Life is like a piano. White keys are happy moments and the black ones are sad moments. Both keys are played together to give us the sweet music called Life.
as someone who’s currently struggling with mental health at uni, this is really inspiring and important to me. i’ve been feeling lost for months now, and it’s just too much. glad you’re feeling better now, and thank you for showing your experience with others. it can mean a lot more than you think. wishing you the best on this journey
this is exactly what i went through. My gpa went from a 3.9 but when everything dropped I feel so lost instead. I got dropped from my university, and they said I needed a break for one year. I skipped 2 grades growing up so this time is very painful to be losing off.But i dont think I cant afford time to do a break. I am loosing friendships, losing my source of self esteem, loosing time. loosing my education. What to do when you loose that muscle 100%? I have 0 idea what to do😔 and I need help.
I think it is part of the journey to lose yourself once in a while, only then can you learn to find yourself again and again during different stages of your life. Thank you for being so open about this! Stay strong;)
this is so relatable. i just dropped out of my current uni because it screwed me up so badly. i'm so excited to get started again at a new uni, in a new environment, with new habits.
Oh lord I feel ya. My mental health was never great before but my time at film school completely destroyed me. A combination of unprofessional lecturers who made me afraid to go to their classes and people I hung around with that I didn't realise were abusive. A line from Queen Maeve in The Boys resonates - "Then I started giving pieces of myself away and eventually I gave away everything". I don't keep in contact with anyone from that time anymore. Glad you found yourself again brother
I don’t like yoga, meditation or working out. But I definitely lost myself in University in the same way. I learnt a lot from this experience and would do it again just with more experience.
honestly the video you made about travelling in your gap year convinced me to do the same... I have a few months left of my gap year before uni and have just organised 3 trips abroad. I'm going to thailand in May for a few weeks if anyone is down to come LMK :)) and I love your videos they're actually really inspiring !!
Love this. Honestly, I now feel so inspired. I'm currently achieving lower than my offer requirements for university - and you're right. I'm the only person who can change that. 💪
wow this video came at the best possible time. I was literally binge watching your last videos last night and also was watching the videos where you just started uni. I think you’re helping so many people out here, I personally have been experiencing exactly the same thing with once I started uni and I resonate so much with everything that you say. I know that it’s not easy but I feel like we have very similar journeys and we got this! Thank you for everything 😊 so excited for the videos that are coming. But also, don’t put too much pressure on yourself and take life easy❤
I went to uni abroad in Europe too, and it made me miserable. I experienced similar things to you too. Sometimes, I think you go off track for a reason. For me, it pushed me to leave and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
Watching this made me realize the exact same thing is happening to me. I moved abroad to Germany for a year, and since being here I've lost so many of my healthy habits 😢
I love this! I'm so happy for you! This has been really helpful as I have been feeling really down so far this year stressing out about so many things, amongst this there's also considering what university course I'd like to study and a lot of expectations etc. But I'm sure I can bounce back and this was really helpful soooo.... Thank you :)
When I attended college. I stopped doing anything else, I spent my free time resting in my bed. Why does college have to be overly competitive. I became mentally drained. Always worried about deadlines especially when I caught covid for the first time while also having tonsillitis, all in the span of the first week of college. Fell behind on assignments. I never had anytime to do anything else because I'm still studying on the weekend. I missed meetups and hangouts with friends because of college.
i changed my fucking major bc i felt terrible. now i feel terrible doing my other major, it had nothing to do with the major but every thing with my mental health
If a house withstands harsh conditions depends on the foundation. I am very sure you never had a stable foundation, so I guess you didn't really loose anything. It is not my intention to attack you, it is about bringing some questions on the table. The most important question in my life was: What do I REALLY know? I've had learned a lot in my life, but most if not all that I have had learned in my life at that point was from others. I just decided to believe it and thought this was knowledge. Meditation can help to find answeres, but I didn't even have any clue about meditation, even I thought it. I didn't meet many people in my life who really knew what meditation is. I wanted to know what this is and I don't know where I got the information that there is an English book from the 14th century about the topics "meditation and contemplation" (it is called: The cloud of unknowing). I didn't stop at just reading this text, but I found it very interesting that it was pure Plato. What I have learned, that what many people call meditation in fact is contemplation. But meditation is important and I couldn't contemplate before I didn't learn to meditate. I am not there to teach you meditation, nor contemplation. Nobody can teach you contemplation but your self. And learning meditation at the end is learning about contemplation. Might be confusing, but I hope you get my point. And sorry if my English is a bit weird, I'm German and I learned English very late.
bless you! you should really take care of your mental health ❤️ take it easy on yourself, reach out to friends and loved ones. do things that bring you joy and I’d definitely recommend taking a detox from social media 🙏 I really hope you feel better soon
@@folkertbowler Thanks you so much for your answer ❤️ I struggle a lot with that feeling of guilt, but I'll try :) Thx so much and thx for your videos !! Keep going ✊
Life is like a piano. White keys are happy moments and the black ones are sad moments. Both keys are played together to give us the sweet music called Life.
wow...such a beautifully written comment!!
love this!!!
Wish i was as witty and literature like you ahha
as someone who’s currently struggling with mental health at uni, this is really inspiring and important to me. i’ve been feeling lost for months now, and it’s just too much. glad you’re feeling better now, and thank you for showing your experience with others. it can mean a lot more than you think. wishing you the best on this journey
this is exactly what i went through. My gpa went from a 3.9 but when everything dropped I feel so lost instead. I got dropped from my university, and they said I needed a break for one year. I skipped 2 grades growing up so this time is very painful to be losing off.But i dont think I cant afford time to do a break. I am loosing friendships, losing my source of self esteem, loosing time. loosing my education. What to do when you loose that muscle 100%? I have 0 idea what to do😔 and I need help.
I think it is part of the journey to lose yourself once in a while, only then can you learn to find yourself again and again during different stages of your life. Thank you for being so open about this! Stay strong;)
this is so relatable. i just dropped out of my current uni because it screwed me up so badly. i'm so excited to get started again at a new uni, in a new environment, with new habits.
Oh lord I feel ya. My mental health was never great before but my time at film school completely destroyed me. A combination of unprofessional lecturers who made me afraid to go to their classes and people I hung around with that I didn't realise were abusive. A line from Queen Maeve in The Boys resonates - "Then I started giving pieces of myself away and eventually I gave away everything". I don't keep in contact with anyone from that time anymore. Glad you found yourself again brother
I can relate a lot on this part.I met the most horrible people at my uni who made my mental health worse):
I don’t like yoga, meditation or working out. But I definitely lost myself in University in the same way. I learnt a lot from this experience and would do it again just with more experience.
honestly the video you made about travelling in your gap year convinced me to do the same... I have a few months left of my gap year before uni and have just organised 3 trips abroad. I'm going to thailand in May for a few weeks if anyone is down to come LMK :)) and I love your videos they're actually really inspiring !!
Thank you so much for your honesty! I’ve been struggling too with this.
bless you daisy ❤️ i hope you’re doing better now
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you ❤ Wishing you all the best in this new chapter
You’ve got this buddy! Stay strong! ❤️
thank you lana that means so so much ❤️
Love this. Honestly, I now feel so inspired. I'm currently achieving lower than my offer requirements for university - and you're right. I'm the only person who can change that. 💪
wow this video came at the best possible time. I was literally binge watching your last videos last night and also was watching the videos where you just started uni. I think you’re helping so many people out here, I personally have been experiencing exactly the same thing with once I started uni and I resonate so much with everything that you say. I know that it’s not easy but I feel like we have very similar journeys and we got this! Thank you for everything 😊 so excited for the videos that are coming. But also, don’t put too much pressure on yourself and take life easy❤
Its good you realised this & have got back to your habits. I completely lost it during uni and had the worst years of my life
I went to uni abroad in Europe too, and it made me miserable. I experienced similar things to you too. Sometimes, I think you go off track for a reason. For me, it pushed me to leave and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
I believe everything is constant process. We go through different moments, so you can appreciate the best ones :)
Allow yourself to live
Watching this made me realize the exact same thing is happening to me. I moved abroad to Germany for a year, and since being here I've lost so many of my healthy habits 😢
this gave me so much motivation , will start again thanks bro
that makes me so happy
this is so me, thank u for posting this. new subscriber here :) good luck w ur journey, u got this!
I love this! I'm so happy for you! This has been really helpful as I have been feeling really down so far this year stressing out about so many things, amongst this there's also considering what university course I'd like to study and a lot of expectations etc. But I'm sure I can bounce back and this was really helpful soooo.... Thank you :)
Thank you for sharing this! Your honesty is inspiring
means so much my friend ❤️❤️
Congrats bro. I'm in a hole right now but slowly trying again.
We all have blips. I respect you for the self awareness.
Good luck Folkert!! It is very admirable that you are self-aware and willing to want to change and be the best version of yourself. You’ve got this! 😊
When I attended college. I stopped doing anything else, I spent my free time resting in my bed. Why does college have to be overly competitive. I became mentally drained. Always worried about deadlines especially when I caught covid for the first time while also having tonsillitis, all in the span of the first week of college. Fell behind on assignments. I never had anytime to do anything else because I'm still studying on the weekend. I missed meetups and hangouts with friends because of college.
Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known. show up boiii... best wishes
Thank you for making this video!!!
thank your for your honesty, can't wait for what the future holds for you! :)
❤️❤️
@@folkertbowler Toog gifted
I love your content! Looking forward to more of it! Would love to see more Code Uni videos too!
Incredible storytelling! (I’ve never related more to a RUclips vid) Good luck, I look forward to the content.
Love your videos
Thanks so much for sharing your honesty, self reflection and journey through life
We love you
❤️❤️❤️
my heart weeps for you.
Just what i needed. Completely relatable
This is a great video. Your editing skills are great! Deffo subscribed :)
i changed my fucking major bc i felt terrible. now i feel terrible doing my other major, it had nothing to do with the major but every thing with my mental health
Im a huge fan from Germany,
happy to see some content again .D
going to be posting a lot more I promise ❤️
Thank you so much for your video. I've been struggling too
Glad you're back on youtube :)
Same here. Lost myself at university.
To me, I lost myself in the last year of high school.
Thank youu
I'm wearing that exact watch!
Very useful, thank you❤️
Great editing skills too 💪🙌🏻✨✨
proud!
Make this year our year!!!
You go folk 🙌🏼✨
2:10 mmm yes I feel like I’m stuck in this lull rn
so motivating!
2:48 what's that music starting here. It's really good
inspiring content
v inspirational
If a house withstands harsh conditions depends on the foundation. I am very sure you never had a stable foundation, so I guess you didn't really loose anything. It is not my intention to attack you, it is about bringing some questions on the table. The most important question in my life was: What do I REALLY know? I've had learned a lot in my life, but most if not all that I have had learned in my life at that point was from others. I just decided to believe it and thought this was knowledge.
Meditation can help to find answeres, but I didn't even have any clue about meditation, even I thought it. I didn't meet many people in my life who really knew what meditation is. I wanted to know what this is and I don't know where I got the information that there is an English book from the 14th century about the topics "meditation and contemplation" (it is called: The cloud of unknowing). I didn't stop at just reading this text, but I found it very interesting that it was pure Plato. What I have learned, that what many people call meditation in fact is contemplation. But meditation is important and I couldn't contemplate before I didn't learn to meditate.
I am not there to teach you meditation, nor contemplation. Nobody can teach you contemplation but your self. And learning meditation at the end is learning about contemplation. Might be confusing, but I hope you get my point. And sorry if my English is a bit weird, I'm German and I learned English very late.
Hi great video
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I feel burned out and overwhelmed... What can I do ?
bless you! you should really take care of your mental health ❤️ take it easy on yourself, reach out to friends and loved ones. do things that bring you joy and I’d definitely recommend taking a detox from social media 🙏 I really hope you feel better soon
@@folkertbowler Thanks you so much for your answer ❤️ I struggle a lot with that feeling of guilt, but I'll try :)
Thx so much and thx for your videos !! Keep going ✊
Good
Respect for sharing this, lets hit the gym together soon!!
LFGGGGGGGG