I just want say thank you all for the kind words. Binabasa ko lahat ng comments at di nyo lang alam kung gano kalaking tulong yun para sa akin mas lalo nung simula. Sa mga nag share ng mga kwento nila, sana nakatulong din yung experience ko sa inyo. Alam kong hindi sya madaling proseso pero magiging okay din kayo in time. Sobrang appreciative talaga ako sa support and i hope to see you soon loves! ♥️
You’re strong . I can feel how you felt . It hurt and so sad even i dontknow you all it still make me cryy . . But i hope you are doing well . Just do what you want .
You know what’s really painful? It’s not the fear of being alone, but the fact that we’ll be clueless on how to move forward when we’ve grown so much with the people we’ve lost.
❤ we don't know. We don't know how we're going to keep on living but we keep breathing anyway. In my experience every breath I took hurt like a motherf**k** I'm sorry for my French but it's the only word that I can think of that will Express exactly how it felt.
[ENGLISH TRANSLATION] Dear Franco, How have you been? I bet it's peaceful and happy there. It's been a while, was it 3 years already? Back then, I was still hoping that this is not true. I was hoping there'll be a miracle and you'll come back. It was so hard when you've left. Whenever I close my eyes, everything that happened kept repeating on my head over and over again., as if I am drowning again. I've always had those maybes and what ifs in my head, what if I was a little stronger, maybe I could've saved you. Sometimes I ask myself, how can I stay strong? How can I continue to smile and be happy? How can I continue life when half of me left with you? Everyone knows how happy I was because of you, how happy we were together. And there are things death cannot touch, and those are the memories we've made. I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you. But you've spent the rest of your life with me, and I'm thankful for that. I'm thankful that I was the last person you've loved-- Even if it was just for a short amount of time, I knew it was real. I know there's a lot of people curious and asking, why it takes me so long to be okay. But, the truth is, you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you. My love for you was the only thing that kept me going. Because I know, you want me to withstand it [and be able to move forward] The support that I receive from people I don't know also helped me a lot. Even from their simple [support and comforting] messages, it flatters my heart, so much. My family and friends were also there for me. I know it wasn't easy for them too, but they never left me. And most especially, God. Even though I was in so much struggle, I know He's never [abandoned] forsaken me. Your presence taught me how to be strong, but your absence taught me how to be stronger. I am now ready to continue. I am more ready to know and love myself, learn new things and experience more of what I can do. I am now ready to continue the life [that] I've thought has [already] ended. I am now [more] ready. Franco, I know you want me to be happy and I can finally say, I AM. I was content of being alone. I was okay with the thought of not being with someone else for the rest of my life. But that's a funny thing about love-- it comes when you least expect it. [I've realized] whatever you experienced, love will really find its way back to you. And as I unflod this new chapter of my life, I am now ready to face and welcome it with a grateful heart. Grateful to all the people and learnings that shaped me to be the woman I am now. I am thankful to those people who believed in me. I am thankful to my family and friends. I am thankful to God. You don't have to worry about me, Franco. I am now okay. I will always be thankful to you for looking after me all these years. I will never forget the memories we've made because it was never about our ending, it was about the journey-- and I am thankful for the time that was given to us. Now, I am ready to move forward and live life with a stronger and happier version of myself. Love, Nam
This is a popular grief quote and she included it as an excerpt perhaps. The whole quote goes like this, “I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with you. And then I realized, you spent the rest of your life with me. I smile because I know you loved me till the day you went away. And will keep loving me till the day we’re together again.”
What made this video beautiful are the ocean scenes. The fact that Franco was taken by the ocean yrs ago, this means acceptance. What a beautiful healing Nam, i wish everyone experiencing grief will have the same. Including myself. Keep healing, keep living.
Kudos to Her current boyfriend. He is genuinely a true gentleman. The living embodiment of modern chivalry. He's giving her space to heal and reconcile with the pain and the past.thank you my good sir for being so open and understanding.
Me.😭 Di ko sya masyadong kilala non sa hashtag pero super crush ko sya, pag sumasayaw ang hashtag kay franco lang talaga yong mata ko. Kaya nung nalaman kong yong trahedyang nangyare super na sad na ako nun until nalaman ko may jowa sya, Si ms. nam naman ang sinubaybayan ko thru Ig post, stories nakakalungkot at nakakapahinayang silang dalawa huhu🥺
Can’t imagine being in Nam’s shoes. I’d probably die too. Imagine losing someone u wanted to share ur life with forever but u have to let it go cause maybe, it wasn’t God’s will to let that happen bcause again maybe, He has better plans, and He has really. So happy for you Nam. Love lots💕🤍
I lost the love of my life a few months before Janica's. Now I have found someone who accepted my past, and now loves me more than i deserve. To my dearest Paul in heaven. thank you.❤️
When a one person survives a tragedy, they carry the guilt of being the survivor. Why them? Even when I don’t know the whole story, I can tell that this is the catharsis and the goodbye that you needed. He’s happy that you’re happy. Live a long, beautiful life.
I think it is understood that Nam will forever love Franco, wala nang makakapagpabago non. But acceptance is the key, and she needs to move on and enjoy her life. Franco will forever have an importance place in her life, and she will forever love him, even though she already have someone in her life and I'm happy for her!
I've been IG stalking you for the last three years, always hoping you are getting better. I'm so happy you are at peace and genuinely happy now, ate Nam. I've always waited for this day to come. You're a very strong and brave woman. I'm sure Franco is also happy that you found love again.
*" Your presence taught me how to be strong but your absence taught me how to be stronger"* that line made me cry so hard because I remember my dad who died 2 months ago :'
Losing someone you loved gives you more than a heartache, you'll never get over it. And for the rest of your life, you'll have to bring the pain. You thought you're okay? but the truth is, you just learn to live with it 💔
I lost my fiancé 3 months ago, and I would just like to thank you for posting this. Andun ako sa tabi nya bago siya mawala. Nakita ko kung paano sya lumaban, pano nya paulit ulit sabihin saken na papakasalan nya ako paglabas namin ng hospital. But sadly, ako lang ang nakalabas ng hospital. He went somewhere else. Nagsasama na rin kami at kasal na lang talaga ang kulang. Paulit ulit nya sinasabi saken na para saken lalaban sya. Na kakayanin nya. Na hindi nya hahayaan na mag isa ako, kasi sabi nya. Kami naman, kami naman dapat ang sumaya. A month after he left. Sumunod naman yung furbaby namin. Totoo nga sabi nila, when it rains, it pours talaga. Kagaya ng sabi mo, kada pikit ko, nakikita ko parin lahat. Walang araw na di ko sya naisip. Ang hirap tignan yung paligid ko na lahat nagpapatuloy tapos ako para lang akong statue na nanonood sa bawat steps na ginagawa nila to continue with their lives. I don't drink but when it happened. Natuto ako. Gusto kong matulog para di ko maramdaman yung pain pero at the same time ayoko kasi ayokong gumising na wala sya sa tabi ko. May mga instances pa na nahuhuli ko sarili ko na bumibili ng mga gamit or pagkain para sa kanya only to find out once again na, wala na yung kumakain non wala na yung gagamit non. The only thing I have left that keeps me going is my work, I guess. Maswerte ako kahit papaano na naka permanent wfh set up ako. Umiiyak ako during shift. Nagttype ako habang tumutulo luha ko. Itinutuloy ko kahit nahihirapan ako kasi alam kong nakabantay siya palagi sa akin. Alam ko g nasa tabi ko sya Sabi ng mga kaibigan ko, soon makikita ko rin at mahahanap ko rin yung calmness kagaya nung andito pa sya. Na isipin ko lagi na kung andito sya, ayaw nyang makita akong malungkot at miserable. I wish I could soon say "I can finally say, I am happy" Babalikan ko tong post na to. Pag dumating na yung araw na kaya ko nang sabihin yang mga salitang yan na hindi peke ang ngiti ko.
"your presence taught me how to be strong but your absence taught me how to be stronger" nooooooo because until now I'm still hurting because of that tragic day😭
3 years was never easy and will never be easy to anyone who lost their love ones forever. I admire you for being strong and paying respect to franco before you enter the new chapter of your life, before you close the book of your past with him and before you love someone again. For sure franco was very happy where ever he was now. Because finally after 3 long years the love of his life is now ready to stand up and start new beginning. that his girl is now finally back from being sad and lonely to bubbly and happy. This video really touch my heart.
"I've always prayed to God to let me die first or I will die twice, but still, I was left alone." It's been 1635 days since the last day I saw you and 502 days you were in heaven. 🤍🕯 I miss you so much! 😥🤍 I miss you always and I love you.. 💙😘 See you in our next life @AeyhanAlvarado ❤ Love, -Nhat
Made me cry. It’s been 5 years since God took my mom home. It still feels so unreal whenever I think about her. Time passes and I still can’t believe I haven’t heared her voice or hugged her. 😔
I cried like a baby watching this. People always say that I'm naive but these video, comments and these beautiful people in and outside make me believe that people are kind.
When she said na sa tuwing pipikit siya yun ang nakikita niya, the pain and trauma. She deserve happiness, she deserves the love shes recieving rn, Franco is proud of her.
With the pain of losing Franco, I knew that it is and will always be difficult for you to move forward and live what's left for you. But, hey! You have been so strong for too long. You have endured the pain which you thought was never gonna end and finally, you are healed. Hearing every word from this video makes us so proud of you, Nam. I bet that includes Franco. You have this beautiful story that inspires people. Continue to be brave in facing what's ahead of you, Nam! It's time.
“How can I continue life when half of me left with you?” I'm so proud of you. How brave you are to face this kind of obstacle in your life for how many years. I know that he will guide you to your future.
I felt like i was in a roller coaster with all these feelings YT recommended this to me. I can say Ive moved on to this couple years ago after Franks died but as i continue to watch this gave me happiness and realization in life. Thank you Franko and Nam for showing what love was and is. 😭😭
"I know there's a lot of people curious and asking, why it takes me so long to be okay. But, the truth is, you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you." 😢 the feels.
After watching this. I realized how important life is. How important the TIME and LOVE is. I cannot say life is short if youve spent your whole life to someone you really loved.
That’s the thing about death.. it’s silent and peaceful. It’s those left behind who suffer. May it be months, years, or even a decade - it doesn’t mean you forget that person, but you eventually get over the pain and move on with life. Happy for you Nam, and I’m sure Franco is happier seeing you live you life after him. 🤍
It takes a while to comprehend. But when we reach the point with gratitude of what time we did spend and love with this person who journey to the spirit world that is the beginning of moving and flowing into the beginning of a life without the one you loved that left this world to the spirit world
I read a very heartbreaking thread in twitter. It's about the lawyer and her fiance who died 3 months before their wedding. They have a very beautiful love story and up until today ( 6 yrs after her fiance's death) you can still feel how much she loves him. I hope she'll be able to watch this and be inspired by Janica's journey. May all the woman who experienced this kind of pain finds healing ❤
“Maraming nagtataka na bat ang tagal kong maging okay” As I’m watching this while I’m also healing, not bc I’ve lost someone, just plainly bc of myself, I didn’t even wonder. Whatever is the reason ur healing, Healing doesn’t have a due date, it is bout acknowledging, accepting, walking even tho there will be times u still don’t understand, not giving up, and moving on, it may take just months or even many years, but all in all, it is finding yourself again, putting those pieces back or recreate new pieces to be whole again. One may not see it cause it’s from within, but it’s tougher than u may feel. Everyday, ul be hoping for that someday, someday that ul wake up and everything’s in place again.
ANG SAKIT. PERO ANG SARAP DIN SA FEELING THAT ATE NAM FINALLY MOVED ON. SHE’S HAPPY. I KNOW KUYA FRANCO IS GENUINELY HAPPY FOR YOU. THANK U FOR BEING STRONG.. I LOVE U ATE 🤍
Ngayon, makaka move on narin ako sa story niyo, knowing that you're already happy. Thank you Ate Nam. You are an inspiration, you are so brave and you deserve all the love and happiness in this world. I'm rooting for you, God bless!🌊 And kay kuya Franco, you will remain in our hearts and you will never be forgotten. We love you. 🤍
3 years nadin pala ang nakakalipas, sobrang sinusubaybayan ko lagi ang mga post at my day mo nung mawala si franco, sya lang ang laging laman ng bawat mong post. Alam namin kung gaano nyo kamahal ang isat isa, minsan mapapasabi ka nalang ng parang ang unfair ng mundo. kung kelan masaya kana nakita mo na ung taong makakasama mo habang buhay, kung kelan nararanasan mo ng maging masaya sa piling ng mahal mo, saka pa sya mawawala at babawiin sayo 😢 Sobrang strong mo ate Nam. Siguradong anjan lang si Franco palagi kang Binabantayn.
Saw Nam's post on IG and I went straight here. Even though the video hasn't started yet, tears fell from my eyes. I am a silent fan of Nam and Franco since then. It hurts so much. 💔
It really hurts when someone came to your life and expected to be with forever but one day it's gone, the most hard part is how to be live without pain inside and think of them happy and peaceful while you're in pain and missed. Hopefully everyone will be have a happy ending 🙏❤️
"I've always thought that i'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me" 😢I'm so happy that you find your happiness again ate nam!! You deserve it💓
"I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me and I'm thankful for that." grabe kahit masakit sa part ni Nam, the pain taught her to be grateful for Franco's time and existence na magkasama sila and that's what makes this line beautiful ❤️
It was never about our ending, it’s about the journey. That is a beautiful way to look at something you had and treasured in your life. Things will come and go and some will feel awful however, looking at how the experiences they had together instead of the tragic ending, shines the light more on their love than the end. Which is better and a much more celebration of their happiness and who they were to each other. She should keep living and this is the way to do it.
I can’t even imagine myself being in the same situation that you went through. I’m so proud of how brave u are, u deserve all the happiness in the world and I’m pretty sure u will have it for u have ur angel above rooting for u 🤗🤍
When people ask "kanino Ka unang nag Ka gusto?"may answer never change"Kay hashtag Franco"even though she have his girl in her life they make me smile..I always watch Franco video and nam sweet moments with franco.when I knew that nam is in relationship with someone I'm happy because after a decade her sweet smile back again..I know Franco is happy..and I know what ever happen in nam future she always remember mico.. Our butterfly 🦋🦋🦋🦋
I didn't lose someone because of death. But the pain is the same. Still thankful he is still alive and living the rest of his life with someone else. And I am thankful, that we happened even if it was a short amount of time. I know you wanted me to be happy too. I will. Not now but someday. Be happy, baka sa kabilang buhay, ako na ung pipiliin mo :)
I cried so hard when my ex cheated and left me.. cried and felt depressed for someone who wasn't even worthy.. just by imaging how much painful it was to loss someone who loved us so much.. Can't control my tears😭😭😭😭
We all felt the pain in this video yet we also felt the great love here. It's been years but their love will always remain. We know that our angel Franco sent someone to let Ate Nam be free and be happy because that's how he loved and continue to love. Ate Nam, we are always here for you kahit saan and kahit kailan.
I lost the man I loved 9 years ago and the pain still haunts me. I know kung gaano kasakit manatili sa alaalang kailanman ay hindi na mauulit pa pero heto pa rin tayo, nabubuhay, lumalaban, kinakaya. God bless you, Nam.
Reading you're comment, I felt at ease knowing I'm not the only one and that my feelings is valid. Lost him 9 years ago and here I am at 12:00 am crying while watching this video... ;)
I really miss Franco Miguel. Atleast, ate Nam, you're lucky to experience "The One That God Arranged" relationship kahit saglit. Sana all po. Happy for you!
Ang ganda. Letting go does not always mean forgetting. It can also mean allowing ourselves to move forward whilst bringing with us great memories and lessons we've learned from the past. That's the beautiful thing about letting our wounds heal through time and prayers.
This video is not just reflection Kuya Franco,but also for your loved ones that departed you. Let’s be thankful that they made memories and brought life to this cruel world. Live In Peace,Kuya Franco!
It is true that you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you. My brother died 7 years ago but the pain is still there. I was also thinking na sana bumalik pa siya kahit alam kong imposible mangyari. Sometimes the only thing you need is to move forward and keep on praying because God has a purpose why we experience pain. God has a plan for all of us. Stay strong Nam, glad that you’re okay now.
crying my heart out watching this.. a love that is pure and geniune. cant imagine the pain you’ve been through and I honestly admired how you braved this journey of losing your first love.. been watching vids and reading your posts in IG since that sad day happened to franco.. you deserve all the love, nam!
Dear Miss Janica I don't know how many times I've watched this video, and it never failed to make me cry. I'm happy to know that you're over the moon. I salute you for not just being the woman you are today, but for the woman that you are in the process of becoming. You're one of the strongest women I'll know for the rest of my life. Love, Dian🤍
Nakakaiyak. Huhu. Thank you, Lord binigyan mo na si Nam ng Lorenz. Sobrang swerte ni Franco, na ikaw ang mahal niya hanggang sa huling hininga niya at nandiyan ka pa rin.
"I've always thought I'd be spending the rest of my life with you. But you spent the rest of your life with me and I'm thankful for that. Im thankful that I was the last person you loved--" 😭
i knew how hurt it is.. cz i have been passed it too.. dear janica, stay strong. he will never want to see your tears.. be happy coz you're lucky to have him in his last breath .
My heart 💔 I'm Crying! 😭😭😭 "How can I continue life when half of me left with you" “ I’ve always thought that i’d be spending the rest of my life with you. But you spend the rest of your life with me, and i am thankful for that. Im thankful that I was the last person you loved." "Your presence made me strong, but your absence made me stronger." "My love for you was the only thing that kept me going." 😭💔😌 still can't move on but I'm happy and proud of you Nam! I know Franco and his fam too ❤️❤️❤️ #OneGreatLove
Yes, I didn't know about them but after watching her videos and stalking Nam on social media, I got the idea about Franco and how he truly was. His smile filled with love, his eyes full of hopes and his soul shines! He was and is one in a billion. Yes I feel devastated for his loss but God too needs the best souls around him and he was one of them! He's so happy and proud of you Nam. I wish you all the happiness.
I've shed tears on ate Nam's ig captions about kuya Franco in heaven back then, and even until now, as in mafe-feel yung love niya for him. We love you ate for being brave as always. Kuya Franco surely is so proud from heaven.
Do not be guilty for being happy again because you really deserve it. I know Franco would understand and for sure he wants you to be happy as well. Being with someone else now doesn't mean you'll forget everything about Franco, it is part of life and part of your healing. Thank you as well for your courage to continue living and for being strong despite everything. God sees everything, and Franco sees everything. Your guardian angel Franco will always be with you and with a smile on his face he will be at peace wherever he is right now because you are now also at peace. Be happy, Nam. That's what Franco wants. 🌹
I was so sad when I heard the news about franco. Hindi ko sya kilala pero sobrang nanghinayang ako noon hanggang ngayon at naapektuhan sa nangyare. Lalo na sa relationship nila. How janica nam handle the situation and never syang nag give up sa relationship nila after what happened. I can feel her love and its genuine. I know it was hard for her but she got it. Such a great and strong lady. Before, hindi ko makita si Ms. nam na magmamahal pa ng iba kasi she was deeply inlove with Franco. We will always here to support you Ms. Nam. We love you always💕
I know their story, it is very sad and painful. it is very difficult to forget someone who loves each other. Even though they are not together, I hope everyone deserves to be happy
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I just want say thank you all for the kind words. Binabasa ko lahat ng comments at di nyo lang alam kung gano kalaking tulong yun para sa akin mas lalo nung simula. Sa mga nag share ng mga kwento nila, sana nakatulong din yung experience ko sa inyo. Alam kong hindi sya madaling proseso pero magiging okay din kayo in time. Sobrang appreciative talaga ako sa support and i hope to see you soon loves! ♥️
you are strong ❤️ love u and stay safe
Shoutout po . be strong
You’re strong . I can feel how you felt . It hurt and so sad even i dontknow you all it still make me cryy . . But i hope you are doing well . Just do what you want .
malalmpasan mo dn to ate.. praying for yoy
God Bless po Ate Name. :) God will always provide. :) Goodluck po sa bagong journey mo. :)
"I'd rather die tommorow than live a hundred years without knowing you." - Pocahontas
Si grabiella bee ba yung sa profile pic mo?
@@jayzellemaemanuel4480 Yes Darling.
Stay connect godbless po♥️
When people are thinking how Rose's continued life after Jack passed away, this is the answer.
😭
Dont you dare compare some fictional characters with a real one. 🙏🏻
actually the titanic is an actual phenomenon set in the 1912
@@mikastraea But the love story is fake, duh!!! 🤦🤦
@@mayaheemayahoomayahamayaha3233 she's not comparing tho..
Maybe the word "FOREVER" is made for memories not for people.
Sometimes feelings too
bruh...
Ugh
Awwwww
Awwww
"I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you.
But you've spent the rest of your life with me"
Thisss, really hurts
Yaa it made me cry 😭
Crying :(
yes yesss in this part my eyes start crying
im tearing up
Yas me to,but when she said"I how can I continue my life when half of me left with you.
It's hurtsss
You know what’s really painful? It’s not the fear of being alone, but the fact that we’ll be clueless on how to move forward when we’ve grown so much with the people we’ve lost.
🥺🥺🥺
Props to Nam's current bf also for understanding, embracing, treasuring, accepting and loving Nam and her past.
Yes I really appreciate him! Sobrang rare ng ganun ☹️
@@eejaydolores4964 lungkot sguro ng buhay mo.malalagpasan mo din yan.
@@eejaydolores4964 wawa ka naman
@@eejaydolores4964 who hurt you?😢
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"I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you. But you've spent the rest of your life with me, and I'm thankful for that."
Oh no i'm crying..
@@tiliaceus_ it was so heartbreaking
"how can I continue life when half of me left with you"
These word really got me🥺
Me to heyy
@@TSTIS-sc4qd 🥺🥺🥺
But she has moved on:)
❤ we don't know. We don't know how we're going to keep on living but we keep breathing anyway. In my experience every breath I took hurt like a motherf**k** I'm sorry for my French but it's the only word that I can think of that will Express exactly how it felt.
[ENGLISH TRANSLATION]
Dear Franco,
How have you been?
I bet it's peaceful and happy there.
It's been a while,
was it 3 years already?
Back then, I was still hoping that this is not true.
I was hoping there'll be a miracle and you'll come back.
It was so hard when you've left.
Whenever I close my eyes,
everything that happened kept repeating on my head over and over again.,
as if I am drowning again.
I've always had those maybes and what ifs in my head,
what if I was a little stronger,
maybe I could've saved you.
Sometimes I ask myself,
how can I stay strong?
How can I continue to smile and be happy?
How can I continue life when half of me left with you?
Everyone knows how happy I was because of you,
how happy we were together.
And there are things death cannot touch,
and those are the memories we've made.
I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you.
But you've spent the rest of your life with me, and I'm thankful for that.
I'm thankful that I was the last person you've loved--
Even if it was just for a short amount of time, I knew it was real.
I know there's a lot of people curious and asking,
why it takes me so long to be okay.
But, the truth is, you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you.
My love for you was the only thing that kept me going.
Because I know, you want me to withstand it [and be able to move forward]
The support that I receive from people I don't know also helped me a lot.
Even from their simple [support and comforting] messages,
it flatters my heart, so much.
My family and friends were also there for me.
I know it wasn't easy for them too,
but they never left me.
And most especially, God.
Even though I was in so much struggle,
I know He's never [abandoned] forsaken me.
Your presence taught me how to be strong,
but your absence taught me how to be stronger.
I am now ready to continue.
I am more ready to know and love myself,
learn new things and experience more of what I can do.
I am now ready to continue the life [that] I've thought has [already] ended.
I am now [more] ready.
Franco, I know you want me to be happy
and I can finally say, I AM.
I was content of being alone.
I was okay with the thought of not being with someone else for the rest of my life.
But that's a funny thing about love-- it comes when you least expect it.
[I've realized] whatever you experienced, love will really find its way back to you.
And as I unflod this new chapter of my life, I am now ready to face and welcome it with a grateful heart.
Grateful to all the people and learnings
that shaped me to be the woman I am now.
I am thankful to those people who believed in me.
I am thankful to my family and friends.
I am thankful to God.
You don't have to worry about me, Franco. I am now okay.
I will always be thankful to you for looking after me all these years.
I will never forget the memories we've made because it was never about our ending, it was about the journey--
and I am thankful for the time that was given to us.
Now, I am ready to move forward and live life
with a stronger and happier version of myself.
Love,
Nam
Thanks for the translation,it help me alot to understand the massages from nam
Thankyou❤
THANK YOU!!
❤❤❤
Thank you. Really wanted to know what you wrote..
"I've always thought that i'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me" this hit me hard🥺
Tumatak talaga tong line na 'to sa 'kin 🥺
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
huhuhu trueee
True :(
This is a popular grief quote and she included it as an excerpt perhaps. The whole quote goes like this,
“I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with you.
And then I realized, you spent the rest of your life with me.
I smile because I know you loved me till the day you went away.
And will keep loving me till the day we’re together again.”
What made this video beautiful are the ocean scenes. The fact that Franco was taken by the ocean yrs ago, this means acceptance. What a beautiful healing Nam, i wish everyone experiencing grief will have the same. Including myself. Keep healing, keep living.
your comment gave me goosebumps 😇thankyou Sheila 😍❤️
Dito talaga bagay yung kantang paubaya. “pinapaubaya kona siya ☝🏻.” God knows everything. It takes time to heal those pain.
Same tayo ng iniisip
Yung line lang na "Pinapaubaya na Sakanya" but not the song itself. Come on, the song is about a cheating partner.
@@dlwsblancaflor7078 yup yun din naisip ko pinaubaya kay Lord
@@dlwsblancaflor7078 Yah. Tama that line lang.
True ka jan sisssy
Kudos to Her current boyfriend. He is genuinely a true gentleman. The living embodiment of modern chivalry. He's giving her space to heal and reconcile with the pain and the past.thank you my good sir for being so open and understanding.
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sabi ko na may bf na e kaya may ganito hahahahaha
@@zeviahcompilations9675 I think wala naman masama doon. Nam also deserves to be happy AGAIN.
@@nicci3963 wala naman akong sinabing masama 'yun. lmao
@@zeviahcompilations9675 bat tawang tawa ka po?
"Your presence taught me how to be strong, but your absence taught me to be stronger." 😭❤
"how can i continue life, when half of me left with you" broo😭😭😭😭
😭😭
😣
Shet tagos
Sakit 😢
Who's missing Franco so much? Their relationship was perfect. They were made for each other pero bat ganon ang sakit🥺😭
😭😭😭
Me.😭 Di ko sya masyadong kilala non sa hashtag pero super crush ko sya, pag sumasayaw ang hashtag kay franco lang talaga yong mata ko. Kaya nung nalaman kong yong trahedyang nangyare super na sad na ako nun until nalaman ko may jowa sya, Si ms. nam naman ang sinubaybayan ko thru Ig post, stories nakakalungkot at nakakapahinayang silang dalawa huhu🥺
Me cause until now every 11th of the month I always remember him I that there were time that because of missing him nakakatulugan ko nalng ng umiiyak
They weren’t made for each other, bcoz if they do God won’t take him
💔😭
When Olaf said water has memory and this is what he's talking about
Can’t imagine being in Nam’s shoes. I’d probably die too. Imagine losing someone u wanted to share ur life with forever but u have to let it go cause maybe, it wasn’t God’s will to let that happen bcause again maybe, He has better plans, and He has really. So happy for you Nam. Love lots💕🤍
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I lost the love of my life a few months before Janica's. Now I have found someone who accepted my past, and now loves me more than i deserve. To my dearest Paul in heaven. thank you.❤️
When a one person survives a tragedy, they carry the guilt of being the survivor. Why them? Even when I don’t know the whole story, I can tell that this is the catharsis and the goodbye that you needed. He’s happy that you’re happy. Live a long, beautiful life.
This is the most genuine thing I saw on the internet today. Brb. I need to cry-
I think it is understood that Nam will forever love Franco, wala nang makakapagpabago non. But acceptance is the key, and she needs to move on and enjoy her life. Franco will forever have an importance place in her life, and she will forever love him, even though she already have someone in her life and I'm happy for her!
I've been IG stalking you for the last three years, always hoping you are getting better. I'm so happy you are at peace and genuinely happy now, ate Nam. I've always waited for this day to come. You're a very strong and brave woman. I'm sure Franco is also happy that you found love again.
Same! My heart is so happy.
*" Your presence taught me how to be strong but your absence taught me how to be stronger"* that line made me cry so hard because I remember my dad who died 2 months ago :'
feels😭
Who can still feel the pain of ate janica? Dude true love ung nafefeel nya, 3years na syang nangungulila kay kuya franco 😭
If Kuya Franco could ever see this, he'll be probably feel at ease too. Seeing that he isn't forgotten and will never be.
This is her way to tell everyone, she's inlove with someone else now.
:((((
yes and why not? kaylngn nyang mag move forward coz life goes on.
True. Akala ko ako lang ung nageexpect na magsasabi siyang inlove siya sa dulo.
And I guess magupload na siya ng new vlog with her bf na din after this.
Atleast she got the courage and guts to finally close that painful chapter in her life. She deserves to be happy.
Losing someone you loved gives you more than a heartache, you'll never get over it. And for the rest of your life, you'll have to bring the pain. You thought you're okay? but the truth is, you just learn to live with it 💔
True...
👏👏
"You just learn to live with it" 💔💔💔
I lost my fiancé 3 months ago, and I would just like to thank you for posting this. Andun ako sa tabi nya bago siya mawala. Nakita ko kung paano sya lumaban, pano nya paulit ulit sabihin saken na papakasalan nya ako paglabas namin ng hospital. But sadly, ako lang ang nakalabas ng hospital. He went somewhere else. Nagsasama na rin kami at kasal na lang talaga ang kulang. Paulit ulit nya sinasabi saken na para saken lalaban sya. Na kakayanin nya. Na hindi nya hahayaan na mag isa ako, kasi sabi nya. Kami naman, kami naman dapat ang sumaya.
A month after he left. Sumunod naman yung furbaby namin. Totoo nga sabi nila, when it rains, it pours talaga.
Kagaya ng sabi mo, kada pikit ko, nakikita ko parin lahat. Walang araw na di ko sya naisip. Ang hirap tignan yung paligid ko na lahat nagpapatuloy tapos ako para lang akong statue na nanonood sa bawat steps na ginagawa nila to continue with their lives.
I don't drink but when it happened. Natuto ako. Gusto kong matulog para di ko maramdaman yung pain pero at the same time ayoko kasi ayokong gumising na wala sya sa tabi ko. May mga instances pa na nahuhuli ko sarili ko na bumibili ng mga gamit or pagkain para sa kanya only to find out once again na, wala na yung kumakain non wala na yung gagamit non.
The only thing I have left that keeps me going is my work, I guess. Maswerte ako kahit papaano na naka permanent wfh set up ako. Umiiyak ako during shift. Nagttype ako habang tumutulo luha ko. Itinutuloy ko kahit nahihirapan ako kasi alam kong nakabantay siya palagi sa akin. Alam ko g nasa tabi ko sya
Sabi ng mga kaibigan ko, soon makikita ko rin at mahahanap ko rin yung calmness kagaya nung andito pa sya. Na isipin ko lagi na kung andito sya, ayaw nyang makita akong malungkot at miserable.
I wish I could soon say "I can finally say, I am happy"
Babalikan ko tong post na to. Pag dumating na yung araw na kaya ko nang sabihin yang mga salitang yan na hindi peke ang ngiti ko.
"I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you.
But you've spent the rest of your life with me" awww😭😭
Hit me so hard 😭
💔💔
"your presence taught me how to be strong but your absence taught me how to be stronger" nooooooo because until now I'm still hurting because of that tragic day😭
Fr 😭😭
They were made perfectly for each other but not in this lifetime.
I just wanted to say that he is probably so proud of the person you became. stay strong please and try being/ staying happy❤
3 years was never easy and will never be easy to anyone who lost their love ones forever. I admire you for being strong and paying respect to franco before you enter the new chapter of your life, before you close the book of your past with him and before you love someone again. For sure franco was very happy where ever he was now. Because finally after 3 long years the love of his life is now ready to stand up and start new beginning. that his girl is now finally back from being sad and lonely to bubbly and happy. This video really touch my heart.
"I've always prayed to God to let me die first or I will die twice, but still, I was left alone."
It's been 1635 days since the last day I saw you and 502 days you were in heaven. 🤍🕯
I miss you so much! 😥🤍
I miss you always and I love you.. 💙😘
See you in our next life @AeyhanAlvarado ❤
Love,
-Nhat
More power to you❤
Have hope on God. Everything will be fine in the end. May God bless you with happiness
yung kahit may bago na syang boyfriend, di pa din nya kinakalimutan yung memories na iniwan ni Franco🥺🥺 stay stong Nam❤️
Made me cry. It’s been 5 years since God took my mom home. It still feels so unreal whenever I think about her. Time passes and I still can’t believe I haven’t heared her voice or hugged her. 😔
Rest In Peace, she is already your part which always will be with you. Stay happy and strong, Ameen💗
hi me too. i feel you know youre not alone. i miss mom sooooo much im just here trying to live without her everyday.
Stay strong :)
I cried like a baby watching this. People always say that I'm naive but these video, comments and these beautiful people in and outside make me believe that people are kind.
When she said na sa tuwing pipikit siya yun ang nakikita niya, the pain and trauma. She deserve happiness, she deserves the love shes recieving rn, Franco is proud of her.
Ito yung literal na "Sa susunod na habang buhay." We're so happy that you are happy now ate nam!❤
With the pain of losing Franco, I knew that it is and will always be difficult for you to move forward and live what's left for you. But, hey! You have been so strong for too long. You have endured the pain which you thought was never gonna end and finally, you are healed. Hearing every word from this video makes us so proud of you, Nam. I bet that includes Franco. You have this beautiful story that inspires people. Continue to be brave in facing what's ahead of you, Nam! It's time.
I am sure that Franco is happy that you’re living your life happily
Napaka open minded and understanding ng Boyfriend niya ngayon 💙 Sana all! Proud of you, Nam! Franco is very happy for you, for sure ☺️
This kind of pain is hard for just everyone to understand unless you go through!
I feel you my girl Nam!
Happy new journey !
“How can I continue life when half of me left with you?”
I'm so proud of you. How brave you are to face this kind of obstacle in your life for how many years. I know that he will guide you to your future.
One thing is for sure, we miss Franco and that fact alone hurts like hell.
I felt like i was in a roller coaster with all these feelings YT recommended this to me. I can say Ive moved on to this couple years ago after Franks died but as i continue to watch this gave me happiness and realization in life. Thank you Franko and Nam for showing what love was and is. 😭😭
"I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me."
tae ang sakit non 😭😭😭
"I know there's a lot of people curious and asking, why it takes me so long to be okay. But, the truth is, you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you." 😢 the feels.
After watching this. I realized how important life is. How important the TIME and LOVE is. I cannot say life is short if youve spent your whole life to someone you really loved.
That’s the thing about death.. it’s silent and peaceful. It’s those left behind who suffer. May it be months, years, or even a decade - it doesn’t mean you forget that person, but you eventually get over the pain and move on with life. Happy for you Nam, and I’m sure Franco is happier seeing you live you life after him. 🤍
Well this is really the true example of love........Franco still lives in Janica heart🥺💞
And he will live there forever... In her heart.
It takes a while to comprehend. But when we reach the point with gratitude of what time we did spend and love with this person who journey to the spirit world that is the beginning of moving and flowing into the beginning of a life without the one you loved that left this world to the spirit world
I read a very heartbreaking thread in twitter. It's about the lawyer and her fiance who died 3 months before their wedding. They have a very beautiful love story and up until today ( 6 yrs after her fiance's death) you can still feel how much she loves him. I hope she'll be able to watch this and be inspired by Janica's journey.
May all the woman who experienced this kind of pain finds healing ❤
I wanna read it too 🥺
Do you still know where I can find it?
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“Maraming nagtataka na bat ang tagal kong maging okay”
As I’m watching this while I’m also healing, not bc I’ve lost someone, just plainly bc of myself, I didn’t even wonder. Whatever is the reason ur healing, Healing doesn’t have a due date, it is bout acknowledging, accepting, walking even tho there will be times u still don’t understand, not giving up, and moving on, it may take just months or even many years, but all in all, it is finding yourself again, putting those pieces back or recreate new pieces to be whole again. One may not see it cause it’s from within, but it’s tougher than u may feel. Everyday, ul be hoping for that someday, someday that ul wake up and everything’s in place again.
The saddest thing of this is that she saw him die
How did he die?
He drowned
ANG SAKIT. PERO ANG SARAP DIN SA FEELING THAT ATE NAM FINALLY MOVED ON. SHE’S HAPPY. I KNOW KUYA FRANCO IS GENUINELY HAPPY FOR YOU. THANK U FOR BEING STRONG.. I LOVE U ATE 🤍
Aww, agree bes 😭
@@roselleagaton8055 hoy hala naman nakita mo HAHAHHA pro sa true lang, sakit gdya gyapon ahay
Ngayon, makaka move on narin ako sa story niyo, knowing that you're already happy. Thank you Ate Nam. You are an inspiration, you are so brave and you deserve all the love and happiness in this world. I'm rooting for you, God bless!🌊
And kay kuya Franco, you will remain in our hearts and you will never be forgotten. We love you. 🤍
3 years nadin pala ang nakakalipas, sobrang sinusubaybayan ko lagi ang mga post at my day mo nung mawala si franco, sya lang ang laging laman ng bawat mong post. Alam namin kung gaano nyo kamahal ang isat isa, minsan mapapasabi ka nalang ng parang ang unfair ng mundo. kung kelan masaya kana nakita mo na ung taong makakasama mo habang buhay, kung kelan nararanasan mo ng maging masaya sa piling ng mahal mo, saka pa sya mawawala at babawiin sayo 😢
Sobrang strong mo ate Nam. Siguradong anjan lang si Franco palagi kang Binabantayn.
Saw Nam's post on IG and I went straight here. Even though the video hasn't started yet, tears fell from my eyes. I am a silent fan of Nam and Franco since then. It hurts so much. 💔
Me tooo. I cried everynight for a month when franco died.
It really hurts when someone came to your life and expected to be with forever but one day it's gone, the most hard part is how to be live without pain inside and think of them happy and peaceful while you're in pain and missed. Hopefully everyone will be have a happy ending 🙏❤️
i'm sure Franco is so proud and happy that you’re living your life happily. 💖
"I've always thought that i'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me" 😢I'm so happy that you find your happiness again ate nam!! You deserve it💓
"I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me and I'm thankful for that."
grabe kahit masakit sa part ni Nam, the pain taught her to be grateful for Franco's time and existence na magkasama sila and that's what makes this line beautiful ❤️
It was never about our ending, it’s about the journey.
That is a beautiful way to look at something you had and treasured in your life. Things will come and go and some will feel awful however, looking at how the experiences they had together instead of the tragic ending, shines the light more on their love than the end. Which is better and a much more celebration of their happiness and who they were to each other. She should keep living and this is the way to do it.
I can’t even imagine myself being in the same situation that you went through. I’m so proud of how brave u are, u deserve all the happiness in the world and I’m pretty sure u will have it for u have ur angel above rooting for u 🤗🤍
May all the woman who experienced this kind of ordeal finds their healing ❤
Your presence taught me how to be strong .. but your absence taught me how to be stronger-Nam 🙌🏻🤍
When people ask "kanino Ka unang nag Ka gusto?"may answer never change"Kay hashtag Franco"even though she have his girl in her life they make me smile..I always watch Franco video and nam sweet moments with franco.when I knew that nam is in relationship with someone I'm happy because after a decade her sweet smile back again..I know Franco is happy..and I know what ever happen in nam future she always remember mico..
Our butterfly 🦋🦋🦋🦋
I didn't lose someone because of death. But the pain is the same. Still thankful he is still alive and living the rest of his life with someone else. And I am thankful, that we happened even if it was a short amount of time. I know you wanted me to be happy too. I will. Not now but someday. Be happy, baka sa kabilang buhay, ako na ung pipiliin mo :)
I cried so hard when my ex cheated and left me.. cried and felt depressed for someone who wasn't even worthy.. just by imaging how much painful it was to loss someone who loved us so much.. Can't control my tears😭😭😭😭
same
Same😭
Swerte ni Franco... She's one of a kind woman. Hoping to find a woman like hers someday.
I agree, parehong swerte sa isa't isa.
😊
nope, they're both lucky to have each other.
We all felt the pain in this video yet we also felt the great love here. It's been years but their love will always remain. We know that our angel Franco sent someone to let Ate Nam be free and be happy because that's how he loved and continue to love. Ate Nam, we are always here for you kahit saan and kahit kailan.
I lost the man I loved 9 years ago and the pain still haunts me. I know kung gaano kasakit manatili sa alaalang kailanman ay hindi na mauulit pa pero heto pa rin tayo, nabubuhay, lumalaban, kinakaya. God bless you, Nam.
Reading you're comment, I felt at ease knowing I'm not the only one and that my feelings is valid. Lost him 9 years ago and here I am at 12:00 am crying while watching this video... ;)
I really miss Franco Miguel. Atleast, ate Nam, you're lucky to experience "The One That God Arranged" relationship kahit saglit. Sana all po. Happy for you!
Ang ganda. Letting go does not always mean forgetting. It can also mean allowing ourselves to move forward whilst bringing with us great memories and lessons we've learned from the past. That's the beautiful thing about letting our wounds heal through time and prayers.
"your presence made me strong but your absence made me stronger"
stay strong ms. nam, God will always be there for you❤
This video is not just reflection Kuya Franco,but also for your loved ones that departed you. Let’s be thankful that they made memories and brought life to this cruel world. Live In Peace,Kuya Franco!
It is true that you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you. My brother died 7 years ago but the pain is still there. I was also thinking na sana bumalik pa siya kahit alam kong imposible mangyari. Sometimes the only thing you need is to move forward and keep on praying because God has a purpose why we experience pain. God has a plan for all of us.
Stay strong Nam, glad that you’re okay now.
crying my heart out watching this.. a love that is pure and geniune. cant imagine the pain you’ve been through and I honestly admired how you braved this journey of losing your first love.. been watching vids and reading your posts in IG since that sad day happened to franco.. you deserve all the love, nam!
I'm so proud of her. You deserve to be happy, and we all know its what Franco wants too. Keep going, Nam!
It's really hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember. In time, with a peace of mind and a joyful heart, everything will be alright.
Dear Miss Janica
I don't know how many times I've watched this video, and it never failed to make me cry. I'm happy to know that you're over the moon. I salute you for not just being the woman you are today, but for the woman that you are in the process of becoming. You're one of the strongest women I'll know for the rest of my life.
Love, Dian🤍
Nakakaiyak. Huhu. Thank you, Lord binigyan mo na si Nam ng Lorenz. Sobrang swerte ni Franco, na ikaw ang mahal niya hanggang sa huling hininga niya at nandiyan ka pa rin.
"I've always thought I'd be spending the rest of my life with you. But you spent the rest of your life with me and I'm thankful for that.
Im thankful that I was the last person you loved--" 😭
I am again watching this and crying. I'm happy that u r happy Nam.
This is the most heartfelt video I saw on RUclips today.Honestly,I'm breaking while watching this.
This is making me cry so bad 😭❤️ I wish him happiness in his next life. May he rest in peace 😭
And you are very strong and so pure. Be happy ❤️
i knew how hurt it is.. cz i have been passed it too.. dear janica, stay strong. he will never want to see your tears.. be happy coz you're lucky to have him in his last breath .
My heart 💔 I'm Crying! 😭😭😭
"How can I continue life when half of me left with you"
“ I’ve always thought that i’d be spending the rest of my life with you. But you spend the rest of your life with me, and i am thankful for that. Im thankful that I was the last person you loved."
"Your presence made me strong, but your absence made me stronger."
"My love for you was the only thing that kept me going." 😭💔😌
still can't move on but I'm happy and proud of you Nam! I know Franco and his fam too ❤️❤️❤️
#OneGreatLove
Im a fan of franco. His smile makes you feel like everythings gonna be okay. It comforts you somehow. A pure feeling.
Yes, I didn't know about them but after watching her videos and stalking Nam on social media, I got the idea about Franco and how he truly was. His smile filled with love, his eyes full of hopes and his soul shines! He was and is one in a billion.
Yes I feel devastated for his loss but God too needs the best souls around him and he was one of them! He's so happy and proud of you Nam. I wish you all the happiness.
I've shed tears on ate Nam's ig captions about kuya Franco in heaven back then, and even until now, as in mafe-feel yung love niya for him. We love you ate for being brave as always. Kuya Franco surely is so proud from heaven.
Do not be guilty for being happy again because you really deserve it. I know Franco would understand and for sure he wants you to be happy as well. Being with someone else now doesn't mean you'll forget everything about Franco, it is part of life and part of your healing. Thank you as well for your courage to continue living and for being strong despite everything. God sees everything, and Franco sees everything. Your guardian angel Franco will always be with you and with a smile on his face he will be at peace wherever he is right now because you are now also at peace.
Be happy, Nam. That's what Franco wants. 🌹
Awww this is so beautiful! Franco loved you so much. He took that with him. I’m sure he is always watching over you. He will always be with you
I was so sad when I heard the news about franco. Hindi ko sya kilala pero sobrang nanghinayang ako noon hanggang ngayon at naapektuhan sa nangyare. Lalo na sa relationship nila. How janica nam handle the situation and never syang nag give up sa relationship nila after what happened. I can feel her love and its genuine. I know it was hard for her but she got it. Such a great and strong lady. Before, hindi ko makita si Ms. nam na magmamahal pa ng iba kasi she was deeply inlove with Franco. We will always here to support you Ms. Nam. We love you always💕
I know their story, it is very sad and painful. it is very difficult to forget someone who loves each other. Even though they are not together, I hope everyone deserves to be happy
What really happened to Franco.?
U r amazing. Franco must be very proud of u. God bless u. Love from Indonesia
To those people who are in pain right now should watch this. Life is so precious🥰