husband already has a place set up for me so I don’t have to walk to far. There’s a lot I can’t do this life anymore, but I want to do everything I can.”
      Fortunately, the course wasn’t nearly as prohibitive as was thought and I made through without accommodation.
      Hopefully, this young man will also recognize his limitations without limiting himself.

    • @richewilson6394
      @richewilson6394 Год назад +4

      @@little1942 Yeah people just don't get it that handicap stuff is really expensive and not everybody can put in their home.

    • @wessexdruid7598
      @wessexdruid7598 Год назад +1

      Make a mobile ramp, for the side door, so it can be put in place when needed and removed the rest of the time.

  • @sypoth
    @sypoth Год назад +2

    Last story, you know, they make these nifty little things, they come in all shapes and sizes, most are permanent but they do have some that are Portable. They even make them that can attach to certain things with wheels like Gurneys, they are called Lifts! I'm pretty sure that having a lift that attaches to his chair would not only make their son happy but would solve most future problems he will encounter especially going somewhere that has never and can never have a ramp installed. But if they don't want to fork out for something fancy they also make special braces and straps to help lift people and move them. I'm pretty sure that you can find pool lifts both new and used for quite cheap and it wouldn't take much to convince OP to install it on a way that doesn't make it a permanent fixture by having it attach to a plate that locks into another.

  • @hellefur7861
    @hellefur7861 Год назад +2

    Last story:
    Why don't they pool together, and by a small wheelchair lift for OP's house.
    Small enough to not mess with the garden.

  • @merlinathrawes746
    @merlinathrawes746 Год назад +4

    Float team story: So the restaurant Steve "managed" must have been really messed up as well for scheduling employees, even without COVID raising it's ugly head. Glad OP put him in his place.
    Bowling story: I know you couldn't do this, but didn't you just want to ask him about swearing to never come back?
    Ramp story: A lack of a ramp should not stop OP from hosting, it just means that the nephew and his wheelchair would need to be carried in and out of the house. But I can see where this would be a pain, especially as the boy got older. But I'm also a bit surprised that OP and his wife overlooked this, or did they?

    • @roberthicks5454
      @roberthicks5454 Год назад

      A simple lever lift would be able to get him a few feet up with no problem. Set it aside when he isn't around.

  • @ReCRexEFX
    @ReCRexEFX Год назад +3

    It's probably best for everyone if the posters put in a new back door on the back of the house, with a ramp to the new door. That way, no one is the a-hole, and it's certainly safer to have a house with egress on the back for fire and emergency situations. Be creative!

  • @corjp
    @corjp Год назад +3

    Last story... that is why I hate families.... always demanding that you do everything their way i.s.o. accepting your way. We no longer suffer that issue.

  • @welshdragonfunhunter3461
    @welshdragonfunhunter3461 Год назад +6

    Thanks for sharing RedWheel hope you are well. Please stay safe.🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿😁😷👍. Have a great day and a wonderful weekend everyone

  • @little1942
    @little1942 Год назад +15

    Title is waaaaay different from the actual story! Not only is there No “hoa Karen”, but she didn’t forbid anyone from building the ramp.
    Unless op’s wife is the Karen he’s referring to. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @leelacy4889
      @leelacy4889 Год назад +2

      That was my thought as well

    • @wholleyseasons3296
      @wholleyseasons3296 Год назад +3

      I watch a lot of redwheels stuff and I am afraid to say that this is happening more often than I like to admit.

    • @little1942
      @little1942 Год назад +4

      @@wholleyseasons3296
      I watch a lot too. I’m getting fed up with the bait and switch. It’s too bad because I really like this channel. He does the best videos of all of them.

  • @Sparky102970
    @Sparky102970 Год назад +2

    Story 1, no good deed goes unpunished.
    Bowling story, you knew he did it intentionally and you let him get away with it, that's on you. He does it regularly and your bowling alley lets him otherwise he wouldn't have done it.
    Last story, they absolutely will figure something out or they won't come. Simple as that. I have a daughter in a wheelchair and when we go to a relatives home we figure it out, it's not that big a deal. Sounds to me like op was being very accommodating.

  • @samsonian
    @samsonian Год назад +2

    The access story for a disabled nephew: 1) they can carry him in and manhandle the wheelchair up some steps (with a few guys and putting boards on the stairs so it’s just a steep ramp a powered chair would have little issue getting up or down). 2) in the garage, I would have the brother in construction put together a ramp that can be broken down or folded so whatever section interfering with parking can be stored out of the way. No need for other options, choosing beggars that didn’t buy the house specifically for the beautiful garden for the lady of the house have nothing to say about where the ramp goes in. If they keep whining, just say, “I’ll be happy to give you access if you want to tunnel in and build an elevator but the permitting and engineering would be a pretty penny”…

    • @roberthicks5454
      @roberthicks5454 Год назад

      A simple lever lift could be build with wood, a pair of gears and a back wheel from an old bike and cables. Want to get fancy? Put an electric motor on it. Want to move it? Put a pair of wheels on the back so you can tilt it on to them.

  • @Kyler410.
    @Kyler410. Год назад +2

    Last story: what's the minimum amount of visits that kids going to visit? 20 maybe 30 times out of how many days/years you'll live there

  • @lewischase
    @lewischase Год назад +7

    Good afternoon everyone and RedWheel 😊
    Hope everyone is doing good and having a good Thursday 😊

  • @HappilyHomicidalHooligan
    @HappilyHomicidalHooligan Год назад +2

    If OP's Sister is THAT desperate for OP to have a Wheelchair Compatible home, OP should suggest she pays to have a Wheelchair Lift installed...they take up MUCH less space than a Ramp does...

    • @roberthicks5454
      @roberthicks5454 Год назад

      Even a simple level lift could get him up when needed.

  • @RipsterSA
    @RipsterSA Год назад +2

    The last story about the ramp is RIDICULOUS... meaning - mostly - that the home owner is being ridiculous.
    One does NOT need to make a long ramp that takes up a lot of space (driveway or garden).
    One can make the ramp short and steep. This will mean the wheel chair will need to be pushed with a little effort. But so what - at least the house is accessible.
    It boggles the mind that all the parties involved were either to entitled and/or selfish and/or stupid to come up with a plan. 🤦‍♂️

  • @StephenLuciettol
    @StephenLuciettol Год назад +13

    They can always pick him up and carry him in and bring in what he uses to get around and reverse the situation to get him out

  • @MedOKC
    @MedOKC Год назад +10

    As for Steve . . .the charge nurse should have also been reprimanded . . .if not . . .fired.

    • @susanrand512
      @susanrand512 Год назад +3

      Steve should have told charge nurse that OP was doing her a favor by working on his vacation day and MYOB. Just didn't know how to manage

  • @asasial1977
    @asasial1977 Год назад +1

    My stepmother was that way because of my handicap brother
    Everyone’s house was always wrong and she wouldn’t live there because it wasn’t handicap accessible. They were stupid, etc.
    she was a narcissist.
    SHE caused him to be in a wheelchair,
    Her actions, not a birth defect or anything of the sort.
    Yet she thinks everyone should accommodate her mistakes.
    And yes accommodate HER not my brother.

  • @melodiebroderick6767
    @melodiebroderick6767 Год назад +21

    Has anyone tried looking into a portable folding ramp and see if it can be stored on shelves in the garage so it doesn't take up too much floor space.

    • @grendalsuncle4040
      @grendalsuncle4040 Год назад +3

      How is the wheelchair bound person supposed to get it off the wall or put it back on the wall. I do like that you are trying to think of fixs to a problem.

    • @melodiebroderick6767
      @melodiebroderick6767 Год назад +5

      @@grendalsuncle4040 The parents or the homeowners would take it down for the child who is in the wheelchair when they come to visit or another relative.

    • @GhostRider-sc9vu
      @GhostRider-sc9vu Год назад +4

      That, or presuming the side door has a stairs and or stoop remove it for a lift. Of course get "Family to help pay for and maintain it.

    • @merlinathrawes746
      @merlinathrawes746 Год назад +3

      @@grendalsuncle4040The wheelchair bound person wouldn't. Able bodied family members would when they arrived and put it back after they left. It would be worth looking into.

    • @wessexdruid7598
      @wessexdruid7598 Год назад

      @@grendalsuncle4040Would you expect the person in the wheelchair to be the one building a permanent ramp?

  • @kayvaanmcsharrowkyn6901
    @kayvaanmcsharrowkyn6901 Год назад +1

    Either carry the kid inside from the wheelchair or if that's not feasible because he's large, they have these things that are called temporary foldable ramps look into it you simply put the ramp-up he uses it while he's there and when he leaves you can unfold or dismantle the ramp and put it away it fits in your garage in a space you can even hang it on the wall like there are so many options here I don't see the issue...
    OTHER than an entire family who basically thinks they could dictate what someone does to their house and what Aesthetics they can and can't have. They didn't pay for the house they didn't buy the house they don't live there no one that lives there has a wheelchair so why should the entire front of their house be a wheelchair ramp? Like honestly for the 56 times a year where the nephew was going to visit you're just going to dictate what my house is going to look like? No absolutely not. Like this is just a bunch people who are seriously just thinking note we have this child and everybody is going to have to you know rule their lives around him. No that's not how it works! Nor am I being an ableist, my point is this, I have friends in wheelchairs and there's a lot of places that don't have ramps and guess what? They get into those places just fine! This whole story is ridiculous to me

  • @jamessimms415
    @jamessimms415 Год назад +5

    How did the hoa prevent the OP from building a ramp?

  • @jamesweekley1087
    @jamesweekley1087 Год назад +1

    Bowling story: You can be sure a=hole dad *never* pulled that crap during his league games. His companions wouldn't have put up with him.

  • @patricialadd520
    @patricialadd520 Год назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @josephpavone4574
    @josephpavone4574 Год назад +2

    Temporary ramp supplied by brother ofcourse

  • @scotthultin7769
    @scotthultin7769 Год назад +2

    685👍's up RW thank you for sharing 😎😊

  • @trystkinkou5542
    @trystkinkou5542 Год назад +2

    Surprised in last story they don't just do a chair lift

    • @Derekloffin
      @Derekloffin Год назад +1

      Is there outdoor chair lifts? Seem like the kind of thing that the elements would wreck pretty quick.

    • @GhostRider-sc9vu
      @GhostRider-sc9vu Год назад +1

      They aint pretty but they have out-door lifts.

  • @MrSubsound90
    @MrSubsound90 3 месяца назад

    Story 1 - Never.Screw.Over.Clinical.Float.Staff Management is responsible for staffing appropriately. Legally.
    It's rare to find people that will work PRN (on demand), and rarer to find people that will cover for managements screw up and end their PTO early. Steve is literally the learning experience many people go through as to why they do not do this.

  • @dorothylloyd1804
    @dorothylloyd1804 Год назад +4

    Thanks again RW

  • @audreywest6707
    @audreywest6707 Год назад

    Last story -- easysolution. Rent a portable ramp or wheelchair lift for the side door when needed.

  • @roberthicks5454
    @roberthicks5454 Год назад

    For the last story, it would not have to be a ramp. The kids dad could build a chair lift using either a motor or a crank to lift it.

  • @elchinator
    @elchinator Год назад +3

    Last story: the nephew is not "unwelcome", he just needs extra steps (bad pun) to enter the house. He and his wheelchair can be lifted up the stairs. So he can't roam around freely, but it's not impossible for him to come... Too much drama over nothing!
    Always remember: we don't have to accomodate the 0.01%! We can, but be don't have to. And sometimes the 0.01% simply have to learn, that they can't do what everyone else can. Because -tough luck - the 99.99% of us had to learn, that we can't do what ANOTHER 0.01% can do. Fly to space, have your own island in the Caribbean, or have laws created in our favour.

  • @timothybattey171
    @timothybattey171 Год назад +1

    Aloha to all from burnt Maui! 🤕

  • @jeffmckenzie7282
    @jeffmckenzie7282 Год назад +6

    The wheelchair can be carried by 2 people up the stairs with nephew in it. It's a little inconvenient, but doable.

  • @lorettaross2007
    @lorettaross2007 Год назад +2

    I'm back, no.333! Yes, it your house! All great stories, thanks for sharing RW. I hope you and all are having a great day! I also hope all your fans in Maui are safe!

  • @ninanoodles9775
    @ninanoodles9775 Год назад +2

    About the ramp: when someone VISITS, especially for family gatherings, there are people to HELP.
    So get something to help carry him, depending on his disability and weight and all is good.

  • @Cyberdragon1775
    @Cyberdragon1775 Год назад +4

    27 seconds. Fastest video click I have ever made!

  • @davechandler6884
    @davechandler6884 Год назад

    Why always a ramp ?, why not consider a had pumped lift, 4foot square, some even fold up !.

  • @patsquach4080
    @patsquach4080 Год назад

    There are. Wheel chairs that. Climb stairs …. And Why can’t they carry or assist the. Child up the stairs..? …… it’s. Not like their there. On a daily basis…. ..

  • @stephenobrien2859
    @stephenobrien2859 Год назад +2

    Unless OP and wife wanted to scuttle their familial relations, they should apologize and ask all of the familys for ideas, especially the nephew.
    Another option might be a lift - an old fashion bosun's chair with a fold away structure could work, in front or back...
    The ramp over the tiered garden isn't viable anyway.

  • @brettsmall4694
    @brettsmall4694 Год назад

    Last story they make an elevator for that my uncle was in a wheelchair and lived in a river front house on 18ft stilts they had a lil elevator built next to the porch came in handy bringing in groceries too

  • @andersholt4653
    @andersholt4653 Год назад

    About the wheelchair ramp: where there is a will there is a way. The kids/nephews are more important than the flower beds. Re-do the garden and incorporate the ramp as a feature.

    • @jsivco3sivco785
      @jsivco3sivco785 Год назад +1

      No no no!! It's MY house, and I'll plant flowers if I want. Besides, I'd be tired of hosting every Thanksgiving, Christmas, this holiday, that holiday, and whenever else!

    • @Demonslayre
      @Demonslayre Год назад +2

      > buys the house specifically for a tiered flower bed
      > destroys desired tiered flower bed for his nephew who does not live there.
      That's fucking genius mate

    • @tmedvick
      @tmedvick Год назад

      There's no will. She doesn't want to have family over and is using the ramp as an excuse.
      I would absolutely install a ramp in the situation described.
      But, if I had a nephew with a disability, I wouldn't buy a house that couldn't accommodate a ramp. There will be many places throughout life that can't be made to accommodate wheelchairs, there would never be a case where I wouldn't prioritize accessibility. She has different priorities and she is being - correctly - called out by family for that set of priorities. She is, of course, welcome to have those priorities, but that doesn't make her not suck as an aunt / sister.

  • @laurabailey6051
    @laurabailey6051 Год назад +1

    Who was the HOA Karen?

  • @jong3461
    @jong3461 Год назад +1

    Did I miss the hoa story about ramp

  • @livingbygrace5501
    @livingbygrace5501 Год назад

    Another RedWheel video where the title is incorrect. No HOA Karen forbidding a wheelchair ramp. Just homeowners unwilling to build a wheelchair ramp.

  • @TexasScout
    @TexasScout Год назад

    Is there really such a thing as a “high end” bowling alley?

  • @RipsterSA
    @RipsterSA Год назад +1

    Redwheel - there was no HOA Karen involved in the ramp story.
    Why the fake video title?

  • @golab41
    @golab41 Год назад +1

    Hello from Poland Redwheel and everyone!!!

    • @timothybattey171
      @timothybattey171 Год назад +1

      Aloha from burnt Maui! 🤕

    • @lorettaross2007
      @lorettaross2007 Год назад

      There you are I was just wondering about you! Are you and your family OK!@@timothybattey171

    • @golab41
      @golab41 Год назад +1

      @@timothybattey171 Aloha friend. Hope that You and Your family ar safe

    • @timothybattey171
      @timothybattey171 Год назад +1

      @@golab41 Minor damage and friend's kitty with burnt paws, but she's ok. All is safe and well by me personally. It's not a simple matter to have belligerent Russia for a neighbor. How's your morale? Their history with Poland is a scandal, horrendous.

    • @golab41
      @golab41 Год назад +1

      @@timothybattey171 for now all is safe and sound. Thinking more about the upcoming elections in Poland. Good to hear that your safe. Sorry for the kitty

  • @fishyz1500
    @fishyz1500 Год назад +1

    So im guessin nephew is so big he cant be carried?

  • @deborahdicesare9042
    @deborahdicesare9042 Год назад +2

    Last story:
    Absolutely not! Unless it was my child, I would not install a massive ramp and destroy the front of my home. They could wheel him all of the way up the driveway, lift the wheelchair up the steps.

  • @gwood696969
    @gwood696969 Год назад +1

    Entitled People stories done to perfection. You guys have done it again! The consistency of the highest level of quality of your content keeps me (and I'm sure a lot of other people) coming back. Please keep creating these videos and I will keep coming back for more!

  • @builtontherockhomestead9390
    @builtontherockhomestead9390 Год назад +4

    Does the person who titles these videos even read or watch the stories? Apparently not.

    • @little1942
      @little1942 Год назад +1

      He’s gotten really lazy about this lately. It’s becoming clickbate.

    • @builtontherockhomestead9390
      @builtontherockhomestead9390 Год назад

      @@little1942 agree. I use to always listen, doing so less and less since the titles are bogus.

  • @RussiaisAriddle-ih6bg
    @RussiaisAriddle-ih6bg 5 месяцев назад

    😂

  • @alexius23
    @alexius23 Год назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥🧙🏻‍♂

  • @sealand000
    @sealand000 Год назад

    Instead of a ramp, build an elevator.

  • @markallison6666
    @markallison6666 Год назад +5

    Screw you guys. I’m going home.

  • @richardweighill8556
    @richardweighill8556 Год назад

    Or they could add a small vertical lift.

  • @DaveS75
    @DaveS75 Год назад +1

    CLICK BAIT No HOA Karen !!!!!!

  • @Ghouldad-001
    @Ghouldad-001 Год назад

    Do not like the constant misleading titles on this sight. Title is NOT what that story is about. This clickbait title writing has become a pattern.

  • @millerlucerojames
    @millerlucerojames Год назад +2

    Karen: IM THE HEAD OF THE H.O.A AND YOU CAN NOT BUILD A RAMP ON YOUR PROPERTY!!
    Me: funny cause 1 i can 2 your not the owner and those are forged documents your gonna produce and fail with and finally 3 ... get your soul sucking butt off my land and stay far away and im glade im 0art of your h.o.a or your little world ( if you get the reference there you know ~ )

    • @jawo8754
      @jawo8754 Год назад

      @miller lucero James don’t forget ADA overrides ANY HOA bullcrap.

  • @joshuaparshall1409
    @joshuaparshall1409 Год назад

    Why not build a elevator at the side door

    • @jsivco3sivco785
      @jsivco3sivco785 Год назад +1

      EXPENSIVE!!... and no room for it, anyway.

  • @waynederby4684
    @waynederby4684 Год назад

    FALSE ADVERTISING !!! There was no HOA or Karen in the ramp story...................

  • @scotthultin7769
    @scotthultin7769 Год назад

    Once you accepted the position it was your responsibility to get there on time regardless of you gave up your weekend or vacation time just to feel the ship but once you took it it was your responsibility to be there on time and you deserve you are such a coward you didn't want to write up in your file when you deserved it for not showing on time you could have got up an hour earlier so you over 30 minutes before you started to make sure you are on time with no you couldn't do something simple as that you wanted to be Petty and quit😢

    • @jsivco3sivco785
      @jsivco3sivco785 Год назад

      Stuff happens, such as an unforeseen traffic jam. This was ONCE, not a consistent occurrence. Written up for a Petty reason? Bye-bye!

  • @stavehow5501
    @stavehow5501 Год назад

    Click bait - always putting "HOA" in title just to get clicks when story has nothing to do with HOA. Have seen this many times with this channel, already thinking of unsubscribing.

  • @harryholmes7981
    @harryholmes7981 Год назад

    Very boring!