THE STRUGGLES OF HAVING A BABY | Fibroids, high-risk pregnancy and miscarriages

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 26

  • @phumimavuso7453
    @phumimavuso7453 4 года назад +1

    Ladies, thank you so much for this video it really was an eye opener. Thengi, thank you for sharing such intimate details of your journey. What I loved most is the advise on how one can support a person who has been through similar situations. We really appreciate this ladies.

  • @nkosinoezwelomoyo5798
    @nkosinoezwelomoyo5798 3 года назад

    Dis brought me in tears thank you so much for sharing dis;when all hope has been lost;you hve given me a second chance to trust in God.

  • @nahabweruth7375
    @nahabweruth7375 3 года назад

    I understand what u went through my dear,its so painful emotinal,i went through the same but whenever i try to remember it,i just find myself crying.

  • @binahstraker9557
    @binahstraker9557 3 года назад

    Thank you so very much for this, from the bottom of my heart.

  • @tsholofelodesiree5911
    @tsholofelodesiree5911 4 года назад +3

    Stop asking people when are they having kids i like that
    m 28 years old and financially stable no baby no boyfriend
    hei things I get from the society shuuu😢

    • @mzansimom_sa
      @mzansimom_sa  4 года назад +1

      They make it seem like you’re not normal or that something is missing, its so sad. As long as you’re content hun, just do you ❤️

  • @onicamanamela5565
    @onicamanamela5565 4 года назад +1

    I don't think there's anything as hard as becoming a mom 🤕, I've had 6 miscarriages. Still TTC, right now waiting for a BFP or will be getting my menses in 5 days. Infertility is hard 😭😔💔. She's strong for being able to narrate everything. Love and light to her ❤. Thank you for this Mzansi Mom.

    • @mzansimom_sa
      @mzansimom_sa  4 года назад +2

      Oh man, so sorry hun 🥺It really is hard and it takes such strength and courage to keep trying. Strength to you and thank you for sharing 💛🌸

    • @onicamanamela5565
      @onicamanamela5565 4 года назад

      @@mzansimom_sa Thank you❤

    • @thuthumaqhosha5480
      @thuthumaqhosha5480 4 года назад +1

      Sending love and light to you 💐❤️

    • @thuthumaqhosha5480
      @thuthumaqhosha5480 4 года назад +1

      💐❤️ Yoh so sorry. Keep praying 🙏🏾

  • @pheladifakude8237
    @pheladifakude8237 4 года назад

    This is just too painful to listen to. We need awareness among our teenage girls to see if this can be detected early and managed before they grow older. Your friend went through too much for one to handle but she is soo brave because she is still standing. Where is her faith in all these and how is the relationship with the hubby? Did she go through counseling throughout the entire process?.... With regard to asking people about pregnancies, I have three colleagues that were married a long time ago and they do not have kids and actually one told me that she had three miscarriages and never fell pregnant again and now she is about 50+ years. We must keep our mouth shut and never ask. I never ask anyone because of the answers you might get because people go through stuff

    • @mzansimom_sa
      @mzansimom_sa  4 года назад +1

      This was definitely a tough video, even editing it I got teary. I don’t think she went through counseling but its so good to have a good support system. I think something like this can make or break someones marriage but they are doing so well. I think sometimes we ask as a way of making conversation and not to be malicious but its good to be aware and be careful of what we say. Sho, your colleague has probably gone through the most and I hope she knows that having children does not define her and that she’s still an amazing person❤️

    • @pheladifakude8237
      @pheladifakude8237 4 года назад

      @@mzansimom_sa Indeed a pregnancy that results in a baby is a huge blessing. Shame my colleague loves kids sooo much and she has a good spirit and both her and her husband are generally the kindest beings ever

  • @pheladifakude8237
    @pheladifakude8237 4 года назад +2

    How did she survive the two successful pregnancies?? This is so scary...I am currently 39 weeks 4 days and praying for a safe delivery

    • @mzansimom_sa
      @mzansimom_sa  4 года назад +1

      So after her miscarriage, she had an op and took out the fibroids. So her two pregnancy went well. Oh my goodness, you’re almost there 🙊😅☺️💃🏾💃🏾so excited for you mama, please tell me once you’ve given birth 😁☺️

  • @likopotsephe8979
    @likopotsephe8979 4 года назад

    I'm so early, lol😂

  • @nkosinoezwelomoyo5798
    @nkosinoezwelomoyo5798 3 года назад

    Dis brought me in tears thank you so much for sharing dis;when all hope has been lost;you hve given me a second chance to trust in God.