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The thing to do Nicholette when anyone laughs at your wheel chair is just run into him/her, exclaiming: “my wheel chair is uncontrollable!”😉. I’m just kidding everyone! On the other hand… 😁 I❤️you Opal! Hugs!!!
I cannot believe how rude people can be😢 so sorry that happened to you. My grandmother was blind and stayed home for many reasons that being one of them.
I think I’d be a 60 year old fan girl if I ever run into y’all! You know the saying, their actions say more about them than you. Go have a lovely dinner and forget the hateful people. Sending love and good vibes your way! ♥️
Some people are just cruel, lost empathy towards humanity. You are an incredible person for living your life and sharing your journey on social media. Giving inspiration to others that have handicaps and don’t think they can do things like your doing. It’s so sad how this world has changed. People like you still give us hope for a better tomorrow.
I really admire your ability to live your lives so deliberately, from how you wake up in the morning, taking time to make your special coffee, planning your day, going to see beautiful sites, creating your positive vibe gifts, and mining crystals for your shop, to sharing it all with us. I am going to try to stop rushing around barely noticing anything, but rather experience each moment. ❤️ from Louisiana ❤
Absolutely. Being human (and visibly disabled), I sometimes get incredibly frustrated with the sheer volume of ablest comments. 99% of the time, I hold my tongue. After all, I was taught that “if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” However, I’m starting to seriously reconsider that guidance. Maybe the uninformed/uncaring public needs an immediate reality check - the worst offenders, at least. 🤬
When I was younger, I was oblivious to what ppl with physical and or mntl disabilities go through until I worked at organizations like AbilityFirst (Camp Joan MIer) and Cerebral Palsy Associations of NY (Camp Jened) It really ex[amded my perspective on a particular population that is treated as second class citizens. I wish there were mandatory volunteer programs for youth, that exposes them to ppl they would otherwise not be familiar with. It was help solve young ppl not having a purpose other than video games or social media. It would also teach ppl at a young age to be more mindful and respectful of ppl with differences and show there are actually more similarities than differences. I wish there were a president or governor that would have something like this on their platform. Society would be better for it.
I love you guys. You’re so encouraging to a lot of people.! Yes people can be so cruel but just flip them off and know that we love you and that precious precious for baby Opal always so much fun. Makes me smile when you guys bring Opal along with you. I want an Opal!!!!!! ❤Have a beautiful wonderful day.
Oh no, really sorry to hear your day got spoilt by these toughtless, strange & rude people. I still often wonder why people have to be like that. Sending you love and hope your next trip will be double as nice!
Some people should use super glue instead of chapstick. You 3 rock, ignore those idiots. Too many stupid and ignorant people around these days. I love watching your videos. They are really enjoyable, and Opal is so cute.
Hi Nicollet, Brian and Opal, you should come to Colorado and visit Bishop's Castle. It's located in San Isael. It was built from the ground up by Jim Bishop. You're driving through the mountains, then all of a sudden, there is a castle. It's beautiful. Safe travels. Hug to all 🤗🤗🤗
Opal is really learning fast, glad Opal doesn't jump from the van very hard on the shoulders. We have a kid same size but long hair she wants to jump from everything. Sorry for the rude person Nicholette. Take care
Niektórzy ludzie są wredni , bezmyślni i podli . Empatia zanika . Rozumiem Cię , że po takim usłyszanym komentarzu od kogoś nieznanego odechciewa się wszystkiego ! Głowa do góry !
I'm also in a wheelchair. I'm 58 years old. I always think, when i hear these dumb commands, I'm soooooo glad i am just physical disabled, not mental instable like that lady. Virtual hugs for you. Luckely it didn't ruin your nice day❤ Bay Ingrid
sadly there will always be folks like that around, just do your best not to let them get you down, and enjoy your life knowing that they are just jel as hell of you enjoying yourselves
Some people hate themselves so they have to hate on others ... keep being you.. I love you guys.. My sister was in a bad accident when she was young and the vehicle didn't make it but her husband, son, and her did.. she was the worst of it all .. and she is in a wheelchair ... months of us praying and visiting the hospital not knowing if she would pull through it all.. and she went on to have a daughter which they said was impossible... and she is just an amazing person. Watching you guys just reminds me of how amazing love can be.. and to live each moment 💕💕💓💓
Opal says these steps are no hill for a stepper. My dad used to say that and then I went to work for a gentleman who would say the same thing about a tough job. As for the comments, much better to say y'all have a nice day out here. Some people don't know boundaries. God bless y'all. Love little Opal.
You know some people are just ugly inside and do not deserve space, also thankyou for showing us the battery that goes in back of wheelchair, I did ask the question and thankyou again, love your videos
Just some advice...you should draw your dog closer to you when passing people Some people don't want a dog going up to them. It is important to be respectful. We can't assume all people want to meet her. You are very sweet and kind. I love dogs but not all people do.
People need to learn to respect each other again, you be the beautiful queen you are and hold your head high because you are amazing inside out and those people are just miserable people that want to tear everyone else down to their level. Love watching your videos and miss opal is doing amazing with her training. Can’t wait for the next video. 😊
I am sorry people are so ignorant. I cannot believe how physically strong you are to be able to push yourself up that hill. There is an incredible castle in Northern New York called Boult Castle. It's in the Thousand Islands. Hope to see you someday.
Some people are deplorable! Know that is NOT acceptable or normal behavior. People like that are what is wrong with the world today. But, there is more good in the world so relish knowing most people have love and kindness in their hearts! Sending you both happiness and peace. 😊
Hi Guys. A very beautiful video. I'm so with you on the inconsiderate rudeness that some people show us when we're out and about in nature. It disappointing to say that I've experienced the very same thing here in the UK and honestly after so many episodes it's effected my self-esteem so much that I'm unable to venture out despite trying a number of times. I pray that the lady whom you were unlucky enough to encounter watches your message or that someone shows her. Anyway guys have safe onward travels. You're in my daily prayers always. Sending love and prayers from the UK 🇬🇧 God bless. 👏💜👍🙏🤗♿️ #ForeverPromotingPositiveDisabilityAwareness #Accessibility
If I was out and saw someone using a wheelchair to enjoy nature and explore, I'd think to myself, "how cool." 😎 I'd also probably say hello to them and their pup and comment "I think your off-road chair is rad, hope y'all enjoy your day". But that's just me. Are the cicadas bad where you guys are?
Exactly. Asking because you think the equipment is cool is fine. Asking because you want to know why the person is using the mobility aid is not. Let's not ask people to tell total strangers one of the most traumatic days of their life... or sometimes you're born with a disability and there's no "story" to share. I would have responded to that guy, "I use one?"
"What do you think, Ope?" Ha! That could be a branded tag line. I want a t-shirt with that. 8 D After this outing Nicholette's ready to take on Brian at arm-wrestling. There are ruins like that in my area - "The Patapsco Female Institute" - but the caretakers destroyed the delicate beauty of the old walls be erecting unnecessarily robust steel bracing - which they went on to paint a hideous shade of bright blue so to double-down on their mistake. Everyone groans when they see the ruins now. Such a wrong move - bad job - even seeming like deliberate sabotage! - turning a picturesque and evocative place into a terrible eyesore. Once I overheard a visitor say - "They scared all the ghosts away!" If this castle ever needs steel bracing - I hope the caretakers go about it tastefully - sensitively. I hope they come to historic Ellicott City, MD, and see how NOT to go about it! Surely a venture capitalist would immediately envision you two making a feature film. And Opal's ant obsession would be factored in. Her every important mission - interrupted by the sight of an ant! A hilarious running gag. 8 D I look forward to your every next video like the next episode of some favorite TV show. I mean - you two got that kind of media appeal. Soon - that same rude lady will want your autograph. "I loved your movie and my daughter loves your cartoon!" Next stop - iFly? And then on to Denali? 8 D
I can only imagine!! I had a physical therapist who was mostly blind and she constantly ran into issues with people not understanding her disability. I know what it’s like to have a disability everyone can see but having one no one can see can probably be even more annoying 🙄
Ive never seen a cool wheelchair like that one. I used to have to use the one with the control on the right arm. I really didnt get to go anywhere except grocery shopping and places that were accessible , which arent many places. People are so mean. And its mostly adults.
I'm so sorry that people treated you like that I am physically disabled and because people can't see it they judge me for it I don't understand what is going on with the world today people just do not care about each other like it used to be
I am too old to keep my mouth shut, and I would have told her she was very rude and should be ashamed of herself! I know in this day and age it’s not safe, but if I was there I would have said something!
Hello Nicolette and Brian. I think you are a great couple. and have a cute dog. and the lady Nicolette. who laughed with you. will get her Karma. it's a very nice video. I wish you lots of fun. and remain a fan of yours. Greetings from Erik from Belgium
As a fellow wheelchair warrior I have experienced this. So darn rude and makes me feel like crap when trying to enjoy things like a “normal” person but I think people need educated about it. X
Hi First time seeing your channel. Also still new to being in a wheelchair. also just dealing with my first rude comment about me and my chair. I don't know how you got up that hill. My arm ached just watching. hopefully one day it will get easier.
When my dog was a puppy she was obsessed with ants too and after they pinched on to her lip enough times and wouldn’t let go she learned to leave them alone. 😊Opal is growing up so fast! And people are so stupid and mean. Why would someone ask you “what is the deal with the wheelchair?” Ummm because the person can’t walk. Why wouldn’t he be able to figure that out? No one just uses a wheel chair for the heck of it. Why even say anything other than hi hope you’re enjoying the day.
That’s absurd that 2 people treated you disrespectfully. I was in a wheelchair a short time, and it was if I didn’t exist to people. Always getting run into. Rude!! ❤
New subscriber. People are horrible today not sure what has happened??? We don’t know why a person is in a wheelchair??? We definitely do not know what the disability is. It none of our business anyway. How about a warm smile or a beautiful how are you today??? Or how about an encouraging glad to see you out enjoying the day? Try to stay positive. My husband was born with cerebral palsy and he is amazing!!!!! Keep doing what you love.
I'm sorry that that happened, but I figured I'd give you a different way of looking at it that might help. It's possible that those people have an invisible disability that can make them socially awkward (like autism, for example) and maybe they really were just trying to reach out with what they felt was friendliness without meaning any harm. I've lived as an able-bodied person for most of my life and am now disabled and in a wheelchair. Interestingly, when I go out in public (doesn't matter where), I only ever get either of two reactions: Sometimes, I'm invisible, which is a super-power some people would love to have, so no complaints. Other times, people help me out uninvited, like by opening a door for me or reaching something down for me or moving something out of my way or pushing my chair or paying for my items in the checkout-line unasked and without telling me. Some of those are just plain nice, others are creepy, and I really, really, really don't like it when strangers put their hands on my chair. For all able-bodied people reading this, please consider our chairs as extensions of ourselves. If you wouldn't reach out and touch other strangers, please don't reach out and touch our chairs. Anyway, keep up the great exploration of the country. You're having a wonderful adventure together and it's very generous of you to share it with us.
There’s a lot of wisdom and empathy here. While I do feel that many of the people that make comments and do other crazy stuff are doing so having the opinion that disabled people are ‘less than”, or maybe even there just to be punching bags. For sure, though, there are others who genuinely want to help or just to make normal conversation but have no idea how,to do so in a respectful manner. One experience that seems to demonstrate the importance of perspective: a few years ago, I had just left the grocery store, had loaded my things in the car and was now dragging myself in. To me, it was just the 10,000th time I’ve done the same thing, and I don’t think I appeared to be in distress. So, I found it to be annoying, also as usual, that someone felt it was appropriate to interrupt me and ask if I needed help, following up by nearly demanding that they help me. disabled people will recognize this as something that happens all too frequently. What’s worse, is that on this particular day, it was sleeting out, I was getting thoroughly wet and a cold wind was blowing. it was kind of awful, and I just wanted to bring the rest of my chair into the car and get the heat turned on, the interloper would not leave the situation. Finally, although it is not my typical motive operation, I had to be stern with the person and tell them that I just didn’t have time to explain everything to them. “Pick another day to harass people!” Only after I calmed down a bit and warmed up, did I realize that that person was also in the freezing rain and blowing wind having less cover than I did, as I was already in the driver”s seat. Thus, a list or not, they felt it was important enough to lend helping hand that they were willing to stay at my side, taking the full brunt of that terrible weather. Once I had calmed down a bit and warmed up, I reflected of the situation and had a minor epiphany, gaining a bit of perspective on at least some of the people that_try_ to step in. I still find their actions annoying, as they make activities of daily living unnecessarily challenging. However, I was reminded that I need to maintain some empathy of my own - perhaps even encouraging those that are trying to do the right thing, rather then silently or openly criticizing their actions. Maybe, with a bit of education, some of those people could actually become real allies to others they encounter in the future. Also, +1 for considering neurodivergence. Cultural factor can also be in play. Some cultures are taught that it’s essential to help family and community - and that’s not exactly something we should rally against. In the end, these interactions can sometimes be more nuanced than they at first seem.
Yeah, the differences between us can cause an odd divide that's trickier for some folks to cross than for others. It's often easier for us, because we wear both hats, but they may only have experience with one. It's also possible that us being seen as "less than" by some folks may make us seem safer to approach than their peers, which may explain why, when Nicholette just wanted to enjoy her time outdoors with her little family just like anybody else, she was suddenly called upon to hop back into the active role of a disabled person by other folks. It may also make us seem like handy recipients for what others feel are acts of kindness even if we perceive them differently, as in your scenario in the storm that ended up with an unacceptable line being crossed by the stranger not accepting your initial "no" when it really should have been the natural end of the interaction. I like your thought about how to handle such situations in the future to help folks like that to become potential allies for others. I hadn't even considered cultural differences, but you're right that those can also play a role, with the potential for misunderstanding or misinterpretation. Then there's also the common parental strategy of teaching children not to look at people who are different or talk to people about their differences. Those kinds of teachings not only stifle children, but can stay with them through adulthood, which is a shame. I agree that these interactions can be more nuanced than they seem to be at first. It can't hurt for us to try to remember that there may be a whole lot going on inside of another person that we may not be aware of and that they may be equally unaware of a lot that's going on inside of us.
what a stupid comment from that woman. It would be different if you had said something like I wish I could go up to that area and she said If you want to go up that area I can help or something nice. Dont take it to heart there is a lot of people with no common sense.
Am I the only one who tried to see the transcripts for his beat boxing skills?! Sadly it didn’t get included. Sorry for the rude people! People are just ugh! I love your wheelchair! It’s the kewlest ride I’ve seen!
There’s a place where you can read the transcript that goes with your video. I was curious how they would put his beat boxing skills into actual words. They didn’t even bother trying! 😂 😂😂 😂
Adults should know better. When my children where young, there was a man who was missing an arm and they kept asking me what happened to his arm, I said I don't know but you can go ask him. I feel that is so much better than them staring and pointing, of course the guy I was dating was mortified I did that. Well, right up to the point the elderly man said he was glad I did that, the kids found out it was a farm accident and I found out his kids grew up with my mom. Small world.
I think it’s ridiculous. I have a scooter that I use sometimes because I can’t walk very far or for very long. That is just even worse than being rude.
Hi Kids, just droppin' in to say good night. I'm sorry you had to deal with the inconsiderate "observer" again. Is there any point in calling people like that out in the moment (like I hope you DO say something OUT LOUD when it happens!) something like you're very aware you have different abilities and that it doesn't make you feel better to hear such comments...and you would much prefer if people would observe how well you're handling life in spite of it all?....some remark to smack'em up alongside the head for their general rudeness? Ok, gotta try to get to bed earlier tonight - no bugs Op :) Nighty night and love to All3ofU! xo, b
Oh for Pete's sake guys ,please just try and ignore such Debby downers ,I respect you for even getting out in public 😊your baby is getting so big ,but the ears are bigger than her little head !! Lol best always guy and love always!!
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There are rock polishing competitions. Why not cleaning competitions? You'd win every year.
I think people have lost their humanity. I don’t understand why they can’t be kind?
Forgive them! They are blind! You guys rock!
We do forgive them ❤️ thank you!
The thing to do Nicholette when anyone laughs at your wheel chair is just run into him/her, exclaiming: “my wheel chair is uncontrollable!”😉.
I’m just kidding everyone! On the other hand… 😁
I❤️you Opal! Hugs!!!
Opal is now the star of your channel!!! So glad you have her.
I cannot believe how rude people can be😢 so sorry that happened to you. My grandmother was blind and stayed home for many reasons that being one of them.
People need to be more kind.
There is already so much going on in this world can’t we just be nice to each other
I think I’d be a 60 year old fan girl if I ever run into y’all! You know the saying, their actions say more about them than you. Go have a lovely dinner and forget the hateful people. Sending love and good vibes your way! ♥️
Some people are just cruel, lost empathy towards humanity. You are an incredible person for living your life and sharing your journey on social media. Giving inspiration to others that have handicaps and don’t think they can do things like your doing. It’s so sad how this world has changed. People like you still give us hope for a better tomorrow.
I am so sorry that people are so rude. I love watching your videos!!
I really admire your ability to live your lives so deliberately, from how you wake up in the morning, taking time to make your special coffee, planning your day, going to see beautiful sites, creating your positive vibe gifts, and mining crystals for your shop, to sharing it all with us. I am going to try to stop rushing around barely noticing anything, but rather experience each moment. ❤️ from Louisiana ❤
Do you all believe in karma? I do, I’ve seen it in action. Karma will come back at those stupid ignorant people
I often have people stare it me it’s awful
Absolutely. Being human (and visibly disabled), I sometimes get incredibly frustrated with the sheer volume of ablest comments. 99% of the time, I hold my tongue. After all, I was taught that “if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” However, I’m starting to seriously reconsider that guidance. Maybe the uninformed/uncaring public needs an immediate reality check - the worst offenders, at least. 🤬
When I was younger, I was oblivious to what ppl with physical and or mntl disabilities go through until I worked at organizations like AbilityFirst (Camp Joan MIer) and Cerebral Palsy Associations of NY (Camp Jened) It really ex[amded my perspective on a particular population that is treated as second class citizens. I wish there were mandatory volunteer programs for youth, that exposes them to ppl they would otherwise not be familiar with.
It was help solve young ppl not having a purpose other than video games or social media. It would also teach ppl at a young age to be more mindful and respectful of ppl with differences and show there are actually more similarities than differences. I wish there were a president or governor that would have something like this on their platform. Society would be better for it.
I love you guys. You’re so encouraging to a lot of people.! Yes people can be so cruel but just flip them off and know that we love you and that precious precious for baby Opal always so much fun. Makes me smile when you guys bring Opal along with you. I want an Opal!!!!!! ❤Have a beautiful wonderful day.
😂 love this
Oh no, really sorry to hear your day got spoilt by these toughtless, strange & rude people. I still often wonder why people have to be like that. Sending you love and hope your next trip will be double as nice!
There’s a beautiful castle in Colorado Springs, Colorado, called Glen Eyrie Castle, located near Garden of the Gods Park.
We will put this on our list ❤️
@@NicholetteBrian I like your videos! And I love Opal! ❤️🇺🇸🙏
Some people should use super glue instead of chapstick. You 3 rock, ignore those idiots. Too many stupid and ignorant people around these days. I love watching your videos. They are really enjoyable, and Opal is so cute.
THANK YOU BOTH SO MUCH ,, KISSES & HUG'S FOR MISS OPAL..
Hi Nicollet, Brian and Opal, you should come to Colorado and visit Bishop's Castle. It's located in San Isael. It was built from the ground up by Jim Bishop. You're driving through the mountains, then all of a sudden, there is a castle. It's beautiful. Safe travels. Hug to all 🤗🤗🤗
Opal is really learning fast, glad Opal doesn't jump from the van very hard on the shoulders. We have a kid same size but long hair she wants to jump from everything. Sorry for the rude person Nicholette. Take care
Sending love my friend ❤
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I loved your adventure. It is so refreshing to see you enjoy life. God bless you
I'm also in a wheelchair. I'm 58 years old. I always think, when i hear these dumb commands, I'm soooooo glad i am just physical disabled, not mental instable like that lady.
Virtual hugs for you. Luckely it didn't ruin your nice day❤
Bay Ingrid
Great point, loved this!!😂❤
sadly there will always be folks like that around, just do your best not to let them get you down, and enjoy your life knowing that they are just jel as hell of you enjoying yourselves
I don’t understand why people are so ignorant. They must have miserable lives to feel the need share their stupidity.
It's so sad. A serious lack of empathy.
I'm glad there are paths for everyone to enjoy nature!
You mean feel the need to make everyone they meet miserable !!!
Some people hate themselves so they have to hate on others ... keep being you.. I love you guys.. My sister was in a bad accident when she was young and the vehicle didn't make it but her husband, son, and her did.. she was the worst of it all .. and she is in a wheelchair ... months of us praying and visiting the hospital not knowing if she would pull through it all.. and she went on to have a daughter which they said was impossible... and she is just an amazing person. Watching you guys just reminds me of how amazing love can be.. and to live each moment 💕💕💓💓
Opal is so cute and yes people are ignorant and rude, you are both sweet!
Opal says these steps are no hill for a stepper. My dad used to say that and then I went to work for a gentleman who would say the same thing about a tough job.
As for the comments, much better to say y'all have a nice day out here. Some people don't know boundaries. God bless y'all. Love little Opal.
You know some people are just ugly inside and do not deserve space, also thankyou for showing us the battery that goes in back of wheelchair, I did ask the question and thankyou again, love your videos
Just ordered the Blue lotus and butterfly pea oil. Cannot wait. Be blessed you two and of course Opal.
We just saw! Thank you so much for the support and we will be shipping out orders over the weekend early next week 🫶🏼
blessings 😊 life is too short to worry about what people say enjoy your day, enjoy your life ,your blessed
Just some advice...you should draw your dog closer to you when passing people
Some people don't want a dog going up to them.
It is important to be respectful.
We can't assume all people want to meet her.
You are very sweet and kind.
I love dogs but not all people do.
People need to learn to respect each other again, you be the beautiful queen you are and hold your head high because you are amazing inside out and those people are just miserable people that want to tear everyone else down to their level. Love watching your videos and miss opal is doing amazing with her training. Can’t wait for the next video. 😊
You guys always find the most beautiful and interesting spots. Thanks so much for sharing ❤
I am sorry people are so ignorant.
I cannot believe how physically strong you are to be able to push yourself up that hill.
There is an incredible castle in Northern New York called Boult Castle. It's in the Thousand Islands.
Hope to see you someday.
I was taught you don't do that to people .I absolutely love Opal she is so smart.
What a beautiful area!
Some people are deplorable! Know that is NOT acceptable or normal behavior. People like that are what is wrong with the world today. But, there is more good in the world so relish knowing most people have love and kindness in their hearts! Sending you both happiness and peace. 😊
Such a lovely scenic video. You guys and Opal are awesome! 💛✌️
Hi Guys.
A very beautiful video.
I'm so with you on the inconsiderate rudeness that some people show us when we're out and about in nature. It disappointing to say that I've experienced the very same thing here in the UK and honestly after so many episodes it's effected my self-esteem so much that I'm unable to venture out despite trying a number of times. I pray that the lady whom you were unlucky enough to encounter watches your message or that someone shows her.
Anyway guys have safe onward travels. You're in my daily prayers always.
Sending love and prayers from the UK 🇬🇧 God bless.
👏💜👍🙏🤗♿️
#ForeverPromotingPositiveDisabilityAwareness
#Accessibility
As always, I enjoy your viedos,and of course love little Opal~
I totally get you I go to A camp in NJ that is all Disabilities and I have Disabilities too😀🥰
If I was out and saw someone using a wheelchair to enjoy nature and explore, I'd think to myself, "how cool." 😎
I'd also probably say hello to them and their pup and comment "I think your off-road chair is rad, hope y'all enjoy your day". But that's just me.
Are the cicadas bad where you guys are?
Exactly. Asking because you think the equipment is cool is fine. Asking because you want to know why the person is using the mobility aid is not. Let's not ask people to tell total strangers one of the most traumatic days of their life... or sometimes you're born with a disability and there's no "story" to share. I would have responded to that guy, "I use one?"
Wow!! I can't believe some people
Poor ant! They work so hard to live. Opal is cute!
Ive never been good going up or down the stairs i always fall so I just don't use stairs
Sorry people are so rude! Thank you for sharing the reality of being in nature in a wheelchair. Enjoy despite the dumbdumbs!❤
"What do you think, Ope?" Ha! That could be a branded tag line. I want a t-shirt with that. 8 D
After this outing Nicholette's ready to take on Brian at arm-wrestling.
There are ruins like that in my area - "The Patapsco Female Institute" - but the caretakers destroyed the delicate beauty of the old walls be erecting unnecessarily robust steel bracing - which they went on to paint a hideous shade of bright blue so to double-down on their mistake. Everyone groans when they see the ruins now. Such a wrong move - bad job - even seeming like deliberate sabotage! - turning a picturesque and evocative place into a terrible eyesore. Once I overheard a visitor say - "They scared all the ghosts away!" If this castle ever needs steel bracing - I hope the caretakers go about it tastefully - sensitively. I hope they come to historic Ellicott City, MD, and see how NOT to go about it!
Surely a venture capitalist would immediately envision you two making a feature film. And Opal's ant obsession would be factored in. Her every important mission - interrupted by the sight of an ant! A hilarious running gag. 8 D
I look forward to your every next video like the next episode of some favorite TV show. I mean - you two got that kind of media appeal. Soon - that same rude lady will want your autograph. "I loved your movie and my daughter loves your cartoon!"
Next stop - iFly? And then on to Denali? 8 D
I used to live in mid Missouri. Ha Ha Tonka is really interesting.
Ok. Rude. I am sorry that that happened to you. You are so great! And i love your videos.
Deaf/hard of hearing people deal with so many ignorant people that I no longer even see them. Then they get upset when I don’t respond to them. 🙄
I can only imagine!! I had a physical therapist who was mostly blind and she constantly ran into issues with people not understanding her disability. I know what it’s like to have a disability everyone can see but having one no one can see can probably be even more annoying 🙄
Ive never seen a cool wheelchair like that one. I used to have to use the one with the control on the right arm. I really didnt get to go anywhere except grocery shopping and places that were accessible , which arent many places. People are so mean. And its mostly adults.
She's so cute😊
I'm so sorry that people treated you like that I am physically disabled and because people can't see it they judge me for it I don't understand what is going on with the world today people just do not care about each other like it used to be
I am too old to keep my mouth shut, and I would have told her she was very rude and should be ashamed of herself!
I know in this day and age it’s not safe, but if I was there I would have said something!
Good on you. I wish I were bold enough to tell the ignorant ablists just what they *need* to hear.
Hello Nicolette and Brian. I think you are a great couple. and have a cute dog. and the lady Nicolette. who laughed with you. will get her Karma. it's a very nice video. I wish you lots of fun. and remain a fan of yours. Greetings from Erik from Belgium
As a fellow wheelchair warrior I have experienced this. So darn rude and makes me feel like crap when trying to enjoy things like a “normal” person but I think people need educated about it. X
People can be so rude and have no awareness of what they say. Don't let these people win by letting it affect you. 🙂
There’s her castle in San Luis Obispo in California There’s Scotty’s Castle in Death Valley.
I want that wheelchair!!! People can be idiots I know I deal with that too!!!
❤folks can be so cruel. I don't see what they get out of it. ❤
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Hi First time seeing your channel. Also still new to being in a wheelchair. also just dealing with my first rude comment about me and my chair. I don't know how you got up that hill. My arm ached just watching. hopefully one day it will get easier.
When my dog was a puppy she was obsessed with ants too and after they pinched on to her lip enough times and wouldn’t let go she learned to leave them alone. 😊Opal is growing up so fast! And people are so stupid and mean. Why would someone ask you “what is the deal with the wheelchair?” Ummm because the person can’t walk. Why wouldn’t he be able to figure that out? No one just uses a wheel chair for the heck of it. Why even say anything other than hi hope you’re enjoying the day.
Please identify your location, park, state. Your site w baby Opal are so enjoyable & interesting. So happy I found you. God Bless you Forever.
That’s absurd that 2 people treated you disrespectfully. I was in a wheelchair a short time, and it was if I didn’t exist to people. Always getting run into. Rude!! ❤
Why would someone say something like that? Unbelievable.
New subscriber. People are horrible today not sure what has happened??? We don’t know why a person is in a wheelchair??? We definitely do not know what the disability is. It none of our business anyway. How about a warm smile or a beautiful how are you today??? Or how about an encouraging glad to see you out enjoying the day? Try to stay positive. My husband was born with cerebral palsy and he is amazing!!!!! Keep doing what you love.
I think your power chair is hip and very cool for what its worth! ❤
I'm sorry that that happened, but I figured I'd give you a different way of looking at it that might help. It's possible that those people have an invisible disability that can make them socially awkward (like autism, for example) and maybe they really were just trying to reach out with what they felt was friendliness without meaning any harm.
I've lived as an able-bodied person for most of my life and am now disabled and in a wheelchair. Interestingly, when I go out in public (doesn't matter where), I only ever get either of two reactions:
Sometimes, I'm invisible, which is a super-power some people would love to have, so no complaints. Other times, people help me out uninvited, like by opening a door for me or reaching something down for me or moving something out of my way or pushing my chair or paying for my items in the checkout-line unasked and without telling me. Some of those are just plain nice, others are creepy, and I really, really, really don't like it when strangers put their hands on my chair.
For all able-bodied people reading this, please consider our chairs as extensions of ourselves. If you wouldn't reach out and touch other strangers, please don't reach out and touch our chairs.
Anyway, keep up the great exploration of the country. You're having a wonderful adventure together and it's very generous of you to share it with us.
There’s a lot of wisdom and empathy here. While I do feel that many of the people that make comments and do other crazy stuff are doing so having the opinion that disabled people are ‘less than”, or maybe even there just to be punching bags. For sure, though, there are others who genuinely want to help or just to make normal conversation but have no idea how,to do so in a respectful manner.
One experience that seems to demonstrate the importance of perspective: a few years ago, I had just left the grocery store, had loaded my things in the car and was now dragging myself in. To me, it was just the 10,000th time I’ve done the same thing, and I don’t think I appeared to be in distress. So, I found it to be annoying, also as usual, that someone felt it was appropriate to interrupt me and ask if I needed help, following up by nearly demanding that they help me. disabled people will recognize this as something that happens all too frequently.
What’s worse, is that on this particular day, it was sleeting out, I was getting thoroughly wet and a cold wind was blowing. it was kind of awful, and I just wanted to bring the rest of my chair into the car and get the heat turned on, the interloper would not leave the situation. Finally, although it is not my typical motive operation, I had to be stern with the person and tell them that I just didn’t have time to explain everything to them. “Pick another day to harass people!”
Only after I calmed down a bit and warmed up, did I realize that that person was also in the freezing rain and blowing wind having less cover than I did, as I was already in the driver”s seat. Thus, a list or not, they felt it was important enough to lend helping hand that they were willing to stay at my side, taking the full brunt of that terrible weather.
Once I had calmed down a bit and warmed up, I reflected of the situation and had a minor epiphany, gaining a bit of perspective on at least some of the people that_try_ to step in. I still find their actions annoying, as they make activities of daily living unnecessarily challenging. However, I was reminded that I need to maintain some empathy of my own - perhaps even encouraging those that are trying to do the right thing, rather then silently or openly criticizing their actions. Maybe, with a bit of education, some of those people could actually become real allies to others they encounter in the future.
Also, +1 for considering neurodivergence. Cultural factor can also be in play. Some cultures are taught that it’s essential to help family and community - and that’s not exactly something we should rally against. In the end, these interactions can sometimes be more nuanced than they at first seem.
Yeah, the differences between us can cause an odd divide that's trickier for some folks to cross than for others. It's often easier for us, because we wear both hats, but they may only have experience with one.
It's also possible that us being seen as "less than" by some folks may make us seem safer to approach than their peers, which may explain why, when Nicholette just wanted to enjoy her time outdoors with her little family just like anybody else, she was suddenly called upon to hop back into the active role of a disabled person by other folks.
It may also make us seem like handy recipients for what others feel are acts of kindness even if we perceive them differently, as in your scenario in the storm that ended up with an unacceptable line being crossed by the stranger not accepting your initial "no" when it really should have been the natural end of the interaction. I like your thought about how to handle such situations in the future to help folks like that to become potential allies for others.
I hadn't even considered cultural differences, but you're right that those can also play a role, with the potential for misunderstanding or misinterpretation. Then there's also the common parental strategy of teaching children not to look at people who are different or talk to people about their differences. Those kinds of teachings not only stifle children, but can stay with them through adulthood, which is a shame.
I agree that these interactions can be more nuanced than they seem to be at first. It can't hurt for us to try to remember that there may be a whole lot going on inside of another person that we may not be aware of and that they may be equally unaware of a lot that's going on inside of us.
what a stupid comment from that woman. It would be different if you had said something like I wish I could go up to that area and she said If you want to go up that area I can help or something nice. Dont take it to heart there is a lot of people with no common sense.
Respect !🙏🇺🇸
That’s is just so horrible..People are so bad these days..
Am I the only one who tried to see the transcripts for his beat boxing skills?! Sadly it didn’t get included. Sorry for the rude people! People are just ugh! I love your wheelchair! It’s the kewlest ride I’ve seen!
Do you mean captions? We will add them soon sorry we forgot to look them over and accept them for this video!
There’s a place where you can read the transcript that goes with your video. I was curious how they would put his beat boxing skills into actual words. They didn’t even bother trying! 😂 😂😂 😂
You really can't tell people what to say LoL. How you take it is up to you.
People suck 😢 it's hard 👩🦼👩🦽 ❤❤ to you, Nicholette. It's like there's no in-between. Hope the following days were better 😊
Where were you? love you three so sorry about that rude person!
I used to live close to this place and have been here many times, It's called ha ha Tonka in Camdenton Missouri, near Lake Ozark Mo.
pretty place you really work hard going up hill .
Adults should know better. When my children where young, there was a man who was missing an arm and they kept asking me what happened to his arm, I said I don't know but you can go ask him. I feel that is so much better than them staring and pointing, of course the guy I was dating was mortified I did that. Well, right up to the point the elderly man said he was glad I did that, the kids found out it was a farm accident and I found out his kids grew up with my mom. Small world.
Horrible people not all are like her ignorant 😡love you both opal is so sweet ❤
How’d she do with the cicadas
I know two wrongs don’t make a right, but I feel like people like that should have their face put all over social media for being unkind.
I think it’s ridiculous. I have a scooter that I use sometimes because I can’t walk very far or for very long. That is just even worse than being rude.
Hi Kids, just droppin' in to say good night. I'm sorry you had to deal with the inconsiderate "observer" again. Is there any point in calling people like that out in the moment (like I hope you DO say something OUT LOUD when it happens!) something like you're very aware you have different abilities and that it doesn't make you feel better to hear such comments...and you would much prefer if people would observe how well you're handling life in spite of it all?....some remark to smack'em up alongside the head for their general rudeness? Ok, gotta try to get to bed earlier tonight - no bugs Op :) Nighty night and love to All3ofU! xo, b
Some people are morons no matter where they are 😮
People are rude these days. 30 years ago they were nicer. Yall are young but you would have enjoyed those days.
Some people need to know when to keep their big mouth shut !!
Nicole should use some kind of gloves when rolling because she's touching everything she rolled over
Oh for Pete's sake guys ,please just try and ignore such Debby downers ,I respect you for even getting out in public 😊your baby is getting so big ,but the ears are bigger than her little head !! Lol best always guy and love always!!
Have you had anybody walk up on you real fast and tailgate you?