I love them. I love how connected they are, the second she got emotional so did Benji. Martha if you’re reading this I hope you find that feeling of pure happiness again ❤️
I love that I hardly know any of the people on these clips..hardly anything about them, but I can feel so connected to every piece. The love. Such a human experience. I want to do this with my children.
She's a tortured artist. Be still my beating heart. As an artist myself, I felt so at home in her anxiety. Jerry Seinfeld once said anything we decide to do in life involves some element of torture. The trick is to do the thing worth torturing yourself over. I hope this play is that for you Martha. Peace & Blessings
What a well raised young man, his mum should be proud. Watching their conversation is so insightful. Thank The Skin Deep team you for creating the space for them and us to go deeper 🤗
I love their relationship. He's kind, strong, genuine, sensitive, has depth. She cares so much but let's him be an adult. If more guys had quality relationships with their moms (and dad's) so many issues would be solved. I wish you both happiness and fulfillment. Something my mom always says about school is, time goes by whether you pursue it or not. She became a teacher in her late 30's. I can relate about perfectionism. The book Codependent No More and the daily companion book, The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie are really helpful. She popularized the term "codependency." Great for both for those hard on themselves and those in recovery or with addiction issues. It's sometimes hard to care a lot.
I love how connected they are. When martha started talking about how she’s not happy with where she is right now and benji instantly felt some kind of connection. I think that was amazing and so pure. I love this video
I got sober a year and a half ago and my mom supported me through it after she went through years of abuse from me and from my actions...this episode really hits home for me...❤
Dear Martha and Benji, The way you two speak to one another is truly beautiful. You can just tell that there's so much love and care behind each word that both of you say. How lucky you are to have each other to lean on in this world, it's more than most have. And that's a blessing ♥ Sincerely, Tiffany
The moment when he asked why she didn't want to come and she got quiet, the fact that he started getting teary-eyed because he knew she was struggling? Powerful.
It makes me so happy when I see individuals who have previously been on {THE AND} return! It’s so inspiring and encouraging to see growth in someone else and you can definitely see it in their relationship. Watching these videos reminds me of the beauty that lies in vulnerability ❤️
I've said it before and I'll say it again -The And is easily some of the best content on the Internet. I would have loved to have heard her respond to where she thought he would be in 10 years.
Oh my gosh, i love these two so so much! Their smiles and hearts seem so genuine. I wish so much happiness for them both. They both seem like such wonderful people. I love how sweet the mother is. Their eyes tell you so much about them too. I love, love, love them!
Omg.. that last question was such a clincherr..!!! I think ita very cute and empathetic how he wants his mom to be happy.. and put his though out that he maybe would like his mom to be engaged and happy.. man.. the feels... the FEELLSSS..!!!! 😭😭❤
You know Martha went to cut him off a few times, and not for any reason of malice, I think her brain works that quickly to find meaning. I do the same.. My brain is like having three browsers and five pages open sometimes. But I was reflective of his response and really astute observation actually and my thought... You know Mum... Your boy is growing in his Wisdom, he is going from Man boy to soon be man and she should acknowledge that he might just have better advice for her than she does for herself at times... Stop ,listen, breath it in, release . Because you did a really good job... It's another stage of growth for both of them... Beautiful bond, thanks for sharing.
This is such a good one if you watched their earlier video. Both of them are very expressive in their face. I thought initially watching, oh Martha looks so much happier this time, she seems more relaxed and the sadness isn’t so clear in her eyes. But then she said she wasn’t happy with her work and not great at the moment... that was surprising. The bond though and the respect between them, even more clear here and it’s very touching to see. Maybe the worry she was having for her son last time is why she looked sadder? He seems better here.
Life just like a dance is about being in the moment . Believe in your self and stretch the boundaries of your personality . Your both fantastic people .
Omg, this is so intriguing. They look so much alike yet they sound so different and it's giving off a vibe almost as if they are from different places and time.
This is such a beautiful mother and son bond here...Martha sending love and light to you...what a great young man you have raised..This hard time will pass, keep counting your blessings and know that the only way is through.
I hope I'm gonna have these kinda a relationship with my kids in terms of being so open and honest and to be able to truly hear each other with such focus as if the world has stopped-its just you and me, let's just talk.
I relate so much to them. Maybe it’s because I am also British American with an American mom, the feelings they both have about each other’s lives, the closeness of the relationship and even their mannerisms, the fact she is such a kind and warm soul, remind me so much of me and my mom. I can see that like us Benji and Martha are best friends in a way, because like us, they only had each other for a long time. My mom also always tried to push me to take education more seriously, thankfully I have forged my own path successfully, but like I always said to her, it just took an education of a different sort, by doing. She always has faith in me though, even when I don’t have a clue what I’m doing. I would love to meet them
You've got all the face feature from your mom and you look like twins. I love to watch this kind of video, it's very heart warming and while listening to our parents what are the things that we want to know about them and how much they love us ever since they bring us here on earth.
i didn't realize until you said it but i have a different accent than my sibling. it's kind of weird, but it just is and i have never noticed it until i read this.
Dezeri, this is actually really common. I work at a doctor's office and I have patients that come in with parents that ..one may sound "American" and the other parent may have an accent. ..the kids were raised in another country with the accent speaking parent..or the accent speaking parent was the stay at home parent..
Omg, Martha reminds me of my youth group leader from Jr High, she has a similar demeanor. She seems super sweet and is naturally beautiful. She seems like someone who could be out in nature, with her hands in clay and she would be at peace. Apparently I’ve learned all that I’ve needed to in this short video 🤦🏾♀️😅
i really love this i feel like in my country this will be pretty cool we need to learn how to be more open it will actually better our relationships and the world will become a pretty cool place.I WILL LIKE TO DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS FOR MY PEOPLE
They do look alike
elenaxo yeah
elenaxo A LOOOOT😲
They look soooo much alike, that's so adorable.
You can tell he loves his mom so much. SO SO much.
I love them. I love how connected they are, the second she got emotional so did Benji. Martha if you’re reading this I hope you find that feeling of pure happiness again ❤️
I love her smiling eyes, and their openness with each other.
Emily yes 💖
I love that I hardly know any of the people on these clips..hardly anything about them, but I can feel so connected to every piece. The love. Such a human experience. I want to do this with my children.
She's a tortured artist. Be still my beating heart. As an artist myself, I felt so at home in her anxiety. Jerry Seinfeld once said anything we decide to do in life involves some element of torture. The trick is to do the thing worth torturing yourself over. I hope this play is that for you Martha. Peace & Blessings
Love that quote, never heard it before, thank you for sharing. Very true.
I don't know. I feel like life doesn't have to be torture if you are not overconsumed with your own feelings. And you don't have to be.
He is loookinn hoottt
My Keys no lol.
My Keys ~ That’s the thing that you take away from this video, is that he’s hot?
Did you see the other video of them before he cut his hair?
KHANKI
was gunna say he looks russian
He’s beautifully articulate, there’s a lot of depth there
What a well raised young man, his mum should be proud. Watching their conversation is so insightful. Thank The Skin Deep team you for creating the space for them and us to go deeper 🤗
I love their relationship. He's kind, strong, genuine, sensitive, has depth. She cares so much but let's him be an adult. If more guys had quality relationships with their moms (and dad's) so many issues would be solved. I wish you both happiness and fulfillment. Something my mom always says about school is, time goes by whether you pursue it or not. She became a teacher in her late 30's. I can relate about perfectionism. The book Codependent No More and the daily companion book, The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie are really helpful. She popularized the term "codependency." Great for both for those hard on themselves and those in recovery or with addiction issues. It's sometimes hard to care a lot.
Mom is so beautiful!😍
MajesticMerisa isn't she???
I love how connected they are. When martha started talking about how she’s not happy with where she is right now and benji instantly felt some kind of connection. I think that was amazing and so pure. I love this video
I got sober a year and a half ago and my mom supported me through it after she went through years of abuse from me and from my actions...this episode really hits home for me...❤
Their eyes are so pure.
Please please please bring them back. They are my favorite ever :’( I seriously love them so much!!!! I wanna keep seeing how they’ve grown.
Dear Martha and Benji,
The way you two speak to one another is truly beautiful. You can just tell that there's so much love and care behind each word that both of you say. How lucky you are to have each other to lean on in this world, it's more than most have. And that's a blessing ♥
Sincerely,
Tiffany
The moment when he asked why she didn't want to come and she got quiet, the fact that he started getting teary-eyed because he knew she was struggling? Powerful.
It makes me so happy when I see individuals who have previously been on {THE AND} return! It’s so inspiring and encouraging to see growth in someone else and you can definitely see it in their relationship. Watching these videos reminds me of the beauty that lies in vulnerability ❤️
I've said it before and I'll say it again -The And is easily some of the best content on the Internet. I would have loved to have heard her respond to where she thought he would be in 10 years.
Her sadness consumes me... .... hugs
They are so fortunate to have one another. They have been deeply connected in past lives, most assurredly!
The resemblance is uncanny between them. He's quite handsome & she's beautiful
Boys do look like their mom's and this right here is definite proof. Lol. He's such a handsome chap, model material.
Diedrie Gibbs you’re right and my son looks exactly like me
Oh my gosh, i love these two so so much! Their smiles and hearts seem so genuine. I wish so much happiness for them both. They both seem like such wonderful people. I love how sweet the mother is. Their eyes tell you so much about them too. I love, love, love them!
I was literally watching your old video last night! Weird. So glad to get an update on these two, I think about their conversation a lot.
Omg.. that last question was such a clincherr..!!! I think ita very cute and empathetic how he wants his mom to be happy.. and put his though out that he maybe would like his mom to be engaged and happy.. man.. the feels... the FEELLSSS..!!!! 😭😭❤
it's hard to see ur mum cry, love that they have such a loving mama and son relationship x
6:34 as soon as his mum got emotional so did he,he loves her so much it’s sonsweet
I like the question: "what it's like the first time we met?" so redundant yet so meaningful.
You know Martha went to cut him off a few times, and not for any reason of malice, I think her brain works that quickly to find meaning. I do the same.. My brain is like having three browsers and five pages open sometimes. But I was reflective of his response and really astute observation actually and my thought... You know Mum... Your boy is growing in his Wisdom, he is going from Man boy to soon be man and she should acknowledge that he might just have better advice for her than she does for herself at times... Stop ,listen, breath it in, release . Because you did a really good job... It's another stage of growth for both of them... Beautiful bond, thanks for sharing.
They’re one of my favourites. I go back to their first video all the time.
This is such a good one if you watched their earlier video. Both of them are very expressive in their face. I thought initially watching, oh Martha looks so much happier this time, she seems more relaxed and the sadness isn’t so clear in her eyes. But then she said she wasn’t happy with her work and not great at the moment... that was surprising. The bond though and the respect between them, even more clear here and it’s very touching to see. Maybe the worry she was having for her son last time is why she looked sadder? He seems better here.
They look so similar ...So cute
Life just like a dance is about being in the moment .
Believe in your self and stretch the boundaries of your personality . Your both fantastic people .
Aww this was cute and beautiful 🙂
Benji looks healthier here! I hope he's happy.
her smile is breathtaking
I loved this, so stimulating and pure💛 Bring them back💓
Omg, this is so intriguing. They look so much alike yet they sound so different and it's giving off a vibe almost as if they are from different places and time.
This is such a beautiful mother and son bond here...Martha sending love and light to you...what a great young man you have raised..This hard time will pass, keep counting your blessings and know that the only way is through.
I come back and watch this video so much...I love them...the world deserves another Martha and Benji video
He is bold version of his mother .
I hope I'm gonna have these kinda a relationship with my kids in terms of being so open and honest and to be able to truly hear each other with such focus as if the world has stopped-its just you and me, let's just talk.
I relate so much to them. Maybe it’s because I am also British American with an American mom, the feelings they both have about each other’s lives, the closeness of the relationship and even their mannerisms, the fact she is such a kind and warm soul, remind me so much of me and my mom. I can see that like us Benji and Martha are best friends in a way, because like us, they only had each other for a long time. My mom also always tried to push me to take education more seriously, thankfully I have forged my own path successfully, but like I always said to her, it just took an education of a different sort, by doing. She always has faith in me though, even when I don’t have a clue what I’m doing. I would love to meet them
omg more of parent-child ones please! this was sooo beautiful!!
You've got all the face feature from your mom and you look like twins.
I love to watch this kind of video, it's very heart warming and while listening to our parents what are the things that we want to know about them and how much they love us ever since they bring us here on earth.
i love how when he smiles you can see all the way to his back teeth
Omg I’ve been so in love with Benji since the first video he and his mom did :’) I am so so so happy right now!!
Their smiles are sooo beautiful!
They are both so beautiful. Inside and out... ❤
You guys were wonderful. I loved your honesty.
Believe it or not, you can have a different accent from one of your parents, depending on where you were born...commom sense
What one person finds common, another thinks is uncommon....
i didn't realize until you said it but i have a different accent than my sibling. it's kind of weird, but it just is and i have never noticed it until i read this.
Please do another The And!! I truly enjoy seeing their growth
No doubt about it, they definitely look a lot alike. You can see the love between them, they look like they have a great relationship.
The most beautiful mother, son pair I've seen!
The loving bound behide them 😭 ugh beautiful!
How come be sounds British and his mom sounds American?
Dezeri Smith because he wasn't born in america, perhaps?
This is their second video together. In the first it is explained
@@TheWinstonhjr, oh, I just watched the other one and didn't catch the explanation. D:
Dezeri, this is actually really common. I work at a doctor's office and I have patients that come in with parents that ..one may sound "American" and the other parent may have an accent. ..the kids were raised in another country with the accent speaking parent..or the accent speaking parent was the stay at home parent..
He has a posh accent not all British are posh js
They are both looking adorable & got the best sense of humor ☺️😘
Omg, Martha reminds me of my youth group leader from Jr High, she has a similar demeanor. She seems super sweet and is naturally beautiful. She seems like someone who could be out in nature, with her hands in clay and she would be at peace. Apparently I’ve learned all that I’ve needed to in this short video 🤦🏾♀️😅
Ahhhh, so good to see them again!!! 😊
Wow he is sooooo attractive and his mom is darling!
They have soulmate kind of relationship and I love that so much
So eloquent and heartfelt. I wanted to be a friend of theirs...
Love them, beautiful relationship..he’s matured alot since the last time they did this
They are both so beautiful and they look so much alike
Twins!!
They have the kindest eyes
Hi I’m here again to beg for more Benji and Martha THANKS lol
hey skindeep hook a girl up with a date because i think i want to marry him
so happy they're back!! martha is so beautiful :)
She has the most beautiful smile.....
His smile and teeth are so beautiful 😍
They both have the most beautiful smile 😊
They are gorgeous!! 😍🤗
Happy mothers day to her and to every great mother in this planet. I really hope she finds a partner; as he wished, as she would make a great wife.
Dream guy! Omg.
Oooh. She's a playwright?
i really love this i feel like in my country this will be pretty cool we need to learn how to be more open it will actually better our relationships and the world will become a pretty cool place.I WILL LIKE TO DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS FOR MY PEOPLE
I know it's off topic but that lady is beautiful
I think she has that Julianne Moore/Laura Linney kind of beauty, not saying she looks like them, but just timeless.
She did so well
aw i love them, they’re my favs ❤️
They're practically twins!
When are they coming back! I love watching them!!
Beautiful.
They r both beautiful
Benji is a fine young man
💞 Parenthood is beautiful
He looks like he's mom,Benji it's never too late to get that degree
Gemini it's what I'm seeing and watching 👀🔥
Love them
They are both so beautiful wooow I mean in every way❤️
beautiful words
He reminds me of handsome Squidward... anyone else?
My feelings are healed 👀
They’re identical
They are identical
Wow they really do look alike my son is my clone too as his mother
This is so me and my son