Cousin: Parents smoked meth night before two-week-old disappeared

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  • Опубликовано: 16 янв 2025

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  • @TheCorneliusRambo
    @TheCorneliusRambo 5 лет назад +1538

    this guy seems like he did 10x more to find that baby than the parents did. bless his soul. hope he can get clean.

    • @Stonktradomus
      @Stonktradomus 4 года назад +21

      He is just happy he gets to get a break from jail. If he cared so much, where was he at knowing the baby lived in such poor conditions. Oh, he knew what was going on. But he was just concerned with going there to smoke meth.

    • @lolasmom5816
      @lolasmom5816 4 года назад +51

      Addiction is a choice but unfortunately its numbs you from thinking the same way sober people do. They cant grasp that a baby being in a nasty house is a bad thing. Thats part of why its a bad idea for addicts to have children in their care. They cant rationalize the way they need to to take care of a baby or even help someone elses baby. This isnt a secret yet the system continues to let addicts have unsupervised care of small children. Its mind-boggling

    • @dr.barrycohn5461
      @dr.barrycohn5461 4 года назад

      @That Urge Exactly.

    • @jeffreycooper2967
      @jeffreycooper2967 4 года назад +61

      @@Stonktradomus Not everyone is in a position to help. you sound privileged

    • @Stonktradomus
      @Stonktradomus 4 года назад +26

      @@jeffreycooper2967, there is a *huge* difference between not being in a position to help others, and directly contributing to a problem, while turning your back to what children are suffering through. It's very sad that you can't see that on your own. Anyone who knows me would laugh hysterically at your comment. When you call someone privileged that you don't even know, it just exposes your patterns of thinking, or lack thereof. I am a single father of 5 boys, and have no family that will ever help me. I take care of my boys 365 days a year, and literally never get any type of break, whatsoever. I don't even have the luxury of holding a traditional job, because I am so very needed at home. My boys lost their Mom last year, and now I am in it all alone. Does that sound like privilege to you? But somehow, I manage to do it all by myself, every day of the year, with literally no help, and became a successful stock investor, all on my own dime, without anyone ever helping me. I am the complete opposite of privileged. Did you go from being homeless, and addicted to drugs many years ago, to being able to hold down a family of five all by yourself, and manage to start off with $100 on the stock market, stay up half the night every night doing research. consistently invest more, and grow your portfolio to the point that you can now count on it for Financial Freedom? It really shows how willfully ignorant people are when they throw around such a common parrot phrase, such as privileged. There is no such thing as being privileged, unless you come from a wealthy family, and I do not. Fortunately, opinions don't pay my bills.

  • @andreashields6983
    @andreashields6983 5 лет назад +2056

    My younger sister had a baby after being addicted to meth. At the time the baby was born, we thought she was clean. About a month later, she called me & said someone needs to come get this baby. I can’t take care of her. We kept the baby for a year. My sister got clean & got her baby back. She has been clean for 10 plus years & is an amazing mother. It’s sad that this baby didn’t get that same chance.

    • @taylorc146
      @taylorc146 5 лет назад +148

      Andrea Shields your sister is a strong woman for realizing that.

    • @mariemoreno4411
      @mariemoreno4411 5 лет назад +83

      Thanks for sharing that personal story I was in the. Same situation

    • @Capkirk
      @Capkirk 5 лет назад +90

      And thank you Andrea for being such a great sister for stepping in

    • @wishmartinez6403
      @wishmartinez6403 5 лет назад +73

      This is the extended support I'm talking about.

    • @dynodish
      @dynodish 5 лет назад +67

      Awesome story. It gives people hope. Getting off meth is very hard.

  • @rud5101
    @rud5101 4 года назад +713

    This man has the saddest eyes I've ever seen...

  • @justjen1682
    @justjen1682 5 лет назад +1636

    He’s gonna touch so many lives one day cause he’s gonna get clean after all this. I’m praying for you my guy! You are healed and delivered.

  • @mimimena1127
    @mimimena1127 5 лет назад +1235

    I pray this man turns his life around. He seems like an honest guy. Drugs just got the best of him.

    • @nancyayers6355
      @nancyayers6355 5 лет назад +10

      Madeley Mena Don't lose any sleep over this guy. He's not going to change. I wouldn't be surprised if he paid a visit to his dealer on his way home from testifying.

    • @andreashields6983
      @andreashields6983 5 лет назад +75

      Nancy Ayers please be careful on your fall off your high horse!

    • @22ergie
      @22ergie 5 лет назад +3

      don't BET on it

    • @22ergie
      @22ergie 5 лет назад +2

      @@nancyayers6355 exactly!

    • @wandabeauty2118
      @wandabeauty2118 5 лет назад +24

      Yeah I do too, he’s probably the only one with any intelligence out of all of them.

  • @queenofthebutterflies5212
    @queenofthebutterflies5212 4 года назад +511

    I really like the comments here. So much Compassion for an addict. He does look like someone who truly cares. Drugs or no drugs, it has no relevance as to whether you've done a crime.

    • @mamarobyn
      @mamarobyn 4 года назад +7

      I know...I feel like I have finally found the softer side of YT....

    • @megbee7423
      @megbee7423 4 года назад +10

      So true just sad most ppl don't see things that way. In reality the comment sections of RUclips are usually riddled with comments about how drug addicts should just give up and die. We need more compassion and understanding for the right kind of ppl.

    • @marcellaalloway487
      @marcellaalloway487 3 года назад +2

      Some people can do drugs and not hurt people. They still know right from wrong takes evil to hurt an innocent child. I hate drugs drugs are bad mmmm k 👌 I can't watch thisvi don't even know what happened to that baby I can hardly watch this.

    • @bluedolphin5792
      @bluedolphin5792 3 года назад +1

      Remember cons are great actors

    • @amberwalters9613
      @amberwalters9613 3 года назад +3

      @@marcellaalloway487 a person can in the early stages of addiction do that without doing certain things but if the person continues to use and it leads to full blown addiction overtime then they will do things they wouldn't think of ever doing like stealing robbing prostituting full blown addiction you will do anything for the drug why early recovery is important so the person doesn't go into full-blown addiction where they start stealing and stuff

  • @kathyh7591
    @kathyh7591 5 лет назад +766

    This baby was born into one messed up family and she never stood a chance. R.I.P. SWEET BABY.

    • @dreamsofturtles1828
      @dreamsofturtles1828 5 лет назад +24

      Yes, unless this child was removed from this family and given to a healthy family, she was doomed one way or another...so sad..

    • @krizzy__
      @krizzy__ 5 лет назад +32

      Another reason why the hospital and social services should of intervened and stopped a newborn going home with drug addicts as parents.

    • @mamabear4872
      @mamabear4872 5 лет назад +7

      K C I haven’t heard testimony about this- but did the baby test positive for drugs after birth?

    • @doreenviolet6529
      @doreenviolet6529 5 лет назад +6

      R.I.P. baby girl😢😢

    • @krizzy__
      @krizzy__ 5 лет назад +12

      @@mamabear4872 I'm not sure about that I'm assuming they did a toxicology report, and they did say the family had a lot of drug abuse , in my country they test the mam's and baby's urine to make sure and if any class A drugs are present they will have a conference meeting about the baby's wellfare and make a plan or in bad cases they give the baby to Foster families, that's why I was shocked that they got to bring her home.

  • @mikaylawilliams2367
    @mikaylawilliams2367 5 лет назад +849

    Difference between a drug addict and a baby killer right here folks. Hes putting the lil angels story before his own.

    • @CornvilleConsigliere87
      @CornvilleConsigliere87 4 года назад +10

      Well stated Mikayla

    • @CandaceStevens
      @CandaceStevens 4 года назад +4

      💯💯💯

    • @calascibettiplatania5951
      @calascibettiplatania5951 4 года назад +4

      Njsaoirse732sean You think he Didn’t?

    • @joeferrugia4941
      @joeferrugia4941 4 года назад +18

      @@calascibettiplatania5951 Monmouth nj in the house. This man put his morals before principal. Good guy for this.

    • @sborras12
      @sborras12 4 года назад +1

      @@joeferrugia4941 seaside nj ! Buy unfortunately i moved to fla..hate it 😒

  • @christinehelmick233
    @christinehelmick233 4 года назад +1036

    He’s such a handsome guy, he seems so genuine and hurt by this tragic situation. I pray he gets his life together( drug free) he appears to be a really good guy , and well spoken .

    • @thesmartoneification
      @thesmartoneification 4 года назад +47

      ....don't know about well spoken lmao

    • @rebeccaberry9635
      @rebeccaberry9635 4 года назад +45

      He's well spoken and cute. Come on leave the drugs alone. You have KIDS!!!!

    • @Anna12000
      @Anna12000 4 года назад +43

      Yes thats what i was thinking .. he looks so sweet and hurt by this situation... i hope that he gets sober...

    • @christym5783
      @christym5783 4 года назад +8

      Conleth deVerdun
      NOT A CHANCE IN HELL! I hope and pray to God Christopher & Courtney NEVER get ANYTHING! I pray they NEVER EVER get anything to eat or drink EVER in their lives!! That lil baby isn't! HORRIBLE HORRIBLE people! God WILL answer to those 2.

    • @isaidwtfover
      @isaidwtfover 4 года назад +11

      @@christym5783 I'm sure you meant they will answer to God. Yeah, we all will.

  • @TheMommaDiary
    @TheMommaDiary 5 лет назад +2312

    This man is doing his best to be helpful and honest. Knowing if he tells these ppl he was over there doing meth it could compromise him with his children. He has a good heart and is very well mannered. Drugs got to him before his life could! I pray he finds sobriety. He’s going to be an amazing dad and husband! Pls get sober!!!
    Edit: every time he says “yes ma’am” my heart melts. If you see this; pls stay sober! You have so much going for you!!!!

    • @traciewasley7750
      @traciewasley7750 5 лет назад +125

      ❤ I wish there were more people like you!

    • @DMichelle5
      @DMichelle5 5 лет назад +125

      Yes very well said!! I pray for them all to get clean. This guy seems like he has a good chance to get sober!! Its nice to read positive comments like this!

    • @highfunq2863
      @highfunq2863 5 лет назад +73

      You guys are sweet. Keep brightening up the world you lot!

    • @forpetessake3532
      @forpetessake3532 5 лет назад +14

      Princess Melanie his brain cells are so fried I wonder if he realizes that .

    • @DylansMom
      @DylansMom 5 лет назад +63

      So beautifully said @princessmelanie! Rest in peace sweet girl...🙏🏻🙏🏻 for all of these people! It's truly heartbreaking, this whole situation. Addiction & mental illness often go hand in hand...I see SO many broken people in this case. It just hurts my heart! (I lost my amazing 23yr old son 4 years ago & I'm still trying to find my footing... Im insanely proud/blessed to be able to be his mom though & that will never change!) I hadn't planned on rambling on...(appreciate it tho!) Peaceful & positive thoughts to you all 💙

  • @jaiewall8673
    @jaiewall8673 5 лет назад +1474

    The guy is nervous because he sees the cameras and all the people. He’s also embarrassed for what he has done. You can tell by the way he is speaking. Seems like a good guy in a bad spot. Someone needs to tell him that who he is isn’t who he has to be.

    • @andygirl333
      @andygirl333 5 лет назад +20

      I agree with you

    • @dynodish
      @dynodish 5 лет назад +38

      Yeah, gives the impression that he's good people.

    • @larettawilcox3615
      @larettawilcox3615 5 лет назад +17

      He need help to see that!! Hope for the best for him.This probably scared him.He like nothing else.prays for him!!🙏

    • @JohnBoosh
      @JohnBoosh 5 лет назад +19

      He is absolutely a nervous wreck. Understandable

    • @JohnBoosh
      @JohnBoosh 5 лет назад +25

      blue shadows he’s clearly an addict, but at least he doing the right thing and trying to tell the story of what happened

  • @beatrixjones2982
    @beatrixjones2982 4 года назад +432

    Sweet man. I’d gladly hire him to work for me. Beautiful manners. Stay strong young man! You have captured the hearts of thousands of people pulling for you!

    • @LCc4fam
      @LCc4fam 4 года назад +30

      Thank you for this comment. Most ppl see felons and don’t give them a chance at a new beginning and life to better themselves and refuse them jobs. I am not a felon but I believe in second chances. It’s nice to know someone else believes in chances too. Especially for a man like this one.

    • @heckhound926
      @heckhound926 4 года назад +19

      Until he rips you off and steals all your shit. Never trust a drug addict. You're giving him way too much credit for doing the right thing.

    • @shireenhendricks2194
      @shireenhendricks2194 4 года назад +13

      Seems like a kindhearted man. Best wishes

    • @robertamontgomery4549
      @robertamontgomery4549 4 года назад +11

      Definitely, people can change . Alot of times trauma causes a person to use to cope , I wish him the best and God bless🙏🤗💪💖

    • @matthewdobbs1753
      @matthewdobbs1753 4 года назад +6

      @@LCc4fam we are all felons

  • @karlypearl9701
    @karlypearl9701 5 лет назад +1397

    An honest witness...like him or not, hes honest.

    • @bridgetsmith5962
      @bridgetsmith5962 5 лет назад +20

      But he still was exposing his five children to meth!

    • @karlypearl9701
      @karlypearl9701 5 лет назад +78

      Yea no shit guys. It doesnt take a morally superior Being to see that.
      But his honesty and first hand knowledge makes him a critical component in this case.

    • @kimmyceeisme
      @kimmyceeisme 5 лет назад +18

      Karly Pearl Exactly 👏

    • @Curious-Irish-Angel
      @Curious-Irish-Angel 5 лет назад +41

      @@karlypearl9701 agreed , and to add ..HIS 5 children are not dead...he spoke his truth..admitted he smoked meth with them the night b4, I'm quite sure DCFS and /or the cops did NOT fall short of some sort of investigation on him, finance, and the children he has...to be sure they are safe...especially after what he admitted as far as his own addiction..
      he had a bad feeling about the situation from "get"..HE was actively searching for the baby..

    • @karlypearl9701
      @karlypearl9701 5 лет назад +73

      @@Curious-Irish-Angel Yes. & if he was a heartless pos he would sit there and lie to cover his own ass. I think the guy deserves some credit. & As a recovering drug addict (4 years clean) I know how hard it is to rise out of that hell. Its not so cut and dry as people pretend "oh, you did drugs- youre an evil person, unworthy of life or liberty" .These people dont know what its like. I was born addicted to drugs and by the sound of it, this guy may well have been too. Evenso, noone plans to be a meth head. Damage done, no excuses, but if not for compassion we would live in a very dark world.
      There is always hope.

  • @LivingForTMH
    @LivingForTMH 5 лет назад +1189

    I hope he gets to see all these positive comments. Lots of strangers watching this can see his heart. I hope it gives him strength and courage to get sober

    • @jauntycommander1065
      @jauntycommander1065 4 года назад +31

      He reminds me of my ex. Beautiful man, amazing soul, and an addict who couldnt put the needle down. I miss him so much. It is one of the greatest tragedies, someone so good, trapped by their own habit.

    • @ghetonici8985
      @ghetonici8985 4 года назад +4

    • @DJMAGICVINYL
      @DJMAGICVINYL 4 года назад +4

      Bs!!

    • @jauntycommander1065
      @jauntycommander1065 4 года назад +20

      @@DJMAGICVINYL looks like someone wasn't hugged enough as a child..

    • @Jenni-Martikainen
      @Jenni-Martikainen 4 года назад

      Jaunty Commander how’s your ex doing nowdays?

  • @ThankYouScienc3
    @ThankYouScienc3 4 года назад +256

    As a former 10 year IV heroin and meth addict, the comments about this gentleman have been inspiring to read. Almost makes me want to try and reach out to him to make sure hes seen them. Surely would be great motivation for him if hes still struggling with addiction and whatever issues have fueled that addiction. Hope you're doing well, man.

    • @kayjay407
      @kayjay407 3 года назад +13

      You are a true ROCKSTAR!♥️ How special that you have the instinct to care and encourage. I would love to help as well.🙏♥️

    • @awg7068
      @awg7068 3 года назад +7

      Keep it going man, you’re an inspiration!!!

    • @sashagarcia6205
      @sashagarcia6205 3 года назад +4

      you sre thats former? you looke high asf if yur pixc js but if u rly are sober Good job stay strong either way! god bless

    • @ThankYouScienc3
      @ThankYouScienc3 3 года назад +16

      @@sashagarcia6205 lol I never said I was sober, I'll smoke weed til the day I die. Though, fwiw pretty sure I'm not even high in the pic, we are facing the sun on a very bright day.

    • @jordanlong836
      @jordanlong836 3 года назад +3

      You really mean that. Not some bs internet lie. 10 years iv heroin? How did you get okay? Did you do it without family bro? Howd you do it. Could you please tell me. I dont have family, i dont have friends and i really mean that. 0. None. Im by myself alone. Maybe this is my mind grasping at final straws to preserve my life but if theres a way ill try. Theres just nothing i can do and i cant go through the withdrawals man. Its to bad. Or else i wouldve stopped long, long time ago. 22 i started 27 i am now..

  • @argarman09
    @argarman09 5 лет назад +1185

    I've seen more emotion from this guy than from both parents combined.

    • @kccourt6910
      @kccourt6910 5 лет назад +20

      Railey Cavener-Garman oh girlllll this is what I’m searching the comments for!! Thank you very much!! Ur sooooo right!

    • @allysonparker4203
      @allysonparker4203 4 года назад +19

      He's doing everything he can not to brake down 😥😥💔💔

    • @montacap
      @montacap 4 года назад +3

      You want to see emotion in any case like this watch the corner cake stand hands go over eyes on forehead tears and tissues wip out and every time i say wait you can kill your kid but can't handle the aftermath what the hell and wonder why the judge never orders them to look up . It's in every case .

    • @brittanybynature
      @brittanybynature 4 года назад +4

      Besides the emotion they have when it comes to each other which is disgusting

    • @milesdufourny4813
      @milesdufourny4813 4 года назад +6

      He looks like he's on the verge of breaking down in tears.

  • @MilyMoon27
    @MilyMoon27 5 лет назад +896

    For once...reading through the comments...made me realize there is still good hearted people out there. I'm a recovering addict so I see things dif than those who are not addicts ...but i see these comments and people seeing this man on the stand being honest and caring and for who he is not what he does. Addiction is no joke. And it doesnt discriminate ..it could be bob on the corner in the hood or it could be an atty living in the most expensive house. It is in all walks of life. It's very unfortunate. But I love how everyone sees this man for who he is. Gives me a little faith in society !
    Now...I admire his honesty and I pray he finds peace and healing. It's not easy, but it's for sure possible. You just have to want it and believe in yourself!
    May this baby rest in peace. .I dont like to speculate but my own opinion is..I really think the mom did it. I really do. The way she was screaming for the baby as if she would answer...and watching some of these videos...I whole heartedly think she might have done this. I'm kinda back and fourth about chris.

    • @Charlathejournalingjunky
      @Charlathejournalingjunky 5 лет назад +44

      I'm also a recovering addict I got clean when my daughter was born 15 years ago, although hard I did it for my child, I've had slip ups over the years but thankfully I still have my 2 girls, haven't touched anything for 7 years and am getting stronger Every day, it can B done if u want it bad enough, I was an addict but I was also a mum, not the best but I did as good as I could, both my girls are straight A students, we can be good parents, and I take my hat off to every addict who overcomes this illness, together we can do it, if everyone stops judging and supports addicts, they will overcome it. Respect to you hun and well done xxx

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 4 года назад +19

      Much love to both of you and any others that keep trying to be the best they can be. Overcoming any situation and feeling positive about it is a step in the right direction. Keep loving yourself, don't put yourself down, self-love is vital.

    • @Charlathejournalingjunky
      @Charlathejournalingjunky 4 года назад +9

      @@lorimiller4301 thank you angel, love n respect to you xx

    • @montacap
      @montacap 4 года назад +10

      Here is what pisses me off .
      Our government gets paid by the 1 percent that owns drug companies to have fda say yes this oxycodone and other legal versions of street drugs are safe for human consumption. Then give it out to adults and kids alike like they are in a pez dispenser. Then when it comes out they are bad legal street drugs we wage a war on them .
      Stop them going out and let the same drug companies get into the business of rehabilitation so they can bill insurance making money to clean up there own drugs .
      How in the hell is this ok ?
      Let me know if I missed anything ?
      Now after the war on opioids now you see all these people on meth killing there babies i think it's all a part of the same sickness . The corrosion of our government system . Update now we have a virus that stops the whole world and we turn to those same companies with billions of dollars and say here give us the same stuff you have been giving us for the flu please and we will make you more rich then we are now with 12,000 dollar for the shot and 20,000 for the pill and let you make us literally financed life. Then they I hear charge this dude for disposing of the body that he left behind of a child molester. How is that fare ?

    • @reanna1441
      @reanna1441 4 года назад +4

      Holy crap this is about a baby not these jokers!!!

  • @nettechellew6777
    @nettechellew6777 4 года назад +53

    He was all about that child. He's inspired so many people! Clean, users, young and old! Bless him....to me he's the definition of a true man!

  • @seraivalentina6649
    @seraivalentina6649 5 лет назад +396

    He has potential in life. Without much education he is well spoken. He could go places with some education and without drugs. He seems respectful and honest. I feel for him truly. I will pray for you and you can turn this around into a positive!!!

    • @johnmccarthy7195
      @johnmccarthy7195 3 года назад

      I see everyone is praying when a more appropriate word would be wishing or hoping..

    • @mulliganstew72
      @mulliganstew72 3 года назад +2

      He addresses the lawyer as “ma’am”. He was raised right.

    • @elainehare8666
      @elainehare8666 3 года назад +2

      He needs to move away from that area and get a new set of friends and turn his life around. His drug addict friends and family will just pull him back.

    • @maryomalley6312
      @maryomalley6312 Год назад

      @@mulliganstew72”raised right” because he says ma’am?!? All the “ma’am’s” in the world couldn’t protect him from his addictions. Because of drugs, their lives, ALL of them, sound like they’re living in hell on earth.

  • @paulabrown6840
    @paulabrown6840 5 лет назад +1832

    This guy is telling the truth. He cares about that babies death. Ok he has a drug problem by he is being truthful. Don’t come for me.

    • @shota7483
      @shota7483 5 лет назад +119

      I agree with you. You can hear it in his voice and see it in his eyes. He's really hurting.

    • @paulabrown6840
      @paulabrown6840 5 лет назад +69

      Crystal.yes and he doesn’t hum and haw..also his body language is congruent with what he’s saying. 🤷🏻‍♀️😌

    • @janelle009
      @janelle009 5 лет назад +77

      Agreed! He even called news channels to help. Many would have taken off and stayed far away from the situation..

    • @betsymartin4709
      @betsymartin4709 5 лет назад +114

      He looks so sad .and credit to him he is being honest .Let us all pray that he gets clean .

    • @melindac3368
      @melindac3368 5 лет назад +26

      They don't have a single clue about how difficult it is to have a child and take care of said child properly. They either have no education about how life works or don't believe it applies to them.

  • @doggiestylepetresort
    @doggiestylepetresort 4 года назад +65

    He is trying so hard to be honest and answer the best he possibly can!

  • @sarahdixon6011
    @sarahdixon6011 5 лет назад +543

    He looks extremely emotional, I hope this tragedy scares the living shit out of him, and stops him doing drugs.
    God has the baby in his arms.

    • @larettawilcox3615
      @larettawilcox3615 5 лет назад +12

      I think it will.He is extremely upset.

    • @utahrr1
      @utahrr1 5 лет назад +12

      Let us pray that the Holy Spirit convicts him to come to the cross and accept his free gift of salvation.

    • @scott3594
      @scott3594 4 года назад +1

      He's showing no emotion besides moving his eyebrows

    • @ashleeburgoon3000
      @ashleeburgoon3000 4 года назад +4

      Hopefully but emotions are the leading cause to using again to mask the pain 😭😭 regardless he is a good man

    • @angelagarutti6118
      @angelagarutti6118 4 года назад +6

      He needs to change all his friends and probably write off alot of family also even tho that seems mean but hes a dad and has a family that needs him

  • @reemclaughlin4260
    @reemclaughlin4260 5 лет назад +488

    Handsome young man PLEASE GET AND STAY SOBER FOR YOUR KIDS! 🙏🏻💖🕊

    • @Kimzielynn
      @Kimzielynn 5 лет назад +11

      He is handsome .I hope he stays clean and sober .

    • @robinlaniertomlinson5373
      @robinlaniertomlinson5373 5 лет назад +4

      Amen!

    • @byronburkhammer2224
      @byronburkhammer2224 4 года назад +3

      Ree McLaughlin they only smoked one bowl of meth, that’s pretty responsible !!

    • @aaronwilliams720
      @aaronwilliams720 4 года назад +4

      Yes I could be his baee. I would get iff drugs and love on him and tell him how much I love him and would be a loyal boyfriend. I love what I see in the comments and am no longer on meth but I'm hooked on pills that I'm prescribed because I have not made it to sobriety if I'm being completely honest. I'm a 27 year old with an 8 year old son and openly bisexual. I don't trust these men and women with my heart but his aura and daddy look as well, I would definitely give him an opportunity to be my man. I don't wish to hear hate qnd am just sharing my opinion. He's a good man he just needs to know he matters and is loved. This is crazy because I hate these people that try to run game on me that I don't connect with them. He's such a handsome daddy and would wake up to something amazing every morning ;) I'm gonna keep it cute but god bless this man and please keep him sober and please help me. I know pills aren't any better. God bless.

    • @alyssabryson7013
      @alyssabryson7013 4 года назад +4

      Ree McLaughlin he’s very handsome

  • @ChiTownCzech91
    @ChiTownCzech91 4 года назад +70

    This guy has a good heart. I hope he’s clean and doing well.

  • @catherinewinkeler5304
    @catherinewinkeler5304 5 лет назад +450

    Now this is what a call a man. God bless him and keep him sober.

    • @tonispring4875
      @tonispring4875 4 года назад +7

      Catherine Winkeler really? He’s in jail for doing meth when he has 5 kids at home😂😂😂😂he’s nice and polite but he’s in court in front of a judge he may have to go up against later for his own case. Why would he disrespectful? He’s trying to be helpful but calling him what a real man is? Kinda stretching it don’t ya think? A real man wouldn’t be in browns on a lock up with 5 kids at home!!!!

    • @tonispring4875
      @tonispring4875 4 года назад

      Maybe god will bless him with 5 more kids😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @missesvee5132
      @missesvee5132 4 года назад +8

      Toni Spring your ignorance is so evident. You are definitely a wimp , boy 🙄

    • @Sara_Hendrix
      @Sara_Hendrix 4 года назад

      @@missesvee5132 👏👏👏👏

    • @johncountiss7273
      @johncountiss7273 4 года назад +5

      Toni Spring are you perfect? He’s trying to help in this case? He’s an honest man that’s fallen on hard times. Have some compassion you fucking dick head.

  • @cathyt144
    @cathyt144 5 лет назад +571

    I like this dude. He seems genuinely hurt and traumatized by all of this Hes honest when hes telling what he saw and heard imo. Hes made mistakes in life as we all have. But hes still being a decent person.

    • @2fly4uri27
      @2fly4uri27 5 лет назад +12

      Yes you can tell he is being very sincere about the whole thing... Just because he said he smoked a bowl of meth does not mean he is a bad person by no means

    • @OGitGirlJess
      @OGitGirlJess 4 года назад +1

      Cathy T Exactly! Every single one of us have fallen short! 🙏

    • @pixiebezona
      @pixiebezona 4 года назад +1

      Agreed.

    • @missychase3014
      @missychase3014 4 года назад +2

      I guess now he’s been through this, he will have another excuse to do meth! Get real people. He’s a drug addict. I’m sure he doesn’t take care of his own kids. They were probably with him doing meth🤔

    • @dizzyazzlizzy
      @dizzyazzlizzy 4 года назад +7

      @@missychase3014 wow.. You've clearly lost faith in humanity. We'll pray for you.

  • @melyndaemler9207
    @melyndaemler9207 4 года назад +26

    My hubby used to be an addict and has been clean for many years. When I met him he was couch surfing trying to stay clean. We moved to the country away from influences now we own and he operates a pretty successful custom home building company. Addiction does not have to define your entire life. I respect this guys honesty and pray he gets the same chances in life my hubby got. Change your scenery guy

  • @mistylee1543
    @mistylee1543 5 лет назад +286

    It takes a real big hearted honest person to speak up like he is! Going against his family bc it’s the right thing to do! I hope he can get clean and have a good life

    • @cincin4515
      @cincin4515 3 года назад

      Garbage. He's behaving like a human being thats protecting his own arse while at least not participating in evil first hand. Nothing more.

    • @eh-i1841
      @eh-i1841 2 года назад +1

      He’s not going against his family.He’s speaking for a baby,who’s very closest family went against her,and murdered the poor child.

    • @Eldron2027
      @Eldron2027 2 года назад

      @@cincin4515 your anger makes you dumb

    • @justthatgirl-ct4jo
      @justthatgirl-ct4jo 2 года назад

      @@cincin4515 You need to understand something, even with addicts, kids are off limits. When something like this happens, nobody is going to have your back. The VAST MAJORITY of people suffering from addiction do not hurt their kids. You only hear the worst of the worst on the news, which makes sense, people working and living their lives isn't news worthy. There is almost nobody that's going to try and cover for something this horrific.

  • @ivanahugankiss8414
    @ivanahugankiss8414 5 лет назад +161

    Dude, get yourself cleaned up. Dont waste your life away on meth. You seem like a good person that just needs help

  • @jennigee51
    @jennigee51 4 года назад +65

    He’s such a polite and caring man, I so hope he’s out and doing the best with himself, his life and his family. I too hope he sees all these positive comments.

  • @marciayoung1094
    @marciayoung1094 5 лет назад +191

    One thing is for sure, this guy has all of the woman's heart's, I pray he gets clean for his wife and children

    • @tonispring4875
      @tonispring4875 4 года назад +5

      Marcia Young this is killing me! He’s not gonna be disrespectful in front of a judge he’s probably gonna be seeing for his own case. Why would he be an asshole? Unless he’s dumb. Some of these women would probably have 5 more kids with him they’re so desperate and dumb

    • @shellyhambleton9015
      @shellyhambleton9015 4 года назад

      This guy is deceptive, learn to read eyes, body language, swallowing etc..he's sweating ..lots more

    • @sharithompson1672
      @sharithompson1672 4 года назад +21

      Shelly Hambleton As a trial attorney, I can say that the body language you are talking about is common with a lot of witnesses. Testifying is quite stressful for most people. There are however certain “tells” commonly associated with a witness testifying falsely. As an ex-prosecutor even I tend to believe his testimony.

    • @thegamingchannel9023
      @thegamingchannel9023 4 года назад +6

      I would ne nerveus to if had to sit there even tho was only a witness or something

    • @natashadefoe7035
      @natashadefoe7035 4 года назад +6

      For me, it's because you can tell he cares about this kid. Reminds me of my child's uncle...He's not an addict but this guy has the same amount of love for this baby that my kids uncle has for mine... you can tell when a guy really cares about kids.

  • @ejzubor
    @ejzubor 5 лет назад +279

    I'm so impressed with the judge in this case. He does not play & he's 100% listening to every word being said. At first I thought he was being biased but hes clearly just doing his job 👏

    • @atomatlas5595
      @atomatlas5595 5 лет назад +14

      Newton County Judges are fair and reasonable. Especially Judge Wynn and Judge Johnson. They always give you time to speak

    • @kaseycavazos9775
      @kaseycavazos9775 5 лет назад

      Yes!!!!! Love him!!!

  • @justinkooker1460
    @justinkooker1460 3 года назад +22

    You got five kids my dude, thats 5 reasons to get clean. Do it for them and don't look back.

  • @kellied.3311
    @kellied.3311 5 лет назад +281

    Young Mr. Weatherford, I thought you were very forthcoming on the stand. I pray that after your release that you and your family rise above this in memory of Caliyah. I am so sorry for your loss and I wish you a better life.

    • @Recenseur
      @Recenseur 5 лет назад +2

      He is in jail?

    • @kellied.3311
      @kellied.3311 5 лет назад +2

      @@Recenseur He was at the time.

    • @Recenseur
      @Recenseur 5 лет назад +1

      @@kellied.3311
      Ok, Kellie thank you...what you do to night? I want date you.

  • @JraiLuvChild
    @JraiLuvChild 5 лет назад +139

    So sad he is traumatized and also dealing with his own demons. It is said that his cousin has him twisted up in her mess. I am glad he was strong enough to testify on behalf of the precious angel.

  • @kingayy9267
    @kingayy9267 2 года назад +18

    2:19 His enthusiasm about the baby sleeping well was adorable.
    He's probably great with kids, like the fun uncle most of us have and love to pieces.
    RIP Baby Caliyah

    • @Carole-j3t
      @Carole-j3t 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah, his eyebrows relaxed, delight showed in his eyes

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 6 месяцев назад

      @user-gx7rn6jn7o
      It was cute.
      I hope he's doing better now.
      He doesn't seem like a bad guy.

  • @picklep9812
    @picklep9812 5 лет назад +470

    This guy is traumatized. I feel bad for him

    • @pauldouglas4158
      @pauldouglas4158 5 лет назад +2

      You feel bad for him? Why the fuck is that

    • @misscleo378
      @misscleo378 5 лет назад +6

      Naw, he’s just unable to string a cohesive sentence together. All that we know of this man is that he’s a convicted druggie who confessed to using drugs while his five children were present. He’s up there giving his testimony of the events of that evening because he knows that McNabb and Bell could potentially accuse him of the murder of their baby. This isn’t trauma, it’s fear.

    • @marilynnewell7040
      @marilynnewell7040 5 лет назад +10

      Paul Douglas I do feel sorry for him He didn't do anything wrong he was only trying to help.!.

    • @isitoveryet9525
      @isitoveryet9525 5 лет назад +26

      @@pauldouglas4158 Because this was obviously extremely traumatic, just because he was or is addicted to drugs, doesn't mean he's subhuman. He didn't murder a baby, and he's doing the right thing by testifying. People like you suck...so heartless & judgmental, I'm sure you're far from perfect Paul, have a little empathy.

    • @nancyayers6355
      @nancyayers6355 5 лет назад +3

      Pickle P Well, feel bad and let it go! Go plant a flower or do something constructive. These people are the lowest dregs of society!

  • @maryhorton9261
    @maryhorton9261 5 лет назад +215

    Witness is very respectful kind man. I can tell he’s being sincerely honest with every question. I will pray for him that life gets better for him. God give him the strength to say no to drugs.

  • @Novastar314
    @Novastar314 3 года назад +56

    Craig........
    If you ever see this....
    Read the comments....
    ☯️ Lots of understanding ..and people in your corner..even praying for you.
    Hope all is well after all this turmoil and torture.

  • @debratownsend5495
    @debratownsend5495 5 лет назад +496

    THE GUY ON THE STAND HAS A REAL KIND HEART, AND ALTHOUGH HE'S A DRUG METH ADDICT, HE IS BLUNTLY HONEST🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔😚😚

    • @sugarcoma7662
      @sugarcoma7662 5 лет назад +17

      %100.. he's hurting you can tell. He is sickened by what happened because he has kids

    • @joshbrown1381
      @joshbrown1381 5 лет назад +22

      Only difference between this man and many of us is just a few different choices. I lost a good friend to complications due a meth habit.
      I can tell you many of them feel trapped in the life with no other choices. It's too easy to go right back when the light at the end of the tunnel seems too far away.

    • @isitoveryet9525
      @isitoveryet9525 5 лет назад +14

      Exactly, and that further proves that the drugs didn't make those monsters kill that poor baby, they were just as evil & twisted as It gets!

    • @nancyayers6355
      @nancyayers6355 5 лет назад +2

      Debra Townsend He is still an ADDICT. Don't whitewash him.

    • @joshbrown1381
      @joshbrown1381 5 лет назад +19

      @@nancyayers6355 I feel like you have a complete misunderstanding of what an Addict is? While I absolutely hate meth and what it does to people, they are still people. Anyone can easily become an addict. When you look past the fake happiness you see so many people are unhappy and looking for an escape. Slippery slopes.

  • @lipglosskitten26
    @lipglosskitten26 5 лет назад +291

    Thank God this man still has morals. Addiction is such a horrific disease but it's not an excuse!! So many people wouldn't have told the truth. He may be addicted to meth but he is not a bad person, he's been forever changed!! He's more upset than those worthless parents!!

    • @sharonracine9607
      @sharonracine9607 5 лет назад +3

      I think this event would be so catalyzing that he is obviously traumatized by it. I believe it should make anyone quit getting high

    • @sharonracine9607
      @sharonracine9607 5 лет назад +2

      Another instance of gods free will plan. Hows that working out for these innocent victims.

    • @lipglosskitten26
      @lipglosskitten26 5 лет назад +3

      @@sharonracine9607 So true, its so horrible our world lost this pure baby with all innocence and beauty through and through. We can only pray this has changed this man, so he can be a man and a father.
      This breaks my heart.
      God Bless you, sending you love & light, Sophia ♡♡-

    • @leonandrews7180
      @leonandrews7180 5 лет назад +4

      Addiction is NOT A DISEASE. Addiction is a hard wired habit usually caused by a disturbance in the user’s life. Could be depression, trauma, anxiety, PTSD or a mental problem such as bipolar disorder.
      Seems like this is a low class impoverished family caught in a drug cycle. People learn their behaviors from family members and peers. If you grew up around an environment of drug and alcohol abuse, more than likely you will abuse drugs and alcohol. Simple as that. No disease. Habits and behaviors.

    • @lipglosskitten26
      @lipglosskitten26 5 лет назад +1

      @Laced WithLacey Love you darlin♡♡-

  • @thatguy3175
    @thatguy3175 4 года назад +150

    Being the recovering addict that i am. I feel for that guy and i hope this man gets his life figured out. Ive been there man. You can make it.
    #1yearclean

    • @lorrainewadsworth6977
      @lorrainewadsworth6977 3 года назад +2

      Well done xxxxx

    • @jeromejack7825
      @jeromejack7825 3 года назад +5

      Continue stay strong big bro happy you clean much love 🙏🏾

    • @lorrainewadsworth6977
      @lorrainewadsworth6977 3 года назад +4

      Continue your battle knowing that people out here in the world, different countries, I'm British, WANT 🙏🙏 you to stay clean and have a life and not just live for drugs., life isn't easy but hey you only get 1....... xxx😘💙🙏

    • @tracey6768
      @tracey6768 3 года назад +2

      💖👏👏👏

    • @brendad940
      @brendad940 3 года назад +4

      Congratulations! That's no joke.

  • @deeliciousgrapes
    @deeliciousgrapes 5 лет назад +439

    Understand that these adults were brought up in the generation of crack and alcohol....the new kids are being brought up with parents who are full blown meth addicts. The guy on the stand seems like a nice guy with potential but them drugs got him

    • @Whyme266
      @Whyme266 5 лет назад +10

      LAW MAKES MORE MONEY PLUCKING UP EVERY ADDICT AVAILABLE PLUSS 💰 AND PROPERTY ONCE DEALER'S BUILD UP THEIR PYRAMID IF U ASK ME😶 THIS IS OUTCOME 😢

    • @hartyjay187
      @hartyjay187 5 лет назад +15

      Drug addiction is a plague that controls ppl but it does not explain what happened to the child, I think nothing can explain it, it was a very evil thing to do and in my mind I will never understand why?

    • @deeliciousgrapes
      @deeliciousgrapes 5 лет назад +8

      @@hartyjay187 I know this. I'm speaking in general and yes, this is a very sad situation and drugs contributed to this as well. This isn't the 1st and unfortunately isn't gonna be the last incident where a kid is hurt and or killed because of either drug deals or someone doing drugs. These ppl are apparently messed up already but what I am saying is that drugs are the root to a lot of crime and numbers prove that.

    • @marys3127
      @marys3127 5 лет назад +22

      They talk about the “opioid crisis” nonstop and they try to make people believe that it’s prescription drugs. It isn’t prescription drugs. It’s meth, fentanyl, and other street drugs that people get illegally. These aren’t people going to the doctor and getting prescriptions.

    • @doreenviolet6529
      @doreenviolet6529 5 лет назад +11

      I agree on this statement 💯💯💯
      This guy seems like he could have gone far!! I hope he gets it together after all this and his kids can be in a better place🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @VJ-fm6vz
    @VJ-fm6vz 5 лет назад +281

    The look on his face and his voice when the prosecutor asked him if he took the baby. Priceless!!! Now that’s how one who is innocent reacts!

    • @nancyayers6355
      @nancyayers6355 5 лет назад +6

      Val J Woop-te-do! Let's all shoot up and celebrate!

    • @amber_Forever16
      @amber_Forever16 5 лет назад +3

      Matt Mccaslin yes!!!

    • @zipg246
      @zipg246 5 лет назад +1

      Timestamp? I can't find that part...

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 5 лет назад +13

      @Zip G
      29:35 it's the very last line of questioning

    • @zipg246
      @zipg246 5 лет назад +17

      @@kingayy9267 thanks man my dumbass kept rewinding trying to find it an all I had to do was finish the last 2 minutes smh 😂

  • @luckyme2636
    @luckyme2636 4 года назад +30

    This poor man has so much emotion and I can tell he really wanted to find that little baby girl...With the shock and trauma of all this he is still honest but can tell things are obviously a bit foggy and hard to remember and I can understandthat..but he did an amazing job being on stand and being honest. I wish him the best! God bless him!

  • @kccourt6910
    @kccourt6910 5 лет назад +117

    16:22 when he says “Could be better” I felt that deep in my soul...he meant that...he wasn’t just trying to say the right words...God Bless this man...get sober and you will be an incredible daddy and husband sir 🙏🏻❤️His honesty is painful and beautiful to see all at once😔

    • @annak399
      @annak399 4 года назад +2

      Time stamp is 16:22 :)

    • @kccourt6910
      @kccourt6910 3 года назад +1

      @@annak399 oops!! thanks!

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 2 года назад

      The expression on his face the whole time looks like shame. I feel bad for him.
      A "bad" person wouldn't GAF that they were forced to show up in jail beige, but he clearly wished to be able to attend under different circumstances.

  • @christinecamley
    @christinecamley 5 лет назад +124

    This witness is trying his best. He is badly addicted but I believe him. I think he is being honest.

    • @lulabell79_31
      @lulabell79_31 3 года назад +2

      If he is being honest, then HOW, when he clearly said he didn't use meth on a regular basis, did you come to your conclusion that he is "badly addicted?"
      The hypocrisy and overwhelming gullibility and spewing of bullshit in this comment section is astounding!!!

    • @justthatgirl-ct4jo
      @justthatgirl-ct4jo 3 года назад

      @@lulabell79_31 It honestly doesn't matter. He's a good person regardless of his drug addiction. You just want to judge and be on a high horse. Most addicts are decent, functioning people whether your like it or not.

    • @lulabell79_31
      @lulabell79_31 3 года назад

      @@justthatgirl-ct4jo I don't know who t.f. you're talking to. I didn't judge anybody. I was actually defending him so check yourself before you talk shit.

    • @justthatgirl-ct4jo
      @justthatgirl-ct4jo 3 года назад +1

      @@lulabell79_31 I think I tagged the wrong person. I'm not sure what happened here lol.

    • @lulabell79_31
      @lulabell79_31 3 года назад

      @@justthatgirl-ct4jo my bad. Shit happens.

  • @willowsullivan6121
    @willowsullivan6121 4 года назад +25

    This man is so sincere and wants to do the best thing. He’s had a hard life, but he can change his life around and be a really good member of society.

  • @v8vrooooom
    @v8vrooooom 5 лет назад +322

    This guy's neck tattoos look fairly tame and downright classy compared to our defendant

    • @ramrodnj
      @ramrodnj 5 лет назад +20

      He’s basically wearing a 3 piece suit compared to lizard boy

    • @NCTess
      @NCTess 5 лет назад +10

      Not sure how tats have anything to do with this. Judge away smdh

    • @yuriyl1618
      @yuriyl1618 4 года назад +11

      @@NCTess it's an observation and opinion not a judgement

    • @Dr_JSH
      @Dr_JSH 4 года назад +5

      @@NCTess Come on. The baby's father went a bit too gung-ho with the tattooing.
      What kind of job would he have pursued, if he weren't in prison.

    • @winterlynn9012
      @winterlynn9012 4 года назад +5

      @@Dr_JSH Exactly. He has something along the lines of "Face up or lace up " tattooed across his forehead along with teardrops under his eye..Basically those are the kinda tattoos that would be an automatic" No " if he ever tried applying for a decent job. I have 2 tiny stars tattooed next to my eye and my job doesn't have a problem with and I can easily cover them with a little makeup if I I needed too. But this dude basically has lyrics to a rap song, and the teardrops can mean many different things but most people believe they mean you've killed someone. This guy was 27 at the time of his arrest and his face looks like a toddler scribbled on it. It's obvious he didn't have any intention of doing anything with himself other than continuing his life of crime and smoking meth.

  • @cb0u1118
    @cb0u1118 5 лет назад +82

    I feel for him. Bless his heart. he is doing his best to help bring Caliyah justice. I pray he gets the help he needs and his life is free from addiction.

  • @rubytuesday5412
    @rubytuesday5412 4 года назад +48

    I just want to say *WELL DONE* Craig Weatherford.

  • @ncredbird3998
    @ncredbird3998 5 лет назад +224

    Seems he was the only one of the friends that attempted to do whatever it took to find that baby, even if it led to his own arrest for drugs. I have to say I admire him for the efforts and selflessness he did for the better of finding that baby. I hope his time in jail held him choose to stay sobor when his time is up. He could be a good productive man , father and husband without those drugs eating his brain.

    • @nancyayers6355
      @nancyayers6355 5 лет назад +1

      NC redbird The guy is an ADDICT. Even a pit bull might lick the hand that feeds him - or tear it off their arm!

    • @ncredbird3998
      @ncredbird3998 5 лет назад +4

      @@nancyayers6355 right, as I said it doesn't sound as if any are sobor and I also know those like him often testify for their own good more than for doing what was right, yet I can't say every drug addicts are completely bad people, they still can care about others. Addiction leads nowhere good. I often hear addics use blame of the place they live, can't find work etc, as to why they get on drugs and they can't see how stupid that is. Never have I heard someone saying their life got better taking drugs, it's just that it affects them mentally giving them a serious twisted way of thinking that only makes sense to them. It's just a sad case

    • @JoanieWartooth
      @JoanieWartooth 5 лет назад +16

      @@nancyayers6355 addicts are people. And they aren't all bad people. Addicts do recover!

    • @nowirehangers2815
      @nowirehangers2815 5 лет назад +7

      @@nancyayers6355 he DID NOT HAVE TO TESTIFY.
      YOU SOUND IGNORANT AND HATEFILLED

    • @meganmorris9284
      @meganmorris9284 5 лет назад +11

      I'm a drug addict, a heroin addict to be exact. But I am a good person and I have morals. It doesn't make sense to me why people think all addicts are bad people cos we aren't.

  • @heathernicole3655
    @heathernicole3655 5 лет назад +212

    Being as he is locked up currently....we can surmise that he is clean/sober currently....and without those drugs numbing or filtering shit out, he is feeling the full impact of this horrific nightmare.
    I pray he can stay clean once he's out of jail and can live a much different life.

    • @taylorah6409
      @taylorah6409 5 лет назад +16

      You can get drugs in jail just as easy as you can on the street. Hopefully he is my partaking. He seems like a stand up dude, and I hope he can recover from this and lead a happy and healthy life with his wife and kids

    • @xXEthenia
      @xXEthenia 5 лет назад +3

      Whys he in jail now ?

    • @peterbeadman9010
      @peterbeadman9010 5 лет назад +4

      @@xXEthenia parole violation he said at the beginning. I'm not sure what that could be as I'm from the UK.

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 5 лет назад +5

      Marijuana possession, he said
      I'm not sure if that was the original charge for which he was put on probation
      or if getting caught with marijuana while on probation for a different charge was the violation for which he was locked up

    • @angelausa3269
      @angelausa3269 5 лет назад +15

      Heather Nicole .. if he is still In jail it might be an idea that a person could write this man .. inform him of how his testimony impacted others an how society views him .. tell him (possibly print out comment thread) let him see how others view him .. it could possibly be life changing for him .. everyone can see he is a deserving individual

  • @jayspencer8893
    @jayspencer8893 3 года назад +12

    I really like this guy. Super polite, super composed, and just honest. You can see in his eyes he's being 100% genuine.

  • @sammiwood4926
    @sammiwood4926 5 лет назад +170

    I cant sit still if any of my 3 kids are even 15 mins late home and they are 17, 15 and 12....... the thought of that poor child being treated as trash and tossed out in the woods like garbage.....I'm crying my heart out for this baby girl and I have a candle lit for her to guide her home...... RIP little C x

    • @amandawhitaker4350
      @amandawhitaker4350 5 лет назад +1

      I'm that same way with my 14 year old

    • @sammiwood4926
      @sammiwood4926 5 лет назад +5

      @@amandawhitaker4350 I just cant understand how she was running around shouting about screaming the baby's name like she was going to answer..... she was 14 days old...... parents like her deserve to be stabilised immediately and never be allowed access to a child nevermind her own ever again......

    • @elainebird58
      @elainebird58 5 лет назад

      Exactly

    • @DrSimpleBeauty
      @DrSimpleBeauty 5 лет назад +3

      I live in LA and my 20yrold in SF and I make her call me whenever she takes a Lyft at night alone. We even have a code word and a plan even though we are 700 miles apart. Good mothers make sure their children are alive and well.

    • @forpetessake3532
      @forpetessake3532 5 лет назад

      samantha pilling No doubt - GOD HAS HER - that’s not in question

  • @RochellB46
    @RochellB46 5 лет назад +111

    At least this man was being honest he even thought Chris killed the baby

  • @sharonbarker5751
    @sharonbarker5751 4 года назад +19

    This is an honest guy. He’s seems to be doing his best, and he’s very respectful.

  • @leighb8485
    @leighb8485 4 года назад +36

    I appreciate this man’s honesty and humility.

  • @KH-dm9zm
    @KH-dm9zm 5 лет назад +265

    Am going to pray for this man. Those judging, pls understand that people who cannot handle hard life do use various substances and things to get through. Addiction comes in many forms. If I had a wish, I would take addiction away from mankind. It tore into my family, lost a sister, aunts, cousin. Proud of my mom when she left alcohol behind. It was rough as a kid living through This shit never knowing what I was coming home to.

  • @mscarolking
    @mscarolking 4 года назад +30

    This poor guilt ridden guy. My heart breaks for him and his honesty

  • @justjen1682
    @justjen1682 5 лет назад +217

    Looking like a Caucasian T.I the rapper head ahh but seriously I can tell he hates the fact he’s an addict. Praying for him

    • @nitapita8744
      @nitapita8744 5 лет назад +5

      jennifer brown that’s a blessed comment ...true compassion x

    • @justjen1682
      @justjen1682 5 лет назад +2

      Yes I’m very compassionate

    • @nitapita8744
      @nitapita8744 5 лет назад +8

      Honestly that’s what some people need sometimes ...instead of all the hating ...we haven’t walked a day in this man’s shoe to understand the hell he maybe going through but still has love in his heart ..

    • @justjen1682
      @justjen1682 5 лет назад +6

      Nita Pita exactly ! I’ve been down that road absolutely no fun at all. God saved me from the street life and drug abuse! So I know if God did it for me it’s available for anybody else. God is compassionate!! ❤️

    • @nitapita8744
      @nitapita8744 5 лет назад +6

      jennifer brown I don’t know you ... but I’m extremely proud of you as a human being ...may God continue to keep you close to him and find someway to get back the children he has lost to drugs but he knows they need him most .... stay sweet ...

  • @Kelligirl999
    @Kelligirl999 5 лет назад +63

    This man is so honest and is trying to give the truthful facts. I pray he gets sober and has a wonderful life.

  • @angelariggstheloudmouthgar6036
    @angelariggstheloudmouthgar6036 3 года назад +54

    This humble man is pitiful. He brought tears to my eyes, with his sincerity. He seems genuinely heartbroken. He appeared to be in the verge of tears throughout his testimony.
    He’s a handsome, polite man. I pray that this horrific tragedy will be the turning point for him ..... I cannot imagine anything more sobering. 😓😭

    • @natalee217
      @natalee217 2 года назад +5

      Pitiful is not a nice word. It has a negative connotation

    • @allydemaio3367
      @allydemaio3367 2 года назад +1

      Did you mean truthful? Pitiful is definitely not the right word and judging by your kind words I don't believe you meant to call him pitiful. Possibly your phone did auto correct and changed the word?

    • @iriedarling253
      @iriedarling253 Год назад

      You meant to use *Piteous

  • @loganhensley1042
    @loganhensley1042 5 лет назад +291

    I feel like everyone in the world 30 and over went to high school with someone named Misty Davis lol

  • @katmckeown5982
    @katmckeown5982 4 года назад +54

    As a recovering addict, I know that many people who are caught up in addiction are seriously traumatised people who have very sensitive feelings. That's why I believe that addiction is no excuse for hurting or killing anyone. Drugs don't make you kill people. Being evil makes you kill people, especially innocent children and especially when they are killed by their own parents. Most addicts who can't cope with their children have the conscience and instinct to ask for help from family members or social services. I know because that's what I did and that's what many of my drug using associates did. It was done with a heavy heart but we had to do what was best for our children until we got our lives together. Thankfully I faced my demons and am clean for a very long time now.

  • @tabathabrabham6419
    @tabathabrabham6419 4 года назад +13

    Sending POSITIVE thoughts and Prayers to you man.

  • @DANCINGequalsMYLIFE
    @DANCINGequalsMYLIFE 5 лет назад +62

    He’s genuinely hurt about this . He’s being truthful & forthcoming . I pray he is healed & delivered & uses his experiences to touch & change lives.
    He held it together pretty well you could tell he wanted to break down .

    • @ek2137
      @ek2137 4 года назад

      This guy has a horrible memory for spneone his age. If I had a nickle for everytime he admits not remembering sonething, I'd be loaded down with nickles🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😁.

    • @burrage59
      @burrage59 3 года назад +1

      The way he says, "Sorry Sir" when he can't remember something. He's being as honest as he can be.

    • @birdie5507
      @birdie5507 3 года назад

      His memory that he can't remember who phoned him, what they said, how something was said, .....So, why then would the rest of his memory be good. He has five children, both he and the girl smoke methamphetamine. Why would a persons looks or disposition when off meth deem him a nice guy who could have done nothing...He said drugs were only in his system...yet didn't know if it was a text or phone call..He is smart but, I will not be so quick to say categorically that he is genuine.

    • @Kim-yy4zd
      @Kim-yy4zd Год назад

      @@birdie5507he said it was traumatic, he just retained the info not how he received it .

  • @Girl._.Interrupted
    @Girl._.Interrupted 4 года назад +64

    This man is carrying so much pain. I can feel it. I hope he is able to release all of that soon and move forward with his life. He may be an addict, but you can see he has love in his heart. He has a purpose. And he will find it.

    • @Sharelleiamhis
      @Sharelleiamhis Год назад

      Yes indeed he will!

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 Год назад

      You can see it in his eyes.
      He looks sad.
      I hope he's doing better these days, because he seems like a genuinely sweet person who was unfortunately stuck with a life that led to him numbing himself with drugs.

  • @ellenlewis9860
    @ellenlewis9860 Год назад +3

    My Dad used to tell me "nothing good happens after midnight." I was 17 and had no idea what he meant. I know now, and midnight really has nothing to do with it. He meant, be home, safe and have your family with you. I miss him so much. I am now 68yo.

    • @euphratesjehan
      @euphratesjehan 9 месяцев назад

      The freaks come out at night

    • @euphratesjehan
      @euphratesjehan 9 месяцев назад

      My mother and grandmother would tell us the same thing. 50 plus years later I really try to be at home before dark, especially with my granddaughter.

    • @euphratesjehan
      @euphratesjehan 9 месяцев назад

      Nothing good happens in the middle of the night

  • @gothhausla111
    @gothhausla111 5 лет назад +40

    This man seems so sweet! I hope he and his family moves away and he stays clean!

  • @lucylove4514
    @lucylove4514 5 лет назад +167

    All these adults doing drugs and whatever else around these kids is so terrible. I can`t imagine what all they went through. My heart aches for all of them. Rest in peace baby Caliyah. I am so sorry you never got to live your life with people who truly loved you and would protect you. You are safe in God`s arms now.

    • @judyberends4586
      @judyberends4586 5 лет назад +2

      DITTO...i agree with you 100%.

    • @judyberends4586
      @judyberends4586 5 лет назад +2

      AMEN

    • @carolclark9434
      @carolclark9434 5 лет назад

      Bless this sweet angel, so many failed her and she never had a chance. RIH sweet baby.

    • @texasjaco9385
      @texasjaco9385 5 лет назад +7

      Let me say this drinking is just as bad , just Cuz it's legal don't mean shit. It takes just as many life's as heroin. U can't function bomb and take care of kids either. Now the womb & sperm donor can die horrible deaths. Cuz murdering,rapping and abusing a child, is unforgivable .

    • @ironmaven1760
      @ironmaven1760 5 лет назад +1

      If they made a cake it'd be a meth cake😡

  • @euphratesjehan
    @euphratesjehan 9 месяцев назад +1

    The lifestyles some people live is so toxic and cancerous. I'm so grateful and blessed and wish all these people get delivered and a fresh new start and clean bright life 🙏🏾

  • @moonflower3515
    @moonflower3515 5 лет назад +66

    This young man is a good man but I doubt he knows he is

    • @muezzathestray750
      @muezzathestray750 4 года назад +5

      Them demons are real. Its sad. A lot of potential lost

    • @shaygoodppl9404
      @shaygoodppl9404 4 года назад +6

      That's a beautiful comment. From your words I can deduct the same of you.

    • @tbird2952
      @tbird2952 3 года назад +3

      Love that you said this and I'm sure you're right. I hope he realizes his worth one day.

    • @nolannolan7323
      @nolannolan7323 3 года назад +2

      You can see a person eyes and just tell, hope him the best.

  • @EllipFlx
    @EllipFlx 5 лет назад +79

    Ya know what coming from a recovering addict myself ..the day my son was born I never touched another substance...I realized I had a huge responsibility to look after a life..5 Years later still clean..but for these people to be smoking meth with a 2 week old baby and an2 year old in the house is gross... you can change if you want to..they should've gave that baby up to a family.that would love her..too many people popping out children and not taking care of them.

    • @EllipFlx
      @EllipFlx 5 лет назад +3

      @Cheryl Smith thank you that was really nice of you

    • @judyberends4586
      @judyberends4586 5 лет назад +1

      I am happy for you and your child. A baby is so innocent and deserves the best care .💞

    • @judyberends4586
      @judyberends4586 5 лет назад

      Happy Mother's Day to you .🍃🌸🍃

    • @TT-ik3zq
      @TT-ik3zq 5 лет назад +1

      Wow!!! You are a rock star... you should be so proud of yourself 👍🏽

    • @skinsciencebymira
      @skinsciencebymira 5 лет назад

      Dejuh Vuh meth does not cause physical withdrawal. The baby would have been better off dealing with withdrawal from heroin sadly, less damaging long term.

  • @francescaoconnor2314
    @francescaoconnor2314 3 года назад +6

    Something about this guy just seems genuine. He cared and is really trying to remember everything and be completely transparent. I hope he and his fiancé and their kids live a long happy life together.

  • @alysskennedy8661
    @alysskennedy8661 5 лет назад +132

    Obviously this witness isn’t the sharpest, however he’s being honest and he’s nervous. Give him a break.

    • @nancyayers6355
      @nancyayers6355 5 лет назад +1

      Alyss Kennedy He's one of the gang. He did nothing whatsoever to help the murdered baby. Screw him!

    • @budgirl1368
      @budgirl1368 5 лет назад

      👍🏼

    • @len2489
      @len2489 5 лет назад +24

      @@nancyayers6355 how was he supposed to know that they were going to murder the baby? STFU

    • @nowirehangers2815
      @nowirehangers2815 5 лет назад +13

      @@nancyayers6355 are YOU on drugs??

    • @ladysansastark5502
      @ladysansastark5502 5 лет назад +12

      @@nancyayers6355 he said when he saw Caliyah she was sleeping & fine, he also said Chris seemed like a proud father, he may have been on drugs but he didnt know they were going to kill the baby. They had a 2 year old who wasnt killed or abused so why would he think they'd kill Caliyah? Its always easy after the fact to point fingers & say this person should've done this or that, but chris & courtney are 1 of thousands of couples all over this country, especially the midwest that are addicted to meth that have disgusting dirty trailers and have children, those children dont usually get beaten to death

  • @lulu5803
    @lulu5803 5 лет назад +58

    I hope this tragedy has shaken this man up enough to get clean and sober. His life is worth it. He still has a conscience. Meth can rob you of everything good that makes you "you" if you let it.

    • @jenjohnson-wagner6556
      @jenjohnson-wagner6556 4 года назад

      Laura G I am sure not! He probably watched his parents do drugs too. I mean the man took his 5 kids along to these murdering parents house and had his kids watch him do drugs! Sick!

    • @locabynature
      @locabynature 3 года назад +1

      @@jenjohnson-wagner6556 I don't see inspirational speaker in your future. 🤣

  • @AdmireMySkills
    @AdmireMySkills 4 года назад +23

    Such a beautiful soul would love to hear how he’s doing 🙏🙏

  • @natw5040
    @natw5040 4 года назад +77

    when you have a "Erie feeling" listen to your gut, this guy has potential.

    • @erikkasepiphany85
      @erikkasepiphany85 3 года назад +9

      He had a feeling he needed to get away from them, he was sensing evil for sure.

  • @amybaby04
    @amybaby04 5 лет назад +51

    Wow he literally threw himself under his OWN BUS!! He's on parole doing time for a parole violation and admits to using meth during this time! That's a REAL DAD!! This man is a good man who was delt a bad hand in life, but will still sacrifice his freedom and his criminal record to bring justice to this baby! I'm surprised how big this man's heart is!

    • @emzzan88
      @emzzan88 Год назад +2

      how is that a good? he has kids on his own and was using meth and was back in prison again. probably not the first time.

    • @Hannoi
      @Hannoi Год назад

      What am I reading, another deadbeat dad for whom drugs are more important than his kids. Why do these people don't know how to use condoms? Why bring children into their shitty lives?

  • @Rain3z
    @Rain3z 3 года назад +5

    All these comments warms my feelers! So much compassion for this man and I agree! He seems honest and genuine, sincerely distraught. Praying for you, brotha!

  • @Alaskan.American
    @Alaskan.American 5 лет назад +26

    I am foster Mom to a baby born addicted and they just had another, same circumstances. When does it stop that these poor babies don't have to go through issues for life or die because of someone else's stupidity and irresponsibility??

  • @geoffpoole483
    @geoffpoole483 5 лет назад +67

    Kids! This is why you shouldn't do drugs.

  • @justanotherday17
    @justanotherday17 7 месяцев назад +1

    This poor family member hurts so deeply for the loss of this little life. The pain is hard to watch...

  • @caseydenise5296
    @caseydenise5296 5 лет назад +50

    Each question is making him relive that day! He is in alot pain. Pray for him! This is something that he will always remember.

  • @pinkdiamanteNM
    @pinkdiamanteNM 5 лет назад +153

    He thinks Chris killed the baby too

    • @kayllllllaz
      @kayllllllaz 5 лет назад +15

      The people closest to chris think he killed the baby so whats that say?? I hope this jury is smarter than the ones on Casey Anthony's case.

    • @isitoveryet9525
      @isitoveryet9525 5 лет назад +5

      @@kayllllllaz Geez....if they get acquitted, I'll completely lose all faith in the justice system, even though I don't have much left as it is. I still can't believe Casey Anthony is free smh. No justice for that poor baby girl.

    • @1blondied
      @1blondied 5 лет назад +11

      I think it was the mother who killed her baby and framed him

    • @joy-115
      @joy-115 4 года назад +1

      @@1blondied I agree!

  • @615BlackBarbie
    @615BlackBarbie 4 года назад +28

    His forehead wrinkles form a heart. Something that he does have.

  • @terridewar1741
    @terridewar1741 5 лет назад +42

    I pray this young man gets himself sober. You can tell he is truly upset

  • @kimberlybeltran8859
    @kimberlybeltran8859 5 лет назад +55

    You can tell he has a good heart. I pray he gets sober.

  • @taylormartin6804
    @taylormartin6804 3 года назад +10

    I'd love to see where he is now. I really hope this helped get him clean from his drug addiction rather than eating him up on the inside and making it worse. God bless you man

    • @nedradavis9561
      @nedradavis9561 2 года назад +2

      He has been clean since and has his own business Craig is doing great

    • @elysabethpoodle6234
      @elysabethpoodle6234 Год назад

      ​@@nedradavis9561i was wondering the same thing. I was so happy to read your comment and hear he is doing well,. I just had a feeling this lovely man would make it. If you know him personally please let him know a woman in Australia thinks he is the sweetest.

  • @deneilbaker
    @deneilbaker 5 лет назад +55

    This guy seems like a good dude. I was judging him before I watched this, but not anymore.

    • @lorrainewadsworth6977
      @lorrainewadsworth6977 3 года назад +5

      Sadly we still judge the book by its cover. He's a drug addict, not a bad man. A man who clearly loves his family. I wish I could help him and his family out, into a better situ.

  • @marilynnewell7040
    @marilynnewell7040 5 лет назад +82

    I really feel bad for this man. He truly felt love for this little girl ! I think he needs help and I hope he gets it!

  • @sivanaidoo7578
    @sivanaidoo7578 4 года назад +13

    This dude's testimony hit me on a VISCERAL level. Props brother, being a fellow drug addict, i can say with some certainty that THE BEST OF US go through the WORST OF TIMES. You seem a decent and, good man. If youre still ridin that pony (or something), just remember the motto: ONE DAY AT A TIME

  • @doreenviolet6529
    @doreenviolet6529 5 лет назад +62

    Wow this is so heart breaking🥺🥺this man is trying to be honest and I feel that he’s so in his feelings about this situation!! I hope he can fix his life for his five children and do better in his life🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽R.I.P. baby girl

    • @nancyayers6355
      @nancyayers6355 5 лет назад

      Doreen Violet It won't happen, sunny-side-up Susie Q!but hey, we can all indulge our fantasies.

    • @hnormizzle
      @hnormizzle 3 года назад

      @@nancyayers6355 You’re such a POS. Tell me you don’t call yourself a Xtian.

  • @josiedaniels3215
    @josiedaniels3215 5 лет назад +30

    This poor man is doing his best, I hope he gets a break and manages to get his life back together x

  • @thequieterubcomethemoreuhe1198
    @thequieterubcomethemoreuhe1198 4 года назад +21

    Their friends that did drugs w/them cared more about the baby than they did!
    The friends have a drug problem but they don't have a problem about caring for children! His sorrow for this baby is more than evident and genuine. His sorrow broke my heart.

  • @ginabizzarosghosts7831
    @ginabizzarosghosts7831 5 лет назад +37

    Drugs and alcohol are the devils most powerful and destructive lies.

    • @sarahdixon6011
      @sarahdixon6011 5 лет назад +3

      It's true, but the devil has a huge arsenal of temptation.
      It's nothing compared to God who's arsenal is the truth😊

    • @stephaniebach__12-24
      @stephaniebach__12-24 4 года назад

      Gina Bizzaro's Ghosts Yes

    • @muezzathestray750
      @muezzathestray750 4 года назад

      Real shit

    • @thegamingchannel9023
      @thegamingchannel9023 4 года назад +1

      It take ma mom and dad they left me at the trash my grandma raised me till she died when was 7 since then till age 18 all faster care and bording schools my so called parents still like this i keep them away from my kids its not good

    • @ginabizzarosghosts7831
      @ginabizzarosghosts7831 4 года назад

      @@thegamingchannel9023 wow I'm.so sorry. Are you ok?

  • @brittanydaniels8304
    @brittanydaniels8304 5 лет назад +31

    The whole situation is completely sad . Gotta alot of respect for him for being honest.

  • @megchris7685
    @megchris7685 Год назад +3

    I started watching and thought “what a genuine guy who seems to really car and be hurt by those events”….. go to leave a kind comment and WOW! SO MANY kind words for this man. This is what should happen more often, bringing people up- kindness-compassion!
    Makes me so happy to see so many kind words.🥰

  • @Inyabizz
    @Inyabizz 5 лет назад +160

    He’s a good looking man and seems sincere... too bad he’s a criminal and a meth head 😞 a pray he can turn his life around 🙏🏽 Rwg sweet innocent baby girl.

    • @andygirl333
      @andygirl333 5 лет назад +2

      Yes

    • @atheistinalabama4206
      @atheistinalabama4206 5 лет назад +8

      IKR🤭 He's actually a nice looking man, seems like a pretty decent guy!! He needs to get it together, he can definitely do hella better than this 💩!!!

    • @deneilbaker
      @deneilbaker 5 лет назад +14

      He is a nice looking man. Commenter above me can’t do any better. Guaranteed.

    • @atheistinalabama4206
      @atheistinalabama4206 5 лет назад +2

      @@deneilbaker
      BBBBBWWWWWWAAAAA😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @adrienneflora7078
      @adrienneflora7078 5 лет назад +4

      He is good looking. I hope he will get the help he needs.