comforting things to hear when you're feeling uneasy
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“dogs exist”
thank you
sometimes it's the little things, ya know?
@@KickThePj puppies
Ur name lmao
josh isn’t real yOURE NAME SKSKKS
"dogs exist."
unlike josh dun then, right?
wow this is genuinely exactly what I needed right now
AHHH DODIE I AGREE
also not trying to be all over you, but i sent you lyrics and chords to song i wrote called “Damp” during your show in Springfield MD on 9/11/18 and i would really just like to know if this song made it you and if you saw it. i really had some doubts about you actually seeing it, but it would mean the world to me if i could just know if you ever saw it. i will leave you alone after this i promise!
I am here because you recommended this video and I am pleased with what I've heard from this nice man! Thanks Dodie
when i watched this i immediately thought of you
YEET
“ You are valid.”
**Bursts into tears**
When I am sad because I remember the times my uncle raped me from ages 4 to 12 I read the comments on youtube and get reminded that there are people going through much worse 🙏
Wallow in your own Self pity omg, I can’t believe your “uncle” can do that without feeling like sh1t is disgusting. I hope you’re all right, I got yo back!
Edit: wait- FOUR?? Jesus people need help
Wallow in your own Self pity make sure you remember that the things that others are going through do not and should not invalidate your own trauma. take care of yourself
Hi @@wserv3215, I'm sorry to hear that. But please do not wallow in your self pity (in case you are serious about your username). You are not alone. If you need help and support, I hope you find it soon!
@@wserv3215 ….same
randomly finding this video right after one of the worst mental breakdowns of my life has become my personal definition of serendipity
Legit. You put my situation into words ✌️ hope you're okay
@@universecondensed2575 you too
Hope you two are doing ok now. Hope you keep finding things that keep adding on to your own meaning of serendipity :)
@@jiyakhan569 thank yoooou love
Omg that just happened to me I had the worst day and then this pops up
The pretending to be asleep thing... this took me back
yes yes yes
Omg sme
yeah boi
Same
Me too
Wouldn’t mind having episodes of this...❤️
LPS Emily YES
Same
i would love this
why are you e v e r y w h e r e
yes plis
This is asmr for people going through existential crises.
It's so beautiful 💜
Me rn
Nathan we stand together in our own dark places silently listening to pj say things. We got this ✌🏼
Me
I hope everyone can come back to this :)
When he said there are millions of other people and _animals_ that share your birthday, made me so happy, I genuinely smiled to myself for a moment.
Thing is, I work at a vets office. I know that. I've met dogs that have the same birthday as me.
(And it's amazing.)
😭😭😭 I wanna work with animals
"Nobody is thinking about that really embarrassing thing you did that keeps you up at night, everyone's too busy thinking about the really embarrassing thing they did that keeps them up at night." Is what I want everyone, including me to keep in mind at all times.
Yes, i never though of that before until now
As a person who's done so many embarrassing things and thinks about them so often. This is so comforting.
this was the one i needed most
alexa * “dogs exist”
Also no one is paying attention to the fact that you don't look like a runway model and your hair is kinda messy. Everyone is worrying about how _they_ don't look like runway models and their hair is kinda messy.
PJ.. your voice..
Fibry Halla Fanani I NOW!!!!!,
I think someone had an orgasm listening to this huh (don't be offended pls it's a joke)
None taken
😭💙
“It’s just feet whose cares” My MAN.
Might be cliché, but I immediately thought: listening to a song for the first time and knowing it would be your favorite
FREAKING. YES.
👌
This!
"dogs exist "
depression .... cured
Hotel?
Trivago
I was gonna like, but didn't wanna ruin the 666 likes...
I’m frigcksking scared of dogs
@@mysticalmelody9209 same
Lara Silva my dogs make me more depressed.. I get stressed and annoyed around them
I wasn't even feeling particularly uneasy but I still feel comforted. Loved the poetic pace and tone. thanks PJ!
The title didn't lie. It really is comforting.
Thank you Jordan! :)
I would like this injected into my bloodstream please so I can never feel uneasy. NEVER!!!
same
When you are laughing so hard that you can’t breathe. One of my personal favourites. Oh and the feeling you get when the panic has finally passed the easiness you feel in your muscles and the sensation of your breathing and heart rate getting back to normal.
when you laugh so hard that you can’t draw another breath and you think you’re about to die,, sounds scary but it’s great
t
this
I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT SHARING A BIRTHDAY WITH ANIMALS WHY IS THIS SO INTRIGUING-
Because animals are born too.
here's more to add to that list:
* fresh warm laundry out the dryer
* when you get to put on said fresh warm laundry out the dryer
* being on a road trip at night and looking up at the stars wondering what's really out there
* warm homemade sugary baked goods
* waking up and actually feeling refreshed
* waking up and having a lie in, in a cocoon of warmth
* tasting what would be your favourite food for the first time
* finding something you lost long ago
* when you win a competition and everyone is cheering for you and they're proud of you
* staying up all night playing games
Wondermittens To add on:
*Your parents saying they’re proud of you, and it’s real.
*There is a better way to express yourself than a while ago. You are born in the time you were Meant to be in.
*Cats Purring
*A loved one giving you affection. (Weather it be art, physical affection, or kind words
Or some other ideas:
- Being able to curl up under a blanket (or more, depending on the weather) and just watch shows, especially if you have someone with you
- An hot shower after getting caught in the rain
- the smell of rain after a surpisingly long bout of pleasantly dry weather
- A mug of hot chocolate with your favourite toppings when you get in from the cold
- That sense of relief when you've finally finished with something which was stressing you out, and you can just put it behind you
- Curling up at home with a good book, especially one you've read before
- Looking up at the night sky
- Being able to know that, even if you may not be the best at something, at least you tried, so you can only improve with practice
Staying up all night playing games....i felt this..but its hell when you have somewhere to go in the morning
Here's more!
*laying in bed after a long and productive day
*the feeling when you're fresh out of the shower and curled up watching your favorite thing with a warm cup of the beverage you like
*when you come back home to your pet after a long day at work/school
*waking up and finding that a loved one has prepared you food
*when it's raining and you make that splish-splash with your boots while walking
*sitting alone in a cozy cafe litening to your favorite music and staring outside the window or doing something like drawing or writing
*watching raindrops sliding down the window
*that feeling of relieved victory after you've aced a test you studied so hard for
*when your best friends/loved ones snuggle closer to you for a group photo
*sleeping tonight and knowing that you're gonna wake up in the safety of your house and the warmth of your bed
*when you and a stranger team up to help someone then you both smile at each other before going your seperate ways
*when you leave school a little late than usual just so you can spend more time with friends
*when the traffic is horrible but thats okay coz it means you've got more time to enjoy some more music
*looking into the mirror after getting a new haricut/hairdye
*finally getting that thing you wanted so badly
*sleeping in on a day off
❤♥❤
This video along with all these points as well have really helped me with a personal problem today, and hopefully to pay forward I'll add a few comforting things.
*Finally being done with something you've worked on all day and being able to sit back and admiring it.
*A clean room
*The feeling as a little kid stepping into a new house you've never been in before and looking at all your new surroundings
*The smell of books
*Finding the perfect new song
*When you find something you didn't know you where looking for
*The gentle sound of rain against your windows
*The feeling of warm shower water dripping down your body
*The moments after finishing blow drying your hair (Possibly just a me thing)
“There are no mistakes - just happy accidents.” - Bob Ross
I was looking for the music used, and if anyone wants to know, it's "L'Etoile danse (Pt. 1)" by Meydän
Thought I'd share, just because I was looking through the comments to find it and couldn't, so...
Thank you so much I've been trying to find it but I couldn't get the name 😭❤️
@@labibliotehcairesociopathe8535 Happy to help ☺️
Oh my gosh thank you
I was wondering what it was, thanks!!
OH MY GODDDDDD
THANKS SOOOOO MUCH
IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR EVER!!!!!
I WENT TO THE COMMENTS AS A LAST RESORT THANKS SO MUCH AGDJDHRHSJJS
this shows up in my recommended today just as i was having a mental breakdown?? thanks, fbi agent 🥺🥺
runa ikrrrrrrr I’m honestly sure my FBI agent loves me too these days I think mine needs a raise 🙄 screenshot n show ur boss if ur reading this
The one about pretending to sleep so your dad would carry you to bed.... i can't stop crying
DanceEatSleep you probably don’t even remember this comment but 69th like lol
Now, the number of likes is 690. It is too perfect lol
My dad was never able to uh...do that....
Same here. It makes me really sad to remember it
Fuck this just makes me sad ... my dad is a really shit person..same with my mom : ^/
why do i feel like im going to cry?
its not sad or happy tears? its just comforting tears? i guess you could classify them as happy tears because i feel so comforted that i want to cry cause i've never been this comforted before
I know what you mean and I bet in other languages there is a name for that emotion.
I think that's relief, I don't know how else to describe it!
Any feeling that is different from what you are used to, and changes your mind substantially, will make you cry. The feeling you describe is called relief, and it's a wonderful feeling indeed.
Been having a horrific panic attack the past few days. The anxiety just wont leave. This video finally got my heart rate below 120 bpm
When you were in a pool as a kid and you change out of your wet clothes and put on dry, warm clothes. This is such a great feeling.
Jesus Christ, I keep coming back to this video. It can calm me down no matter what’s happening or what I’m dealing with.
Same, I have saved this video in my "favorites" list.
natural blue I love your profile pic!!❤️
ok well he's officially just prevented an anxiety attack...thanks for that
This is the video I go when I feel panic attacks coming on. I understand. Hang in there. ❤️
showed up in my recommended right when I needed it. maybe the universe is looking out for me. that's a comforting thought.
It feels like that for me now
God loves you both and you matter in this world. Never forget❤
The journey of life :)
it’s the fbi
Algorithms
wait, my body just actually relaxed for the first time in a long time
I desperately needed this and it brought me to tears. I especially appreciate the nod to sweet potato fries - their being added to a menu is a major victory to me, too
Same.
2014 energy. This vid felt so nostalgic to old peej and old RUclips. This vid was the solace.
I accidentally read this as “Comforting things to wear when you’re feeling uneasy” so this was quite the twist
The sweet potato one is legitimately my favorite and the most comforting
This made me happy but also a bit sad. Thankyou.
Melancholic is what you are feeling
The one about pretending to be asleep on the way home but having your parents carry you in hit me 😭
I don't ever remember doing that myself, but I have four little sisters who all did that (although they weren't the best at pretending to be asleep), so I can say I have done plenty of carrying in my life 😄
Me too, because no matter how many times I tried, they never carried me. They would just wake me up. So that one actually made me more uneasy :D
@@storyworldofem oof I'm sorry bout that. That's a lot of people to carry haha!
@@Carrot880 Awh, no 😭😅
Omg my parents never did that for me
These are my favorite things to be grateful for right now:
How glorious it is to have access to indoor plumbing
The way that Billy joel says "grocery store" in Movin' Out (maybe thats too niche but look it up and smile with me)
The fact that we live in a time where ~seedless~ grapes exist
The fact that there is a version of the world made specifically to be seen -just- by your eyes
Personally, I like the way he sings “medical center”
i replied to someone’s comment with these but i wanted to put them out there as it’s own comment too:
*reading through old journals or sketchbooks
*putting on your favorite outfit for the first time
*a stranger giving you a compliment out of nowhere
*skinning your knee as a kid and then you parents caring for it while you feet dangle off the chair
*similarly, your parents kissing the place where you got hurt and it magically feeling better
*sitting in a parked car with a loved one just talking and making jokes at night
*showing someone art you’ve made that you’re not proud of but that person genius praising it like it’s the best thing they’ve ever seen
*secretly trading pokémon cards at recess so that the teachers couldn’t see
*playing dress up in your parents clothing as a kid and pretending to be them
*listening to a song you’ve heard a thousand times but for some reason this time it feels different and new again and you just connect with it
*that random smell that reminds you of your childhood
that’s all. have a good day :)
the pokemon card one hits home
i heard this all in pj's voice, this is amazing
Comforting things to hear when I'm feeling uneasy?
YOUR VOICE.
I thought the title was gonna be a joke and the video would actually be the opposite, but I’m so glad that wasn’t the case. Everything about this was lovely, thank you PJ
same
Does anyone else come back to this video all the time, its just so comforting! I want to create content just like you PJ
I love the internet. It’s comforting me with comfortable memories that we all seem to share
Never liked asmr but this... I could easily get used to
1+
2+
Same. ASMR usually freaks me out for some reason.
I swear we all lived the same childhood
kooketh-shooketh_imdone
It’s almost scary
We’re more similar than we are different, it’s just us getting in our own heads that divides us
Society
Nah, mine was slightly different. But I am from Latvia. :D
@@Evija3000 mine was slightly differnt too but im just young but not that young
This popped up in my recommended as I was trying to find a video to distract myself because I’m feeling really anxious. This came to me at the perfect time. Thank you PJ
never thought i’d be crying over a description of a magikarp
i needed this so badly
You've got to do an audio book. You would be doing an amazing service for the world
I was literally thinking the same thing! I would love to listen to an audio book read by him
hello,
this is a tiny insignificant comment on the amazing fact that Pj has his nails painted and i love it very much.
thank you.
"tiny insignificant comment"
well i got something for ya
2:57 :)
One hand is painted and the other isn’t. I love it.
*Y E S*
This NEEDS to be made into ASMR it’s just too fast and busy for my slow little brain to process 😩
😂😂
put it at .75x it's very relaxing
Honestly, his voice is one of the comforting things to hear when you’re feeling uneasy
This is what I needed in the midst of university finals, god bless!
All the best for your finals! 💜
I have just three left!
Samee
saaame
Samee!
Loved this
Pleasant treat to your disturbed mind, wouldn't you say, Jack?
i just stumbled back upon this video in one of my playlists after years and the timing couldn't be better. this week was the lead-up to the reception of my illustration senior thesis exhibition, it's been a bit of a nightmare. today i finally finished all my prep work for the show and it feels like i can finally start breathing again. this helped. thank you.
1:39 i'm actually friends with someone i met on the street in chicago one day, randomly, because we found out we shared the exact same birthday.
your voice is perfect for this. please do more of u just talking , or even do like a small calming podcast once in a while. thank u for this, i definitely needed this.
I'm glad we got Bob Ross's squirrels in there
I have to say this video has been so comfortable to me lately. Recently I’ve been having lots of anxiety attacks that started after the pandemic and isolation as well as developing something called emetophobia, the fear of vomiting. Often times when I start feeling anxious during school I go to the bathroom and watch this video, I can’t count how many times I have rewatched this. Than you PJ for helping me out and I really appreciate you. I know my problems are barely relevant when compared to others by the way and I pray for people who have the types of problems I am talking about. Have a great day everyone
One thing to hear when your feeling uneasy......
This voice.😍
The "You're valid" comment made me smile so much. I think I needed to hear that.
no thanks same
From some random guy on the internet that you dont know okay.......
@@susanjeffrensen1816 i mean yea, I dont hear it in real life, and ik that PJ cares for his fans. Idk why you decided to attack me because I like to hear something that would make anyone feel good, even if it's just from some guy on the internet. I look up to him, I personally think you should too.
i’m currently having a mental breakdown and i never needed anything more in my life. thank you so much
i really hope you feel okay soon. it's a cliché but things will absolutely get better. i hope life turns wonderful soon enough
same.
hope you're okay lovely! :)
xD
Same. Mental breakdown brother
I will listen to this on repeat whenever I write. Especially when I have a deadline coming up, missed the last one, or am trying to get something out before the deadline that day. I write when I'm stressed so stuff like this has always made writing no longer just a stress reliever, but also a hobby and form of fun.
Have a great day everyone.
this video used to be such a huge comfort to me when it first came out, i just rediscovered it and it still makes me feel the same way
i’m the same, i always come back to it
My mom carrying me to my bed from the car was my favorite
I used to pretend I was asleep so she would carry me like he said in the video. haha simple times! 😊
He said dad and also if he said mom it would be mum
m o r g a n b a r r I know he said dad, but it was my mom who brought me into the house from the car.
Same!!! I would of course wake up seconds from my house so I would pretend even if it wasn't believeable just so I didn't have to move.
Pj, it's not just you.
Sweet potato fries make a menu. Without them it's pointless.
Our school brought in sweet potato fries, it changed my life.
i always come back to this video whenever i’m having a panic attack, it helps calm me down
this made me so genuinly happy its crazy
can you make this an on going thing .. i enjoyed thst very much
Mandy Sane right
Um, we Stan a Wholesome Upload???
be more chlli fries this was probably the most wholesome thing I've seen this year so far
“You are valid” I’m not about to cry you are!!!! This entire video made me feel warm and fuzzy inside. Thank you ❤️
I want to add a few personal things:
• cats. Just cuddly cats
• being outside and having fun with my best friend who I might see again soon after weeks
• watching something with my friends and them putting their heads onto my shoulders since I'm the tallest of the group
• little things like drawings, words, handcrafted stuff, meant for your ears and eyes from people you love and people who love you
• the smell of rain on a street or meadow and the creativity I have when it rains
Nobody's thinking about that embarrassing thing because they're thinking about their own embarrassing things OMG
Mind blown
Thank you, PJ. You're absolutely right 😄
I don't think I've ever actually commented on one of your videos before but I HAVE to say... your voice is the most soothing thing and I thought this would be a joke but it actually made me feel so many feels and now I feel warm and good. Thanks for that.
IKR!! IT JUST MAKES YOU FEEL B E T T E R
yess I couldn't put it into words but you described it perfectly! ^.^
I search for this video whenever I’m on the edge of a breakdown and it feels like nothing’s alright, thank you and please make more
You could read a dictionary and I would listen
Dude could read the Yello Pages and I would listen.
Can someone get him to do that? I would love it
Well said 👌
This feels like a warm blanket on a winter evening, like a hug.
Aahh I love that. All of his videos are seriously like hugs.
i remember seeing this video when it was uploaded, and it’s exactly what i needed right now. thank you, pj. thank you so much.
the two softest boys, Awsten and pj
You need to make this a series. I loved this! Such a creative idea!!!
The words themselves didn't matter much to me, but the soft determination they were said in was everything.
yeah me too. Specially cause I didn't understand half of it. I'm Brazilian
One of these triggered a sad memory, but I realized I am in today, where that memory is over and done with.
💕
🌸🌻🌿✨
❤️
You're doing awesomely x you're safe
Same....but we'll get through it. Today is a new day
This is my all time favorite video on the internet i’ve had it in a playlist since it was uploaded. It has never failed to calm me down and relieve stress and anxiety. I always go back to it every now and then, when i am evidently…. feeling uneasy.
You're either here because:
- You watched enough comforting things for the algorithm to put this into your recommendation
- You searched it up after finding it in your recommendations
- You simply need this.
I feel like I can describe what love is after this video.
Ada K. What’s love?
It’s kinda amazing that I also have a list in my notebook titled “Things I Like” and you named almost everything on that list.
I was just about to type the same thing! Although I have tens of lists in tens of different notebooks because I fill them up so fast with my strange ideas. But it's comforting to know one isn't alone in thinking about these things :D
as someone who struggles with ptsd, this is very comforting
"You are valid"
thank you, im crying
Making the first footprint on freshly fallen snow, hearing the crunch beneath your foot
watching the first snow of the year fall down. as a kid, you run outside and stick your tongue out to see what the snow tastes like. you're fascinated by the way it melts but you soon learn snow is just water but very cold.
Sitting in a comfy chair with a blanket around you and a mug of hot chocolate/ tea while the snow quietly falls outside and everything in quiet and serene
I still pretend to be asleep sometimes when I hear my mom come to my bed and usually she'll run her hand over my forehead or through my hair thinking I'm sleeping.... there's still that child in me.
Thank you PJ for this beautiful video. You really calmed my anxiety and I'm feeling at ease. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
That is seriously so sweet. I moved out some time ago and I miss having my mom open my bedroom door sometimes just to check on me at night. 😢😭
@@storyworldofem Thank you, your comment was so warm! I can understand it just sucks to be away from our parents but we eventually have to deal with it but thankfully the memories are always there❤
@@Namxta Aaw, you're welcome! It's a necessary part of growing up (if growing up is actually a real thing... many of these "adults" I meet are just big toddlers...). And my parents do appreciate it a lot when I call them just to say very random things :)
@@storyworldofem yes, some of us don't grow mentally... But yeah, it's the same with me, I'll just go to my mom while she's doing stuff just to be in her presence. It's a bliss to have as a adult!
@@Namxta That's so lovely. I'm going to my parents' house for Christmas so I'll be doing the same thing there :D
the fact that this video popped up in my home page right when i needed it. i cant stop crying. thank u peej.
i know i’m a couple years late...but last night i stayed up until 5 in the morning simply from anxiety. which has never happened to me before. there was absolutely nothing i could do to distract myself from it and it has been eating me up from the inside out for days now. this magically popped up on my recommended and it genuinely made me smile, thx PJ!! u rlly help a lot more people than you probably think :)
things i remembered about my dad from this video
* the time he got a new dog, his name is Mack. when he got him, i was about 5. being the small child i was, and the big german shepherd scared me. i climbed on the old, grey couch as an attempt to get away from the big beast. my dad chuckled, saying its alright
* the times i'd draw on the way back home from whereever we'd been on the previous day, the moon finally fallen. the flashes of light from the lightpole things helping occasionally
* the time i pretended to sleep in the car when we got home, him picking me up from my pretend slumber, and me casually falling asleep as he would carry me back
this doesn't matter though, no one will notice, or care about this comment. but i felt as if it were needed to be said. honestly, i dunno. ignore this, sure. i dont care if you notice, like, or even reply. it's just a comment..but eh. hi, i like you. you actually read this and cared enough to read it to here. so thanks :)
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hi wtf this has like, 325 likes? sorry who is this am i even me? after suddenly getting notifications from this, who let this happen smsmmskksksk
It's that feeling when you wouldn't mind if somebody replies but you get anxious when somebody does.
Write a book
I loved your little flashes and stories of time
sksksksk i forgot about this comment
why does it have like, 221 likes? why are people paying attention to this hshshhshsh. yall are nice
I feel like the reason your comment got so much love is because everyone can relate to what you feel :)
I was having a panic attack and my friend sent me this video. It helped a lot 💓
Alrighty Aphrodite okay I know this is going to sound extremely weird but I found your comment then I realised who you were! I’m freddieluvstom on Instagram and I think it’s so cool I found your comment 😂💓 sorry I just thought I’d point it out aha
I watch this all the time and it always makes me feel better. Thank you Pj!
Showed on my recommended just as I’m about to start college and my extreme nerves were kicking in. What a great video. Thank you PJ.
To the person scrolling through the comments...
You are valid, you are loved, you are unique. Don't change a thing about yourself to appeal to others. You are beautiful!
The Cooking K's Thank you, it means a lot :)
aaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwww
thank you!
Awe thnx
If you saw me you would change your mind
My anxiety has been slowly getting worse recently and this video is beautiful and amazingly calm
I love this so much, especially when picturing my childhood and how simple things were
This is my favourite video on the internet. And I always seem to find it when I need it the most.
How do you give more than one like?
Take some of these ones, I have extras 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
VedaAdri indeed it is👌
Im glad someone else loves the word Serendipity as much as I do. its just a fun word to say. like persnickety.
Personally, I like defenstration. And autodefenstration.
Idk why but me and my friend love how the word “las mathematicas” in Spanish sounds
I like photosynthesis
I love the word serendipity
i love coming back to this video
thank you for this pj. I come back to this video once in a while when I need it and it always helps ❤️
Recently I’ve been feeling depressed and on the verge of suicide, hearing this and seeing my genuine favourite RUclipsr talk about really nostalgic things makes me feel really happy. I wish I could meet you and thank you.
Stay strong. It's worth it. 🌌
Amika Zoja thank you
Tom Gough hope you get throught it. Stay strong
Hey man I hope you get better, I'm with you
hang in there. I hope you feel better