@@chi_town83fool they come together nice. Joe talks as if we are on Twitter and he doesn’t want up roar. Sounded like some simping going on. I don’t believe he believes what he says. Topic of women comes up his opinion doesn’t seem like his opinion. You can be truthfully while at the same time not disrespectful.
@@F30Gary Fr they say it time and time again on like every pod but they intertwine truth with pod takes so it’s stimulating conversation. This would be boring as fuck if they just go topic to topic on it agreeing
@@deedee-ew6so I hope not but I'd understand. I actually thought Ice would be the first to go because of Joe and Ish's history but I'm sure Joe felt the same way about Mal so who knows?
I love you guys so much, I literally laugh the entire time I listen so thanks for being so great. I have a small request. can you guys add a lil pop up window with the visuals from time to time. I listen/watch while I work and I had to pause and google the church robbery.
“y’all Niggas can’t break up like me” is hilarious. Feels like Joe back in his bag. I was reluctant first but I’m rocking with the new JBP. They’ve caught a vibe.
Joe shocked me and dropped some big wisdom about cheating (1:31:11) If you cheat you might love her but not the way she expects to be loved in terms of loyalty💯That went over Ice and Ish heads (pause) lol
The fact that these guys are cool and bring their own identities and gigs makes this show top notch! Joe definitely has leveled up since the “breakup” but knows when to throw the complementary jab from time to time.
I got injured, lost my job, had to leave my home, had to pause the Patreon subscription temporarily....havin withdrawls w/o the pod. Missed. I was watchin old shows, watched the QuietRoom interview....which was a great interview. Soooooo happy to see you back
I see the jab Joe had at 1:16:50 and judging by the expression of the room you know that was mad unnecessary from him but then again its Joe Budden so love or hate him. I still listen to both pods regardless
@Yede Beat Productions everybody around that circle agrees mal is a real nigga. May be a boring podder, may be too cool for school, may have weird relationships with women but one thing we all know is mal is 100% authentic
Oh, the whites is going through it over patriarchy. They know not to look at me after how my pops got did. On some I’m pretty sure the paperwork said man-man🙆🏽♂️🍿
Boy this pod hits deep with me cause I just left a niggas podcast that has more people that follow his page but I was the 75%nigga pulling it all together behind the scenes! Today I bought everything I needed to do my own podcast and have more then 10 episodes up. Since I left that other podcast they only done 4 episodes in 3 months. Hard work will get me on top
Joe is wrong to say this sound of R&B isn't working for artist. 6lack, Brent, Bleu, Bryson all sold more music than traditional R&B singers like Lucky Daye, Tank, Jazzmine, HER ect. This sound works. No one is listening to ballads anymore sadly. It's all Drake's fault more than anything.
The main thing Joe is saying is that’s it’s lazy and not well thought out let alone sung well. Most of the artist you mentioned besides Brent, can actually SING and that is a major key. This sound is really for those who can only hit 1-2 specific notes… such as a drake.
I think it's cool to have the new R&B lane but a LOT of people miss the more traditional lane which has people that can sing sing. The new lane is basically getting away from actual singing. I believe valuing vocals will eventually make it's way back into being popular.
@@kingtaylor9362 Bryson, bleu 6lack aren't in the same realm of vocal range as your Tank, Lucky Daye or even Daniel from Dvsn. These are guys who are amazing song writers and can hold a note or 2. These are people who would traditionally be the ghost writers, like Rico Nasty or The Dream. People who have 1 of 2 notes in their pocket but can't really sing-sing. Drake made it possible for them to exist and thrive through song writing and cadence more than vocal range, which is why I say it's his fault they exist
@@Musa-ut6ce but those aren't R&b fans. It's like when a rapper/singer goes pop. They gain a lot of fans that don't traditionally listen to their original genre. Music changes and goes through stages. I think people will eventually start to value vocals again. It will be considered a "new sound" 😂 but it will make it's rounds again.
@@Wizz-fc8cz Dwl. No 🧢, I really do my nigga. And if they did, then sheeeittt, niggas need to turn this into a legit sitcom cause the acting skills r legit 😏
Joe represents these 90’s dudes Mommy knows best. This is where all the begging 90’s R&B comes from. “Women are smarter than men.” Gynocenteic thinking at its worst
I never forget the bar from little brother ft lil wayne breaking my heart song "i aint saying that its right but we often pay the price cause a woman's life, is love.. a man's love, is life." I definitely agree with Joe on that topic, women are the naturally nurture and love. Men are natural protectors. Always exception to the rules.
That’s how it be tho. Had somebody tell me recently how Kobe dropped that eighty piece against a trash squad. And, I’m like did MJ tho? That’s why I just be ignoring these n*ggas at times😌
I think I agree with Joe when it comes to men learning how to love. Firstly, it's obvious that in any type a relationship(work/romantic/friendship) that people need to learn how to deal with each other. Learning how different people react to certain situations is a key component of being an adult. Joe was specifically discussing about how to LOVE your partner. The development of emotional intelligence is highly focused on when people raised their daughters. It doesn't take them any time at all for a woman to see how she needs to love a particular man and adapt. The emotional intelligence of men is almost completely ignored in boys. Most of us don't forced to develop it after through some sh*t as a adult. And unfortunately if usually falls to one of our girlfriends to educate us.
I'mma have to respectfully disagree with the 'Dad can't have love/bond with their child before the baby is born' point. I def did. Not that same as my wife, of course, but I absolutely developed a bond with my son in the belly.
Gentlemen, I was at every appointment, ultrasound. Prepared healthy meal and fostered a peaceful environment. I loved my seed inside the womb. Fell asleep hand on the belly bump.
It’s funny how y’all just think Mal was a somebody before he got on a pod with Joe. Mal is the proverbial “best known from” when his name comes up. Even though he’ll make it seem otherwise.
@@kevinstewart8054 Mal made the pod good ...knock it off please .. It wouldn't have got this far without him And define the word " somebody " ... U dont become friends with the Kardashians being a nobody
@@kevinstewart8054 bruh mal adnitted he wasnt known whehe first came on the scene only in select circles ... but guess what it took it all 3 of them to create the dope and take it to where it is .. wernt just joe ,so knock it off with your bullshit
1:31:30 he' saying that a cheater can have a skewed perception of what love is or they just have a different definition of love (polyamory) while the bf or gf really needs your (monogamous) love or a different type of attention than you can or will provide. Speaking as someone who has cheated, it's true that it doesn't mean I don't love you BUT it does mean I was giving to another (physically and emotionally) what should have been going to her, my main. I thought I was giving her what she needed but I really wasn't. I was just being selfish and justifying my behavior.
One thing I’ve noticed Joe moves the goal post to get his point across and ish does a great job not letting him do it
Ish is the only reason I still watch
@@chi_town83fool they come together nice. Joe talks as if we are on Twitter and he doesn’t want up roar. Sounded like some simping going on. I don’t believe he believes what he says. Topic of women comes up his opinion doesn’t seem like his opinion. You can be truthfully while at the same time not disrespectful.
especiallu the women men mother 1:14:00 shit
@@F30Gary Fr they say it time and time again on like every pod but they intertwine truth with pod takes so it’s stimulating conversation. This would be boring as fuck if they just go topic to topic on it agreeing
@@declanm2783 facts!
Joe fully surprised ish and ice went out behind his back is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He don't want a repeat of Rory and Mal 😂
@@jaykush2938 too late its already a rory and mal situation. Ish is probably will soon be outta here. I believe ice played peacemaker.
@@deedee-ew6so I hope not but I'd understand. I actually thought Ice would be the first to go because of Joe and Ish's history but I'm sure Joe felt the same way about Mal so who knows?
@@deedee-ew6so did something happen? Or are yall reading too much into the “covidcation” thing?
@@Hugo-tf6no they making up shhh!t
I love you guys so much, I literally laugh the entire time I listen so thanks for being so great. I have a small request. can you guys add a lil pop up window with the visuals from time to time. I listen/watch while I work and I had to pause and google the church robbery.
I gotta give it up to these guys. They really have found their rhythm. The pods have been great, congrats guys
Mans and them be getting they sh*ts off to be non-comedians. Ngl😏
Parks really said he stopped liking a whole sub genre of music because of what Joe said about Brent’s album. Ultimate yes man.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fr 😂 he has zero self awareness
@@deeluxe It’s wild lol
Hilarious 😂
LMAO that's insane. Holy..
No pod last week drive me crazy then I realised my life without this pod is not complete.The Joe budden podcast is the best podcast in the universe.
I’m too tall to sleep on the couch tho🤣
Mal in that video made Joe shit on the entire song 😂😂
Yep! 😩💀😭😂
Not Joe taking that shot Mal 😂 1:17:00 lol look at Ish and Ice face tho 😂😂😂
A clown calling someone else a clown.
I appreciate the time stamp. That's awesome 😎
Good look on the time stamp. I listened to the audio first and wanted to see their face responses lol
@@jimjones7954 exactly!
Mal and Joe gotta hit it out lol they talk spicy on each podcast
Mal never talked bad about JOE he clearly SET BOUNDARIES & made it very CLEAR for joe to NEVER call his number or contact hom under no circumstances.
@@deedee-ew6so don’t forget him telling everyone Joe robbed him lol
@@deedee-ew6so mal dissed joe more n more the bigger the platform he was interviewing on was lmaooo
@@RedRanger_ I mean he did lol
@@deedee-ew6so Mal said several times it would’ve been “bad” if they saw each other after their big argument at parks house.
Yooo Ish laughs hysterically and asks Joe “what’s wrong with you??” at least 3 or 4 times every episode 🤣🤣🤣
ON MY MAMA I thought I was the only one who noticed, lmao!
3 or 4?? He do 3 or 4 during ONE topic. he need to dead that ASAP and find another filler.
Not gon lie, I was watching an old episode to help with the withdrawal 😅
You need a life
Ong!!!
Nigga, I was watching JBP funniest momments🤦🏽♂️🤣🤣🤣
@@MeW_37 i still watch the funny moments throughout the weeks hahhha
I was back on episode 500 and shit 😂
Men teach us tolerance 😐 because I've definitely had to learn to tolerate alot of shiiiit dealing with them.
“y’all Niggas can’t break up like me” is hilarious. Feels like Joe back in his bag. I was reluctant first but I’m rocking with the new JBP. They’ve caught a vibe.
When they tryna be mad at all men, and you’re all like ain’t nobody did sh*t to y’all, so mind ya business🙂
Joe shocked me and dropped some big wisdom about cheating (1:31:11) If you cheat you might love her but not the way she expects to be loved in terms of loyalty💯That went over Ice and Ish heads (pause) lol
On some hold on n*gga I ain’t finished. Not your turn right now😏
Man he spoke Facts!
That proves that he was just hating on DVSN just cause Mal was on the video
The fact that these guys are cool and bring their own identities and gigs makes this show top notch! Joe definitely has leveled up since the “breakup” but knows when to throw the complementary jab from time to time.
I got injured, lost my job, had to leave my home, had to pause the Patreon subscription temporarily....havin withdrawls w/o the pod. Missed. I was watchin old shows, watched the QuietRoom interview....which was a great interview. Soooooo happy to see you back
Stop giving this man your hard earn money
Bless you love take care
@@kingsmoke2563 Thank you Sir...I'm tryin
@@rhetoric3701 Ah na...I'm a fan. I love my subscription...just gotta cut it right now
Keep your head 2 the sky ☁️ ⛅
I see the jab Joe had at 1:16:50 and judging by the expression of the room you know that was mad unnecessary from him but then again its Joe Budden so love or hate him. I still listen to both pods regardless
@Yede Beat Productions everybody around that circle agrees mal is a real nigga. May be a boring podder, may be too cool for school, may have weird relationships with women but one thing we all know is mal is 100% authentic
@Yede Beat Productions they won’t be able to recreate that chemistry from 2016-2019
What did men teach women?
Discipline, structure, poise, resilience and much more. We teach a lot.
Oh, the whites is going through it over patriarchy. They know not to look at me after how my pops got did. On some I’m pretty sure the paperwork said man-man🙆🏽♂️🍿
Damn Ice went to The Chris Rock and Kevin Hart, Lloyd Banks show, Da Baby and Chris Brown show. He not playing he outside for real!
THE BEST PODCAST IN THE WORLD! Thank you fellas ✊🏾
Got them heat rockers on deck. Where y’all at?👀
Joe’s recognition and recovery is legendary 😂😂😂😂😂
Almost 3 hour POD after being god for a minute is what we need 🔥
Boy this pod hits deep with me cause I just left a niggas podcast that has more people that follow his page but I was the 75%nigga pulling it all together behind the scenes! Today I bought everything I needed to do my own podcast and have more then 10 episodes up. Since I left that other podcast they only done 4 episodes in 3 months. Hard work will get me on top
Keep working King. Hard work pays off.
I’ll subscribe just to salute the work ethic!
Much success to you
Subbed
Appreciate that! Gonna put in the work to see y’all on top
Mannn WHERE HAVE YALL BEEN???? We should be getting back to back pods for y’all absences.
Joe is wrong to say this sound of R&B isn't working for artist. 6lack, Brent, Bleu, Bryson all sold more music than traditional R&B singers like Lucky Daye, Tank, Jazzmine, HER ect. This sound works. No one is listening to ballads anymore sadly.
It's all Drake's fault more than anything.
The main thing Joe is saying is that’s it’s lazy and not well thought out let alone sung well. Most of the artist you mentioned besides Brent, can actually SING and that is a major key. This sound is really for those who can only hit 1-2 specific notes… such as a drake.
I think it's cool to have the new R&B lane but a LOT of people miss the more traditional lane which has people that can sing sing. The new lane is basically getting away from actual singing. I believe valuing vocals will eventually make it's way back into being popular.
@@kingtaylor9362 Bryson, bleu 6lack aren't in the same realm of vocal range as your Tank, Lucky Daye or even Daniel from Dvsn. These are guys who are amazing song writers and can hold a note or 2. These are people who would traditionally be the ghost writers, like Rico Nasty or The Dream. People who have 1 of 2 notes in their pocket but can't really sing-sing.
Drake made it possible for them to exist and thrive through song writing and cadence more than vocal range, which is why I say it's his fault they exist
@@mickey10jb80 I think the numbers show otherwise. Brent sold 5x what Tank sells in his first week. Lol people don't want to hear ballads sadly.
@@Musa-ut6ce but those aren't R&b fans. It's like when a rapper/singer goes pop. They gain a lot of fans that don't traditionally listen to their original genre. Music changes and goes through stages. I think people will eventually start to value vocals again. It will be considered a "new sound" 😂 but it will make it's rounds again.
Joe has become the biggest PANDERING SAP‼️ 😅 Shout put iSH & iCE 🤝🏾
Ice the type to be like…
Ice: yea I ant cool with Drake
Ice seeing Drake in person: I love you Drake
😂🤣😂
23:49 ... This is why this pod is dope. You can tell Joe genuinely didn't know Ish and Ice linked up 😅🤣... His reaction is hilarious
Feel better, Parks! And that shit u did wit Dave Bars was DOOOOOPE! Also the Preme collab!!
Non gay
That’s fcked up…lol
Lol u really think they ain't talk about that before the pod my nigga 🤣 😂
@@Wizz-fc8cz Dwl. No 🧢, I really do my nigga. And if they did, then sheeeittt, niggas need to turn this into a legit sitcom cause the acting skills r legit 😏
Wtf, ICE feinding for Joe to give negative energy toward Drake is crazy
RIGHTT!!? Like my man the shit was funny and not disrespectful. Ice tryna feel disrespected on Joe’s behalf Lmaooo like ease up nigga damnn
I hate ice. I swear.
@@RoLive95 drake hadda take one of ice baddies bruh 😭😭😭😭😭 it’s a bigger beef than drake vs rory was 😂
Hilarious 🤣 🤣🤣
Cus ICE know if anyone else did that Joe would be on his tough guy shit 😂 but since it’s Drake he wanna cool it down and diffuse it
The Eye BBL followed by Joes mom hating on ice is a wild series of events 😂😂😂😂
When Joe read why they split “screaming and bad behavior” I was like damn that siund like Joe then Ish said “Joe Lopez” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Welcome back Joey “drake voice”
Joe represents these 90’s dudes Mommy knows best. This is where all the begging 90’s R&B comes from. “Women are smarter than men.” Gynocenteic thinking at its worst
Finally someone who’s a critical thinker.
He was mainly raised by a single mother that's why
Ya’ll know joe gone pander to the woman
@@dee2304 yeah, because the white boys and lesbians will if y’all keep being lazy💆🏽♂️
Banks had Yayo come out pressing ice.. watch this 😂😂😂😂 and ice really different said not the normal apple watch
Ice talk with so much conviction and be dead wrong
On no, Joe on his bs today 🤣 Let me roll up real quick 💯
WELCOME BACK! 👏👏👏Looks like everybody's moisturized, alive, and well (and fresh to death... I see the line up Ish!) Good morning, JBP!😎
Moisturized??? 🤣
lol ok ish came and stepped out! lol
Pause
Ish came to Pod today 🔥🔥🔥 the “ how to love ” convo was A1
Yo, I’m so glad ya’ll are back. I thought I was trippin. The week was mad lonely without my guys.
Pause
Here on RUclips slumming... welcome back boys!
Mal caught like 5 subliminal (and 1 none too subtle) body shots bruh😂💪🏾
Time stamp
How you just say that and not say where?😂
Time stamp?
He called him a video vixen. Lol bruh he was shooting.
1:17:00
Mon$ter with that IM CAPPIN song is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯
Ice getting punked by Banks is awesome 🤣
Yo Ish's laugh gives me life man. That laugh is contagious.
Na, Joe & Mal gotta get the one on lmao.
The sneaky not so sneaky disses are crazy at this point 😂
💯 it’s draining…💀
I know I’m nice with music but Listening to Joe Critique music always keeps me humble lmfao
I never forget the bar from little brother ft lil wayne breaking my heart song "i aint saying that its right but we often pay the price cause a woman's life, is love.. a man's love, is life." I definitely agree with Joe on that topic, women are the naturally nurture and love. Men are natural protectors. Always exception to the rules.
They got titanium in the skittles?? Beastmode being Beastmode makes way more sense now 😤
When you're hurt about a breakup, talking about it repeatedly says you're Losing the breakup. Ls abound.
Smh didn’t even peep why it’s called that way, L
On my way to work and I needed this. Appreciate you fam 🙏 💯
Facts getting ready to head to work 😂✊🏽
Right. I think this is probably the closest you’ll get to guys just chopping it up without losing raw integrity😂
Feels like the first time Ish wasn’t in a hoodie.
Last week was miserable at work with the fellas, don’t get sick no more 😂, get better parks and I’m ready for the fuckery
Swear!!!! I was so sad they get me through my 12hr shift lol
Thank You Joe🙏🏽🧡 for your breakdown on cheating and Love. Ish is extremely reactive when it comes to separating the role of a woman and a man.
Joe talking about his narcissism when he prays floored me 🤣🤣🤣
Not gonna lie! I’ve been having withdrawals. Glad y’all back! 👍🏾
“You said that sh*t right? That was you.”😂
Welcome back fellas
Ish and Ice hanging out without Joe is hilarious to me 😂
bro, there are moments in the actual pod where they talk behind joe's head to each other, that tells me everything i need to know lmao
Ish: dude told me
Joe: what dude telll you don't sell right here no more this is my block 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Damn! Finally! Glad to see y’all back.
Them boys are back. 🍿
I'm with ice and my reasoning is I think Social Media made people more toxic because of the things they see they think this shit cool
I look for new episodes every single day you was off so you was missed dearly my guys I love you guys real talk
The wait is BRAZY yo....bless this pod.!
Slight shot at Mal on the dvsn convo huh 😂😂
ok hold on now Ish looking like he done went and slimmed up. Nice to have yall back fellas!
I mad at how Joe and parks skip the point in the dvsn video when he dressed just like Joe in the 2012 love and hip hop with the beard and all 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Joe & Parks basketball takes are wild 😭
That’s how it be tho. Had somebody tell me recently how Kobe dropped that eighty piece against a trash squad. And, I’m like did MJ tho? That’s why I just be ignoring these n*ggas at times😌
I think I agree with Joe when it comes to men learning how to love. Firstly, it's obvious that in any type a relationship(work/romantic/friendship) that people need to learn how to deal with each other. Learning how different people react to certain situations is a key component of being an adult. Joe was specifically discussing about how to LOVE your partner. The development of emotional intelligence is highly focused on when people raised their daughters. It doesn't take them any time at all for a woman to see how she needs to love a particular man and adapt. The emotional intelligence of men is almost completely ignored in boys. Most of us don't forced to develop it after through some sh*t as a adult. And unfortunately if usually falls to one of our girlfriends to educate us.
Absolutely. Both you and Joe snapped
“Pumping ass” 😭☠️💀 Parks almost made me fall off a ladder at work
“What he did, a slant?”
Parks is wild 😭😭😭
Omg I didn’t know what to do with myself without the pod!!!!
I'mma have to respectfully disagree with the 'Dad can't have love/bond with their child before the baby is born' point. I def did. Not that same as my wife, of course, but I absolutely developed a bond with my son in the belly.
Right. We choose the sex. So basically my mini me was like I got this pops don’t even trip. We active✌🏽
Remember when spongebob and Patrick got dipped in caramel… that’s what ish is giving 😭 its cute though ❤️
I love the DVSN breakdown.
Ish face lmao when he found out it was 1000 for the Chris brown meet and greet @22:25
Damn drake got ish tight more than Joe 😂😂😂 he got “it’s on sight” energy with’em
*Ice
@TayTubian true 🤐
Yooooooo! I thought my RUclips wasnt working, about time we get an episode! Welcome back man
I absolutely love this podcast... I look forward to watching yall. Permanent voices played in my house JBP🤗
‘The pod is strong’ -Ish
‘Oh you got some head’ -Joe
LOL
Bruh I checked youtube everyday like I was checking the cabinet for food. Coulda warned us it be 7 days 🤣 Ima watch tomorrow on my long drive!
checking the cabinet for food😂😂😂😂👍🏽
@@MrParis215 lhh I was STARVING
Nah fr that last bit of the pod was lit. Joe Budden is a legend.
RUclips comments and the Reddit is like 2 complete different audiences & views 😂😂😂
Gentlemen, I was at every appointment, ultrasound. Prepared healthy meal and fostered a peaceful environment. I loved my seed inside the womb. Fell asleep hand on the belly bump.
Actually had the nastiest most tasteless breakup but I guess that qualifies as the best in this new generation
Joe’s negativity seeps through more and more every episode. He didn’t win the breakup.
@@jimjones7954 you’re in his comments. He did.
@@beng8262 might be the greatest display of short sighted logic I’ve ever witnessed.
Yo!!!!! This my favorite episode of all time. And I’m 10 mins in. And difficult to impress on these great pods. Wow. Energy!!!
Not every woman forms an immediate bond with a child growing inside them, babies and children are given up every single day.
JPB boys is back shoutout to the pod being back in rotation
6LACK makes dope records
One of the best episodes displaying how to debate/discuss properly
Nobody:
Whites: Nah, buddy actually gayer than you, Rick🤠
Glad yall back
parks saying antonio brown did a slant at rolling loud is hilarious lmao
Glad you guys are back ! ☺️
When joe said, it can get tricky, i switched it to sticky. Cuz you know how sticky it gets
😂😂😂
I feel like Mal and Joe will never make up Mal is to cool and Joe just can’t accept his wrongs this will never end 😅😅😅😅😅😅
It’s funny how y’all just think Mal was a somebody before he got on a pod with Joe. Mal is the proverbial “best known from” when his name comes up. Even though he’ll make it seem otherwise.
@@kevinstewart8054 Mal made the pod good ...knock it off please .. It wouldn't have got this far without him
And define the word " somebody " ... U dont become friends with the Kardashians being a nobody
Let’s keep it real I don’t even like seeing that dude’s name, he’s not a trustworthy individual
@@kevinstewart8054 bruh mal adnitted he wasnt known whehe first came on the scene only in select circles ... but guess what it took it all 3 of them to create the dope and take it to where it is .. wernt just joe ,so knock it off with your bullshit
@@jihadbilal403 i know joe always being lying
"Na morant" hilarious 🤣 😆 ik he talking bout Jimmy butler 🤣 1:08:02
1:34:44 Ish is speaking facts. "Happy spouse, happy house". 💯 Even though I agree with Joe as well. 🙌🏽
I been waiting for ish to get in his argumentative bag for a while now ! lol loved it
Great show , watched all the way to the end
I was losing my mind looking for new episodes this week
1:31:30 he' saying that a cheater can have a skewed perception of what love is or they just have a different definition of love (polyamory) while the bf or gf really needs your (monogamous) love or a different type of attention than you can or will provide. Speaking as someone who has cheated, it's true that it doesn't mean I don't love you BUT it does mean I was giving to another (physically and emotionally) what should have been going to her, my main. I thought I was giving her what she needed but I really wasn't. I was just being selfish and justifying my behavior.