Mia left her children with her sister, Emma, and decided she wasn't coming back for them. Mia said she decided she no longer wanted the kids...and she does not want to pay child support.
I would take my niece's children and in a heartbeat if anything happened to her. And raise them as my own. I honestly don't know how people can just drop their kids off and not look back. Or if they are even needing just a little help with their children for family members not to step up and be willing to help out in all I have no clue how people do it. My own family is messed up I'm adopted and my Adoptive family is not helpful of whatsoever. The only one in my adoptive family that is helpful and has been there in times that I have needed them is my niece and that's it. We are more like sisters than we are anything else.
DO NOT force visitation or for her to ever take them back. She's literally telling the world she doesn't want them. Believe her or those kids will end up hurt or dead.
Yeah, I can agree to forced therapy to find the root cause of why she suddenly didn't want her children anymore sense a lot of the time it's mental/hormonal.
My mom did the same thing to me . I ended up in foster care from place to place. The amount of rage I feel for this woman can't be described unless you have been through it.
So sorry to hear this, this should never happen to a child. I wish I had the financial needs to adopt kids. I can barely take care of myself sometimes.
@@shannondriver1272 I don't believe in God nor will I ever however I will never condemn a believer. But it's just not for me. My revenge was kindness and the outcome was a 2nd chance. I gave her a granddaughter to try again.
The really flat affect throughout made me wonder if there's something significantly wrong neurologically. Then the psychopath smile at the end gave me chills. The kids should not be put back in her care, ever.
I completely agree I've seen it 1st hand. Listen to people when they say they don't want the kids the mean that. As a parent I promise you it will be days you can't stand your children but I promise your love will always out way whatever other human emotions you may have. Because a loving parent 1st 2nd 3rd and 4th thought is always their kids then everyone else.
I totally agree because there are a lot of people who have children and they murder their kids because they don't want children! Or are they abuse their children physically and emotionally.. and that would tear her sister to pieces is she gives those kids back to this empty woman and then she does something to those children. But the judge should make her pay child support for those children I don't care what her situation is if you don't want the kids and the kids are with the aunt then you should be giving her money to support your children and social the fathers
It is.I wanted children but couldn't do to a health issue, and to have the Blessing of having them ,I just can't understand. These children will Google this and how is this going to make them feel.
I’m just seeing this for the first time. I’m with you, this is just sad. I hope her children never watch this program and hear their “mother” say, I don’t want my kids. What a horrible thing for anybody to hear. She’s absolutely pathetic!
@@zumitomoe yup, it's in the description for some of the vids and a lot of these actors like the lady on the left have been in other videos as a different character. She also mentions it in the full videos, these are only clips from the show. Vonda only just recently got elected as a judge, this show was considered community education and helped her get her name out there and advertise her private practice as a family lawyer.
Those kids are in danger with a mother like that. “I don’t want them” is a big 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩And that creepy smile at the end says she is a box of fries short on a happy meal.
She has SUPER flat affect. She's either ON something, or she NEEDS to be on something. Notice the Aunt is in NO way asking to give them back? She KNOWS the mother is unstable. They can actually officially "place" them with the Aunt through the court system, and that way, the State will help them. They will get things like an assistance check, food stamps, free lunches, and so on, to help that Auntie out, and she 100% deserves it for taking those sweet babies on. She's a definite hero in this story. If she hadn't stepped up, those kids would go into foster care. I hope things work out for that family, and that mother get some help. Something is definitely not right with her.
The state doesn’t have to place them in the home for her to get assistance. As long as they are living with her and she is providing for them, regardless of who put the kids with her she is eligible for assistance as long as falls within the income guidelines.
@@shannonangel3980 I was thinking that exact same thing just the way that she is smiling as the judge is talking to her about her kids she is showing no care in the world she has not once asked sister how are the babies if they needed anything I cannot imagine bring a child into this world just to give them away especially when her kids going to remember that they’re her sisters now
She doesn't look normal. I think she is on drugs or something else... How can someone not want to have kids of their own 😢😢😢. When there are people who are trying so hard to have kids by going through ivf and other stuff.
@@TeenieYoso-o8h I'm one of the rare people who doesn't want kids at all. And i made sure i can't, not the natural/biological way. I don't plan to get married either. Telling this to potential partners made them decide not to be with me and i was ok with that. Not having to care about kids or a spouse made my lfie less stressing and honestly my pets are enough for me, never really been a people's person. I had people showing me their kids but the parental instincts/feelings never activated. For the court case it's better they stay with the aunt. If someone doesn't want kids, or not anymore, don't force them, the kids could end up really bad, or even dead. I saw cases of parents ending the lives of their kids because they ended up having them and hating them (for being born and/or other reasons). Some were pressured to have them, because on the views on abortion. Prevention is best, but not everyone thinks of using it.
@@TeenieYoso-o8h I agree having kids and not wanting them is super sad, and saying it so heartlessly makes me think that the person needs help. But it’s still very normal to not want or have them at all. :]
@@phoenixxmatrixx3769 as a woman who have been trying to get a baby but can't get even after going through all sorts of medical procedure it hurts to see people getting kids and don't want them 😢😢😢
That woman is creepy; there is something seriously wrong with her, and the children should never go back to someone that dead emotionally. If I were the sister and I loved the children - as she obviously does - I would sue to have them permanently in her custody for their protection. Anyone who has that little regard for her responsibilities - and her children - could easily open them up to all kinds of harm and/or abuse, if not at her hands at the hands of others.
@@oliknow something is definitely wrong, you can see the judge in shock more than 7 times. I appreciate you believe this is a 'different' person, but clearly there is mental issues at work here. Good luck
It's unnerving how calm and unbothered she was by that entire case but then it was like a gut punch with how happy she looked standing up. I hope that she never has another kid because holy shit there is something seriously wrong with her.
I was reading the comments, and I was like WHY is nobody talking about this ?! I wonder is she is psychologically alright... I think the judge was wondering the same thing tbh
Oh , l have rejection --- abandon issues from my mom over 43 yr.s now .......she chose a terrible , abusive , " Christian" ( BS). Man over Mr and my sister , ..... I could see he was bad news , l begged her to ditch him ....she not care , l moved. In with my dad and fond out yr.s later other " things ". That happened .....still deal with this , the guilt and pain every day .....she never apologized , or explained it .....just acts like it never happened !!! I missed a trip to Europe with her and sister , because l was the "rebel " who moved out Bec. Of that bastard !!!
@@feliciajohns4148 right she decided after having them!! Some people really need to be thinking before having these kids… This is some shitty mom who is lucky I wasn’t the judge . I would have had a lot more questions to ask like where’s your brain and heart at?!?
I too could sense drugs. It is very sad for everyone involved and neglected. I hope she gets clean and you’re definitely right, she should not be involved, not at this time.
I agree she sounds like a nut. "I don't wanna have kids" you already have them you weirdo. I guess maternal instinct is something this lady doesn't have she doesn't care and it's tragic.
I was in total shock at this woman cause she is in a world of her own. The children are so, so lucky to have a Aunt who loves them and looks after them. Their mother needs some kinda help.
*SPOILER ALERT* The people in these videos are all actors! So the odd behaviour of the mum was dramatised meaning no need to do any armchair psychiatry.
@@lebowski3767 Evenstill, we don't know as to how far it was dramatises as sometimes that's not even needed. Some people are sick or psychotic & maybe that's hard to even act out, meaning reality might've been even worser. The fact it's based on a real case is disturbing & sad to those involved. It still means there's a family that went to something similar or maybe worse. These kinds of things is not what'd you wish for anyone to go through. People react as imagine this being reality, it's not an impossible reality & in truth it could be way worse in reality.
I am absolutely astounded how emotionless the mother was. It was only after judge confirmed when she was supposed to be graduating that you saw any life in her at all. And think the judge read pretty quickly that the kids were way better off staying with the amazing aunt. Even if she did want them I would definitely be concerned about sending them back. Her lack of emotions and care factor in general for her own children has me flawed and speechless
something else is going on. perhaps the mom was on drugs when she had the kids so she truly doesn't want them. She got pregnant when she was strung out, didn't terminate the pregnancy and now she's coping as best she can. Perhaps she was beaten by the father(s) of the kids. I worked at Social Services and once you've done that, it will FLOOR you to find out what's going on underneath the surface.
She definitely acted like something was suppressing her. My first instinct says drugs. I can't otherwise fathom her actions and emotions here. I get wanting a break or vacation from your responsibilities, even parental responsibilities, but "I just don't want them anymore"? That's unacceptable.
None of it's real. It says at the end this is all ficticious. She's not even a judge. She's an attorney and makes these videos with actors based on real cases.
@@dreadpirateroberts5239 they're based on real cases which is still very concerning, because her responses really showed how much she didn't want or care for her kids back
People give their kids up for adoption every single day and thats accepted but when you watch this reenactment everyone freaks out. Only difference is she left the kids with her sister. Not sure how one can be okay in peoples mind as the other is not when they are both the same thing just different in how the parent went about it.
My mother did the same thing to myself and my brother. The damage to this women's children will be life long and describable. No one ever gets over not being wanted by a mother/parent. The selfishness in this woman is overwhelming.
my mother sent me to live with my Grandma. The last words she said before I left was "I'll see you in two weeks." That was in 1972. The next time I talked to her was 1991. 19 years. I chewed her out and hung the phone up on her. About a week later I got a phone call from the state police where she was living. She had handcuffed herself to her steering wheel and drove off a pier into a lake. The note that was found in a water tight bag said "I never wanted you anyway" along with my contact information. She obviously was not mentally stable. Looking at this mother, I think the same thing with her.
No one put a gun to her head to bear those kids. If she goofed the first time with the father of her daughter, then she could have been careful with the father of her son. These people have no sense. And took advantage of her sister, and still have the nerve to give her a dirty look towards the end?
I agree. CLEARLY this so-called "mother" has chosen her boyfriend (which I GUARANTEE YOU is still with her) and her schooling over being a mother. She just said "I don't want to be a mother anymore" and dumped her children off at her sister's house and expected her sister to be Mom now and let her have her life with her new man. I pray these poor children never watch this video and learn how vile and selfish their "mother" is. God bless this auntie for stepping up and protecting them. They SHOULD NOT be with this "Mom" and she absolutely should be made to pay every dime of that $700 for child support.
Unfortunately, I really doubt that mother is going to pay her sister. The way the judge had to keep asking if she understood what was going on really highlighted something being off about her. She'll probably just refuse to pay saying she doesn't have it. The sister will either have to sue to have the mothers wages garnished or do without. It's sad because I'm sure the kids don't understand why this is happening to them.
I've watched so many of these episodes and this by far is the most outrageous one I've watched. The biological mum has no soul, no heart, no love. How do you disconnect to your children and the world that much. Mind blowing!!!
As disturbing as the mother’s indifference and lack of compassion is, I want to acknowledge the aunt’s selfless willingness to keep the children as they could easily become wards of The State if the aunt also decided that she didn’t want to continue caring for them. The mother clearly has mental health issues that aren’t addressed in this case, and the children would be in danger of serious neglect in her care or perhaps worse. My hats off and tremendous respect to the aunt-may she be blessed financially and granted the strength and perseverance she needs to raise her niece and nephew. And I also hope that mother gets the help she needs and is able to heal in the process. Maybe one day her relationship with her children can be reconciled. There is always hope.
I'm sensing sever depression. And people who say kids can't and won't that. Either have support and a perfect little life, or simply never had kids. It's written all over her face that something is wrong. Hell if she commits suicide, I won't be surprised, and most folks will be saying "good riddance" rather then see her side. Where the fucks the father at? He needs to pay that other half, as I would refuse to even do a job after hearing that verdict. It's true, she could have put them for adoption and can still do that I believe. But I get the feeling she was pressured into motherhood by carrying the babies to term.
@@BlackRose85789 i agree. There is a lot of disassociation. I remember being completely disconnected when i was depressed enough. I never stopped caring for my kids but everyone isn't the same. Her vibe is super wierd though. Something is definitely off.
@@DaeneiracornSo the aunt is forced to take them? The aunt has a life to, having to all of a sudden start taking care of kids is going to severely limit her life.
She dropped those kids off for a couple weeks…then she woke up and said “wow this is much nicer without those little people! I’m going to stay like this!”
The fact the sister wants financial support instead of making the mom take the kids back tell me that she know the kind of person the mother probally is. Glad the aunt have the children.
I was thinking it’s probably best for the kids because, all the stuff lI’ve seen in the news where moms kill their babies! Is prob best for them. You are right
@@melvinawright Dad's? Really now? Mom's a 304. Those dudes probably knocked her up during one of her many drug/alcohol-fueled parties she attended. "Dads" are smart to stay far from this shit. Kids aren't suffering with auntie and getting that trash 304 mother to kick in some funds. Leave it as it is. Them kids already have enough to deal with. "Dads" probably don't even know they have kids by this filthy trash. Why bother them now about it if it wasn't that important to her? It was mentioned in this channels' bio that there are actors involved. Actors or not, this show is about what actually happens and takes place in courtrooms like this all across America and scenarios like this are commonplace. You are seeing what really happens. So reaction is still based. Actor or not, the results were the same with the real people involved.
Just wanted to tell you, I'm so sorry for your loss. losing a child is the hardest thing to have to go through. I hope you will find peace, be comforted, feel love, and experience joy again in your lives!
So sorry for your loss, but if it lessens your pain any at all, at least is less triggering, the litigants are paid actors. Look at the video again aroubt the 10min 29 second mark and pause to read it. Though this does happen in real life, that not a real mom talking about her kids. I'm so sorry this triggered you. Wish you hope and healing ♥
I’m sorry for your loss. My husband and I lost our son on the 29th of January. He left behind a three year old daughter whom he worshiped. I would have given my life for my son and would do the same for his daughter.
LMAO "Are you ok?" I was wondering the same thing the whole time. She definitely seems a bit off, and I think the sister knows more than what she's telling.
Totally agree, There is something really wrong with that woman. She is almost totally devoid of emotions and the ones she does show are weird and inappropriate. The way she smiled at the end really creeped me out.
Judge, you are an awesome person 👏👏👏 I have no idea how you manage to be so patient. There is something wrong with this lady, you were right asking if she was ok. It would be better if she got a psych evaluation
This woman needs help. She does not seem too present at all. In fact the most emotionless person I have ever seen. We need to pray for these kids and their aunt.
Try not seeing or talking to you 6 year old son since he was 6 months. Thats how long my boyfriend and i have had custody of our son. I dont have bio kids of my own but damn kids need love and attention its not that hard. I have helped raise two nephews that are grown now and a son now. I did it when i was 18 i use to love to go party and everything but when my brother got custody of his sons i knew right then and there my party days were over because they need me more
My mother was a narcissist. We were to be seen and not heard. She told us to NEVER have kids, they run your life, nothing is ever about you again and life sucks. So, my brother and I never had kids.
Not everyone is meant to be a parent. When someone is obviously not in the headspace for it, pay attention. This is what makes people straight up disappear or do something even more heinous.
This younger sister became an instant mom from one day to the next. Her life completely changed from one second to the next. This young lady isn't the aunt anymore, she officially became a young mom out of nowhere. She's not only lovely & beautiful, but she's a hero. A hero doesn't always wear a cape. My aunt took me in out of nowhere back in the days, so I can relate to the children.
Yep. I've believed this for years. I'd rather regret not having them than to regret ever having them. And this is coming from someone who didn't want them for 10 years and then became open to motherhood after I met my husband.
My grandsons mom did the same thing to me. I took him in when he was 8 and raised him. She NEVER gave me anything to help support him. He is such a smart child. He graduated from high school then enlisted in the military.
I COMPLETELY understand needing a small break from small children! It is exhausting. But never in my wildest imagination would I have wanted to give away my children. Thank heavens for this sister!!!
So blessed with my mom, she is everything it’s videos like this that really make you count your blessing and realize that the small things matter. Like not living in a police state and having a mom who loves you.
Her affect is completely off and it is as if she's in a permanent comma/stupor and couldn't care less. I'm hoping they really make it big with the help of her lovely sister..what a disgrace to motherhood!😱😱
This mother’s detachment is unbelievable. And yet, it’s probably safer for the kids she isn’t in their lives. The judge’s composure in this situation is commendable. If I was sitting there in her seat, I’d make that mother pay a lot more money for support than what she’s being required to pay.
Auntie please keep the children. Mom definitely doesn’t want them and if she gets them back, there’s no telling where they’ll end up. You’re already a great MOMTIE! Blessings to you and both children.
I have 2 young kids and I can't imagine having to give them up. She doesn't look like she is feeling anything for them, it is heartbreaking. They are at least lucky to have a loving aunt who wants to care for them.
As an aunt currently caring for my teenage nephew in addition to my own two teenagers I feel this woman's plight. It really is expensive to care for a child not your own when you're not receiving help from their parent(s). I hope that birth giver (because mother is not something I'd call her) grows up and realizes what she's missing. You can't relive your children's childhoods. If you miss it, you miss it. And they'll resent you the rest of their lives for it.
@@rhiannondelarosa8675you deserve to get child support for your nephew. Please take it to court. There are lawyers that will work pro bono (aka for free).
She can’t give any money for her children because she needs it for her schooling. What’s bizarre about that is her saying that in court as if that’s a legitimate reason for not supporting her children. Something’s not right there and the children wouldn’t be safe with her. Bless their aunt for being willing to take them, but hopefully she won’t have a problem getting the money out of her sister, but I think there’s more trouble ahead where the support is concerned.
@@ASH_ketchum_99 what's wrong with being "emotionless"? Society gives women the blues about their emotions. Women and their hormones, women and hysteria, women can't lead or be logical due to their emotions, etc. Yet, when a woman is as you described, it's still a negative. Why is that? 😐
This is heart breaking. Bc no matter how broke I am, or how busy I am , seeing my son at the end of the day and holding my son has given me life! To be able to show the world to a little person is beyond amazing and this witch took it for granted.
The biological mother seems so disconnected from her children that I'm wondering if there are any existing psychological issues. (My first thought was drug use due to delayed reactions and responses, as well as inappropriate smiles.) The only time she showed any emotion is when the judge set the amount of child support at $700/month, she seemed to wake up then! But whatever the underlying issues are, it's definitely in the children's best interest to be raised by someone who actually loves them, not sees them as a burden. Pay your child support, woman, and be thankful that you have a sister who is willing to take on your responsibilities.
Postpartum depression can hit years later, could be a cause for the disconnect. Or she could’ve even got it after the youngest and then never got treated so it’s a lingering issue. Whatever the case, those kids are better off with their aunt
I saw this yesterday and was in shock. It seemed like the children's mother couldn't understand what the problem was and said she couldn't afford to pay her sister child support. She suddenly decided she didn't want children but wanted to further her career instead? Unbelievable.
As a Dane, I have always considered the American legal system a joke, especially their sentencing guidelines. But this judge, I've probably seen 10 videos with her, and she really understands law and fairness. She doesn't buy any BS and shows people who come with unreasonable claims and demands what is fair and just. I have great respect for this judge; she is sharp and has proven some of my mistrust wrong. There are many cases where judges are not up to their task, but that cannot be said about her. If all judges were like her, the legal system would be a place one could trust. And if this judge reads my message, you are an inspiration for what the judiciary should be, so please continue.
I know she is an awful mother but I also think she did the next best thing for those kids... Being raised by someone that very clearly did not want you around is.... A lot.
She’s selfish and inconsiderate. I’m sorry but if my sister did that I would return to sender. She opened her damn legs and decided to have the children but now she doesn’t want to be a mother anymore so she selfishly dumps her kids off with her and and says I don’t make enough money to pay child support. I don’t think so. That is crazy 😜
America must be really expensive. 40k dollars is about 32,000 pounds in the UK which is significantly higher than Minimum wage here. A minimum wage UK wage would be equivalent to about 23k dollars!
@@bbr6444 I could easily pay my mortgage, run a car and go on one holiday a year on about 32k here and still save on a dual income household but we do have the National Health Service which is deducted at source along with income tax here so you lot need to also purchase medical insurance
No it's not, I don't don't kids. Do you have any idea how many people have tried to shame me if this choice. I have faced discrimination because of this.
its not even a matter of wanting them, she created them and is required to taken care of the. She simply lacks responsibility which is a poor character trait of hers.
When the children are older and will watch this video; I pray they’ll be happy and at peace with their mother enough to understand what she just said about not wanting them. And prosper in the future!
I can't understand how someone can carry a child for nine months Xs 2 and then decide they don't want the kids anymore. It's hard for any mother to process the responses coming from this woman's mouth. Thank goodness her sister has a kind and loving heart. I believe this mother was in some type of accident and injured her head.
Im with the judge. But at same time the karma will hit 100 x worse those kids will not call her mom she will see them grown and looknat her like a stranger. Belive me. My aunt is my mother far as im concernd im 28 and look at my birth mother like a total stranger.
The “mom” didn’t seem too upset about all of this. Just have the sister adopt the kids and be done with the mom. Ohh, why isn’t the one dad helping out financially? Does he know what’s going on??
If the sister adopts them then she won’t be entitled to support from the parents. It’s better for her to have legal custody until she’s in a better place financially
Tina, WTF are you talking about? If the "smart" sister were to adopt both kids then the "real" mom would not have to pay child support. Also, no where in the video did the "smart" one even mention adoption as a possibility. Just maybe she does not want long term kids either. I just wonder what family dinners are going to be like during the holidays in 10 to 15 years from now.
I have an almost 4 year old son and a 7 year old daughter (as well as an 8 and 9 year old son) and I can't even fathom the idea of leaving them and how badly that rejection would hurt them. How can someone be so selfish and horrible? Those poor babies deserve so much better.
I would have done ANYTHING to take two kids in to love and be their mom. I tried for 12 yrs to have a baby. Several doctors told me no kids. It broke my heart to see moms who didnt appreciate their little treasures. I finally got pregnant and had my daughter. I love her with every fiber of my being. Birth control needs to be discussed ALOT MORE. Just because you can doesnt mean you should.
The audacity of this women to say she doesn’t want her children and that paying for school is more of a priority then helping financially for her kids ?! Out of control
If I had to wager a guess: the mother was feeling overwhelmed by work and school and decided to drop the kids off with her sister for a while to have a break. During this break she was dating some guy (had time for that) and felt like her life was so much easier without kids, hence she didn’t come back. Maybe she’s right in dropping them off. It may be she recognized she’s a terrible mother. Still owes money to her sister regardless.
I hope when these kids grown up and it's graduation day they definitely thank their aunt and tell her "you're our real mom!" Btw when Judge Vonda B said "I need to hear this." I lost it 🤣💀
And me I'm out here fighting everyday just to provide for my child and it hurts me so bad sometimes when I get by myself... I found my encouragement for the day . I am a damn good mother 😭😭😭❤️
I can’t imagine leaving my kids with anyone like that! The fact that she doesn’t show any care in the world is just straight heart breaking!!! 😢 Those poor kids 💔
This is what happens when an undiagnosed sociopath has children. They lose interest and pawn them off on relatives, or sometimes strangers. Like fucking hamsters.
This is why women should be able to get their tubes tied regardless of how many kids they have and how old they are. Less kids would be born into families that don't want them.
I only found this channel only on Saturday. and I'm so broken. I knew people in my Country have been doing this for years, but I didn't know AMERICANS are doing this. The attitude of the women, mostly, is so egregious. I watched quite a few episodes, and, the one where the new wife came to court in lieu of the man, and asked the judge why must her husband pay for his kid with the ex. I was floored. Ended up almost like $1500 +. And, I love ❤ this judge, Vonda. She sees right through the nonsense.
What she shoulda said is, "I'm not sure you're ok. I think we need a psychological evaluation before I issue my final ruling." Be afraid, be very afraid.
I came into this video agreeing with “i don’t wanna have kids.” Expecting it to be a man and a woman fighting over her not wanting kids. And it’s her choice. But the fact i am blown away that she has had children and has chosen to abandon them for 9 months to her sister with no financial help, i am flabbergasted. If you don’t want children, don’t have them. Take her kids from her. Give her sister full custody and make her pay out the ass. Seriously?! I’m disgusted.
At this point yeah, she should give full custody to her sister/legal responsibility if she really "doesn't want kids". Also, if her kids ever come across this video in the future I truly feel so bad for them to have to watch that come out of their own mother's mouth. No mincing or dancing around it, "I DON"T WANT KIDS ANYMORE". Absolutely heartbreaking, I hope that the aunt puts them into some therapy as they get older because they may just need it.
As a college student who also works I could NEVER drop my kids some where just to finish college. My 2 girls are 4 years old and 20 months old. My heart goes out to those kids
The Aunt is an amazing, generous person to take in her niece and nephew and raise them. I hope the kids grow to understand, that though their mom was a narcissist and dumped them, that their Aunt chose them and loved them. The mom needs a lot of help.
The whole ending gave me chills. Something’s wrong with her for sure. She seems empty almost suicidal. She’s definitely hiding behind her job. It’s something bigger to this with her I can feel it.
Her job is to portray a mother on TV, I read the disclaimer at the end of the video and these are all fictitious stories. Vonda B isn't even a judge smh
I watch Judge V for entertainment & educational value but once in a while I'll see a sad case like this & forget these are re-enactments with good actors. I think Ms. Vonda is running for Judge in a Texas city. As of yet there has been no results. Maybe it's because I'm a Texan but I find these case episodes enlightening.
My mom walked out on me and it's just bone-chilling to see her say, "I just don't want them". Boy or girl, those kids will feel this for life. A big loving family may distract them from the love their mother never gave. But regardless, they will go through life knowing their mom "didn't want" them. Always feeling not enough and wondering "how come she don't want me".
Internalizing it is a mistake. This is their fault, their shortcoming, their fault. It has absolutely nothing to do with your own self worth. Love yourself and let them go. Your value is not dependent on someone else loving you.
@BikeisLyfe God puts the solitary in families. He promises that when your mother or father forsakes you, He will take you up. Psalm 27.10. I pray that he breaks your wounded soul and binds up your broken heart, and surroundsyou with His love. God truly cares for you.
It’s heartbreaking! It happened to my mum and she still cries about it (and she’s over 80 now). What compounded it was her mother ended up turning up on her doorstep a while ago - old and broke! She then demanded my mother look after her! My mother did (as hard as it was) as she ached for her mothers love as she couldn’t process why she didn’t want her. Love my mum - she’s so amazing!
I can’t even get my siblings to watch my kid while I shower let alone a whole summer. That’s a great aunt right there.
I was thinking the same. Aunty really stepped up.
My siblings live in the same town and have seen my 11 month old once. This is a good Aunty alright
hahahaha mad true
I would take my niece's children and in a heartbeat if anything happened to her. And raise them as my own. I honestly don't know how people can just drop their kids off and not look back. Or if they are even needing just a little help with their children for family members not to step up and be willing to help out in all I have no clue how people do it. My own family is messed up I'm adopted and my Adoptive family is not helpful of whatsoever. The only one in my adoptive family that is helpful and has been there in times that I have needed them is my niece and that's it. We are more like sisters than we are anything else.
@@roxy220 Everyone doesn’t want to be bothered with kids.
DO NOT force visitation or for her to ever take them back. She's literally telling the world she doesn't want them. Believe her or those kids will end up hurt or dead.
I agree, I felt that too!
Yeah, I can agree to forced therapy to find the root cause of why she suddenly didn't want her children anymore sense a lot of the time it's mental/hormonal.
I am always shocked to the core when people dump their kids or dump their pets like they are worthless. Beyond sickening!
@@puppychan2086some women truly do not want them at all
Wonder if thats why is get left in cars?
My mom did the same thing to me . I ended up in foster care from place to place. The amount of rage I feel for this woman can't be described unless you have been through it.
Same that’s why I wanna jump thru the screen she so casual about it like she’s talking about some pets she bought
So sorry to hear this, this should never happen to a child. I wish I had the financial needs to adopt kids. I can barely take care of myself sometimes.
I'm sorry you went through that. ❤️💔❤️
Forgive her for yourself. Revenge is God's please believe
@@shannondriver1272 I don't believe in God nor will I ever however I will never condemn a believer. But it's just not for me. My revenge was kindness and the outcome was a 2nd chance. I gave her a granddaughter to try again.
The really flat affect throughout made me wonder if there's something significantly wrong neurologically. Then the psychopath smile at the end gave me chills. The kids should not be put back in her care, ever.
These are actors though
That weird smile was very chilling!
You are right!
If she was acting...BRAVO!!!
I thought the sister with the kids looked familiar from another episode 🤔
I was disturbed greatly by that smile
@@ericstorm4839same, definitely disturbed me
Don’t pressure her to take them back. It could be dangerous for the children. When someone shows you who they are - believe them
I completely agree I've seen it 1st hand. Listen to people when they say they don't want the kids the mean that. As a parent I promise you it will be days you can't stand your children but I promise your love will always out way whatever other human emotions you may have. Because a loving parent 1st 2nd 3rd and 4th thought is always their kids then everyone else.
I totally agree because there are a lot of people who have children and they murder their kids because they don't want children! Or are they abuse their children physically and emotionally.. and that would tear her sister to pieces is she gives those kids back to this empty woman and then she does something to those children. But the judge should make her pay child support for those children I don't care what her situation is if you don't want the kids and the kids are with the aunt then you should be giving her money to support your children and social the fathers
So true!!!
Agree
That’s what I was thinking better 2 drop them off then 2 hurt them or mistreat them
"I just don't want my kids anymore" ....... one of the saddest things I have ever heard
It is.I wanted children but couldn't do to a health issue, and to have the Blessing of having them ,I just can't understand. These children will Google this and how is this going to make them feel.
Poor children. It must be hard for them to hear this when they find this video.
It's probably for the best
I’m just seeing this for the first time. I’m with you, this is just sad. I hope her children never watch this program and hear their “mother” say, I don’t want my kids. What a horrible thing for anybody to hear. She’s absolutely pathetic!
It's not sad, it's despicable/repugnant/disgusting.
I think her mental health should be evaluated. She looks empty, cold and scaringly calm.
She looked high as a kite.
its an actor amiga. These are all educational reenactments.
@@Casper-Ghost really? My world falls apart again 🥲 first with caso cerrado and now this? 😆 😆 😆
@@zumitomoe yup, it's in the description for some of the vids and a lot of these actors like the lady on the left have been in other videos as a different character. She also mentions it in the full videos, these are only clips from the show.
Vonda only just recently got elected as a judge, this show was considered community education and helped her get her name out there and advertise her private practice as a family lawyer.
@@Casper-Ghost wow I’m speechless thanks I didn’t know
auntie also needs to track down the children''s fathers and put them on child support as well.
Secure the bags!
She does in later episodes.
The weirdest thing was the mother was sooo totally zonked out and it looked like she was stoned as hell
She needs to get welfare involved. They will hound those fathers to their dying day for money.
@@nicolenicole9197I need to see that can u link them to me plz
Those kids are in danger with a mother like that. “I don’t want them” is a big 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩And that creepy smile at the end says she is a box of fries short on a happy meal.
You you got it
Something not right wit her
Facts because she could literally hurt them….
This woman is a DANGER to this kids. I pray that the aunt can keep them.
Your fries come in a box?! ;o
She has SUPER flat affect. She's either ON something, or she NEEDS to be on something. Notice the Aunt is in NO way asking to give them back? She KNOWS the mother is unstable. They can actually officially "place" them with the Aunt through the court system, and that way, the State will help them. They will get things like an assistance check, food stamps, free lunches, and so on, to help that Auntie out, and she 100% deserves it for taking those sweet babies on. She's a definite hero in this story. If she hadn't stepped up, those kids would go into foster care. I hope things work out for that family, and that mother get some help. Something is definitely not right with her.
The state doesn’t have to place them in the home for her to get assistance. As long as they are living with her and she is providing for them, regardless of who put the kids with her she is eligible for assistance as long as falls within the income guidelines.
I totally agree. This woman has something else going on
I was thinking the same. Something is wrong with mom. She won't even lie about it.
@@shannonangel3980 I was thinking that exact same thing just the way that she is smiling as the judge is talking to her about her kids she is showing no care in the world she has not once asked sister how are the babies if they needed anything I cannot imagine bring a child into this world just to give them away especially when her kids going to remember that they’re her sisters now
And the smile at the end was just straight out creepy.
This woman is making my blood boil . The sister who has taken the children on is an angel of a woman and deserves the highest praise possible.
She doesn't look normal. I think she is on drugs or something else...
How can someone not want to have kids of their own 😢😢😢. When there are people who are trying so hard to have kids by going through ivf and other stuff.
@@TeenieYoso-o8h I don't understand her at all 🤷.
@@TeenieYoso-o8h I'm one of the rare people who doesn't want kids at all. And i made sure i can't, not the natural/biological way. I don't plan to get married either. Telling this to potential partners made them decide not to be with me and i was ok with that. Not having to care about kids or a spouse made my lfie less stressing and honestly my pets are enough for me, never really been a people's person. I had people showing me their kids but the parental instincts/feelings never activated. For the court case it's better they stay with the aunt. If someone doesn't want kids, or not anymore, don't force them, the kids could end up really bad, or even dead. I saw cases of parents ending the lives of their kids because they ended up having them and hating them (for being born and/or other reasons). Some were pressured to have them, because on the views on abortion. Prevention is best, but not everyone thinks of using it.
@@TeenieYoso-o8h
I agree having kids and not wanting them is super sad, and saying it so heartlessly makes me think that the person needs help. But it’s still very normal to not want or have them at all. :]
@@phoenixxmatrixx3769 as a woman who have been trying to get a baby but can't get even after going through all sorts of medical procedure it hurts to see people getting kids and don't want them 😢😢😢
That woman is creepy; there is something seriously wrong with her, and the children should never go back to someone that dead emotionally. If I were the sister and I loved the children - as she obviously does - I would sue to have them permanently in her custody for their protection. Anyone who has that little regard for her responsibilities - and her children - could easily open them up to all kinds of harm and/or abuse, if not at her hands at the hands of others.
just because someone is different from your ideals doesn't mean something is wrong
@@oliknow something is definitely wrong, you can see the judge in shock more than 7 times. I appreciate you believe this is a 'different' person, but clearly there is mental issues at work here. Good luck
I'm glad she's honest and left them with someone, instead of hurting them because she no longer wants them.
Yes God!!!
The bar is in hell. 🙄
Right!!
As much as I hate this woman I have to admit it seems like she is suffering from some sort of mental problem
agree
It's unnerving how calm and unbothered she was by that entire case but then it was like a gut punch with how happy she looked standing up. I hope that she never has another kid because holy shit there is something seriously wrong with her.
You know these are actors right?
I was reading the comments, and I was like WHY is nobody talking about this ?! I wonder is she is psychologically alright... I think the judge was wondering the same thing tbh
I know, right.
@@majesticmajesty8004 I thought she was HIGH
can you elaborate, are you sure?
@@elleash3040
As both a mother myself and someone who’s mom walked out on them, I feel so bad for those kids…they probably think it’s their fault…
Oh , l have rejection --- abandon issues from my mom over 43 yr.s now .......she chose a terrible , abusive , " Christian" ( BS). Man over Mr and my sister , ..... I could see he was bad news , l begged her to ditch him ....she not care , l moved. In with my dad and fond out yr.s later other " things ". That happened .....still deal with this , the guilt and pain every day .....she never apologized , or explained it .....just acts like it never happened !!! I missed a trip to Europe with her and sister , because l was the "rebel " who moved out Bec. Of that bastard !!!
Isn't this acting ?
@@nthuthukomdluli1052 It maybe acting but things like this actually happen in life
Exactly the kids suffer because she decided she doesn't want kids .
@@feliciajohns4148 right she decided after having them!! Some people really need to be thinking before having these kids… This is some shitty mom who is lucky I wasn’t the judge . I would have had a lot more questions to ask like where’s your brain and heart at?!?
Shes on some very serious medication. Legal or otherwise. Shouldnt be in charge of kids.
I too could sense drugs. It is very sad for everyone involved and neglected. I hope she gets clean and you’re definitely right, she should not be involved, not at this time.
I could be wrong, but I don't think that's drugs. That is the purest form of psychopathic behavior.
She looks older but sounds like a spoilt teenager..
Her sister is an angel. A rare breed.
I think it's the dyed hair make her look so old.
No, she looks sick, mentally
Yeah, I thought it was daughter v mother
I’m 43 and children were never part of my adult planning but this literally breaks my heart. How do you just dump your kids on someone? 😢
My ex completely abandoned both of our kids when they were 14 & 16. She wanted to follow her own dreams and mission that "God told me to do."
I mean it makes sense if your a garbage worthless pretend person. Should be shamed and mocked.
@@gringottfenn316are you and your kids fine without her if I may ask and did she ever come back or anything like that
I agree she sounds like a nut. "I don't wanna have kids" you already have them you weirdo. I guess maternal instinct is something this lady doesn't have she doesn't care and it's tragic.
@@gringottfenn316sounds like my mom but replace god with heroin😭
I was in total shock at this woman cause she is in a world of her own. The children are so, so lucky to have a Aunt who loves them and looks after them. Their mother needs some kinda help.
Where is the father?
*SPOILER ALERT* The people in these videos are all actors! So the odd behaviour of the mum was dramatised meaning no need to do any armchair psychiatry.
@@lebowski3767 Evenstill, we don't know as to how far it was dramatises as sometimes that's not even needed. Some people are sick or psychotic & maybe that's hard to even act out, meaning reality might've been even worser. The fact it's based on a real case is disturbing & sad to those involved. It still means there's a family that went to something similar or maybe worse. These kinds of things is not what'd you wish for anyone to go through. People react as imagine this being reality, it's not an impossible reality & in truth it could be way worse in reality.
They auntie is a hero
That lady has the killer smile/face on 100%. I hope you check back up with them
I am absolutely astounded how emotionless the mother was. It was only after judge confirmed when she was supposed to be graduating that you saw any life in her at all. And think the judge read pretty quickly that the kids were way better off staying with the amazing aunt. Even if she did want them I would definitely be concerned about sending them back. Her lack of emotions and care factor in general for her own children has me flawed and speechless
something else is going on. perhaps the mom was on drugs when she had the kids so she truly doesn't want them. She got pregnant when she was strung out, didn't terminate the pregnancy and now she's coping as best she can. Perhaps she was beaten by the father(s) of the kids. I worked at Social Services and once you've done that, it will FLOOR you to find out what's going on underneath the surface.
She definitely acted like something was suppressing her. My first instinct says drugs. I can't otherwise fathom her actions and emotions here.
I get wanting a break or vacation from your responsibilities, even parental responsibilities, but "I just don't want them anymore"? That's unacceptable.
None of it's real. It says at the end this is all ficticious. She's not even a judge. She's an attorney and makes these videos with actors based on real cases.
@@dreadpirateroberts5239 they're based on real cases which is still very concerning, because her responses really showed how much she didn't want or care for her kids back
People give their kids up for adoption every single day and thats accepted but when you watch this reenactment everyone freaks out. Only difference is she left the kids with her sister. Not sure how one can be okay in peoples mind as the other is not when they are both the same thing just different in how the parent went about it.
My mother did the same thing to myself and my brother. The damage to this women's children will be life long and describable. No one ever gets over not being wanted by a mother/parent. The selfishness in this woman is overwhelming.
My daughter did the same to 6 kids i raised the oldest 2 couldnt do for the others [im disabled] the last 4 have FAS
That's terrible, so sorry to you
The idea of having that woman as a mother is worse than abandonment ! She gives me the creeps. TG for the Aunt.
my mother sent me to live with my Grandma. The last words she said before I left was "I'll see you in two weeks." That was in 1972. The next time I talked to her was 1991. 19 years. I chewed her out and hung the phone up on her.
About a week later I got a phone call from the state police where she was living. She had handcuffed herself to her steering wheel and drove off a pier into a lake. The note that was found in a water tight bag said "I never wanted you anyway" along with my contact information. She obviously was not mentally stable. Looking at this mother, I think the same thing with her.
No one put a gun to her head to bear those kids. If she goofed the first time with the father of her daughter, then she could have been careful with the father of her son. These people have no sense. And took advantage of her sister, and still have the nerve to give her a dirty look towards the end?
This is the saddest episoid I have seen, truly. The sister with the kids is flat out awesome, and deserves all the help she can get, God Bless her!
Episode 🤷🏽♀️
I agree. CLEARLY this so-called "mother" has chosen her boyfriend (which I GUARANTEE YOU is still with her) and her schooling over being a mother. She just said "I don't want to be a mother anymore" and dumped her children off at her sister's house and expected her sister to be Mom now and let her have her life with her new man. I pray these poor children never watch this video and learn how vile and selfish their "mother" is. God bless this auntie for stepping up and protecting them. They SHOULD NOT be with this "Mom" and she absolutely should be made to pay every dime of that $700 for child support.
AMEN
Unfortunately, I really doubt that mother is going to pay her sister. The way the judge had to keep asking if she understood what was going on really highlighted something being off about her. She'll probably just refuse to pay saying she doesn't have it. The sister will either have to sue to have the mothers wages garnished or do without. It's sad because I'm sure the kids don't understand why this is happening to them.
Something is wrong with her. She is depressed.
I've watched so many of these episodes and this by far is the most outrageous one I've watched.
The biological mum has no soul, no heart, no love. How do you disconnect to your children and the world that much. Mind blowing!!!
As disturbing as the mother’s indifference and lack of compassion is, I want to acknowledge the aunt’s selfless willingness to keep the children as they could easily become wards of The State if the aunt also decided that she didn’t want to continue caring for them. The mother clearly has mental health issues that aren’t addressed in this case, and the children would be in danger of serious neglect in her care or perhaps worse. My hats off and tremendous respect to the aunt-may she be blessed financially and granted the strength and perseverance she needs to raise her niece and nephew. And I also hope that mother gets the help she needs and is able to heal in the process. Maybe one day her relationship with her children can be reconciled. There is always hope.
I'm sensing sever depression. And people who say kids can't and won't that. Either have support and a perfect little life, or simply never had kids. It's written all over her face that something is wrong. Hell if she commits suicide, I won't be surprised, and most folks will be saying "good riddance" rather then see her side. Where the fucks the father at? He needs to pay that other half, as I would refuse to even do a job after hearing that verdict. It's true, she could have put them for adoption and can still do that I believe. But I get the feeling she was pressured into motherhood by carrying the babies to term.
I agree with you 100% the mental health issue haven’t been addressed. That lady needs it!
AMEN
I agree, the Mom CLEARLY has some mental issues and it’s probably best that they not be with her
@@BlackRose85789 i agree. There is a lot of disassociation. I remember being completely disconnected when i was depressed enough. I never stopped caring for my kids but everyone isn't the same. Her vibe is super wierd though. Something is definitely off.
When a person tells you who they are, you need to believe them. The last place those kids need to be is with the mother
U misspelled MONSTER!
Not the point. She still is responsible for them and needs to pay up or go to prison.
@@robbiecora715prison it is cuz those kids will be in danger if they are returned to her.
Keep the mother in prison until the kids are18
@@DaeneiracornSo the aunt is forced to take them? The aunt has a life to, having to all of a sudden start taking care of kids is going to severely limit her life.
She dropped those kids off for a couple weeks…then she woke up and said “wow this is much nicer without those little people! I’m going to stay like this!”
Absolutely 🤣🤣
Crazy how I would expect this from a women in her teens - early 20s. Women clearly looks like she's near her later 40s.
She is honest, let this woman live her live.....dont force the kids on her if she doesn't want them...it'll be bad for the kids
@@ripwins lf She Didn’t Want Children Then SHE Should Have NEVER Had Them.
@@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 THINGS DONT REMAIN THE SAME
The fact the sister wants financial support instead of making the mom take the kids back tell me that she know the kind of person the mother probally is. Glad the aunt have the children.
At least she's honest she doesn't want the kids, but thinking she not going to pay child support is beyond me.
I was thinking it’s probably best for the kids because, all the stuff lI’ve seen in the news where moms kill their babies! Is prob best for them. You are right
yeah, but that doesn’t make her any less disgusting!!!
You're absolutely right! The bio mom needs to pay child support. Hell, the bio dad(s) need to pay support, if they aren't already.
@@melvinawright Dad's? Really now? Mom's a 304. Those dudes probably knocked her up during one of her many drug/alcohol-fueled parties she attended. "Dads" are smart to stay far from this shit. Kids aren't suffering with auntie and getting that trash 304 mother to kick in some funds. Leave it as it is. Them kids already have enough to deal with. "Dads" probably don't even know they have kids by this filthy trash. Why bother them now about it if it wasn't that important to her? It was mentioned in this channels' bio that there are actors involved. Actors or not, this show is about what actually happens and takes place in courtrooms like this all across America and scenarios like this are commonplace. You are seeing what really happens. So reaction is still based. Actor or not, the results were the same with the real people involved.
@@authorcole not disgusting, she needs help, what shes doing is disgusting, Most mothers are depressed and stressed she honestly needs help
My wife and I lost our child. We would do anything to have him back. This hurts me so bad listening to this person.
Just wanted to tell you, I'm so sorry for your loss. losing a child is the hardest thing to have to go through. I hope you will find peace, be comforted, feel love, and experience joy again in your lives!
😥
Sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss, but if it lessens your pain any at all, at least is less triggering, the litigants are paid actors. Look at the video again aroubt the 10min 29 second mark and pause to read it. Though this does happen in real life, that not a real mom talking about her kids.
I'm so sorry this triggered you. Wish you hope and healing ♥
I’m sorry for your loss. My husband and I lost our son on the 29th of January. He left behind a three year old daughter whom he worshiped. I would have given my life for my son and would do the same for his daughter.
LMAO "Are you ok?" I was wondering the same thing the whole time. She definitely seems a bit off, and I think the sister knows more than what she's telling.
Totally agree, There is something really wrong with that woman. She is almost totally devoid of emotions and the ones she does show are weird and inappropriate. The way she smiled at the end really creeped me out.
Came here to say this. She is not right in the head, or she is stoned out of her brain!
Yeah....this was weird!
She trippin 😂😂
She's high AF
Judge, you are an awesome person 👏👏👏 I have no idea how you manage to be so patient. There is something wrong with this lady, you were right asking if she was ok. It would be better if she got a psych evaluation
This woman needs help. She does not seem too present at all. In fact the most emotionless person I have ever seen. We need to pray for these kids and their aunt.
This woman needs help
It doesn’t look like she’s capable of taking care of herself much less to children
I can bearly leave my child with someone for an hour without stressing about them. To leave for 9 months and not say a word to them is sickening.
Same… so I never did …
She knows her sister won’t hurt them.
Try not seeing or talking to you 6 year old son since he was 6 months. Thats how long my boyfriend and i have had custody of our son. I dont have bio kids of my own but damn kids need love and attention its not that hard. I have helped raise two nephews that are grown now and a son now. I did it when i was 18 i use to love to go party and everything but when my brother got custody of his sons i knew right then and there my party days were over because they need me more
It goes to show how much mothers generally love their children - because when you find a one who doesnt then it just looks so unreal
In the 2 Timothy 3 :1-5 world of today becomes less a real occurance than it used to ,tragically
Meant that to read, . Less a freak occurrence, than not a real one
My mother was a narcissist. We were to be seen and not heard. She told us to NEVER have kids, they run your life, nothing is ever about you again and life sucks. So, my brother and I never had kids.
It happens a lot more than people admit!!
And there are varying degrees here. The grey area so to speak. It's not just, there are all these "great" moms and some "bad" ones occasionally.
Holy hell. She just committed her sister to all of the heard times and stigma of being a single mother. Out of pure selfishness.
Something is completely wrong with this woman! Her affect is totally off. She's studying fashion yet wears Buffalo paid flannel shirt to court.
fashion for dogs.
Drugs
These are actors, but if she’s acting like a stoned loser, she’s nailed it!
Are you reading my mind. Buffalo plaid flannel shirt. She seems like she is on psych meds.
😂😂😂
Not everyone is meant to be a parent. When someone is obviously not in the headspace for it, pay attention. This is what makes people straight up disappear or do something even more heinous.
What a blessing to have a sister willing to help her sister just to be manipulated into raising her own kids..
40k is PLENTY to pay support with. Frankly $700 a month is a bargain for a full time nanny.
Depends on the state. Some is way more expensive than others
Yep
@@winzeo7 - If 40k isn't enough to support a child with then don't have a child. Its not that complicated.
This younger sister became an instant mom from one day to the next. Her life completely changed from one second to the next. This young lady isn't the aunt anymore, she officially became a young mom out of nowhere. She's not only lovely & beautiful, but she's a hero. A hero doesn't always wear a cape. My aunt took me in out of nowhere back in the days, so I can relate to the children.
It's better to regret never having kids than to regret having kids.
I regret not having kids, and yes I agree with you .
100% agree.
I'm 27, a man and I don't want any at all, and this statement was one of the main things I've thought about
I never had kids and have no regrets at 49.
Yep. I've believed this for years. I'd rather regret not having them than to regret ever having them. And this is coming from someone who didn't want them for 10 years and then became open to motherhood after I met my husband.
I have so much respect for the sister who took in the kids. Holy cow. And she was just so sweet and understanding
The way how she smile and looked at her sister in the end was haunting. Something is really not right with the sister.
She reminds of Lori Vallow. She ‘s crazy. I would get sole custody so she can’t change her mind.
This is a reenactment lol
She’s an actor
You’re right and with that hair like Cruella ain’t no way baby, love the judge sarcasm tho lol 😆
@@mroth1998 - what do you mean she is an actor? These should be the original people. What makes you think otherwise?
My grandsons mom did the same thing to me. I took him in when he was 8 and raised him. She NEVER gave me anything to help support him. He is such a smart child. He graduated from high school then enlisted in the military.
I COMPLETELY understand needing a small break from small children! It is exhausting. But never in my wildest imagination would I have wanted to give away my children. Thank heavens for this sister!!!
So blessed with my mom, she is everything it’s videos like this that really make you count your blessing and realize that the small things matter. Like not living in a police state and having a mom who loves you.
Her affect is completely off and it is as if she's in a permanent comma/stupor and couldn't care less. I'm hoping they really make it big with the help of her lovely sister..what a disgrace to motherhood!😱😱
I was thinking that too. It’s like she’s on something whether it’s prescription drugs or whatever, she’s spaced out.
If she’s not connected to the kids she isn’t disgraceful but maybe depressed. Have some grace rather than judging her
@@Ainnekainnek that's not how depression works. Trust me
@@mrtnm121 oh sorry worldwide depression expert that knows how EVERYONE’S depression works 😒🥹😅
@@Ainnekainnek Depression is "I need help; I'm feeling down" not "I have my own stuff to take care of so screw the kids!"
I was amazed how the judge was so composed when the mom said she don’t want her children no more, my jaw just dropped on to my lap
She prob sees and hears cr*p we cant even imagine. She is used to the dregs showing up and opening their pie holes and out falls garbage...
Good lord that smile she did at the end! Sent chills up my spine!!
That smile on her face,was like I got a way with it. She knew she wasn't going to come back. And knew she would take them. A easy way out.
Wow, I can’t imagine the pain those kids feel. God bless that sister.
This mother’s detachment is unbelievable. And yet, it’s probably safer for the kids she isn’t in their lives. The judge’s composure in this situation is commendable. If I was sitting there in her seat, I’d make that mother pay a lot more money for support than what she’s being required to pay.
Auntie please keep the children. Mom definitely doesn’t want them and if she gets them back, there’s no telling where they’ll end up. You’re already a great MOMTIE! Blessings to you and both children.
Beautiful sister she has, she's so gracious, I'm pretty sure there's something going on psychologically with the mum 🥺
This is so sickening, how do you just walk around life without your kids in your life daily?
I can barely go a whole day without my kids. I get so friggin happy when they’re home from school and I’m back from work.
You know these are actors, right? This ain't real. LOL
@@NotYourTypicalNegro it’s real scenarios she has encountered but she uses actors for privacy
Agree sickening…. Oddly enough men do this everyday.
I don’t get it either. My kids work my last nerve, but I would never walk away from my babies.
I have 2 young kids and I can't imagine having to give them up. She doesn't look like she is feeling anything for them, it is heartbreaking. They are at least lucky to have a loving aunt who wants to care for them.
As an aunt currently caring for my teenage nephew in addition to my own two teenagers I feel this woman's plight. It really is expensive to care for a child not your own when you're not receiving help from their parent(s). I hope that birth giver (because mother is not something I'd call her) grows up and realizes what she's missing. You can't relive your children's childhoods. If you miss it, you miss it. And they'll resent you the rest of their lives for it.
Food alone is expensive
I feel this. I take care of my teenage nephew as well and neither one of his parents will give me child support. It has really dug a hole financially
@@rhiannondelarosa8675you deserve to get child support for your nephew. Please take it to court. There are lawyers that will work pro bono (aka for free).
you assume she'll ever care. Some people aren't cut out to be parents.
Is there a better example of the saying, "All children deserve a Mother, but not all Mothers deserve children."
She can’t give any money for her children because she needs it for her schooling. What’s bizarre about that is her saying that in court as if that’s a legitimate
reason for not supporting her
children. Something’s not right
there and the children wouldn’t
be safe with her. Bless their aunt
for being willing to take them,
but hopefully she won’t have a
problem getting the money out
of her sister, but I think there’s
more trouble ahead where the
support is concerned.
She does seem a bit "touched in the head". Regardless, she's responsible. The aunt is a saint.
she's hiring a kite!
Yeah she’ll definitely kill them, very emotionless
@@ASH_ketchum_99 what's wrong with being "emotionless"? Society gives women the blues about their emotions. Women and their hormones, women and hysteria, women can't lead or be logical due to their emotions, etc. Yet, when a woman is as you described, it's still a negative. Why is that? 😐
Is the father dead or something? Where is his contribution if he's still alive?
This is heart breaking. Bc no matter how broke I am, or how busy I am , seeing my son at the end of the day and holding my son has given me life! To be able to show the world to a little person is beyond amazing and this witch took it for granted.
The biological mother seems so disconnected from her children that I'm wondering if there are any existing psychological issues. (My first thought was drug use due to delayed reactions and responses, as well as inappropriate smiles.) The only time she showed any emotion is when the judge set the amount of child support at $700/month, she seemed to wake up then! But whatever the underlying issues are, it's definitely in the children's best interest to be raised by someone who actually loves them, not sees them as a burden. Pay your child support, woman, and be thankful that you have a sister who is willing to take on your responsibilities.
Postpartum depression can hit years later, could be a cause for the disconnect. Or she could’ve even got it after the youngest and then never got treated so it’s a lingering issue. Whatever the case, those kids are better off with their aunt
@@taylorodell7444someone who is working and studying doesn't have depression. What I suspect more is schizophrenia.
This Mom is telegraphing that those children would be in danger if they were with her. BELIEVE HER.
I saw this yesterday and was in shock. It seemed like the children's mother couldn't understand what the problem was and said she couldn't afford to pay her sister child support. She suddenly decided she didn't want children but wanted to further her career instead? Unbelievable.
I saw this today.
“Are you okay?” was an appropriate question. She seems detached and depressed. No excuse, but you can see it.
I love this judge. Her unwillingness to deal with peoples bull is amazing
As a Dane, I have always considered the American legal system a joke, especially their sentencing guidelines. But this judge, I've probably seen 10 videos with her, and she really understands law and fairness. She doesn't buy any BS and shows people who come with unreasonable claims and demands what is fair and just. I have great respect for this judge; she is sharp and has proven some of my mistrust wrong. There are many cases where judges are not up to their task, but that cannot be said about her. If all judges were like her, the legal system would be a place one could trust. And if this judge reads my message, you are an inspiration for what the judiciary should be, so please continue.
I know she is an awful mother but I also think she did the next best thing for those kids... Being raised by someone that very clearly did not want you around is.... A lot.
Something is definitely wrong with that woman. She looks depress
This is all acting.. it's not real lol
@@GuardienTTV fully aware
@@melodiousramblings8470 well I was not 😂 looks so real
She’s selfish and inconsiderate. I’m sorry but if my sister did that I would return to sender. She opened her damn legs and decided to have the children but now she doesn’t want to be a mother anymore so she selfishly dumps her kids off with her and and says I don’t make enough money to pay child support. I don’t think so. That is crazy 😜
$40,000/year is better than I made and I raised my kids alone. For crying out loud!
America must be really expensive. 40k dollars is about 32,000 pounds in the UK which is significantly higher than Minimum wage here. A minimum wage UK wage would be equivalent to about 23k dollars!
@@stoneislandkirkcaldy our minimum wage isn’t $40,000/yr yet. But some states are more expensive than others.
@@bbr6444 I could easily pay my mortgage, run a car and go on one holiday a year on about 32k here and still save on a dual income household but we do have the National Health Service which is deducted at source along with income tax here so you lot need to also purchase medical insurance
Michael- America is so much expensive than UK.
@@Sona77. that isn’t exactly true. Living in cities like London is very expensive, equal to NYC or California any day.
She shouldn't have had any children if she didn't want kids. It's that simple.
No it's not, I don't don't kids. Do you have any idea how many people have tried to shame me if this choice. I have faced discrimination because of this.
its not even a matter of wanting them, she created them and is required to taken care of the. She simply lacks responsibility which is a poor character trait of hers.
@@SJ-hi5mt she had ways to give them up. Leaving them with her sister was the coward way
If it was that simple these shows wouldn't exist.
@@TheRadiantPeachBudgets it is that simple people r just immature
that smile at the end. gave me chills
When the children are older and will watch this video; I pray they’ll be happy and at peace with their mother enough to understand what she just said about not wanting them. And prosper in the future!
That psycho smile she gave her sister as she left was terrifying 😳
She's an actor..
I saw that! I wish there was a way to unsee it!
@@0TheBrothers0 proof? payroll documents? signed contract? anything?
@@Zelots_Code... Please read the bio of the channel. All cases are played by actors. It's just a show.
@@Zelots_Code These are reenactments of real cases that Judge Vonda B has ruled on. It says so somewhere here
I can't understand how someone can carry a child for nine months Xs 2 and then decide they don't want the kids anymore. It's hard for any mother to process the responses coming from this woman's mouth. Thank goodness her sister has a kind and loving heart. I believe this mother was in some type of accident and injured her head.
I can understand. Not all mothers are created equal and having a uterus does not make you a mother.
Im with the judge. But at same time the karma will hit 100 x worse those kids will not call her mom she will see them grown and looknat her like a stranger. Belive me. My aunt is my mother far as im concernd im 28 and look at my birth mother like a total stranger.
@@Itsroccib Then, don't get pregnant.
and also they're 7 and 4
Happens ALL THE TIME
The “mom” didn’t seem too upset about all of this. Just have the sister adopt the kids and be done with the mom. Ohh, why isn’t the one dad helping out financially? Does he know what’s going on??
The plaintiff should go after him too. She can only go after one child's father though. Neither one knows who the other child's father is.
If the sister adopts them then she won’t be entitled to support from the parents. It’s better for her to have legal custody until she’s in a better place financially
He probably doesn't care either.
@@gabiipThere's plenty of programs for family that choose to adopt to help them financially.
Tina, WTF are you talking about? If the "smart" sister were to adopt both kids then the "real" mom would not have to pay child support. Also, no where in the video did the "smart" one even mention adoption as a possibility. Just maybe she does not want long term kids either. I just wonder what family dinners are going to be like during the holidays in 10 to 15 years from now.
The sister has the heart and the eyes of a mother. You can see in the way she carries herself that she loves those kids.
It's so baffling when the judge had to point out that the idea of leaving someone with kids and thinking they don't need to pay anything is nonsense
I have an almost 4 year old son and a 7 year old daughter (as well as an 8 and 9 year old son) and I can't even fathom the idea of leaving them and how badly that rejection would hurt them. How can someone be so selfish and horrible? Those poor babies deserve so much better.
I would have done ANYTHING to take two kids in to love and be their mom. I tried for 12 yrs to have a baby. Several doctors told me no kids. It broke my heart to see moms who didnt appreciate their little treasures. I finally got pregnant and had my daughter. I love her with every fiber of my being. Birth control needs to be discussed ALOT MORE. Just because you can doesnt mean you should.
The audacity of this women to say she doesn’t want her children and that paying for school is more of a priority then helping financially for her kids ?! Out of control
Cold and evil. Keep the kids away from this empty soul.
If I had to wager a guess: the mother was feeling overwhelmed by work and school and decided to drop the kids off with her sister for a while to have a break. During this break she was dating some guy (had time for that) and felt like her life was so much easier without kids, hence she didn’t come back. Maybe she’s right in dropping them off. It may be she recognized she’s a terrible mother. Still owes money to her sister regardless.
Seems she had plenty of money to get her nails done.
BINGO!!!
I hope when these kids grown up and it's graduation day they definitely thank their aunt and tell her "you're our real mom!"
Btw when Judge Vonda B said "I need to hear this." I lost it 🤣💀
I agree the world 🌎 has a way of doing exactly that
And me I'm out here fighting everyday just to provide for my child and it hurts me so bad sometimes when I get by myself... I found my encouragement for the day . I am a damn good mother 😭😭😭❤️
When an adult just 'dumps' their kids and shirks responsibility...my blood boils.
If "F" these kids was a person 🤣😂
Yes, she had those kids to keep their dads I bet and when they left she checked out
Right
And that sister lol !
Say that! Because she can give two "F's" about her own children! So sad.
Tryna tell ya
I can’t imagine leaving my kids with anyone like that! The fact that she doesn’t show any care in the world is just straight heart breaking!!! 😢
Those poor kids 💔
This is so sad I love the way you handle things because this makes no sense I’m glad those kids have somebody ❤️
Me too. I think those kids are safer with their aunt
Wow, she was so calm. Then smiling at the end! "I don't want kids" with a smile. Scary.
This is what happens when an undiagnosed sociopath has children. They lose interest and pawn them off on relatives, or sometimes strangers. Like fucking hamsters.
And they end up shooting kids in schools cos they all damaged
Exactly 💯
This is why women should be able to get their tubes tied regardless of how many kids they have and how old they are. Less kids would be born into families that don't want them.
I only found this channel only on Saturday. and I'm so broken. I knew people in my Country have been doing this for years, but I didn't know AMERICANS are doing this. The attitude of the women, mostly, is so egregious. I watched quite a few episodes, and, the one where the new wife came to court in lieu of the man, and asked the judge why must her husband pay for his kid with the ex. I was floored. Ended up almost like $1500 +. And, I love ❤ this judge, Vonda. She sees right through the nonsense.
@@msnikkilee it's heartbreaking that women are behaving like this. Good thing the law is on side of taking care of the kids.
When Judge Vonda said “Are you okay?!” I lost it😭
Ikr 😩🤣😂🤣😂
What she shoulda said is, "I'm not sure you're ok. I think we need a psychological evaluation before I issue my final ruling."
Be afraid, be very afraid.
Cause I was wondering too!
🤣😂
She looks very out of it
One of the most Intelligent and caring Judge out there. Much respect.
Oh my god those poor babies. That woman is terrifying. I hope she gets help and stays SO far away from those children 💔
I came into this video agreeing with “i don’t wanna have kids.” Expecting it to be a man and a woman fighting over her not wanting kids. And it’s her choice. But the fact i am blown away that she has had children and has chosen to abandon them for 9 months to her sister with no financial help, i am flabbergasted. If you don’t want children, don’t have them. Take her kids from her. Give her sister full custody and make her pay out the ass. Seriously?! I’m disgusted.
I wouldn't. Id place them in the adoption, if the sister wants them. She can pay for them.
And the fact that she doesn’t even want to or seems to keep in contact with the fathers is crazy
thats why the arbitrator rounded up. hat's a $50.00/month tip for the aunt.
At this point yeah, she should give full custody to her sister/legal responsibility if she really "doesn't want kids". Also, if her kids ever come across this video in the future I truly feel so bad for them to have to watch that come out of their own mother's mouth. No mincing or dancing around it, "I DON"T WANT KIDS ANYMORE". Absolutely heartbreaking, I hope that the aunt puts them into some therapy as they get older because they may just need it.
@@mandymeader736 and make the “mom” pay for it too.
As a college student who also works I could NEVER drop my kids some where just to finish college. My 2 girls are 4 years old and 20 months old. My heart goes out to those kids
She is a mess!! Maybe its best she doesn't want those children...she probably wouldn't treat them well anyway!
The Aunt is an amazing, generous person to take in her niece and nephew and raise them. I hope the kids grow to understand, that though their mom was a narcissist and dumped them, that their Aunt chose them and loved them.
The mom needs a lot of help.
The aloofness of this woman both baffles and terrifies me. I hate the situation she put her sister in, but I’m glad she now has accountability.
I'm glad they ended up with a sister that they're living with my heart breaks over this
The whole ending gave me chills. Something’s wrong with her for sure. She seems empty almost suicidal. She’s definitely hiding behind her job. It’s something bigger to this with her I can feel it.
Her job is to portray a mother on TV, I read the disclaimer at the end of the video and these are all fictitious stories. Vonda B isn't even a judge smh
I watch Judge V for entertainment & educational value but once in a while I'll see a sad case like this & forget these are re-enactments with good actors. I think Ms. Vonda is running for Judge in a Texas city. As of yet there has been no results. Maybe it's because I'm a Texan but I find these case episodes enlightening.
@@wizhawkin1507 omg I saw this comment and checked for myself….your right! I feel played lol
She dose seem off and sad 😢
Very detached.
My mom walked out on me and it's just bone-chilling to see her say, "I just don't want them". Boy or girl, those kids will feel this for life. A big loving family may distract them from the love their mother never gave. But regardless, they will go through life knowing their mom "didn't want" them. Always feeling not enough and wondering "how come she don't want me".
Internalizing it is a mistake. This is their fault, their shortcoming, their fault. It has absolutely nothing to do with your own self worth. Love yourself and let them go. Your value is not dependent on someone else loving you.
@BikeisLyfe God puts the solitary in families. He promises that when your mother or father forsakes you, He will take you up. Psalm 27.10.
I pray that he breaks your wounded soul and binds up your broken heart, and surroundsyou with His love. God truly cares for you.
It’s heartbreaking! It happened to my mum and she still cries about it (and she’s over 80 now). What compounded it was her mother ended up turning up on her doorstep a while ago - old and broke! She then demanded my mother look after her! My mother did (as hard as it was) as she ached for her mothers love as she couldn’t process why she didn’t want her. Love my mum - she’s so amazing!
She's at court in a flannel shirt, and goes to school for fashion 😂