See, this is the problem. Instead of finding a woman he aligns with, he finds the woman he’s attracted to and tries to change her. It never works. He’s insecure and jealous of her. Girl RUN!!!
If he wishes To change this woman for his mother, then even though he is right This woman isn’t the woman for him. She should stay and find a man who will be with her without trying to change her not because she’s in the wrong, but she’s simply isn’t the woman for him sometimes whom we are attracted to isn’t home we should end up with.
Men do this shit all the time. Like “I want a woman who will do this and that” okay then find that woman. Why are you picking a woman who was already a certain way and then trying to change her?
This just goes to show that he’s subconsciously embarrassed and ashamed of her. He doesn’t have any respect for her. He even straight up said, “that’s how I got her,” so he thinks that she’s easy and will go with just anyone.
Truth! He only sees her as visual eye candy and he’s sexually attracted to her but he does not view her as wife material. He isn’t going to stay with her he’s going to end up marrying a woman who dresses modest, and is the opposite of her.
So we are just glossing over the fact that he didn’t unlock his phone and then went on a tirade about refusing to unlock a phone is shady, when it was his girlfriend who refused? No! They should have refused to give him any information until he agreed to unlock his phone. That’s crazy!
That doesn't seem to be the exact case. He got attracted to the hot baddie and intends to wife her up but he's insecure about her. This is what a lot of ladies need to being a denial about. A man wants a woman to be just for him in everything. She's obviously very beautiful and he wants that for himself only.
Men always want a baddie but can’t handle what it comes with. These two are both insecure and immature and don’t need to be together. She’s lying and he’s shady.
Thank you 👏🏽!! I said the same. You dont love that man if you out here showing ya snackbox to the world. He tryna turn a hoe into a houswife.. a ghetto mess 😂
I've seen this playout for 25 years non stop, especially in the black community. This repetitive cycle has to end otherwise there's gonna be more deaths, chaos, karma and trauma passed down to the next generation.
@@eekk6891fair to be enraged but your also literally hiding an onlyfans page and then worried about he saying you ain’t wifey material. Like thats a pretty big lie. Then your out here acting a fool infront of this crowd. So yeah, pot calling the kettle black
It’s makes no sense for a man to approach a woman who isn’t conservative then has the audacity to to get mad at her for not being conservative how she’s dressing being single shouldn’t change because you’re in a relationship
The fact HE KNOW she's a vixen and still continued to pursue, expecting her to change for him is low key a RED FLAG for me. Bein fakely oblivious to her lifestyle knowing she may not change, of course it'll be an issue for a family who's conservative. She looks like a sweetheart but if ppl show you who they are BELIEVE THEM. He prolly has to go above and beyond to prove she will stop that life and if not, maybe you're a PLACE HOLDER until she finds a man who has more to offer her.
@@IdontHOEnoMOEtf is u yapping bout she’s definitely not a placeholder she’s respectful and he knew from the very beginning she that she is a vixen if he can’t handle that it’s his problem
@@90sflower95he’s definitely using her as a place holder. He won’t even introduce her to his family. He is very rude though and should’ve left the hell alone.
@@90sflower95 I bet you’re not the sharpest tool in the shed. Aren’t you? You said she’s respectful but she came on stage screaming and yelling and demeaning her man…that is not respect. Yes, he knew that she was a vixen ( social media hoe) so the BEST she can become is a placeholder. If a woman needs to be handled the solution is abuse. He sees more in her which is the real problem.
There are so many red flags about this Loni guy that went unnoticed in this video! He doesn't want to introduce his girlfriend to his mom, he refused to unlock his phone but got angry about his gf doing the same, deletes all their pictures from his phone, and he doesn't even post her, all under the guise that he dislikes the way she dresses. He knew exactly what he would be getting when he met her, I honestly believe he is using the way she dresses as an excuse while he cheats on her to avoid being suspected.
She keeps saying he is insecure and he is but so is she. If she was secure in herself she would have left him for saying the things he said about her on that stage.
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 this is true! It’s levels to this because a younger woman sometimes you don’t even realize how you’re allowing yourself to be disrespected and what that says to other people about how they think you view yourself. Been there…..
I was feeling a little bad for her until she opened her mouth and spoke! Why can’t some women express themselves without cursing, screaming and slapping their hands. The problem should be how she acts not how she dresses!
She is 10 years younger than him , and that’s what these young girls out here doing now. And obviously he does it to if he wants to join her only fans and there’s nothing wrong with dancing as a video vixen they make money
If you claim that you love someone, you can't change them. They're who they are for a reason, they're independent and can make choices for their own. This is a major red flag if they don't want to introduce them to their mother. Which is why majority of relationships fail if they're trying to change them for the wife or husband material.
@@montreyharris8676 no shit. Cheaters are worth nothing. You lose them how you choose them. Everyone agrees with that. Look at how the world treats Khloe Kardashian for being with Tristan. Everyone calls her an idiot.
@@Merebaby72 The funniest part about all of you dust balls in the comments is that if this situation was the other way around, y’all would be telling her to “choose better”. In this situation, you’re singing a different tune thinking he’s justified in trying to change/control this grown-ass woman…smh 🤦🏾♀️
It’s funny that she’s calling him insecure while the whole time staying with a dude who don’t even see you as wifey material and don’t want to take you to his parents but somehow he’s the insecure one..Makes sense 😂
Yeah people can approach her the way you approached her but at the end of the day those people see her through a screen, you see her through your eyes.
Exactly! My bf works as a bartender and he’s constantly being hit on by women who are probably way more attractive than I am, but at the end of the day he chose ME as his partner and because of that, I put faith in him and with that faith he returns home to me and I to him.
If he doesn’t want her to meet his mother because of how he views her or is embarrassed by her looks then she’s not the one for him. Men kill me approaching women that are confident yet wants to hide her.
This is an insecure man. He met her in this line of work, and is now shaming her for the exact thing that he found attractive when they met. It’s absurd. If that’s not the type of woman he wants to be with, that’s on him, not her.
posting your body on the internet for money and not telling your partner until yall on a world wide show knowing he wont like it , is not direspectful ?
As a 43 yr old to a younger woman, Hope is what caused many of us to waste time!!!! You got it going on! Find the man that will stand up to your boundaries! Make sure you have boundaries first of all!! Edit: Let the man find you…
Its crazy how his energy changed up when KARAMO gave her advice. Then he yells you not going no where. Manipulation at its best, and I don’t like it honey grow a backbone and move on . Because if you meant anything to him, you would have been met his mom. 😢😮👊🏽
OMG I noticed The same thing!!!!.. Narcissist at it best!!! I'm So sure He Did Not introduce her to his Mom...I hope she reflected on what Karamo told her and she Bounced!!
Neither of them are wifey or husband material, certain things you just don’t do in a marriage they both seem super young minded & immature still doing worldly things. seems a lot of these young people want tradition but don’t want to give up non traditional things.
Karamo tends to side with women on any and everything she openly admitted to Karamo that she had a hidden Only fans didn’t even tell her man first then Karamo somehow tries to make the man feel guilty for something she did, his feelings are valid as well.
I said exactly the same thing. The guy mentioned he has borderlinr gotten into altercations because of how his woman dresses. As a woman, if you could help minimize the possible altercations, why wouldn't you?
And he refused to unlock his phone and is mad that the beautiful woman who works as a video vixen HE CHOSE, Didn't become ugly to the men around her, how TF are you blaming her for creeps catcalling her? Tell your peers to do better
@@MontanaB265 he met her at a video shoot... met her the way she is, why dont you try to find someone conservative then try to change her??? Are you going to find a "wifey material" that when you meet her you dont think she's "wifey" but you want to "change" her into one BE SO FR. Then get mad when she doesn't want to change what did you think would happen? 😭😭
She needs to drop him before he dims her light. He's an insecure little boy and it was extremely selfish of him to start a relationship with her knowing he would never introduce her to his family!
So how is someone insecure when they want their women to be respectful and conservative at certain times. I bet she insecure since people want to throw that word around. I guarantee he can say you fat or women coming to him all the time, she would be insecure so stop with the bs
@@soufeast_ant6469 he met her that way and now wants to change her. It's clear she has no intention on changing and he can either accept it or shut the hell up.
It is just sad how our society has gotten today how our relationship can just disrespect each other. That is not love that is just toxic. Both need to grow up.
She is so beautiful and so pretty and I just love how she carries herself because she loves herself. But the fact that he said “I knew my boy told me” means that your hb has your girls OF and you didn’t address it with her not him is kinda crazy to me 😂
So he knew she was a vixen and what type of environment she’s in but thought he could tell her to change careers? You already accepted who she is and what her job is. Now all of a sudden it’s a problem?
She is very disrespectful to him. The way she treats him by pointing her finger in his face and putting her hand up to his face is because she feels that it's ok because of the 10 yr age gap. I'm sorry but she mos Def isn't wifey material.
She’s absolutely wifey material to someone who respects her. He purposefully dated someone a decade younger than him in a career he obviously doesn’t respect. He’s an insecure, controlling creep.
tbonetmjful He is disrespecting her by not wanting to introduce her to his mom. He is also insecure, and controling. No one wants that in a relationship. Also to tell the girl you supposedly love your not wife material is insulting, and a door out for me.
He needs to find a woman who fits his personality and not a woman he "needs to change" 🙄 She is who she is🤷🏾♀ and she's entitled to her individuality.
He really approached her knowing that his Mom was conservative. Also, knowing that he actually couldn't handle being with a beautiful woman. Trying to change her from the first look is insane. She should leave.
She is not the type of girl you get into a commited relationship with . She is just for fun. Dude should've known that from the jump based on where he met her.
No, there is a lot more going on with her that doesn’t make her wifey material. Families aren’t raising their children to be spouses anymore. That’s just the reality of the times we live in. Being married to someone takes a mature and other’s centered mindset, because you have to mature to the point of healthy self-governance first before you can even think about being married.
Working in the sex industry doesn't make someone not marriage material. You need to understand that the ideal partner for someone doesn't look the same in every relationship. Some people like loud vibrant people who stand in their truth like she is. And what do you mean raising kids to be spouses? You truly lost me there because there was no mention of what type of parenting style she has.
@@vixen_0072 yes it does make them not marriage material. The fact that you said that tells me you don’t understand what marriage is. “Forsaking all others…” is part of the marital vows. Your body becomes the delight of your spouse and not for a viewing audience. Regarding raising children the single parent household is not the ideal for children. There’s a reason why emotionally and mentally mature married fathers and mothers make a better foundation for children in a nuclear family.
@@vixen_0072 Bro so u just supposed to marry someone who shows/ sells their body to people. So if your man or women had an only fans and didn't tell u or u found out or even sent their body to someone else in messages let's say... You would still marry them?
@@Watermelon_3ater You wouldn't marry them, right? But there are many people who marry models, video vixens, sex workers, etc. And her only fans is just her not including other people or trust it would have been brought up. And yes i would marry someone even if they were a sex worker. I'm not telling anyone that they specifically have to marry a woman like her but that some people would find her wifey material.
@@vixen_0072 Those most often are not genuine marriages. Name one sex worker who has had a long lasting successful marriage? When you get married it’s about commitment it takes a different mindset to be married. I said it before and I meant every word of it. Marriage is not for the immature, the trifling or the selfish or else it is bound to fail. PERIOD!
She’s very childish ..the whole “insecure” counting fingers/dancing thing was cringe..also berates him and can’t have a conversation without yelling. Definitely not wifey type
@tiamalone4701 right, but I'm more concerned about people excusing her bad body, stop the lies, we all know damned well we ain't seen no women this damn big in music videos, on the arms of no rapper, basketball players, football players, actors, I think this whole thing was cap to be on TV. You're going to have to show me the videos she's been in because I don't believe it.
@@marimarielove LOOOOL don’t kill me , we’ll tbh in this day and age everyone be thinking this is the desired shape, with this bbl culture and so called thickums culture. She’s defo on the chubby side no denying that.
She got rude, loud, and blatantly disrespectful multiple times- even cutting off the host when he was trying to mediate. I don’t knock her for her career or her style choices in her personal life , but i wish she got held accountable for her actions (lying, belittling, etc) more in this show. She’ll struggle obtaining any healthy longterm relationship like that Dude def is probably using her as a place holder or an ego boost which is unhealthy, but she exudes behaviors that show instability.
but isnt he the one that wants to be with her? He can easily find another woman that is beautiful and will fit his needs. He lusts after her but doesnt respect her.
If you haven't met his mother in two years, he's not serious about you. You should be engaged or married by now!!! This relationship is doomed. The way you two speak to each other shows mutual disrespect.
This is an internal problem that HE has. He is insecure. He needs therapy or a men's support group. His bigger problem is her nasty attitude and lies all that screaming & a secret only fans is too much.
The two of them need to go their separate ways, if he can't accept her in the light then he does not deserve her in the dark. I would love for her to get more emotionally intelligent.
Why did him not unlocking his phone get overlooked? I feel like he just got a free pass. Like she didn't want to unlock her phone and it got flipped on her smh
@artassassin935 nah, don't get me wrong. I understand that part. I just feel like her having an onlyfans was very skipped over, and we jumped straight back into him.
What were they supposed to do tho? Berate her for having it? It’s not ideal obviously and omission is a lie. But he literally interjected saying “I would’ve did it with you” and it became the dialogue about that bc how you gone say you would’ve done OF with her but you also were holding it over her head and using it to fuel your distrust? He could’ve easily mentioned it ahead of time. Also Karamo even mentioned that she recently got OF…he was acting like that long before she got it. It’s the principle.
No babes. Call it quits. That statement about not being introduced to his mom for me is a deal breaker. That man is not only insecure but highly disrespectful 😔.
It's about control. Some men hate to see a woman living openly confident and instead of going after a woman who already has what they want, they'd rather get one who's the exact opposite & change her
When you request Safaree and Erica Mena and Temu sends you this couple 😂😂😂. She’s annoying as hell. All that screaming, cursing, and LYING in his face definitely gave me pause.
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See, this is the problem. Instead of finding a woman he aligns with, he finds the woman he’s attracted to and tries to change her. It never works. He’s insecure and jealous of her. Girl RUN!!!
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If he wishes To change this woman for his mother, then even though he is right This woman isn’t the woman for him. She should stay and find a man who will be with her without trying to change her not because she’s in the wrong, but she’s simply isn’t the woman for him sometimes whom we are attracted to isn’t home we should end up with.
Men do this shit all the time. Like “I want a woman who will do this and that” okay then find that woman. Why are you picking a woman who was already a certain way and then trying to change her?
I definitely don’t think he’s jealous of her.
I love her confidence, but honey, I'm not being with anyone who's ashamed to introduce me to family, especially after 2 years.
True but simultaneously at this day and age meaning someone’s family means nothing
Confident? She isn’t confident or anything close to it
@@fighterforlife5284 according to who?
He needs to break up with her
Her confidence is full on display of ignorance and disrespect
Someone being attracted to you, isn’t them respecting you. Please learn the difference its very important.
Agreed but I don't trust a man who lacks confidence, you feel like you are the best man for your woman.
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Facts...
Right he showed how much he valued her by blasting her on national TV. She ain't worth a wooden nickel to him.
This is a good number of black men!! And women think that having a body and a man sleeping with, talking to means something. It means nothing!
The four black women that moved their head back at same time is sending me 😭😭 4:46
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Thank you for this! I rewatched it a million times. 😂
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This just goes to show that he’s subconsciously embarrassed and ashamed of her. He doesn’t have any respect for her. He even straight up said, “that’s how I got her,” so he thinks that she’s easy and will go with just anyone.
Truth! He only sees her as visual eye candy and he’s sexually attracted to her but he does not view her as wife material. He isn’t going to stay with her he’s going to end up marrying a woman who dresses modest, and is the opposite of her.
Exactly!!
So we are just glossing over the fact that he didn’t unlock his phone and then went on a tirade about refusing to unlock a phone is shady, when it was his girlfriend who refused? No! They should have refused to give him any information until he agreed to unlock his phone. That’s crazy!
Exactly. Literally got mad at her but didn't want his phone unlocked.
Right!! I was just waiting on Karamo to be like, hold up son!!
They literally did the same thing to one another!! Neither one wanted that heat ! They’re both the same !
THIS!!!!
Word!! That was totally dismissed.
This relationship is based on lust he knew she wasn’t wifey material when he first met her.
100% agree with @shaywilliam341.
Duh duh
That doesn't seem to be the exact case. He got attracted to the hot baddie and intends to wife her up but he's insecure about her. This is what a lot of ladies need to being a denial about. A man wants a woman to be just for him in everything. She's obviously very beautiful and he wants that for himself only.
That’s if he even has a romantic attraction to women and not just a sexual attraction. A lot of women are only sexually objectified by men.
For de userujrrur and I will be
Men always want a baddie but can’t handle what it comes with. These two are both insecure and immature and don’t need to be together. She’s lying and he’s shady.
The best take ive read 💯
she lyin abt what?
Thank you 👏🏽!! I said the same. You dont love that man if you out here showing ya snackbox to the world. He tryna turn a hoe into a houswife.. a ghetto mess 😂
Just a question, what is baddie about her. She's about 50/60 lbs overweight and I've never seen women her size in music videos, am I missing something
@@marimarieloveThat's just your opinion, she's pretty, thick & confident. It's plenty guys out here who would prolly spoil her & eat her 🍑
She'll learn the hard way. Never ignore the signs, wishing her the best
He’s the type.. too insecure to keep her.. will get a woman his family respects, and then CHEAT on her with a “Vixen”
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Exactly.
I've seen this playout for 25 years non stop, especially in the black community. This repetitive cycle has to end otherwise there's gonna be more deaths, chaos, karma and trauma passed down to the next generation.
How the hell is he upset about her not unlocking her phone when he literally refused?? He’s too spicy for me.
Makes no sense
she was upset about that too tho
@@amanirenee3595 lol I’m aware she said something. He still shouldn’t have been upset though.
@@RosalynnAnne is 609@kceuvr I have to h know about egg hunt
Black man are going.
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She called him verbally abusive, but she was the one yelling, over talking him, cursing, calling him names, and putting her hands in his face.
Most manipulators and abusive people don’t show their truly bad behavior in public. She’s being honest and authentic and he was holding back.
@@TheeOriginalLolo yeah I’m aware of that. However, I feel like the pot is calling the kettle black in this case. Just going based off what I see.
And for her to say you better sit your ass down. Umm most men would have knocked her down.
you wouldn’t be enraged if your man of 2 years didn’t want to marry you or let you meet his mother?
@@eekk6891fair to be enraged but your also literally hiding an onlyfans page and then worried about he saying you ain’t wifey material. Like thats a pretty big lie. Then your out here acting a fool infront of this crowd. So yeah, pot calling the kettle black
When she came out acting like that she proved exactly why he can't bring her to momma 😂
Absolutely!!!!
Exactly!
If they ever have a child together, that lisp gone be crazy
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I don't think it's the way she dresses....I think it's the way she acts.
Especially the twerking 👀
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So she's supposed to stand still and not smile like a cardboard cut out? Y'all need to come to reality
She doesn't act in anyway
It's both
It’s makes no sense for a man to approach a woman who isn’t conservative then has the audacity to to get mad at her for not being conservative how she’s dressing being single shouldn’t change because you’re in a relationship
Unless he's looking for fun
@@stonemukif you claim to be conservative and or religious then why are you being promiscuous and going to women “for fun”
It’s pretty obvious he’s not taking her serious. He’s getting what he wants out of her and he doesn’t see her as anything more.
@@Jessthebesthen he should leave
Facts he just wanted to change her. Terrible
At the end of the day, he’s getting what he wants out of this relationship and she isn’t. She should have enough self respect to walk away.
No she should have enough self respect to not show her cat on OF.
@@MrNick578 That too. She’s disrespecting herself and she’s also allowing him to disrespect her.
Lmfao exactly
Who told u she isn't getting what she wants, she won't go near that man if she isn't enjoying his 💰 so stop the 🧢
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She proved his point when she started with the insecure dance.
Exactly
All I'm going to say is beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Honestly, truly!
The fact HE KNOW she's a vixen and still continued to pursue, expecting her to change for him is low key a RED FLAG for me. Bein fakely oblivious to her lifestyle knowing she may not change, of course it'll be an issue for a family who's conservative.
She looks like a sweetheart but if ppl show you who they are BELIEVE THEM. He prolly has to go above and beyond to prove she will stop that life and if not, maybe you're a PLACE HOLDER until she finds a man who has more to offer her.
She’s a placeholder. And she’s disrespectful. She’s not suitable for public respect and it affects him cause he can’t properly protect her.
@@IdontHOEnoMOEtf is u yapping bout she’s definitely not a placeholder she’s respectful and he knew from the very beginning she that she is a vixen if he can’t handle that it’s his problem
@@90sflower95he’s definitely using her as a place holder. He won’t even introduce her to his family. He is very rude though and should’ve left the hell alone.
@@90sflower95 I bet you’re not the sharpest tool in the shed. Aren’t you? You said she’s respectful but she came on stage screaming and yelling and demeaning her man…that is not respect. Yes, he knew that she was a vixen ( social media hoe) so the BEST she can become is a placeholder. If a woman needs to be handled the solution is abuse. He sees more in her which is the real problem.
Def a high key red flag
There are so many red flags about this Loni guy that went unnoticed in this video! He doesn't want to introduce his girlfriend to his mom, he refused to unlock his phone but got angry about his gf doing the same, deletes all their pictures from his phone, and he doesn't even post her, all under the guise that he dislikes the way she dresses. He knew exactly what he would be getting when he met her, I honestly believe he is using the way she dresses as an excuse while he cheats on her to avoid being suspected.
My thought exactly well said
She keeps saying he is insecure and he is but so is she. If she was secure in herself she would have left him for saying the things he said about her on that stage.
She's not insecure she's just not that knowledgeable about toxic men, shes still young and I'm sure this experience taught her a lot
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 this is true! It’s levels to this because a younger woman sometimes you don’t even realize how you’re allowing yourself to be disrespected and what that says to other people about how they think you view yourself. Been there…..
And if she hasn’t met his mother and it’s been two years - why is she still with him? He’s showing her who he is
this the comment the both insecure
I can't believe they are telling her she looks good. Where?!
That face? That surgery? She is insecure.
I was feeling a little bad for her until she opened her mouth and spoke! Why can’t some women express themselves without cursing, screaming and slapping their hands. The problem should be how she acts not how she dresses!
I feel the same way she's so loud .
So loud and rude! Not attractive at all!
It’s so many people validating her actions 😂
That's the way of world.. these days
I agree she is to immature
She is 10 years younger than him , and that’s what these young girls out here doing now. And obviously he does it to if he wants to join her only fans and there’s nothing wrong with dancing as a video vixen they make money
This society is messed up
What?!? She is young that man is old asf he should be dating his age but y’all will find any way to blame a woman
If you claim that you love someone, you can't change them. They're who they are for a reason, they're independent and can make choices for their own. This is a major red flag if they don't want to introduce them to their mother. Which is why majority of relationships fail if they're trying to change them for the wife or husband material.
So if a woman gets involved with a man who is a cheater, this same concept applies, RIGHT?
@@montreyharris8676yes
@@montreyharris8676 no shit. Cheaters are worth nothing. You lose them how you choose them. Everyone agrees with that. Look at how the world treats Khloe Kardashian for being with Tristan. Everyone calls her an idiot.
If you can’t handle all that don’t go for all that 🤷🏽♀️ simple
No man is ever going to take her seriously😂
@@Merebaby72 The funniest part about all of you dust balls in the comments is that if this situation was the other way around, y’all would be telling her to “choose better”. In this situation, you’re singing a different tune thinking he’s justified in trying to change/control this grown-ass woman…smh 🤦🏾♀️
@@BriLaDivina98 you’re speaking for yourself I don’t defend for women I don’t know🤣
@@Merebaby72say no insecure man. She’s attractive and self-sufficient I see zero issues. 🤣
For real though!!
They need to go their separate ways!
It’s funny that she’s calling him insecure while the whole time staying with a dude who don’t even see you as wifey material and don’t want to take you to his parents but somehow he’s the insecure one..Makes sense 😂
She keeps saying he insecure, but she insecure too. If you gotta show your butt all the time it’s something wrong with you.
Period
She dresses like that because that's part of her job. She's not doing it to find someone, she's doing it to survive.
I love how karamo sits there comfortably and listens
Yeah people can approach her the way you approached her but at the end of the day those people see her through a screen, you see her through your eyes.
PREACH!
Exactly! My bf works as a bartender and he’s constantly being hit on by women who are probably way more attractive than I am, but at the end of the day he chose ME as his partner and because of that, I put faith in him and with that faith he returns home to me and I to him.
These modern women are out of control; yelling to men… smh
His mind is telling him she a whore and he is ignoring it.HE IS RIGHT
@@Adrienne-wv7qo “modern?”
the angry demographic bashing her in the comments when he’s the one who chose to date someone who’s constantly in the spotlight.
they’re so bitter it’s insane lol
@@crystalbarbiexoyou’re the battle of the mid girl😂😂😂
@@crystalbarbiexoBitter for what exactly? Over what ? Why is it any time people have different opinions it’s considered hating or whatever??
No one is bitter lol We’re all just here like ummm, are we not gunna address her CLEAR red flags??
so he just supposed to put up with his girlfriend posting her naked body on the internet for money walking around half naked
4:45 is my favorite 🤣🤣🤣the way they all reacted the same way HAHAHA
Bending boundaries very strong phrase. I love the way he put that
If he doesn’t want her to meet his mother because of how he views her or is embarrassed by her looks then she’s not the one for him. Men kill me approaching women that are confident yet wants to hide her.
Love you and b da Way and ew sdu bdeiheeveujerusiu j4 and I
Shes so fun and full of energy - DO NOT LET MEN DRAIN YOUR ENERGY WITH FOOLISHNESS LIKE THIS! YOU ARE YOUNG ONCE!
What energy she got she draining.
She got street-energy😒
thot energy
for him to call her suspect for not unlocking her phone is crazzzzzy considering he didn’t unlock his either lmao
From the jump when she came out yelling they are toxic
A wife doesn't dress like the way that she does, nor has an OnlyFans.
Karamo face after bf said we could’ve been together on OF, 🤣🤣😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is an insecure man. He met her in this line of work, and is now shaming her for the exact thing that he found attractive when they met. It’s absurd. If that’s not the type of woman he wants to be with, that’s on him, not her.
Lol.
why are you not telling this women to respect her relationship
@@MontanaB265 she’s done nothing to disrespect her relationship
posting your body on the internet for money and not telling your partner until yall on a world wide show knowing he wont like it , is not direspectful ?
He didn't know she was doing it. That's not insecure on his part. She's Trifling, for doing it and hiding it. Let loud mouth go .
He don’t deserve her at all
He doesn’t. He should aim for better. She’s a side chick to a placeholder at best.
@@IdontHOEnoMOEat best? Y do you guys all repeat the same ol same ol words???😒
@@IdontHOEnoMOEand do you know how many side chicks get wifed up? TONS. LOL.
@IdontHOEnoMOE have to agree there. Unpopular opinion but shes for the streets 🎉🎉🎉
@@QuiteTheLady the same reason why black women champion every black woman regardless of behavior, character, and morals.
If you are not okay with their occupation and what they do, do not be with them. This is why yall be ending up in the situations that you're in now
You see how she came out? That’s the NUMBER ONE reason she isn’t wifey material and EXACTLY why she doesn’t get introduced to mommy
Don’t date a baddie if you can’t handle a baddie…like insecure man
those are the type of women my mama told me to stay away from
I’m not trying to be rude but you misspelled fatty. I’m not participating in tomfoolery of calling all women baddies.
Do rt gheejtvfvrhd Be there
That's not a baddie, that's a 304
😂@@silasmitchell7284
A lot of guys do not realize having a relationship with a woman like this has an ending. It doesn’t make her a bad person but his gf is a placeholder.
This Man Needs To Run! He Will Get Hurt Because Of Her! Exposing Her Body To Everyone! Momma Is right No Class!😮
@@celestecruthird7842 like I said a placeholder at best or seasonal late night tip!
@@celestecruthird7842baby the only one with no class is that boy
@@celestecruthird7842so you’re judging her over her clothing ?
@@KillaG3590 it’s more than clothing.
As a 43 yr old to a younger woman, Hope is what caused many of us to waste time!!!! You got it going on! Find the man that will stand up to your boundaries! Make sure you have boundaries first of all!!
Edit: Let the man find you…
I second this!!
what boundaries does she have showing her body for money
karmo faces will also kill me!!😭the way his face was when the guy said “ we could be doing stuff together on only”
always *
Its crazy how his energy changed up when KARAMO gave her advice. Then he yells you not going no where. Manipulation at its best, and I don’t like it honey grow a backbone and move on . Because if you meant anything to him, you would have been met his mom.
😢😮👊🏽
OMG I noticed The same thing!!!!..
Narcissist at it best!!!
I'm So sure He Did Not introduce her to his Mom...I hope she reflected on what Karamo told her and she Bounced!!
10:31 😂😂😂😂"amen hallelujah bless the lord and it AINT SUNDAYY gott mee dyingg of laughterr😂😂❤❤❤
They shouldn’t be together. Sexually attraction isn’t enough to hold a relationship together.
Rite , have your lil fling and keep it moving 😂
Neither of them are wifey or husband material, certain things you just don’t do in a marriage they both seem super young minded & immature still doing worldly things. seems a lot of these young people want tradition but don’t want to give up non traditional things.
Preach preach preach
Karamo tends to side with women on any and everything she openly admitted to Karamo that she had a hidden Only fans didn’t even tell her man first then Karamo somehow tries to make the man feel guilty for something she did, his feelings are valid as well.
THANK YOU!
A very good point there.
I said exactly the same thing. The guy mentioned he has borderlinr gotten into altercations because of how his woman dresses. As a woman, if you could help minimize the possible altercations, why wouldn't you?
And he refused to unlock his phone and is mad that the beautiful woman who works as a video vixen HE CHOSE, Didn't become ugly to the men around her, how TF are you blaming her for creeps catcalling her? Tell your peers to do better
Women stick together that's why he sides with them
The 3 ladies reaction. At the same time. 😂😂😂
It don’t take a man more than a year to know if he wants to marry you 🤷🏽♀️
100%
Rite on✊🏽
6 months.
Maaannnnn if you feel this much stress and insecurities.
Leave her alone!
Move on find someone lady that fit's you, cha 😊🙄
why not tell the lady act wifey material if you want this relationship so bad tf
@@MontanaB265 he met her at a video shoot... met her the way she is, why dont you try to find someone conservative then try to change her??? Are you going to find a "wifey material" that when you meet her you dont think she's "wifey" but you want to "change" her into one BE SO FR. Then get mad when she doesn't want to change what did you think would happen? 😭😭
She needs to drop him before he dims her light. He's an insecure little boy and it was extremely selfish of him to start a relationship with her knowing he would never introduce her to his family!
What light 😢
@@stonemuka bright light that she has
@@artassassin935
Where?
Only Fans?
So how is someone insecure when they want their women to be respectful and conservative at certain times. I bet she insecure since people want to throw that word around. I guarantee he can say you fat or women coming to him all the time, she would be insecure so stop with the bs
@@soufeast_ant6469 he met her that way and now wants to change her. It's clear she has no intention on changing and he can either accept it or shut the hell up.
It is just sad how our society has gotten today how our relationship can just disrespect each other. That is not love that is just toxic. Both need to grow up.
Why do y’all let these minority toxic relationships represent the majority healthy ones.. I’ll never understand it.
@@vibezwithyangyin9486 I would love to live where you are. Every mother I met was single
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecake😂😂😂😂😂 you need to walk so other places 🎉
@@QueenStizzle I have walked that’s why I say it. Love yourself, and then you can love others. I decide what I let in my life.
The insecure dance 😅😂😂😂😂
She’s not a wife material
Brother run for your life . She’s very disrespectful to you and absolutely not a wife material
She is so beautiful and so pretty and I just love how she carries herself because she loves herself. But the fact that he said “I knew my boy told me” means that your hb has your girls OF and you didn’t address it with her not him is kinda crazy to me 😂
How you know he didn’t address him tho ? I get your point I’m just saying
Probable raised by a single mother and think trashy women are acceptable.
So he knew she was a vixen and what type of environment she’s in but thought he could tell her to change careers? You already accepted who she is and what her job is. Now all of a sudden it’s a problem?
What is a vixen?
She is very disrespectful to him. The way she treats him by pointing her finger in his face and putting her hand up to his face is because she feels that it's ok because of the 10 yr age gap. I'm sorry but she mos Def isn't wifey material.
Shut up bird
She’s absolutely wifey material to someone who respects her. He purposefully dated someone a decade younger than him in a career he obviously doesn’t respect. He’s an insecure, controlling creep.
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tbonetmjful He is disrespecting her by not wanting to introduce her to his mom. He is also insecure, and controling. No one wants that in a relationship. Also to tell the girl you supposedly love your not wife material is insulting, and a door out for me.
He needs to find a woman who fits his personality and not a woman he "needs to change" 🙄 She is who she is🤷🏾♀ and she's entitled to her individuality.
He really approached her knowing that his Mom was conservative. Also, knowing that he actually couldn't handle being with a beautiful woman. Trying to change her from the first look is insane. She should leave.
She is not the type of girl you get into a commited relationship with . She is just for fun. Dude should've known that from the jump based on where he met her.
He did ,that’s y he didn’t bring her to moms
Absolutely 💯
Exactly,she is a good time girl not a wifey
The black women in the crowd’s reactions are KILLING me because I reacted the exact same way 😂😂😂 I think it was 4:50
Edit 4:46
Hahhaha that do be us 😂😂😂
No, there is a lot more going on with her that doesn’t make her wifey material. Families aren’t raising their children to be spouses anymore. That’s just the reality of the times we live in. Being married to someone takes a mature and other’s centered mindset, because you have to mature to the point of healthy self-governance first before you can even think about being married.
Working in the sex industry doesn't make someone not marriage material. You need to understand that the ideal partner for someone doesn't look the same in every relationship. Some people like loud vibrant people who stand in their truth like she is. And what do you mean raising kids to be spouses? You truly lost me there because there was no mention of what type of parenting style she has.
@@vixen_0072 yes it does make them not marriage material. The fact that you said that tells me you don’t understand what marriage is. “Forsaking all others…” is part of the marital vows. Your body becomes the delight of your spouse and not for a viewing audience.
Regarding raising children the single parent household is not the ideal for children. There’s a reason why emotionally and mentally mature married fathers and mothers make a better foundation for children in a nuclear family.
@@vixen_0072
Bro so u just supposed to marry someone who shows/ sells their body to people. So if your man or women had an only fans and didn't tell u or u found out or even sent their body to someone else in messages let's say... You would still marry them?
@@Watermelon_3ater You wouldn't marry them, right? But there are many people who marry models, video vixens, sex workers, etc. And her only fans is just her not including other people or trust it would have been brought up. And yes i would marry someone even if they were a sex worker. I'm not telling anyone that they specifically have to marry a woman like her but that some people would find her wifey material.
@@vixen_0072 Those most often are not genuine marriages. Name one sex worker who has had a long lasting successful marriage? When you get married it’s about commitment it takes a different mindset to be married. I said it before and I meant every word of it. Marriage is not for the immature, the trifling or the selfish or else it is bound to fail. PERIOD!
I like that Karamo used the statement “Future vs Right now”
“I just thed what I thed, I just thed what I thed!” 😂 stop
She needs to leave him alone. Him being verbally abusive to her is not good at all.
She’s very childish ..the whole “insecure” counting fingers/dancing thing was cringe..also berates him and can’t have a conversation without yelling. Definitely not wifey type
Big facts, finally someone not excusing her bad behaviour.
@tiamalone4701 right, but I'm more concerned about people excusing her bad body, stop the lies, we all know damned well we ain't seen no women this damn big in music videos, on the arms of no rapper, basketball players, football players, actors, I think this whole thing was cap to be on TV. You're going to have to show me the videos she's been in because I don't believe it.
@@marimarielove LOOOOL don’t kill me , we’ll tbh in this day and age everyone be thinking this is the desired shape, with this bbl culture and so called thickums culture. She’s defo on the chubby side no denying that.
@@marimarielove I didn’t even think of that , you’re right . What video was she in ?
I thought it was just me. It was sooo cringe
She got rude, loud, and blatantly disrespectful multiple times- even cutting off the host when he was trying to mediate.
I don’t knock her for her career or her style choices in her personal life , but i wish she got held accountable for her actions (lying, belittling, etc) more in this show. She’ll struggle obtaining any healthy longterm relationship like that
Dude def is probably using her as a place holder or an ego boost which is unhealthy, but she exudes behaviors that show instability.
but isnt he the one that wants to be with her? He can easily find another woman that is beautiful and will fit his needs. He lusts after her but doesnt respect her.
@@jannieorange6110 agreed; they want to be with each other
But he got held accountable and listened
Exactly.
And this type of behavior is acceptable when women do it. Sad society man. People fear to hold women accountable for their rotten behaviors
If you haven't met his mother in two years, he's not serious about you. You should be engaged or married by now!!! This relationship is doomed. The way you two speak to each other shows mutual disrespect.
Attraction and compatability are two different factors. They're attached but shouldn't be together. His values wouldn't change neither will hers.
Lol..The nooky drove him crazy!! 🤣
He is very insecure, she should leave him ASAP stop wasting time
Absolutely he screams broke and insecure and their interaction seems toxic.
Lol he’s not very insecure. He just has the wrong expectations for the wrong girl.
How you know he broke? 😂 sounds personal tho @@antoinettejohnson2188
@@antoinettejohnson2188 you luck some basic English understanding skills, she said he spoils her, how can one spoil another and they're broke!
He's not confident enough to go out with her
I’m with the guy- it’s simple, he likes her as his girlfriend but not his wife. He is having fun.
He will marry a conservative girl and still cheat with her …
It doesn’t look fun
Can you really call it insecurity when you’ve been together for 2 years and she’s starts an onlyfans behind your back?
Everybody face was the same at 4:46 😂😂😂
A baddie? She looks regular
If she's regular what are you? 💀
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413she’s only lightskin
Ain't none wrong with being regular, but she definitely looks good
I agree 😂
They call anything mixed race light skin looking a “baddie” 😂. Even if they are subpar, fat, obese, regular looking, etc 🤷🏾♀️
Karamo calling this a “safe space” has launched this show into comedy of the year contender
It is though? you get radicalized therapy in exchange for all of your woes to be put on display
Its clear this is his first baddie lol key from this: Ladies do not be his first baddie !
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
4:44 their reactions are A MOOD CAUSE I HAD THE SAME REACTION
Karamo faces be killing me 😩😂😂🤦🏽♀️
This is an internal problem that HE has. He is insecure. He needs therapy or a men's support group. His bigger problem is her nasty attitude and lies all that screaming & a secret only fans is too much.
I get that but did u not see him refusing to unlock his phone at least she admitted that she had a of and he already knew about it
A man who loves you for who you're will stand by you for who are, nothing less. There is no trivialising such.
The two of them need to go their separate ways, if he can't accept her in the light then he does not deserve her in the dark.
I would love for her to get more emotionally intelligent.
He's acting holy and loving her body at the same time. 😂😂😂😂😂
4:46 The simultaneous look of disgust 😂😂
How he get mad at her for not unlocking her phone but he ain't unlock his🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Why did him not unlocking his phone get overlooked? I feel like he just got a free pass. Like she didn't want to unlock her phone and it got flipped on her smh
Crazy how her having an onlyfans got flipped into him being manipulative 😂😂
That's the thing she was strong enough to admit it and he refused to unlock his phone
@artassassin935 nah, don't get me wrong. I understand that part. I just feel like her having an onlyfans was very skipped over, and we jumped straight back into him.
What were they supposed to do tho? Berate her for having it? It’s not ideal obviously and omission is a lie. But he literally interjected saying “I would’ve did it with you” and it became the dialogue about that bc how you gone say you would’ve done OF with her but you also were holding it over her head and using it to fuel your distrust? He could’ve easily mentioned it ahead of time. Also Karamo even mentioned that she recently got OF…he was acting like that long before she got it. It’s the principle.
Exactly
The way they both refused to unlock the phone 🤣😂😂😂
No babes. Call it quits. That statement about not being introduced to his mom for me is a deal breaker.
That man is not only insecure but highly disrespectful 😔.
My thing is why did he even get with her in the first place?
It's about control. Some men hate to see a woman living openly confident and instead of going after a woman who already has what they want, they'd rather get one who's the exact opposite & change her
To have fun
This relationship should end now,
Thank you for this comment. Karamo could have said the two should break up.
There are attractive women out there who have moral values. He needs to go get one of them. Don't string her along!
Man, the way she came on that stage, putting her hands in your face, telling you to shut up and sit down.......Run man Run!!!!
He was over talking her and not letting her speak.
@@LarennPBel Uh no, not surprising you see it that way. though.........SMH
He's cheating anyway.
@@angelacleveland75 You know this how??
When you request Safaree and Erica Mena and Temu sends you this couple 😂😂😂. She’s annoying as hell. All that screaming, cursing, and LYING in his face definitely gave me pause.