Thank you Madam Speaker for speaking life into this woman, the world needs more people like you. You are anointed and had goosebumps when you started encouraging her by sharing your story . @Ntando may God fight these battles for you, may the supernatural happen for you. Praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏
What I have learnt with the time I got to spend with Ntando, chatting off camera from a personal level. This lady's pain is deeper that most people think. She held on to love more than she should've, compromised her safety, health and her children. She protected 😢 what she shouldn't have and risked what needed protection. Above it all I applaud her courage to continue fighting for herself for a change. People that have never been in her shoes will continue to crusify her... I for one will support her till the very end . She needs love, support and loads of healing ...God loves you Ntando and so do I❣️
She really is in deep pain but she always uses her trauma to manipulate those around her trying to help her. I hope she finds healing because at this point she’s bleeding on every one who crosses her path. The thing is, Ntando is not seeking healing you can see how she struggled to answer Madam Speaker. Going to church is not therapy. Church has its place but lo needs a professional psychologist
@ChooseU4ever That's true. Healing is much needed in her case however Healing without support won't be easy. We need to eas up on Judging her and show her one thing that's she's been longing for....LOVE
@Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda I noted that as well, even from the voice can tell. The other party who victimised her seems to be enjoying and making fun, thinking this is all a game. Really wish she finds healing. This is like a nightmare for her, given how beautiful things were and the sharp turn it took, and she's so beautiful ❤️ ❤️
Oh Ntando my love i also received inbox from private account . Told to stay away from your storry . Told that you will manipulate me. Kodwa what they dont know about me is that i dont listen to ghosts. If they are not bold enough to reveal their identity then they shouldnt bother telling me anything . Keep clearing your chest mama and one day you will find peace . ❣️❣️❣️
Yooohh! Ntando sisi! Your assignment is huuuuuggeeee! There is so much inside of God inside of you for people to sit and risk their souls to eternal damnation? I think you were born to kill many demons and God is building your stage for others to be encouraged not to back down in our own assignments. God is in this fire with you, He chose you!!!
🔥🔥🔥'When people want to see you destroyed, there must be something inside of you that is tempering with the kingdom of darkness.' Watching from Canada 🇨🇦
Talk about this until it no longer bothers you.... I haven't spoke about my trauma it's been six years but I still cry when I think about it. I think I need to talk about it everyday so I can heal ...
A wise person once said everytime you tell your story you heal 🙏🏼 one day you will look back and see how far the Lord has taken you ❤ may God protect you and your Children 🙏🏼 and praying that your book becomes a success ❤
Yes Sisi, you are not a victim…..you are a survivor mommy. And you will keep on surviving. One day you will look back and realise you are a totally different person, completely healed. Let’s trust God for the process.
Ntando Sisi……I pray you detach and lose whatever identity you assumed under the past relationship. Embrace the single you now. God will renew you and give you His identity.
This is so touching sis Ntando remember we're serving a jealous God... So who ever is betraying you please don't blame them God's want you to focus only on Him
Women, where are your accussers now. Jesus asked a lady caught in adultery. I pray your story ends well, and it will. I pray God shields you and the children. Thank you Madam speaker for your compassion.
Ooooh Mkhaya Wam 💔💔💔my home Gal a strong, loving and God fearing woman be strong Sthandwa sam we love you ku Qumbu Cc we will be with you till the end Much Love❤❤❤❤❤
Ntando needs a break from everything. Even explaining herself so that the world understand what's she's going through is not gonna help her. Sekwanele manje. I emphathise with her in this painful journey and I wish this was the last interview she's doing now. She must go home in her own corner, forgive herself for trusting the wrong man, find it in her heart to forgive him, attend therapy and let it go now. Deal with divorce process privately.
Saying this silently in my heart, can she give herself time to go through this with God alone no body else, no media. After God intervened and passes all these stages, she comes to give testimony.
Sorry Ntando i am so sorry. Theres five accounts in this episode that i saw already insulting you. I believe you sis. You are really dealing. I am sorry
Yooh this lady reminds me of how my then best friend use to be Yooh I tried to make her see all the red flags now the man made her quit her job, left her with 2 kids, no house, made her to drop out of varsity only for him to leave with a varsity student now my friend lost everything it so painful to watch
That so called hubby is such a liar, that man liiieeeees, reminds of lebo's latoya😂 Mara madam speaker what's this thing of yours uploading video late, announce upcoming events (dates) that have passed already. Edit them out my queen. One love❤
I hate how court drag divorce dates and lawyers delays everything just to make money. I took my ex husband to our attorney to file for our divorce Feb 2021 we only went to court 24 Feb 2022 with no assets to share because we were married out of community of property. In that process my husband raped march 2021 and he was arrested but Boksburg female detective sold my docket for R8000 21 Dec my husband came to the house started fighting with me as always that day I fought back and he threw me down the stairs I almost died I called the Boksburg police 2 cops arrived I was bleeding and hurt a white male and black police he lied and said I kicked him out of his house I have never seen such rude white police he told me it's his house he can come as he please even after telling them that we don't stay together since he got out of jail we are waiting for our court date in 2 months time. The police told him to open protection order against me left with him leaving me and my children I was hurt and bleeding. Since that day I do not go to the police female Boksburg prosecutor dropped my rape case and told me that South African law even if a child is raped with medicals proving that she's raped if a perpetrator say she gave consent the case is dropped so for me his my husband he has rights to rape me. Madam Speaker South African law failed us over and over it's sad how women are raped and how we women end up with judgment of protection orders because again Boksburg female judges supports and defends rapists. How sad to be a South African women in South Africa. Im sorry my sister, keep on sharing your story.
Fighting where? South Africa ah. South African law and justice is useless. You will see them with their stats next months how many women are raped case reported but man are not arrested. Patrick Shai passed away fighting for my case I mean I'm Mrs Universe SA 2022 2ndPrincess, Mrs Worldwide South Africa, Mrs Worldwide Top12, Mrs Worldwide Heritage 2022 does South African law care that I speak publicly about them hell No.
Ntando i feel ur pain ..I love u ... i even follow u on Tiktok....Ur story is similar 2 u story.....Would love 2 came 2 ur show share with u my story..How my ex husband corned me...
How long was Ntando married to this man? I feel sorry for you sis. These narcissists always do smear campaign against their victims. Work on your healing and divorce that abuser. Your blessings are on the other side if this. You will come out stronger😊
They met via to go in 2008, met in person in 2011, hubby was with his baby mama, she moved on and married another man. They reunited and got married in 2019 or 2020.
So people create fake accounts vele just to insult this lady? So much work. The comments in here are telling. Yoo i am seeing Ntando for the first time but its shocking to hear and literally see and read comments.
She's telling the truth . I was inboxed on TikTok for covering her story and told to stay away from her. She's a lair and manipulative. Someone is working over time to destroy Ntando . It's insane
I wish us woman can react on the red flags that are shown to us at the early stages... A man will always find a way to make you see that the friends that you have are not good for you. I wish you peace sesi ntando
1:09:12 So sad.I can really relate to your story sis , something similar has been done to me by family and other people that were recruited to be against me in my town after my mother ,brother and father were killed .You are very correct even when there's evidence and proof even wpmen will rise up against you,so sad what God's people are going through and theirs are many of us finding people fasely rising against us ,makinh uo fakse stories about us ,so many are going through it but we cant share because when you share in that very same town that knows the truth will gang up against you,stalk you ,do everything to destroy you,it may sound crazy to someone who hasn't experienced it ,but some of us are ,they even go as far as bewitching you ,,knowing you are nnocent it's not even just about relationships anymore but family too its so sad, I've also lost trust in many n they ridicule and joke about your pain the world has become really evil ,focus on Jesus my deat ,He wil,l help us ,He will help His people.❤,He will vindicate us.
This is your ex creating fake accounts doing this to you. There is no way people can attack you like this. Probably his girlfriends and baby mamas who are crazy can help him but he is doing all this himself coz you threaten him. You are a strong woman and he can’t face you succeed. Pray hard my sister all will be well
Ntando thinks about her answers as if she’s seating in a boardroom to secure a job. I don’t know but I hope she really is doing the work and intentionally goes for therapy to heal.❤
There's somhow a bit of insult and insensitive from your comment. However, i noted that she was listening to answer. I love her and been following her story, and I think she's incredibly brave for speaking out. Madam Speaker made a valid point about the importance of healing. Not sure if Ntando fully realize how crucial and significant it is, given the severity of her situation and the battles she's fighting. The other party is trembling and trying the best to shut her up, yoooo!!! We hope she understands what she's faced with. Madam Speaker was trying her best to communicate something, but I'm uncertain if Ntando was truly understanding the message. It would be interested in hearing Ntando's story from a perspective of healing from this. Madam Speaker, please share how you've reached the healing phase? Maybe a quick video, might have missed it if done already. This episode clearly shows the work you've done. What steps did you take to get there? From how you were narrating your divorce story to where you are now, really your healing is truly inspiring and shows itself. We see the self-healing & introspection seed you were/are planting to the victims as the powerful tool❤❤
@sinelizwichiya7635 I agree with the listening to answer part. She is going through so much that she doesn't understand what madam is trying to say or even ask. I really hope she receives healing a lot of it.
think Ntando didn’t understand the questions. E.g. She didn’t answer where she was with divorce process. She asked what effort has done on herself instead of finger pointing. She asked why so many enemies, why so many efforts & smear campaigns, what do they want, she couldn’t answer. Madam speaker’s smear campaign was clear. Her attacks are more than that of diplomats and presidents. SAPS is also against her. At least madam speaker is speaking life over her life, we thank God for that. Madam Speaker isn’t enthusiastic, she usually kneels in front of guests and wipe their tears. Now she is confused, hence her face & gestures look judgemental. “Mhm that means you are fighting a big fight”. She doesn’t know how to help in this case, she can only pray. She has asked her not to come back. She really wants her to be fine though because madam speaker is a prayer warrior. She isn’t sure what she is hoping to achieve because they didn’t get each other in answering of questions. @@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 I
She watched other podcasts that featured the lady and she saw her posts on TikTok, she heard the husband’s side. She is trying to make sense of the information she already has. She also wants this woman to heal. she is giving her hope like she always does with her guests.
Madam Speaker is really having tough time with this interview. She doesn’t want to do this interview. She heard enough from other podcasts and Ntando’s posts and she made her deductions. She is saying Ntando has unfinished business in one of the podcasts. ST Dlamini is still waiting for her and husband to wrap up. The issue is not other women celebrating your arrests. The issue here is your arrest, SAPS can come forward. They can advise if the court says the arrests were really unlawful, justice shall prevail.
How I wish Ntando can really focus on her healing and stop talking about this issue. I have a feeling that her giggling is just trying to hide her pain. In my opinion the day she makes peace with what happened dust herself and move on with life all this noise and arrests will subsides. I just wish her all the best in her healing journey.
How the hell does she move on when the shit show is still currently her reality?? Can we please just use our brains to think. “ She loves drama, She’s all over the place” someone even said “He doesn’t want you ! Heal!” Wooow! If she has to share the same story a hundred times in order for the shit storm to stop then so be it! Her life is in danger, her children lives are in danger!
May Ntando find the beauty in herself and detach herself from the mess of a man she fell for. He is a THING of the past . that guy has traumas and issues and this lady is carrying her own and the burdena that came with this man. Its time to heal n let go of this brokenness. She deserves a better life not a life of pain
She is so uncertain with this interview, i think because she saw the other podcasts and made conclusions. She has even ask her not to come back until there are new developments in her story.
Those people who were busy selling you out and fishing information are the ones who are mentally disturbed and very uneducated. A normal human being will not waste time making someone miserable. Your ex should hold his horses and look after the kids with you because even if you didn’t want to get married he made sure you fell pregnant. He has to grow up and live a normal life
Reading some of these comments the husband's lapdogs came to attack her. Jesus, this matter is serious. The lapdogs are talking nonsense trying to discredit her
U wer dealing with a narcissist who have flying monkey n ablers ...u narc got triggered by u speaking ur truth.which lead to smear campaigns.heal n get it done with d divorce n stay no contact with the guy....n go to therapy
There internet is not a safe space ; a lot of people are not a safe space, even people un church are not a safe. Not all but many are not. A therapist however legally can't disclose your information unless you are a danger to yourself or others. Close social media accounts, please get into intensive therapy and support groups that are in psychology practices. You need to get off the internet for a while.
terrible interview style Perseverance. You did not start the interview properly, what is her future, where was she born, how did she get to marry that man, when did she realize he is a cheat, when did she realize he may be gay, why did she stay with him still. You focused on unimportant things.
Madam has listened to other podcasts. She has handled the interview well, she is making a progress. She is controlling this interview, the other interviewers were all over the place because the lady was controlling the podcasts, they couldn’t wrap up, the time was not managed & she had to come back unnecessarily. The interviews were longer than necessary because her answers were longer than necessary, she was not straight to the point.
Check other interviews of Ntando, I think this is much better and enriching if you're already aware of her story. I'm shocked it's still goin on but Madam responds with empathy so I can the viewers here with skills can come foward as requested. ❤
Gays were also giving her a hard time in her marriage!?? Yho, bandla, wont the ex husband use this statement to try get her arrested or sued again. I fear for this lady's s life, I really pray and hope she has a good support system and a serious and well versed in law legal team.
So everyone is against her 😂😂😂 madam speaker please becareful you might be accused of being against her, This woman is dangerous. So no one ever helped her, she is toxic 😂😂😂 It's coworkers, make up artists, lawyers, podcasts, friends all against her, she is a narcissistits it's everyone else not her 😂😂😂
This is where the mamenene gather. Iam sure yorl made good fees by tuning in to this podcast. @faithing88 wena you did a good job shame , your few colleagues performances were pathetic. Or were they sparing the sponsored data for personal use ... wise way to maximum returns. I can give you details on her next podcast to you can canvass more of your type. Good for rating you know 👍 while expose yourself even more
@@ChooseU4evermadam speaker is acting strange, she isn’t like this with other interviewees. She kneels infront of guests, wipe their tears, hug them and calm them. She is just watching her crying, she doesn’t know what to do with the lady.
Did she say SHE WANTS HIM BACK? Let what go? when these people are constantly attacking her. When she commits suicide, you’ll be the first to say “ why didn’t she speak up” hou op om deur jou nek te praat.
Can you extend grace to others. She never said she wants this guy. She made a mistake in the past by marrying him. I'll rather she talk than commit suicide.
What is new that this woman came here to say She is willing to traumatize her kids again since she claims SHE BE ARRESTED for being here THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE, why put your kids through that again or yourself Let me tell you why cos you are a sociopath, what NORMAL woman would risk going to a dirty cell with dirty blankets over a man that doesn't want you, come on YOU WANT HIM, You the problem right now and social workers should take those kids away, you unfit and unstable. So your kids must know you in jail again, sies
I will tell my story even in jail my love. This story will be told until Jesus comes. Rest now you've been writing so many essays here. We notice you and we know who you are. Uberyt mylove n God bless u.
@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 exactly the narcissism Im talking about, you think you are as important as Jesus Christ, tell it but don't come back and expect us to be SAD when they arrest you, I hope they keep you longer in that jail so that you realize your children matter the more, life goes on, the man doesn't want you. Find a purpose, find a reason to live YOUR CHILDREN, focus on them and your life,healing and becoming the best version of you. Actually you may think I hate you NO I DONT but I hate the pity you looking for. Learn from this and take time away from the public to go find you. You think a therapist can't help you, and in your whack mind think social media will. Trust me sweetheart, it's not worth it, GO heal in private it's the only way darling. How long will you repeat yourself. Forgive yourself for marrying yourself and unlearn that you think you were married cos you were never married cos that was not marriage, your father died not happy with you, these are the things you should be working on, you loved him more than he loved you, forgive yourself, make peace with all this, don't vent on him, heal you, ACTUALLY I do like you a lot but I happen to show more tough love and I hare pity parties, I have people looking for sympathy, You have a lot ahead of you girl, go out and show us, you are more than your experiences and past, let's see you heal, start a company, earn a degree, travel the world, GET MARRIED AGAIN to a loving man, that's what I want for you truly, but uyangidina nje when you behave so pathetically weak, this man doesn't deserve a second in your tongue or thought. Shock him by elevating yourself, let me regret ever doing you this way, but what you doing makes you look desperate and pathetic, YOU ARE A QUEEN BEHAVE AS SUCH, I will never have allowed you to pay lobola for yourself honestly I wish I was your friend cos I will tell you the truth
@@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 yes cos you a narcissistic sociopath, actually there's nothing amazing about your story only that you married your own cousin, paid lobola for yourself, and disregarded your father. Sisi you are a disgrace, you called all this curse upon your life but because you're so vain, you think it's HIS FAULT, No sweety it's yours, you had the money, you probably controlled him like you trying to control us with your narrative. Just go away, and Fix yourself. Man have always done bad to woman, you not the first to be cheated on, woman to this podcast and we encourage and they go away and we never hear from them again NOT YOU, you acting like a prostitute going everywhere to be heard, We heard the first and other many times now you want us to feel sorry for you cos you got arrested for defamation, GOOD they should ARREST you again!
This woman amazes me she says she cant get over being arrsted and sleeping in a cell and here she is ON A PODCAST knowing very well she maybe arrested AGAIN..this is why i cant feel sorry for her 😂😂😂
Thank you Madam Speaker for speaking life into this woman, the world needs more people like you. You are anointed and had goosebumps when you started encouraging her by sharing your story . @Ntando may God fight these battles for you, may the supernatural happen for you. Praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much sis ❤❤❤
What I have learnt with the time I got to spend with Ntando, chatting off camera from a personal level. This lady's pain is deeper that most people think. She held on to love more than she should've, compromised her safety, health and her children. She protected 😢 what she shouldn't have and risked what needed protection. Above it all I applaud her courage to continue fighting for herself for a change. People that have never been in her shoes will continue to crusify her... I for one will support her till the very end . She needs love, support and loads of healing ...God loves you Ntando and so do I❣️
She really is in deep pain but she always uses her trauma to manipulate those around her trying to help her. I hope she finds healing because at this point she’s bleeding on every one who crosses her path. The thing is, Ntando is not seeking healing you can see how she struggled to answer Madam Speaker. Going to church is not therapy. Church has its place but lo needs a professional psychologist
@ChooseU4ever That's true. Healing is much needed in her case however Healing without support won't be easy. We need to eas up on Judging her and show her one thing that's she's been longing for....LOVE
@Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda I noted that as well, even from the voice can tell. The other party who victimised her seems to be enjoying and making fun, thinking this is all a game. Really wish she finds healing. This is like a nightmare for her, given how beautiful things were and the sharp turn it took, and she's so beautiful ❤️ ❤️
She is such a beautiful soul and one day she will find herself again . Find peace ❤@sinelizwichiya7635
@@sinelizwichiya7635 You see the other party yena. Will know who God is one day .
Madam speaker you're a gem, you speak life maaan to all of us. Ntando UThixo ujongile sissi
Oh Ntando my love i also received inbox from private account . Told to stay away from your storry . Told that you will manipulate me. Kodwa what they dont know about me is that i dont listen to ghosts. If they are not bold enough to reveal their identity then they shouldnt bother telling me anything . Keep clearing your chest mama and one day you will find peace . ❣️❣️❣️
Why? Are you also going through the same thing woman? Please run and never look back
Yooohh! Ntando sisi! Your assignment is huuuuuggeeee! There is so much inside of God inside of you for people to sit and risk their souls to eternal damnation? I think you were born to kill many demons and God is building your stage for others to be encouraged not to back down in our own assignments.
God is in this fire with you, He chose you!!!
🔥🔥🔥'When people want to see you destroyed, there must be something inside of you that is tempering with the kingdom of darkness.' Watching from Canada 🇨🇦
Talk about this until it no longer bothers you....
I haven't spoke about my trauma it's been six years but I still cry when I think about it. I think I need to talk about it everyday so I can heal ...
Start by praying and vocalising your pain as you pray. This will help you heal ❤
Power to these words!!!
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A wise person once said everytime you tell your story you heal 🙏🏼 one day you will look back and see how far the Lord has taken you ❤ may God protect you and your Children 🙏🏼 and praying that your book becomes a success ❤
I attest to what that wise person said . I heal every time I share my trauma and this is it with Ntando. She is healing. ❤
Yes Sisi, you are not a victim…..you are a survivor mommy. And you will keep on surviving. One day you will look back and realise you are a totally different person, completely healed.
Let’s trust God for the process.
Madam speaker that dress was made for you ❤️😘 absolutely stunning.
This dress is showing boobs too much, iam sorry
Thank you so much 😊
I am the one who is now crying, may God take you through Ntando
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Love your dresses ladies❤ absolutely beautiful
Sis Ntando im sorry eish life 😢kuningi kuningi sisi may you found healing in your life.
I like the ending of this video, thank you Madam Speaker!
Glad you liked it!❤
Nthando, i will pray for you my sister. GOD's revenge is powerful and He will fight for you. These women can laugh now but its not over
This Ngumbela family in the Eastern Cape is a powerful family in that they are connected and well resourced financially.
Thanks for clarifying because I am wondering why it sounds like the guy has resources for daaays.
If they're powerful why do they only show up to destroy, where we're they when this man was eating Ntandos food and supporting his other children?
I'm praying for you sisi Thando,this too shall pass.
If im being honest, I watch these for perspective and to appreciate my life.
Me too.
Sesi Ntando help is on the way trust me. ❤❤❤Stay strong walk tall u are unshakable.
Sis Ntando may God be with you through these trying times. 🙏 You shall sing a victory song , hopefully it's too far away from now.
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Ntando Sisi……I pray you detach and lose whatever identity you assumed under the past relationship. Embrace the single you now. God will renew you and give you His identity.
Take your power back Ntando, indeed you sre not a victim but a survivor. Love and light!
May the living God heal you and may he protect you and your family.❤❤ I'm also here for your dress madam speaker
Madam speaker, your dress honey 🔥🔥,absolutely gorgeous. This is so sad my goodness, ag powerful people 😢
She should lawyer up and get her compensation😢
I'm still in disbelief because I know both these people from back home, this is really sad to watch. 😢
This is so touching sis Ntando remember we're serving a jealous God... So who ever is betraying you please don't blame them God's want you to focus only on Him
Women, where are your accussers now. Jesus asked a lady caught in adultery.
I pray your story ends well, and it will.
I pray God shields you and the children. Thank you Madam speaker for your compassion.
May Thando one day get to experience the love of the Lord
Ooooh Mkhaya Wam 💔💔💔my home Gal a strong, loving and God fearing woman be strong Sthandwa sam we love you ku Qumbu Cc we will be with you till the end
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I'm so sorry, Ntando. I believe you will get help now.
I love the dress❤
I know this pain. Find strength my sister.
Ntando needs a break from everything. Even explaining herself so that the world understand what's she's going through is not gonna help her. Sekwanele manje. I emphathise with her in this painful journey and I wish this was the last interview she's doing now. She must go home in her own corner, forgive herself for trusting the wrong man, find it in her heart to forgive him, attend therapy and let it go now. Deal with divorce process privately.
Saying this silently in my heart, can she give herself time to go through this with God alone no body else, no media. After God intervened and passes all these stages, she comes to give testimony.
Sorry Ntando i am so sorry.
Theres five accounts in this episode that i saw already insulting you. I believe you sis. You are really dealing. I am sorry
Yooh this lady reminds me of how my then best friend use to be Yooh I tried to make her see all the red flags now the man made her quit her job, left her with 2 kids, no house, made her to drop out of varsity only for him to leave with a varsity student now my friend lost everything it so painful to watch
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That so called hubby is such a liar, that man liiieeeees, reminds of lebo's latoya😂
Mara madam speaker what's this thing of yours uploading video late, announce upcoming events (dates) that have passed already. Edit them out my queen. One love❤
That man yena lies through his teeth .
Yooooo women go through a lot😢😢
I hate how court drag divorce dates and lawyers delays everything just to make money. I took my ex husband to our attorney to file for our divorce Feb 2021 we only went to court 24 Feb 2022 with no assets to share because we were married out of community of property. In that process my husband raped march 2021 and he was arrested but Boksburg female detective sold my docket for R8000 21 Dec my husband came to the house started fighting with me as always that day I fought back and he threw me down the stairs I almost died I called the Boksburg police 2 cops arrived I was bleeding and hurt a white male and black police he lied and said I kicked him out of his house I have never seen such rude white police he told me it's his house he can come as he please even after telling them that we don't stay together since he got out of jail we are waiting for our court date in 2 months time. The police told him to open protection order against me left with him leaving me and my children I was hurt and bleeding. Since that day I do not go to the police female Boksburg prosecutor dropped my rape case and told me that South African law even if a child is raped with medicals proving that she's raped if a perpetrator say she gave consent the case is dropped so for me his my husband he has rights to rape me.
Madam Speaker South African law failed us over and over it's sad how women are raped and how we women end up with judgment of protection orders because again Boksburg female judges supports and defends rapists. How sad to be a South African women in South Africa.
Im sorry my sister, keep on sharing your story.
Yooh sis this is scarry. They failed you so bad. Dont give up. You must keep fighting. That man had no right to rape you. Are you ok now
Fighting where? South Africa ah. South African law and justice is useless. You will see them with their stats next months how many women are raped case reported but man are not arrested. Patrick Shai passed away fighting for my case I mean I'm Mrs Universe SA 2022 2ndPrincess, Mrs Worldwide South Africa, Mrs Worldwide Top12, Mrs Worldwide Heritage 2022 does South African law care that I speak publicly about them hell No.
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@@phumzilentshabele-mw8rssocial media ,she should call out that prosecutor trust me her voice will be heard!
Askies sis Ntando konke kuzolunga
At least she is saying some family members are supporting her behind closest doors. She has support.
Oh NtandoI feel your pain, hope one day you will be healed
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Ntando i feel ur pain ..I love u ... i even follow u on Tiktok....Ur story is similar 2 u story.....Would love 2 came 2 ur show share with u my story..How my ex husband corned me...
How long was Ntando married to this man? I feel sorry for you sis. These narcissists always do smear campaign against their victims. Work on your healing and divorce that abuser. Your blessings are on the other side if this. You will come out stronger😊
They started dating 2008, I think she got married 2019.
They met via to go in 2008, met in person in 2011, hubby was with his baby mama, she moved on and married another man. They reunited and got married in 2019 or 2020.
So people create fake accounts vele just to insult this lady? So much work.
The comments in here are telling. Yoo i am seeing Ntando for the first time but its shocking to hear and literally see and read comments.
She's telling the truth . I was inboxed on TikTok for covering her story and told to stay away from her. She's a lair and manipulative. Someone is working over time to destroy Ntando . It's insane
@@Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshandathey shouldn’t have done that, they should have let you observe and make your own judgement.
@Luyolo-v3w Exactly
I pray God bless her with marriage again❤
Preach Madam Speaker!!! ❣️
I wish us woman can react on the red flags that are shown to us at the early stages... A man will always find a way to make you see that the friends that you have are not good for you. I wish you peace sesi ntando
Madam can l Hae your dress you look beautyfull so is your guest
1:09:12 So sad.I can really relate to your story sis , something similar has been done to me by family and other people that were recruited to be against me in my town after my mother ,brother and father were killed .You are very correct even when there's evidence and proof even wpmen will rise up against you,so sad what God's people are going through and theirs are many of us finding people fasely rising against us ,makinh uo fakse stories about us ,so many are going through it but we cant share because when you share in that very same town that knows the truth will gang up against you,stalk you ,do everything to destroy you,it may sound crazy to someone who hasn't experienced it ,but some of us are ,they even go as far as bewitching you ,,knowing you are nnocent it's not even just about relationships anymore but family too its so sad, I've also lost trust in many n they ridicule and joke about your pain the world has become really evil ,focus on Jesus my deat ,He wil,l help us ,He will help His people.❤,He will vindicate us.
Kunzima Ntando😢
This is your ex creating fake accounts doing this to you. There is no way people can attack you like this. Probably his girlfriends and baby mamas who are crazy can help him but he is doing all this himself coz you threaten him. You are a strong woman and he can’t face you succeed. Pray hard my sister all will be well
I'm so sorry Ntando 💔
Madam Speaker where can I listen to this husband of Ntando
St media
ST Media, Owami and Justice
Wow! Sorry Ntando 😢
Madam Speaker u look amazing
Where can i get her other story?
God, this is so heartbreaking and i dont even know how to help
Sorry Ntando you going through all this mama
I am sorry sisi❤*hugs*
This man is hell bent on destroying Ntando. What a disgusting gold digging loser.
Ntando thinks about her answers as if she’s seating in a boardroom to secure a job. I don’t know but I hope she really is doing the work and intentionally goes for therapy to heal.❤
U want her to answer carelessly so that she will get arrested? Of course she has to be careful my dear Otherwise! 😢
There's somhow a bit of insult and insensitive from your comment. However, i noted that she was listening to answer. I love her and been following her story, and I think she's incredibly brave for speaking out. Madam Speaker made a valid point about the importance of healing. Not sure if Ntando fully realize how crucial and significant it is, given the severity of her situation and the battles she's fighting. The other party is trembling and trying the best to shut her up, yoooo!!!
We hope she understands what she's faced with. Madam Speaker was trying her best to communicate something, but I'm uncertain if Ntando was truly understanding the message. It would be interested in hearing Ntando's story from a perspective of healing from this.
Madam Speaker, please share how you've reached the healing phase? Maybe a quick video, might have missed it if done already. This episode clearly shows the work you've done. What steps did you take to get there? From how you were narrating your divorce story to where you are now, really your healing is truly inspiring and shows itself. We see the self-healing & introspection seed you were/are planting to the victims as the powerful tool❤❤
How do you want her to respond?
@sinelizwichiya7635 I agree with the listening to answer part. She is going through so much that she doesn't understand what madam is trying to say or even ask. I really hope she receives healing a lot of it.
think Ntando didn’t understand the questions. E.g. She didn’t answer where she was with divorce process. She asked what effort has done on herself instead of finger pointing. She asked why so many enemies, why so many efforts & smear campaigns, what do they want, she couldn’t answer. Madam speaker’s smear campaign was clear. Her attacks are more than that of diplomats and presidents. SAPS is also against her. At least madam speaker is speaking life over her life, we thank God for that. Madam Speaker isn’t enthusiastic, she usually kneels in front of guests and wipe their tears. Now she is confused, hence her face & gestures look judgemental. “Mhm that means you are fighting a big fight”. She doesn’t know how to help in this case, she can only pray. She has asked her not to come back. She really wants her to be fine though because madam speaker is a prayer warrior. She isn’t sure what she is hoping to achieve because they didn’t get each other in answering of questions. @@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 I
Hands Off Ntando You cowards who can't even attend to your own issues. Leave Ntando Alone!!Enough is Enough 🖐
Yoh madam speaker your facial expression on this episode...okare you are playing a detective role
She watched other podcasts that featured the lady and she saw her posts on TikTok, she heard the husband’s side. She is trying to make sense of the information she already has. She also wants this woman to heal. she is giving her hope like she always does with her guests.
The sound is always sooo low @madamspeaker
Madam Speaker is really having tough time with this interview. She doesn’t want to do this interview. She heard enough from other podcasts and Ntando’s posts and she made her deductions. She is saying Ntando has unfinished business in one of the podcasts. ST Dlamini is still waiting for her and husband to wrap up. The issue is not other women celebrating your arrests. The issue here is your arrest, SAPS can come forward. They can advise if the court says the arrests were really unlawful, justice shall prevail.
Uxolo sisi Ntando😭😭😭😭
Maybe your ancestors are angry at you because you are related with the guy that is why you go through all this sadness 😢
I am so lost I wish they linked the previous story.
See her story in ST Dlamini, Owami and Justice podcasts.
@Luyolo-v3w thanks you
How I wish Ntando can really focus on her healing and stop talking about this issue. I have a feeling that her giggling is just trying to hide her pain. In my opinion the day she makes peace with what happened dust herself and move on with life all this noise and arrests will subsides.
I just wish her all the best in her healing journey.
Maybe her healing is in sharing with others
@Ngunikaz Yes I agree.
It's sad that we use people's pain for clicks cos this lady need therapy and this is not helping her
Funny how you roughly judge her then sympathize with the same breath. @faithing88
Talking is therapy to some people
Someone please tag. SAPS to probe into that specific detectives dealings. And his relation to the said to be ex husband
@SAPS
How the hell does she move on when the shit show is still currently her reality?? Can we please just use our brains to think. “ She loves drama, She’s all over the place” someone even said “He doesn’t want you ! Heal!” Wooow! If she has to share the same story a hundred times in order for the shit storm to stop then so be it! Her life is in danger, her children lives are in danger!
I think, it is the way she is trying to heal. Therapy and church are not effective. Maybe someone from these podcasts might ultimately help.
May Ntando find the beauty in herself and detach herself from the mess of a man she fell for. He is a THING of the past . that guy has traumas and issues and this lady is carrying her own and the burdena that came with this man. Its time to heal n let go of this brokenness. She deserves a better life not a life of pain
Sister support you but person came with idea marriage its life achievement made big mistake.
Madam Speaker seems agitated and judging throughout the episode. She's usually bubbly and receptive to other guests' stories
She is so uncertain with this interview, i think because she saw the other podcasts and made conclusions. She has even ask her not to come back until there are new developments in her story.
Ibele on point ❤
Aahhh so this is how she looks like without the heavy TikTok filters.
She is beautiful ❤
@@minimalistAfricanHomesteadervery beautiful ❤
She is so beautiful still, her skin is flawless. She has beautiful legs, I saw her in one of the podcasts.
@@Luyolo-v3w she’s beautiful, I wish she didn’t hide behind the heavy filters.
Extremely gorgeous woman.
I don't know what to say about some other women how can they do this to the other woman. Ladies shame on you
Kuningi 💔
Amen and Amen!
Hi may I please have the number of the guy who has been rehabilitated or the contact of the rehabilitation
This lady is not ok. There is something nit mathing
Those people who were busy selling you out and fishing information are the ones who are mentally disturbed and very uneducated. A normal human being will not waste time making someone miserable. Your ex should hold his horses and look after the kids with you because even if you didn’t want to get married he made sure you fell pregnant. He has to grow up and live a normal life
Why is the guy not arrested?
He's well connected
Madam isn’t her comfortable self in this interview. She saw previous podcasts, analysed all the podcasts including man’s side of story. She concluded.
Reading some of these comments the husband's lapdogs came to attack her. Jesus, this matter is serious. The lapdogs are talking nonsense trying to discredit her
U wer dealing with a narcissist who have flying monkey n ablers ...u narc got triggered by u speaking ur truth.which lead to smear campaigns.heal n get it done with d divorce n stay no contact with the guy....n go to therapy
Kodwa ke what is the meaning of talking on and on and on even when the host is clearly trying to put In a word? Kahleni guys
Eish
Madam speaker says wait wait wait, she keeps on talking, she doesn’t listen.
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Move on ntando 😢
WOW
There internet is not a safe space ; a lot of people are not a safe space, even people un church are not a safe. Not all but many are not. A therapist however legally can't disclose your information unless you are a danger to yourself or others. Close social media accounts, please get into intensive therapy and support groups that are in psychology practices. You need to get off the internet for a while.
She’s all over the place. Can she just stay home and seek help? Im not even going to watch this episode. Ngeke phela
Where is the husband working and is she working?
Why are you even commenting if you were not watching?
@ coz I’m a notification gang I got an alert and commenting helps the channel grow .
You are part and parcel of the so-called ex-husband. Simply put, your day will come
Kshuthi sorry ke
"My Queen"😂😂
terrible interview style Perseverance. You did not start the interview properly, what is her future, where was she born, how did she get to marry that man, when did she realize he is a cheat, when did she realize he may be gay, why did she stay with him still. You focused on unimportant things.
Please call her and interview her properly 🙏🏿🤍. Share the link here when you are done
Madam has listened to other podcasts. She has handled the interview well, she is making a progress. She is controlling this interview, the other interviewers were all over the place because the lady was controlling the podcasts, they couldn’t wrap up, the time was not managed & she had to come back unnecessarily. The interviews were longer than necessary because her answers were longer than necessary, she was not straight to the point.
Check other interviews of Ntando, I think this is much better and enriching if you're already aware of her story. I'm shocked it's still goin on but Madam responds with empathy so I can the viewers here with skills can come foward as requested. ❤
She trended shame with her story
Her story is losing following, few people are still interested.
Gays were also giving her a hard time in her marriage!?? Yho, bandla, wont the ex husband use this statement to try get her arrested or sued again. I fear for this lady's s life, I really pray and hope she has a good support system and a serious and well versed in law legal team.
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She didn't mention his name, it's just a story.
@@luthandomjeza1027but even if his name wasn’t mentioned, a good lawyer can still prove that she is talking about husband.
So everyone is against her 😂😂😂 madam speaker please becareful you might be accused of being against her, This woman is dangerous. So no one ever helped her, she is toxic 😂😂😂
It's coworkers, make up artists, lawyers, podcasts, friends all against her, she is a narcissistits it's everyone else not her 😂😂😂
You are so annoying, 3 comments already. By month end you'll be on 100. Unescefe! Waze wasbanga isdina
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 uMadam speaker sees through her… she is smart..
This is where the mamenene gather. Iam sure yorl made good fees by tuning in to this podcast. @faithing88 wena you did a good job shame , your few colleagues performances were pathetic. Or were they sparing the sponsored data for personal use ... wise way to maximum returns.
I can give you details on her next podcast to you can canvass more of your type. Good for rating you know 👍 while expose yourself even more
@@ChooseU4evermadam speaker is acting strange, she isn’t like this with other interviewees. She kneels infront of guests, wipe their tears, hug them and calm them. She is just watching her crying, she doesn’t know what to do with the lady.
You LOVE the drama, LET IT GO, He doesn't want you, LOVE YOURSELF and heal
Did she say SHE WANTS HIM BACK? Let what go? when these people are constantly attacking her. When she commits suicide, you’ll be the first to say “ why didn’t she speak up” hou op om deur jou nek te praat.
@@luluspele9486 Thank you . I don't understand what all these negative comments are for😢
Can you extend grace to others. She never said she wants this guy. She made a mistake in the past by marrying him.
I'll rather she talk than commit suicide.
@@siphokaziluzipho4197exactly
Stop exposing yourself 😂😂 She DOES NOT WANT HIM. She is sharing her story.
What is new that this woman came here to say
She is willing to traumatize her kids again since she claims SHE BE ARRESTED for being here THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE, why put your kids through that again or yourself
Let me tell you why cos you are a sociopath, what NORMAL woman would risk going to a dirty cell with dirty blankets over a man that doesn't want you, come on YOU WANT HIM,
You the problem right now and social workers should take those kids away, you unfit and unstable. So your kids must know you in jail again, sies
Wena you smell like a flying monkey
I will tell my story even in jail my love. This story will be told until Jesus comes. Rest now you've been writing so many essays here. We notice you and we know who you are. Uberyt mylove n God bless u.
@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 exactly the narcissism Im talking about, you think you are as important as Jesus Christ, tell it but don't come back and expect us to be SAD when they arrest you, I hope they keep you longer in that jail so that you realize your children matter the more, life goes on, the man doesn't want you. Find a purpose, find a reason to live YOUR CHILDREN, focus on them and your life,healing and becoming the best version of you. Actually you may think I hate you NO I DONT but I hate the pity you looking for. Learn from this and take time away from the public to go find you. You think a therapist can't help you, and in your whack mind think social media will. Trust me sweetheart, it's not worth it, GO heal in private it's the only way darling. How long will you repeat yourself. Forgive yourself for marrying yourself and unlearn that you think you were married cos you were never married cos that was not marriage, your father died not happy with you, these are the things you should be working on, you loved him more than he loved you, forgive yourself, make peace with all this, don't vent on him, heal you, ACTUALLY I do like you a lot but I happen to show more tough love and I hare pity parties, I have people looking for sympathy, You have a lot ahead of you girl, go out and show us, you are more than your experiences and past, let's see you heal, start a company, earn a degree, travel the world, GET MARRIED AGAIN to a loving man, that's what I want for you truly, but uyangidina nje when you behave so pathetically weak, this man doesn't deserve a second in your tongue or thought. Shock him by elevating yourself, let me regret ever doing you this way, but what you doing makes you look desperate and pathetic, YOU ARE A QUEEN BEHAVE AS SUCH, I will never have allowed you to pay lobola for yourself honestly I wish I was your friend cos I will tell you the truth
@@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 yes cos you a narcissistic sociopath, actually there's nothing amazing about your story only that you married your own cousin, paid lobola for yourself, and disregarded your father. Sisi you are a disgrace, you called all this curse upon your life but because you're so vain, you think it's HIS FAULT, No sweety it's yours, you had the money, you probably controlled him like you trying to control us with your narrative. Just go away, and Fix yourself. Man have always done bad to woman, you not the first to be cheated on, woman to this podcast and we encourage and they go away and we never hear from them again NOT YOU, you acting like a prostitute going everywhere to be heard, We heard the first and other many times now you want us to feel sorry for you cos you got arrested for defamation, GOOD they should ARREST you again!
Smear campaign shut up! Get lost *faith* leave this woman alone fusek
This woman amazes me she says she cant get over being arrsted and sleeping in a cell and here she is ON A PODCAST knowing very well she maybe arrested AGAIN..this is why i cant feel sorry for her 😂😂😂
Who sent you🤔
She’s a narcissist… she won’t stop
@@yayam8447 my WIFI 🤣🤣
@ChooseU4ever gosh I feel sorry for the man she is a pain
Jou poes is a pain❤️