Busted My Wife Cheating So I Ended Her Affair Partner's Marriage...
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Jen is a real one - following her SIL around, spying and gathering evidence. Everyone needs a Jen.
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The satisfaction of knowing she went out of her way to basically stalk them to find out everything made me so unbelievably happy
I was just about to comment this. She's a real one.
everyone needs a Jen in their lives!!!
Dude was about to write this 😂
Dude I was at the part when op said she helped spy and was even smart enough to get evidence and I was holy shit mvp
Jen and the neighbor are true MVPs.
The father-in-law sounded like a real one too
Soooo did the STBXW not realize something was off when OP never came home on D-Day?
girl night is just a code for new stick night
Blud 60 ounces is crazy bro is going for 3 3/4 pints if you can down that I’ll deadass give you $50
it is wild that this dude had the balls to park a full truck outside a house they’re cheating in
I know! And he wasn’t even subtle about it!
he did that because he thought he was not in town.
Ikr!? I mean half or quarter truck is one thing but a full truck?? Geez!
@@BlueberriperriwinkleI appreciate your nitpicking 😂
He thought She was single!
When your partner takes the Xbox or any console it over
Yeah haha. If I left the house, I'd take my laptops (equivalent to a console), some documents, some clothes and my cat.
@@shadmansudipto7287not the cat😭💀🤌✨
@@shadmansudipto7287 Taking the cat too is certainly the final nail in the coffin on that one, lol.
It's almost always the father in-law who seems to understands the most, and probably the only person who genuinely feels as bad as the cheated spouse. Because their child betrayed their trust as much as the child betrayed their spouse's.
The mother in-law seems to be the one who fights the hardest a lot of the time too, for the marriage to stay together. With excuses no one else could even imagine. Then you know where the child gets it from...
Not always
@@urg54 Anyone who defends a cheater is just as bad as a cheater. The father in-law knows that there is no saving the marriage because if it happened to him he would do the same, whereas the mother-in-law doesn't think it's a big deal. Where do you think the daughter got it from in the first place? Even if the MiL isn't a cheat herself she's at least indifferent to the act which is nearly as bad.
@@urg54his literal first sentence is "It's almost always"
It’s literally the difference between men and women, like it or not. Men have been taught accountability their whole lives. Women have been taught there is no consequences for their actions. And this is the result.
@@urg54Reading comprehension is important
That trickle truth would be so infuriating. "He kissed me and I ran away" is yet another lie, just a proof that the "You can trust me from now on, I'll do whatever you ask" has as much value as your finest outhouse wall paper.
yeah, her answer to what would fix it for you was "knowing the truth and being able to trust you" RIGHT AFTER SHE TRICKLE TRUTHED HIM FOR HOURS !!!
About as strong as wet single ply toilet paper, that statement…
So a lot in a pinch
@@sparrowflyaway That toilet paper has at least some uses
The trickle truth was infuriating to listen to because he didn't simply walk away in the first place.
You would have to be one pathetic door stop of a man to have over looked so many suspect circumstances prior to knowing that she is cheating - and then STILL be wanting to hear her out.
Just pathetic.
My dad always told me right before I’d get in trouble, “You weren’t crying when you was doing something bad right so why you crying now that you’re getting punished for it” As a full grown man I never realized how heavy his saying was until I got older
That's actually very deep.
your father was a wise man, and a real one as well, sounds like a great person
When you're an adult you actually realize what they mean
Your dad is a wise man, my dude. Cherish him while he’s still here. I lost mine in 2015 and I miss his wisdom.
The more I watch these Reddit stories the more I feel like “cheating” is more common than we think l. Wether female or male
Idk imo I think in 2023 (really since 2011) women cheat more than men it's just
1.they get caught less
2. Men (possibly due to embarrassment & lack of support) are less likely to expose the cheating woman
Sampling bias. Not many people with healthy, honest, or simply average relationship would post on such subreddit to begin with.
The other comment is correct, since we only read about disaster rather than a mundane story of daily lives. Also you can see signs of cheating with emotional distance and unhappiness on other partners part
I've read a few studies on this and it seems that up to or around 30% of people cheat. I personally would that consider quite high. Also, the more s3xual partners people have had the higher the chance of them cheating in a relationship.
@LordHerek true but even the shy faithful girl can cheat and the ugly guy when he gets options.
If anyone tells you to be honest it usually means they already know everything so to keep lying is actually psychotic
to keep lying and EXPECT THEM TO BELIEVE THE LIES. what’s even crazier is to think, “they haven’t been even the slightest bit suspicious while i’ve been cheating then all of a sudden very suspicious” and they don’t take that as the first sign that they’ve already been caught. it’s delusional in fact
I mean I could tell them I just have a gut feeling
I've been in this situation. To admit you watch a lot of RUclips and don't study much is very hard.
@@rudysanders7294it's survival. They aren't gonna fess up if they don't have to. Common sense
@@rudysanders7294what's worse is to keep piling lie after lie and then after finally telling the truth, trying to say "you can trust me."
There was a final update to the story. So apparently he been getting calls from the soon to be ex, her friends, n her family, all of her begging to give her another chance.
The sister in law organized a family gathering and op dropped the bombshell on what happened. Then his soon to be ex shown up with her gfs all trying to get her to get in. The brother tried stopping them but she go through and her and op talked.
She had a list of everything she was willing to do for him, same list before and even stated to quit their jobs and live overseas and start up a bar they always wanted.
She also stated the ap wife is leaving him and he threatened to end his life because of her, she told him to do it as she doesnt care.
Op walked her to her car and told they can only talk on the phone. The talks ended the way u expected. Her begging, him telling/yelling at her etc.
He has gotten better after talking with the counselor and doing well mentally and emotionally.
Thats all, doesnt sound like he taking her back so good news.
whats the reddit post/user? I cant find it by searching the title of the video.
@@enen1220 it wouldn't surprise me that this was a made-up story, or a story generated by AI, all for content
@@enen1220 I tried looking it up. If I'm correct (I'm usually wrong), the user and the post are deleted. The user was Lazy_Recommendation
Whats the user's name I gotta read the update
I think there is more , op ended up having relationship with sharon. I think i ever read this on full story ..
People like this always end up being really pathetic when they are found out. They say the most desperate and childish stuff “I cheated, so you can cheat on me if you stay with me” or “I wish I was dead for what I have done” like, the only reason they are saying this now is because they were caught. Like sure you feel terrible, but what do you think your partner is going through, also stop letting your friends influence your decisions on your relationship!
i think this is a sub class of cheaters. You know, every sexual partner you come across, adds to the probability your long term relationships will go up in flames. It has to do with that honey moon period everyone goes through when a relationship is new and hormones are flying. they get addicted to that feeling. Some just end up burning up every relationship they come across when they get bored. others stay with it long enough to form feelings with someone and take the cheating route to get their fix. Did she love OP, probably but not enough to stay faithful, thought she was too clever, a cake eater . Could have it all with a little cleverness.
The thing is the cheaters even if they do love their partners, they don't respect them.@@markdsm-5157
Shouldn’t be going to the club when married to begin with ! If you want a girls night you can do that at home with food bottle of wine and Netflix 😅😂 also hanging with married friends who cheat regularly or non married friend who hook up regularly does tend to influence a married person (and more often than not it’s the woman that gets influenced the most by their cheating friends)
@@togucvinw7 unfortunately, feminism mixed with ignorance mixed with needing an excuse. "I have the right to do whatever i want!". Yeah and he has a right not to be in a relationship with you.
@@markdsm-5157The worst part is, feminism was supposed to be used against the ignorant...
_"I also thought she was very inflexible for someone who did yoga"_ 😂😂😂😂
I love that she said how she could be trusted now she told him the truth even though it took him pushing her and leaving multiple times before she broke to tell him. If he didn’t leave she wouldn’t have said anything else
whenever people break my trust in a serious way iv always followed the same path each time you give them a chance to be honest and if they don't you just amputate the parasite from yourself then and there this guy displays a lot more patience then i am capable of especially when his betrayal is worse then the ones iv suffered.
The brother, neighbor, and sister in law are goated.
And father in law, don't forget him
His (soon to be) father-in-law is someone he should keep in his life, no matter what ends up happening.
That's all. That's all I've got 😕
I hate when people try to use "i dont deserve to live" whem they get caught doing something bad. Whether you do or dont, i dont care. Suck it up and live with your mistake.
That's what pisses me off alot. They say that but in the end they DO live and live with the ap like nothing happened.
@zerofate9669 it's why I think when these people commit suicide they are just weak cowards who can't handle their consequences. If I could revive the dead I would revive them to live in hell.
Typical manipulation tactic. It starts off as guilt-tripping then ends up as threatening self-deletus. Either way, most of the time they're too p* ssy to even follow through with it, they just say that sh* t as a last ditch effort.
she didnt think she didnt deserve to live when the AP was hammering her doggy style in her husbands bed
my usual reply to that is, "do what you think is right"
OMG, he had to seriously drag the truth from her 🙄She was a professional liar! Thank god they didn't have children together.
"if you were in my shoes, what would fix it for you ?"
"knowing the truth, being able to trust you to mean what you're saying"
she said after
/check my notes/
trying to trickle truth him for hours !
well well well, how ironic ...
I like that he took the Xbox when he left
The man has his priorities straight
She don't need it cuz she playing games without it.
This is why DNA test should be mandatory when a kid is born, they lie so blatantly.
Not sure why your talking about mandatory DNA tests when they don’t even have kids. That’s not even remotely close to how OP found out they were cheating. GOOFBALL
Don’t drag all women into this man child. -l-
@@LuckyThapa-i1bit is 90% of the time lmao
@@LuckyThapa-i1bwhy are you against DNA testing children?
Brother, This story has nothing to do with paternity fraud 😐
Holy Shit, Chad dad giving him that text message.
Im so happy OP has a good bro and that Jen person too ❤️ the mental health break with the bro was needed and bittersweet, since it’s the calm before the storm
Jen is a G
It was her moment to be a detective LMAO
I dont know why people are so soft on cheaters. When she asks what she should do just tell her to lay down on the nearest train tracks, then ypu leave and never look back
Bc they are women crying.
We humans are molded to pity & empatize on them regardless what they did. If you found your close ones in a similar situation, you might get an understanding why others seems to side with them despite what the cheater did even if you don't empathize with the cheater yourself.
I am ashamed to admit that I gave empathy on a lady crying cheater until I slap myself on the cheeks after hours of processing of what just happened. Sadly some people can't slap themselves to realize that.
@@BrokenSIMGlassesjust fyi the guy op's wife cheated with pulled the exact same thing on his wife.
I have often had trouble understanding domestic violence. How could a man hit a woman if he loves her?
Well this channel has given me the answer.
BULL BURR spoke on that.. like a man whoopping a womans ass just felt of of the sky with no possible reason for it... you seeing your wife getting her guts smashed in your bed is PLENTY reason to black out and go crazy
Being blinded by love is the worst thing that can happen because what happens after hurts even more
I learned this the hard way 😓💔
yeah never gonna be caught lacking with my 5 cameras 📸 inside the house 😈
All of these cheating hoes pull the “I’m going to end myself” manipulation tactic. Don’t fall for it. Say “I’m leaving, but I will call the police and tell them that you’re having self terminating thoughts so that they can assist you. Leave. Do that. Also call their parents and say that as well. Let the cheaters family deal with their self pity spiral. Don’t be manipulated by the “you can’t leave me or I’ll diiiiiiiieee” ploy. My aunt did this to her husband when she cheated on him, she was so contrite etc and then totally CHEATED ON HIM AGAIN multiple times. A tiger does NOT change their stripes. Cheaters do not change that messed up selfish part of themselves because they simply cannot. They are born this way and will expire this way. They are who they are inside.
Lol "all these cheating h* es" when the guy she cheated with did the exact same thing with the self-deletus threats to his wife.
Unless you meant that he was also a cheating h* e cuz he obviously is, then disregard this comment.
I wish i can read this before, i'm too soft on my ex
If your wife feels the need to go to the club with her girlfriends. Then she ain’t the one.
Remember, if you ever catch a cheater, automatically record.
What the fuck?? Why is your WIFE going to a club like she’s single?? I don’t know why she is going to the club like she is not married. Does any one else feel this way?
George Carlin once said something like: "what do all the people at a singles' bar have in common? None of them are actually single."
"I can fix this"
Unless she got a time machine and can stop her past self being a complete tool, then no, no she can't.
She saw that Xbox gone and panicked. The sister in law Jen is a rider, wen’t lurking with no prompt
When she said she doesn't deserve to live, I don't think she realized how right she was.
The actual audacity of her continuing to trickle truth him while claiming he can trust her. That trust is already long gone, woman, how did your mind not immediately go “oh god, does he know about the affair?” as soon as he asked you to be honest the first time? If I were in her shoes(unlikely, ‘cause I can’t envision any instance whatsoever to cheat on my partner, but speaking hypothetically), the whole truth would have spewed out my mouth in a torrent of guilty conscience.
Yeah, well, people who have a conscience tend to not willingly hurt the people who love them. That's why you can't imagine yourself doing it, or being able to lie.
>insinuating that cheaters even have a conscience
If Jen ever needs another career pospect, she would make a good PI!
His wife is trash! How can you bring other man in your husband house and in his bed! That’s the worst kind of disrespect ever! She lied repeatedly and would not come clean even though he told her repeatedly that he will leave if she didn’t! These cheater always beg for counseling after they cheat but not before to stop them from cheating. The moment when that thought came up in her head she should have stopped it and go home and tell her husband that they needed counseling!
The cheating dude was, Soo not gonna tell his wife anything. He did good to make his STBXW tell, her affair partner's wife.
It’s always funny when people think that their relationships are super special when in fact they’re just ordinary… maybe my mindset is unhealthy or something but hell if it isn’t right. Dude has a clubbing wife and somehow is surprised to find out that she’s a wild gal? That’s just crazy to me…😂
I hope you heal. I hope you find someone worthy to be your wife . 😢
“You just ruined 4 lives and 2 marriages you piece of shit” is like the most awesome quote you could ever tell a person in one of these stories
Better to just come clean and contact the spouse than to turn on OP and belittle him to back down.
The fact that OP can't even teust ex wife that she's going ro get groceries meant that it's over. He would never believe her again. My SIL cheated with my brother and he never took her back. He said, "what you have done is forgivable but not forgetable."
Why is it when married people want to start a clean state once they're caught
SIMP SIMP SIMP.
FirT red flag would have been letting your wife go out to the club even tho y’all are maried 😅 there’s a bunch of stuff you ain’t supposed to do no more when you married , it’s not about not having fun anymore but it’s about dodging the temptation of cheating
OP, take time to heal for your sake. Marriage is considered over once one partner gets involved with another.
It sucks that this happened. I’m glad everyone helped him pull through.
Can you link the posts in your descriptions?
"ypu can trust me" lies after lies after lies Mmmmm much trust
I can't tell if I'm just an extremely untrusting person (probably) or if people are normally this naive.
People who know you would know what you'd believe. They'd know how to fool you and exactly what to say.
he said he does well under pressure but is playing a game with her by asking are you sure your telling me the truth just fucking tell her your a cheater!
From another story: cheaters can always keep away from having sex once they've been divorced and without commitment but not during
Instead of asking her questions you know she's going lie, just speak to a lawyer and blindside her. When you saw them in action. Take a picture for solid evidence.
Father in law is the real thing
Usually these feel fake as fuck but this one was 100% true just had a real vibe to it.
She knew bro left when the Xbox was gone 💀
Don't get into relationships guys. Remember these are only the people who found out and they're in the minority. Most cheaters never get caught.
This guy handled it like a champ
I keep reading trickle truth as tickle truth and it makes me angry 😠
Bruh that wife dug her grave crumb by crumb. To the streets.
Clarity, right so you would get that from going to talk to the person that wronged you. I see, well then first if you want clarity you need to first get your ducks in a row before you ever have a conversation with anyone that would so easily betray you. That means protecting yourself in every way and making sure you have evidence and your lawyer stuff handled if you're married. Never trust anyone especially someone who will so easily put your health at risk.
Clarity for why the person did what they did can come later. Rather have clarity in my walk forward. The only clarity that a betrayer can offer is more confusion. Lairs continue the lies even after caught.
trust is the currency of love. when it runs out, it's done.
if a person tells you to "i'll give you another chance, don't lie to me" you do what the person tells because that person possibly already knew everything and is the most cases i've heard.
Been there done that. The excuses are insane and the way they ask for forgiveness and make excuses and come up with more lies. It's so funny because as soon as you hear one lie and catch them you catch them at every other lie because you have so many other sources of information to debunk their bs.
Number 1 golden rule : NEVER GET MARRIED!
Number 2 golden rule : NEVER TRUST A WOMENS WORDS, HER ACTIONS SPEAK MORE TRUTHFUL!
Number 3: the guy she was cheating with also cheated on his wife and lied to her too. It works both ways, you know.
Isn't relaxing and destressing what yoga is for?
Why do guys walk away when they wittness fragrant delecti? Ok, even if confronting at that time is counter productive and looks bad. It feels so good.
A “mistake” AP said? This has been going on for a MONTH, this is not a simple mistake, this was intentional
When the cheating wife said "you should just kill me now, I don't deserve to live"
My petty and angry ass would say "then do it" and leave
Never give an cheater an chance! And if your spouse going partying without you, she or he isnt yours. He or she is ours!😊
This guy is kind of weird like you already know she cheated why would you keep going back and forth with her
will there ever be a happy ending and will the marriage ever stay together and the wife actually change?i hope so
"inflexible for someone who went to yoga" 😂😂😂 man that's actually a great burn
It’s real men like her father, who understand.
10:42 Not the Xbox
That 'Sharon' couple-therapist gave useless advice.
"only the wife can give him clarity" !?
What in the actual F*** kind of thing is that to say?
TBF that's his interpretation of what she said. Sharon might hear this and say "F*ck no I didn't say that!" 😂
Bro took the Xbox that’s when you know it’s serious
This is the only story that makes me want to smash my keyboard and I hate the feeling tbh, I hope that lad is alright
Weird thqt most of these cheating stories is from the husband
Statistically women cheat more with both emotional and physical
While before it may have been different, but these days, guys who cheat don't usually marry. Being married requires responsibility on the guy's part. And you don't cheat if your not responsible.
Also girls don't ignore the signs like us guys do, so they don't end up in a 20 year marriage with a child.
IMO men cant talk to their friends about relationships like most women do. So they try to get emotional support and advice from random strangers on the internet. I do try to cover both sides but i can only find cheating stories from the husband/men side.
Statistically women cheat more😅
Women are responsible for 80% of divorces and are more likely to cheat than the majority of men. The exception being the top 1% of men who have all the options available to them; that is the biggest demographic of cheaters (generally speaking). You can thank 3rd wave feminism's "sexual liberation" movement.
She's not sorry,she only rocked back and forth like a crazy person to put on a show. These psychopaths are remorseless.
That neighborhood is a fucking giga chad
damn that almost sounded real until the text from the dad
Ex FIL is a good man
The first guy reminds me of mike
Who the hell makes these insanely long parkour courses?
That guy has a very sensible brother.
Edit: both Matt (brother) and Jen (sister in law) are good people and good friends.
Based guy took the Xbox too
Jen is such an og...
AI generated story
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Jen is the real mvp
The op did some mistakes, but hey in a very tough time he was still able to react decently and that's clearly not an easy thing to do.
The bro got a keeper tho, Jen seems like the real deal.
NEVER TRUST 304 WHO GOES OUT FOR GIRLS NIGHT OUT.
Its amazing to see how while cheating, the husband/wife is insufferable for the cheater, they treat them like shit, take the for granted and remain cold and distant, but once they get caught with unoiled sticks of consequences and Karma up their ass, they become super submissive, super lovely dovey, super cooperative, willing to bend the laws of physics in bed for the partner.
xbox is the only thing u need
Absolutely love the creativity and effort that went into making this video! The visuals and storytelling are top-notch. Keep up the fantastic work! 🎥👏
Absolutely love the creativity and effort that went into making this video! The visuals and storytelling are top-notch. Keep up the fantastic work! 🎥👏