I haven't heard anything about Transactional Analysis in probably close to 50 years! My parents were into it in the early 70's and it seemed to be a very popular means of approaching communications and relationships. I hadn't really thought much about it but I suppose its popularity must have diminished over time. Watching the video recalls many memories of my parents using TA in groups. My memory as a kid was that this method was revelatory for many of the adults learning about it.
I’m such a big fan of TA, it’s actually my favourite theoretical model. I’ve been using TA for 30 years. It’s great to hear that your parents were using TA in the 70’s. Best wishes, Teresa.
@@LewisPsychologyWhat if the rationality comes from an avoidant that makes it sound rational but just the avoidant tendency being triggered and it's actually not rational?
The Sandler Selling System is based in TA. We are taught to come from an Adult Ego State. They say, "leave the child in the car." The way I learned it, the child has a natural state, a compliant state, and an rebellious state. I'm assuming, in this case, the Adapted Child represents the compliant, and rebellious child!? Or has more been learned about TA since I studied it 15 years ago?
@@LewisPsychology It's a powerful system, you explain it well... I have a friend doing some self discovery, I referred her to your channel. Best wishes to you too!
Who identified an ego state that is be on this in one’s authentic self, where one acts in service to others as opposed to self and understands these driven moods in order to step out? This is the point of meditation, a nonjudgment to step out of the non-duel thinking, observe
The idea behind this model is that you are made up of different parts (ego states). When your ego states are in balance you are in good psychological health. Best wishes, Teresa.
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This was very well explained. You have a clear and engaging way of talking and appreciate you taking the time to explain this so well.
Love how simply this was explained. So clear! Thank you!
I haven't heard anything about Transactional Analysis in probably close to 50 years! My parents were into it in the early 70's and it seemed to be a very popular means of approaching communications and relationships. I hadn't really thought much about it but I suppose its popularity must have diminished over time. Watching the video recalls many memories of my parents using TA in groups. My memory as a kid was that this method was revelatory for many of the adults learning about it.
I’m such a big fan of TA, it’s actually my favourite theoretical model. I’ve been using TA for 30 years. It’s great to hear that your parents were using TA in the 70’s. Best wishes, Teresa.
It has been for me
So pleased I found this video, as I teacher this theory is so relevent when interacting with children...really well explained
I studied TA extensively over 50 years ago and it is still valid and viable today.
It most certainly is. Best wishes, Teresa.
This is so empowering.
That’s great to hear. Best wishes, Teresa.
Brilliant insights. Thanks.
Glad you enjoyed it! Best wishes, Teresa.
Excellent explanation
Glad you think so! Best wishes, Teresa.
Дякую, дуже цікаво, я завдяки вашому відео покращую свою англійську)
That’s great to hear. Thanks for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.
This resonates extremely well
That’s great to hear. Best wishes, Teresa.
Really excellent explanation well done and thanks!
Thank you. Best wishes, Teresa.
Explained amazingly thank you
Glad you liked it. Best wishes, Teresa.
Interesting theory
Great videos thanks
Thank you so much. Best wishes, Teresa.
Thank you for this amazing video..❤
You're welcome 😊
Subbed and liked- actually made me realise the link between parents and my adult romantic relationships, thank you! :-)
Thank you for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.
Thank you so much❤❤❤❤
Thank You 🙏
You’re welcome 😊
How about when the other party refuses to switch to adult and finds a calm rational answer frustrating? What to do in that scenario please?
Stay in Adult and avoid playing games. Best wishes, Teresa.
@LewisPsychology thank you
@@LewisPsychologyWhat if the rationality comes from an avoidant that makes it sound rational but just the avoidant tendency being triggered and it's actually not rational?
Stay in Adult. Best wishes, Teresa.
The Sandler Selling System is based in TA. We are taught to come from an Adult Ego State. They say, "leave the child in the car."
The way I learned it, the child has a natural state, a compliant state, and an rebellious state.
I'm assuming, in this case, the Adapted Child represents the compliant, and rebellious child!?
Or has more been learned about TA since I studied it 15 years ago?
TA has evolved tremendously over the last 15 years. Best wishes, Teresa.
@@LewisPsychology It's a powerful system, you explain it well... I have a friend doing some self discovery, I referred her to your channel.
Best wishes to you too!
Who identified an ego state that is be on this in one’s authentic self, where one acts in service to others as opposed to self and understands these driven moods in order to step out? This is the point of meditation, a nonjudgment to step out of the non-duel thinking, observe
The idea behind this model is that you are made up of different parts (ego states). When your ego states are in balance you are in good psychological health. Best wishes, Teresa.
Subtext of my divorced parents conversation to and about me, "You have to take care of me."
Is it difficult to apply to one’s self, Will more ego states become apparent as time goes on? Trying to work with JUNG’s ideas simultaneously
There are no additional ego states. Best wishes, Teresa.
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Hey how can i have these slides?
You can’t have the slides as I designed them and own the copy write.
@LewisPsychology ok maaam
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