What Happens After You Get a Literary Agent? | The REAL Story Behind My 6-Figure Book Deal

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @laurenkaywrites
    @laurenkaywrites  Месяц назад +2

    Grab my *free* Query Letter Toolkit (which includes the query letter that got me 8 agent offers and my query letter template!): www.laurenkaywrites.com/query-letter

  • @arzabael
    @arzabael 11 месяцев назад +102

    I had to write down part of it. “When querying, try to frame the manuscript in a way that an agent will know that an editor will know that they can confidently pitch it in an acquisition meeting full of higher ups at a publishing house”. To me that’s gold. Thank you

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +30

      Absolutely. Plenty of writers panic about their book, and constantly undersell it with language like "I'm so honored you'd even consider this," "I know this book has a lot of problems but..." etc. You've got to come into it with the mindset that they're NOT doing you a favor in this deal, which is essentially a business deal between you and a publishing company. You have to pitch it being like, this book is not only GREAT, it's going to make YOU money. Ha.

    • @arunashekarNZ
      @arunashekarNZ Месяц назад

      Like what for example?

  • @melireadsitall
    @melireadsitall 10 месяцев назад +25

    This type of transparency is why I keep coming back to your content. This is the type of insider experience I have been searching everywhere for, so THANK YOU for being brave enough to share this with us. 🥰

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      You're so welcome!! Transparency is really important to me and I'm so glad to help.

  • @wespenre3418
    @wespenre3418 10 месяцев назад +25

    Thank you for being brave and sharing this. As you said, we need to hear both sides of the story--not only those stories when people have success. Being a writer is a tough job, and writing a book makes us quite vulnerable; it's a very intimate part of ourselves we share with the world. We need all the encouragement we can ger. I think this video will be helpful for many aspiring authors and give them additional self-confidence!

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks so much!!! I really aspire to be the mentor that I felt like I was missing when I was a baby writer.

  • @Nurturingmeals
    @Nurturingmeals 7 месяцев назад +8

    Feeling emotional. I appreciate what you’re sharing. I am getting rejection after rejection and worked on my book for 5 years. I am going to edit it MORE and maybe put it aside afterwards and maybe start my second book.
    You were blessed you had an agent. I am all on my own.

  • @brigidsmith980
    @brigidsmith980 11 месяцев назад +17

    Love this chatty and informative storytelling! Such a valuable perspective, thank you!

  • @julietwochholz9755
    @julietwochholz9755 7 месяцев назад +4

    You are a very articulate speaker. I agree with you about the need for openness and transparency. A closed society leads to fear and distrust. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @sophia-logos5348
    @sophia-logos5348 7 дней назад

    thank you, Lauren. Really appreciated hearing the real 'low down' :)

  • @autumnrozariohallartstudio7396
    @autumnrozariohallartstudio7396 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks so much for sharing! I can't wait to read your book!

  • @TheReadingPuppet
    @TheReadingPuppet 9 месяцев назад +4

    Congratulations!!!! Thank you for sharing. I had no idea that they could cancel your calls and then if they don’t pass acquisitions that you have to start all over again.

  • @kaeilia
    @kaeilia 7 месяцев назад +3

    This is really helpful, thank you! I've written 2.5 books in a series and am terrified to start querying. I've told myself that by the time I'm done book 5, I have to really look into putting the first one out there.
    This is a fantastic reminder that not all progress is immediately linear

  • @TheEccentricRaven
    @TheEccentricRaven 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for being honest and sharing your story. I'll remember it when I feel discouraged.

  • @greymoore86
    @greymoore86 4 месяца назад +1

    hey! i'm curious why your agent informed other editors you had "interest" (or even an offer, did u say?) before even taking the phone call from the interested editor? Wouldn't it be better to inform after an official offer or even if when you know its going to acquitions? Do you think thats why some backed out?

  • @EricaVipond
    @EricaVipond 11 месяцев назад +11

    your honesty is so valued and appreciated! Also, how interesting to know you can get published... but the industry might try and break you first lol

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +2

      It sure will -- but if writers are one thing, they're resilient.

  • @marzaj17
    @marzaj17 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you so very much for making this and putting it out there. Still working on my first book and this was so incredibly encouraging!!! Thank you!!!

  • @christinabriggs1782
    @christinabriggs1782 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. Im glad everything worked out for you. Being a writer is a tough job but sp awesome as well. Yes! Keep writing.

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much Christina, wishing you great writing energy as well!

  • @freedomthroughspirit
    @freedomthroughspirit 5 месяцев назад +2

    Cheers to truth! The truth should be shared. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your experience to help us all. 💜 Just subscribed. I love courageous truth tellers. : ) Wishing you all the success in the world with your writing.

  • @thejournalnook
    @thejournalnook 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. I’m now starting to take writing more seriously and want to be published one day. I’m working on a short story right now that I absolutely love, but I cannot wait to write my novel too. I also want to find a writing group to be part of, hopefully I can find one :)

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Hi! I just launched a FREE Critique Partner matching database to help people connect with likeminded writing besties, it's like Tinder but for critique partners! www.laurenkaywrites.com/ On my website, you can subscribe to my newsletter for more info and all my other free goodies. :)

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      That was in response to you wanting to find a writing group! And also -- I happen to believe writing short stories is the BEST practice for novelists, I wish more writers would start small first. Plenty to learn and lower stakes!

  • @CurstSaden
    @CurstSaden 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your insight! I've written two books, and still have yet to find an agent for either of them. But I will persevere!

  • @laurenericks0n
    @laurenericks0n 11 месяцев назад +5

    LOVE this video and your openness to discuss your own authorship journey! I definitely agree, we need more transparency in the book publishing space ✋🏼

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +1

      I couldn't agree more!!! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @bendybruce
    @bendybruce 2 месяца назад +2

    I deeply appreciate you sharing this story. Due to some very unexpected events writing became my reason for getting up in the morning. A sort of lifeline so to speak. I've always dreamed of being a science fiction author and over the last few years I have genuinely fallen in love with the process of writing. It feels very intimate and an artistic expression of who I am as a person. The thought of commercializing something so deeply personal is a difficult thing to confront. I don't want it to destroy my love for writing as it already brings me so much peace and joy. I think I will try to compartmentalize the process. My writing is one thing and trying to publish it is something completely different. I will not let the latter destroy my passion of the former. I cannot risk losing my love of writing because it quite literally saved me.

    • @keepingyoucompany3724
      @keepingyoucompany3724 Месяц назад +1

      i'm in the same boat - writing helped me get up in the morning. i finally finished my first book and am querying it to agents now. it's brutal and with the rejections it's hard not to feel scared to be that vulnerable again for a second book or that whatever i write won't be commercial enough - so my second book isn't flowing and the thing that kept me going (writing) isn't happening. it's hard. thanks bendybruce for sharing your ideas on how to combat this - i think i'll give them a try.

    • @bendybruce
      @bendybruce Месяц назад

      @@keepingyoucompany3724 I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you. If I can think of any advice to give then it is when you wake up in the morning start by counting your blessings. I was diagnosed with late stage glaucoma shortly after the pandemic. Fortunately I was saved from going completely blind by an amazing surgeon. I still grieve for everything I have lost but this event caused me to grow as a person. The fact I can get up in the morning turn on my computer and write, albeit somewhat slowly, is a gift beyond measure. Don't let the process of finding a publisher steal your passion. If you were made to write then it's something you know deep down inside you. I know it, and I know you know it, so I'm looking forward to reading your book or at least listening to the audio version when it comes out. Let's go!

  • @amieaviwell
    @amieaviwell 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your vulnerability, and for demystifying the query and publication process.
    This information and the way you’ve openly shared is PRICELESS!!🙏🦋

  • @crose588
    @crose588 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Hearing all of the details of your journey is so incredibly helpful as I work through my own process. Amazing video -- love the candor!

  • @shermandibowantradeall2047
    @shermandibowantradeall2047 21 день назад

    Thank you so much for your honesty. Your passion for your work has rewarded you. Keep going im your biggest fan. I know how the writing journey is. Its tough, rough, sometimes you regret coming up with idea of being an author, but one thing i love about this process is the more you discover, the better you become.

  • @KEVINFERRELL-x2g
    @KEVINFERRELL-x2g 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty and listening to your gut. You took a risk. I thank you for that. I'm sixty-two years old and am a rookie in this business. And I knew I was facing a monumental challenge. Now I know precisely what challenges I am actually facing. Anyway, you are a fantastic person. Again, I thank you.

  • @griannaashwood6394
    @griannaashwood6394 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I really needed to hear this.

  • @leondesignedit1357
    @leondesignedit1357 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this. I'm brand new to the world of writing and just finished my first manuscript. Coming across your channel I had no idea how the process of getting a book deal worked at all. Now I have a pretty solid understanding though, so thank you for that. Best of luck in your future endevours!

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  2 месяца назад

      I'm so glad to hear this! Happy writing :)

  • @svftie9493
    @svftie9493 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this and being so open about it! As someone who started writing almost a decade ago but never believed that they are going to make it; this gave me an insight on how to proceed, but also what to expect. English is actually the third language I have learned, but I don't want that to stop me from pursuing what I love.
    Excited to hear more from you!!

  • @CSJR
    @CSJR 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm still working on my first manuscript but hearing the real deal stories from published writers is super motivating. Thank you thank you thank you.

  • @LisaPais-e8d
    @LisaPais-e8d 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing and so glad you kept at it.

  • @AndrewColletti
    @AndrewColletti 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this. As someone in the middle of my first novel, I am endlessly curious and often concerned how the publishing bit unfolds. Thank you so much.

  • @AudeKonan
    @AudeKonan 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for sharing. it's tough to query and see the projects you've worked on for so long not being picked, I hate the feeling

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  6 месяцев назад +1

      It's definitely tough and stings - kind of like getting picked last in gym class as an adult - but rejection is also such a huge part of the writing and publishing world

  • @ayafresh
    @ayafresh 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this! How did it go with the cover? Did they allow you to use your own cover? Did you use your cover design to help pitch to agents? What's the best way to find agents to query? Thanks again, and a big congratulations!

  • @StephanieBaierOfficial
    @StephanieBaierOfficial 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this story!! I am on my second book now and the first was definitely just a very drawn-out learning experience. I literally cried when you talked about writing your second book so quickly and getting such an amazing book deal! Congrats!! I'm going to read your book now haha

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  2 месяца назад +1

      Awww, thank you so much! Writing is always such an emotional journey. A drawn-out learning experience may not feel like a gift in the moment, but I really think it can be a HUGE gift to your writing career overall. Keep going!

  • @JoBlogz
    @JoBlogz 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Lauren. I appreciate you sharing this very much, and congrats on your deal! - I was hoping to ask some specific questions regarding my own journey if there's is anywhere better that i can contact you?

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Feel free to shoot me a DM on Instagram! @laurenkaywrites

  • @KitchenTableChatsENM
    @KitchenTableChatsENM 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, again, thank you so much for your vulnerability and transparency. This is so helpful to keep the focus on momentum and continuing to take everything as an opportunity to learn and get better. 💗

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for your support. What you said is 100% true -- everything is about the journey overall. We can't let one failure deny us success longterm. Everything *is* an opportunity.

  • @KateMackey-k6j
    @KateMackey-k6j Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for sharing!!!

  • @j.a.m6356
    @j.a.m6356 10 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely wonderful advice. You are so down to earth and genuine-it is a breath of fresh air. The way you speak and deliver your experiences is so compelling. I’m so glad I stumbled upon your page. All your advice and expertise is invaluable. Def subbed. So real. You rock.

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much -- it hasn't been an easy ride, but finding my community has truly made a huge difference. My calling is giving to others the transparency I wish I had had back then!

  • @cdowling23
    @cdowling23 6 месяцев назад +2

    Wow. A very transparent look at the novel querying process. Such a rollercoaster and will be relatable and informative to all writers.

  • @CrescentRollCarl
    @CrescentRollCarl Месяц назад

    I'm not sure why people didn't want you to share that story. Thanks so much. My first book was also not picked up and I'm writing my second now. I appreciate you sharing your experience.

  • @cdowling23
    @cdowling23 6 месяцев назад +1

    Can I ask then, what happens to the original book? Do you have plans to adapt it to another medium? Could be good to do as a radio drama :)

  • @chakishajohnson6921
    @chakishajohnson6921 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much for posting this this is truly inspiring and helps me to keep going

  • @VictoriaZeolla
    @VictoriaZeolla Месяц назад

    thanks so much for sharing your story. My first book has been out on sub for 9 months. Recently it made it to second-reads at a publisher, but they ended up passing. I'm currently finishing up the second book and then we'll send that one out. But it's hard to keep the faith

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  Месяц назад +1

      It's a big deal to get to second reads, even if they did end up passing! You've got this. Keep the faith.

    • @VictoriaZeolla
      @VictoriaZeolla 7 дней назад

      @@laurenkaywrites thanks so much! I will!

  • @PoeticGem
    @PoeticGem 3 месяца назад

    This was great. I believe in transparency as well - which overall publishing is not known for ;) I respect you for telling your true experience good, bad & ugly. Continued success!

  • @paramedicchrisbookseries
    @paramedicchrisbookseries 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for sharing this, really helpful.

  • @radicaleucalyptus
    @radicaleucalyptus 9 месяцев назад

    Great, candid video Lauren Kay. I appreciate the value that you put on transparency and seeking out mentors to pick their brain about mechanisms for handling some of the rejection and other challenges. I clicked on this because I am beginning the querying process myself now with my debut novel and am trying to collect perspectives, so I wanted to let you know that I appreciated yours.

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  8 месяцев назад

      You're so welcome. Congrats on finishing your MS and best of luck with the querying!

  • @TheWorldOfDK
    @TheWorldOfDK 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Lauren! Thanks for sharing! Quite the roller coaster ride there, but at least it all worked out in the end! 🙂Was self-publishing ever an option for you?

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +2

      That's a great question! My first MS, which died on sub, I did not end up self-publishing. I probably wouldn't. I don't have the time or energy to devote to marketing my own work! Traditional publishing was always the goal for me. :)

    • @TheWorldOfDK
      @TheWorldOfDK 10 месяцев назад

      Thank you Lauren for sharing! I hope you're having a great start to 2024!@@laurenkaywrites

  • @Talesofnah
    @Talesofnah 11 месяцев назад +3

    Wow what a great video, super insightful!

  • @michaellugenbuehl2475
    @michaellugenbuehl2475 10 месяцев назад +1

    Lauren, thank you for making the video. It’s good to know not only the possible ups and downs of publishing ahead of time, but also all the possible combinations of “I’ve made it” followed by, “what just happened here?” I’ve been writing (working on) a novel for nearly three years; with a few major “I quit’s” during that period, and it’s good to know I’m not the only one. Of course the only caveat is that your first novel is the one that ended up bringing you all the pain. We’ll see if mine is any different. :)
    Thanks again for putting your story out there.
    I did buy and read “We Ship It” which was entertaining and very well done; a subject that more people need to dive into and face head on.

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Hi Michael! Thank you SO much for your support and for checking out my book! One thing I can suggest is just a mentality shift away from the importance of each individual manuscript and towards your longterm career as a writing. Obviously, every story IS important to us writers, but you definitely have to be willing to just keep writing, regardless of what happens! Wishing you luck! L

  • @donnaandrus2352
    @donnaandrus2352 5 месяцев назад

    "Whatever you do while querying, work on your next book...because you never know how querying will go." This is excellent advice and exactly what I needed to hear at this stage in my writing journey. I just discovered your videos, Lauren . You are very genuine which is really helpful in this tough market and sometimes arduous journey of querying.

  • @TathagataMitraTom
    @TathagataMitraTom 2 месяца назад

    Found you through this video. Read first few pages of We Ship It. You're awesome and I don't even like teen comedy. I will buy it asap.

  • @MrCrazyChihuahua
    @MrCrazyChihuahua 10 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my! I just discovered you the other day, as I was browsing videos for writing poetry and such. Long story short, I cannot believe that I got this far in the writing world, and having just discovered you.
    You are an amazingly honest person. Transmitting your true experiences to us really means so much more than you can imagine. When I first started writing seriously, around 5 years ago, I had no idea of all the hardships a writer can/will endure. I honestly thought that the writing was the hardest part. Oh boy, how wrong, yet how correct I was.
    Cross referencing my own experiences in publishing, with yours, I am truly convinced that success comes to those who truly believe in their selves and in their craft.
    When I first published my Greek poetry with a prestigious publishing house in Greece, I expected little (as my first Fantasy Epic Historical-fiction book was never picked up - as of yet), since poetry in Greek speaking countries is less famous. And I was right. Same thing with my second poetry book. But I never, never, never, never could have imagined the amazing world of opportunities they would open. So much home, as much as abroad.
    As everything, writing comes at the cost of time. But, given enough effort and skill, that time can be rewarding. In my case, as I am writing both in English and in Greek, it provides me with a large window of hope, that my numerous novels and poetry collections (including my upcoming WIPs) will eventually find their places in the shelves here and abroad.
    But honestly, querying to publishers in Greece and Cyprus is one thing. Querying to agents in the UK and in the US is a completely different thing. One, that I never expected would elevate my writing experience to such great heights.
    As in your experience, I had disappointments, crises, and moments where I was feeling down. Without ever losing my hope and dreams though. And like you said, I never let my internal voices win.
    I think that's the point in it all.
    Rejection and transcendance.
    The very idea that we can succeed, combined with the experience of failure, creates an amalgamation of humility and pride, that strives us as writers wto hone our craft, while still understanding that the best writers are those who see themselves as a part of the world, and not apart from it.
    Again, like you said. Many people share their happy moments. But ever since I found my community here in Cyprus, I discovered that other writers, editors, and even publishers, are just humans, with their own need to be loved and embraced.
    We are all human beings and we just want good stories to be told.
    That's it.
    I would be really interested to watch every other next video you upload, and well done on reaching this far! Not many people hold on to faith as long as to see their work shine.
    Stelios

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +1

      Stelios, thank you for your beautiful words (truly written like a poet!). So many writers are overly attached to their work -- to me, although obviously setbacks are frustrating and sad, in order to grow as a writer I had to think of my long-term career -- *all* the good stories I had to tell, not just the one. My fortune (career-wise and financially) didn't have to all be in one manuscript. I would encourage all writers to think this way -- if one project does not succeed, we simply must learn to move on to another, and not overly rely (as difficult as this can be) on external validation.
      Congratulations on your poetry, that's very exciting.
      Glad to have you as part of my community!
      L

    • @MrCrazyChihuahua
      @MrCrazyChihuahua 10 месяцев назад

      @@laurenkaywrites Good morning!
      Thank you for that wonderful reply, it made me smile first thing after waking up!
      Thats exactly what I have been preaching to other writers. In my case, when I saw that I needed a financial boost, i turned to content writing as a full time job, to power up my writings.
      Exactly like you mentioned, one manuscript does not make the difference in its own. You dont learn to create, and you dont meet people like that. You need diversification.
      "Moving on to another".. difficult words, yet so true.
      Maybe think of this as a new video! I think that many authors get stuck at the "1 published book benchmark" and they get the blues that they failed as an artist. While negating the fact that literature is like life. Endless, evergrowing and hopeful.
      Nonetheless, glad to be part of your community! See you around

  • @TheAireaidLord
    @TheAireaidLord 8 месяцев назад

    Trickiest thing in my situation is having an acquisition editor who wants to pitch your book but can't get it through the publishers cue. And without an agent I don't have much say.

  • @amberwilhoitwrites
    @amberwilhoitwrites 8 месяцев назад

    Do you have a video on your writing process? I’m loving your content, and I think that would be so helpful!

  • @TheDani172
    @TheDani172 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this video. How many agencies did you submit to before you settled with an agent?

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  2 месяца назад

      I queried 50 agents, and had 26 full reuqests, before I chose my agent.

  • @beescheeseandwineplease889
    @beescheeseandwineplease889 8 месяцев назад +1

    Well now i have to read this book!!!!!

  • @NicolesBookishNook
    @NicolesBookishNook 2 месяца назад

    Such a valuable perspective for those interested in querying! ❤

  • @Al-rn5qy
    @Al-rn5qy 2 месяца назад +1

    Awesome video and advice. Thank you so much for this candid video because we all need to know that rejection is part of the process, but we only fail as authors when we stop writing.
    Fun Fact: Even world renowned author John Grisham didn't initially get a deal on his first book either 😮. It was his second book, The Firm, that launched him to success, then he eventually got a deal on his first book, A Time to Kill, after his subsequent books.
    All of this is to say, your video is on point and please keep making them! Liked and subscribed 😉👍

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks so much! And yes!!! So many writers didn't get a deal the first time :)

  • @thepowerofyourtrueself4794
    @thepowerofyourtrueself4794 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your honest story, one often doesn't realize the challenges behind the process of publishing your book, I am trying to publish mine and this is very useful information.

  • @Rinzaiku
    @Rinzaiku Месяц назад

    Once you finish your first draft, should you immediately go to an agent? Or edit it first and then go to agents?

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  Месяц назад

      Your manuscript should be the very best it can be before you send it to agents! This usually includes multiple drafts, asking friends, family, and beta readers to read it, and even considering a professional developmental or line edit.

  • @AngryDenver
    @AngryDenver 3 месяца назад

    I'm writing my first book and appreciate this video. Thanks!

  • @hamedosanlouy9915
    @hamedosanlouy9915 2 месяца назад

    You are a generous beautiful person to share your valuable experience ma'am. Thanks.

  • @francescaemc2
    @francescaemc2 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for your courage and for helping other writers. Perhaps I am naive, but I have always found the business of finding an agent/ publisher so gratuitously harsh and brutal for authors. Writers (huge generalisation) work alone for years, most often with other jobs and little money. The very nature of writing fiction requires sensitivity and vulnerability both of which are exploited by agents, IMO. I'm sure it's not the first time you have heard that John Grisham published "The Firm" first.... then they took his excellent first book "A Time to Kill"-- and, as a lawyer, with funds and used to 70 hour work weeks, was not on the same plane as those less fortunate and resilient as he. Also, I don't yet know your work, but I'm assuming it's not a page-turner formula. Congratulations on your well-earned success and for being smart enough to reach out to a woman on the path a few steps ahead of you.

  • @AdventuressAli
    @AdventuressAli 5 месяцев назад

    I cant even begin to say how helpful this was on multiple levels. Thank you! I'd been working on my first book about my travels in Africa and about the fear of staying there with no return ticket. Worked on it for SEVEN years to finally basically finish last yr but stuck now for a year btwn life and finances and adhd and all the many things to even start the hugely daunting task of querie letters. Its soo overwhelming!

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm so glad it was helpful!! And I hear you

  • @jasonbollinger231
    @jasonbollinger231 4 месяца назад

    Wow. Thanks for sharing. Did you ever get any explanation for the emoji tease? Was the editor just a monster? Also...I know you love your agent, but what do they have to say for themselves? How did it go so wrong so fast? Wouldn't that be a reasonable cause to consider other representation?

  • @michaelburke4048
    @michaelburke4048 11 месяцев назад +1

    Glad you shared the struggle that led to your success. I'm still doing my best to get an agent, and in the meantime finishing up my fifth novel. I self published my first novel, and tucked away my second in the bottom of a drawer. My third is the one I believe has the commercial appeal to be huge, but so far it's been form rejections to wallpaper my office with. It only takes one agent to say yes, and many that I want to pitch to have been closed to query, so I still have hope. I'm not looking forward to the rounds of editor rejections that follow this.

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +1

      I feel you -- it's not an easy thing to see those rejections coming in. I always recommend beginning a new project -- when I'm in the throes of writing, I care less about the results of previous projects and can think more objectively. Even having written one, let along three, will be a huge accomplishment that most people never will do!

  • @cathyhulet441
    @cathyhulet441 2 месяца назад

    This was the most honest and helpful information I’ve seen. Thank you for being so transparent! I am supposed to do a live pitch in September and now I’m feeling like I don’t know enough about this world of agenting or publishing. Where did you find the most helpful resources? Did you use Publisher’s Marketplace? I am a debut author and the more I learn it feels like the less I know. 🤷‍♀️

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  2 месяца назад +1

      Hi! It can be really, really overwhelming, for sure. I went by a lot of trail and error, honestly, and worked with a book coach who helped with a lot of questions that came up. I created an entire course about the querying process, called Query Bootcamp, in order to put all I learned, and have learned since, in one place. You can learn more about that here: laurenkaywrites.com/query-bootcamp

    • @cathyhulet441
      @cathyhulet441 2 месяца назад

      @@laurenkaywrites thank you! I just found your channel yesterday, so I’m trying to learn everything I can as quickly as possible. 😅

  • @JGVIllustrations
    @JGVIllustrations 3 месяца назад

    Amazing story! What a rollercoaster it must’ve been 😭 So what happened to your first book? I might’ve missed the detail but did you get it published finally or still in the works?

  • @mikeday5776
    @mikeday5776 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much. I feel somewhat armoured for the battle ahead.

  • @johnchaparro5393
    @johnchaparro5393 10 месяцев назад

    Boy! Lauren I'm glad you did the video. I have a YA historical novel set in post civil war south and I'm on my third and final draft and been scare to sent it out. But now soon as I'm done my third draft I 'ud send it to agents. I mean what can possibly go wrong?

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Ha! Sometimes, when we feel confident and ready -- there's truly nothing else to do. Either way, you'll learn -- and writing is a lifelong journey. If you don't succeed (and failure is the part of every writer's story), then you've just got to forge on and try again! Your novel sounds great -- I love historical fiction.

    • @johnchaparro5393
      @johnchaparro5393 10 месяцев назад

      @laurenkaywrites is about a barely liberated black boy with no name living in Mississippi. I'm mighty proud of it. I thank you for your reply. Let's see what become of it.

  • @Benjaja
    @Benjaja 3 месяца назад

    What a share. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities as well as your strengths. I appreciate the balance. I've just written my first novel and am thinking of the possible routes of self-publishing or going down a similar path as one you described with querying~agent~editor~publisher. Like your experience with your second book, I wrote my first draft in two weeks and then followed up with revisions for six months. I'm now letting family read it and then will circle into a beta reader group. Would a chance to see if you'd be interested in being one of the Beta readers? Who know anything is possible !!Congrats on all your failure and success 🙂

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi! Congrats on finishing your draft!! I don't have the bandwidth to be a Beta reader, but I did create a free database of folks who are open to being beta readers and critique partners: laurenkaywrites.com/critique-partner

    • @Benjaja
      @Benjaja 3 месяца назад

      @@laurenkaywrites Thank you so much for this Lauren. How incredibly helpful of you. I appreciate everything you're doing. Looking forward to reading your books 🙂

  • @maryfuzzell6262
    @maryfuzzell6262 3 месяца назад

    You hit on something I think critical. Is the you wrote you second book fast. I think the let down is harder when years are spent writing a book, instead of months. Thank you for sharing.

  • @guyafrica7894
    @guyafrica7894 9 месяцев назад +9

    This is beautiful and important. You are incredibly brave and I'm grateful that young authors like you are starting a new era of transparency and inclusion in literature.

  • @debpaynepurnell6131
    @debpaynepurnell6131 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @AnEnchantedLife
    @AnEnchantedLife 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your struggle, and the truth of how it all happened. And thank you also for your honesty.

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      You're so welcome, I think it's so important. Thank you for your time!

  • @LaserLady
    @LaserLady 11 месяцев назад +1

    SUPER inspiring! My goal is to be traditionally published. What are your plans with your first novel that wasn't published? Can you self publish that or did you have to sign something to prevent you from self publishing other works?

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Great question! Honestly? That first novel I'll probably just let be an important practice for me. That project will always be important to me, but if I write another novel now, I have something totally different in mind. I don't plan to self-publish that first one; for me, traditional publishing has always been the goal.

  • @fadrianbartley4419
    @fadrianbartley4419 9 месяцев назад

    As a poet I really appreciate you for this because so many times I just feel like quit and throw it all away and just work for the bills and everyday livity

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  8 месяцев назад +2

      Honestly, poetry is EVEN tougher than novels. You have to do it for your own joy. If it's becoming soul-sucking, it might be time to take a break and re-discover later the joy in writing.

  • @fadrianbartley4419
    @fadrianbartley4419 9 месяцев назад

    I am a poet working on a manuscript, but I keep wondering if I ever will get an agent who will be interested, even though I keep hearing that my writing is good when participating in writing communities and submitting to editors

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  8 месяцев назад

      Writing can be such a slow and steady race. Most of the work is in doing exactly what you're doing - writing, sharing, joining communities, reaching out to editors. Keep going!

  • @darknightofthesoul7628
    @darknightofthesoul7628 5 месяцев назад

    Compelling story, kept me glued to the screen. Might I suggest this be your next book?

  • @AngelaKHarrell
    @AngelaKHarrell 10 месяцев назад +1

    NEW SUBSCRIBER: Hi Lauren, I like you because we share a name (I'm Angela Kay)! Thank you so much for sharing your story. As you state, I believe it's so important to not only share information but to also share the ups AND the downs.
    I had a couple of questions (and would love an answer, via direct response to this email and/or a video to share with everyone): (1) Once you were told you had a book deal, what happened in between that time and when the book was released? (i.e., did you have to do revisions, were you a part of the cover selection, etc.); (2) I saw your other video regarding your first book (the one you had to put to the side for now). You stated you did 4 revisions. Were those revisions based on repeated Beta reads, critique partner reads, or more developmental edits, or solely based on you going over it by yourself? Also, do you believe you'll try to put it back on submission again? (3) Was the book you received the book deal within a different genre than your first written book? If the first book was a different genre, what made you switch to a different genre? (4) How did you find your line editor?, and finally (5) What happens now that your book has been released? (i.e., will your publisher have you doing any book tours or podcasts, etc., or other things)? I'm curious as to how that goes.
    Again, thank you for the video; it was inspirational and honest. I'm excited to view your website (something I've struggled with for a few months).

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +1

      Hi, long-lost cousin?! (Just kidding.)
      (1) I did do some revisions as dictated by the editorial team at the publishing house, but not many; and I did not participate in the book cover process, which is normal. I'm not a visual marketer so I don't think I would have been much help anyways! I trust the publishers to know how to market my book visually.
      (2) My revisions always incorporated external feedback in between. I don't recommend solo editing; you can't really get the perspective you need when you look at your own work. I also worked with a developmental editor. As of now, I'm not interested in taking that project out on sub again. I'm more mature as a writer and a person now and would prefer to start a new project more aligned to my creative interests.
      (3) They were both contemporary YA novels.
      (4) I just did careful research online!
      (5) I did do a book tour! All that has died down now that my novel's been out for a while. I'm very busy with my start-up now, so I haven't asked about doing more promotional work on the novel beyond its launch.
      Thanks so much for your time! Hope this helps.
      Lauren

  • @LianaBuzea
    @LianaBuzea 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Lauren! Much appreciated! 🙏🏻

  • @levihobbs1416
    @levihobbs1416 9 месяцев назад

    Wow. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @MrRosebeing
    @MrRosebeing 2 месяца назад +1

    £17.33 for a hardcover version of your first novel. Kudos.

  • @BluGiant14
    @BluGiant14 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for this.

  • @kristyszopinski
    @kristyszopinski 7 месяцев назад

    Awesome thanks for sharing!!! ❤

  • @Beekeeper8011
    @Beekeeper8011 10 месяцев назад +1

    No links to buy your book on Amazon?

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад +1

      Aw, no. But if you insist: www.amazon.com/We-Ship-Lauren-Kay/dp/0063230992 !

  • @totadol
    @totadol 6 месяцев назад

    what did you write in the marketing section in your query? did you have social media followers

  • @McLovinmybullie
    @McLovinmybullie 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love your honesty ❤. Great video.

  • @trevormcneil9858
    @trevormcneil9858 5 месяцев назад +1

    By “book” I assume you mean “novel” because nonfiction projects do not need to be finished and polished before submission, outside of a few sample chapters.

  • @genevieveweston671
    @genevieveweston671 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your journey

  • @jackiekhalilieh9962
    @jackiekhalilieh9962 10 месяцев назад

    Hi Lauren! Your first book had multiple close calls. Through time and distance, can you see now why none of those possible offers came to fruition or do you still believe in the story and think there’s a chance for it someday? Would love to hear more about that. Also when is book two coming out!? 👀

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Hi! I think there's so much that can be subjective about the industry, and I do still believe in that book. A lot! If anything, the topic's become even more dear to me as I'm now a RUclipsr (ha!). It would be wonderful to publish it one day -- I hope that can happen. Just because it didn't find success at the time doesn't necessary mean the project is doomed! Regarding book two, it's a totally different project than that earlier manuscript, and I'm still working on it ! I can't wait to update everyone when I have more news. Thanks for watching!

  • @zanemarion7211
    @zanemarion7211 5 месяцев назад

    Failure is only when you give up. Query and then start your next book. Don't wait around. Let the agent do what they need to do to get a deal.

  • @jeweetzelf1379
    @jeweetzelf1379 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you, you’re a really inspiring person! ❤

  • @sandyhausler5290
    @sandyhausler5290 8 месяцев назад

    Just wondering. When the publisher passed on your first book, did your agent ask what that tweet the day before was about? I’d be obsessing about that for the rest of my life!

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  8 месяцев назад

      I am still wondering myself! But no, we didn't ask.

  • @COMEINTOMYWORLD
    @COMEINTOMYWORLD 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great video. I think writers get too hung up on their first 'professional' novel and feel it is the sole benchmark of their skills as a writer. Whilst the book industry is actually looking for writers who can keep creating new books, new products, as a writer who bashes out two books a year for ten years is far, far more valuable asset than a one hit wonder, no matter how well the one hit sells. Think of yourself as a singer who wants a career. You can't sing the very same song for years. You need to be constantly recording new music and releasing it. It's an industry at the end of the day...

  • @JoelAdamson
    @JoelAdamson 12 дней назад

    1. Why were you told not to share this?
    2. Literally your second book, or the second book you submitted?

  • @Ponitypon
    @Ponitypon 5 месяцев назад

    thank you for sharing

  • @tedpogorzelski1514
    @tedpogorzelski1514 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing this!

  • @arzabael
    @arzabael 11 месяцев назад +1

    I hope to incorporate a journey with this program with my own journey. - J.A. Ryan/A.A. Ryan/Anthony Arzabael/ Anthony (TBD)

    • @arzabael
      @arzabael 11 месяцев назад

      I left this comment by accident but am leaving it here hehe. (I was typing it on a video about Story Grid and this one auto played before I hit post)!

    • @laurenkaywrites
      @laurenkaywrites  10 месяцев назад

      Hehe, no worries! Thanks anyways!

  • @christinacascadilla4473
    @christinacascadilla4473 4 месяца назад

    The this video sounds a lot like the Kevin Bacon movie “The Big Picture.” All these Hollywood studio executives are telling him he’s going to be the next big writer/director. Then they change their mind. For no apparent reason.