"A time after Life" (A poem inspired by Ben&Ben's "Lifetime") -Mr.Labo Is there still a time after life ? When I still have another chance . To ask for another last dance just to be frozen again in stance with only a glimpse of an instance of your alluring magical glance . Is there still a time after life ? When we can fly again to the clouds above whilst listening to sound of " On the wings of love " . But this time we wouldn't fly near the sun because now we know that our wings will burn. This time we wouldn't fly too low over the oceans because now we know we'll drown when its tides turn. If we only can fly again together until all the feathers in our wings wither. I promise I won't stop us from falling in love with each other. But what if all our " ifs " suddenly disappears together with all of our fears ? I wonder what could've happen ? What could've change ? If I only had enough courage to say the words I should've said. If only I had enough courage to take back the words I should've not said. If I just completed the sentence " I won't love you even after the world ends ". If I just didn't left you feeling dense and tense because what I really intend was, "I won't love you even after the world ends because I will still love you even after the day the world ends ". But there's no use to reminisce It's futile to play-pretend. Meeting you almost felt like a dream , a real fairytale but now we're living in our own nightmares. Now we're both crying in pain still cursed to be separated by the Earth and Heavenly plains. Now that I'm buried together with all of my secrets. Buried with all of my love unsaid. But now at least I can say that I will still love you even after the day my life ends. I wish you all the best that life could give and I hope you can forgive me but not forget that even in the afterlife I will still wait. Lesson: Life is short. Make everything worthwhile. Hearts are often broken when someone keeps being silent and left true feelings unspoken. Carpe diem 💙
Hi sir. I was amazed by this song ❤ isa po to sa mga paborito kong song niyo. I would just like to share po yung PIANO COVER ko po ng LIFETIME, if you have time po nasa channel ko po yun, I'm a PWD KEYBOARDIST po, sana po mapansin niyo 😊❤ solid po! ❤
Hello po! i just want to share my story and makahingi nadin ng advise. Year 2018 ng ligawan nya ko. Di ko muna sya sinagot kahit gustong gusto ko na sya sagutin kasi busy ako sa pagrereview para sa let march 2019. Nangako rin kasi ako sa sarili ko na need ko muna pumasa sa let bago ko sya sagutin. 3 weeks before board exam minessg nya ko na di nya daw talaga ko mahal, kaya lang daw nya ko niligawan dahil nung mga panahon na yun ay mahal nya pa daw gf nya. That night di ko sya nireplyan, oo nasaktan ako pero di ko lang inintindi sarili ko that time dahil kinabukasan preboard exam namin sa isang kilalang review center. Tuloy parin ang buhay ko sa pagrereview, ni hindi man lang ako nag ka chance umiyak nung mga panahon nayun. March 24 2019 Big Day kung tawagin natin, tinext nya ko para igoodluck ako sa exam ko then i replied thankyou Kuya! after nun di na sya nag reply. After ng exam umiyak nako ng umiyak kasi feeling ko that time palang ako nakalaya. di ko alam kung siya ba ang dahilan ng pag iyak ko o ang prof ed. March 26 2019minessg ako ng mutual friend namin, binalita sakin na nabuntis daw pala ni kuya yung ex gf nya kaya daw di na tinuloy panliligaw sakin. Wala nanaman akong ginawa kundi umiyak ng umiyak. yun pala ang dahilan hindi nya pa nagawang sabihin sakin ang totoo. May 25 2019 lumabas ang resulta, binati nyakko. nalaman nya sa mutual friend namin na pumasa ako sa let. Simula nun nabalik yung communication natin, nabalik sa dati yung pagkakaibigan namin. hangang isang araw minessg nya ko na gust nya ulit ako ligawan. umoo lang daw ako iuurong nya daw yung kasal nya sa gf nya. i said no, kahit gustong gusto ko uyng ideya na yun dahil hangang ngayon ay mahal na mahal ko parin sya. kaso naisip ko yung bata ayoko naman lumaki yung bata ng walang ama. Kagabi may 26 2020 nagkausap ulit kami. kasal na pala sila. ito nanaman sya gusto nya ulit ako ligawan, hindi nya daw talaga mahal ying asawa nya. napilitan lang daw sya magpakasal dahil nga daw nabuntis nya yung asawa nya. at sa anak nya daw susustentohan nya daw ito tuwing week end daw kunknin nya yung bata para makapag bonding sila. ano gagawin ko maam/sir gustong gusto ko na din po sya balikan. pa advice naman po. Salamat po inadvance
Its really such an honor to be a part of the inspirations of ben&ben in writing this song. Thank you so much, really, ben&ben for filling my heart with happiness 🥺 Thank you for being one of the main reasons why I still think the world is a beautiful place after all I experienced. It's funny how ben&ben songs are somehow a paradox-listening to their song would break your heart but also console you at the same time. It's like the exact definition of pain with pleasure, haha. But I really want to say that maybe, this is a way to show us that we may not get everything we want, but surely, there's something best that's waiting for us. I maybe broken but hey, at least i got some ben&ben song right? We should be thankful for everything that we have now and we are blessed in different ways. I may not have the love i deserve yet, but while waiting, I can do a lot of things that would make me happy. I dont want to be loved by him in the next lifetime (sa susunod na habang buhay), I want someone to find me, who will love me in my lifetime, who will love me in this lifetime. Let's support ben&ben cause admit it, these songs are heartbreaking yet soothing at the same time. This is not just for people who are healing, for all of us, we won't really get everything that we want-even if it's the one you want the most-but something out there is meant for us, because that's what we deserve, to be happy and blessed. Lots of love, guys! Praying for everyone's safety. Thank you, really, for those who followed me in wattpad, you made me really so happy. I also read tweets, especially tweets with 'Anne Jou' and it really made me happy and laugh a lot because of some memes. Stay safe everyone and I guess this is the end, haha. Cheers to more ben&ben songs! God bless as all. P.S. I know this is too much too ask but I hope you'll notice po my dm in Twitter. I wanted to thank you personally and to share something I haven't shared to anyone yet. Love lots Ben&Ben. 'Til your next song. P. P. S this is the only comment I have here hehe.
This story isn’t mine but my grandmother’s. She was a nun all her life, serving God for decades. She’s 74 now and unluckily, she can’t walk anymore. She’s getting weaker and weaker every day. One time, I asked her, “La, nainlove na po ba kayo?” She stared at me for a second and took a deep breath. Her expression looks like she’s reminiscing the old times. “Oo naman apo.” sagot niya. "I was madly inlove back then... with a priest.” What she said took my heart out of my chest. “Seminaryo pa siya non. We always talked and shared thoughts about God and His goodness. I was happy with him. In fact, more than what I can imagine. But I know it wasn’t right kaya tinago ko nalang. I took one step away from him para hindi mas lumalim ang nararamdaman ko. Years have passed, we were both reconciled dahil nadistilo siya sa simbahan kung saan nandon din ako. The closeness we had before came back in just a snap of a finger. At doon ko nalamang gusto niya din pala ako. We were both in love, yet the fate gets between us. Mali naman talaga in the first place. Pari siya, madre ako. Hindi lang isang tao ang niloloko namin, kundi ang Panginoon mismo. He said he would left all that he has for me, for us. Pero umayaw ako, dahil hindi tama ang aming pinagagagawa. Sa tingin ko ganon talaga ang tadhana apo. We loved each other but the lifetime we had isn’t the right one for us. Maybe in another life, we could be. I hope so. ” And a tear in her eyes fell down like a piece of sadness she kept for a long time. That was the last time I saw her cried. She died an hour after we talked.
Fun fact: This song was based off of the most liked comment in “Pagtingin”. It was the story of a lady who never dared to tell her feelings to her bestfriend because she was anxious of losing what they had. Years passed, the girl was invited to the guy’s wedding. To her surprise, the guy confessed that he also had feelings for her back then, but had a similar anxiety of losing their friendship. She suffers as she imagines a world were they could’ve spent a lifetime together as lovers. Imagine having a Ben&Ben song dedicated to you
Yes it is. I'm a boy, and he's a boy too. This was the first time I had crush on another boy, he was just unique. I've hid these secret emotions from him. And considering how insecure and anxious I always am, I don't think I'll be able to share these emotions to him. Now I have a girlfriend, and we've been together for a year now.
Indeed. I and my bestfriend had loved each other secretly for almost 3 years. We had to keep it as a secret because there were a lot of factors that we need to consider including how strict my parents was. Yes, it was awesome having someone that can be your companion, family and lover but as typical couples do-conflicts occurs too. Today, I and him broke up due to personal issues, kapag lalo lang namin pinilit ang mga sarili namin mas lalo lang kaming masasaktan. Good thing we ended up in a best way that we can na walang grudges sa isa't-isa. To you, I am rooting for your happiness and in the next lifetime... We can always plant a new seedling to foster and in that epoch, I promise to be braver enough for us.
I- this comment 🥺😔 either if this was a case noh, ang sakit talaga. if two ppl were actuallu listening to this and thinking about each other, it’s like they’re so near yet so far. And if only one person, it sucks to be alone in this cause it seems like you’re the only one who is unable to move on
This comment section made me realize that loving someone secretly without expecting them to love us in return is one of the genuine things u could ever done. Ang dami pala nating umaasa,nasasaktan,iniwan,sinukuan at tinalikuran. Sana lahat ng taong nasasaktan ngayong mga oras na to sana dumating na yung oras na maging masaya tayo. Hindi sa ibang tao kundi sa sarili natin mismo. For myself who's still waiting for him to comeback. I'm now signing off
Hi. Just want you to know that you are not alone feeling this way. I'm waiting for 2 years for him to comeback. And I have no regrets because I love him and I can wait until the time that I have no feelings for him anymore.
I hate the fact that I might be thinking about this certain person, but he's thinking of someone else. Great job at breaking my heart again, Ben&Ben. God bless! ♡
"Was is the wrong time? What if we tried? giving in a little more." *for students who failed PUPCET, UPCAT, etc. We tried, but it wasn't our fate. Keep going and be positive! Cheer up!!
Last year, Ben & Ben announced that they will make a music base on the comment on “Pagtingin” MV. That time, I used to talk to my 7 years crush everyday so I told him about this song na ilalabas ng Ben & Ben sooner or later. Then yeah, nailabas na ‘yung song and I let him listen to it kase ‘yung totoo e nag paparinig lang naman ako sa kaniya. He was my crush since I was only in elementary, we’re both church choirs. 2017 was the time I confessed that I like him but he said it’s too early, and he loves me as his “ading” because he’s 2 years older than me. Then last week (May 24, 2021) I invited him dito sa bahay ko together with his friend na friend ko rin. We ate lunch together habang nag papatugtog. Then ayon, tumugtog ‘yung Lifetime. “Naalala mo ‘yung ka-fling ko dati? Siya naaalala ko dyan. Pinakanta pa ‘ko ay” I don’t know what to feel but I only smiled at him and saying “ay weh? sana all” sa isip ko, puro “ako ‘yung nag introduce ng kanta sa’yo, ikaw din ‘yung pinaparinggan ko sa kanta na ‘yan, tapos iba lang pala ‘yung maaalala mo dyan.” I even told him na ako nag introduce sa kanta na ‘to before and after irelease. :(
There was a guy and a girl who were inseparable during their high school years. Everyone around them thought they were in a relationship but to them, they were just best friends. The things is, the guy had feelings for her and so did she. The guy just assumed na may something sila while the girl was waiting for a confession of some sort. Until their last year in hs, may ibang nag confess kay girl and she turned him down. The 'best friend' saw them talking and once again assumed na there was something between the two. From that moment on, lumayo si guy kay girl hanggang grumaduate sila from hs. The girl never got an explanation as to why the guy never spoke to her again. She was heartbroken but she moved on, had a family of her own but still wondered from time to time kung nasan na si guy. Fast forward to their 50s.The girl was now a widow and was finally convinced to attend a hs reunion bc 'someone' na nagka crush sa kanya nung hs already paid for her fee. She went without expecting anything. But they saw each other sa reunion and reconnected right away. Doon nya lang nalaman yung reasons kung bakit lumayo si guy. Doon nya din nalaman na babalikan sana sya ng guy kaso she was already engaged. But I guess if it's meant to be, the right time will always come. That's the story of my mom and her current boyfriend.
You don’t know love until you’ve had to put your happiness aside and prioritize someone else, until you’ve had to sit there and watch them with someone else and tell them you’re happy for them, until you’ve had let someone go because it’s the best thing for them even when it’s not you.
"I'd spend a lifetime waiting in vain just to go back where we were before" It's always been you. I keep on coming back to you. Although time may never bring it back, I will always be here patiently waiting. How I wish na kasabay kita para salubungin tong bagong kanta ng Ben&Ben. Just maybe in the right time, I could finally call you mine. Then if not, I would always be wishing you the best :>
Pero sometimes caring too much is the better choice. Kahit hindi siya magtatagal, at least alam mong binigay mo ang lahat, walang chance na masisisi mo sarili mo na ikaw ang dahilan bat ka iniwan. Besides, let's not regret anything that once made us happy. Kung sumaya tayo sa mga panahong yon, ayon nalang itatak natin sa puso natin. Masakit isipin yung mga sakit. :>
"It wasn’t the red lights, nor the timing that was bad, but the countless times I hesitated” - Jung Hwan(Reply 1988) , sorry ang duwag ko noon di ko man lang triny hahahahaha sobra akong nagsisisi ngayon pero all goods na basta lagi kang maging masayaaaaa, sobrang thank you kasi naging part ka kahit saglit ng buhay ko hehe.
“You WERE a good dream.” Good dream nga ba talaga? Or a person worth letting go? I guess, 10 years is enough para masabi ko sa sarili ko na enough is enough. She's already happy with someone else and here I am stuck at the thought that one day she'll come running back to me with her realization that she's finally ready to spend a LIFETIME with me. She will always be my TOTGA and my The One. Thanks for the memories Robin Scherbatsky.
My wife loves this band. Then 2 days ago, habang nagluluto kaming dalawa, pinarinig niya sa akin tong kanta...tapos biglang sabi sa akin na laking pasalamat daw niya kasi naglakas loob ako na magtapat sa kanya. Sabi ko buti na lang binigyan ako ng sign ni God(Falling stars) kasi sobrang pinagdasal ko yun bago ko ginawa. Basang basa pa nga ng pawis yung damit ko habang nagcoconfess ako ng feelings ko sa kanya sa sobrang kaba ko. Mahirap maglakas loob na umamin sa pinakamatalik mong kaibigan ng nararamdaman kasi unang una mong maiisip na baka Hindi mag work out or may magbago, pero wala e. Alam ko na sa sarili ko na mahal ko talaga siya...It took me 3 years bago ko siya napasagot and now here we are, after 15 years, still loving each other. So yes, there is a lifetime for us... Kaya to all guys out there, if you really believe na siya na talaga, why not take the chance. Mahirap mabuhay sa what if's. Sayang lalo na kung may chance pala pero natakot kayong subukan.
He passed away yesterday. I loved him for more than 10 years. And at some point, I know he loved me too. Our timelines just never matched. So we settled as friends. At least, we would still be in each others lives. Pero pati pala yon, hindi din pwede no? Because yesterday, it all ended. Galingan naman natin next lifetime oh. Kasi wala na talagang chance this time. Lagi kitang ipagdadasal.
“tangled with another’s eyes never mind, you were never mine” THIS SHOULD HAVE BEEN RELEASED EARLIER WHEN WE HAD PROM SO THAT I COULD SAY THIS TO MY CRUSH WHILE DANCING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CROWD. I WASN’T HER’S BUT SHE WAS MINE FOR 3 YEARS IN MY DREAM.
“What if we tried giving in a little more, to the warmth we had before.” That line really strikes me so bad because I remember the time that I confess my feelings to the guy I really like and he said to me that he wasn’t ready yet to have feelings. He was my guardian angel that time like he was my superhero kasi whenever I feel alone, he always remind me that “You never walk alone in this darkness because I am here still to guide you with the little light that I’ve got”. That night, he save me from all the anxiety and depression that I have. Things started to go deeper , then one day I told him na “Iñigo, I know nakakagulat ito but gusto ko nalang ikeep yung friendship nating dalawa, so maybe friends is better than relationship right?” Then nagulat siya and he ask me “why” . “Secrets became regrets” At that point I know that he already have feelings to me that he kept on hiding. I kept on saying sorry because I know I told myself na “God, please I know things are getting tangled but I want him to be my last” but alam ko na naparating ko na yun Kay God. Maybe we are not destined to became lover but instead a friend and an angel who will got each other’s back covered. Until now we are still friends but I know somewhere in me that he would always have a piece of my heart that I couldn’t take back. Iñigo, I know you can’t see this but thank you for being there especially for the warmth that I felt whenever I am covered with my coldness. You really mean a lot to me. I know it is still hard for us pero I know na kaya natin yun labanan kasi TINURUAN mo ako maging mas wise and stronger despite of the problems I’ve got. Thank you for being my little light and my guide to my own dark maze. Now, I know you are one of the reason of why I love myself so much, Thank you for all the lesson, love , kindness and genuine care that you give to me. I hope one day, I may not be the girl na makikita at makakasama mo infront of the altar, I will still be happy for you because you deserve to be loved as genuine as you are. I am still praying for you so keep on fighting. I love you but maybe in a parallel universe, you and I are together. I will always remember the first day we talked to each other.
Sasabihin ko sana subukan niyo baka maging kayo. Pero naiintindihan ko na mas mahirap if naging kayo tapos di nag work out. Wala akong masabi, ate huhu. Stay strong puuu
My boyfriend and his ex broke up 7 years ago. Akala ko sobrang okay kami ng boyfriend ko na ako na talaga then one day, nakita kong magkachat pa pala sila nung ex niya at parang may something pa sa kanila. Yung parang lyrics sa kanta na "buried feelings grow". Tipong they want each other pa pero dahil may ako, hindi nila magawa. This song became their song. Lifetime yung name nila sa convo nila. Kaya kahit gaano ko kamahal ang ben&ben, hindi ko lang talaga kaya pakinggan yung kantang ito.
No matter how hard, girl please just pull yourself in that relationship. Let them be happy. Di mo deserve yan, you deserve better, yung tipong ikaw lang ang pipiliin sa araw-aray, sa habang buhay o sa susunod pang habang buhay. Pero ikaw parin yung magdedesisyon, kase di ko naman alam yung nararamdaman mo, so ikaw yung mas nakakaalam ng gagawin mo
Mark Angelo Bartolome sobrang idol niya siguro si ben&ben kasi sinasabi niya yan sakin e ako lang sa “araw araw” pero may kalifetime na pala sa iba. Awts
What ifs that will never be answered again. What ifs that will die with us when we do. What ifs that will be buried with us as we are. Hay I feel you 😊
somehow, this is almost connected to their song "Doors." secrets turn into regrets, buried feelings grow. That's why we should open up our secret doors, since overtime these feelings will only get worse. Time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies, right? You will never know what can happen without opening up, and taking the risk.
“I was scared to lose you then” -that’s why I’ve tried to hide my feelings for you for almost two years. “But secrets turn into regrets” -when I finally got the chance to confess, I confessed, then you said you are grateful to have someone like me and then later on- I lost you because... “Tangled with another’s eyes. Nevermind, you were never mine” -you loved someone else and I can still remember when you said “I have no rights ‘cause you were never mine” “Was there a lifetime waiting for us in a world where I was yours?” -because it’s been a year since I told you my feelings, you already have another but I am still here, still into you.
"Secrets turn to regrets" "Never mind you were never mine" There was never an "us" to begin with, so i don't know how and why i got attached so much to you. Its been have a year since everything ended between us without a single word but..... To this day i still have regrets. In the 2 years we were together, even though it wasn't official, it was fun, but i know i hurt you so much during that time. Also during that time, a part of me was broken that can never be restored again, but i don't blame you for it. Hey people in love are dumb, we can't do anything about it. But ever since "it" ended without a single word from each of us. I've had this feeling i've always kept a secret. It's been 6 months and it's still here, the guilt. When i saw how happy you were with him, how painful it was for you when you lost him. I wondered, what if i never met you? What if the day i confessed, i never did? What if i never met you? Would the two of you have been together forever? Could the two of you have been happier? Could all the things that we lost, never have dissapeared in the first place? My secret is, i wish i've never met you, so that i never ruined your life, so that you wouldn't have to suffer. If you've never met me, i'm sure you'd be happier now
I met someone na sobrang love ang ben & ben. last night, tinapos namin kung anong meron kami. then napakinggan ko tong song na to ngayon. though gusto ko na tong song na to before pa, pero mas iba pala pag napakinggan mo ulit na ramdam na ramadam mo na yung kanta
my ex and i had a shared love for you, guys. he confessed his feelings for me during a ben & ben concert. we parted ways exactly 2 months ago today. thank you for this song! this brings back so much memories 🥺😭💛💙
I really loved the song and I can't help thinking how it would sound like if sang in Tagalog?? Please? ❤️❤️❤️ Tried to roughly translate it: May habangbuhay bang naghihintay Sa mundong ako’y iyo Eroplanong papel at seramiko Ang alimuom mula sa bintana At ang pagmamasid sayo O, kay gandang panaginip to Ang mawala ka’y aking kinatatakutan Lihim na ito’y pinaghihinayangan Nakabaong pagtingi’y lumalago O, kay gandang panaginip to May habangbuhay bang naghihintay Sa mundong ako’y iyo Sa maling pagkakataon, ba’t hindi subukan Magpaubaya nang saglit sa alab at init Naliligaw sa mata ng iba Di bale, di ka nga pala akin Sa isang sulyap ng ikaw at ako O, kay gandang panaginip to Habangbuhay maghihintay Maibalik lang ang kahapon Mali ba ang pagkakataon, ba’t hindi subukan Magpaubaya muli nang saglit Sa dating alab at init May habangbuhay bang naghihintay sa atin? ako’y iyo, bawat sandali
"All this time i have been yours" "Never mind you were never mine" hurts like hell,falling for someone you knew you'd never have.. so if you like someone, confess...because the more you hide your feelings, the deeper it gets... and, there's no perfect timing, try to confess your feelings, how will you know if she/he likes you too, if you won't try.. don't be scared of getting rejected or hurt, at least you tried right? "oh you were a good dream" idk but that hurts freakin' much... you were a good dream, a good dream that i know i can't chase nor reach.. a good dream that will never be mine..
This could have been my life story if I didn't had the courage to tell her that I like her. I was afraid I might lose her if I tell her, but I told her otherwise. We're now together for quite a while, and now there's lifetime waiting for us.
This song is painfully beautiful! The lyrics are very light and heart-wrenching at the same time. We can’t choose who we meet on our journey. We have to meet every person in our story. Some stay for a while, some stay for a long period of time, some stay forever. Out of these people, some of them leaves their mark forever. The time spent with them, the conversations we had with them, the secrets we have shared with them remains forever as a memory. A beautiful memory. Some stories are meant to stay incomplete. If we try to complete those, it might not stay as beautiful as it was previously. Sometimes we think: "Wish we would have never met each other" but I think we need to change it to: “Thank you for leaving a beautiful memory in my life". Some incomplete stories are more beautiful than some complete stories.
"oh, you were a good dream." I dreamt earlier about this guy I had a crush on since the 8th grade and till now, I might not have moved on from these feelings because I didn't confess. Just like the song has mentioned, "secrets turn into regrets. Buried feelings grow." The feelings buried (that I thought I forgot) were growing and growing till now. Even after the heartbreak I had(from a relationship), when I found out he was single again, the feelings resurfaced haha. Before I dreamt of us being lovers, this song will always remind me of you, V. "Was there a lifetime waiting for us? In a world where I was yours?", will always hurt me and think of what if's. Kahit na walang kasiguradohan na gusto mo ko noon, it was the one percent of hope that you were still by my side, and I can still approach you as a friend, kept me on thinking the possibilities.
This song hits differently! If only one is brave enough to speak, then there's a lifetime waiting for them. Grabeee, congrats Ben&Ben! And for ate na nag inspire sa Ben&Ben to make this song, I'm praying for your happiness! May plano si Lord sa'yo. ❤
“was it the wrong time? what if we tried giving in a little more?” it’s really hard when both of you like each other but can’t confess your feelings because of the fear of getting rejected. i spent countless of nights wondering if you were the right person at the right time or the wrong time. “should i wait for you or make the first move?” that question always gets into my head. i fear that if i won’t tell you how i feel as time passes by our feelings will start to fade away....
I sent this song a year ago to one of my best friends who I fell in love with. She secretly knew that I have a crush on her but she didn't know that it was deeper than just a simple crush. I wrote her poems, I sang her songs, and I sent her anonymous confessions hoping my feelings will reach her. I saw our life together. With her, words are so easy to find and everything felt right. I tried dating other people, pero everytime na naiisip ko sya, in a snap nag babago yung desisyon ko. Siya lang gusto ko. 2 days ago, she called me and asked if I was the one who sent those poems and confessions. She liked them so much that she even cried. She cried kasi naiinis sya sakin for liking her; for falling in love. Naiinis sya kasi alam nyang wala akong hihingiin sakanya na kapalit. Naiinis sya na hindi ako nasasaktan kahit na pa friendship lang yung kaya nyang ibigay sakin. My dearest, from the beginning I already knew, we can't be together and I can't give you the family you wish to have. I already sailed my ship away from you, but if you're here reading this, please know that I was secretly the happiest and I don't have regrets. I'm sailing away now. Maybe in another lifetime, where I have a chance to be a man, I hope to see you again.
After the confession, I can say that we grew closer and became more comfortable with each other. We are both happy with the kind of love and friendship we have. :)
"Nevermind, you were never mine" "Was it the wrong time, what if we tried giving in a little more" It really hurts like hell... When you know you're sure about your feelings for years but something is just holding you back from confessing it. Your maybe's, what ifs.. And the fact that the surest way to keep that person is to just remain as friends.
Dear Junghwan, I've rooted for Taek from the very start, but I want you to know that I cried too when your heart broke. That little smile of yours taught me how to be happy no matter how painful the situation was.
whenever i think of u, all i could say is "it felt so different w him talaga." drew, dama ko na di kana talaga babalik. kaya kahit nasasaktan ako na aminin sa sarili na wala nang susunod na pag-uusap sa pagitan natin, kailangan ko idikdik sa kukote ko yon. hindi ka naman na babalik, kaya sana maka graduate na ako sayo
What ifs’ really mess with our head noh? What if we tried giving in a little more? We could’ve ended worst than how we did OR we could still be happy together. I somehow knew that things will end this way it feels like inevitable. It feels like even if we tried we we’re just meant to not to be together this time. It hurts seeing you with someone else but i will try to be happy for you. Sa susunod ako naman ang masaya :) sa ngayon hinga hinga na lang muna ang gagawin ko
Ang powerful ng music noh? This comment section made me again realize how one song can bring out the most vulnerable version of a person. At dahil dyan, sana lahat ng mga nangungulila sa mga taong mahal nila mabigyan ng pagkakataon na makita ulit sila, para makapagusap, maitama ang mga mali at higit sa lahat, mailahad ang tunay na damdamin. Maaring maayos ang mga bagay-bagay at maaring hindi pero iba kasi yung pakiramdam eh kahit na makita mo lang yung tao na yun, para bang as soon as you see this person, somehow, it becomes easier to breathe. Who knows, maybe someday, in the parallel universe, magtagpo kayong muli. Kung mangyari yun, pahalagahan mo ang bawat sandali ha, wag mong palampasin ang pagkakataon.
Can someone appreciate how pretty the watercolor paintings here was? KASI ANG GANDAAAAAA COLOR SCHEME PALANG OMAYGAHD PLUS THE PERFECT SONG WITH PHENOMENAL LYRICS UGH TALK ABOUT PERFECTION
imagine having ben&ben write a song about your lovelife. UGH GOALS. To anne jou, the owner of the story this beautiful song is based on, i hope you find someone you'll spend a lifetime with in this world, in this time. You deserve it ❤️
Stopped listening to this for months because this used to be our song. Now, I could finally listen to this without feeling anything, literally nothing. ;)
maybe we need to lose the love we genuinely wanted to make room for the love we truly deserve. “I’d spend a lifetime waiting in vain.” -I’ve waited for you every day because you left without any clear explanation to why things need to end that way. “You were a good dream.” -the memories we had carved into my heart that sometimes i think it was too good to be true. Indeed, you were and will always just be a dream. “Never mind, you were never mine.” -and at the end, I decided to let go of every piece of you because I was tired of holding on to someone who was never mine to begin with. Listening to this song felt like all my wounds appeared again, but I am grateful. Every day, I am healing more & more and as I look back, hatred and sorrow were already gone.. happiness only remains. Ben & Ben, another masterpiece i must say. It’s funny because throughout my healing process, your songs were always a part of it. In this lifetime, thank you for existing.
"I was scared to lose you then, but secrets turn into regrets". Damn. This new song of Ben&Ben is full of what if's and regrets. What if we chose to stay in love rather than giving up on each other? What if you fulfilled your promises instead of leaving me behind? What if you loved me more than I have loved you so that you will never leave me no matter what? To the man I love the most, I hope that you are happy now. You will always be my comfort and home. I love you and I will keep on loving you even if it's not me anymore because I'm still hoping that you will find your way back to me :(
Damn. Almost 8 years from now na kaming magbrestfriend pero bakit di niya pa rin nararamdaman na mahal ko siya? Even though na sa jokes nasasabi ko pero di pa rin niya nagagawang iseryoso 🥺. But anyway, I am blessed to have him kasi, kahit na minsan magkaroon siya ng girlfriend but still he cannot forget me, kasi ako lagi yung nilalapitan niya sa oras na may problema siya o kaya kapag nasasaktan siya. To the man who read this comment. I love you so much kahit dito man lang makita mo at maramdaman mo yung pagmamahal ko sayo 💞♥️
To Anne Jou: She will surely find someone who will love her more than she deserves! ❤️ The mere fact that they didn't end up together means she belongs to someone. Your bestfriend might be your TOTGA (The One That Got Away) but there is someone in this lifetime waiting for you to be his TOTGA (The One That God Allows) too. ❤️
I also had the same exeperience, yung di nyo maamin ang feelings nyo sa isat isa. It was 8 years ago. A year later parang naka hint yunng lalaki but all he did was stare at me with a feeling of regret. I waited pero walang nangyari, kaya naka move on na ako and nakahanap ng the one. Pati siya meron na din. Last month he finally said sorry. So thats it. Siguro nga may mga tao na pinagtagbo kayo pero hindi tinadhana. All we have to do is move on and love someone na tinadhana ka talaga.
Maam Disturbinsilence, sakit nga nyan.. Yung palagi mong sinabi na sana, pano kaya kung kami at naamin ang feelings? Huhuhu..😑 My Gosh! Pero ok lang hndi nman ako nag sisi sa the one ko ngayon.. Hehe.. 😊
We tend to be hesitant about our own true feelings towards the particular person. Sometimes, we thought that it may turn into regrets and our bond with them may get awkward. Or worse, get broken apart. Yet, time will pass. You will never find your answer unless you gain the courage to voice out. Unspoken feelings represents regret. Be brave despite the consequences. Let it out and be at ease.
this song truly hurts so much, it really hits me right in the heart. thank you so much for making this song. i've been playing this for quite a while now, trying to move on from an unrequited love with my best friend. he was my sunshine, my dawn and my everything- since seventh grade, i've always had strong feelings for him, even going as far as to write letters, poems, essays meant for him, stories inspired by him, drawings that i made thinking of him; i dedicated all that i had to him. he was the one who lifted me up, the one who started a crack in me to free myself from pleasing people. he taught me what love was like and what affection truly meant, only to leave me behind with no clarification for his actions. were all those sweet moments, where we cuddled, clinged and almost kissed each other mean nothing to him? till this day, i kind of still wait for him to finally look my way and realize that i love him with all my heart. this has been extremely unhealthy for me as it is affecting my mental health the more i think about the 'what ifs' between us and what i need to do and how much i need to improve just to become the 'right' standard in his eyes. thankfully, im trying to move on now, especially thanks to this song which has been my comfort, i've now realized that there was never any risk worth taking because i never had a chance to begin with. so to everyone here, please, do not stay in love with that person who won't even look your way, that person who wouldn't even try to find you in a crowd full of people they knew. don't measure your worth based on what that person thinks of you, you're worth much more than you believe you are. find someone who does love you and will treat you the same way you treat others with love and affection. peace out! 🫶
hi everyone I have stage 4 leukemia and fighting a brain tumor also I have congenital heart disease stage4 nadin po please do pray for me hoping for your prayers
"I was scared to lose you then, but secrets turn into regrets, buried feelings grow" This song taught me that If you really love someone be brave enough to tell them. If they don't love you back, at least you won't go through life wondering what would have been, Tell them before it's too late or you'll end up asking yourself "Was there a lifetime waiting for us in a world where I was yours?" 💔
This song just proves that even if you both had feelings for each other but hesitation gets ahead of you rather than positivity you'll never have that chance again, years later you'll regret that it got ahead of you instead of saying your true feelings for each other. Everytime that i play this song that someone whom I hesitated to give a shot and tell him my true feelings always cross my mind.
"All this time i have been yours" the song hits different on another level when you can actually picture out someone while listening. the lyrics, every line, the sentimental music, it reminds me of her - my long time shs crush, a close friend. we were both actually waiting for this song to be premiered since we are both b&b fans and after i listened to it, after month/s of not chatting, i dm'ed her immediately telling her that this song reminded me of her and what we used to be - in my shock, i was dumbfounded to know that she felt the same way. she will never be mine, and i sadly can't be hers, but this song will be with us until we will have the time and courage to try things again - which i think is too ambitious to even think about. she actually said that this is could be our theme song, i don't actually know if i should be happy or not, but this song will always, always, always, remind me of her and the chances i didn't take while it was there. i miss you, you were a good dream :) edit: all this time i have been yours, and i still am
"nevermind, you were never mine" i did have a girl bestfriend and i never realized that i've been falling for her. i confessed to her but still she's not ready for any relationships, now i'm ready to wait for her and i would like to spent a lifetime with her. there's so many things i wanna spent with her, memories to be made with her, i am too scared to lose her because sya lang nakakaintindi sakin. there are words still unsaid to her. wish youre the one who will i spent my lifetime with.
@@ericxhcurioso3357 i did, but she dont want to be in releationship pa. she's still scared of commitment that's why im waiting for her. i am scared that what if there are other guys will come to her and she'll fall inlove with another man, it may hurt me a lot but i need to accept it-- i just want to see her happy even tho im not the reason :)
Joshua Daet “i am scared that what if there are other guys will come to her and she’ll fall in love with another man” That’s fucking legit and that what if tortures me until i learned the art of letting go even it damn hurts like hell.
Just move on just like they say "there are plenty more fish in the sea" oks Lang yan ganyan din nangyari sakin ayaw siya sakin kasi di siya ready and wala siya nakita sakin na gusto nya personalities shits nya move on ka nalang
"What if we tried giving in a little more, to the warmth we had before." 4 years ago, I once had a lover that i had to let go for some reason and i regretted that decision so much. Now these past few days we've been in contact with each other, talkin' about the times we shared together, about how things were perfect between us in the past. Then i realised, that after all this time, I really am still into her. Like there's this flame that never went out even when we went on our separate ways. Now we're gonna try again. And this time, I wont let go.
Damn I wish I was like you ☺ I also want to fix things with my ex. I want to redo everything we had but I don't know if she'd let me let alone let me communicate with her. May takot sa dibdib ko at lito sa isip ko na naglalaban kung kakausapin ko ba sya o wag na lang. Hayaan ko na lang. But then this song made me think hard again. I hope you don't screw this up 🙂 I wish I had the same chance you had. I'm rooting for you ☺☺☺
“Was it the wrong time? What if we tried giving in a little more?” This line hurt me so much. It has been weeks since we ended what we had. I honestly don’t know what to call it. We once talked about it and we both know from the start that this love came from the wrong timing. Despite of the consequences we may encounter as days passed, we didn’t let them stop what’s happening between us. I let myself fall deeper tho I know that there will be an ending and from the very start, I’m the loser. I know you wouldn’t be able to read this but I just want the world to know how much I love you up until now, and that I will be always here. One call away. “Nevermind, you were never mine” How I wish I can call u mine but Lord knows that I can’t. I am super happy I met a man like you. You made me feel very special. You made me feel my worth. I just wanna say that no matter what happens I’ll be just right here. No more words to say. Always remember that even though you were never mine, I am and I will be always yours. I love you, til our paths cross again.
It was a high school puppy love. But we're both guys, in a catholic school. Naaalala ko pa dadayo pa ako ng computer shop hanggang gabi para lang makachat siya. Tas tuwing pauwi napapaskip ako sa paglakad ko pabalik ng bahay sa tuwa. I didn't know if reciprocated ba ang feelings ko, but it sure felt like it did. I like observing people. I liked observing him with his other friends. He was never this way sa kanila. Sobrang rowdy, jokester. Ganun din siya sa akin, lagi kami nag-aasaran, pero tuwing magkasama kami laging walang space in between, kulang na lang maging conjoined twins. I loooved it so much. Yung closeness. Yung warmth. Never nagprogress tho. I was too scared to lose the friendship. Hanggang sa nanligaw na lang siya ng girl. Tapos dumistansya na lang ako. Hahaha grabe yung pagtrigger ng memories ng song na 'to. I love it Ben&Ben. Keep making music na nagreresonate sa mga tao ❤
Lesson learned: Never fall in love with straight guys. Mahirap talaga pag part ka ng LGBTQ+ community, natatakot kang ipakita yung nararamdaman mo. Edit: Same Tayo
"Was there a lifetime waiting for us, in a world where I was yours?" First line palang, sinampal na ako eh. I was willing to risk what I had to be with him, but he never had any intentions to do so with me. I gambled for the first time, turned out I didnt have the beginners luck. Bangon!
To you who I never said what I felt, It’s been so long and I don’t know if you remember me still. I’ve been always proud of what you’ve become. I am happy of whatever or whoever decide to be. Ang galing mo, Doc. I am praying for you. We may not have ended with each other but know that, in a lifetime where we’re together, I am yours and I will love you still.
We all have our “almost”. The one that showed us something that speaks louder than words. No descriptions. You both are just waiting for the one who would make a move first. But the saddest kind of waiting is simultaneous waiting; no one dares to make a move. They say the most beautiful love stories are those that were never told and those that were never tried; no heartaches but just regrets. Life is full of uncertainty. And that uncertainty grows fears within our hearts. That is why there are things we never dared to try. Maybe losing an almost is way better than losing an all-hurt in the end. Maybe there are love stories destined to remain just stories that will live in our hearts for a LIFETIME.
I have a close friend who i liked and eventually loved for almost 5years already. I confessed during the 4th year but I didn't hear him out, we still continued to be close friends we went out on friendly dates and it's as if nothing has changed for him, he was really kind and considerate. He didn't realize that his consideration could hurt me too. Recently I asked him if he likes me, to finally get the answer that i've been running from, i know he would say he only thinks of me as his close friend, but I really wanted it to come directly from him so I mustered up all my courage and asked him "Gusto mo ba ako", I can only accept Yes or No as an answer but instead of being brutally honest with me, he is giving me false hopes like "Sa ngayon friends lang muna tayo." "Possibilities", "it's not a rejection tho" , I think that's even worse he is keeping his options open. Hindi ko nakuha yung rejection na kailangan ko para maka move on instead he just drew the line sa space na sa tingin niya ay safe. Nakakapagod maging convenient. And at some point I think that I became too easy that I made him feel that I'm subtly throwing myself at him (which is not). Ughhh I know he just wants to save our friendship and he has trauma from his ex but sometimes, just sometimes it really hurts so much. 😭 I wanted to tell him na hindi lahat katulad ng ex mo and I would always understand how helping his family and his education is his top priority right now. And still, after everything I can still say that I'll always be here for him, even if it hurts. I know he is going through something right now, I trust that any obstacle that gets in his way he can overcome it. Fighting 🙌 This song (lifetime), pagtingin and araw araw are songs that sang the words that my heart couldn't speak of. Lyrics that for me are forbidden to be expressed. Thank you, Ben and Ben for producing quality music .💖💖🙌
Is it odd if it happens to a guy? haha I experience the same thing. yung pinapakitaan ka ng motibo pero yung ending you're just an option to her, at yung mas masakit pa, I didn't become an option instead I was just like a comfort zone for her dahil yung boyfriend ng bestfriend nya yun yung nagugustohan nya. magulo na silang tatlo tapos nasali pa ako and it was too late to avoid kasi late ko na nalaman yung sitwasyun nila na buo na yung feelings ko sakanya, ako yung andyan tuwing nasasaktan sya sa mga pangyayari so what am I? 😅 I also once mustered my courage and confess my feelings to her. and yes I also got "possibilities" at hindi klarong sagot sa kanya and after that, I cut my feelings and connection to her because in the first place she never once see my worth and she was become blind to her love for that guy at hindi nya naisip na ako yung nasatabi nya lagi through her ups and down. Sadya nga talaga sigurong ganun yung tadhana, it will let you experience something painful things to help you become much better for the next chapter of your life. 🙂
@@dbavenido8573 It's not odd to happen to a guy. I'm glad you cut your feelings to her and I'm doing the same thing. But I can't lose connection, I admire you for having much more courage than I do have. My friendship for him is a blessing, I am eternally grateful for that, I know I'm really important to him but that doesn't make me someone he sees his future with and that's fine. In time, someone will find us whom we can love more than we loved them.
Zara Tanguin the way what you were saying you're just okay to live in pain para sa taong importante sayo because nanghihinayang ka na baka mawala yung pinag ipunan nyong memories dalawa. but, call me stone hearted person pero if I were you, I'll rather end that pain than to stay with such pain just to not give up the memories you both had. mas lalong sumasakit habang pinatatagal mo yan. Think about your own happiness maging selfish ka minsan para sa ikasasaya mo, you don't have anyone to comfort you for now but only your own self and every painful thing has happened to us we only have ourselves to comfort us. But, it is up to your choices I just only give advice, in the end you are the only one who choose your own way. 😁✌🏻
![BLACK BAG - Official Trailer [HD] - Only in Theaters March 14](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/Du0Xp8WX_7I/mqdefault.jpg)
hello! please subscribe to our RUclips channel if you like the song. thank you!
ruclips.net/user/benbenmusic
"A time after Life"
(A poem inspired by Ben&Ben's "Lifetime")
-Mr.Labo
Is there still a time after life ?
When I still have another chance .
To ask for another last dance
just to be frozen again in stance
with only a glimpse of an instance
of your alluring magical glance .
Is there still a time after life ?
When we can fly again to the clouds above
whilst listening to sound of " On the wings of love " .
But this time we wouldn't fly
near the sun
because now we know that our wings will burn.
This time we wouldn't fly too low over the oceans
because now we know we'll drown when its tides turn.
If we only can fly again together
until all the feathers in our wings wither.
I promise I won't stop us from falling in love with each other.
But what if all our " ifs " suddenly disappears
together with all of our fears ?
I wonder what could've happen ?
What could've change ?
If I only had enough courage
to say the words I should've said.
If only I had enough courage
to take back the words I should've not said.
If I just completed the sentence
" I won't love you even after the world ends ".
If I just didn't left you feeling dense and tense
because what I really intend was,
"I won't love you even after the world ends
because I will still love you even after the day the world ends ".
But there's no use to reminisce
It's futile to play-pretend.
Meeting you almost felt like a dream , a real fairytale
but now we're living in our own nightmares.
Now we're both crying in pain
still cursed to be separated by the Earth and Heavenly plains.
Now that I'm buried together with all of my secrets.
Buried with all of my love unsaid.
But now at least I can say that
I will still love you even after the day my life ends.
I wish you all the best that life could give
and I hope you can forgive me but not forget
that even in the afterlife I will still wait.
Lesson:
Life is short.
Make everything worthwhile.
Hearts are often broken when someone keeps being silent and left true feelings unspoken.
Carpe diem
💙
Hi sir. I was amazed by this song ❤ isa po to sa mga paborito kong song niyo. I would just like to share po yung PIANO COVER ko po ng LIFETIME, if you have time po nasa channel ko po yun, I'm a PWD KEYBOARDIST po, sana po mapansin niyo 😊❤ solid po! ❤
Ganda po ng mga songs nyo relate much
Hello po! i just want to share my story and makahingi nadin ng advise.
Year 2018 ng ligawan nya ko. Di ko muna sya sinagot kahit gustong gusto ko na sya sagutin kasi busy ako sa pagrereview para sa let march 2019. Nangako rin kasi ako sa sarili ko na need ko muna pumasa sa let bago ko sya sagutin. 3 weeks before board exam minessg nya ko na di nya daw talaga ko mahal, kaya lang daw nya ko niligawan dahil nung mga panahon na yun ay mahal nya pa daw gf nya. That night di ko sya nireplyan, oo nasaktan ako pero di ko lang inintindi sarili ko that time dahil kinabukasan preboard exam namin sa isang kilalang review center. Tuloy parin ang buhay ko sa pagrereview, ni hindi man lang ako nag ka chance umiyak nung mga panahon nayun.
March 24 2019 Big Day kung tawagin natin, tinext nya ko para igoodluck ako sa exam ko then i replied thankyou Kuya! after nun di na sya nag reply. After ng exam umiyak nako ng umiyak kasi feeling ko that time palang ako nakalaya. di ko alam kung siya ba ang dahilan ng pag iyak ko o ang prof ed.
March 26 2019minessg ako ng mutual friend namin, binalita sakin na nabuntis daw pala ni kuya yung ex gf nya kaya daw di na tinuloy panliligaw sakin. Wala nanaman akong ginawa kundi umiyak ng umiyak. yun pala ang dahilan hindi nya pa nagawang sabihin sakin ang totoo.
May 25 2019 lumabas ang resulta, binati nyakko. nalaman nya sa mutual friend namin na pumasa ako sa let. Simula nun nabalik yung communication natin, nabalik sa dati yung pagkakaibigan namin. hangang isang araw minessg nya ko na gust nya ulit ako ligawan. umoo lang daw ako iuurong nya daw yung kasal nya sa gf nya. i said no, kahit gustong gusto ko uyng ideya na yun dahil hangang ngayon ay mahal na mahal ko parin sya. kaso naisip ko yung bata ayoko naman lumaki yung bata ng walang ama.
Kagabi may 26 2020 nagkausap ulit kami. kasal na pala sila. ito nanaman sya gusto nya ulit ako ligawan, hindi nya daw talaga mahal ying asawa nya. napilitan lang daw sya magpakasal dahil nga daw nabuntis nya yung asawa nya. at sa anak nya daw susustentohan nya daw ito tuwing week end daw kunknin nya yung bata para makapag bonding sila.
ano gagawin ko maam/sir gustong gusto ko na din po sya balikan. pa advice naman po. Salamat po inadvance
Nakakaiyak po grabe :((
Its really such an honor to be a part of the inspirations of ben&ben in writing this song. Thank you so much, really, ben&ben for filling my heart with happiness 🥺 Thank you for being one of the main reasons why I still think the world is a beautiful place after all I experienced.
It's funny how ben&ben songs are somehow a paradox-listening to their song would break your heart but also console you at the same time. It's like the exact definition of pain with pleasure, haha. But I really want to say that maybe, this is a way to show us that we may not get everything we want, but surely, there's something best that's waiting for us. I maybe broken but hey, at least i got some ben&ben song right? We should be thankful for everything that we have now and we are blessed in different ways. I may not have the love i deserve yet, but while waiting, I can do a lot of things that would make me happy. I dont want to be loved by him in the next lifetime (sa susunod na habang buhay), I want someone to find me, who will love me in my lifetime, who will love me in this lifetime.
Let's support ben&ben cause admit it, these songs are heartbreaking yet soothing at the same time.
This is not just for people who are healing, for all of us, we won't really get everything that we want-even if it's the one you want the most-but something out there is meant for us, because that's what we deserve, to be happy and blessed. Lots of love, guys! Praying for everyone's safety. Thank you, really, for those who followed me in wattpad, you made me really so happy. I also read tweets, especially tweets with 'Anne Jou' and it really made me happy and laugh a lot because of some memes.
Stay safe everyone and I guess this is the end, haha. Cheers to more ben&ben songs! God bless as all.
P.S. I know this is too much too ask but I hope you'll notice po my dm in Twitter. I wanted to thank you personally and to share something I haven't shared to anyone yet. Love lots Ben&Ben. 'Til your next song.
P. P. S this is the only comment I have here hehe.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are forever loved. I have faith in that and I believe you know that within your heart. ❤
😭❤️❤️
how do you feel ate while listening to this song inspired by your story? is it bittersweet?
Thankyou for sharing your story, ate!!! :)
Huggssss, mumsh. ❤❤❤❤
This story isn’t mine but my grandmother’s. She was a nun all her life, serving God for decades. She’s 74 now and unluckily, she can’t walk anymore. She’s getting weaker and weaker every day. One time, I asked her, “La, nainlove na po ba kayo?” She stared at me for a second and took a deep breath. Her expression looks like she’s reminiscing the old times. “Oo naman apo.” sagot niya. "I was madly inlove back then... with a priest.” What she said took my heart out of my chest. “Seminaryo pa siya non. We always talked and shared thoughts about God and His goodness. I was happy with him. In fact, more than what I can imagine. But I know it wasn’t right kaya tinago ko nalang. I took one step away from him para hindi mas lumalim ang nararamdaman ko. Years have passed, we were both reconciled dahil nadistilo siya sa simbahan kung saan nandon din ako. The closeness we had before came back in just a snap of a finger. At doon ko nalamang gusto niya din pala ako. We were both in love, yet the fate gets between us. Mali naman talaga in the first place. Pari siya, madre ako. Hindi lang isang tao ang niloloko namin, kundi ang Panginoon mismo. He said he would left all that he has for me, for us. Pero umayaw ako, dahil hindi tama ang aming pinagagagawa. Sa tingin ko ganon talaga ang tadhana apo. We loved each other but the lifetime we had isn’t the right one for us. Maybe in another life, we could be. I hope so. ” And a tear in her eyes fell down like a piece of sadness she kept for a long time. That was the last time I saw her cried. She died an hour after we talked.
puta ang saket :’)
Halaaaa ansaket
😢
grabe gusto ko umiyak :( andito lang kuya ko :((
Kinilabutan ako. Shocks 😭
Fun fact: This song was based off of the most liked comment in “Pagtingin”. It was the story of a lady who never dared to tell her feelings to her bestfriend because she was anxious of losing what they had. Years passed, the girl was invited to the guy’s wedding. To her surprise, the guy confessed that he also had feelings for her back then, but had a similar anxiety of losing their friendship. She suffers as she imagines a world were they could’ve spent a lifetime together as lovers. Imagine having a Ben&Ben song dedicated to you
coinsidence nagsscroll ako ng comments and nabasa ko yung comment na to and below was the person who inspired ben&ben to write this song.
Yes
Wait, really? Wow. I've read that comment.
damn naiiyak pa din ako
tae huhu
falling inlove with your bestfriend has got to be the best, yet worst feeling of all.
:
yeah
Yes it is. I'm a boy, and he's a boy too. This was the first time I had crush on another boy, he was just unique. I've hid these secret emotions from him. And considering how insecure and anxious I always am, I don't think I'll be able to share these emotions to him. Now I have a girlfriend, and we've been together for a year now.
Indeed. I and my bestfriend had loved each other secretly for almost 3 years. We had to keep it as a secret because there were a lot of factors that we need to consider including how strict my parents was. Yes, it was awesome having someone that can be your companion, family and lover but as typical couples do-conflicts occurs too. Today, I and him broke up due to personal issues, kapag lalo lang namin pinilit ang mga sarili namin mas lalo lang kaming masasaktan.
Good thing we ended up in a best way that we can na walang grudges sa isa't-isa.
To you, I am rooting for your happiness and in the next lifetime... We can always plant a new seedling to foster and in that epoch, I promise to be braver enough for us.
Indeed
maybe there's two people listening to this and thinking of each other
sanaol 😂
Pero sa susunod na habang buhay ang ending ng story nila 😢
I- this comment 🥺😔 either if this was a case noh, ang sakit talaga. if two ppl were actuallu listening to this and thinking about each other, it’s like they’re so near yet so far. And if only one person, it sucks to be alone in this cause it seems like you’re the only one who is unable to move on
Maybe,But my crush doesn't have feelings for me
I hope so...
“Never mind, you were never mine”
hits hard
True
Omsimm
💔
sakit
sobra yung atake :((((
This comment section made me realize that loving someone secretly without expecting them to love us in return is one of the genuine things u could ever done.
Ang dami pala nating umaasa,nasasaktan,iniwan,sinukuan at tinalikuran. Sana lahat ng taong nasasaktan ngayong mga oras na to sana dumating na yung oras na maging masaya tayo. Hindi sa ibang tao kundi sa sarili natin mismo.
For myself who's still waiting for him to comeback. I'm now signing off
Hello, I made a piano cover of this one. Sana po mapakinggan nyo :)
Hugs. 💞
Yes I am one of that ahahahah
Nandito lng nman ako eh
Hi. Just want you to know that you are not alone feeling this way. I'm waiting for 2 years for him to comeback. And I have no regrets because I love him and I can wait until the time that I have no feelings for him anymore.
"Maybe someday we would be two people meeting again for the first time, but I hope a happy ending would count"
Sana nga
Since 1894?
GAGO PINAPAIYAK NANAMAN AQ NANG MGA COMMENTS 😭😭😭
@@azi9583
I think it's I love you since 1892
There is no end
-When you know you can never be with someone but still you can't stop yourself falling for them. :((
: ((((((
:(
@zell :(
:
Worst feeling po is yung kayo na pero alam mo na In love pa sya sa Bestfriend nya ;
I hate the fact that I might be thinking about this certain person, but he's thinking of someone else. Great job at breaking my heart again, Ben&Ben. God bless! ♡
Same 😔
oh :(
i feel you
:
😢😢
"Was is the wrong time? What if we tried? giving in a little more."
*for students who failed PUPCET, UPCAT, etc. We tried, but it wasn't our fate. Keep going and be positive! Cheer up!!
Cheer up po! ❤️
it's not the end yet. better things are coming.
Hi sa mga nag fail ng entrance tests, hope this helps. ruclips.net/video/uAJackNKIYs/видео.html
Same po
Last year, Ben & Ben announced that they will make a music base on the comment on “Pagtingin” MV. That time, I used to talk to my 7 years crush everyday so I told him about this song na ilalabas ng Ben & Ben sooner or later. Then yeah, nailabas na ‘yung song and I let him listen to it kase ‘yung totoo e nag paparinig lang naman ako sa kaniya. He was my crush since I was only in elementary, we’re both church choirs. 2017 was the time I confessed that I like him but he said it’s too early, and he loves me as his “ading” because he’s 2 years older than me.
Then last week (May 24, 2021) I invited him dito sa bahay ko together with his friend na friend ko rin. We ate lunch together habang nag papatugtog. Then ayon, tumugtog ‘yung Lifetime. “Naalala mo ‘yung ka-fling ko dati? Siya naaalala ko dyan. Pinakanta pa ‘ko ay”
I don’t know what to feel but I only smiled at him and saying “ay weh? sana all”
sa isip ko, puro “ako ‘yung nag introduce ng kanta sa’yo, ikaw din ‘yung pinaparinggan ko sa kanta na ‘yan, tapos iba lang pala ‘yung maaalala mo dyan.”
I even told him na ako nag introduce sa kanta na ‘to before and after irelease.
:(
❤️
There was a guy and a girl who were inseparable during their high school years. Everyone around them thought they were in a relationship but to them, they were just best friends. The things is, the guy had feelings for her and so did she. The guy just assumed na may something sila while the girl was waiting for a confession of some sort. Until their last year in hs, may ibang nag confess kay girl and she turned him down. The 'best friend' saw them talking and once again assumed na there was something between the two. From that moment on, lumayo si guy kay girl hanggang grumaduate sila from hs. The girl never got an explanation as to why the guy never spoke to her again. She was heartbroken but she moved on, had a family of her own but still wondered from time to time kung nasan na si guy.
Fast forward to their 50s.The girl was now a widow and was finally convinced to attend a hs reunion bc 'someone' na nagka crush sa kanya nung hs already paid for her fee. She went without expecting anything. But they saw each other sa reunion and reconnected right away. Doon nya lang nalaman yung reasons kung bakit lumayo si guy. Doon nya din nalaman na babalikan sana sya ng guy kaso she was already engaged.
But I guess if it's meant to be, the right time will always come. That's the story of my mom and her current boyfriend.
❤
❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️
❣️✨
omg shit ang ganda !! binasa ko lang nang maayos pero nung nakita ko yung last sentence napaluha ako.
i feel like everyone’s in a bad place right now, accept hugs. *you’ll get throught it, soon.*
Mika thank you
🥺
🥰
I will gladly accept. Thanks 😊
🥺
IMAGINE GINAWA NILA 'TO DURING QUARANTINE AND 100% RECORD FROM HOME LANG TO, WTH WHAT A TALENTED AND WONDERFUL BAND THIS IS HAYS JUSMEYO MAHABAGIN!
You don’t know love until you’ve had to put your happiness aside and prioritize someone else, until you’ve had to sit there and watch them with someone else and tell them you’re happy for them, until you’ve had let someone go because it’s the best thing for them even when it’s not you.
"So even if I didn't tell you that I loved you, I had always wished that my eyes were enough to tell you that I did."
"So even if I didn't tell you that I love you, I had always wished that my eyes were enough to tell you that I did"
This
😭
"I'd spend a lifetime waiting in vain just to go back where we were before"
It's always been you. I keep on coming back to you. Although time may never bring it back, I will always be here patiently waiting. How I wish na kasabay kita para salubungin tong bagong kanta ng Ben&Ben. Just maybe in the right time, I could finally call you mine. Then if not, I would always be wishing you the best :>
i love you! they will be ours. peksman. peksman :)
patric como samee
ah sakit.same. i hope we can move on pag dumating yung time na wala na talagang chance :((
Same! 💛💙
😭😭😭
"It wasn’t the red lights, nor the timing that was bad… but the countless times I hesitated” -Jung Hwan (R88)
(´;︵;`)(╯︵╰,)
bakit kayo gan'to?!!!
MAPANAKIT huhu
Walang magmo-move on! 😭💔
Hooooy! 💔 Bagay na bagay talaga to kay jung hwan :(
"We lose all the chance we never take."
Do it NOW or regret it FOREVER.
Putangina eto yung mahirap eh HAHAHAHA
😭
👁👄👁
very hard task
Parang lugi kami don ah HAHAHAHA
There is always that 'someone' we think about when we listen to this kind of song.
yea. :(
yeah, and I really hate my mind for making me remember such good times that turned into sad memories..
😔😔
:(((
And that's a fact..
"Never mind, you were never mine"
This line made me realize that I should not care too much for a person that I'm not really certain that will stay.
Pero sometimes caring too much is the better choice. Kahit hindi siya magtatagal, at least alam mong binigay mo ang lahat, walang chance na masisisi mo sarili mo na ikaw ang dahilan bat ka iniwan.
Besides, let's not regret anything that once made us happy. Kung sumaya tayo sa mga panahong yon, ayon nalang itatak natin sa puso natin.
Masakit isipin yung mga sakit. :>
Parang naniniwala na ko sa, "Chances are only given to those people who are willing to give it a shot."
👉👈
Hindi rin :(
Totoo naman bro :) di mo naman kase malalaman if hindi itatry, ganun din sa love eh. If di compatible atleast tinry without regrets.
MISMO
Sa buhay nga raw, chances not taken are already missed chances.
"It wasn’t the red lights, nor the timing that was bad, but the countless times I hesitated” - Jung Hwan(Reply 1988)
, sorry ang duwag ko noon di ko man lang triny hahahahaha sobra akong nagsisisi ngayon pero all goods na basta lagi kang maging masayaaaaa, sobrang thank you kasi naging part ka kahit saglit ng buhay ko hehe.
“You WERE a good dream.”
Good dream nga ba talaga? Or a person worth letting go? I guess, 10 years is enough para masabi ko sa sarili ko na enough is enough. She's already happy with someone else and here I am stuck at the thought that one day she'll come running back to me with her realization that she's finally ready to spend a LIFETIME with me. She will always be my TOTGA and my The One. Thanks for the memories Robin Scherbatsky.
BWISET TED MOSBY PALA ITOH
Ted?? Hahhaha nakikinig ka din pala ng ben and ben
HAHAHAHAHHAAHA
HAHAHAHAHHA ANDITO KA LANG PALA TED
uy ted don kana kay tracey :>
My wife loves this band. Then 2 days ago, habang nagluluto kaming dalawa, pinarinig niya sa akin tong kanta...tapos biglang sabi sa akin na laking pasalamat daw niya kasi naglakas loob ako na magtapat sa kanya. Sabi ko buti na lang binigyan ako ng sign ni God(Falling stars) kasi sobrang pinagdasal ko yun bago ko ginawa. Basang basa pa nga ng pawis yung damit ko habang nagcoconfess ako ng feelings ko sa kanya sa sobrang kaba ko. Mahirap maglakas loob na umamin sa pinakamatalik mong kaibigan ng nararamdaman kasi unang una mong maiisip na baka Hindi mag work out or may magbago, pero wala e. Alam ko na sa sarili ko na mahal ko talaga siya...It took me 3 years bago ko siya napasagot and now here we are, after 15 years, still loving each other. So yes, there is a lifetime for us... Kaya to all guys out there, if you really believe na siya na talaga, why not take the chance. Mahirap mabuhay sa what if's. Sayang lalo na kung may chance pala pero natakot kayong subukan.
Thank u for sharing this wonderful story.
Grabe 3years
hay salamat may happy story :)
No lovelife. Just someone who finds others lovelife fascinating. But why does this song hit so deep?
Same here siz,then naiyak ako sa mga comment
Same here, no gf since birth but I always think about it. Siguro di lang talaga ako biniyayaan sa love life.
F :(
@@ciocomacchiatto9029 same same :( HAHAHAHAH
Same bruh , sameee
He passed away yesterday.
I loved him for more than 10 years. And at some point, I know he loved me too.
Our timelines just never matched. So we settled as friends. At least, we would still be in each others lives. Pero pati pala yon, hindi din pwede no? Because yesterday, it all ended.
Galingan naman natin next lifetime oh. Kasi wala na talagang chance this time. Lagi kitang ipagdadasal.
"Next lifetime" hurts
Bawi sa next life lods
Sakitttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt
“tangled with another’s eyes
never mind, you were never mine”
THIS SHOULD HAVE BEEN RELEASED EARLIER WHEN WE HAD PROM SO THAT I COULD SAY THIS TO MY CRUSH WHILE DANCING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CROWD. I WASN’T HER’S BUT SHE WAS MINE FOR 3 YEARS IN MY DREAM.
ang sad :((
Dammnnnnnn
Hi. Sa mga nag fail sa UPCAT or PUPCET, this is for you guys.
ruclips.net/video/uAJackNKIYs/видео.html
:((
:((
“What if we tried giving in a little more, to the warmth we had before.”
That line really strikes me so bad because I remember the time that I confess my feelings to the guy I really like and he said to me that he wasn’t ready yet to have feelings. He was my guardian angel that time like he was my superhero kasi whenever I feel alone, he always remind me that “You never walk alone in this darkness because I am here still to guide you with the little light that I’ve got”. That night, he save me from all the anxiety and depression that I have. Things started to go deeper , then one day I told him na
“Iñigo, I know nakakagulat ito but gusto ko nalang ikeep yung friendship nating dalawa, so maybe friends is better than relationship right?” Then nagulat siya and he ask me “why” .
“Secrets became regrets”
At that point I know that he already have feelings to me that he kept on hiding. I kept on saying sorry because I know I told myself na “God, please I know things are getting tangled but I want him to be my last” but alam ko na naparating ko na yun Kay God. Maybe we are not destined to became lover but instead a friend and an angel who will got each other’s back covered. Until now we are still friends but I know somewhere in me that he would always have a piece of my heart that I couldn’t take back.
Iñigo,
I know you can’t see this but thank you for being there especially for the warmth that I felt whenever I am covered with my coldness. You really mean a lot to me. I know it is still hard for us pero I know na kaya natin yun labanan kasi TINURUAN mo ako maging mas wise and stronger despite of the problems I’ve got. Thank you for being my little light and my guide to my own dark maze. Now, I know you are one of the reason of why I love myself so much, Thank you for all the lesson, love , kindness and genuine care that you give to me. I hope one day, I may not be the girl na makikita at makakasama mo infront of the altar, I will still be happy for you because you deserve to be loved as genuine as you are. I am still praying for you so keep on fighting. I love you but maybe in a parallel universe, you and I are together. I will always remember the first day we talked to each other.
Ako to si inigo, mahal na mahal ka
Sasabihin ko sana subukan niyo baka maging kayo. Pero naiintindihan ko na mas mahirap if naging kayo tapos di nag work out.
Wala akong masabi, ate huhu. Stay strong puuu
I just felt this exactly like yours..
Iñigo asan ka naaaa
Miguel enanoria Huwag ka magalala matatagpuan mo din yung Tao na ipapadama sayo na tila hawak mo na ang mga bituin.
This comment section turned into pages of novels we weren't able to publish - stories we weren't able to tell.
Discarded yet preserved feelings
anong pake ko
@@bannedzai3157 edi hanapin mo po. Bakit mo po ako tinatanong about sa sariling pagkaka-pariwara mo?
@@MK-yz4ww hayaan mo na yang "anong pake ko" na yan. :) Nag s-spread lang yan ng hate. :)
My boyfriend and his ex broke up 7 years ago. Akala ko sobrang okay kami ng boyfriend ko na ako na talaga then one day, nakita kong magkachat pa pala sila nung ex niya at parang may something pa sa kanila. Yung parang lyrics sa kanta na "buried feelings grow". Tipong they want each other pa pero dahil may ako, hindi nila magawa. This song became their song. Lifetime yung name nila sa convo nila. Kaya kahit gaano ko kamahal ang ben&ben, hindi ko lang talaga kaya pakinggan yung kantang ito.
Ikaw yung naging kontrabida? 🥲
🥺🥺🥺 be strong girl!! You got this.
No matter how hard, girl please just pull yourself in that relationship. Let them be happy. Di mo deserve yan, you deserve better, yung tipong ikaw lang ang pipiliin sa araw-aray, sa habang buhay o sa susunod pang habang buhay. Pero ikaw parin yung magdedesisyon, kase di ko naman alam yung nararamdaman mo, so ikaw yung mas nakakaalam ng gagawin mo
Jason Hoyla sakit dibaa? :’)
Mark Angelo Bartolome sobrang idol niya siguro si ben&ben kasi sinasabi niya yan sakin e ako lang sa “araw araw” pero may kalifetime na pala sa iba. Awts
This song makes us think of all the “should have beens” and “what ifs”😞✊💗
So mchhh
So truuueee
.
What ifs that will never be answered again. What ifs that will die with us when we do. What ifs that will be buried with us as we are. Hay I feel you 😊
somehow, this is almost connected to their song "Doors." secrets turn into regrets, buried feelings grow. That's why we should open up our secret doors, since overtime these feelings will only get worse. Time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies, right? You will never know what can happen without opening up, and taking the risk.
Thank you for giving the best birthday gift ever ben and ben!
Happy Birthday
Happy birthday!!
happy birthday!
Habadu mbtc godbless you
HBD!!
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me -Philippians 4:13❤
"We didn't know that if one of us only dared to make a move, a lifetime is waiting for us."
“I was scared to lose you then” -that’s why I’ve tried to hide my feelings for you for almost two years.
“But secrets turn into regrets” -when I finally got the chance to confess, I confessed, then you said you are grateful to have someone like me and then later on- I lost you because...
“Tangled with another’s eyes. Nevermind, you were never mine” -you loved someone else and I can still remember when you said “I have no rights ‘cause you were never mine”
“Was there a lifetime waiting for us in a world where I was yours?” -because it’s been a year since I told you my feelings, you already have another but I am still here, still into you.
haha this happened to me,too.😅
It was hard and painful but I moved on 'cause it was plain to see that we're not meant to be.
"Secrets turn to regrets"
"Never mind you were never mine"
There was never an "us" to begin with, so i don't know how and why i got attached so much to you. Its been have a year since everything ended between us without a single word but..... To this day i still have regrets.
In the 2 years we were together, even though it wasn't official, it was fun, but i know i hurt you so much during that time.
Also during that time, a part of me was broken that can never be restored again, but i don't blame you for it. Hey people in love are dumb, we can't do anything about it.
But ever since "it" ended without a single word from each of us. I've had this feeling i've always kept a secret. It's been 6 months and it's still here, the guilt.
When i saw how happy you were with him, how painful it was for you when you lost him. I wondered, what if i never met you?
What if the day i confessed, i never did? What if i never met you? Would the two of you have been together forever? Could the two of you have been happier?
Could all the things that we lost, never have dissapeared in the first place?
My secret is, i wish i've never met you, so that i never ruined your life, so that you wouldn't have to suffer.
If you've never met me, i'm sure you'd be happier now
😿😿😿😿
Same feels :')
arrrrrgh same timeframe, same ending. wth :
same thoughts : ((((
😔
Never thought I’ll be listening to this again but with deeper feelings
Cheers for the love we never had.
and
Cheers for the love we once had but now it's.... gone.
That's why love is such a scary yet a beautiful thing :)
Cheers!
Cheeeeers! :)(
they fixed me and broke me at the same time 😂
Cheers
cheers : ((((
"Never mind, You were never mine."
But we acted like we were each other's, and that's what made it harder.
best comment
Saet relate
:
😢
kaiyak
Midnight + Realizations + Quarantine + This Song = sweet tears are literally falling, now I know. THANK YOU FOR THIS SONG BEN&BEN!☺💛
Sigerman Vlogs same
Even a single person can feel he/she's broken hearted when hear this song,
Maybe there's a feeling behind the lyrics that can catch your soul
"It's better to know and be disappointed than to never know and always wonder."
"Never mind, you were never mine."
This line hits me... Awittt...
*_if there's something worse than failure, it's regret._*
fck it hits me
This
Ouch!!!~~~
I met someone na sobrang love ang ben & ben. last night, tinapos namin kung anong meron kami. then napakinggan ko tong song na to ngayon. though gusto ko na tong song na to before pa, pero mas iba pala pag napakinggan mo ulit na ramdam na ramadam mo na yung kanta
my ex and i had a shared love for you, guys. he confessed his feelings for me during a ben & ben concert. we parted ways exactly 2 months ago today. thank you for this song! this brings back so much memories 🥺😭💛💙
😞😞😞😞
Considering they did this during quarantine. The best!
I really loved the song and I can't help thinking how it would sound like if sang in Tagalog?? Please? ❤️❤️❤️ Tried to roughly translate it:
May habangbuhay bang naghihintay
Sa mundong ako’y iyo
Eroplanong papel at seramiko
Ang alimuom mula sa bintana
At ang pagmamasid sayo
O, kay gandang panaginip to
Ang mawala ka’y aking kinatatakutan
Lihim na ito’y pinaghihinayangan
Nakabaong pagtingi’y lumalago
O, kay gandang panaginip to
May habangbuhay bang naghihintay
Sa mundong ako’y iyo
Sa maling pagkakataon, ba’t hindi subukan
Magpaubaya nang saglit
sa alab at init
Naliligaw sa mata ng iba
Di bale, di ka nga pala akin
Sa isang sulyap ng ikaw at ako
O, kay gandang panaginip to
Habangbuhay maghihintay
Maibalik lang ang kahapon
Mali ba ang pagkakataon, ba’t hindi subukan
Magpaubaya muli nang saglit
Sa dating alab at init
May habangbuhay bang naghihintay sa atin?
ako’y iyo, bawat sandali
Ommmmg YEEEESSSS PLEASE ben&ben, sana may irelease kayong tagalog version! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
YES PLS
Huhu ben&ben plss make it happen
OML Yes pls!!
Ben&Ben pls I need this in my life 😭
"Oh you were a good dream"
Indeed. You really are.
"All this time i have been yours"
"Never mind you were never mine"
hurts like hell,falling for someone you knew you'd never have.. so if you like someone, confess...because the more you hide your feelings, the deeper it gets... and, there's no perfect timing, try to confess your feelings, how will you know if she/he likes you too, if you won't try.. don't be scared of getting rejected or hurt, at least you tried right?
"oh you were a good dream"
idk but that hurts freakin' much... you were a good dream, a good dream that i know i can't chase nor reach.. a good dream that will never be mine..
This is a song about the one that got away??
Angel Sahagun 💔💔💔
Nag confessed ako and he friendzoned me. Well worth it naman hahaha atleast i knew. But the feelings remained..
Imaginary Girl same I confessed twice I got no answer. Still hurting☹️😢
Imaginary Girl uhhh same 🥺
This could have been my life story if I didn't had the courage to tell her that I like her. I was afraid I might lose her if I tell her, but I told her otherwise. We're now together for quite a while, and now there's lifetime waiting for us.
Kudos and super proud that you had the courage! Abay ako sa kasal, kuya! Chz
ss koya
❤❤❤
YABANG
naol
This song is painfully beautiful! The lyrics are very light and heart-wrenching at the same time.
We can’t choose who we meet on our journey. We have to meet every person in our story. Some stay for a while, some stay for a long period of time, some stay forever. Out of these people, some of them leaves their mark forever. The time spent with them, the conversations we had with them, the secrets we have shared with them remains forever as a memory. A beautiful memory. Some stories are meant to stay incomplete. If we try to complete those, it might not stay as beautiful as it was previously. Sometimes we think: "Wish we would have never met each other" but I think we need to change it to: “Thank you for leaving a beautiful memory in my life". Some incomplete stories are more beautiful than some complete stories.
I like this comment. This is literally what I felt when hearing the song aah
So true
thank you for this. 💙
The best comment for me ♥️♥️
🥺♥️♥️♥️
"oh, you were a good dream."
I dreamt earlier about this guy I had a crush on since the 8th grade and till now, I might not have moved on from these feelings because I didn't confess. Just like the song has mentioned, "secrets turn into regrets. Buried feelings grow." The feelings buried (that I thought I forgot) were growing and growing till now. Even after the heartbreak I had(from a relationship), when I found out he was single again, the feelings resurfaced haha.
Before I dreamt of us being lovers, this song will always remind me of you, V. "Was there a lifetime waiting for us? In a world where I was yours?", will always hurt me and think of what if's. Kahit na walang kasiguradohan na gusto mo ko noon, it was the one percent of hope that you were still by my side, and I can still approach you as a friend, kept me on thinking the possibilities.
Kaway kaway sa mga nagpupuyat para dito 💕🖐
Sup
Hdyyy
🙋
✋✋
Heyoo
This song hits differently!
If only one is brave enough to speak, then there's a lifetime waiting for them.
Grabeee, congrats Ben&Ben!
And for ate na nag inspire sa Ben&Ben to make this song, I'm praying for your happiness! May plano si Lord sa'yo. ❤
“was it the wrong time? what if we tried giving in a little more?” it’s really hard when both of you like each other but can’t confess your feelings because of the fear of getting rejected. i spent countless of nights wondering if you were the right person at the right time or the wrong time. “should i wait for you or make the first move?” that question always gets into my head. i fear that if i won’t tell you how i feel as time passes by our feelings will start to fade away....
this is exactly what's happening in me right now :((( ang sakeeet
😢😢😢💔
I sent this song a year ago to one of my best friends who I fell in love with. She secretly knew that I have a crush on her but she didn't know that it was deeper than just a simple crush. I wrote her poems, I sang her songs, and I sent her anonymous confessions hoping my feelings will reach her. I saw our life together. With her, words are so easy to find and everything felt right. I tried dating other people, pero everytime na naiisip ko sya, in a snap nag babago yung desisyon ko. Siya lang gusto ko. 2 days ago, she called me and asked if I was the one who sent those poems and confessions. She liked them so much that she even cried. She cried kasi naiinis sya sakin for liking her; for falling in love. Naiinis sya kasi alam nyang wala akong hihingiin sakanya na kapalit. Naiinis sya na hindi ako nasasaktan kahit na pa friendship lang yung kaya nyang ibigay sakin.
My dearest, from the beginning I already knew, we can't be together and I can't give you the family you wish to have. I already sailed my ship away from you, but if you're here reading this, please know that I was secretly the happiest and I don't have regrets. I'm sailing away now. Maybe in another lifetime, where I have a chance to be a man, I hope to see you again.
Aray...Sadboi moment
Man, that really got me smiling bitterly
aww :
May you find the love you made her experience :))
After the confession, I can say that we grew closer and became more comfortable with each other. We are both happy with the kind of love and friendship we have. :)
Legend says Ben&Ben will heart this comment
THEY JUST FUCKING DID AARRRGGGHHH 💙💛💙💛
Sana alllll:((
Sana yung akin din HAHAHAHAHA
Hahahah! Nice one! SANA ALL NILALIKE NG BEN&BEN 😭
SANAA ALLLL
"Nevermind, you were never mine"
"Was it the wrong time, what if we tried giving in a little more"
It really hurts like hell... When you know you're sure about your feelings for years but something is just holding you back from confessing it.
Your maybe's, what ifs..
And the fact that the surest way to keep that person is to just remain as friends.
Wanna be friends?
No more what if GO CONFESS HINDI MO ALAM NA BAKA NAHUHULI NA LAHAT.
Life is short. Confess! You must learn to proceed without certainty.
Dear Junghwan,
I've rooted for Taek from the very start, but I want you to know that I cried too when your heart broke. That little smile of yours taught me how to be happy no matter how painful the situation was.
Hindi na yata ako makaka move on huhu
Felt the same way.
Girrrlll. I've been rooting for Junghwan the whole time
R888888 😭❤
anong movie to?
whenever i think of u, all i could say is "it felt so different w him talaga." drew, dama ko na di kana talaga babalik. kaya kahit nasasaktan ako na aminin sa sarili na wala nang susunod na pag-uusap sa pagitan natin, kailangan ko idikdik sa kukote ko yon. hindi ka naman na babalik, kaya sana maka graduate na ako sayo
Finally, a song that I can completely relate with.
"You were a good dream."
No.
"You were the best that I ever had so far."
☹️
Yeah i had a dream of my crush and I didnt want to end😭😭
What ifs’ really mess with our head noh? What if we tried giving in a little more? We could’ve ended worst than how we did OR we could still be happy together. I somehow knew that things will end this way it feels like inevitable. It feels like even if we tried we we’re just meant to not to be together this time. It hurts seeing you with someone else but i will try to be happy for you. Sa susunod ako naman ang masaya :) sa ngayon hinga hinga na lang muna ang gagawin ko
:(((
Bakit ang sakit? :((
:(
Hey random person who's scrolling through the comments...you're amazing and wonderful. I hope your day is gonna great.
Thank you 🙂
You're amazing too! Stay safe 😊
❤️❤️❤️
💪
Thank you. You, too.
I want us to end up in this lifetime, palangga 🥺 1:10
Ang powerful ng music noh? This comment section made me again realize how one song can bring out the most vulnerable version of a person. At dahil dyan, sana lahat ng mga nangungulila sa mga taong mahal nila mabigyan ng pagkakataon na makita ulit sila, para makapagusap, maitama ang mga mali at higit sa lahat, mailahad ang tunay na damdamin. Maaring maayos ang mga bagay-bagay at maaring hindi pero iba kasi yung pakiramdam eh kahit na makita mo lang yung tao na yun, para bang as soon as you see this person, somehow, it becomes easier to breathe. Who knows, maybe someday, in the parallel universe, magtagpo kayong muli. Kung mangyari yun, pahalagahan mo ang bawat sandali ha, wag mong palampasin ang pagkakataon.
Can someone appreciate how pretty the watercolor paintings here was? KASI ANG GANDAAAAAA COLOR SCHEME PALANG OMAYGAHD PLUS THE PERFECT SONG WITH PHENOMENAL LYRICS UGH TALK ABOUT PERFECTION
OMGGG IFYYY I REALLY WANTED TO TRY WATERCOLOUR PAINTING BUT I JUST WASN'T TALENTED IN ARTS. 🤧✊
Why did I type in all caps tho? 😂
imagine having ben&ben write a song about your lovelife. UGH GOALS. To anne jou, the owner of the story this beautiful song is based on, i hope you find someone you'll spend a lifetime with in this world, in this time. You deserve it ❤️
Stopped listening to this for months because this used to be our song. Now, I could finally listen to this without feeling anything, literally nothing. ;)
maybe we need to lose the love we genuinely wanted to make room for the love we truly deserve.
“I’d spend a lifetime waiting in vain.”
-I’ve waited for you every day because you left without any clear explanation to why things need to end that way.
“You were a good dream.”
-the memories we had carved into my heart that sometimes i think it was too good to be true. Indeed, you were and will always just be a dream.
“Never mind, you were never mine.”
-and at the end, I decided to let go of every piece of you because I was tired of holding on to someone who was never mine to begin with.
Listening to this song felt like all my wounds appeared again, but I am grateful. Every day, I am healing more & more and as I look back, hatred and sorrow were already gone.. happiness only remains.
Ben & Ben, another masterpiece i must say. It’s funny because throughout my healing process, your songs were always a part of it. In this lifetime, thank you for existing.
🤧🥺❤
This is crazzzzzy. 🤧🤧🤧
😭😭😭😭😭
Aww 😩
💙💛
"I was scared to lose you then, but secrets turn into regrets".
Damn. This new song of Ben&Ben is full of what if's and regrets.
What if we chose to stay in love rather than giving up on each other?
What if you fulfilled your promises instead of leaving me behind?
What if you loved me more than I have loved you so that you will never leave me no matter what?
To the man I love the most, I hope that you are happy now. You will always be my comfort and home. I love you and I will keep on loving you even if it's not me anymore because I'm still hoping that you will find your way back to me :(
Sameeeeee here 😭
Bwisit naman to si ateeee nakakaiyaak naman!
Hirap umasa.
Damn. Almost 8 years from now na kaming magbrestfriend pero bakit di niya pa rin nararamdaman na mahal ko siya? Even though na sa jokes nasasabi ko pero di pa rin niya nagagawang iseryoso 🥺. But anyway, I am blessed to have him kasi, kahit na minsan magkaroon siya ng girlfriend but still he cannot forget me, kasi ako lagi yung nilalapitan niya sa oras na may problema siya o kaya kapag nasasaktan siya. To the man who read this comment. I love you so much kahit dito man lang makita mo at maramdaman mo yung pagmamahal ko sayo 💞♥️
hahahahahahaha saket naman
another masterpiece. sending hugs to everyone!! we’ll get through this.
"a love that wasn't given the chance to die a natural death, would end up immortal"
To Anne Jou:
She will surely find someone who will love her more than she deserves! ❤️ The mere fact that they didn't end up together means she belongs to someone. Your bestfriend might be your TOTGA (The One That Got Away) but there is someone in this lifetime waiting for you to be his TOTGA (The One That God Allows) too. ❤️
I also had the same exeperience, yung di nyo maamin ang feelings nyo sa isat isa. It was 8 years ago. A year later parang naka hint yunng lalaki but all he did was stare at me with a feeling of regret. I waited pero walang nangyari, kaya naka move on na ako and nakahanap ng the one. Pati siya meron na din. Last month he finally said sorry. So thats it. Siguro nga may mga tao na pinagtagbo kayo pero hindi tinadhana. All we have to do is move on and love someone na tinadhana ka talaga.
Amen!
Maam Disturbinsilence, sakit nga nyan.. Yung palagi mong sinabi na sana, pano kaya kung kami at naamin ang feelings? Huhuhu..😑 My Gosh! Pero ok lang hndi nman ako nag sisi sa the one ko ngayon.. Hehe.. 😊
The One That GOD Allows. hayyyyy needed this! 😌😭
Appreciate your comment 💕
I hope she finds her man. Ang sakit nung story nya pero may ibang plano si God for her. Kelangan nya lang magtiwala.
We tend to be hesitant about our own true feelings towards the particular person. Sometimes, we thought that it may turn into regrets and our bond with them may get awkward. Or worse, get broken apart. Yet, time will pass. You will never find your answer unless you gain the courage to voice out. Unspoken feelings represents regret. Be brave despite the consequences. Let it out and be at ease.
Yes very truee
Ben & ben releasing songs is the only good thing happening in 2020
this song truly hurts so much, it really hits me right in the heart. thank you so much for making this song. i've been playing this for quite a while now, trying to move on from an unrequited love with my best friend. he was my sunshine, my dawn and my everything- since seventh grade, i've always had strong feelings for him, even going as far as to write letters, poems, essays meant for him, stories inspired by him, drawings that i made thinking of him; i dedicated all that i had to him. he was the one who lifted me up, the one who started a crack in me to free myself from pleasing people. he taught me what love was like and what affection truly meant, only to leave me behind with no clarification for his actions. were all those sweet moments, where we cuddled, clinged and almost kissed each other mean nothing to him? till this day, i kind of still wait for him to finally look my way and realize that i love him with all my heart. this has been extremely unhealthy for me as it is affecting my mental health the more i think about the 'what ifs' between us and what i need to do and how much i need to improve just to become the 'right' standard in his eyes. thankfully, im trying to move on now, especially thanks to this song which has been my comfort, i've now realized that there was never any risk worth taking because i never had a chance to begin with.
so to everyone here, please, do not stay in love with that person who won't even look your way, that person who wouldn't even try to find you in a crowd full of people they knew. don't measure your worth based on what that person thinks of you, you're worth much more than you believe you are. find someone who does love you and will treat you the same way you treat others with love and affection. peace out! 🫶
"But secrets turn into regret"
That unsaid words that will hunt you for lifetime
hi everyone I have stage 4 leukemia and fighting a brain tumor also I have congenital heart disease stage4 nadin po please do pray for me hoping for your prayers
keep fighting, I know you're strong. just breathe, believe, be brave. I'll be praying for you.
I'll pray for you po. Just keep on fighting. God is good ❤️😇
Laban lang po! ❤️
I pray for u sir keep fighting kaya mo yan 😊👌
Hwaiting po kuya:)
"I was scared to lose you then, but secrets turn into regrets, buried feelings grow" This song taught me that If you really love someone be brave enough to tell them. If they don't love you back, at least you won't go through life wondering what would have been, Tell them before it's too late or you'll end up asking yourself "Was there a lifetime waiting for us in a world where I was yours?" 💔
What if the person is in a relationship? Is it still okay to confess my feelings for that person? :(
@@__-fm7oi sakit naman niyan 😭 Pero yung iba yun yung ginagawa nag coconfess para maka let go sila para gumaan yung pakiramdam nila 😊
@@__-fm7oi it is, just tell him/her.
True kahit gano man kasakit yung resulta
Yes you should. If he/she is really your friend... He/she will understand
This song just proves that even if you both had feelings for each other but hesitation gets ahead of you rather than positivity you'll never have that chance again, years later you'll regret that it got ahead of you instead of saying your true feelings for each other. Everytime that i play this song that someone whom I hesitated to give a shot and tell him my true feelings always cross my mind.
how could someone disliked this song? THIS IS A MASTERPIECE.
Siguro di masarap ulam nila kanina. Or naiyak sila kaya nila dinislike haha
h e y y o w baka narelate sila at naalala nila ung nagyaring katulad sa song😂😔
magkakatunog lang lahat ng kanta nila e. kung di lang nakakarelate ang pinoy sa lyrics, pagsasawaan agad yan.
sobrang nasaktan
Masyado ho silang nasaktan sa kanta.
"All this time i have been yours"
the song hits different on another level when you can actually picture out someone while listening. the lyrics, every line, the sentimental music, it reminds me of her - my long time shs crush, a close friend.
we were both actually waiting for this song to be premiered since we are both b&b fans and after i listened to it, after month/s of not chatting, i dm'ed her immediately telling her that this song reminded me of her and what we used to be - in my shock, i was dumbfounded to know that she felt the same way.
she will never be mine, and i sadly can't be hers, but this song will be with us until we will have the time and courage to try things again - which i think is too ambitious to even think about.
she actually said that this is could be our theme song, i don't actually know if i should be happy or not, but this song will always, always, always, remind me of her and the chances i didn't take while it was there.
i miss you, you were a good dream :)
edit:
all this time i have been yours, and i still am
Hayyyyy
Hoy kasakit ani
"nevermind, you were never mine"
i did have a girl bestfriend and i never realized that i've been falling for her. i confessed to her but still she's not ready for any relationships, now i'm ready to wait for her and i would like to spent a lifetime with her. there's so many things i wanna spent with her, memories to be made with her, i am too scared to lose her because sya lang nakakaintindi sakin. there are words still unsaid to her. wish youre the one who will i spent my lifetime with.
Feel you bro just say what you feel about her
@@ericxhcurioso3357 i did, but she dont want to be in releationship pa. she's still scared of commitment that's why im waiting for her. i am scared that what if there are other guys will come to her and she'll fall inlove with another man, it may hurt me a lot but i need to accept it-- i just want to see her happy even tho im not the reason :)
Joshua Daet “i am scared that what if there are other guys will come to her and she’ll fall in love with another man” That’s fucking legit and that what if tortures me until i learned the art of letting go even it damn hurts like hell.
kaya mo yan bro
Just move on just like they say "there are plenty more fish in the sea" oks Lang yan ganyan din nangyari sakin ayaw siya sakin kasi di siya ready and wala siya nakita sakin na gusto nya personalities shits nya move on ka nalang
Ang sakit mo talaga Ben&Ben. Wala na akong mababalikan ngayon sa kaniya. Nawala na yung lifetime na pinapangarap namin.
"What if we tried giving in a little more, to the warmth we had before."
4 years ago, I once had a lover that i had to let go for some reason and i regretted that decision so much.
Now these past few days we've been in contact with each other,
talkin' about the times we shared together, about how things were perfect between us in the past.
Then i realised, that after all this time, I really am still into her.
Like there's this flame that never went out even when we went on our separate ways.
Now we're gonna try again.
And this time, I wont let go.
Rooting for both of you! Keep us updated, hoping for the best!
Omgggg pls doooo u so lucky
Aww I cri. Never let go of each other this time. Spend a lifetime together huhu. 💕
Damn I wish I was like you ☺ I also want to fix things with my ex. I want to redo everything we had but I don't know if she'd let me let alone let me communicate with her. May takot sa dibdib ko at lito sa isip ko na naglalaban kung kakausapin ko ba sya o wag na lang. Hayaan ko na lang. But then this song made me think hard again. I hope you don't screw this up 🙂 I wish I had the same chance you had. I'm rooting for you ☺☺☺
❤️❤️❤️
We all have that one person in our mind while listening to this song.
Yes
:(
True
and that’s person doesn’t like u
Yeah
“Was it the wrong time? What if we tried giving in a little more?”
This line hurt me so much. It has been weeks since we ended what we had. I honestly don’t know what to call it. We once talked about it and we both know from the start that this love came from the wrong timing. Despite of the consequences we may encounter as days passed, we didn’t let them stop what’s happening between us. I let myself fall deeper tho I know that there will be an ending and from the very start, I’m the loser. I know you wouldn’t be able to read this but I just want the world to know how much I love you up until now, and that I will be always here. One call away.
“Nevermind, you were never mine”
How I wish I can call u mine but Lord knows that I can’t. I am super happy I met a man like you. You made me feel very special. You made me feel my worth. I just wanna say that no matter what happens I’ll be just right here. No more words to say. Always remember that even though you were never mine, I am and I will be always yours. I love you, til our paths cross again.
aw :((
Pablo
I suffered the same fate a month ago. My world has been crumbled ever since
Buried feelings grows hits hard.
It was a high school puppy love. But we're both guys, in a catholic school.
Naaalala ko pa dadayo pa ako ng computer shop hanggang gabi para lang makachat siya. Tas tuwing pauwi napapaskip ako sa paglakad ko pabalik ng bahay sa tuwa.
I didn't know if reciprocated ba ang feelings ko, but it sure felt like it did. I like observing people. I liked observing him with his other friends. He was never this way sa kanila. Sobrang rowdy, jokester. Ganun din siya sa akin, lagi kami nag-aasaran, pero tuwing magkasama kami laging walang space in between, kulang na lang maging conjoined twins. I loooved it so much. Yung closeness. Yung warmth.
Never nagprogress tho. I was too scared to lose the friendship. Hanggang sa nanligaw na lang siya ng girl. Tapos dumistansya na lang ako.
Hahaha grabe yung pagtrigger ng memories ng song na 'to. I love it Ben&Ben. Keep making music na nagreresonate sa mga tao ❤
•--•
Lesson learned:
Never fall in love with straight guys. Mahirap talaga pag part ka ng LGBTQ+ community, natatakot kang ipakita yung nararamdaman mo.
Edit: Same Tayo
That "never mind, you were never mine" hits differently.
"Was there a lifetime waiting for us, in a world where I was yours?"
First line palang, sinampal na ako eh. I was willing to risk what I had to be with him, but he never had any intentions to do so with me. I gambled for the first time, turned out I didnt have the beginners luck. Bangon!
Dammnn!!! I kinda relate to this
laban lang po tayo 😊
Hugs! 🤗
To you who I never said what I felt,
It’s been so long and I don’t know if you remember me still.
I’ve been always proud of what you’ve become.
I am happy of whatever or whoever decide to be.
Ang galing mo, Doc. I am praying for you.
We may not have ended with each other but know that,
in a lifetime where we’re together, I am yours and I will love you still.
We all have our “almost”.
The one that showed us something that speaks louder than words. No descriptions. You both are just waiting for the one who would make a move first. But the saddest kind of waiting is simultaneous waiting; no one dares to make a move. They say the most beautiful love stories are those that were never told and those that were never tried; no heartaches but just regrets.
Life is full of uncertainty. And that uncertainty grows fears within our hearts. That is why there are things we never dared to try. Maybe losing an almost is way better than losing an all-hurt in the end. Maybe there are love stories destined to remain just stories that will live in our hearts for a LIFETIME.
grabe ka naman po ate magpatama. di ako nakailag
Well said 👏❤️
Wanna be friends?
:(((
💔😪
I have a close friend who i liked and eventually loved for almost 5years already. I confessed during the 4th year but I didn't hear him out, we still continued to be close friends we went out on friendly dates and it's as if nothing has changed for him, he was really kind and considerate. He didn't realize that his consideration could hurt me too. Recently I asked him if he likes me, to finally get the answer that i've been running from, i know he would say he only thinks of me as his close friend, but I really wanted it to come directly from him so I mustered up all my courage and asked him "Gusto mo ba ako", I can only accept Yes or No as an answer but instead of being brutally honest with me, he is giving me false hopes like "Sa ngayon friends lang muna tayo." "Possibilities", "it's not a rejection tho" , I think that's even worse he is keeping his options open. Hindi ko nakuha yung rejection na kailangan ko para maka move on instead he just drew the line sa space na sa tingin niya ay safe. Nakakapagod maging convenient. And at some point I think that I became too easy that I made him feel that I'm subtly throwing myself at him (which is not).
Ughhh I know he just wants to save our friendship and he has trauma from his ex but sometimes, just sometimes it really hurts so much. 😭 I wanted to tell him na hindi lahat katulad ng ex mo and I would always understand how helping his family and his education is his top priority right now. And still, after everything I can still say that I'll always be here for him, even if it hurts.
I know he is going through something right now, I trust that any obstacle that gets in his way he can overcome it. Fighting 🙌
This song (lifetime), pagtingin and araw araw are songs that sang the words that my heart couldn't speak of. Lyrics that for me are forbidden to be expressed. Thank you, Ben and Ben for producing quality music .💖💖🙌
"Nakakapagod maging convenient" felt that mygod
Open possibilities really do be hurt someone who's expecting much. We just have to understand that we can't take what we want.
Is it odd if it happens to a guy? haha
I experience the same thing. yung pinapakitaan ka ng motibo pero yung ending you're just an option to her, at yung mas masakit pa, I didn't become an option instead I was just like a comfort zone for her dahil yung boyfriend ng bestfriend nya yun yung nagugustohan nya. magulo na silang tatlo tapos nasali pa ako and it was too late to avoid kasi late ko na nalaman yung sitwasyun nila na buo na yung feelings ko sakanya, ako yung andyan tuwing nasasaktan sya sa mga pangyayari so what am I? 😅 I also once mustered my courage and confess my feelings to her. and yes I also got "possibilities" at hindi klarong sagot sa kanya and after that, I cut my feelings and connection to her because in the first place she never once see my worth and she was become blind to her love for that guy at hindi nya naisip na ako yung nasatabi nya lagi through her ups and down. Sadya nga talaga sigurong ganun yung tadhana, it will let you experience something painful things to help you become much better for the next chapter of your life. 🙂
@@dbavenido8573 It's not odd to happen to a guy. I'm glad you cut your feelings to her and I'm doing the same thing. But I can't lose connection, I admire you for having much more courage than I do have.
My friendship for him is a blessing, I am eternally grateful for that, I know I'm really important to him but that doesn't make me someone he sees his future with and that's fine. In time, someone will find us whom we can love more than we loved them.
Zara Tanguin the way what you were saying you're just okay to live in pain para sa taong importante sayo because nanghihinayang ka na baka mawala yung pinag ipunan nyong memories dalawa. but, call me stone hearted person pero if I were you, I'll rather end that pain than to stay with such pain just to not give up the memories you both had. mas lalong sumasakit habang pinatatagal mo yan. Think about your own happiness maging selfish ka minsan para sa ikasasaya mo, you don't have anyone to comfort you for now but only your own self and every painful thing has happened to us we only have ourselves to comfort us. But, it is up to your choices I just only give advice, in the end you are the only one who choose your own way. 😁✌🏻
Fun Fact: this is their shortest song yet
True
Shortest yet pinakamasakit
@@andrieperater5764 indeed