Thanks for sharing. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you had legitimate reasons why did what you did. Sorry about the breakup. I’m glad he encouraged you to start a RUclips channel because we appreciate your videos. Keep your head up.
I’m so sorry to hear about your break up. But this is to further your growth and progression. This time you now have back to get back to YOU, while God prepares you for your blessings and for the ONE who’s meant to be in your life. Take all the time you need to put you first sis!! Good things are coming!! God Bless you! Happy Holidays!!! ✨🙏🏾🥰🎄🎁☃️❄️❤️✨
@@lifewithIndiaR You’re so welcome. I’m glad that I was able to share some sincere words of encouragement and support!! And I absolutely love your channel. Keep going! 🙏🏾🌸🫶🏾🩷✨
I’m going through a breakup too. I see you! It’s a process. I’m a lot younger than you but thank you for sharing. My breakup was also with military man and I know exactly what you’re talking about. It did feel like eggshells even tho he was very wise and kind. Was always willing to take care of me but Similar to yours soemthing just felt off. I don’t have an issue with military either but I realized too maybe it’s just not for me right now…
@@BriW3 I’m so sorry for you too. It is definitely a process. Feeling this way 2 yrs into the relationship of dating, I can only imagine what marriage for a lifetime would be like. I didn’t want that for myself and kudos for you not wanting it for yourself. Blessings and good luck to you!! 🫶🏽
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. It sounds like you bent and contorted yourself to fit into this relationship so maybe this was for the best. Putting other people's feelings before your own is not good for your health. Suppressing your emotions and holding on to stress can cause health issues. It is ok to be sad. Can I suggest something? Take this time to work on you. Grow your RUclips, focus on your health and wellness and travel. PS- 50 where???? The skin is skinning girl! I'm subscribed!
I commend you for putting yourself first. Also, good for you for making the mature decision to call it quits before you were in deeper. While I know it was hard, you probably save yourself from a relationship that would have ended up extremely dysfunctional down the line. Sidenote: The chewing of gum didn't bother me.
@@Vil-qp6xl Thank you for this comment! I won’t lie in the beginning I doubted myself but knew I had to be real with myself or I would regret it! I appreciate you! I’m 😂 about the gum. I’m so glad you weren’t bothered by it. 💚
I've been a silent watcher since you started your channel. I am sorry that you are sad and for your break up. Your light is shining brightly. Trust God through this all. I believe He will send you someone that falls in love with that sweet spirit of yours and marry you when you least expect. ❤ from, your pink sister
@@Grace121-s6k Awww thank you so much for the kind words. It was a rough few months for me but I’m in such a good place. I receive all of this amazing word!! I appreciate you so much for this comment. God Bless you💚
I know this pain -stress far too well,yet I’ve learned that tomorrow will be a better day…Let me say this,we’re all set in our ways,just love even if nothing else changes, within a person,like we would love ourselves past no changes . Words of actress Viola Davis.
I think you said something about wanting to be different in this relationship than you’d been in the past because you really wanted it to work out. I submit to you that when you find yourself in that place (and you will again) that is Gods way of showing you where you need to do work. Lean into doing the work, don’t remix it into “having to walk on egg shells”. A good relationship will challenge you in the areas of your life that need improvement. When you see it again you hv a choice to own your own “mess” or deflect it. Just know that deflecting it will postpone your growth. Peace to you my sister. 😊
Liberate yourself from ill fitted relationships my Sista! Onward and upward❤ I am proud of you!
Thank you Sis! Onward and upward ❤
Thanks for sharing. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you had legitimate reasons why did what you did. Sorry about the breakup. I’m glad he encouraged you to start a RUclips channel because we appreciate your videos. Keep your head up.
Thank you so much! I'm grateful he encouraged me and I'm thankful for people like you who are so encouraging! I appreciate you!
I’m so sorry to hear about your break up. But this is to further your growth and progression. This time you now have back to get back to YOU, while God prepares you for your blessings and for the ONE who’s meant to be in your life. Take all the time you need to put you first sis!! Good things are coming!! God Bless you! Happy Holidays!!! ✨🙏🏾🥰🎄🎁☃️❄️❤️✨
@@msspirituallibra444 Amen Sis! I receive this!! 💚
@ You’re going to be better than ever sis. 🙏🏾🌸🩷✨
@@msspirituallibra444 Thank you for the encouragement. I need it!
@@lifewithIndiaR You’re so welcome. I’m glad that I was able to share some sincere words of encouragement and support!! And I absolutely love your channel. Keep going! 🙏🏾🌸🫶🏾🩷✨
Blessings to you... I too just went through a break up a few weeks ago.... Praying for your peace & happiness....
@@tashaingram7160 Thank you so much! Praying for you as well 💚
I’m going through a breakup too. I see you! It’s a process. I’m a lot younger than you but thank you for sharing. My breakup was also with military man and I know exactly what you’re talking about. It did feel like eggshells even tho he was very wise and kind. Was always willing to take care of me but Similar to yours soemthing just felt off. I don’t have an issue with military either but I realized too maybe it’s just not for me right now…
@@BriW3 I’m so sorry for you too. It is definitely a process. Feeling this way 2 yrs into the relationship of dating, I can only imagine what marriage for a lifetime would be like. I didn’t want that for myself and kudos for you not wanting it for yourself. Blessings and good luck to you!! 🫶🏽
@ I feel everything you’re saying too, we got this though , it’s tough but we will get through it 🙌🏾
Awwwww cuzzin
I know right. 😞
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. It sounds like you bent and contorted yourself to fit into this relationship so maybe this was for the best. Putting other people's feelings before your own is not good for your health. Suppressing your emotions and holding on to stress can cause health issues. It is ok to be sad. Can I suggest something? Take this time to work on you. Grow your RUclips, focus on your health and wellness and travel. PS- 50 where???? The skin is skinning girl! I'm subscribed!
@@IAMCOACHMEANREEN ☺️Thank you for the advice and the compliment 🫶🏽. Sis I’m going to take your advice and do just that! 💚
I'm so sorry for your break up! 😔
Thank you 💚
I commend you for putting yourself first. Also, good for you for making the mature decision to call it quits before you were in deeper. While I know it was hard, you probably save yourself from a relationship that would have ended up extremely dysfunctional down the line. Sidenote: The chewing of gum didn't bother me.
@@Vil-qp6xl Thank you for this comment! I won’t lie in the beginning I doubted myself but knew I had to be real with myself or I would regret it! I appreciate you! I’m 😂 about the gum. I’m so glad you weren’t bothered by it. 💚
Hey my social butterfly, you did the right thing. If you can’t be yourself you will never be happy.
Thanks D! You know I love you girl !!
I've been a silent watcher since you started your channel.
I am sorry that you are sad and for your break up.
Your light is shining brightly. Trust God through this all.
I believe He will send you someone that falls in love with that sweet spirit of yours and marry you when you least expect.
❤ from,
your pink sister
@@Grace121-s6k Awww thank you so much for the kind words. It was a rough few months for me but I’m in such a good place. I receive all of this amazing word!! I appreciate you so much for this comment. God Bless you💚
Omg. I can relate to all of this 😔
@@chocolatethunda67 Blessings to you 💚
I know this pain -stress far too well,yet I’ve learned that tomorrow will be a better day…Let me say this,we’re all set in our ways,just love even if nothing else changes, within a person,like we would love ourselves past no changes . Words of actress Viola Davis.
I love this and you are right! Thank you for the encouraging words💚
I am so sorry!
@@darmor11 Thank you 💚
😢😢😢 Sis I am sooo sorry!
@@BeingChloeBarksdale Thanks sis 🤗
I think you said something about wanting to be different in this relationship than you’d been in the past because you really wanted it to work out. I submit to you that when you find yourself in that place (and you will again) that is Gods way of showing you where you need to do work. Lean into doing the work, don’t remix it into “having to walk on egg shells”. A good relationship will challenge you in the areas of your life that need improvement. When you see it again you hv a choice to own your own “mess” or deflect it. Just know that deflecting it will postpone your growth. Peace to you my sister. 😊
@@marvinnichols9465 Thank you so much for this!! You really made an excellent point. I appreciate you ☺️
Hello❤
@@evelynjones3263 Hi! 💚
Don’t chew gum while on camera. It detracts from the message and lowers the quality of the production.
@@venusianlight7785 I apologize. I realized it after I was watching and editing it! Please pardon my manners and thank you for the feedback! 💚
@@lifewithIndiaR You are so lovely, sweet, kind, and honest. 🌺Those are the only things I noticed. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. 🌺
@@cherylraphael5745 Thank you so much for the kind words! This comment makes me feel better about the video and previous comment. 🫶🏽💚
We loved each other, but we couldn't get along, what kind of ish is that , black women, we don't want these foolish talks in 2025.Period.
@@KwabenaX Period!!
sounds like you want a "clone" ???? God's continued best to you always !
@@blutru1328 of myself?? Nawww I’m good 😂. Thank you and the same to you!