Sometimes you don’t like people | Nouman Ali Khan
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Some people are tests and some are rewards . Alhamdulillah for everything may Allah keep us close to the people who bring us close to Allah swt
Aameen
May Allah make us from those people who bring others close to Allah and bless us with such people.
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Ameen
Amin
Aameen
Allaah says in His Book: we made some of you a trial for you, will you be patient?
SubhanAllah
AllahuAkbar.
*Some of you, my dear 😇😇😇
It's in Surah Furqan
@@sapphireemerald6882jazaak Allah
I get mentally frustrated every time I'm talking with my mom. Despite that, never behaved badly to my parents. Unfortunately I'm still living with them so it's taking a mental toll on me. I hope Allah make it easy
Don't worry, and please don't feel guilty. insha'Allah you can reach out to new support networks just to find a more supportive space
I feel you sister ): I have the same situation with my mom. I know I’m a bad daughter by isolating myself from her and remaining quiet and not talking to her, but I found that’s the only way we can co-exist and not be disobedient or raise my voice when she breaks my spirit or implies that I’m a bad person. My self-esteem and social skills have become a joke now. She doesn’t see how as an adult I struggle at my workplace because of the lack of healthy communication, safety, and nurturing at home. I’m always on my own and on survival mode.
@@baidarmh7015 Sometimes parents are difficult, they might be narcissistic or have psychological or psychopathic traits , or ADHD or autism traits, often showing up in behaviour issues emotional disregulation, unable to process emotions in an emphatic manner , but you can buy a baby kitten cat 🐈 for companionship and stress relief. May Allah help you.😊😊
@@baidarmh7015please don’t feel that way Allah doesn’t test a soul more than it can take after hardship comes ease believe that Allah is only planning for you the best ❤
@@baidarmh7015 As-salamu aleikum. You are not a 'bad daughter'. Of course, I don't know your circumstances or situation, but please don't carry this view point of yourself. From what you've mentioned, the best you can do is keep yourself at a safe, healthy distance so as to protect yourself and your overall wellbeing and Iman. Allah asked us to treat our parents well ( with that being reciprocated back to us with their kindness to us too, not entitlement, poor boundaries and dictatorial orders) and Not be blind obedient slaves without any independent thinking of our own.
Just do what your can Insha'Allah. And please stay away from anyone who starts to send you on a guilt trip - it's not about the 'deen' but more wanting to see another Muslim slip and trip because of their own narcissism.
I don't mean to 'give out' unsolicited advice, as I personally don't like it myself, but so many of us young and working age adults are in this situation because of our upbringing in Muslim households, that usually use and weaponise Islam for their own gain and benefit.
This video pops up on my recommendations the same day I pray like a madman as I was very anxious about my emotional being because of how terrible my feeling towards my parents. Feels like Allah immediately answer my du'a and I'm not even a good servant of Him. He's The Most Merciful, indeed.
"I will test you by means of each other."
Subhanallah, just came to me at the right time! I just can't have my focus correctly when there are people that I don't like around . I feel really bad for having such feelings but couldn't help them get out of my mind as well. May Allah(swt) help us get through this ameen
That is the test.
Tawuz..
Muwazzatain..
I think they help us dominate out feelings..
They give us strength to root out negativity. They help us clearly differentiate reason and feelings in any situation ..and help us see which feelings should be ignored when it comes to behavior
Tawuz ..three times on left side
Muwazzatain
I used to hate myself because I thought I shouldn't have any negative feelings towards others, I feel like not liking someone's behaviour means I'm not good enough as a Muslim as I was taught to be nice to everyone even if they were not very nice. Alhamdulillah, after watching this video, I feel more relieved and accept the fact that it is impossible to force yourself into liking or loving someone and it is ok to have such feelings towards others as long as your emotions doesn't lead to hurtful actions toward that person.
@Mika-eelHovenyou're right, people be using manipulation to guilt trip
My behavior really has been dictated by Allah SWT... I was so ready to take justice for myself but my hands have been tied by the Almighty everytime... Alhamdulillah for everything... He is showing me justice towards someone who people call Iblees... I have never met a worst human in my life... May Allah SWT safeguard and protect us all Aameen...
But my parents are too much toxic. They just don't want to understand me. Always blame me for everything. Seems like It's a competition. May Allah help me to out of this nd give me a better place, better ppl n better life. Plz guys pray for me 😊💔
Counselling will help you separate feelings from behaviour.
Its like staying professional in the job even you dislike clients or even your colleges.you just act right without feelings included
But the problem is we supress our feelings in case of a client but in personal relationship we let feelings to get upper hand
Feeling is temporary,so we have to understand this😊
Well said !!!
Yes an emotion mostly only lasts 90 seconds!
It happens with almost everyone
But memory is permanent
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I'm feeling like this there are some people whom i don't like but then i remember Allah and think it doesn't matter what i feel but I've to give my best to please Allah , because whenever i act in the wrong way i immediately feel guilty thinking He is watching and He will be disappointed in me. May Allah ease my situations.Ameen
Without Allah in mind its impossible ❤❤❤
Allah had gifted us with emotional intelligence, wherein we use our feelongs and emotions mindfully to bring out appropriate behaviour according to situations.
Wallahi ❤ I needed this 🕋☝️
Ya Allah I needed this.. 🙌💚
It’s thought provoking. At least to feel the way a situation is, give some sort of relief. Recognising a feeling is important to address it.
Feels like 30 years of wisdom summed up in minutes.
Some of the most intolerant people I met were religious. They picked verses which ordered hatred and applied it indiscriminately. I have not seen people be so passionate about spreading love as they are on spreading hatred
Subhanallah, i am struggling with this a lot. I feel like a sinner, i feel bad, i get depressed because of my feelings... I tell myself everytime, im human, I cant love everything.. I found this video after my prayer, and elhamdullilah just what I needed. Allah always guides 😢❤❤
Wow... I needed this. Thank you for posting this reminder. ❤😊
Any Uply May Any Uply Any Love Any Of Allaahu Any Uply Be Upon Allaahu,Any Uply Be Upon Any Prophet Any Uply Any Nonstop Any Uply Any No Any Matter Together.
That's human for you! We have our own traits and that's what make us unique. He means stay RESPECT and behaved well to people that you might not fond of. Because we will never know what other people thinking about us, they might not like you too but they still have a normal conversation with you too. But don't let those bad people to influence you!
It was a tough day today. I needed this
Alhamdulillah ❤ Allahu Akbar ❤ La illaha illa Allah ❤ SubhanAllah ❤Astagfirullah ❤ How Patient and Kind and Merciful Allah has been with me ! ❤
Ohhhh. I was in need of this. You made it easy for me. My life is already a mess but this video came as a blessing
Subhan Allah this came to me at the moment I needed it the most. I have been praying to Allah to guide me and it's utmost clear to me what I have been doing wrong. I have been letting my emotions and feelings overpower me ultimately dictating my behaviour 😢 I asked Allah for strength and he's provided me the best solution to overcome my issues alhamdulillah ❤
Subhanallah, Subhanallah, Subhanallah! Came at the right time. Allahuakbar!
Thank you so much needed this ❤❤ Alhumdulillah 💖🫶🏻
Very much needed this ❤
SubhanALLAH
ALLAH HAS GIVEN ANSWER OF EVERYTHING
YA ALLAH FORGIVE US
I truly need these words. As someone who studied sociology and psychology, these words give more catalyst of my confidence in the knowledge that Allah has given to me. Subhanallahiwabihamdih. Subhanallahilazim. Thankyou Allah Ya Rahman Ya Rahim Ya A’ziz Ya Hakim
I needed those words of guidance today 😢
masyaAllah, this video came right after I cried because I feel mentally frustated with my situation right now and my parents just like blaming me for the whole situation. I never feel this sad before, but alhamdulillah, this video came to me right away. may Allah help me through this time aamiin🥺💗
I had lots of difficulties in my life especially in my family .I asked Allh for several times to help me to skip all of these difficulties and I was so surprised why all of these things had happened to me .i am kind and I usually help people.I didn't hurt any one but all people who i had helped .all of them were devils all of them wanted to hurt me .all of them were my family .all these difficulties had helped me to be better and I am now with Allah.l am more patient than the past I had made abig space between them and I .i am still trying to protect my self .
Despite feeling intense emotions you still have a mind to choose what your behavior will be. Allhamdullilah for everything.
Alhamdoulellah. I needed to hear this so much tonight
man, i really needed this for the longest time😭❤️
May Allah bless ustadh abundantly in both the worlds iam his student n he is an excellent teacher Barak Allah
Subhan Allah! I needed to hear this and indeed my Creator knows I needed to hear this. Alhamdulillahi Rabbil A'alameen. To Allah belongs all praise and glory. May Allah SWT bless, guide, make ease and keep us all on the straight path. Ameen
Subhanallah I very much needed this !! Going through a very difficult time dealing with my own family members and this came . Ya allah alhamdulillah for showing me this . May he swt make it easy for me ameen .
A very important and good message. Thanks for sharing
Alhamdulliah
May Allah reward u brother for explaining this
It amazes hearing this beautiful message this morning
Even without tiktok some people from the older generations have still followed their emotions, whether it was anger, hate, or any kind of negative emotion to justify hostility towards others
Thank you sir thank you, I just found it at the right time when I needed it the most. Thanks ❤
Islam is not for the weak. ❤ Much respect. ❤
I need to listen to this more cause the world is so lost!!!!!!!
Allah.. i needed it so much.
Thanks a lot Sir
May Allah help us to keep our feelings and behaviour distinct
AMEEN
This changed my angle of thinking about reactions i give . A therapy indeed !!! May allah reward you the best ❤❤❤
Mone hosse ei lecture amar jonnoi dea hoese. SukurAlhumdulillah.
May Allah grant you the best of all things
This video came at very crucial time, absolute test but allah provided me with guidance and somehow landed on someone who has knowledge to put in some sense in me.
I have a benchmate who always annoyes me and others in exam Interesting thing is that she always got helps from others to did good in exam while she don't even know answers.I also took help sometimes but I got caught by teacher.Now I am on a situation that I am close to failing or passing an exam though I practiced a lot while my benchmate who cheated she is going to pass I feel like why is this world so unfair to me?? Why is Allah doing it only with me?? I don't know what to do and feeling depressed
Please make dua for me to act according to Allah's guidance not according to feelings, suffering from ages but still not able to separate my feelings and behavior
Feeling is temporary we have to understand this ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Allah make me strong
Just what I needed at this moment.. Jazakallah khair
It is one of the worst thing to have a parent as a trial
Jazak Allahu khairan for mentioning the full video in description
This video came in time the last day of Ramadan 😢 i have struggled my whole life and this holy month to not argue with my mother. Feeling so extremely bad and drained that i have ruined my fasts too by getting angry about the arguments 😢 Ya Allah forgive me and give me the strength to handle better i cant take it anymore.
Pure words of wisdom ❤
Alhamdulillah
I am having same prblm with someone but i was very worried about my behaviour without actual feeling.
SubhaanAllah this vedio came.
Alhamdulillah i change my behaviour a lot.when i change it. I find the real peace of life Alhamdulillah.But it was not easy but also very hard for me.Because i was very angry in the past.And for this behaviour i suffer a lot.finally my Allah guide me. And slowly i change my behaviour. Now i am done.I am quiet and very good with people. Many enemies have become our friends now
Alhamdulillah.. Eye opening word....❤
It’s so hard shaikh , god knows I tried :( it’s just soo hard I really hoped for things to change some people will never like you no matter what it’s impossible for me to like them anymore they hurt me so much that I just want to make peace by staying away staying as far as I can from them .. I really don’t know 😢
Same here… it hurts so much when they keep coming back only when they need something from you expecting to be served. Allah make it easy for us to have proper behaviour only for his pleasure
Jazaq Allahukum khairan shaikh💐💐💐
Thank Allah for our teachers like brother Nouman! Alhamdulillah. 🌻
This is really new to Me....feelings separated from behaviour... thanks admin
Read Surah Furqan, Aayah no. 20.
Thank you for this
Man this has hit me very hard, i hope i act how i should be act
This actually puts you in a very powerful mindset.
This is our major test !
Allah test us ,, our behaviour should dictate over feelings and emotions,, Salah and tasbeeh helps to train our mind to minimise feelings and emotional dominancy ,,
So that we could act accordingly commands of Allah
Opened my eyes, thankyou
My beautiful Islam ❤
This is what i needed
Most beautiful lecturer
Mashallah
That being said, sometimes your feelings can lead you to behaviors which are necessary and islamically valid.
You dont need to be like a donkey and tolerate every single disrespect.
If you like someone or not, based on things which arent determined by that individual, shouldn’t effect your behavior towards them, but if you dont like someone, because they call you names, tell lies about you, misbehave towards you, than you have the right to give them their medicine back.
Could I have the link to the whole Khutba (Lecture)?
SubhanAllah, I needed this too, this explained a lot ❤
Yes, pls do share the link.
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Title: “Divorce in the Qur’an”
Im glad the feelings are not part of other people's rights over me
I feel hurt by someones behaviour but im ready to ask forgiveness from them despite their offending me just to repair our relationship
Allahumma barik
Really needed this
Thank you
Allhamduillah for hearing after doing my dua which I did at Tahajud time....❤
And if we are tooo good in behaviour no matter what they've done.. people start saying that we are Munafiq🥲 but now I'm satisfied after listening to you ❤
Thank you. Needed to hear this.
I needed this today
Hi sir I am very happy to follow and god bless you.all your words are correct
I am Arabian from Egypt .I have learnt lots of things from you .
Thank you, I learned a lot today, Alhamdulillah.
MasyaaAllah. Beautifully spoken. May Allah guide us in our every step and decision.
Alhamdulillah❤ i need to hear this
Jazak Allah khair for guiding.
It's just for me.jajakallah saikh
Thank you so much for this video
SUBHANALLAHI WABIHAMDIHI, Aameen, Jazak ALLAH.
Mri seht k liyy bh Allah Pak sy dua kr dain k wo mjy shifa ata farmain Ameen❤❤
Shukriya 😢
Thanks for the advice ustad.. you are the Best...
Thank you
This has been my problem ever since then. My feelings dictated my behaviour, so much that it drove people away from me. I had friends but they behave in a way that I don't like, which cause me to be rude to them, in the end, our personalities clash which broke us apart.
If brother Nouman didn’t come in this line he would have been an excellent motivational speaker and making millions. But Allah had His own plans.