how I stopped being scared of what people think of me.
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- Опубликовано: 15 июн 2024
- Theres a little surprise at the end if you watch the whole video hehe. This video is a bit of a story time about how i stopped caring about what people think of me. Not entirely of course, but it has definitely gotten better in the last few years and here's why. I also have some advice sprinkled in the video that has helped me. :)
Thank you so so much for watching! 
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Inspired by you, I also started my own channel, sharing my deepest pains💔 and heartaches😢 with the world, hoping to find some healing and connection.♥😭 Thank you for being my inspiration! 🌟💖
Woah that’s amazing! What a kind and genuine comment thank you so much 💕💕 I’m sending you all the positive vibes your way!!!
That seems to be a problem most people have is that they care so deeply what others think of them. Most specifically people who they don't know think of them. My mother raised me to be myself and that's who I've been for 39 years. Never in my life have I cared about what other people think of me. I do and say whatever I want. The people who matter to me know who I am and that's all that is important.
I turned 25 this past year too. I recently started a new job that requires me to be front and center, constantly being judged by hundreds of people around me a day. Before I was so terrified of what people thought and how I could be perceived. But by forcing myself to be in this scenario every day, it's been so liberating and freeing, not caring what people think and being committed to knowing that my actions are my own and represent the best I can be in my own area of expertise. I've grown more in this last year than in the last 5. You've put this feeling I've been experiencing into words far better than I could, and it's helped to solidify my realization of self and newfound confidence.
Wow thank you so much sharing and I totally relate !!
You are so cute. I love these type
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Channels where people can be honest about their vulnerabilities and talk about past trauma.
For me, my main problem was that I used to be a massive people-pleaser. This was mainly due to my upbringing and me also being bullied a lot in school. Since then, I've gotten to be a bit more comfortable with who I am as a person. I still have the odd moment of anxiousness, but I'd like to think I've gotten a bit more confident compared to how I was back then.
Solid video! Glad this was recommended to me by RUclips.
I totally get that, I was the same way. I think I was a people-pleaser because I was afraid of being ostracized like I was in high school.
Thanks for sharing and relating ♥️
This one hit me in the feels too. I'm in my early 30s, so a bit older than you, but I still struggle with worrying about what other people think all the time. Even people I would consider to be friends, for fear that they won't be my friends if I do something wrong (which comes from never really having/keeping close friends and worrying about losing yet another friendship in my life). It's so hard to deal with some days, and those days I am just a shell, not who I really am or want to be. And you're right, most of the people I worry about judging me would not be there in moments of need. I have a lot to work on, but it's nice to hear your perspective and give me some inspiration to do that work.
I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos, but I have to take them in small doses as they make me feel things, haha. Thank you for being open and honest, and inspiring people like me to better themselves. Keep up the great work.
Wow thank you so much for sharing I can definitely relate to that. I catch myself in those patters in friendships and In those moments I catch myself shifting my perspective. :)
This video made me feel like I was seen by a friend who knows I needed some good advice. Thank you :)
What a beautiful sentiment, wow. I am so so glad and beyond grateful. 💕💕 Thank YOU!! :)
Also, I love your message. You seem like a beautiful person both inside and out.
Thank you so much :)
I feel like for me it’s easier said than done . I know i definitely care way to much what certain people think of me
It’s a tough journey to go through!!
@@AnLittleAlex yes very much so I just gotta stop listening to the wrong people
I've mostly gotten rid of my fear of judgement. I still have it, and will probably have it for the rest of my life but it won't be nearly as intense as it used to be. AND I ENVY YOU FOR YOUR POOL 😭
I honestly believe that the older we get, the less we care about the judgment of others. At least, I hope so 😅
I feel so lost right now and stuck between trying not to make others uncomfortable but also be an authentic version of myself and I have no idea where to draw the line. Thanks for your thoughts on this, it's helped :)
@@adampartridge1903 I totally understand what you mean. Thanks for sharing :)
I struggled with always overseeking advice of others too.
Yeah, I totally get that. Almost like I need their approval in order to feel like what I am doing matters. NO more!
12:52 This line hit home!
You know what in my class students are very judgemental. They judge me a lot. I can hear all the things taht they said about me. Nut they don't know that I could hear them. Due to the toi much judgement my voice gets too low. .I feel sepearted and alone
I like little Alex :)