I just cut ties with my unmedicated, schizophrenic, abusive father, who is now wheelchair bound and suffering from lung cancer. This is helping me fully cope with my decision and guilt. Thank you.
The in-laws clearly decided he was being abusive so they could try and break up their marriage! They were just plain creepy especially when they decided to follow the couple to Hawaii! They clearly can’t let go of her! Period! There’s a huge difference between helping and coddling! A lot of people these days are more focused on their careers and less focused on having kids! I respect them for it! Emma’s family is clearly toxic because they took her first paycheck for family expenses which I’m assuming was spent on unnecessary things!
Emma's parents and her sister are lecherous and greedy, akin to being a succubus. They were draining her dry financially, mentally and emotionally, users of the worst kind. Sometimes family can be some of the most damaging people to the ones they claim to love, but actions speak louder than words. Love them from afar and keep your boundaries set at all times.
Yup, walking away from toxicity wasn't exactly easy, but the best choice you can be free from such vile toxicity ,that's a awesome husband putting the wife's mental health 1st
As I have 'learned' in the last few years, eventually you have to stop making the effort towards family when others won't make the effort themselves. I have gone no contact with my entire family (and also with some people I used to consider friends) for various reasons. I decided I had to take care of myself _first_ and I am lonely at times but my mental health has been better for it. (BTW not married/ no children)
There’s nothing wrong with forgiving family. It just means that you have to restructure your family relationship and build boundaries. Loving people from a distance is sometimes necessary in order to maintain your sanity. Caring about someone doesn’t mean you should be their ATM or their doormat. Holiday cookies and an occasional holiday card (without any money in it) would be the extent of the gift giving, anything more would be to much. If they accept the terms of your new relationship then cut ties.
There are people so truly toxic to open even a crack of forgiveness would let them manipulate the situation. If the daughter is ok with the decision, since it is her family, then let it lie and work on making yourselves stronger. There may be a healing at some point or maybe not. It falls to the people who were at fault.
I had a toxic family issues with mom and sister, after getting stabbed in the back several times. I realized how much they enjoyed drama, if there was no drama they would do what they could to create drama, as if they were negative energy vampires! This sister had always been my mom's favorite, the one that could do no wrong! The one that had a teenager foster son, that became her husband. People from the church mom attended, never knew my mom had a total of 5 kids they learned this at her funeral,they thought she had only 2 kids, the family area at the funeral only had it set up for this sister and only brother's family. So I stay away from them, it is better that way
No, don’t give him another chance. You were smart, leaving him there. They took the emergency car that you and your wife had and they spent it on plane tickets to go on vacation where you are to disrupt your anniversary vacation. There are a group of lowlifes. And all that crap about all we did for you growing up. You are a parent you have a child it is your responsibility to raise them clothe them feed them educate them and you never ever get paid back that is not just something that happens. All of that is your responsibility when you have a child. So don’t go around saying all we did for you. And then she was paying for her own college and you had the nerve to ask her to take out another loan to pay for your other daughters car. Your people are really sick in the head. Unbelievable.
No because they have done it to many times. They properly will never learn. Or hop might fly. They will keep on stealing money. And live them with nothing. You two love birds. Just look after each other. Live your life to the full.🎄🎄🦜🦜❤️
Finally a real man who fights for his wife and protects her.
Agreed, bout damn time too
Aka a weak cuck hold that’s where the strict pump and dump policy for all women no money ever
Good, smart husband!
I just cut ties with my unmedicated, schizophrenic, abusive father, who is now wheelchair bound and suffering from lung cancer.
This is helping me fully cope with my decision and guilt.
Thank you.
When will these in laws learn? They messed up big time
They would have been sleeping on the beach and that would be that. You played too long dealing with them.
The in-laws clearly decided he was being abusive so they could try and break up their marriage! They were just plain creepy especially when they decided to follow the couple to Hawaii! They clearly can’t let go of her! Period! There’s a huge difference between helping and coddling! A lot of people these days are more focused on their careers and less focused on having kids! I respect them for it! Emma’s family is clearly toxic because they took her first paycheck for family expenses which I’m assuming was spent on unnecessary things!
The favorite sister had 2 kids who weren't even brought on the trip! That shows how much they actually care about grandkids.
Emma's parents and her sister are lecherous and greedy, akin to being a succubus. They were draining her dry financially, mentally and emotionally, users of the worst kind. Sometimes family can be some of the most damaging people to the ones they claim to love, but actions speak louder than words. Love them from afar and keep your boundaries set at all times.
Yup, walking away from toxicity wasn't exactly easy, but the best choice you can be free from such vile toxicity ,that's a awesome husband putting the wife's mental health 1st
Emma Has Her Knight In Shinning Armor, And Escaped Her ROTTEN TO THE CORE TOXIC FAMILY.
As I have 'learned' in the last few years, eventually you have to stop making the effort towards family when others won't make the effort themselves. I have gone no contact with my entire family (and also with some people I used to consider friends) for various reasons. I decided I had to take care of myself _first_ and I am lonely at times but my mental health has been better for it. (BTW not married/ no children)
There’s nothing wrong with forgiving family. It just means that you have to restructure your family relationship and build boundaries. Loving people from a distance is sometimes necessary in order to maintain your sanity. Caring about someone doesn’t mean you should be their ATM or their doormat. Holiday cookies and an occasional holiday card (without any money in it) would be the extent of the gift giving, anything more would be to much. If they accept the terms of your new relationship then cut ties.
There are people so truly toxic to open even a crack of forgiveness would let them manipulate the situation. If the daughter is ok with the decision, since it is her family, then let it lie and work on making yourselves stronger. There may be a healing at some point or maybe not. It falls to the people who were at fault.
Screw em!
I had a toxic family issues with mom and sister, after getting stabbed in the back several times. I realized how much they enjoyed drama, if there was no drama they would do what they could to create drama, as if they were negative energy vampires! This sister had always been my mom's favorite, the one that could do no wrong! The one that had a teenager foster son, that became her husband. People from the church mom attended, never knew my mom had a total of 5 kids they learned this at her funeral,they thought she had only 2 kids, the family area at the funeral only had it set up for this sister and only brother's family. So I stay away from them, it is better that way
You were 1000% right screw toxic family.
I would have the card cancelled and plan another vacation and not tell anyone but it wife but at the last minute were u r really going
This was a great ending
Wait the sister has two kids and she left them with her husband to go to Hawaii? And the grandparents are okay with that?😮
Robert steps back aggressively into the hips of the patrons of the louche bar!
I dont do business with family, friends, or co-workers. It leads to hard feelings every time.
Unfortunately , this is why to common.
No, don’t give him another chance. You were smart, leaving him there. They took the emergency car that you and your wife had and they spent it on plane tickets to go on vacation where you are to disrupt your anniversary vacation. There are a group of lowlifes. And all that crap about all we did for you growing up. You are a parent you have a child it is your responsibility to raise them clothe them feed them educate them and you never ever get paid back that is not just something that happens. All of that is your responsibility when you have a child. So don’t go around saying all we did for you. And then she was paying for her own college and you had the nerve to ask her to take out another loan to pay for your other daughters car. Your people are really sick in the head. Unbelievable.
This wouldn’t even be a story in my world….. about 2 sentences. I want and no. Period
So op supported his in laws BC wife couldn't afford as teacher🤷🏽🤷🏽♀️ I knew they were scammers when they showed up in Hawaii 💔
He should divorce
All I hear is a weak simp as a husband who couldn't establish boundries and stick to them.
Get a backbone & tellem no
Why would Emma travel with heirloom jewellery?
She was probably going to wear it to a fancy anniversary dinner with her husband before her parasitic family showed up and canceled it.
Why not? It's vacation.... Like a 2nd honeymoon trip
Wallace, you are a goose!
No because they have done it to many times. They properly will never learn. Or hop might fly. They will keep on stealing money. And live them with nothing. You two love birds. Just look after each other. Live your life to the full.🎄🎄🦜🦜❤️