I feel the second woman. The #1 reason I don’t want to have kids rn (I’m 27) is I grew up getting beat up by my father. Bullied by father. He said hurtful things I’ll never forget. He solved problems with violence and it’s all I know. So I’m in therapy trying to unfck myself. And what I realized was, my father was probably undiagnosed with some sht. Dude has unresolved trauma and as a result, he created a son who is spitting image of him potentially going down his path of alcoholism. He has a daughter who is just a broken mess mentally and emotionally who has his temper. I can’t involve a child in that. So for everybody pressuring folks to have kids. It’s not enough. Having them is the easy part. Keeping them pure, happy, and healthy is the hard part. Sometimes the best parenting is admitting you’re not fit to be a parent rn. I rather travel and I don’t see myself not doing that. Kids need stability. I’m not willing to sit down and be in one spot for an extended period of time. I love kids. I hope I have them one day but that day will not be anytime soon.
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As a mom of 3 beautiful babies, I support women who don’t want babies. Kids are difficult in every aspect .
I feel the second woman. The #1 reason I don’t want to have kids rn (I’m 27) is I grew up getting beat up by my father. Bullied by father. He said hurtful things I’ll never forget. He solved problems with violence and it’s all I know. So I’m in therapy trying to unfck myself. And what I realized was, my father was probably undiagnosed with some sht. Dude has unresolved trauma and as a result, he created a son who is spitting image of him potentially going down his path of alcoholism. He has a daughter who is just a broken mess mentally and emotionally who has his temper. I can’t involve a child in that. So for everybody pressuring folks to have kids. It’s not enough. Having them is the easy part. Keeping them pure, happy, and healthy is the hard part. Sometimes the best parenting is admitting you’re not fit to be a parent rn. I rather travel and I don’t see myself not doing that. Kids need stability. I’m not willing to sit down and be in one spot for an extended period of time. I love kids. I hope I have them one day but that day will not be anytime soon.
I dont even want to be an aunt...I just dont want to have anything to do with sticky stinky kids or teens...I barely wanna interact with some adults
Fair enough 😂
They are noisy too
If you don’t want kids your not entitled to do the dirty
No😂
@ then go and get surgery to make sure you don’t have kids.
Says who?
Entitled lol I’m entitled to do whatever me and my partner wants to do with our bodies. Be so flipping fr rn.
@@lovelyphoenix413no lol it’s not like I’ve ever been pregnant. I’m doing just fine without surgery.
Weakkkkkk lol don’t have kids then, you’re missing out and operating in so much fear. Have kids if you can, it’s one of the best gifts of life.
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If someone doesn't want kids. Leave them be and focus on your own kids lady.
It’s a gift TO YOU. Y’all stay complaining about being parents. How is that better than me getting laid plenty and often in another country.
Lol
Tell them 😂😂😂😂
Nah, you sound miserable. Focus on your babies, not us.