All I have to say is that this scene... you can feel the emotion. I can so relate to the part where she says "This is just a fight where having and tomorrow it will be like it never happened..." For those of you who have been in long term relationships... I'm sure you can relate to this also. She sounds so cut when shes like "No, No, just wait a minute... Where no really breaking up are we? Cmon"... Rachel... is sooooooooooooo beautiful.
Niyah exactly my girlfriend slapped me n I had to punch somthin in that moment n there wasn’t any walls or nothing so I had to hit my self before I hitter her
it kills me when he starts to drive off and she says " wait were not really breaking up are we? this will all be better tomorrow morning" :'( shes worlds best actress!
I know this scene is heartbreaking, and I'm crying my eyes out at 12 am watching this... but I love this scene. And I don't know if any of you have noticed, but when Noah tells her "I don't see how it's gonna work out".... I burst into tears at the expression on his face after he said that. I love this scene.
dang this movie is so good! amazing acting by Allie, Noah, and her parents. Such complexity and depth and emotion. I can see why people still talk about The Notebook!
This was me and my husband for a whole year before we get married. Issues like money, social status does play a role on our mental health and decisions. Thank god for the power of the heart. It really shows whom you truly love no matter the situation.
I loveee how Noah looked in this scene. He has really sad eyes and you can see he's so hurt. He looks so cute at the same time and adorable. I'm 17 and I really wish my life is like this lol :/
If any women hits a guy in the face, just like if a guy hits a women, it is an immediate break up. It is one of the most disrespectful things you can do to another person. If you don't have enough respect, man or women, to disagree without physical violence than you are not mature enough to give you my respect or love.
this movie was set in the 40s/50s. it was perfectly common back then. i’m not saying it’s right but come on, don’t get all sensitive about a movie scene. plus, she was only 17 and super young. of course she wasn’t gonna be mature.
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this scene is my monologue, its so sad its my favourite part of the movie 2 act out..cuz it has so much emotion... every reaction she has to what he says just shows how much e's breaking her inside... making her heart ache each second..even tho she knew he was doing it for the best..*sighs
This is my relationship. I come from the gutter and I'm with a rich girl. But I love her because she looked beyond my background. But her folks despise me cause I aint worth they shit. But she loves me but I aint gonna lie I want her to be with what her parents want!! I don't deserve her when Noah sais "I aint gonna have nice things fancy things it's never gonna happend for me it's not in the cards for me" she still with me so idk I guess I'm doing something good for a rich girl to want me??
Are movies presenting us with double standards? Most of them seem to portray that it is okay for women to hit men like that, and the men are just supposed to act all chivalrous and be okay, and woman is just thought of as being "emotional," her 'hits' don't really mean anything really, she's just fragile and human. And if the man is in the movies is hits a girl like that he is abusive and a monster-- but it's more than just that, it's the very WAY the men's hits are portrayed versus the women's-- far more extreme. Just got me thinking. Both of them are not okay. And I get it, when I was younger, and I still hear it now "it's not okay to hit a girl"-- yeah, it isn't. But it's wrong to hit a guy too. Being a woman myself I want to say, it's not okay the other way around either. It's never healthy. But at the end of the day, the movies just do it for the drama. Or do they? Is it subliminal? I don't even know anymore.
+Zayzay N ...Yup she sure are right on that one we men can hurt a female physically buy then again when yall do it to use is not much damage yall do ...more so when they emotionally take a part of use funny how shit works and it amazed me still how a men's feeling can be damage
a lot of ppl are talking about her pain...but he was in pain, too...it's not showing here but when he got up to walk out how he had his hand to abdomen like he had got kicked in the guts...ppl don't realize how words and being ignorant and judgemental can hurt...all he wanted was to love Allie and provide for her...should've been enough..
This reminds me of me. I tried so hard but I knew it wasn't going to be alright. I lost my way but now I know my feelings were true. I grew some balls in the infantry. But now I'm working towards redemption of oneself and to prove only to myself that I can who I want to be and not have parents look down on me. So go out there with pride and get after what you feel you're worth because it isn't a crime. I'm getting my baby back no matter the distance.
It's 2am...they're both tired, frustrated, and he slaps himself because he feels stupid...if only more people would watch the commentary with Mr. Sparks and the commentary with Mr. Cass???..(..don't remember how to spell the last name of the director)...then more people could understand parts that don't seem to make in the movie....they explain pretty much everything....the only thing that was really off besides the fact that you could see their breath in this movie is....
Exactly. Qualification mainly in his social status in society. He wants to build his future with his own two hands, and support her with out anyones help. Which was primarily "The proof of his love" when he builds her the dream house, which eventually gets turned into a clinic, or whatever. If you watch the movie jjjohnnojackson, her parents called him "TRASH" ...making an assumption on his PAY rather than his personality. What would NY bring for him?
My first love did that for me...the first time I saw this movie...I cried like a baby...b/c she was acting out a scene from my life...I didn't beat him up, though...LOL But I knew what that pain was...I knew he was doing it for me...but it didn't really hurt any less...LOVE THIS MOVIE...and the other fight scene...at the end...when he calls her a pain in the ass...reminds me of my boyfriend now...I love him to death b/c I'm so glad we have it like that ...where we can be honest...
when she gets the letters back and you can tell it's not all 365 letters....because if you really do your research on this movie those are about (maybe one or two more little things) the only things that were sorta off....and if you watch the commentary you also find out that this was based off of his wife's grandparents' love story and he didn't show it off and make a big deal about it and he changed it around in the book so when they made the movie differently....
(because not everything in the book works in the movies) it really based off of what actually happened to the wife's more than the book did...but again...he didn't really want to make a big deal about it so he explained that and a lot of other things in the commentary....just for people's information...
whats it called when you tell someone you hate them then a second later you say you love them when ur mad and you say i dont wanna be with you then when they leave you say dont leave me?
She's so bipolar😂 he's all chill and she's just bipolar af. He should've dumped her for sure. I don't know what movie this is so Im not sure how it turns out but I hope he never gets back with her
This movie reminds me of how much i love my best friend. Ive known her for 9 years, and we dated for almost 2 years. I miss her so much... this movie makes me so EMO. But shell never know. :(
Dag he broke up with his chick. No more sex for this guy. Plan b is even fucked up for him. Even his own hand is against him. This guys gonna be sexually frustrated to da max
yeah he was in deep pain cause he thought it was best....dont you just hate that? do whats best even if it breaks your heart?.......and your right..when ppl are upset or angey they become ignorant and mean and it can hurt so bad......i hate that this reminds me of the past ...i guess evryone has to go thru that one heart break that hurts like hell...and wont stop in a month or two
How is she selfish and controlling when before that she literally just said she doesn’t have to go to school for him and was willing to risk all of that for him and stay there with him
I’d hate to be Noah then. She said she hated him, but he still loved her right? Ouch . But Allie still likes him too, even though she said she hated him. That must hurt. 😔 😢
What if his car didn't start....boy would that've been awkward 😂😂
I went from crying to laughing LMFAOOO nice 2 year old comment
“wait a minute, we aren’t really breaking up are we?” LOL
lol
It’s over! I hate you!! LoL 🎶♥️🕊
That’s so me lol 😭😅
The acting was great in this scene.
“What am I gonna do in New York?”
“........be with me?”
The part where he touched her face 😩😩 kills me everytime. The love it shows.
All I have to say is that this scene... you can feel the emotion. I can so relate to the part where she says "This is just a fight where having and tomorrow it will be like it never happened..." For those of you who have been in long term relationships... I'm sure you can relate to this also. She sounds so cut when shes like "No, No, just wait a minute... Where no really breaking up are we? Cmon"... Rachel... is sooooooooooooo beautiful.
allie is slick abusive lol
Girl: pushes and hits guy uncontrollably
Guy: takes one step forward
Girl: "Don't touch me!"
Me: wtf?
lol ikr
i give you...women
Ryan Freeman 😂😂😂
TheAnnoyer no thanks lol
@Trevor Devonshire [Student] amen
Brother
anyone notice noah started slapping himself?? XD watch his hands. 2:39-2:41
names NOT important 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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LMAOO
Nieca they did that on purpose
Niyah exactly my girlfriend slapped me n I had to punch somthin in that moment n there wasn’t any walls or nothing so I had to hit my self before I hitter her
it kills me when he starts to drive off and she says " wait were not really breaking up are we? this will all be better tomorrow morning" :'( shes worlds best actress!
I know this scene is heartbreaking, and I'm crying my eyes out at 12 am watching this... but I love this scene. And I don't know if any of you have noticed, but when Noah tells her "I don't see how it's gonna work out".... I burst into tears at the expression on his face after he said that. I love this scene.
dang this movie is so good! amazing acting by Allie, Noah, and her parents. Such complexity and depth and emotion. I can see why people still talk about The Notebook!
This was me and my husband for a whole year before we get married. Issues like money, social status does play a role on our mental health and decisions. Thank god for the power of the heart. It really shows whom you truly love no matter the situation.
Wild how they made it look so real on screen and had this chemistry, especially since they were fighting backstage... one of the best movies ever!
Man it’s always hard when you feel like you’re making a decision like that. He loved her but didn’t won’t to hold her back.
You're sure it's hard?
I loveee how Noah looked in this scene. He has really sad eyes and you can see he's so hurt. He looks so cute at the same time and adorable. I'm 17 and I really wish my life is like this lol :/
If any women hits a guy in the face, just like if a guy hits a women, it is an immediate break up. It is one of the most disrespectful things you can do to another person. If you don't have enough respect, man or women, to disagree without physical violence than you are not mature enough to give you my respect or love.
2822MJ It's that uncontrollable passion though
Bullrun anyone who uses physical violence in an relationship can claim uncontrollable passion, not an excuse.
i don't think the movie was supposed to have a popup saying "this behavior isn't okay, girls and boys, don't practice in real-life" ?
@@KLB1218 that’s an excuse for abuse
this movie was set in the 40s/50s. it was perfectly common back then. i’m not saying it’s right but come on, don’t get all sensitive about a movie scene. plus, she was only 17 and super young. of course she wasn’t gonna be mature.
guys defends guys
girls defends girls
so intense i swear
Out of all the romance movies that i've watched, this has got to be the BEST one ever.
So obvious they were in love while shooting this movie, no other way u could produce acting like that.
chemistry vs love is different.
Notice Noah wanted to cry too @ 2:15
@@steflondon88 theres truth to that I guess
lol at Noah slapping himself
think he does it to stop her and show her how ridiculous it is.
Loved it too 😂
2:45 - 3:15
Women.......
To the fucking T
This reminds me so much of my recent break up. *Bawling
wow i laugh every time "he gets in the car" just leave!!" no no wait a minute we arent really breaking up are we" man..but i love the movie ftw
Allie was whooping Noah's ass the whole movie😭🤣🤣🤣
😆 she was!
She just beats him up. Run boy. Run.
The True Love Between This People Is How They Can Be Mad At Each Other For One Minute Then Love Each Other The Next
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this scene is my monologue, its so sad its my favourite part of the movie 2 act out..cuz it has so much emotion... every reaction she has to what he says just shows how much e's breaking her inside... making her heart ache each second..even tho she knew he was doing it for the best..*sighs
This is my relationship. I come from the gutter and I'm with a rich girl. But I love her because she looked beyond my background. But her folks despise me cause I aint worth they shit. But she loves me but I aint gonna lie I want her to be with what her parents want!! I don't deserve her when Noah sais "I aint gonna have nice things fancy things it's never gonna happend for me it's not in the cards for me" she still with me so idk I guess I'm doing something good for a rich girl to want me??
Are movies presenting us with double standards? Most of them seem to portray that it is okay for women to hit men like that, and the men are just supposed to act all chivalrous and be okay, and woman is just thought of as being "emotional," her 'hits' don't really mean anything really, she's just fragile and human. And if the man is in the movies is hits a girl like that he is abusive and a monster-- but it's more than just that, it's the very WAY the men's hits are portrayed versus the women's-- far more extreme. Just got me thinking. Both of them are not okay. And I get it, when I was younger, and I still hear it now "it's not okay to hit a girl"-- yeah, it isn't. But it's wrong to hit a guy too. Being a woman myself I want to say, it's not okay the other way around either. It's never healthy. But at the end of the day, the movies just do it for the drama. Or do they? Is it subliminal? I don't even know anymore.
because when a woman hits a man, she can't do much damage physically. But I'm sure some women did a lot damage to guys' hearts.
That's so true! Thanks for reply(: I've always thought of abuse as more than physical though.
+Zayzay N ...Yup she sure are right on that one we men can hurt a female physically buy then again when yall do it to use is not much damage yall do ...more so when they emotionally take a part of use funny how shit works and it amazed me still how a men's feeling can be damage
i'm in the same situation as allie..i have to go away for college soon and leave him behind :'(
So... did it work out? I'm going to wager one hundred dollars saying it did not.
*Drives away angrily yelling BYE FELICIA*
Would've been better without all the slapping
There is nothing wrong
How he says come here to comfort her when he just finished hitting him shows how much he loved her 🤩🤩
That moment, when your heart breaks AGAIN for The Notebook
i love this movie! this scene always makes me weep 😢😢😢😭😭💔
LMAO "Even his own hand is against him"
Niyah thats false. He knows that would annoy her into stopping
They always say, making up....is better than breaking up...🙄
Hope I don't date a girl like that!
“Tomorrow will be like this ever happened , right ? “ oh how much we all wished it was just a bad dream and we’d wake up refreshed !
omg she is like I love you I hate you I love you I hate you I love it
a lot of ppl are talking about her pain...but he was in pain, too...it's not showing here but when he got up to walk out how he had his hand to abdomen like he had got kicked in the guts...ppl don't realize how words and being ignorant and judgemental can hurt...all he wanted was to love Allie and provide for her...should've been enough..
*Lofi Creators have entered the chat*
Love is not complicated.It never was.PEOPLE are the ones who make it complicated.
Yuuup
This breaks my heart every time I watch it..
This is what kids do, they are impulsive, irrational and selfish and that my folks is why dopamine is a dangerous thing when it comes to teenage love
LOL! During that scene, I was crying, "No hand! How could you betray me?"
This reminds me of me. I tried so hard but I knew it wasn't going to be alright. I lost my way but now I know my feelings were true. I grew some balls in the infantry. But now I'm working towards redemption of oneself and to prove only to myself that I can who I want to be and not have parents look down on me. So go out there with pride and get after what you feel you're worth because it isn't a crime. I'm getting my baby back no matter the distance.
did you get her back?
When Noah & Allie break-up in The Notebook.. Always makes me cry
Be with me. What a strong word!!!
It's 2am...they're both tired, frustrated, and he slaps himself because he feels stupid...if only more people would watch the commentary with Mr. Sparks and the commentary with Mr. Cass???..(..don't remember how to spell the last name of the director)...then more people could understand parts that don't seem to make in the movie....they explain pretty much everything....the only thing that was really off besides the fact that you could see their breath in this movie is....
Nothing says I love you like verbal and physical abuse!
Back then men weren't pussies who had a cry when they got bitch slapped but someone physically weaker.
How can you cry at something so damn funny?
"... be with me..."
GO! NOW! LEAVE!!!
....Wait, we're not really breakin' up are we??
Exactly. Qualification mainly in his social status in society. He wants to build his future with his own two hands, and support her with out anyones help. Which was primarily "The proof of his love" when he builds her the dream house, which eventually gets turned into a clinic, or whatever. If you watch the movie jjjohnnojackson, her parents called him "TRASH" ...making an assumption on his PAY rather than his personality. What would NY bring for him?
Dude, relatable
i really liked ur comment...often actions speak louder than words and not too many people remember that!...thanks!
I LUV THE SOUNDTRACK
My first love did that for me...the first time I saw this movie...I cried like a baby...b/c she was acting out a scene from my life...I didn't beat him up, though...LOL But I knew what that pain was...I knew he was doing it for me...but it didn't really hurt any less...LOVE THIS MOVIE...and the other fight scene...at the end...when he calls her a pain in the ass...reminds me of my boyfriend now...I love him to death b/c I'm so glad we have it like that ...where we can be honest...
when she gets the letters back and you can tell it's not all 365 letters....because if you really do your research on this movie those are about (maybe one or two more little things) the only things that were sorta off....and if you watch the commentary you also find out that this was based off of his wife's grandparents' love story and he didn't show it off and make a big deal about it and he changed it around in the book so when they made the movie differently....
the notebook.
Is this what women written by male sounds like, we seems incredible but also annoying but also you love it?
This scene gets me Everytime 😭😭😭
he didn't he slapped himself
(because not everything in the book works in the movies) it really based off of what actually happened to the wife's more than the book did...but again...he didn't really want to make a big deal about it so he explained that and a lot of other things in the commentary....just for people's information...
kinda how i feel after all my breakups.
So this is where idealism got it from
Ok he obviously loved her, but felt uncomfortable or just was afraid to leave his hometown, insecurity?
whats it called when you tell someone you hate them then a second later you say you love them
when ur mad and you say i dont wanna be with you then when they leave you say dont leave me?
This make me want to cry 😭😰😢😥😓😢
She's so bipolar😂 he's all chill and she's just bipolar af. He should've dumped her for sure. I don't know what movie this is so Im not sure how it turns out but I hope he never gets back with her
They get married but she ends up with dementia
+Evil QueenXVII well damn spoilers and shit😂
sarah she was distraught....
So hitting each other in the face is apparently “love”.
This movie reminds me of how much i love my best friend. Ive known her for 9 years, and we dated for almost 2 years. I miss her so much... this movie makes me so EMO. But shell never know. :(
10 years later and now what happened?
@@jordanvinson9082 ...We both went into law enforcement for different agencies. We lost touch. Life goes on.
Aiiwolf I honestly expected a whole different answer but I’m sorry for asking. I wish you the best life.
Dag he broke up with his chick. No more sex for this guy. Plan b is even fucked up for him. Even his own hand is against him. This guys gonna be sexually frustrated to da max
If he loved her so much, why didn't he go to New York with her?
It was suppose to be a special secret 🤫
this is me and gabe breaking up cuz of what he did on the sumnmer sale
yeah he was in deep pain cause he thought it was best....dont you just hate that? do whats best even if it breaks your heart?.......and your right..when ppl are upset or angey they become ignorant and mean and it can hurt so bad......i hate that this reminds me of the past ...i guess evryone has to go thru that one heart break that hurts like hell...and wont stop in a month or two
what am i gonna do in newyork? ..be with me?
ohhh the way she says that make me melt. :/
@KatherineIrenee In order not hit her!! He loves her so much..
This movie makes me cry
why did my teacher want me to watch this
its goodd
Ok, He didn't want to leave his father?
Really? It made me laugh. This was one of the stupidest break-ups in cinematic history.
Heartbreaking
When there is true love u will wait❤
“...What am I gonna do in New York?”
“Be with me”
That’s so selfish and controlling
no hun it’s called love
How is she selfish and controlling when before that she literally just said she doesn’t have to go to school for him and was willing to risk all of that for him and stay there with him
So you're going to say goodbye by repeatedly shoving and slapping him? Ha, ha. Sorry. I hate romance movies.
Vote positive if you sorta forced her to break up with you knew because you knew it was for the best, less guilt that way? I say more guilt...
I love this
why does he hit himself at 2:39? ahahhhaha
I’d hate to be Noah then. She said she hated him, but he still loved her right? Ouch . But Allie still likes him too, even though she said she hated him. That must hurt. 😔 😢
Brexit in nutshell
Lobert_Lin lol
It make really hurt
Why would Noah hit Allie in the first place? The hell?
missing my soul .........
y do I keep hurting her hate myself
want to c & meet her badly badlyy
WELLLL she isss violent so maybe he slap himself to take it out allll on him and not on her! :/
ironqueenfanful I personally think it’s to show that he hates himself for doing that
does anyone else see him slap himself in the face?