How to deal with nosy people

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024
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  • @soulfulishgirl816
    @soulfulishgirl816 7 лет назад +220

    What irritates me the most about nosey people is the fact that they're to stupid to know when they're over stepping a boundary...being disrespectful by asking inappropriate questions.
    I have zero patience for that type of ignorance.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 лет назад +18

      soulfish girl. I understand where you coming from. thank you so much for your comment peace. and blessings to you.

    • @gjjhwanderer6391
      @gjjhwanderer6391 5 лет назад +10

      My co-workers keep asking me how much money I make. Because I'm Part time and they are full time. I keep telling them in a nice way to stop but they won't listen to me. How can I tell them to stop in a firm way but not rude?

    • @Ruth-vy1qj
      @Ruth-vy1qj 5 лет назад +1

      GJJH Wanderer What kind of place u work at? You might have to ask the supervisor they to nosy. Ask them what ur SSN number, how much is ur rent, etc . Sorry to said no more Mrs Nice girl because u said they want stop. It time to go up level. Some people was raise being nosy adults that normally for them. When u see they don’t like it tell her just like u don’t like it stay out of my business. U got a lot gossip people at ur job.

    • @michaelusi7117
      @michaelusi7117 5 лет назад

      @@Ruth-vy1qj most of them are outgoing person

    • @chrissmolik8091
      @chrissmolik8091 5 лет назад +4

      @@TylerJTI Are nosy people considered to be bossy? Just wondering. Thanks

  • @HelloKitty-sq2jo
    @HelloKitty-sq2jo 6 лет назад +212

    Nosy people give of the impression that their trying to help u but really there plotting against u

    • @Dana_inc
      @Dana_inc 6 лет назад +16

      Hello Kitty yes! And come around and be nice to fool you.

    • @ci.ci.1998
      @ci.ci.1998 5 лет назад +4

      Hello Kitty Omg! Yess!

    • @violet482
      @violet482 5 лет назад +5

      Omfg yeeeessssss

    • @2bethankful48
      @2bethankful48 4 года назад +4

      Amen too that!

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 3 года назад +13

      Exactly, they are often trying to be friendly and nice to manipulate you

  • @vanessalynn4064
    @vanessalynn4064 5 лет назад +94

    I’m glad I’m not the only one who gets annoyed by them.

  • @cliffimages1785
    @cliffimages1785 7 лет назад +91

    Nosy people are irritating, and ignorant. Great advise, Tyler.

    • @josephdouglas7765
      @josephdouglas7765 Год назад +3

      They have no life

    • @josephdouglas7765
      @josephdouglas7765 Год назад +4

      Today my white old neighbor ask me what you're drinking In the cup I said shit 👀

  • @tarasowell2656
    @tarasowell2656 6 лет назад +63

    Hi Tyler, nosey people don't have no life to much time on they hand.Instead of minding other people business they missing out on there own business.There miserable people.

  • @klueboy131
    @klueboy131 5 лет назад +50

    I like to say to nosey people.. “what’s the long number on your debit card, and the last 4 digits on the back? They don’t say anything else after hearing that. Works a treat.
    Good talk

  • @KL-is3op
    @KL-is3op 4 года назад +62

    When someone ask you a nosey question just ask them " why do you want to know?" That usually will shut them up quickly. I also like the uncomfortable feeling they get with the unexpected question.

    • @BigBishop609
      @BigBishop609 3 года назад +8

      My Dad taught me that response too 👍

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 года назад +7

      My mother taught me that reply when I was in my teens.

    • @medievalknievel
      @medievalknievel 3 месяца назад

      No one likes a nosy rosy….. always shut people down real quick lol especially in line at Walmart lol

  • @victoriacampbell4412
    @victoriacampbell4412 7 лет назад +91

    Can't stand it when people ask me where I live and what I dooooooo

  • @nikkinichole1505
    @nikkinichole1505 5 лет назад +51

    The nosiest people ask you questions but don't want you to ask them any

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 3 года назад +11

      exactly it is all one sided, and then they will tell all the other neighbours your misfortune and then they will target you for all sorts of reasons

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 года назад +5

      Exactly! They have a double standard.

    • @josephdouglas7765
      @josephdouglas7765 Год назад +2

      Yeah I have two nosey neighbors ask me who drop you off in that car me I said your mama bitch 🥃

    • @btytwwts
      @btytwwts 5 месяцев назад +4

      It's funny because I looked this up because my grandmother is the nosy person in question, but the thing is she tells me a lot about what's going on in her personal life too, I honestly just wish that she would leave me be and stop trying to talk to me every five minutes, she talks a lot and repeats what she already said too, but she's at the age so I guess she'll never really understand

  • @Star-vg7ix
    @Star-vg7ix Год назад +9

    Someone from my past was brillant at answering these questions. He would usually answer "why?" to every question, and then again "why"? Hhehehhehe loved it.

  • @pinkgypsytees
    @pinkgypsytees 6 лет назад +41

    None of your DAM business, it ain't none of your business...LOL...TELL EM TYLER! LOL..

  • @Lovely_Diva
    @Lovely_Diva 5 лет назад +25

    Nosy people are the reason why Iam PRIVATE. I refuse to tell my business to anyone. Nosy people are gossips. If people attempt to get in my business I let em know it's not up for discussion. Or if its mild I give them a vague answer that they cant run and spread rumors with.

  • @thejessman1460
    @thejessman1460 3 года назад +13

    Ill intentions seem to be the motivation. No respect for boundaries or basic human rights for privacy. Lazy and manipulative. Unsettling. Thanks for the insight.

  • @MelModica
    @MelModica 5 лет назад +17

    Thank you for ideas to deal with these nosy people! I cant stand obnoxious rude nosy people!!! I treat people with respect and don't intrude on others life!!! My brothers friend was at my house the other day snooping around my house and going through my trash and I swear to God he was snooping in my bathroom!!!! He then had the nerve to try to invite himself over my house the next day to do yard work that I never asked him to do!!! I am furious that people think they can invade peoples privacy!!!

  • @1thankful
    @1thankful 6 лет назад +28

    If someone wants to get nosey with me ....i feel they just bought themselves a ticket to hell 🙄

  • @bijou121382
    @bijou121382 5 лет назад +49

    I hate all questions... Honestly I'm getting to the point that I don't want to communicate with most ppl... I don't care what they got going on and I'm always taken back by the fact that they even care to ask my personal business in the first place...😑

    • @karinam4115
      @karinam4115 5 лет назад +6

      bijou fofana feel the same. Now I want to be more in solitude

    • @bijou121382
      @bijou121382 5 лет назад +5

      @@karinam4115 I have mastered creating the solitude I desire while having selective/limited contact with any/all in my life... I don't care who that somebody is. Their comfort NEVER overrides my personal comfort...

  • @beaulieuc8910
    @beaulieuc8910 3 года назад +20

    The thing is there are so many people who are untrustworthy and will use your information to their advantage.

    • @sntmdsa3628
      @sntmdsa3628 7 месяцев назад +1

      You don’t have to say all that in a robotic voice. When they ask nosey questions just say “unhuh” and don’t even look at them. Works like a charm. Eveytime some ask you a personal nosey question that you don’t feel like answering just say “unhuh” can keep it pushing

  • @ChainsTheChef888
    @ChainsTheChef888 Месяц назад +1

    You got passion and I appreciate your courage to speak on these topics because thanks to you I dodged some toxic modafoks

  • @Voldemort318
    @Voldemort318 6 лет назад +40

    Man you are the greatest on preaching and being funny at the same time always lighting me up keep up the great work brother

  • @lucillesamuel7331
    @lucillesamuel7331 7 лет назад +20

    nosy people want to be in your business because they have know of there on .so that's why they nosy about your business.nosy need to take 6months to mind there own business and leave other people business alone.great video Tyler.✌✌✌✌✌

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 лет назад +4

      Lucille Samuel. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @starkid77
    @starkid77 7 лет назад +22

    Thank you this was exactly what I've been looking for and for a very long time. It took me getting older, smarter, angrier, and too tired of some of the same people casually asking stuff they have no business knowing. I realized these types of people need to not only be called on their inappropriate behavior but straight up hung out to dry by embarrassing them. No one owes anyone personal info about their lives, not even family who may think they have the right when they don't. It feels good to not only be as serious as I need to be and smile only when I feel like it, but putting people tactfully in their place, assertively, and sweetly can be a joy if it's effective and and reduces stress knowing that those nosy people are taking it somewhere else because we let them know they won't be getting their thirsty, desperate gossip from me or my life. Thanks for the help to be more assertive.

  • @sisSonders
    @sisSonders 5 лет назад +13

    It sucks because, I work close to a nosy coworker... And it makes me uncomfortable. Trying to keep it courteous though.

  • @Thecrowseye
    @Thecrowseye Год назад +4

    I work with the ultimate nosey Parker, liar and gossiping backstabber. Always asking did I meet a girlfriend? Wanting to see pictures of my female friends. I don’t know how to answer it.

  • @MJay3060
    @MJay3060 2 года назад +8

    The nosy type I'm dealing with is the one that the more you stray away from the more it gets interpreted as "please keep asking me more questions and talk to me more" for some reason. I got to the point where I just completely ignored their presence. Exhaustion of teaching the untaughtable is unbearable.

  • @RobynR000
    @RobynR000 6 лет назад +19

    You keep it so Real. Love it. So grateful to have found your channel. Dealing with family looking at my bank receipts asking me about my MONEY! Absolutely insane. I'm a grown woman.

    • @asiaparks7158
      @asiaparks7158 2 года назад

      💯💯💯💯💯they want to devour u the devil comes to steal kill and destroy same here the devil uses them I'm glad there permanently out of my life

  • @stealthone6080
    @stealthone6080 5 лет назад +13

    Wow u on point brother..Stay sharp

  • @mk82snakeye8
    @mk82snakeye8 3 года назад +6

    It's not a matter of if, but when. The moment they don't get what they want, you will see. Better still, just don't bother with the risk. Kudos Tyler.

  • @iwapelemovement
    @iwapelemovement 7 лет назад +26

    You’re on point my brother. You had me laughing about the nosy 🐜 .

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 лет назад +4

      tribal unity organization.you have great content thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

    • @iwapelemovement
      @iwapelemovement 7 лет назад +2

      Tyler JTI you’re welcome brother. Likewise. What you say is relevant and realistic.

  • @codelicious6590
    @codelicious6590 5 лет назад +16

    Nosy people that hide the fact they are nosy is more irritating than anything, at least someone that's obviously nosy you can say straight up, mind your own damn biz, but when they're nosy on the dl you have to leave them notes😂

  • @ahunter9503
    @ahunter9503 4 года назад +8

    Why do nosey people exist? THIS IS A GREAT UPLOAD...Thank you so much Tyler JTI.

  • @margaretcooper797
    @margaretcooper797 5 лет назад +13

    People who give you the third degree when you don’t immediately return their phone calls or texts.

  • @josephdouglas7765
    @josephdouglas7765 Год назад +4

    Extra facts 💯

  • @niecys
    @niecys 6 лет назад +11

    Nice Strategy you've suggested. I'm going to use this tactic at work!

  • @jacquelinemanzano9328
    @jacquelinemanzano9328 5 лет назад +18

    This is interesting, because intrusive people are everywhere! I happen to live in a town where gossip travels at the speed of light. My favorite response to intrusive people is as follows; " I am so sorry, I realize you may be asking a simple question, but with all due respect, I take my right to privacy very seriously and you should do the same.

  • @donnah.3278
    @donnah.3278 Год назад +1

    I'm dealing with this for the last several years .Thank you for posting this. I literally live by neighbors from H*ll

  • @knowbodiesfull5768
    @knowbodiesfull5768 7 месяцев назад +2

    Nosy person : "What's your sign?"
    Me : " Do Not Enter."

  • @HealingThroughInspiration
    @HealingThroughInspiration 7 лет назад +15

    Perfect timing my biological father always wants to know about my business I am running, trying to give me advice I didn't ask for like he's helping me. But hasn't even started his own when he said he would. He's has been jealous of me my whole life.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 лет назад +4

      healingthroughinspiration. thank you for telling your experience. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.

    • @lifeslessons9889
      @lifeslessons9889 Год назад

      Move on and away then …jealousy is a road to hell .

  • @playboymaxim
    @playboymaxim 3 года назад +7

    He reminds me of Katt Williams lol
    But great video man!

  • @llr1961
    @llr1961 Год назад +1

    I love your conviction. We don’t owe nosey people anything.

  • @ZE308AC
    @ZE308AC 2 года назад +5

    You could always say something vague or say like CrisBemmer "I don't answer those questions"

  • @ShinySilverBunny
    @ShinySilverBunny 3 года назад +6

    This is the best advice Tyler I needed this lesson. I might bring up the fact I got diarrhea and gotta go 🚶🤣 as that's the type of subject nobody wants to talk about!! LOL. Your ideas are great. Thank you

  • @garylawton58
    @garylawton58 6 лет назад +9

    This guys funny as fuck and right most nosey mofos are snitches

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 года назад

      I am totally in agreement with you! Just one quick little fyi: They are ALL snitches. Trust me, Gary. They aren't kindly folks.

  • @freakinthegardenfreakinthe4840
    @freakinthegardenfreakinthe4840 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you very much- I enjoyed this video, but it’s NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!
    😂😂😂

  • @cleighdesaez3104
    @cleighdesaez3104 4 года назад +5

    GM , and Thanking you for the reminder that there are polite and tactful ways of handling these situations.
    A person may give themselves over with out editing before the words come out .
    🙏

  • @justjoey6939
    @justjoey6939 Год назад +1

    Thank you for message. I enjoyed the video. Stay blessed.

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson6926 4 года назад +6

    Yes!And the family is one of them if they can't get in your business they don't have any thing to do with you.

  • @cestmagnifique7932
    @cestmagnifique7932 4 года назад +10

    What do I do with housemate who is sitting for hours in the living room and the minute I step in the kitchen, they come running and stick their nose to what I'm cooking.. WTF

  • @beaulieuonnp593
    @beaulieuonnp593 3 года назад +6

    My neighbour doesn't understand boundaries, I get her talking through my hedge and I have had to block of my hedge. And when I go out of my house and she sees me I say I am busy and walk on i am now getting a Do not Disturb sign #uk

  • @Lizzygrant5373
    @Lizzygrant5373 26 дней назад

    This!! I hate when people ask me "what school do you go to?" or personal questions like that... like I would never ask someone that.

  • @abbagirl8819
    @abbagirl8819 6 лет назад +35

    Just stare at them...lol

    • @Dana_inc
      @Dana_inc 6 лет назад +7

      nina renee good advice! That what my cousin says.

  • @ryanfresh8521
    @ryanfresh8521 2 года назад +5

    I’m just going to put this out there but in my case I’m in such a happy relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years. Most disturbing is that now this gives more nosey people more ammunition to pry into my love life that is generally happy and these nosey people are miserable with their spouses or partner or whoever.

  • @langchauvin1121
    @langchauvin1121 5 лет назад +12

    We have a nosey neighbor, who spies on me and my wife. I could see him his shadows peeping on his blinds at night when we come home. He always says he is a vegetarian which means we can't do barbecue.

  • @helpme9766
    @helpme9766 5 лет назад +10

    This video is dedicated to Paul and Morgan Ogglies...the noseyest married couple in the world.

  • @Doodlefisher
    @Doodlefisher 8 месяцев назад +1

    Coworkers being nosy: I have work to do. They don’t want to hear that!

  • @yeosin_guluem7645
    @yeosin_guluem7645 3 года назад +4

    This boy is so nosy he’s so annoying thank you for making this video

  • @happystarhappystar1477
    @happystarhappystar1477 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, Tyler.

  • @codelicious6590
    @codelicious6590 5 лет назад +5

    I hate when my roommate goes looking around in my space and through my stuff every time I leave the room. What's worse is when she stalks my RUclips history also and monitors absolutely everything I do that she can, I hope you see this and stop your bullshit Cassy, it's none of your business, get your own life- your own hobby.

  • @yesyoga
    @yesyoga Месяц назад

    So TRUE! So glad you lie it out clearly… 😅

  • @deletelater793
    @deletelater793 Год назад +2

    Listen I got this one nosey ass neighbour who's always watching people outside his window always getting into people's business and asking an hour others! Nosey as hell! 👃The man just can't keep to himself

  • @foodtoys8426
    @foodtoys8426 4 года назад +2

    I’m having that problem right now. They complain about everything we do. We can’t even put a pop up gazebo in our own yard without them telling us to take it down.

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino 4 месяца назад +1

    Nosy people are narcissistic and narcissists are more often than not nosy people. I’ve noticed this correlation

  • @tarasowell2656
    @tarasowell2656 6 лет назад +6

    Hi Tyler you not lying. I like your video!👈

  • @clausm2203
    @clausm2203 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great video

  • @martyshousecommunityorg.2890
    @martyshousecommunityorg.2890 5 лет назад +5

    I love you keep it real Tyler

  • @renew7828
    @renew7828 2 года назад +2

    I hit them on the job with, I'm busy with work, so I don't make time to answer personal questions. 😂😂

  • @miguelcruz2682
    @miguelcruz2682 Год назад +3

    All u got to say is : I Rather NOT SAY!!.🙌

    • @lifeslessons9889
      @lifeslessons9889 Год назад +1

      That’s polite …but sends them into curiosity mode ..seeking more answers

  • @beaulieuc8910
    @beaulieuc8910 3 года назад +2

    I was in the car with my bro at home and my NN turned up and started talking to him and being nosy. I said to my brother hurry up we do have to go, keep going on at him to move. My bro talks to anyone, but I think he told him too much already in 1 minutes, but I watched her start her next nosy question and shut her down and she moved on, most of the damage had been done but she certainly made it clear that I was unhappy. #england

  • @rainynightz7573
    @rainynightz7573 Год назад +4

    My neighbors ….

  • @eysanhatun652
    @eysanhatun652 2 года назад +2

    im botherd by them comming to me and tell me random low level basic shit. i work with these people

  • @vaytring9265
    @vaytring9265 2 года назад +3

    IF THEY TALK ABOUT PEOPLE THEY TALK ABOU YOU.

  • @lisamyrie5490
    @lisamyrie5490 5 лет назад +11

    Hi, How to deal with harrassment from nosey people, Who thinks everything is, Funny.

  • @Homesowingt73
    @Homesowingt73 Год назад +1

    Made me feel like barking or turning around and sniffing them back 😂

  • @mk82snakeye8
    @mk82snakeye8 3 года назад +2

    The uninteresting stuff. Fantastic. Otherwise known as 'grey rock'. Boring, lacking in drama, it bores them stupid. Then they go elsewhere looking for trouble

  • @mercedesguerrero4976
    @mercedesguerrero4976 5 лет назад +2

    Well. Said. ,,,. My. Kids. Listen. , To this with me. ,**. We. Lived. It. Well. Said. ___ subscribed

  • @mariasophialopez9249
    @mariasophialopez9249 Год назад +2

    I HAVE THE PERFECT SONG FOR NOSEY NEIGHBORS. IT'S CALLED SMILING FACES BY THE UNDISPUTED TRUTH. PLAY IT, LISTEN TO IT.

  • @Iamrosyd
    @Iamrosyd 3 года назад +3

    Sometimes it best just to say that’s none of your damn business. Ugh 😑 they are so stupid.

  • @evlutionzllc5519
    @evlutionzllc5519 Месяц назад

    #2 is genius. Talking about God or the Bible will run most people off. Even God doesn’t like nosy gossips.

  • @forestjohnson7474
    @forestjohnson7474 2 месяца назад

    1:27 😂😂😂 yep they like to stir up choas!

  • @andreaharris2443
    @andreaharris2443 2 года назад +2

    I moved one in with me and I want it out ASAP please tell use how to get it out of my house please please please

  • @abdulayaan2734
    @abdulayaan2734 2 года назад +1

    you really helped me with life

  • @cookiedough3629
    @cookiedough3629 Год назад +1

    Thank you :)

  • @robrob7011
    @robrob7011 2 года назад +1

    Thanks man!!

  • @Homesowingt73
    @Homesowingt73 Год назад +1

    💯

  • @margaretbatson83
    @margaretbatson83 3 года назад +2

    I've got nothing to hide on youtube. All I do is make comments on videos. I cannot stand people going through my shit.

  • @Homesowingt73
    @Homesowingt73 Год назад +1

    Have you ever been to the grocery store after gardening , then someone be behind you sniffing you

  • @haasanjacobs1462
    @haasanjacobs1462 3 года назад +1

    Yup and they'll keep asking you in your business until they get it. And they'll get off the phone because it Aggregates them

  • @dakine4238
    @dakine4238 4 месяца назад +1

    What if it's your roommate?

  • @leonardwills4268
    @leonardwills4268 2 года назад +1

    I'm sick of nosy people myself they don't know how to money on damn business

  • @bunnyrabbits35
    @bunnyrabbits35 Год назад +2

    How irritating are nosy people?

  • @stephenwilkins6438
    @stephenwilkins6438 3 года назад +2

    I have an aunt that's really nosey so nosey she gets my personal business she is not something trustworthy

  • @RondaSmith144Empress
    @RondaSmith144Empress 3 года назад +1

    👌👌👌

  • @kevinturner3400
    @kevinturner3400 7 лет назад +5

    Like

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 лет назад +2

      Kevin Turner. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @littlestbroccoli
    @littlestbroccoli 2 года назад +1

    Haha that's smart

  • @arionnarhome9360
    @arionnarhome9360 5 лет назад +8

    I deal with nosey people by telling them Mind your business

    • @michaelusi7117
      @michaelusi7117 5 лет назад +2

      But this can offend them and might get physical on u trust me i been there nosy people get offended easily

    • @jameshiaconcrete3968
      @jameshiaconcrete3968 5 лет назад +3

      @@michaelusi7117oh well.. so what?? Get people out you're business..

    • @michaelusi7117
      @michaelusi7117 5 лет назад

      @@jameshiaconcrete3968 if they see u doing something and ask u nosy question just say " im busy repeat if they ask u again say not important

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 года назад

      I also tell these bozos to mind their own business. If they get offended by that, good! It serves them right, and if they were to touch even a hair on my head, oh, boy, would they be sorry!

  • @jeremy7904
    @jeremy7904 4 месяца назад +1

    Tell them straight up Wow you're Nosey You need to mind your own business im going to keep reminding them stay out of my business. Didn't i tell you to mind your own business?

  • @mischellagreen1991
    @mischellagreen1991 5 лет назад +7

    Stop being nosy 😒

  • @wilsDav3
    @wilsDav3 5 лет назад +8

    You not need to speak to people like this you can speak to people nicely

    • @jameshiaconcrete3968
      @jameshiaconcrete3968 5 лет назад +8

      Man whatever....this world isn't a nice place to live in.
      Not everyone is nice or kind or friendly in the world.

    • @BigBishop609
      @BigBishop609 3 года назад +1

      @@jameshiaconcrete3968 I agree

    • @UnknownUnknown-cd4hh
      @UnknownUnknown-cd4hh 2 года назад +1

      If you want to say it nicely, just reply once.
      “Sorry, I’m busy”.
      If they continuing asking why? Just ignore.

  • @so7iane88
    @so7iane88 7 лет назад +8

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    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 лет назад +1

      4d. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @majinbuu1687
    @majinbuu1687 2 года назад +1

    Terrence Norris 👃

  • @OvertIntelligence
    @OvertIntelligence 3 месяца назад

    Mf on the bust just out the blue asking me if I was going to work. People loove to be in your business…