Why Expats Are Leaving Cuenca Ecuador (and NOT Moving Back)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024

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  • @jrileycain6220
    @jrileycain6220 5 лет назад +135

    We lived in Cuenca 2 1/2 years and loved it. I think we left for reason #12. Fortunately we acquired our permanent residency visas and can return any time. Viva Cuenca! Viva Ecuador!

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +12

      Great! We're working on our perm visas now. If we leave Cuenca, it will be for #12 or the weather. Although we love the weather 8 months out of the year. It's just the other 4 that can be a little unbearable.

    • @cvc2648
      @cvc2648 4 года назад +8

      Muchas gracias.
      Siempre son bienvenidos.

    • @andresmawyin
      @andresmawyin 4 года назад +2

      Do you need visa for Ecuador ????? I thought everyone could travel to my country without visa 🤣

    • @shockingguy
      @shockingguy 3 года назад +3

      @@hevoforo1629 Agreed I’m in Cleveland and it’s a challenge with the lack of sun one of the cloudiest places on the planet I think

    • @rody822
      @rody822 3 года назад +4

      they don't need a visa to enter. Or to be 6 months as turists. They need paperwork and visas to stay long time or to be residents. It is easier than their country, to go to their country as an ecuadorian you have cero chance of getting it, also if you want to stay in Usa it is almost impossible if you are e Ecuadorean. And you hold let's say a simple work. If you want to retire in , their country you have to be bill gates or to have a close partnership with them like the politicians, when your president Lenin finishes he will ask for asailum. There to to evade the law.

  • @chancerobinson5112
    @chancerobinson5112 4 года назад +42

    You guys are providing a great Service. Thanks! 🙏
    Over the years I’ve realized that a major move is very much like transplanting a full grown tree. When transplanting, no matter how much you think you’ve prepared the new spot, the tree initially goes into shock until it gets its roots down. People are no exception. It takes a positive attitude and time, and the time needed is different for everyone. If you move to Ecuador and keep looking for a “just like back home” experience, the odds are good that you’ll soon have any number of valid reasons to leave.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  4 года назад +4

      Great observation and comparison!

    • @stephenray7278
      @stephenray7278 3 года назад

      sounds like the same things people get frustrated with in the virgin islands

  • @fernandoparra-lam2944
    @fernandoparra-lam2944 5 лет назад +72

    I'm ecuadorian, not from Cuenca, lived in the US for about 20 years, I love Cuenca, planning to retire over there. Love ur video ...muy bien!

  • @benjamincruz7006
    @benjamincruz7006 4 года назад +49

    You guys make a great team. I love the way you interact, smile, "interrupt", and look at each other during the vlog. I've been to Cuenca, and I enjoyed the few days that I stayed there. I am also considering going back to Ecuador; this time, I will go to Loja and Vilcabamba. Thank you for spreading this information with the joy and excitement you do.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  4 года назад +1

      Thanks! Glad you're enjoying watching us!

    • @aylex1974
      @aylex1974 6 месяцев назад

      Nice couple they're complimented each other. Fun adventurous support each other, smile each other, business partner mutual admiration and respect each other the fun couple. Adventures, love attraction, health, and money ❤

  • @dianerichards6015
    @dianerichards6015 4 года назад +15

    My husband and I retired to Ecuador, Cotacachi and have been here for 9 years. The worst part of this move was because I miss my daughter and granddaughter. My granddaughter was only 18 months when we moved here and now she's going to be 11, that's the toughest part, I missed her growing up from when she was an adorable baby. However, with the medical prices the way they are, they wanted $3,200 for both my husband and I in North Carolina because we were in our early 60's and we had high cholesterol, which most people at that age have or high blood pressure. We could not way afford that so we came here for various reasons like you have mentioned in your videos. I go back to the states, I used to go back twice a year but the flights have gotten so expensive to fly in to North Carolina, I only go once a year now but it's very difficult not seeing them. My granddaughter face times me every single night but it's not the same. It's so sad that the politics are what they are, so much corruption and the price of medical is what drove us away so we can never go back especially now that we are older, some insurance companies don't even cover a person after a certain age. It's so sad that people have to leave our country for that reason, the medical is outrageous like no other country. So we are here and this is where we will need to stay.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  4 года назад +4

      You’re healthcare refugees like us!

    • @griselreygarcia5310
      @griselreygarcia5310 3 года назад +2

      Why your daughter and granddaughter don visit you ? I will be so sad also .

    • @sleepy314
      @sleepy314 3 года назад +3

      Vote for Bernie. Get health care for all.

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 2 года назад +2

      until medical care in the US is more universal and affordable more seniors will have to leave

    • @RuddyVivanco
      @RuddyVivanco 2 года назад

      Not just that it is expensive but you cant even see a doctor when you need to :( if you want to get an appointment to see one they would give you a date for the following year. It is crazy!

  • @mundolinux2250
    @mundolinux2250 3 года назад +27

    It’s an awesome video about Ecuador although the title is misleading, Im from Ecuador and I have been living in US for 12 years, it’s interesting to hear what people experience going the other way around, to me the weather in US changes too much and so often, that at the beginning was so hard to adapt, coming from Guayaquil which always super warm, I think if you want to socialize in Ecuador you can better try on the coast, people in the mountains tend to be more shy and reserved while on the coast they are more outgoing and will approach to you and start a conversation if you are into that or is hard for you to make friends. And yes we add the diminutives ito to everything because it sounds cute, you are right about that. Enjoy Ecuador, I was surprised when I visit Cuenca some years ago and it was almost like living in the states with some many Americans living there and people speaking English everywhere.

    • @MiVidaLoca1024
      @MiVidaLoca1024 3 года назад +2

      Very misleading title, but they're trying to get the clicks. No thumbs up for me or subscribing to them. Not sure if it got better because I bailed out after 4 minutes.

  • @MTHealtandWellnessCoaching
    @MTHealtandWellnessCoaching 5 лет назад +16

    Love your positive attitude to share your perspectives and others. Thank you for compiling all that data.

  • @karinavintimilla-figueroa6844
    @karinavintimilla-figueroa6844 5 лет назад +11

    Hi!. I came across to your channel, and I love the content!. I’m from Cuenca 🇪🇨. I currently live in NYC (over five years) and definitely understand the cultural differences. Amazingly, you guys share that enjoyable experience 👏👍.

  • @carlospulley8723
    @carlospulley8723 5 лет назад +11

    I love so much to watch your videos! Is amazing 😉 how positive and great tips for people moving to Cuenca! Good job 👏 Congrats! 🍾

  • @luchinr91
    @luchinr91 4 года назад +5

    I used to be a flight attendant and for 4 years I used to fly to the US monthly. I miss so much the Amazon shopping and having the oportunity to buy clothing and electronics at cheaper prices. Even though I didn't live there, shopping was the first thing I missed since I left flying. I barely buy brand clothing in Ecuador due to expensive prices, but I do support buying made in Ecuador products, except for those that are not produced here, for example olive oil. I am glad that many high quality products such good chocolate or coconut sugar are cheaper here. Lately in cities there's the trend of buying at bulk food stores. I buy pink salt, dates, cashews, peruvian maca or amazonian "sacha inchi" for so very cheap prices at my local bulk store in Quito. Your channel is great. You're adorable and I love how you interact with locals and share your experience in Ecuador!

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  4 года назад

      Thanks! Glad you're enjoying our videos!

  • @henryavellaneda8240
    @henryavellaneda8240 4 года назад +48

    “Ito”at the the ending of words is a diminutive to indicate that something is smaller than the regular size!

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  4 года назад +14

      In Cuenca, it's also a sort of term of endearment. Everything gets an ito here: abuelito, perrito, fundita, casita, jovencito. We've even heard "buen dita" for good day instead of "buen día."

    • @jacbrito
      @jacbrito 4 года назад +6

      @@AmeliaAndJP in Portuguese, it's the same, at least here in Brazil. We use "inho" which is the same as ito. :-)

    • @theveryspawn
      @theveryspawn 4 года назад +1

      It's not just that! ITO is also a way of endearment 😊 Cheers from Quito 😁

    • @miguelmiguel4042
      @miguelmiguel4042 4 года назад +2

      The ito thing is very common but it’s wrong used
      I’m from Azogues and I don’t use that at all

    • @MermaidMoney
      @MermaidMoney 4 года назад +4

      Everything can be an ito except penito! 😂😂😂 Jajajajaja!!!

  • @rosathomas1
    @rosathomas1 3 года назад +24

    People can't expect for things to be like the way they were in their country...

    • @fruitloops3718
      @fruitloops3718 2 года назад +1

      Exactly you're moving to another country for a reason. Reminds me of all the idiots here in the states that move away from an area to get away from crime or whatever and then continue to vote for the same stuff that caused them to move in the first place.

    • @oldhardrock2542
      @oldhardrock2542 2 года назад

      My first week as an expat my boss told me "Things don't get done here like they do where you came from. Doesn't mean how they get done is wrong. It's just different. Accept it and you'll be a lot happier." Best advice I think I ever got.

  • @chipwilliams403
    @chipwilliams403 5 лет назад +23

    I was recently in Ecuador for 2 weeks spending the last 5 days in Cuenca. I loved Cuenca and the altitude did not bother me the whole time I was in Ecuador. I'm retired now and considering spending at least 6 months a year in Cuenca. I guess the one concern I have is the health care and health insurance. You posted a prior video addressing some of the health insurance issues and that was very helpful. My Spanish is not very good but I didn't find that to be a problem in Cuenca. I could muddle through with the locals with my limited Spanish and their limited English. I thank you both so much for your very informative videos which I look forward to watching more of and learning more about Cuenca. I hope to return soon to see more of this wonderful city.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks! Glad you're enjoying the videos!

    • @jaycolborn8897
      @jaycolborn8897 4 года назад +1

      Health care is also my main concern. Anyone who does a good study and publishes it will do a wonderful service for you and me and others.

    • @MermaidMoney
      @MermaidMoney 4 года назад +3

      When my son was injured here, I took him to the free hospital. Passport required but even medicine is free. Sweet doctors, fast service, intelligent doctors. Mostly USA trained. I buy my medicine for asthma at the pharmacy. Even Prednisone when I need it. Instead of paying for a doctor to tell me yet again that I have asthma (I've had it 50 years) and getting a prescription, then going to the pharmacy, I just go to the pharmacy.. no permission from a doctor needed. In the USA Advair is $269. In Ecuador it's $20 and called Seretide. My regular rescue inhaler here is $10, in the states Albuterol is $28. I love socialized medicine here!!

  • @williampalacio9980
    @williampalacio9980 3 года назад +4

    I’m in Australia, and as soon As the pandemic , calms down a bit ,I’m moving to Bolivia,
    Thanks for all the valuable INf you guys provided us with, ,we have read , a lot about Latin
    America , we hope it’s as nice as we all spect, , DONT miss Colombia,, I’ve heard nice stuff about , it , be good,,

  • @davidh9844
    @davidh9844 3 года назад +2

    When I was 23, I moved from the US to Italy to go to medical school, and we lived there for 7 years. You have hit so many points about ex-pat living, that it is incredible. Decades later, I can see why I was so miserable in the beginning, and so very miserable when we had to leave. For years I've talked about having to give up my American culture, but I never labeled it "culture shock". Revelation after all these years! DO NOT underestimate it! I have no reason to leave now, my kids and grandkids are here, friends are here, we've put down roots. I'm not about to give up family, friends, and language again, although it might be fun for a few months. Thank you, your video brought back some amazing, life transforming memories.

  • @Caminos-Peru
    @Caminos-Peru 3 года назад +27

    I had a cultural shock moving to Perú after living in the States for several years.... And I I'm Peruvian !

    • @StevenDLightspring
      @StevenDLightspring 3 года назад +4

      I so understand. I experienced it a number of times...going back from the US to Asia where I grew up! I called it re-entry shock. In my case, I feel that I grew up with both cultures...so after spending enough time in one culture...there's always a "going back" shock...that I've always had in both cultures. I so understand, and I know the feeling! 😊

    • @ElGeneralDelAire
      @ElGeneralDelAire 3 года назад +3

      Im 42 . Came to the great USA when i was 10. Planning to move back to the motherland when Im 50 n living on my pension. No kidz, no nagging wife. Life is good. Cant wait! 😎

    • @StevenDLightspring
      @StevenDLightspring 3 года назад

      @@ElGeneralDelAire Good for you! Sounds like a nice plan! I understand about choosing a less expensive location / situation. It's sometimes easier than increasing the income. (In your case, you have the joy of going back to the "motherland"! How special for you!) All the blessed to you with your plans, hopes, and journey!

    • @englishthebestway
      @englishthebestway 3 года назад

      @God's Holy Rath That sounds quite rude!

    • @englishthebestway
      @englishthebestway 3 года назад

      @God's Holy Rath That sounds quite rude! You must be from a great planet!

  • @southernbreeze3278
    @southernbreeze3278 4 года назад +6

    Spent a few months traveling Ecuador, only spanish I knew was for "beer", "bus station", "restroom", "how much?" and all the numbers. Combine that with patience and some polite pointing, got along fine.

  • @ksdad2two
    @ksdad2two 3 года назад +5

    Altitude sickness remedy, 1st. 1 to 2 days before going to higher Altitudes drink lots of water and take aspirin and while in higher Altitudes drink lots of water ( you still will feel weak but on 3rd or 4th day most have acclimated to the Altitude). Love your videos!

  • @RebeccaStropoli
    @RebeccaStropoli 5 лет назад +13

    The weather is one of my favorite aspects of Cuenca, at least during the months of July and August! I escaped nasty, 90-degree New York City to come here for the summer (also did Galapagos and Quito), and it's been exactly what I was hoping for. In fact, the few very sunny days we've had since I got here were not my favorite (the sun can feel quite strong). :)

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +5

      Great! Glad the weather agrees with you! We moved from Denver which has roughly 300 days of sun per year with mild temps so we were a little spoiled. We don't handle the clouds very well, but that's easy enough to fix next year. We're going to video other, sunnier parts of Ecuador! 😁

  • @berthatamayo4613
    @berthatamayo4613 4 года назад +3

    Great videos love your comments. I am Ecuadorean and live in New York looking forward to retiring in Quito and continue traveling. Keep up the good work!

  • @martbook
    @martbook 4 года назад +10

    Been in Cuenca for 7 years with a side trip to Vietnam & Thailand for 16 months. Now in Cuenca and the longer term economic and political situation scares me, and so I will likely move to Vietnam next year with reason #12 being a large part of it.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  4 года назад +7

      The economic and political situation concerns us, too. Unfortunately, the same agenda that's being applied here by foreign banks and corporations is also being applied in every other country with desirable natural resources.

    • @sidoniewinterpasternak9938
      @sidoniewinterpasternak9938 3 года назад +2

      Can you elaborate on this more? Thank you.

  • @dpavlovsky
    @dpavlovsky 4 года назад +10

    The '-itos' suffix seems like the '--íčko' or '--íčku', ending in Czech, often used in terms of endearment or turning a word into a diminutive, like '-ette' in English (e.g. kitchen vs. kitchenette).

  • @michaelhenderson9039
    @michaelhenderson9039 3 года назад +8

    I lived in Baños for 3 years. Smaller, 20,000 population. Friendlier, not much crimei never had any problems. Left for medical reasons.

  • @russclark6780
    @russclark6780 4 года назад +2

    I LOVE CUENCA. I have visited EC twice (1 month each visit) and had so much fun exploring the culture. Can't wait to go back for good.

  • @victorzhagui5363
    @victorzhagui5363 5 лет назад +3

    After 30 years living in USA I took the time to go and lived in Cuenca and Quito for two months, I really loved it, and the reason you shared are easy to overcome them. Good. Thanks for sharing this video but I'm more convinced now that Cuenca will be my future place to live. Good luck on your next adventure

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +1

      Great! What's your timeframe for moving here?

    • @victorzhagui5363
      @victorzhagui5363 5 лет назад

      @@AmeliaAndJP.. Couple more years probably

  • @jennifershields2827
    @jennifershields2827 3 года назад +2

    You two are so cute! I've been enjoying learning about Ecuador. It looks beautiful.

  • @delima1122
    @delima1122 4 года назад +3

    Hello, I just wanted to inform some listeners (since I have heard this stated more than once in your videos) Volunteer visas "ONG visas" can absolutely be transformed into a permanent. I know every office does things differently and goes by different rules. (unfortunately 😧) However, in the law that's provided on the official Ecuador website we see that ALL VISAS CAN TRANSFER OVER. They can be obtained both in Ecuador AND outside consulates (including all consulates in the USA) also stated on the official website. This my be beneficial for those who already have plans to visit the states and who needs to obtain background checks or any other important documents. (If there is any fear that leaving ecuador will disrupt your process, know that all documents can be sent via virtual consulate and email to confirm all documents and requirements before leaving) You may have to very nicely direct who every tells you "no" to please make a quick phone call to the Official Ministerio in Quito. I have had to do this more than once. If you're nice enough 😘🤗 they will humbly let you know that, yes, they can do it. Sorry for the long post. I just don't want some to get discouraged thinking that they are out of options or even forced to spend more money than they have to.
    **TIP** WITH ANY VISA ISSUE READ THE OFFICIAL INFORMATION FOR YOURSELF NO MATTER WHO IS HELPING YOU. YOU CAN CALL THE MINISTERIO WHERE THEY HAVE AN ENGLISH SPEAKER WHO CAN GIVE YOU OFFICIAL INFORMATION. 😊😊😊😊
    www.cancilleria.gob.ec/plataforma-visas/

    • @lisaprice3420
      @lisaprice3420 3 года назад

      Thank you for this info. I plan to move to Ecuador and need all the help with officialdom in Ecuador. 🙂🥰✌

  • @sorayaballeydier2307
    @sorayaballeydier2307 3 года назад +1

    Cool! I just became a subscriber a week ago and it nice to hear and receive information as I am an older person considering leaving the U.S. I had to jump in and giggle when you said you were originally from Denver.. so you are very relatable to me. Your channel is more than a life style in a foreign country but teaches me to consider veganism and minimalism which could be practiced anywhere. You are very comprehensive as well which is appreciated! TY

  • @sandraalexander4690
    @sandraalexander4690 3 года назад +2

    Lived in Loja for 2 years as a Peace Corps Volunteer. Ecuador is beautiful. Yes I needed to learn to slow down. When I was lost. (Pre cell phone days), and asked for directions I learned to give the person permission to say “I don’t know”. I was sent in all directions because it was considered in polite
    to not say something and try to help.

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 2 года назад

      Directions in Japan are the same.

  • @stevenmilgrom8589
    @stevenmilgrom8589 3 года назад +26

    Cuenca offers a lot, but not warm weather and an ocean. So it’s not for everybody...Your videos are nicely done, but what makes it special is that it is clear that you love each other.

    • @RuddyVivanco
      @RuddyVivanco 2 года назад

      The good thing is that the ocean is only few hours away ;) the country is so small that you can be at 8 am at a warn beach and at 1 pm in the highest capital city in the world 🥶

  • @iam9747
    @iam9747 5 лет назад +30

    I have not practiced my English but here I go:
    About “ito” in Spanish we called “diminutivo” this kind of variation of language this is used especially in Ecuador and Colombia. You can use “diminutivos” for say that it’s a small thing
    Ex: Mira esa manzanita, que pequeña es.
    Even you can use “diminutivos” to express love, with your family, friends etc:
    Ex: hola Amelita, ¿como estas?.
    AbueLITO que gusto verlo.
    Buenos días Doña Rosita, véndame por favor unas dos naranjitas nada más, quiero hacerme un juguito.
    😂 and that’s a little Spanish lesson.
    Saludos chicos, muy interesantes los puntos que exponen. El sector turístico lo debería tomar en cuenta, la crítica siempre es bien recibida. 🤗😊

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +4

      Gracias! Muy interesante! 😊👍

    • @ralphzamoyski2807
      @ralphzamoyski2807 2 года назад

      Or my girlfriend is chiquitica hahahahah I love it! So cute.
      I think Amelia's and JP's problems with the language comes from them thinking "American". When you go to live in another country and you learn the language you have to start the process of thinking in this language right away, otherwise, if you constantly try to translate from one language to another it doesn't really work. For example, I had a friend that couldn't get - I am going to... construction because he always tried to translate it from his native language in the way that it didn't make any sense. It is just digression.

  • @hump1953
    @hump1953 3 года назад +2

    Great video.... I’m 67 and have been to Ecuador twice ....would like to visit again for several months but I don’t think it could be long term for many of the reasons stated....

  • @fabian116
    @fabian116 3 года назад +38

    No different dialects. Only different accents. Same as here in US.

    • @aniem.1114
      @aniem.1114 3 года назад +5

      You are absolutelly right

    • @MarcoAndrade00
      @MarcoAndrade00 3 года назад +2

      Actually we have a lot of different dialects in Ecuador even in Cuenca peoples from the urban area have a slightly different dialect than people far from thesw urban areas, more rural or "el campo"

    • @evelinholmes6401
      @evelinholmes6401 3 года назад

      @@MarcoAndrade00 it’s basically with every language.

  • @djtommykeys
    @djtommykeys 3 года назад +2

    I'm in South Florida so I have friends from the Caribbean, Brazil, Venezuela, Colombia and even Ecuador. Over the years I picked up enough Spanish to survive among the Cubans in Miami. I have good friends living in Guayaquil and Portoviejo. Since I'm newly retired I considered moving to Ecuador. Thanks to good people like you two you have completely talked me out of it.... hahahaha but at least you did it while smiling. There is no "tomorrow" here either and God help you if you make plans with a Brazilian without the addition of the word "combinado." Enjoy your adventures. I've enjoyed many of your videos.

  • @gabya2684
    @gabya2684 4 года назад +2

    I like the rain, cloudy cold days, I enjoy Cuenca's weather. But I got the fact that it might not be easy for some ppl.
    The 12 reason is great!.... Cuenca is my home but I enjoy traveling and living in other countries and cities.
    Keep safe!

  • @TheGardenerNorth
    @TheGardenerNorth 4 года назад +3

    Holy Moly, When you talk about the altitude, I was going can't be that bad, but I just looked it up and Cuenca is high. Coming from Calgary, Alberta, i was thinking we were on the medium to high side. I would definitely have a concern about my wife's migraines which are generally amplified by high altitudes. Your sincerity is so refreshing.

    • @MermaidMoney
      @MermaidMoney 4 года назад

      8400 to 8700 feet above sea level.. depending which part of the city you are in!

  • @PierrePlogoff
    @PierrePlogoff 3 года назад +2

    It is so nice when you look at each one often.

  • @geoffreyhughes195
    @geoffreyhughes195 3 года назад +1

    Love the way you two relate to one another with a great sense of humor.What a joy.

  • @purplebabushka852
    @purplebabushka852 3 года назад +4

    Learning Spanish may be a must if you plan on staying there. It is a way to really adapt to your surroundings.

  • @johanvangelderen289
    @johanvangelderen289 4 года назад +1

    I heard your comment about the cloudy and rainy season in Cuenca.
    I have lived in Portland Oregon for forty years. I'm used to permanent overcast and various forms of drippines.
    I grew up in Utah. Semi-desert climate. The rain and months long overcast was hard to get used to. I find it soothing now.

  • @summersands8105
    @summersands8105 3 года назад +1

    I lived in India for more than 5 years and LOVED it! Granted it's been a very long time ago, but it's a fascinating place.

  • @ayankinthephilippines1416
    @ayankinthephilippines1416 3 года назад +20

    now that i'm retired at 59 i prefer a place that's slow going and laid back!

    • @robertdevoy3119
      @robertdevoy3119 3 года назад +3

      Moving somewhere in the south in the USA can give you that.

    • @maximusextreme3725
      @maximusextreme3725 3 года назад +1

      @@robertdevoy3119 Except you can't live off of 2 grand a month comfortably anywhere in the U.S., which is why most people move to Central or South America.

  • @kenanderson637
    @kenanderson637 3 года назад +20

    I had culture shock moving from the Bay Area to the Pacific Northwest.

  • @jacksmeditation7584
    @jacksmeditation7584 5 лет назад +1

    Thanks for the nice reply! Yes I have experienced many places and culturers. And became a little wiser because of my experiences.

  • @tomassoyweyvon4902
    @tomassoyweyvon4902 3 года назад +2

    You Guys look very Healthy and Happy.....It agrees with you both

  • @summersands8105
    @summersands8105 3 года назад +2

    The biggest mistake people make when looking to relocate for a permanent life is never having been out of the US prior to making the jump. Please visit other countries before you decide to relocate from the US to another Country to live on a permanent basis.

  • @rberding
    @rberding 5 лет назад +1

    I am a Dutch expat for 31 years. Worked and lived in Nigeria, 13 years in Spain, 12 years in Saint Lucia (Caribbean) and now finally retired since 5 years in Boquete-Panama. My wife and I speak fluent Dutch, English and Spanish. Manage quite well basic German and French. I have travelled the world a lot for business and pleasure. Here in Boquete very few Americans and Canadians speak some basic Spanish. Anyway your video is to the point. Well done.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад

      Thanks! Gracias! Bedankt! 😁

  • @ivonnecampos8381
    @ivonnecampos8381 4 года назад +1

    Ito is added at the end of a word when you refer to something small, but also as an expression of affection, for example: mi flaquiTo, mi perriTo, mi casiTa, mi amiguiTa.
    Love your videos!!

  • @verolucia2233
    @verolucia2233 3 года назад +18

    I’m Ecuadorian who lived 18 years in the Netherlands , now back to Quito with my Dutch husband and kid and Iove it, even I realized that I’m having a cultural shock myself after watching the video! Now I understand my reactions here 😆

  • @jlb2275
    @jlb2275 5 лет назад +3

    You are quite correct from 1-12 and I am very happy to say I passed with flying colors! You are right that the rainy season is a pain and I agree that a week or two on the coast may be very helpful. I have experienced Ecuador in Carchi and Imbabura for a bit over 2 years so I don't think I would leave Cuenca or Ecuador for any of the 12 reasons. Perhaps a 13th reason that may still come up kkkk. I really like it here in Cuenca. People are very nice and friendly, I love riding on the new buses and got my yellow bus card and am well used to the routes. I read somewhere Quito and Guayaquil are getting the newer electric/hybrid(?) buses from China and we may be next! That would be awesome. Thanks for all your videos, they are excellent! Congrats!!!

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +1

      Great! I'm hoping we get some of the new electric buses. I heard Loja got one. Where's ours?!

    • @norviato1
      @norviato1 5 лет назад +2

      China has bullet trains so the buses should be high tech. Amtrak, not so much lol

  • @wambraceramicspriscillacha5784
    @wambraceramicspriscillacha5784 4 года назад +2

    In Guayaquil and Quito there’s a lot of the things you miss . Cuenca is beautiful but is a small town :/ in guayaquil in one store you can have beyond burger , nutritional yeast and other stuff

  • @JohnSmith-SdTkt
    @JohnSmith-SdTkt 5 лет назад +11

    Sounds just like my experiences in Mexico ! I speak Spanish - you guys can do it ! Keep talking to Ecuadorians. John Smithito

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks! We just had our Spanish lesson. We're getting better all the time.

    • @pawerRanjerah
      @pawerRanjerah 3 года назад +2

      More like Juanito smithito haha

  • @jgonzalez372
    @jgonzalez372 3 года назад +6

    Se llaman DIMINUTIVOS EN LA LENGUA ESPAÑOLA( PEQUEÑITO, NIÑITA ETC) 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @cluggyahoo
    @cluggyahoo 4 года назад +5

    I am Canadian and have been living in Latin America since 1995 (in 3 countries).
    What you mention here is true but it applies to *ALL Latin American countries* (to different degrees). Lol
    Congratulations on your channel !

    • @edwardespinoza8749
      @edwardespinoza8749 4 года назад +1

      🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦my fellow Canuck

  • @loril2466
    @loril2466 4 года назад +2

    I lived in Key West Florida for a year. They had an expression to describe the "tomorrow" not meaning tomorrow phenomenon. They would say "in Spanish manana means tomorrow, but in Key West it means not today."

  • @briscoedarling3237
    @briscoedarling3237 4 года назад +1

    I love Ecuadorian diminutives....Dollarito (one little dollar), aguita (a little water), centavitos (five little cents and also part of an excellent Julio Jaramillo song), cuentita (the little bill), perito (little dog), gatita (little cat or enchanting woman), mamita (little mother), conchito (little pig), virgincita (as in the Virgin del Cisne), choclitos (little ears of corn), oritos (little golden bananas), amorsoski (your enamorada), whiskoski (a little whiskey), punkincita (your loved one). Many of these are only heard in Loja and Zamora provinces.

  • @antoniomata6716
    @antoniomata6716 4 года назад +3

    "Noche abrigada" in Cuenca, when the sky is covered by clouds.

  • @norviato1
    @norviato1 5 лет назад +3

    The altitude is serious stuff. I drove up to Pikes Peak in Colorado at 14,000 feet above sea level and felt horrible even though I was born in Quito, higher than Cuenca. It takes time to adjust and some never do.🏔

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад

      Very true.

    • @GeorgeMinton-jb8ky
      @GeorgeMinton-jb8ky 4 года назад

      I couldn't take Pike's Peak either. On the tram up the mountain you get really sleepy and it is dangerous. I imagine if you fly in at a lower altitude and take a couple of days to go up to Cuenca your body could adjust better. Taking altitude sickness drugs sounds like a good idea but I would still take a couple of days to go up.

  • @StevenDLightspring
    @StevenDLightspring 3 года назад

    Oh, this was so very helpful! you guys touch on so many things that help give a much-needed framework and context that many of us are reaching for! Thanks so much! (Next I'll go watch the one about you leaving Cuenca 6 months later as well! [at least that's when the video was made, it seems] ) Just really appreciate your perspective and your most encouraging upbeat vibe--even when addressing issues and challenges as you did here! Thank youuuu!

    • @evelinholmes6401
      @evelinholmes6401 3 года назад

      We spend 3 Canadian winters in Ecuador at various places . For me the cost is nice but I could not deal with the food .
      I am not a finicky eater but the lack of certain food for me would be a factor.
      Chicken and or fish and rice is not for me. Granted Cuenca was beautiful the week we spent there and it had a lot more food options but being retired and just not been able to communicate is not my thing.
      Also I wanted to see many more countries in this world and we did see a lot of countries told me I was not ready to stay in Ecuador.
      No matter where we went Canada always called us .

  • @rberding
    @rberding 5 лет назад +8

    Lo más importante, como dicen los Españoles: Amor, salud y plata.

  • @blancaparraga3006
    @blancaparraga3006 5 лет назад +61

    Hi guys, i'm from Ecuador if are you guys should visit Manta is a small city but is really nice, sorry if i write something bad i'm starting to learn English

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +12

      ¡Su inglés es muy bien! Queremos ir a Manta algún día. ¡Espero que pronto!

    • @johngarbarini8474
      @johngarbarini8474 5 лет назад +9

      @@AmeliaAndJP -I liked your video. I've lived here near Cuenca for 6 1/2 years now, and you are correct about the July/August weather. As Blanca said, you should visit Manta, which is a coastal beach city, with decent warm weather in Jul/Aug. I escape the cold by going there, and to Catamayo, near Loja, which is a little boring, but sunny almost year-round.
      I come from NYC and I do not miss the high rents and humid summers there.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +2

      @@johngarbarini8474 We're planning an escape from the cold next year. It's almost summer!

    • @gabrielvilla6409
      @gabrielvilla6409 5 лет назад +5

      Blanca Parraga I'd say you're doing pretty good.! just don't give up on it.! lo estas haciendo muy bien! no te rindas y sigue aprendiendo.! saludos desde new york.! y muy bonitos los videos de estos señor@s.!

    • @lauraacosta5515
      @lauraacosta5515 4 года назад +7

      You write English very well. Congratulations!!

  • @heatherwhittaker6169
    @heatherwhittaker6169 4 года назад +2

    All those specialty items I never use..I certainly never order on line...its much healthier to walk and shop and socialize your way around..

  • @McGrew100
    @McGrew100 4 года назад +1

    For altitude sickness......drink lots of water and eat dark chocolate. We use that in Colorado for tourists. It takes the sickness down a bit, but not a cure.

  • @analogninomad
    @analogninomad 3 года назад +1

    After Cuzco and Buenos Aires, Cuenca is my favorite city in Soth America. 😊
    I spent only one week there, but I'm not actually a big fan of cities.
    With Vilcabamba and Quito, probably the best starting spot in Ecuador for US expats who are not familiar with the Spanish.
    Good content, btw, I'm subscribed. 👍

  • @barneygoogle4003
    @barneygoogle4003 2 года назад

    Kudos for presenting a more realistic picture of your local environment. So many expat channels are just sales pitches that either gloss over negative issues or don't even mention them at all.

  • @jhors7777
    @jhors7777 4 года назад

    Very helpful and well explained. Wonderful smiles and good natured couple. I like how you number things - keeps it organized and to the point:)

  • @profdg7945
    @profdg7945 2 года назад +1

    I'm retired and, in retrospect, I don't know how I ever fit work into my busy schedule! :)

  • @jeffreypickett8702
    @jeffreypickett8702 4 года назад

    Thank you for the information! It was very insightful! Good to know about the cloudy summer months and the difficulties with different dialects

  • @jaysmaldo8230
    @jaysmaldo8230 5 лет назад +4

    Really cool video, I’ve been following you lately
    Pretty awkward what you say, it’s good to know most of them are personal reasons, all ex-pats are welcome in our city
    Of course cultural shock could be one of the main reasons, especially for those who have never traveled abroad
    Coupon, enjoy and safe travels

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks! Glad you're enjoying our videos!
      Culture shock is an issue for anyone who leaves their home country. I think if you mentally prepare and study the culture, it helps but some people just don't like change.

    • @jaysmaldo8230
      @jaysmaldo8230 5 лет назад +1

      Amelia And JP totally true especially with those who do not do their homework 🤘🏽

    • @lorenabayas6178
      @lorenabayas6178 4 года назад

      I am Ecuadorian from Quito, had been living in Shanghai - China almost 4 years. Think nothing can prepare you for the cultural change. Will always be hard. Just some places are harder than others. By the way I am moving to Cuenca next month, so let's see how it goes:). And I like your videos

  • @jeffreypickett8702
    @jeffreypickett8702 4 года назад +1

    Thank you! If I am able to make an exploratory long term visit soon, then I would be working remotely so I would not be bored...but I do understand that is always the trickiest part of retirement, how to occupy yourself. My dad does a lot of volunteer work to keep busy and seems happy

  • @georgycolson6743
    @georgycolson6743 4 года назад +2

    LOL. That time frame is how my husband lives. I'm STILL waiting for him to do stuff on the honey-do list!

  • @brandonanderson3310
    @brandonanderson3310 4 года назад +2

    What a beautiful and positive woman!

  • @robertdevoy3119
    @robertdevoy3119 3 года назад +1

    There are ample reasons to stay in the USA. You give up a lot when moving elsewhere. For retirees, just about all of the things you love about Ecuador can be found in the U.S. And you won't have to give up the convenience of Walmart etc. Also, you won't have to learn a new language. If you don't like the politics just ignore it. Pay off your home and car and if necessary move to a state that is more tax friendly, especially, for retirees. Sell your home and invest the huge capital gain for investment income in addition to SS. You can rent a place anywhere you like.

    • @av8rbri473
      @av8rbri473 3 года назад +1

      but the biggest thing you are leaving out is the healthcare....it’s a real thing that is a MESS in the US

  • @josephpreich6924
    @josephpreich6924 3 года назад

    My wife & I were in the Peace Corps in Ibarra. Our tours ended in AUG 68. We really enjoyed our time there. The people were very friendly. It was a very interesting 2 years. We'd like to come back to stay for an extended period of time to experience the Ecuadorian culture again. I'm sure things have changed in the 50+ years since we left. I'd like to know if it still takes 4 hours on a Gran Turismo bus to go from Ibarra to Quito. (I believe the distance between the cities is 60 miles as the crow flies!) Viva Ecuador! We really enjoy your videos!

  • @BucketListTravellers
    @BucketListTravellers 3 года назад +1

    Exploring more of the world sounds like a good reason to leave. Nice to think that you have friends all around the world that you've met in Ecuador.

  • @drhoy15
    @drhoy15 5 лет назад

    very thoughtful list of reasons. Many I had already thought of but a couple were new to me and certainly food for thought. Thank you :)

  • @virginiamorales1591
    @virginiamorales1591 4 года назад +2

    They usually use diminutivo in almost all the words. Diminutive. Like instead of saying casa, they say Casita. In Puerto Rico we may use a diminutive but basically we don't.
    It's like you guys say, you will get used to it. Blessings

  • @chrystalholley5545
    @chrystalholley5545 5 лет назад +4

    Of all the videos that I have seen about why expats leave Cuenca, yours is by far the most balanced and beneficial. My husband and I are in your debt.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад

      Wow! That's a huge compliment! Thank you so much!

    • @norviato1
      @norviato1 5 лет назад

      There’s a whole article on why expats leave Cuenca and Ecuador in general In CuencaHighLife, look it up.

  • @ironhat2
    @ironhat2 3 года назад

    really upbeat couple, and your video was happy and informative. wish you guys well wherever those winds blow you. thanks

  • @mariannesanchez7978
    @mariannesanchez7978 3 года назад +1

    “ito” yes even used as affection in peoples or children’s names like Jorgito etc. It sounds kinder when hey add “ito”. My hubby is Costa Rican and I lived in Costa Rica bringing up our 4 children. Two born in Canada and the other 2 there

  • @mm77716
    @mm77716 3 года назад +1

    En lugar de Amazon pueden usar Wish, aquí se usa muchísimo para compras online de USA y te llega en pocos días y si es para compras del hogar o comida rápida, hay servicios cómo GLOBO y UBER EATS, solo es que investiguen si hay uno parecido por su zona

  • @TheGel69
    @TheGel69 4 года назад +15

    your list can apply to anywhere on the planet. in a nutshell expats leave because they cannot adjust to their new environment. most expats arrive in their new environment with an idea of how life in going to be, the reality on the ground is usually very different from their expectations. I am French and have been an expat in the US for the last 25 years and I have seen many people coming and going for the reasons you describe. My 2 cents input, you have to live like the locals if you want to make it wherever you decide to settle, stop comparing things, embrace the differences, since this is what inspired you to move, in the first place. Last but not least, expat life is not for everyone, if after trying you come to the conclusion that it is not for you, this is not a failure.

    • @andersfuchs9209
      @andersfuchs9209 4 года назад +3

      You are an immigrant and not an expat

    • @TheGel69
      @TheGel69 4 года назад +1

      @@andersfuchs9209 the difference between the two is, the duration of the stay, temporary for the expat , vs permanently for the immigrant, but that does not affect the reality of the agenda discussed in the video.

    • @stuartdryer1352
      @stuartdryer1352 4 года назад

      I'm planning the opposite change. Will retire in France.

    • @TheGel69
      @TheGel69 4 года назад

      @@stuartdryer1352 that can be a very good choice for the right individual, bonne chance

  • @bernardocueva5838
    @bernardocueva5838 3 года назад

    Great informative video! I’m from Cuenca and agree with you completely. I’ve been living in Germany for the last 5 years and have experienced the same but in a different way, it’s something to consider when leaving our home countries. Saludos!

  • @dugfriendly
    @dugfriendly 2 года назад

    I grew up in the Seattle, Wa area, so the cloudiness is soothing. The sun just mocks us 😂

  • @agoodlife2
    @agoodlife2 3 года назад +2

    I had similar issues when I moved to Paris and tried to complete my residence visa

  • @franciscarney6150
    @franciscarney6150 3 года назад

    Love your videos and exuberance for life. Thank you for this great content!

  • @jacksmeditation7584
    @jacksmeditation7584 5 лет назад +1

    Hi Guys! Once again...you are right on about why people don't stay long in a particular location for long. When I was in broadcasting; I moved around to better paying gigs in the South and North West. When I left the high ego radio biz, I decided to teach English in China for 3 years. Then it was off to Ecuador, Peru, and Chile. I hung my hat in Santiago (a wonderful city) for 2.5 yrs. Taught English there online. Every So. American country has there own dialect. As you say knowing castillion spanish is one thing, but learning to recognize the dialects can be frustrating. (I know from experience) Anyway. I can go on and on about the places' I've been. But will bore you no more. Time to relocate to Cuenca is drawing nearer....Cant' wait!!!

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад

      Wow! You've expatted a lot!

    • @norviato1
      @norviato1 5 лет назад

      The word is Castilian to be precise, it’s like British English as opposed to American lol 😂

  • @bebereyes5514
    @bebereyes5514 3 года назад +7

    "Ito" is used in calling everything that is small .

  • @MovieJustin
    @MovieJustin 2 года назад

    I want to live in 80 + degree weather. Eat fabulous food and sun bathe. Let my days start to melt together in a hazy endless summer. Face oblivion in a tropical peace.

  • @andrescoronel6193
    @andrescoronel6193 5 лет назад +1

    "ito" is also used with some load of love for that specific subject, it depends on the intonation, it could also be used to belittle people" esa chiquita" it's like the word "doggy" so to say, but many people use it when they are shy also, however our spanish is f...... hard to learn it, since there are expression that are missimplied in comparison to the global spanish or the spanish in the movies, for example: "has de saber hacer eso siempre" the correct sentence would be " debes hacer eso siempre" and since it is expressed with one auxiliary verb plus two common verbs, "to know" and "to do" you get confused, we should only use one common verb like the following instance: "debes hacer eso siempre" which is the correct form instead of using "has= to have " " saber= to know" " hacer = to do" which translates in your brains, " you have to know to do that always" and the word "always in this case is located at the end which could imply a question if it's pronounced it with a questionable tone, because if you put always after the I, you, she, he so on and so forth you are affirmiting that action, but again if you happen to hear it with a questionable sound, then it is a fucking question, not an statement, it depends on the tone and intonation, i've just realized how hard it is for you guys to comprehend our language and our fashion to speak it, not to mention our accent which is barely understandable, since we pronunce almost every single R word like you pronunce Tree--> árbol, well i guess it is what it is. women have the sixth sense to notice energy though, men always struggle on that matter, since most of our brains are way too different.

    • @AmeliaAndJP
      @AmeliaAndJP  5 лет назад +1

      Great insight! I really struggle with context, even in English, so it's a real struggle for me to understand Spanish, especially in Cuenca. Amelia is very good with context so it's easier for her to understand what people say. I'm better at speaking, but I'm sure my direct and literal translation into Spanish confuses a lot of people. It's a process...

  • @chechokiko7904
    @chechokiko7904 5 лет назад

    Abuelito, Abuelita, carrito, casita, Manuelito, those are dimunitives. Many people in latin america use that. You can refer to JP as "JPito" :P. For convenience, it is probably hard to get specialized stuff especially if you are on a specific diet or if you are looking for something very specific. That's where word of mouth comes in. I ask this of my cousin and he told me normally you would inquire with someone say a neighbor and they usually know as they've probably been in a similar situation when it comes to finding something that may be hard to come by. As far as groceries are concerned, I found it to be easy walking around Guayaquil, Quito, Ambato and from what I observed in Cuenca of places to buy your basic needs. I saw there is a SuperMaxi which you get to by cab/bus but I didn't check it thoroughly enough to see what they carry apart from clothes and some electronic goods.

  • @hastii36
    @hastii36 3 года назад

    You guys make the best videos!! Great info!! cheers!!👍

  • @lauriehewett7750
    @lauriehewett7750 3 года назад +1

    I love how you get along so well! Tienen tan bonita relación, son cómplices y se entienden maravillosamente! Felicitaciones por su trabajo! Espero que ya puedan entender estas palabras. Soy ecuatoriana que vive en SoCal...

  • @Mr1kuwait
    @Mr1kuwait 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for the “Altitude sickness “ advice . 👍

  • @ProsperityClubEducation
    @ProsperityClubEducation 3 года назад +1

    "Ito" is common in all Spanish. I little cat is gatito, a little dog perrito. Even used for terms of endearment like your grandmother or grandfather that you adore. Abuelita or abuelito...

  • @tthinker9897
    @tthinker9897 3 года назад +1

    My biggest fear is banking. I saw one video where someone life savings "disappeared" from the South American bank, and there was no recourse.

  • @jeffsea6490
    @jeffsea6490 5 лет назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your very informative content ! 👍

  • @estebanmolano9794
    @estebanmolano9794 4 года назад +1

    You guys should take a trip to Medellin Colombia, just to check it out. The only risk is that you may fall in love with that place and culture.

  • @davidc1961utube
    @davidc1961utube 2 года назад

    So the weather is perfect for snowbirding! Mid-October thru mid-April.

  • @jerrybender6633
    @jerrybender6633 3 года назад

    Best work share so far just really well done