Fireside Chat Ep. 204 - Why Homeschool Is Winning | Fireside Chat
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- As a result of the shocking decline of our educational system and culture, parents around the country are increasingly opting to homeschool. What are the primary challenges? Is it worth it? Is it the future? Dennis has an insightful conversation with some current and formerly homeschooled students. Enjoy!
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I hesitatingly started homeschooling my 3 kids 2 years ago. None of my fears or doubts came to reality. Best decision I ever made
Hi! I really want to homeschool my girls in about 2 years. I am terrified honestly. Any resources you have I can check out to calm my fears?
@@NaturallyEssence thanks I will do that.
Books about homeschooling:
Dumbing Us Down by John Taylor Gatto. Any of his books will help calm your fears. He was Teacher of the Year in New York City and New York State, teaching for many years and seeing what it was all about.
it's easy, once you figure your system out. what works for some may not work for others. you can tailor your curriculum to each child. this is why public and private schools fail. they have archaic models for one size fits all. find groups to join, churches, libraries, 4H, martial arts, Facebook groups, there are many of us. zoos and museums are great as well.
Amen! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Homeschool mom of 15 years here. My oldest recently graduated with his associates degree (with honors) at the age of 17. Ivy League ACT score. Homeschooled Kindergarten through graduation. And now going for his Bachelor's Degree in gov't and law. (As long as money isn't an issue. Thankfully, his college doesn't accept gov't loans. Or even scholarships that other kids with his high scores would get.) Homeschooling can be done...and done well. Please don't believe the lie that it needs to be left to the "professionals". With the resources available today, brick and mortar schools are SO outdated. You CAN homeschool!
What are your secrets? You sound like you’ve done an amazing job!!!
@@CandaceTarbat Your love! A school teacher doesn't know what makes them laugh/cry/motivates/inspires. No one will love them like YOU.
Great job!
Teaching is Artisanal, rather than Industrial. If Public School were serious about raising the general literacy, they'd teach all students to teach, that Future Children could be literate when they arrive.
The college you mention sounds like Hillsdale.
@ Maybe you don't, but it doesn't seem ambiguous, and might be routine for others. "Gov't," a contraction for which an apostrophe seems apropriate.
You know what I'm gonna be honest. I am bitter as hell about this whole thing. I homeschooled my kids before it was cool. I'm black and not rich but I got married and had all my kid's from one man and we both decided when I was pregnant with my first child that I would stay home and homeschool our kids. Maaannn I got ridicule so bad from my family and "friends". NOONE was doing that, barely anyone was even married. My counties homeschool office was a one room trailer behind the school board 🤣. If it wasn't for old school Dr. Laura radio show i wouldn't have made it. I'm partly joking about being bitter. It's just hilarious that this is normal now.
What an amazing testimony/role model to your children of perseverance/convictions in hard times! You're an encouragement! Thank you for sharing!
Yes!!! You have paved the way, we aren't the same color skin but everything else is so similar. Yes, the things people would say, right? Like they had the right to make commentary...they weren't doing the work and they weren't supporting us! So happy that I did it, all are grown now, all are beautiful, wonderful, educated contributors to our society.
You guys are awesome!
I hear ya! It was harder then I think but I also fear its about to get really hard. We cleared a path but I think some bullies are about to notice and start putting obstacles in that path again. I wonder if my kids will be given the same freedoms I was to do that.
God bless you for being a role model in so many ways.
One thing I notice about the young people on the sofa: when they aren't talking, they are listening attentively to the person who is speaking. That is not something I see all the time from young people today - these kids have learned to pay attention with respect.
Not a cell phone present.
If you think your kids should have a phone the only one I would recommend is the Gab phone w/ no internet.
these kids are significantly more articulate than their peers in public schools. I'm now highly considering homeschooling my future kids.
I was homeschooled and just realized I was just was smart and wasn’t crazy the whole time 😳 Lol plz consider. Get them into some fun programs though! But make sure they aren’t being fake like I was AND TELL THEM THEY ARE NORMAL AND ITS NATURAL TO MAKE MISTAKES
Keep considering it! That is one thing I have noticed about homeschool kids, they are articulate,and they know how to hold a meaningful conversation with a person of ANY AGE. I just started homeschooling my kiddo this year after watching my cousin do it with her 3 years for the past 9 years! One of her kids is a published author by the age of 15!
Highly recommend, I was Homeschooled ans I was able to graduate with my Bachelor of Science at 19 with no debt thanks to PSEO. You can basically test out of high school and get years of college paid for. I'm now homeschooling my own kids, it's wonderful!
Don't just consider it - do it.
@@sauce8277 thank you for sharing I will definitely keep that in mind!
Dennis, please interview the parents who homeschool too so we can get guidance and insight !
"How do you ever socialize?" was the constant question I got growing up a homeschooler. How ironic now. So grateful to my parents for their commitment to 12 years of at-home education (and a priceless parent-child bond!), my brothers who became my best friends, and all the friends (of all ages) met through co-ops, church, and community ed projects! My mom always said she thought God had a sense of humor because she wasn't trained to be a teacher AT ALL, and I echo that now here in Taiwan where I teach English. Homeschooling may not be the solution for everyone -- but I wouldn't trade it for the world.
LOL It truly is funny how the homeschool narrative has drastically changed over the past year. For years, homeschoolers were labeled as non-socialized weirdo's, who would be left far behind the public school kids, even though test scores proved that narrative false. LOL Homeschoolers were considered to be child abusers. Now, we are being called "hero's". LOL Oh, how times have changed. Different story when the shoe's on the other foot. All it took was Covid lockdowns. LOL I guess, better late than never.
I got that all time too 😂 funny because homeschooling allowed me to pursue my passions and still have plenty of healthy socialization. I was in dance, Martial Arts, tons of volunteer projects, church groups, summer camp programs, Co-ops we got out of the barn 😂 I have 5 siblings, we had lots of fun together and we're still close in adulthood, so many of my public school friends don't have those sorts of sibling bonds and I find it sad
The way we socialize in today's society is that most of the time we are just in our phones. Happens everywhere in public schools.
At least when you're at home you socialize with family.
My husband and I both work full time, traditional 8 to 5, Monday to Friday jobs. We started homeschooling our two young elementary children this year. My husband goes to the office to work and I work from home. During the day the children have math and reading online and we do Science, History, Bible and LA once a week in the evenings or on the weekend. The beauty of homeschool is that it is flexible and you can do what works for you and your child.
I want to encourage anyone on the fence to just jump and homeschool - where there's a will, there's a way!
I dropped out of my high school senior year because of corruption in the staff.
I did home school to get my diploma and I swear I learned more on my own than at school. School was social, home school I was able to focus on learning.
Good for you. You took the initiative to finish your education. That is a very admirable trait. God bless you in your endeavors in the future.
I was homeschooled for 5 years and then decided I wanted to try out a public high school. I did really well for the first semester and just kinda started going downhill from there. After my second year I decided to go back to homeschooling and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. When it’s too much it’s too much. 🤷🏻♀️ Very thankful that my parents let me choose either way.
When my husband and I decided in 2000 that we would homeschool our children, we had no idea how important that decision would turn out to be. We are in our final year (our youngest is a senior). No regrets. It was hard at times, but it would have been harder had we not built our strong family ties. 10/10 highly recommend. Would do it all again.
PS The opportunities and curriculum options available now are so incredible. I'm a little jealous. 😉 Don't be afraid.
what curriculum do you recommend?
You are one of the pioneering homeschoolers that I am truly grateful for. Thank you for paving the way for future parents. God Bless.
@@asinamirror444 I have heard good things about Abeka Academy
Boy oh boy did this turn out to be the most important decision!! Could you imagine having your kids go through this nonsense right now?
It’s quite strict here with lockdowns in Ontario. I’m homeschooling my kids because I don’t want them to wear masks all day.
Exactly the same reason I started homeschooling. We love it!!
That’s awesome!
Don’t go back even if the lock downs reverse. That’s the silver lining in all this crazy stuff. You get to raise your kids and educate them 🙏
Same here Candace! Ontario is a joke
Canadian schools are not as broken as our American ones, but home schooling is still most often a better option. Avoiding masks all day is an added benefit.
I've never met a home schooled student who wasn't more advanced, mature and interesting than public-schooled students of the same age. Impressive panel.
I've met many, some of my cousins kids are home schooled. Most do fine, some do not, just like kids in public schools. Some home schooling parents are true helicopter parents. Their kids don't do well in any school situation. It's all about the teachers, some parents are terrible teachers, just look around.
My childs developmental specialists (Doctors) have all been amazed at my daughters progress in her struggling areas in such a short time. They have gone from homeschool skeptical to extremely happy with her progress. Never would have gotten her caught up in public school.
@@ladyamberskye you are doing a good job, you are a great teacher with a great pupil.
@@ladyamberskye Can't argue with results like that. Well done!
@@jerryw6699 Every bunch has a few rotten apples. However, most kids that have been homeschooled are very mature and advanced in academics. Test scores have proven it for many years now. You can't just base it off of the very few you have personally known. Maybe, it is a family problem in your case. You did say it was your cousins.
I was homeschooled for most of my education. Very grateful to my parents for instilling in me good Christian values and allowing me to form my own beliefs and morals without being indoctrinated by the public system. I consider myself a stronger person and more independent thinker because of it.
I hope my kids feel the way you express yourself
You realise you contradicted yourself. You didn’t form your own beliefs your parents did it for you.
@@SuperEdge67 Yes, I was going to say the same thing. Either way...kids are being indoctrinated. That's how life works. The difference is that since the parents are the parents - no one can intervene when they indoctrinate the kids unless they teach the kids illegal activity. But, in a sense, every parent teaches their kids the way they would want them to be just like a school. It really is no different. I have friends who are not even Christian who homeschool. People forget that everybody that homeschools is not Christian or even religious. Some parents homeschool to specifically keep their kids away from anything to do with religion because of their own views.
Homeschooling is hard. I have 4 sons and they’re full of energy and some days it feels like too much…BUT I don’t ever regret homeschooling them and we have so many incredible moments together. I have had moments where I was close to putting them into school, but I keep coming back to the many reasons why I homeschool and I can never do it. The pros truly do outweigh the cons and the hard work is truly all worth it. Investing in your kids is one of the best things you can do ❤️
Same here. It’s a roller coaster ride but the many pros outweigh any possible cons. Homeschooling 3 currently pulled them out two years ago and a new baby on the way. It’s a worthwhile sacrifice.
If you had sent them to school they would have tried to drug them because of normal boy energy. You did the right thing! Thanks for being a great mom!
@@run4cmt Unfortunately, you are correct. Recent studies are coming out that the medications given to these kids has had permanent side effects in their growth. I have a child with ADHD that I homeschool. You simply have to teach them coping skills, like with any other handicap in life. I have watched her dramatically mature over the years.
Have you read Teaching From Rest? I think you would love it.
@@kalistawatson9884 ditto
Live local! If you have children in a public indoctrination center, pull them out. At the very least it deprives the school of the funding for your student. Home schooling isn't easy, but it's very worth it. Children tend to be better behaved and family relationships tend to be closer.
Let’s go further and completely abolish public schools
@@CoolPapaJMagik Yesssss!!!!
We pulled our kids this year and we were happy that they’ll be losing their funding. But, so many kids have been pulled that the government said they’d still pay the schools the same amount to help offset the declining enrollment. So it didn’t really work.
Unfortunately I got a sociopath married to an alcoholic and they moved to Oregon where Anything goes. I wish I was given to someone who liked me. Been considered a worthless human. Regular Judeo Christian values I miss here. Dennis, what you did with cameras I did with musical keyboards. Love "meeting" you Prager Force people. Oregon is too stupid. Took my education in my own hands. I am still a readaholic. ⛴🔈🔊📻🎧💻🖥📺📷📸📚📚📚📚📚📕📗📖📙📚📧📨📦🗂💼💻📲 now that there are multiple sources, some of course better than others but overall knowledge more available. Remember People, Ladies and Gentlemen, Left is Lousy. The new morality is the old immorality made legal. If my mother hadn't moved out of Oregon and turned over a new leaf we would have been divorced. Off the drugs, off the cheating, helping other people, aiding her new community. Finally a Legacy. WOOHOOOO!!!
Agreed!!! Not easy but definitely worth it.
My wife and I home and private schooled our daughter K-12 and she entered college when you're early.
With all the lies and anti-American garbage being taught today, there's absolutely no way I would ever send my child to a government indoctrination center, AKA Public School. And this coming from a former educator who used to teach at a large public high school.
Which one is indoctrination?
A. Kids in public schools having discussions with other peers who have different ideas as well as gaining the perspectives of both their teacher and their parents
B. Parents homeschooling their kids and telling them what to think and then punishing them if they disagree
Breaking news: America Education Rate is decreasing. Illiteration and asocial atitudes are increasing
@@MP-ef9yo I'm so sorry your homeschool experience was so evil. It makes me want to cry. We know there is evil in EVERY walk of life. Even in churches/religious institutions. I can assure you this is not the norm. Also, it's very abnormal for a child to be "schooled" strictly by parents. Today's homeschool parents are more like facilitators of education. We have unofficial IEPs for each student. That includes: co-ops, live classes, online classes, dual enrollment, private tutors; we've even studied in Uganda, Africa. We've had discussions with NASA scientists. Served in local gov't with retired military. The world is our classroom. Then add your community sports and activities, 4-H programs (my daughter was even the president for two years), homeschool organizations like speech & debate travel teams, drama teams, etc. etc. Your "A." example absolutely happens amongst homeschoolers. But it's not looked at as an "assignment in school". Discussion is highly encouraged. Our children just don't have to stop when the bell rings after 50 minutes. And it's not limited to peers and teachers.
Teaching your children is not indoctrination!!! Wow ignorance is full
@@homeschoolguidance8367 I wasn't homeschooled (Thank God!). The 2 people I do know who were pulled out to be homeschooled always post the dumbest crap on facebook and instagram. Neither of them went to college. Your program does not sound terrible if it is a class of students with diverse backgrounds. Most of the parents on this channel are talking about being the only ones who get to have an influence over what their child learns so that they think exactly like them
Six of my seven grandchildren are homeschooled. Thank goodness. Oh yeah, the other one is a small town police officer, and in the Marine reserves. I’m proud.
I’m so impressed! They are so much more mature than typical young adults their same age.
What a super sharp crowd!
I've been homeschooling my child since she could sit up. She's kindergarten age and we are doing well! Love this!!!
Parents need to remember their children learn solely from them for the first 5 years; parents are educators.
I was homeschooled K-12, fantastic experience. I have two bachelors of science degrees I am an RN and have a successful career. Will homeschool my future children. Glad to see this promoted
You don't even have to graduate High School to be an RN you can get all that stuff online with barely any schooling at all that's why nurses are so stupid they're starting to become a thing of the past
@@mufdiver9406 wow...none of that is even remotely true.
@@taylop794 ignore them. They were taught in public school. 😂
The argument, "We can't afford it" is an incomplete statement. The entire statement is, "We can't afford our current lifestyle and home school."
I've been homeschooling for 4 years and have spent $200 on it. The amount of resources available today makes it very affordable. I expect to spend more as my children grow older and have more specific interests, however I feel confident that I can still be frugal.
@@talithakoumigetup7005 do you buy physical materials or use online resources for your homeschooling?
@Candace Tarbat...I use online materials, the library and physical materials. You can get homeschool items secondhand. I found a lot of great stuff at yard sales. This is great for the basics like math, reading and handwriting. I got 7 box sets of Hooked on Phonics and Hooked on Math for $70. That was my highest ticket item.
Sounds like we have a Dave Ramsian in here 🤣 me too. Actually did the math and it was cheaper for me to stay home than pay for daycare - almost. I would have taken an extra $2k home every year with my first kid and broke even maybe with my second. It gets more worth it with every kid 🤣
Dennis Prager is the Uncle we all wish we had.
I started homeschooling my fourth grader and preschool age child this year. Best decision I could’ve ever made. My daughter was having such a hard time reading in within a couple weeks of homeschool she’s already advanced an entire grade in reading. Mom and dad know best, yes even over you’re very expensive teaching degree.
I am the oldest of five children homeschooled from kindergarten through high school. I wouldn’t have changed a single thing about it. Now I’m a homeschooling mother. When I was growing up we would get strange looks when we told people we were homeschooled. Now, when I tell people that I homeschool, I am applauded. It’s all I know, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
I am homeschooling my grandsons. My daughter, their mother, is the principal. Once kids have learned to read and are reading to learn homeschooling gets easier. My job is essentially to hold them accountable. Occasionally they are scolded for being off task but there is a point where they become self motivated. Now when I arrive even if I am late they have already started their work. When they get confused about something they will seek my help. I wish I had been homeschooled and I wish I had homeschooled my kids. While I got a good education academically I was bullied and miserable. My grandsons and I are close. They have friends through church and activities.
This was a good topic for a fireside chat. I was homeschooled K- 12, as was my husband. My husband is a business owner has been since he was 25. I credit it to him being homeschooled. I'm a stay at home homeschooling mom to two young boys.
As a Brazilian, I'm really impressed with this argument around 4:00. It's very sound. Here in Brazil, there are different regions with multiple degrees of development. The more developed are those states that accepted individual liberty as a fundamental principle for life.
How was Taylor’s Portuguese?
Don't believe that lie. He only mention Brazil. Notice he left out all the European Powers. That was done for a reason. I will end with this:
At the height ofbandage. (Before the Civil war) there were almost 4 million slaves in bondage. The average cost of that slave was around 1000 dollars. Adjusted for inflation and in todays money that equates to 42 Trillion dollars.
Thank you, Dennis Prager! These young people made me cry, so proud of them & their parents!
Just started homeschooling my girls and I LOVE IT!!
We are about 10 days in and my 5th grader is almost done with her entire year of math. I expect her to finish the 5th grade curriculum next week and then on to pre algebra, geometry, etc. We are working on foundations of chemistry and flying through Spanish.
My 4th grader is also kicking ass. 100% on all of her spelling and math assessments so far, also learning Spanish.
Both girls are learning piano and doing vocal lessons (with me) and we are studying US government structure and early US history.
We did a science lab on aerodynamics today, magnetics yesterday and propulsion next week.
Homeschool is awesome. I love the conversations we are having and it is amazing to see them flourish from the 1 on 1 attention and from being allowed to move forward without restriction and with full support.
If you are on the fence, TRY IT!!
It's sad that our tax dollars are paying for this nonsense. Imo we need to redo the tax system that's in place. Right now it's taxation without representation. No step on snek
Can you imagine your child spending 8 hours a day being taught Jenny has 3 moms and America is racist? I know a guy who paid his conservative neighbor to home school his kid. He says now that he wouldn't dream of putting his kid in a public school.
Homeschooling mom here, mom can do home based business. Also schooling can be done in far less hours than traditional school takes. Math and budgeting can happen at a trip to the grocery store. PULL YOUR KIDS FROM PUBLIC SCHOOLS.
Public School teachers complain that parents do NOT take interest in their child's education, but when the parents homeschool their child, the teachers complain about that, too! Teachers cannot have it both ways!
I have a small grandson that I babysit. If my health holds, I hope to be able to homeschool him in a few years. The school district he is in is not terrible, comparatively speaking, but they still teach that feel-good, everyone-gets-a-trophy BS. My daughter's friend was home schooled. It only took about 3 hours per day to finish all of her classwork, and when she went on to college, she was consistently at the top of her class.
Started homeschooling my son last year. Not always easy but definitely the best decision for our family.
These videos are one of the few things that give me hope for the future of this country. Thanks for sharing these bright young people with us!
These kids are so smart, articulate and engaging. Dennis you did a great job of interviewing them.
Rachel is so sweet. These young people give society hope for the future.
I’m Brazilian. The guy speaks Portuguese really well! 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
Rachel is very impressive. The respectful way in which she talks with you, Dennis. She seems very intelligent and very wise for a 19 year old. Great panel, overall. Thank you, sir!
I did a co-op-like style of homeschooling starting in eighth grade after going to public school. I went to school a different churches that would allow the program to have school there. I went two times a week. I had teachers, my core classes, and a couple of electives. Other weekdays I did my assignments at home like homework. Since we only met two times a week my teachers would make the most our time in class. I learned so much and really enjoyed it! My parents were more involved with helping my younger brother, but I did everything at home on my own. My mom could review curriculum. We had to order our own books, but she didn’t have to make any, teach lessons, or give assignments. We read all kinds of classic books which the public high school in my area does not do.
Those who are going to excel will EXCEL no matter where they are schooled. Home schooling will give you a more stable adult person and more ethical person.
The school board meeting I attended last month was a horrifying eye opener....they did not bother hiding their dismissive eye rolling. Very unprofessional and very alarming. I'm homeschooling my kindergartener this year as soon as I find work that's remote.
Woah. That IS alarming! Not open-minded at all
Meanwhile you could consider Homeschool at night and on weekends. Leave her with a babysitter who will do minimum school things. Read certain books or write one letter. Kindergarten is learning to follow directions, to identify letters, colors and numbers, to count, to learn months days and years. These are intentional everyday conversations between mom and child as they help make dinner, set the table, and go to the grocery store. You can do it,
@@traceymap totally agree with what you wrote. I work full time 8-4:30pm. My oldest son who is 18 in college doing remote college stays with her. At my lunch I come home and teach her also weekends we learn one on one. In between I make everything a lesson verbally. For now this is a start all I know is that she wasn’t going to have a mask on for eight hours. I’m in NJ and day by day it’s getting worst. People think I’ve lost it nope they did by giving their kids to the government! She is the youngest of my four kids the first three I didn’t homeschool however, things got so much worst!
Amen. I was scared...but with God's daily grace...we worked through the hard parts. Now, 3 years into it, we are so blessed. Our kids is smart, socialized, patriotic.
I did watch Miseducated. It was great and Christopher Rufo is a Godsend
10:35
“So your homeschooled?”
*Yes*
“Where do you learn?”
*at home*
😂
Hey, he asked!
I enjoy this program so much. Everyone should be watching it.
These young people are an inspiration and Dennis is right they have a battle ahead with the current state ...of the whole world.
I didn’t know much about homeschooling when my children were young. I think this subject deserves more awareness, especially in lower income neighborhoods. If people were given the tools, the knowledge and direction to do so, more children would be fortunate enough to be homeschooled.
Sometimes you just have to jump in the water. More and more there is so much support for homeschooling. There is no reason for any parent to not find resources if the want to.
It is actually quite easy and cheap to start homeschooling.. in a few days I plan to do a RUclips video outlining exactly that..I’m a licensed special education teacher and homeschooler
@@LynnRPerry I agree with your statement, however back when my kids where young (mid 90’s) there weren’t many resources that I was aware of and I also had to work full time. There’s a lot more awareness and ease in getting that information and I’m glad for that.
After I got kicked out of school for a reason that wasn't my fault (which, in my opinion, isn't too hard these days), my mom opted to homeschool me and my younger sister. I only had a few more years of school left. But, my sister was able to take advantage of it from junior high to high school. Technically, I'm still homeschooling in that I took up computers and have been studying them from home ever since.
I’m so glad to live in Idaho. I don’t take it for granted though, I look through my kids curriculum anyway (not in public school either) to make sure. Just to give you an idea of where we are, they still say “under God” in our kid’s pledge of allegiance. I’m one of the lucky ones but I know these activists are sneaky and persistent
That's great! Schools are horrible anymore, and so evil and immoral!!!
I’m in Idaho and pulled my kids. Fellow parents met to protest school board. Unamerican here. Not worth it
@@donotrobme9295 where in Idaho?
I've been in Idaho for 4 years. The public schools here have been a tremendous disappointment. They work so hard to enforce mediocrity. Now we homeschool.
@@thenomadsland that’s us too. Then they have masks on all the kids now and yet even when we go to a BSU sold out event or Walmart , even Costco, no masks anywhere anymore. But kids in school, yes
I’m a homemaking/homeschooling mother of four children. Thank you! We will be outspoken.
That guy needs to follow that new passion he developed. In a few years that will be a huge thing, it pretty much already is as of now. More people need that kind of voice to get out of video game and porn addiction more than ever.
@Karen Bella Huh?
@@Darkri56789 An example of porn addiction, ignore them.
Celebrate Recovery is a recovery program that can address any addiction. There are chapters all over.
Dennis is absolutely right. We hate to see your California plates on our Idaho roads
Most people fleeing California are conservatives.
We homeschooled our kids, K-12, and they were both raised in California. They both went to college; UCLA and UC Berkeley. They are now liberal and one has decide to no longer communicate with our conservative family. Be forewarned!
Condolences but don’t give up hope. Perhaps they will return. Leave the light on 😊
A wise man once said "If you are not a liberal at 20 you have no heart, if you are not a conservative at 40 you have no brain."
Give it some time.
I'm so sorry to hear that and I appreciate the warning. My heart goes out to you, and I know some of your pain since I have one child who took this same sort of path (happened after going to a secular university). I think Dennis is right that sending Conservative kids to college is like playing Russian roulette with their morals. Some will end up stronger for it in the end, but most will become a part of the system. The system is just too massive and powerful, it is too attractive and too easy for most people. We will be sacrificing a lot but we plan to send our other kids to colleges that are inline with our morals. Don't lose heart and "keep the light on" for them as the other commenter mentioned. Also stay close to your spouse during this difficult time, and find renewed purpose and joy in your shared values and partnership in life. God bless
My niece has been home schooled since kindergarten and in eighth grade tests at junior or above in all classes.
I always wanted to be a stay at home wife and mother.
My sneaky suspicion is that there are a lot of woman that feel the same way, but have been pressured by the "progressives" in society to be successful in the business world.
A mother's presence in the home is priceless! Children naturally need and want their mothers, but society's message to us is that children will do fine with hired caregivers. Society has undermined the value of a wife and mother in the home and convinced many that her time and effort are best used in the pursuit of a paycheck or worldly accolades. In reality, young mothers will find no shortage of ways to use their time, talents, and energy to provide a loving home and quality education for their children. The truth is, when a woman works full time, her husband and children end up getting the 'leftovers' that she has to offer; the majority of her best waking hours are devoted to the job.
One by one, moms can make a difference for themselves and their families as they assess the true cost of 'having it all,' reject that lying paradigm, and come home for themselves and their families. Your children's childhoods are fleeting; treasure that time and give it your best!
I nannied for a lady who felt the same way! I am so happy for her that she doesn’t have a nanny anymore and she just started going back into work only in the hours her children are gone. And they switched their children to Christian school this year! I encourage you to encourage others who have this desire!!
I openly say this. Always have. My career IS my kids and husband. My children are 21,15, and 14. Just moved to Texas from Missouri. I've been with my husband since I was 13. (I'm 40 now). In my heart, I literally live for my kids and husband. Them being great makes me great. My husband and kids having their needs met makes me fulfilled. Even from a teenage perspective I've always wanted to be a stay at home mom and wife. My life is setting their lives up for success. Their wins are mine. Their struggles are mine. Now starting homeschooling because of CRT. I wish i would've known earlier but sadly I take my responsibility and I simply didn't pay attention earlier. Now there's NO way I'll EVER send them back. I'm struggling starting, trying to get out of the school box I keep going into but ill press on because no way I'll allow them to receive funding for my children for making them hate the country I'll eagerly fight for.
I think that is a good idea.
22:00. I experienced this actual thing, about 25 years ago.
Myself and 5 girls from the office went out to lunch. One of the girls, who was about 20, said exactly what this girl said.
All of us, including me, reacted with genuine shock that she would say such a thing.
(I've since become more enlightened. There's absolutely nothing impressive about making a plan to make it big in the world of corporate lawyers).
This happened to me in college in 1988.
For the record, we just celebrated 30 years of marriage and started year 21 of homeschooling. Take that, Dr. Gosch!
I was almost 30 when an older woman thought she should sit me down and explain how detrimental my choice to be a stay at home mom would be for me. In terms of my financial security at this point in my life we could say she was right...but during this crazy turbulent time when so many people my age are heart broken their kids don't hold the same values....mine do and they frequently thank me...not just for choosing them over a career but for homeschooling them as well. We are each others strength and support as we make decisions for our lives that are going against the norm. I'm so grateful for them...and for the choices and sacrifices I made to get us all here.
I was ridiculed and told it was a pipe dream to want to be a stay-at-home wife and mom when I was 17 working as a cashier at a local grocery store, lol. The 65-year-old woman told me that I would never find a man who would want me to stay home and that we couldn’t make it on one income.Here I am thirteen years later, married to the most wonderful man, with three kids so far, living the dream! It’s not always easy, but it’s always an adventure, and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
"I would not let myself be an unhappy man"
-Dennis Prager
These 3 kids are so brilliant, beautiful, and respectful. They have their whole life ahead of them and I predict wonderful things for all. God bless them all and warmest wishes. Our future has a future. Go get 'em kids!!
I was homeschooled almost all my life. The school my brothers and I went to was a complete joke. If I do get get married myself, (that’s a big IF, I’ve been around the romance block 3 times and I find it hard to even try again.) I would want nothing else but to have my children homeschooled by a loving Catholic mother who understands the proper gender roles of male and female.
So sad you haven’t found anyone! I want nothing more than to be the wife of a good Catholic man and be a stay-at-home mom someday.
I went to private church school
Public schools a terrible
What does science education look like at a church school?
Wonderful to see great kids with their heads on straight.
I’m 1 of 14 children, and my mom homeschooled 7 of us. I was one of the children she homeschooled. She is a public school teacher and as a teacher she didn’t like the system and where it has been going in the last 20 years. I’m personally very grateful for her choice to homeschool me.
Side note: we’re not Mormon or Catholic. 😂
I homeschool 2 of my 3 kids and I still work outside the home. I just homeschool them on my days off, even if it means homeschooling on the weekend.
Started homeschooling last year. Best decision for the entire family!
this fireside chat was hilarious AND meaningful, thank you Denis for continuing to enrich my life
Really was 🤣
For those who really must have two incomes or are single parents, please look into pods or microschools
I'm homeschooling all of my kids!! With God's help! I just decide what my kids should learn and teach that. With ACE's (Accelerated Christian Education) help. I felt like a failure everyday but I just kept going, we've learned to shop at second hand stores. We eat inexpensively ,we don't go out to dinner. Every single thing we have done is worth it! We have our children and they are much more educated and mature than public school children. Just do it!!!
It's weird that I've never heard a "meh, it's alright" opinion about a homeschooling experience. It's either "the best thing that ever happened" or "literally child abuse".
That's true.
This "fireside chat" is the best video I've seen from Prager U. Absolutely outstanding, must-see.
Homeschooled my whole life until senior year and SO thankful for it in Pittsburgh, PA!!
Until 6th grade my mom taught me
6th - 11th grade I took classes with other homeschooled students
12th grade public school
I’ve always loved the process and freedom of getting to teach myself 😊
I was Homeschooled along with my 5 siblings. My oldest brother got his Doctorate degree at 23 and has his own clinic, my sister got her Master's degree from Mayo at 21, she made Captain in the Army at 24, I had my Bachelor of Science at 19, my younger brother was an electrician at 17 and is currently pursuing a double major in electrical engineering and computer science, the other 2 are still kids. Homeschooling is amazing. I quit my job in order to homeschool my own kids. If you can do it, DO IT!
Everyone homeschooling or not homeschooling needs to read "Homeschooling, The Right Choice" by Christopher Klicka
It is beyond any book I have read regarding homeschooling.
I was lucky both of my children have conservative values. My grandson is being homeschooled . He's in first grade .
Every time I see an interview of young individuals of this caliber it reinstates my hope for the future.
‘Relative’ is dependent on the world experience and self-induced knowledge of the listener. The less the experience and self-sought knowledge, the smaller the mind, the less the relevance. After dragging along always a year ahead in public school i felt my only option was to drop out in the middle of the first semester of 10th grade, studied, took the GED test after 3 months and passed 88th in the state that year. Then lied about my age to a private college and entered university at 16 years old. Today i have my Masters in Theoretical and Radiation Physics, had my career and now have my dream…a sheep farm which allows me to read, study Scripture and work 16 hours per day, at 60 i hope to have a 20 year sheep farm career before retiring.
Wish somebody would list all the books that are on those bookshelves.
I would be interested in reading what Prager reads himself.
I loved homeschooling my children. 🙏🙏🙏
Dennis, I really appreciate your genuine interest in the people you are talking with.
"Dark Humor keeps me sane!" Best quote ever 😂🤣😅
We started our homeschool journey this year 💕 my girls are 2 and 5 and they are constantly complimented on their speaking and language skills.
I really wish all the best for Joseph. I’ve been there.
It was great to look up and see Tyler on the show! 😉 Great chat, Dennis and young guests!!
I'm glad to hear these young people had good experiences with homeschool. I personally didn't. I was behind my public school peers in two subjects and on par with them in others. I found this out when I finally was able to attend public high school and I loved it and excelled in it. I attribute this to my sub-par education at home, regarding both the curriculum and the environment. Not everyone is cut out to be a homeschool teacher and not every child will thrive in that environment. Take my anecdotal story for what it's worth; I'm not sharing it to discourage anyone from trying it. Just understand that it's not an automatic recipe for success.
You're right, and it needs saying. Not every homeschooler does a good job.
I was homeschooled for most of my education and I loved it!!
What amazing, confident, impressive people! Well done. Thank you for this interview.
The quality of our children’s lives and our family relationships improved dramatically after we decided to home school. It’s a sacrifice but a sacrifice that we will never regret.
We've homeschooled for nine years now and besides marrying each other and having children, it has been THE most positively impactful decision we've ever made, all the way around and completely unequivocally.
What lovely kids. A real credit to home schooling, which I used to be skeptical of.
I was not just sceptical but totally against it. So grateful I had a change of heart before any of my kids were school age. I homeschooled all of them all the way through. Wouldn't give up a minute of it.
Before pubic schools existed, home schooling existed, although group teaching and learning got really technical and regimented as societies grew, so home schooling became more difficult.. Remember that all aristocratic classes home schooled their children. There is nothing wrong with the system of group learning except the curriculum. Unfortunately, the curriculum now has turned political and is devoid of morality and devoid of discipline. By the way, my two nieces and one nephew are home schooled and their teacher (mom) is a former public school teacher. ("Before Abraham was, I am.")
I homeschool my children. I will not allow them to be indoctrinated. May God bless us all, Amen 😇
I teach music by profession and it is not lost on me that the majority of my homeschooling students do very well.
Been homeschooling now for 5 years after horrible public school experience. Best decision we ever made. Completely downsized our lives, sold everything, house, stuff, to go into a much smaller mortgage. That way I could quit working outside the home. Homeschool is so much fun!
felt bad for Taylor getting interrupted every time he was about to explain something
💜 Otto!! Nothing like a loving, beautiful animal to remind us of our worth and love.
I am a single, self employed dad. I homeschool my 2 boys ages 11 and 15. It's not easy, but I would never send them back to public school.
I went from someone who would never even think of homeschooling and now, because of Covid and also having a child with social adaptation issues, I am going into our 4th Year of homeschooling and I am so grateful to have had this opportunity to be with my three kids watching them learn and grow. I do work part time and I have my mother to help with the kids when I have to go out for work.
Homeschool is hard at first, but with patience you can do it.
Yeah? We just started 2 weeks ago and it’s been a difficult start. Maybe we are experiencing some growing pains while we adjust...
@@beck204 an excellent source of encouragement here on RUclips is There's No Place Like Home. She has some great videos on how's to get started and how to take it easy. A lot of times or frustration arenas from trying to replicate school at home, which is almost never going to work out. Here's wishing you all the best on this journey, and hoping you find your groove soon! Hugs from a fellow homeschool parent in Brazil 💛
@@beck204 yes, and that’s normal. Keep at it. Remember it’s not school at home. You can have a more relaxed schedule, it’s ok to have lots of breaks if needed. Join support online homeschool groups! My boys are now done with school. Both are now in trade school, they opted out of College.
Unconditional happiness, Unconditional kindness, Unconditional enthusiasm make positive attitude, and I believe is the meaning of Unconditional love. I don't think we could be pessimistic if we maintained these attitudes.
I teach in a college, and one of the reasons homeschooling is winning is because it gives students the skills they need, both academic and socially. We used to have a reading requirement before students could start taking college level classes, but that was dropped because it was "an artificial barrier". Now we have students who have abysmal reading skills in classes. Not being able to read is not an artificial barrier; it is an actual barrier. The public school kids have so many mental health issues and are so down trodden. The home school kids still have a joy of life to them. I fully intend to homeschool my grandkids so that my grandchildren don't have to go to k-12. I have a few years of very lean employment and augmented with substitute teaching in some k-12 schools. It was horrifying at what level the students were.