Y’all were being sensitive af with Anushka 🤦🏾♀️. She didn’t say anything wrong really. I don’t want a thug or man with dreads who can’t form a complete sentence either!
I understood very well what Anushka meant by what she didn’t want. There’s different kinds of black (ghetto black, educated black, bougie black, ratched black, etc).
Anushka is not wrong, and she's not saying anything we don't say. In other words, she doesn't want any Pookies or Ray Ray's. Stop being extra sensitive tryna find racism where there is none causes is to not be taken serious.
Right and the way black men talk about the black women on this show… we should sit this one out. If they’re offended let them defend themselves, they normally like these kinda Becky’s anyway
Thank you! I can handle the backlash about my skin color... I've dealt with it in the military. It's 2024, date who makes one happy. Flaws and all. Skin color doesn't define a person's character or morals. Which is something people should realize. 😊
I believe he got lazy. Going through private profiles to see if you are attractive to him must be annoying. Those women shouldn't put their profile in private if they really want a chance.
@@yanou4uif you read between the lines he said he already has someone who’s a option. He’s not looking for anything but more followers and as he said himself clientele
I read the comments before I watched and I was waiting for it. I love Kendra but she will mess up a name. Kendra will have 3-4 pronunciations in one call. I love her and we all have our issues.😂❤
She probably has CTE from having her head banged up against different headboards throughout the years climbing the ladder to get where she’s at. 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In reference to the “pushback” that Anushka was getting. I saw someone ask if it would have been more acceptable for her to say that she didn’t want a thug if she’d been a Black women, but another question would be would she have made ANY reference to “thugs” if she only wanted to date white men, or would she have just said the “clean cut” part? Probably not, because despite her politically correct line about thugs having no race, etc., when white people say the word “thug”, they are usually only referring to Black and brown men. There is nothing at all wrong with her standards, but sometimes, the words that people use say more about their hearts and their core beliefs than even *they* realize.
2:12:43 I'm so glad Kendra noticed this about the live chat. It's full of hate. You get those weirdos posting and reposting the same insults over and over. Why is hate watching even a thing, with grown people doing it at that. Its so weird to me.
They make it to every show every single night! It’s has to be teenagers!! I refuse to believe adults have sooo much time on their hands! Those trolls literally find fault with every single person on the show! The sad life they must live
@@ConsciousKinks77I believe it’s adults doing it. Teenagers don’t care about dating shows. They are too busy watching Tik Tok. It’s adults who are miserable in life.
I agree. There is a person that comes on RUclips that says “congratulations Kendra on your pregnancy” which is ridiculous . Age shaming is a problem too, especially towards ladies.
Anushka had standards….real standards, not just cash requirements for trips…and so many are mad because their fathers didn’t teach them the difference.
Men like Hector is the reason why the dating marketplace is confusing for women. Men should just be honest and straightforward because giving mixed signals is why women are struggling. Just say you want a woman who’s not overweight! Geez!
Kendra has a doctorate degree in hitting people with slider statements lol and they be landing 100% of the time n the ppl on the received just be smiling.
Anushka was clear and specific with what she wanted, and didn’t asked for a serious money requirement, what’s wrong with her not wanting a thug? I didn’t see the guy so I don’t if she judged. I have dreads, and I don’t see anything wrong with that, is it because she’s not black!
Nothing wrong with dreads, braids etc. It's just USUALLY not my thing. And it doesn't have always have a direct correlation to being a street dude/thug. I've met really handsome and professional men with different hairstyles, i.e., braids, dreads etc and it looked nice on him.
Anushka said the quiet part louder than the black women normally code the same thing. Why are you mad? If more black women were vocal and did the extras, the same as Anushka, you would have more husband material men. But you build yourselves up just to get ratchet outcomes from men you refuse to hold accountable.
They are just as ratchet. Water seeks its own level. If the women they attract were good women, crime wouldn't be highest where singlemotherhood is highest.
Plenty of husband material men out there, but they’re willingly avoiding modern women. Its just that the losers are being chosen to reproduce with often.
Anushka is allowed to have her preference. She's allowed to describe the type of person she's looking for. I think where she lost me. You don't need to denigrate someone, just to display what you are looking for. It's not a good look. Especially when they're not there to defend themselves. And the equalization between a thug. Someone who engages in criminal behavior. And equating that to someone who doesn't follow instructions very well. Doesn't make a lot of sense. If you're going to tote yourself as this highly educated person. The English language is vast. There's more than one way of saying I like a man with more composure. If you're going to stand on your word choice. Know that it could inflame the comment section. Especially because you do not have the benefit of doubt within a culture. That normally doubts your sincerity.
Thank you!!! She called that man a thug because she didn’t like the way he talked, his dreads etc. The definition of a thug is not him! Nobody cares about her preference but one thing we will not accept is somebody calling somebody what they’re not especially somebody white!
@@GTL__430 I see you're really triggered. Lol. Maybe it's more of you who has an issue with white or non black women dating black men. 😊 to each their own. #...2024...
I really enjoy this show! I usually watch the Friday night show on Saturday morning while I fix everyone breakfast. Thanks Kendra for the continuous entertainment❤.
What's the rot in white America?...White supremacy groups, full of young thug white boys....why would use this venue?....She is not looking for anyone, she used this to degrade black men...she has had her share in the Army., I definitely believe that....90 day Fiance is a good thing for her old swollen face self.
Thank you. Agreed. Yet, people were roasting her in the chat. That hair texture is what most of these mens mammas heads look like under them wigs. Dont know they clowning their own daughters, sisters, and mothers mane. Straight internalized hatred. Sad. Her hair was straight dope and shows courage and dedication!
I don’t care about rain and wet my hair almost daily in the shower 😬..! I workout 4-5 days a week and natural hair is zero problem. Lots of ladies wearing their hair !
@@tmcurlyare you referring to what Kendra said because from what she said it seems like those things would be for someone that has their hair pressed ie chemicals or flat iron ive had my hair natural all my life and still do activities and it has had no affect on my hair so I dont know what Kendra is talking about maybe shes so addicted to wigs and weaves that she just needs to say foolishness to justify and rationalize continuing wearing them who knows
But, he wasn't a thug. He married the mother of his kids. He didn't talk slang/ebonics nothing. If anything he is selfish and delusional and just wasn't her type. She was wrong saying he's a thug
What's an example? Bc talking about my accomplishments and similarities isn't competing. Should I have 0 voice? I can't speak about what I've done also?
The projecting was so real. Hood culture = Black culture? Africans should be black culture. She didn’t want pookie or ray ray, she want Dwayne or Malcolm 🤦🏽♂️
Brianna r love he been following her since forever she is so sweeet love her fitness and health content & she is feminine, teachable, nuturing, fit & super friendly ❤ WISHING HER THE ABSOLUTE BEST
Anushka is nice enough but has Veteran’s benefits but no bottom teeth? She is educated but she has to fix those bottom teeth! I don’t think she’s been dealing with quality black men. Some of these deal breakers that women say on here, GO WITHOUT SAYING. I am not mad at her for not wanting a thug because some women do🤷🏽♀️. She has a preference of what kind of man she wants in her life and there’s nothing wrong with that. Dreadlocks are not synonymous with thugs though. I know many intelligent, well traveled and high functioning black men with locks! 😊
Idk why people are pointing out my teeth... I've seen way worse on here. I'm real and genuine. Do I need to explain that it was an Army injury?!?! Just bc I have veterans benefits doesn't mean they can fix everything. Everyone has internal and external flaws and everyone has a story. --> Deal breakers: yes women/men should express even our "obviousl" deal breakers so no one is confused and it's all on the table... It's part of communicating effectively so no one is assuming.
I have dealt (with a lot) of QUALITY men of all types/ethnicities (not limited to blq men). Dreads, locs, and man buns are just not my thing. I personally know successful men who have them.
@@MrsRease2011 A professional man as you describe MAY not find it acceptable, especially if he takes you around his peers who may also be professional. I have also not seen a professional without bottom teeth. I apologize for assuming that you would have good enough benefits to address the tooth loss. it’s just an observation. I hope you find the man you deserve who will accept you how you are! ❤️
A passport is easier to get than a driver's license it's not that difficult. People act like this passport thing is difficult to find. As long as you're not on the run from the law and you have $200, you fill out a form take a picture and you get your passport in a couple months relax it's not that deep.
@@realass_me Y'all love changing stuff. It's not that difficult to take a trip overseas. None of it is hard. It's just as difficult to take a trip to California or expensive to take a trip to California as it is to take a trip to any of the Caribbean islands Mexico Canada. You go further you pay more. It's all very simple
@MenofValueSpeaks Don't confuse what I said. I PREFER a low cut fade but not a thug or anyone in a gang for that matter. No matter what color or ethnicity he is. Dreads,locs etc does not define one to be a thug/from the streets etc. If I met someone who checked the boxes with a different hairstyle, maybe I'd consider. BTW, your profile pic is cute... See no correlation with street/thug material. Lol
I just don’t like the word “thug” as to describing someone, we don’t if that person is that, because it definitely describes that of black or brown men automatically‼️when thugs imo comes from other races as well. What would y’all call those people that were climbing up the walls of the building in Washington, forcing their way into it. Now that was thugs to me. Because again if we’re going off someone characteristics and actions right? I don’t care what the lady preferences is,that’s her choice, what I’m saying is if that wasn’t the man/guy for her, thug shouldn’t have been described as to what she didn’t like about him. That’s all
“…I’m about that wig life!” I like how Kendra shouted out natural hair, said she’s going to wear a natural hairstyle again soon, explained how wigs fit her lifestyle and shared that her man likes them too! Respect!
I don't like how everyone is attacking Anushka because she was just expressing what type of guy she doesn't want, that guy from the gas station was not her type simple as that geez
Yeah she just didn't like his appearance maybe his trousers were hanging down on him 🤷 talking street, personal l wouldn't talk to someone like that either. She did say thug not knowing if he was one, but how one present themselves and talk etc is important like going for an interview first impressions count! 😊
My questions is with a resume like that, sneaky link aside, with almost a half a million followers why in the world are you single? It might be you not checking dms on a weekly basis or maybe inconsistency? something going on.
@@successfulMillennialwhat I heard was “I dated them all”…ok, the streets do recognize that language…chic is a walking red flag but somehow got no push back because of her body…which can be sculpted on most women with a bit of motivation 🙄🙄🙄
The Thug comment was not directed towards him. I used him as an example of who is not my type. I don't want a guy with that many young kids. Among other reasons why he isn't my type. Maybe he is nice. I don't know him so 🤷. He's just not for me.
@KevinHunter-jt2rd....all those slow azz ppl missed that... She did not have to reference that young man.....Anushka has a hard on for black dudes...I know her type, I am ex military too ....
I don’t think it’s about what she said it’s about how she said it people talk about presentation but it’s also about your delivery. I think what rubbed me and others the wrong way is she seems to specifically associate Locs or natural styles with thugs.. or looking unprofessional . Who generally wants a thug street guy?? But to each it’s own.. this is why the crown act had to be assembled and still fighting. The lady with the natural fro looked beautiful !
I wish I was here live because I would have paid to defend Anushka. I can’t fucking believe she’s being attacked like this. She doesn’t want a fucking thug and SHE personally doesn’t like dreads and twists. Why in the hell is even KENDRA not making it clear what this lady meant as if SHE doesn’t have the comprehension either. Come on now! She said the guy at the gas station is an example of what she doesn’t want!! The way yall defend thugs is CRAZY. Sometimes the red pill dudes don’t be totally lying on yall. -Princella Oh ok Kendra made softened the air a bit. I was about to say what is bloody happening??
Cause. Kendra be acting like a pick me sometimes. That lady said nothing wrong and anyone with connected brain cells could understand what she was saying.
The man shortage must be really bad . Don was cool but yah acting like he was the best thing after Christ he looks and acts like a lot of BM that I see on a daily basis… I know if yah seen him on the street yah wouldn’t even look at him twice
It needs to be that way. Judgement is important because it builds better community. Stop accepting fckery and thinking it’s just “them”. “They” have kids and raise them into the lackluster men and women people have to choose from these days. You can’t let people pee in the pool and think it will just stay over there. You get it too.
@KendraGMedia People are very hateful on the comments. The topic was my preference. I said I don't want a thug, then transitioned to what type I'm not looking for pertaining to gas station guy. He was ok just not for me and I'm not referring to him as a thug. It's 2024 so bw shouldn't care if ww date a blaq MN. Who cares. We all bleed red. Everyone should have standards. Gas station guy is actually cool and we're all nervous when we're on live. Things can always be misconstrued.
Blq ppl shouldn't relate to thugs as just blq ppl. Wtf. Lol. Let's move on from the thug reference, y'all!! LMFAO. If I was a mixed (w/blq) race, I don't think it would've been blown out of proportion like that. These people with negative comments sound like they're hateful and unhappy with themselves. Get over it.
I was not expecting Latasha to have that under her house coat. I am shocked I was not expecting that. That being said she's tripping with her money requirement. Absolutely crazy
@@ThatbulBlack according to these ignorant fools. I wonder what a Heaux looks like? Black too? I wonder what a breeding animal looks like? Black too? Man we love perpetuating stereotypes lol.
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr I didn't say he looked like a thug. Lol. Your other comments are rude too. Maybe you are the problem and or don't like ww dating bm. Calm down it will be ok.
@@MissSweetie76you are delusional 😂 no one cares you date black men you are not the first WW on this show ppl think your tone deaf and prejudice with messed up teeth. You are also combative, good luck and I hope you get the man you deserve.
Someone said about Luke: “…like talking to Beavis and Buthead.!” Anuska used the word “thug” and said she doesn’t want someone who can’t communicate or someone with a street mentality! She’s conservative! Luke is the opposite of what she wants!
Its kinda of wack that everytime someone mention handsome they act like its synomous with being tall. Shorter men are hansome as well. This us getting out of control. Coming from a family of tall men and having a tall husband ,i still never discredited or discriminated against a man who wasnt over 6 feet. Preference is one thing but some of this shit just gets silly
Some short me are handsome, some tall me are handsome, some short men are ugly, some tall men are ugly some whether short or tall are neither handsome nor ugly. I’ve yet to see a short or tall face 😂
If you freeze the video at the 1:01:27 mark you can hear Kendra thinking “🥷 you serious” as a response to Resia saying she doesn’t mind chubby men just not gross negligence. She’s like lady apparently you’ve never looked in a mirror.
@humptyMcFly at least Resia has realistic standards and expectations. I thought she was really nice. She should smile more. She was probably nervous being live like most people are. @resiacov
Hector sweetie its not giving and thats why your dms looked the way it did; the delusion is getting outta hand. Anushka called in to a predominantly black dating show being racially biased but doesnt understand the backlash; chile please.
If I was racially biased I wouldn't be watching the show at all. Y'all are a trip. Maybe it's "Y'all " that have an issue with non black women dating black men.
@@MissSweetie76 girl idgaf who black men date lmaooo. You bothered by my comment oh well. The orginal statement that was made contradicted everything that was said now what.
LADIES ANSWER THIS: DO YOU WANT TO FEEL PROTECTED, OR BE PROTECTED? IF IT'S THE FIRST ONE NVERMIND KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING. IF IT'S THE SECOND UNLEARN EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU KNOW ABOUT WHAT MAKES A MAN. HEIGHT DOESN'T MAKE YOU SAFE ONLY FEEL SAFE.
The 'cousins' was triggered when Anushka said that she doesn't want any thugs, and she did say 'like the guy' in the last video but she was always using him as a general example of the kind of man that she's not attracted to. i watch this show all of the time and I see 'the cousins' in the comment section mocking, clawing and making fun of people for all kinds of reasons but as soon as someone of a different hue says that they don't like a preference, these same people want to pretend to be sensitive about judging and politics. If yawl going to be that way, be that way with everyone, not just people that you like or find most relatable cause we know that a lot of black folk love them thugs or thug types, gay men included and I can say this because I am black and from the hoodest of hoods.
Had a child off a meet and greet, built like Andre The Giant And sound like him, talking about you wanna be in her soft girl era. Renee get outta here.
In my opinion: Anyone that references that they have black friends as a defense has a lot of unlearning tod when it comes to different races and ethnicity. The reactions she got was warranted
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr What’s wrong with her being here? Anushka said that she mainly dates black men so this would be a good spot for her. Kendra saying this is a mostly black space was shortsighted on her part. That app money shouldn’t have a color. If it does, she’s wasting a ton of money.
2:01:25 She is a great example of why it is important for women to get with a producer when the woman is in her early 20s. You can’t be in your 30s looking for an established, high earning man. Smarter women than you saw the those characteristics in that man when he was 22-25 and became the wife he needed on his path to success. Those traits don’t just pop in when the man is 35, they are there when he’s 15.
I agree and I'm 29. However, I tried doing that with my ex and he literally left me and is now dating a white woman once he got successful after I was with him at the bottom. SO it's not always our fault. Some of us did try to work with a man but it didn't work out in the end and now we have to start all over at an older age. It is what it is.
Anushka held her ground.Respect.
Thank you 😊
Totally
I agree with Anushka. No thugs.
No thugs or what looks like it could be a thug😂
Y’all were being sensitive af with Anushka 🤦🏾♀️. She didn’t say anything wrong really. I don’t want a thug or man with dreads who can’t form a complete sentence either!
Hi.
@@Rashaadthegr8she said no thugs
Facts! I didn’t see the guy but i understand her sentiment! The dreads part was a preference im
Not sure if she was saying that’s thuggish
@@Rated_Fenty huh? I never been a thug in my life. Criminals and non criminals have all kinds of hairstyles.
@@Rashaadthegr8That’s what you get for hurting their feelings so often in the comments. 😂😂😂😂😂
I understood very well what Anushka meant by what she didn’t want. There’s different kinds of black (ghetto black, educated black, bougie black, ratched black, etc).
💯 This is so true!
Even in the whyte community they classify each other as elite, snobbish, having good/bad breeding, commoners, whyte trash etc.
Absolutely
Hector was trying to get him some clientele lol
Hector is just full of himself, out of a thousand women he couldn’t find one????? Quite prideful and a perfect idiot!!!! He should just have a seat
Right all these men is trying to get clout off Kendra 😂😂
I know so tasteless, and acted like he hit the button by mistake
Okay 😂😂😂😂
What about these miss modern miners?
Anushka is not wrong, and she's not saying anything we don't say. In other words, she doesn't want any Pookies or Ray Ray's. Stop being extra sensitive tryna find racism where there is none causes is to not be taken serious.
Right and the way black men talk about the black women on this show… we should sit this one out. If they’re offended let them defend themselves, they normally like these kinda Becky’s anyway
Wasn’t wrong at all! They were super sensitive for no reason at all.
Exactly !
Agree !00%!
Ain’t nobody mad but Pookie, Ray Ray, Tequila, and Mercedes.
That’s crazy how y’all treating Anushka …. Presentation is everything
Anushka knows what she want and I don't want a thug neither but she's getting crucified because of her skin color?
Thank you! I can handle the backlash about my skin color... I've dealt with it in the military. It's 2024, date who makes one happy. Flaws and all. Skin color doesn't define a person's character or morals. Which is something people should realize. 😊
1000 women but not one match lol sounds like he’s the problem
I believe he got lazy. Going through private profiles to see if you are attractive to him must be annoying. Those women shouldn't put their profile in private if they really want a chance.
@@yanou4uif you read between the lines he said he already has someone who’s a option. He’s not looking for anything but more followers and as he said himself clientele
He just wanted clout and following
Kendra bragging on pronouncing ol girls name correctly while continuously pronuncing it incorrectly is 😂
She just came out to say she is dyslexic. All of that ain’t dyslexia but maybe she should have confess that long ago
I read the comments before I watched and I was waiting for it. I love Kendra but she will mess up a name. Kendra will have 3-4 pronunciations in one call. I love her and we all have our issues.😂❤
@@rhondacommander5233Kendra definitely be butchering names lol but I like her…its funny to me
@@rhondacommander5233 You right. No shade. We are all flawed.
She probably has CTE from having her head banged up against different headboards throughout the years climbing the ladder to get where she’s at. 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In reference to the “pushback” that Anushka was getting. I saw someone ask if it would have been more acceptable for her to say that she didn’t want a thug if she’d been a Black women, but another question would be would she have made ANY reference to “thugs” if she only wanted to date white men, or would she have just said the “clean cut” part? Probably not, because despite her politically correct line about thugs having no race, etc., when white people say the word “thug”, they are usually only referring to Black and brown men. There is nothing at all wrong with her standards, but sometimes, the words that people use say more about their hearts and their core beliefs than even *they* realize.
Yes she said thug and referred to the guy at the gas station. She should have just left it at not liking thugs.
Anushka is smart. No one talks about debts in the show. Only yearly income.Someone earning 100k full of debts is not financially successful.
I have heard others mention debt to income, etc. Smart thing to focus on.
Anushka was genuine. Sad that people are taking it wrong.
Right, as many times a she made it clear it was the way he presented himself.
Anuska has standards most women need, but unfortunately don't want.
2:12:43 I'm so glad Kendra noticed this about the live chat. It's full of hate. You get those weirdos posting and reposting the same insults over and over. Why is hate watching even a thing, with grown people doing it at that. Its so weird to me.
They make it to every show every single night! It’s has to be teenagers!! I refuse to believe adults have sooo much time on their hands! Those trolls literally find fault with every single person on the show! The sad life they must live
@@ConsciousKinks77I believe it’s adults doing it. Teenagers don’t care about dating shows. They are too busy watching Tik Tok. It’s adults who are miserable in life.
@@ConsciousKinks77Oh no, these are adults. Which makes it ridiculous. They truly have nothing to do with their time.
I agree. There is a person that comes on RUclips that says “congratulations Kendra on your pregnancy” which is ridiculous . Age shaming is a problem too, especially towards ladies.
It’s almost like they intentionally come on the show to find something negative to say.
Hector came on talking in circles talking about he got on by mistake, like bro just get to the point. “I’m big on this, I’m big on that” sheeez.
Exactly, just came on body shaming. Meanwhile, he already got someone he is dealing with gtfo the show 🙄
@@elizabethclarke4981 facts! 🎯🎯🎯 just a damn goofy looking to promote his business
lol that's a lie though you can't click it by mistake
He was good the first time he was on, now he's coming across corny
Lmaooooooooo
Anushka had standards….real standards, not just cash requirements for trips…and so many are mad because their fathers didn’t teach them the difference.
But she ain’t black so she can’t call a police a pookie😂
I like Renee. She's naturally funny and comfortable in her own skin.
Men like Hector is the reason why the dating marketplace is confusing for women. Men should just be honest and straightforward because giving mixed signals is why women are struggling. Just say you want a woman who’s not overweight! Geez!
Briana seems to be his match, she said he likes black women, and she said she would be willing to move if it worked out with someone
He's not responsible!
Resia said no overweight men,but she's about 280lbs, really
I truly agree lose weight an go on a diet 😢
Resia Tesa
The heavier girls love a slim man don’t want what they represent
unbelievable 😮 i was like not big but 😅
“We see you mamma” code for you a big woman 😂😂
lolol😅
Kendra has a doctorate degree in hitting people with slider statements lol and they be landing 100% of the time n the ppl on the received just be smiling.
😭😭
Kendra i truly agree he came on to promote his u tube channels so you did the right thing to hang up on him
Anushka was clear and specific with what she wanted, and didn’t asked for a serious money requirement, what’s wrong with her not wanting a thug? I didn’t see the guy so I don’t if she judged. I have dreads, and I don’t see anything wrong with that, is it because she’s not black!
Nothing wrong with dreads, braids etc. It's just USUALLY not my thing. And it doesn't have always have a direct correlation to being a street dude/thug. I've met really handsome and professional men with different hairstyles, i.e., braids, dreads etc and it looked nice on him.
Ms. Renee has a WONDERFUL personality...
I hope she finds someone that she's compatible with...
Anushka said the quiet part louder than the black women normally code the same thing. Why are you mad? If more black women were vocal and did the extras, the same as Anushka, you would have more husband material men. But you build yourselves up just to get ratchet outcomes from men you refuse to hold accountable.
Agree. Love your comment ❤
Well said! 👏🏾
They are just as ratchet.
Water seeks its own level.
If the women they attract were good women, crime wouldn't be highest where singlemotherhood is highest.
Plenty of husband material men out there, but they’re willingly avoiding modern women. Its just that the losers are being chosen to reproduce with often.
Anuska is not black, though
“I don’t want a thug, like that guy at the gas station.. nobody like him.”
Anushka is allowed to have her preference. She's allowed to describe the type of person she's looking for. I think where she lost me. You don't need to denigrate someone, just to display what you are looking for. It's not a good look. Especially when they're not there to defend themselves. And the equalization between a thug. Someone who engages in criminal behavior. And equating that to someone who doesn't follow instructions very well. Doesn't make a lot of sense. If you're going to tote yourself as this highly educated person. The English language is vast. There's more than one way of saying I like a man with more composure. If you're going to stand on your word choice. Know that it could inflame the comment section. Especially because you do not have the benefit of doubt within a culture. That normally doubts your sincerity.
yes I agree I don't get y keep going back an forward with the questions everyone should have there opinion
Thank you!!! She called that man a thug because she didn’t like the way he talked, his dreads etc. The definition of a thug is not him! Nobody cares about her preference but one thing we will not accept is somebody calling somebody what they’re not especially somebody white!
@@GTL__430very sad how many of the comments don’t understand this
@@miss15Monet right! This world is scary
@@GTL__430 I see you're really triggered. Lol. Maybe it's more of you who has an issue with white or non black women dating black men. 😊 to each their own. #...2024...
I really enjoy this show! I usually watch the Friday night show on Saturday morning while I fix everyone breakfast. Thanks Kendra for the continuous entertainment❤.
Anushka exposed what we all know to be the rot in black America and everybody mad.
What's the rot in white America?...White supremacy groups, full of young thug white boys....why would use this venue?....She is not looking for anyone, she used this to degrade black men...she has had her share in the Army., I definitely believe that....90 day Fiance is a good thing for her old swollen face self.
You sound like the rot in black America.
Why is Resia whispering like she’s hiding doing this interview?
I got that vibe, too 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Resia's energy was terrible. She came across as sad. But she has great hair , dimples, and a nice smile when she finally smiled.
She needs a makeover and work om her energy levels.
Yea she seems like she has an attitude or depression or something. Dark and low energy
Zzzzzzzzz
I wish more women would rock their natural hair, It was refreshing to see Carla come on in her natural state.
Thank you. Agreed. Yet, people were roasting her in the chat. That hair texture is what most of these mens mammas heads look like under them wigs. Dont know they clowning their own daughters, sisters, and mothers mane. Straight internalized hatred. Sad. Her hair was straight dope and shows courage and dedication!
Tell that to Kendra.
Been wearing my 4c hair out (everyday for the last 12 years ) smh 🤦🏽♀️!!!
What’s you talking about sir 🫠😂😂..
I don’t care about rain and wet my hair almost daily in the shower 😬..!
I workout 4-5 days a week and natural hair is zero problem.
Lots of ladies wearing their hair !
@@tmcurlyare you referring to what Kendra said because from what she said it seems like those things would be for someone that has their hair pressed ie chemicals or flat iron ive had my hair natural all my life and still do activities and it has had no affect on my hair so I dont know what Kendra is talking about maybe shes so addicted to wigs and weaves that she just needs to say foolishness to justify and rationalize continuing wearing them who knows
Y’all go out of your way to defend thugs
UNREAL
No ones defending thugs, you must be raising one. That’s why you’re so offended
This.😅
The selective outrage is insane 😮😮
Exactly. Sadly it is a bunch of black women defending him.
But, he wasn't a thug. He married the mother of his kids. He didn't talk slang/ebonics nothing. If anything he is selfish and delusional and just wasn't her type. She was wrong saying he's a thug
Some men do compete....instead of being a team player. Being a team player is a positive.
What's an example? Bc talking about my accomplishments and similarities isn't competing.
Should I have 0 voice? I can't speak about what I've done also?
The projecting was so real. Hood culture = Black culture? Africans should be black culture. She didn’t want pookie or ray ray, she want Dwayne or Malcolm 🤦🏽♂️
Exactly! It sounds like she’s looking for an Obama type.
That part! Simple👏🏾
Brianna r love he been following her since forever she is so sweeet love her fitness and health content & she is feminine, teachable, nuturing, fit & super friendly ❤ WISHING HER THE ABSOLUTE BEST
Anushka is nice enough but has Veteran’s benefits but no bottom teeth? She is educated but she has to fix those bottom teeth! I don’t think she’s been dealing with quality black men. Some of these deal breakers that women say on here, GO WITHOUT SAYING. I am not mad at her for not wanting a thug because some women do🤷🏽♀️. She has a preference of what kind of man she wants in her life and there’s nothing wrong with that. Dreadlocks are not synonymous with thugs though. I know many intelligent, well traveled and high functioning black men with locks! 😊
Well said.
Idk why people are pointing out my teeth... I've seen way worse on here. I'm real and genuine. Do I need to explain that it was an Army injury?!?! Just bc I have veterans benefits doesn't mean they can fix everything. Everyone has internal and external flaws and everyone has a story.
--> Deal breakers: yes women/men should express even our "obviousl" deal breakers so no one is confused and it's all on the table... It's part of communicating effectively so no one is assuming.
I have dealt (with a lot) of QUALITY men of all types/ethnicities (not limited to blq men). Dreads, locs, and man buns are just not my thing. I personally know successful men who have them.
@@MrsRease2011 A professional man as you describe MAY not find it acceptable, especially if he takes you around his peers who may also be professional. I have also not seen a professional without bottom teeth. I apologize for assuming that you would have good enough benefits to address the tooth loss. it’s just an observation. I hope you find the man you deserve who will accept you how you are! ❤️
It's good Kendra G cleared the air about Not condoning other Ytubers eating off her show
Yes, I find it annoying and I hate when one is recommended. I think I got in that Algorithm because of my brother.
It's free marketing for her.
The woman with the fro is too cute and sweet. I hope she finds her right person soon! ❤❤
Very long live stream today ! LOVED IT !
A passport is easier to get than a driver's license it's not that difficult. People act like this passport thing is difficult to find. As long as you're not on the run from the law and you have $200, you fill out a form take a picture and you get your passport in a couple months relax it's not that deep.
Lmaoo exactly!!! My 2yr has one! The process is quite simple. But saying someone has to have one for you to date them is silly to me!
Yes! It's ridiculous.
Getting a passport isn't the problem, now taking a trip overseas is a different story
@@realass_me Y'all love changing stuff. It's not that difficult to take a trip overseas. None of it is hard. It's just as difficult to take a trip to California or expensive to take a trip to California as it is to take a trip to any of the Caribbean islands Mexico Canada. You go further you pay more. It's all very simple
@@TruthFLA it is when you don't have the money (thousands of dollars for a plane ticket)
I dont want any thug with dreads or lockes either so....i agree with Anushka
💯
Just thugs with low cut fades 😂😂?
Got it
@MenofValueSpeaks Don't confuse what I said. I PREFER a low cut fade but not a thug or anyone in a gang for that matter. No matter what color or ethnicity he is. Dreads,locs etc does not define one to be a thug/from the streets etc. If I met someone who checked the boxes with a different hairstyle, maybe I'd consider. BTW, your profile pic is cute... See no correlation with street/thug material. Lol
Ditto
I just don’t like the word “thug” as to describing someone, we don’t if that person is that, because it definitely describes that of black or brown men automatically‼️when thugs imo comes from other races as well. What would y’all call those people that were climbing up the walls of the building in Washington, forcing their way into it. Now that was thugs to me. Because again if we’re going off someone characteristics and actions right? I don’t care what the lady preferences is,that’s her choice, what I’m saying is if that wasn’t the man/guy for her, thug shouldn’t have been described as to what she didn’t like about him. That’s all
I totally agree with you Hector with long distance relationships
“…I’m about that wig life!”
I like how Kendra shouted out natural hair, said she’s going to wear a natural hairstyle again soon, explained how wigs fit her lifestyle and shared that her man likes them too!
Respect!
I don't like how everyone is attacking Anushka because she was just expressing what type of guy she doesn't want, that guy from the gas station was not her type simple as that geez
Yeah she just didn't like his appearance maybe his trousers were hanging down on him 🤷 talking street, personal l wouldn't talk to someone like that either. She did say thug not knowing if he was one, but how one present themselves and talk etc is important like going for an interview first impressions count! 😊
My questions is with a resume like that, sneaky link aside, with almost a half a million followers why in the world are you single? It might be you not checking dms on a weekly basis or maybe inconsistency? something going on.
@@successfulMillennialwhat I heard was “I dated them all”…ok, the streets do recognize that language…chic is a walking red flag but somehow got no push back because of her body…which can be sculpted on most women with a bit of motivation 🙄🙄🙄
@khurr yea, once she said I slept with a man, I knew for a long time 2 weeks ago those red flags were waving 😂😂
@@successfulMillennial nah she really didn't.
@@Khurr exactly
She on here for clout ain’t no way she have that much followers and can’t find no one ..
Rob seems to be a good brother i hope he can find him a good women
Yeah I recall Don. Don has universal appeal, real smooth cool down to earth brother that can articulate himself effectively and confident.
I really anticipating an update from him…..
Anushka said she didn't want any thugs.. then immediately said.. like the guy at the gas station.. nobody like him... she literally called him a thug
Would you want that guy for your daughter?
The Thug comment was not directed towards him. I used him as an example of who is not my type. I don't want a guy with that many young kids. Among other reasons why he isn't my type. Maybe he is nice. I don't know him so 🤷. He's just not for me.
@KevinHunter-jt2rd....all those slow azz ppl missed that...
She did not have to reference that young man.....Anushka has a hard on for black dudes...I know her type, I am ex military too ....
I don’t think it’s about what she said it’s about how she said it people talk about presentation but it’s also about your delivery. I think what rubbed me and others the wrong way is she seems to specifically associate Locs or natural styles with thugs.. or looking unprofessional . Who generally wants a thug street guy?? But to each it’s own.. this is why the crown act had to be assembled and still fighting.
The lady with the natural fro looked beautiful !
I wish I was here live because I would have paid to defend Anushka. I can’t fucking believe she’s being attacked like this. She doesn’t want a fucking thug and SHE personally doesn’t like dreads and twists. Why in the hell is even KENDRA not making it clear what this lady meant as if SHE doesn’t have the comprehension either. Come on now! She said the guy at the gas station is an example of what she doesn’t want!! The way yall defend thugs is CRAZY. Sometimes the red pill dudes don’t be totally lying on yall. -Princella
Oh ok Kendra made softened the air a bit. I was about to say what is bloody happening??
she has a preference and should not be made to feel bad about….Im not into dreads, twist, hair longer than mine, man buns, etc. 💅🏽
Cause. Kendra be acting like a pick me sometimes. That lady said nothing wrong and anyone with connected brain cells could understand what she was saying.
Damn Rob who will you be leaving all that social security money too, no kids wow‼️
Yes Ms LaTasha…from DC and 50 ♋️ 🙋🏽♀️ 👏🏽💃🏽♥️ Luv it @ manifestation 💃🏽
A 50 old year old who had her body done good for her
right
The man shortage must be really bad . Don was cool but yah acting like he was the best thing after Christ he looks and acts like a lot of BM that I see on a daily basis… I know if yah seen him on the street yah wouldn’t even look at him twice
There's good men like Don out here, they're just short and make $50k or less.
@@realass_me You mean average height, not short.
@@Roccofan 5'7 or shorter
I truly agree
Agreed!!
I dont think anyone should compare guests...even when black people do it. It comes off as condescending.
It needs to be that way. Judgement is important because it builds better community. Stop accepting fckery and thinking it’s just “them”. “They” have kids and raise them into the lackluster men and women people have to choose from these days. You can’t let people pee in the pool and think it will just stay over there. You get it too.
21:13 She has real standards, and now y'all are mad. Pathetic. Nothing wrong with what she said. My daughter has gotten the same instructions.
She ain’t got no bottom teeth😂 she needs to get dental work done before judging someone.
Exactly
I feel like everyone have there opinion
31:00 Kendra missed this but … Anushka, thank you for your service ….
"Tonight's show was absolutely fantastic!"
Resia connection was terrible, all that crackling sounded like my stomach when I ate that hold pot of collard greens.
😩🤣🤣
@@havefaithhavefaith5847 🤣🤣 I was messed up 🚽🧻
🤣🤣🤣
It was an old phone that was fully charged my new phone was on the charger. 🤷🏾♀️My b
So if it was a black women that said she don’t want a thug it would be okay ?
Yes. Saying you dont want a thug is OK. Thugs are violent criminals.
To say ANYONE is a violent criminal without knowing them is asinine.
Kendra so pretty
Thank you❤
@@KendraGMediaOooooooh Chile 😅
Yes she is!
@KendraGMedia People are very hateful on the comments. The topic was my preference. I said I don't want a thug, then transitioned to what type I'm not looking for pertaining to gas station guy. He was ok just not for me and I'm not referring to him as a thug. It's 2024 so bw shouldn't care if ww date a blaq MN. Who cares. We all bleed red. Everyone should have standards. Gas station guy is actually cool and we're all nervous when we're on live. Things can always be misconstrued.
Blq ppl shouldn't relate to thugs as just blq ppl. Wtf. Lol. Let's move on from the thug reference, y'all!! LMFAO. If I was a mixed (w/blq) race, I don't think it would've been blown out of proportion like that. These people with negative comments sound like they're hateful and unhappy with themselves. Get over it.
Renee is so down to earth a personality everyone would love 😂❤❤❤
The person that sent Kendra the question seriously equated dreads and poor command of the english language with "black culure".
Right and people acting like it’s nothing.
Yes I caught that too
That was not what I said. And not what I was referring to.
@@MissSweetie76 I wasn’t referring to you, I was talking about the person that sent the question to Kendra.
Just because you're small or skinny doesn't mean your "in shape" Kendraaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
I was not expecting Latasha to have that under her house coat. I am shocked I was not expecting that. That being said she's tripping with her money requirement. Absolutely crazy
Kendra you absolutely right about some of the men being to picky. Some of them are just unhappy and looking for someone to be humble women.
Kendra black women don't want ninjas either.. I don't know why they are pushing it
A lot of them do though.
If He looks like a thug then He looks like a thug.
How does a thug look like 😂
@@ThatbulBlack according to these ignorant fools. I wonder what a Heaux looks like? Black too? I wonder what a breeding animal looks like? Black too?
Man we love perpetuating stereotypes lol.
But he did not.
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr I didn't say he looked like a thug. Lol. Your other comments are rude too. Maybe you are the problem and or don't like ww dating bm. Calm down it will be ok.
@@MissSweetie76you are delusional 😂 no one cares you date black men you are not the first WW on this show ppl think your tone deaf and prejudice with messed up teeth. You are also combative, good luck and I hope you get the man you deserve.
Someone said about Luke: “…like talking to Beavis and Buthead.!”
Anuska used the word “thug” and said she doesn’t want someone who can’t communicate or someone with a street mentality!
She’s conservative!
Luke is the opposite of what she wants!
Its kinda of wack that everytime someone mention handsome they act like its synomous with being tall. Shorter men are hansome as well. This us getting out of control. Coming from a family of tall men and having a tall husband ,i still never discredited or discriminated against a man who wasnt over 6 feet. Preference is one thing but some of this shit just gets silly
Shorter men are cute.
Some short me are handsome, some tall me are handsome, some short men are ugly, some tall men are ugly some whether short or tall are neither handsome nor ugly. I’ve yet to see a short or tall face 😂
Briana came on here for clout.. she has half a million followers and can’t find someone to date??? Nah she on here for more followers
My roommate said she doesn’t look the same on her instagram
@@Brii98 she don’t .. she looks the total opposite
@@Tisha-oi5yn I just saw some photos! Definitely looked different on the show
@@Brii98 damn how them filters work like that ???
If you freeze the video at the 1:01:27 mark you can hear Kendra thinking “🥷 you serious” as a response to Resia saying she doesn’t mind chubby men just not gross negligence. She’s like lady apparently you’ve never looked in a mirror.
I almost posted about that but stopped myself but yes, I was scratching my head at that
@humptyMcFly at least Resia has realistic standards and expectations. I thought she was really nice. She should smile more. She was probably nervous being live like most people are. @resiacov
Renee seem like she a cool ass friend
Right! Fun time
Yes!!! I loved her. Would love to hang out with her. 😂😂😂
Hector sweetie its not giving and thats why your dms looked the way it did; the delusion is getting outta hand. Anushka called in to a predominantly black dating show being racially biased but doesnt understand the backlash; chile please.
If I was racially biased I wouldn't be watching the show at all. Y'all are a trip. Maybe it's "Y'all " that have an issue with non black women dating black men.
@@MissSweetie76ok now you're out of line 😂. You have a lot of nerve looking the way you do speaking on black women. Fall back beckie
How is not wanting a pookie racially biased? The type of men she described is the type every woman should be avoiding.
@@MissSweetie76 girl idgaf who black men date lmaooo. You bothered by my comment oh well. The orginal statement that was made contradicted everything that was said now what.
Carla is so glorious her hair is gorgeous she gives me indie vibes & so pure hearted 🌸💗
So basically, she's saying she don't want Lil Wayne..
Some of these ppl really don’t put a lot of effort into their interviews
LADIES ANSWER THIS: DO YOU WANT TO FEEL PROTECTED, OR BE PROTECTED? IF IT'S THE FIRST ONE NVERMIND KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING. IF IT'S THE SECOND UNLEARN EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU KNOW ABOUT WHAT MAKES A MAN. HEIGHT DOESN'T MAKE YOU SAFE ONLY FEEL SAFE.
Anushka looks like Gloria Estefan aka the G.O.A.T
They used to call me Gloria Estefan in High School. Lol. Thanks for the compliment ☺️
Well hell if she don’t like his hair, she will definitely not like his mother’s or father’s hair. Chiile stop inviting everybody to the cookout
That cackling noise drove me nuts...it sounds like the Feds were tapping her phone!
Gross negligence…when you’ve been grossly negligent is crazy
Anushka you ain’t getting Don 😂.
😂😂😂😂😂 I said the same thing, I can’t even see them together
You would be surprised that she is EXACTLY what Don would pick. Don’t underestimate a Black Man with a non black woman.
@@sacoope1exactly I see it to much working in a rich neighborhood
The first chick after hector is mere CAP! Just say you trynna find you a shaker n mover so you can have reason to travel on his dime.
The 'cousins' was triggered when Anushka said that she doesn't want any thugs, and she did say 'like the guy' in the last video but she was always using him as a general example of the kind of man that she's not attracted to. i watch this show all of the time and I see 'the cousins' in the comment section mocking, clawing and making fun of people for all kinds of reasons but as soon as someone of a different hue says that they don't like a preference, these same people want to pretend to be sensitive about judging and politics. If yawl going to be that way, be that way with everyone, not just people that you like or find most relatable cause we know that a lot of black folk love them thugs or thug types, gay men included and I can say this because I am black and from the hoodest of hoods.
Had a child off a meet and greet, built like Andre The Giant And sound like him, talking about you wanna be in her soft girl era. Renee get outta here.
Lol @ Built like Andre the Giant 😂😂😂😂
@@alm1992 😂😂🤣😂 I’m saying tho
She make Andre look feminine
Resia energy was off putting.
Boring and disconnected
I thought dcbornrob was a passport bro? Dude over here simpin talking about he read Auston his rights. 🤦🏾♂️
How can she be so picky with her front bottom row of teeth missing???
Lol Kendra, you're still saying her name wrong 😂 it's not an 'A' it's a 'U' lol😂 AnUshka😂
In my opinion: Anyone that references that they have black friends as a defense has a lot of unlearning tod when it comes to different races and ethnicity. The reactions she got was warranted
She said that she didnt want a thug like and referred to the man at the gas station.
I swear some people act like Kendra a genie magic lamp with their request. 🙄 Some can be so unrealistic for what they’re asking for.
Kendra is really pretty and so happy she’s in a relationship and loving it 😍
Some of these broke men is haters
Carla has natural beauty and came across well.
Luv Renee’s Energy ❤
Don would NOT date Anushka 🙄🙄🙄
Actually he probably would. 😊
Right she is delusional as hell
@@MissSweetie76 Thanks.... you are probably right... I should have said seriously date to marry....
HECTORRRRR you know damn well you pressed on purpose 😑
Yesssssss, i love that debt to income ratio statement.
And she didn't say anything special because lots of women get on here and say that.
She wants a conservative person. I do also.
Yep. It’s called having real standards.
There are plenty of places for Anushka to go to, besides Kendra's show.
Resia...lose weight..
Planet fitness...10 dollars a month..
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@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr What’s wrong with her being here? Anushka said that she mainly dates black men so this would be a good spot for her. Kendra saying this is a mostly black space was shortsighted on her part. That app money shouldn’t have a color. If it does, she’s wasting a ton of money.
2:01:25 She is a great example of why it is important for women to get with a producer when the woman is in her early 20s. You can’t be in your 30s looking for an established, high earning man. Smarter women than you saw the those characteristics in that man when he was 22-25 and became the wife he needed on his path to success. Those traits don’t just pop in when the man is 35, they are there when he’s 15.
I agree and I'm 29. However, I tried doing that with my ex and he literally left me and is now dating a white woman once he got successful after I was with him at the bottom. SO it's not always our fault. Some of us did try to work with a man but it didn't work out in the end and now we have to start all over at an older age. It is what it is.
@@perdybirdie I’m sorry that happened to you. I wish you all the best.