How to let go someone you love truly but doesn't love you || Bishop Mar Mari Emmanuel

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  • @eranarua6096
    @eranarua6096 Месяц назад +630

    I married very young but I knew I was ready I got married at 19 to the man I met when I was only 13 I prayed to God for him. As I got older we met again and 2 years later we got married. We became. Christian together a year later and I knew I had to be a good wife and mum we bought our children up in the Lord and they are still close to the Lord. My husband and I had a beautiful marriage we loved the Lord and each other and our children so much. We were married 40 years and he passed to the Lord I am now a widow. Still in love with him. Praise God for love ❤❤❤

    • @MGS.037
      @MGS.037 Месяц назад +22

      Beautiful life my dear! So happy! God bless you!

    • @gaildrake5940
      @gaildrake5940 Месяц назад +17

      You were blessed some of us don’t have that

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX Месяц назад +2

      Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
      1 Corinthians 7:39 - The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      Matthew Chapter 5
      31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
      32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
      Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
      1 Corinthians Chapter 7
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

    • @gaildrake5940
      @gaildrake5940 Месяц назад +10

      @@RyanREAX I am curious why are you putting these verses about adultery on this thread

    • @dizmop
      @dizmop Месяц назад +3

      This is a lovely story but what has it got to do with this message?
      You are a very fortunate Woman, praise the Lord Jesus

  • @buck_maize111
    @buck_maize111 Месяц назад +342

    My wife left me in 2022, she tried to destroy me.. she ended up a meth addict.. she left her kids for men and drugs.
    I got the kids and a new life in christ.
    She's been in and out of rehab for 5 months and mental hospitals since 2023.. she was the love of my life.. but we were living in deep sin. I found God in 2019, and everything went south in our marriage since.. she wasn't from God!
    If I have to stay single and follow God the rest of my life I will. But I'll never be unequally yoked ever again.
    Don't focus on finding a partner..focus on God!

    • @ceasarwright7567
      @ceasarwright7567 Месяц назад +1

      Daymmm

    • @ceasarwright7567
      @ceasarwright7567 Месяц назад +6

      @joanarc7963 its easier for men ? Umm in what world

    • @ceasarwright7567
      @ceasarwright7567 Месяц назад

      @joanarc7963 Youre a 10/10 looks department , you prob have 1000 men willing to date. What drugs was your ex hooked on ?

    • @joanofarcxxi
      @joanofarcxxi Месяц назад

      Good.

    • @scoutdog5551
      @scoutdog5551 Месяц назад +3

      I lived the same life as you my brother, except that I took her back a dozen times and got her clean a dozen times. All to no avail

  • @francinepinto9075
    @francinepinto9075 Месяц назад +280

    Sometimes God really is protecting us from a future that only He has seen...Sometimes it's good to believe in God as your Father who is really looking out for you❤

    • @Mr.Obongo
      @Mr.Obongo Месяц назад +2

      Yeah but I feel God doesn’t have a future for me, I would’ve had one by now. His only future for me is being alone and miserable it seems.

    • @jerusalemspeaks
      @jerusalemspeaks Месяц назад

      That's true!

    • @jabon7303
      @jabon7303 Месяц назад

      @@Mr.Obongoit will get better soon, don't worry

    • @swanfeather6228
      @swanfeather6228 Месяц назад

      ITS ALWAYS GOOD .

    • @InT3graTi-Of-Pur3InH3arT
      @InT3graTi-Of-Pur3InH3arT 28 дней назад

      TRUE 💖

  • @simfernandes69
    @simfernandes69 Месяц назад +200

    The one who is experiencing this trauma will know the real meaning of this ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @molotov7000
      @molotov7000 Месяц назад +24

      Was in that situation but recovered by the grace of God

    • @TheJesusArena
      @TheJesusArena  Месяц назад +21

      @@molotov7000 we thank God you have recovered and It is our prayer for you that God will give you a testimony 🙏

  • @glowieokenney7915
    @glowieokenney7915 Месяц назад +73

    My marriage crumbled because he lived in the world. Being unequally yoked was disappointing beyond!

    • @susanwangunyu406
      @susanwangunyu406 Месяц назад +1

      I agree. Am going through this and hoping to settle my debts and move out

  • @chriskourlos4407
    @chriskourlos4407 Месяц назад +82

    Love is Blind but marriage is an Eye Opener!!!❤😂🎉

  • @MsCenturiaa
    @MsCenturiaa Месяц назад +131

    My father was a narcissist and I met a guy who is just like my father narcissist my own father didn’t love me and the man I been with for 24 years don’t love me and never has I’m gunna be 55 in a week I just want to break free and be happy and before I leave earth I want to know what love feels like please pray for me

    • @ernestoalcones9697
      @ernestoalcones9697 Месяц назад +9

      I wonder if you have kids and if not maybe nieces and nephews. Maybe a dog or cat. But Love, Mam it’s in all of us how we care for someone, in our actions, in our words, how every word is good news to their hearts. Blessed are you for the broken hearted are closer to the Savior.

    • @atuheirwejacqueline3584
      @atuheirwejacqueline3584 Месяц назад +5

      May God guide you and all of us

    • @glowieokenney7915
      @glowieokenney7915 Месяц назад +4

      Same exact situation as my life. I’m 51. Getting divorced in sept.

    • @germel1155
      @germel1155 Месяц назад +7

      Don't hold on to a stone, let go, and love from a distance. Pray, remember, Jesus loves you.

    • @cleopetra87
      @cleopetra87 Месяц назад +5

      I can totally relate 😢 I'm sorry what you're going through, I totally understand. I pray God finds your way out 🙏

  • @JesusIsKing-qm9wn
    @JesusIsKing-qm9wn 28 дней назад +26

    The scariest thing about dating is you truly don’t know who you’re dating . I dated a narcissist and that is the most scary because they play with your emotions and abuse you and the next day they are so sweet to you . That’s how they manipulate you . Yesterday he left me. After a year of telling me he wants to marry me, yesterday he told me he doesn’t love me…I’m so glad God saved my life

  • @2edg
    @2edg Месяц назад +70

    No I don't want another one from there. I realize Yeshua is The Most Powerful Truth of Love and will never forsake me. ❤

  • @patkemp4919
    @patkemp4919 Месяц назад +64

    I rededicated my life to Jesus the closer I got to my awesome relationship with Jesus, He changed me from the inside. I had been in one of these one sided relationship with a man for years, because of Love. Had to choose between what was right for my salvation or stay broken in a broken situation. I gave my soul to Jesus, so I chose to follow Jesus. Pricless is what I found. My God is an Awesome God. Happier, contented, comforted, Led On Good Sheppard. Prayers and Love to All

  • @heyitsalfe
    @heyitsalfe Месяц назад +45

    7 years. God delivered me. Still hurts but not like before

  • @andreflavell3453
    @andreflavell3453 Месяц назад +153

    i threw all my adult life away on relationships. now i live alone on a yacht with my dog . no more worldy relationships for me . only a christian woman from here on that is unjabbed and in the world but no part of it

    • @akferren1
      @akferren1 Месяц назад

      Very important to find someone who didn’t take the gene therapy shots.. I won’t date a man who took them or who slept with a woman who took them and if it means I’ll never date or have sex again so be it I’m fine with that.. I value my health

    • @natashatash.o6687
      @natashatash.o6687 Месяц назад +13

      I can raise my hand on that

    • @Monalisa0622
      @Monalisa0622 Месяц назад +18

      Beautifully said sir. Especially the unjabbed part. ❤

    • @JoyCrossbridge
      @JoyCrossbridge Месяц назад +2

      There are many kinds of dangerous jabs… I hope your relationship with the woman you mention is under the covering of the Lord’s blessings through holy matrimony!

    • @andreflavell3453
      @andreflavell3453 Месяц назад +6

      @@JoyCrossbridge you made a very good point and yes it will be . my walk with god is stronger than ever . i’m not perfect but i live a clean life and show love to all our brothers and sisters

  • @user-zl3cn8mv2s
    @user-zl3cn8mv2s Месяц назад +48

    Love is the strongest force in the world and when it's blocked that means pain. The only way is to go to God in prayer. This is the truth. Good sermon, there Bishop! 🙏

  • @yessicatauladan9143
    @yessicatauladan9143 Месяц назад +46

    Never lie in relationship

  • @ThatGaijinFella
    @ThatGaijinFella Месяц назад +58

    I had to walk away from a 16 year marriage. It was extremely painful. But I'm remarried now and very happy.

    • @saraz9017
      @saraz9017 Месяц назад +2

      You had to walk away?

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX Месяц назад +4

      Remarriage doesn't work until she dies.. you're going to hell if you die in that relationship

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX Месяц назад

      Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
      1 Corinthians 7:39 - The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      Matthew Chapter 5
      31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
      32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
      Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
      1 Corinthians Chapter 7
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

    • @Newmanidentity
      @Newmanidentity Месяц назад +1

      ​@@RyanREAXOoops 😢😢😢😢😢 really ?

    • @cmbhalupowski
      @cmbhalupowski Месяц назад +11

      @@RyanREAXnot if there is adultery, abandonment or abuse and one doesn't want to repent You may leave.

  • @tab207
    @tab207 Месяц назад +77

    I was engaged to a nonbeliever & a year ago she left me, less than a month before we were to be married. I’m still struggling very much with this even though I understand the Lord doesn’t want me to be with someone who rejects Him. Your words are appreciated. God bless

    • @andreakhayat381
      @andreakhayat381 Месяц назад +3

      Boy why

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX Месяц назад

      Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
      1 Corinthians 7:39 - The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      Matthew Chapter 5
      31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
      32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
      Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
      1 Corinthians Chapter 7
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

    • @glowieokenney7915
      @glowieokenney7915 Месяц назад +6

      Being unequally yoked was the worst thing in my life. 18 years married. He wants nothing to do with Jesus! I tried to change him into a Christian. Nothing changed!!! It’s meant to be that you aren’t together! Get yourself a Christian gal who doesn’t live in the world ❤

    • @Champman543
      @Champman543 Месяц назад

      I hope you're good now, brother. Seems like an horrible experience. I wish i had your strength...

    • @joanofarcxxi
      @joanofarcxxi Месяц назад +5

      "Do not be unequally yoked". I wish your heart healing. If you let it go and open your heart you will meet the right person. ❤

  • @BigSoul29
    @BigSoul29 Месяц назад +139

    I'm 29 and struggling with severe depression. It's not a joke.

    • @julietcoles6245
      @julietcoles6245 Месяц назад +13

      Just know that there is an answer to your situation. No matter how terrible you feel, this is like being in a dark cloud when above the cloud the sun is shining. The pain is real but the answer is more real. Keep looking toward the Answer who answers every need and expect things to change no matter how distant a probability that feels to be. Feelings are real but they are not an indication of the Truth, thank goodness, so hope is real no matter how things seem. You are not alone.

    • @Sandy-ff3xx
      @Sandy-ff3xx Месяц назад +4

      Me too

    • @Sandy-ff3xx
      @Sandy-ff3xx Месяц назад

      Very hard i was married. Not have thé right to meet somebody Again im catholic i was married at church 😢😢😢

    • @CerebralBadger
      @CerebralBadger Месяц назад +23

      I'm 29 as well, and I also struggled with severe depression and suicidal thoughts.
      You're right, it is no joke.
      Here's a list of things that didn't help me:
      Alcohol/weed
      Pornography/sex
      Politics/philosophy
      Entertainment/distractions
      Antidepressants/therapy
      Trusting in myself
      What did help me:
      Finding God
      Praying to him
      Letting go of my baggage
      and giving it to Him
      Learning to love and be grateful through Him
      I'm not perfect, and depression still rears its ugly head from time to time, but putting my faith in the Lord (even if it sounds cliche) was the only thing that helped me.
      I wish you the best, it is not an easy burden you carry, but know that God loves you.

    • @decflowerful
      @decflowerful Месяц назад +2

      Get closer to God and do the carnivore diet. It helps a lot of health & mental issues.

  • @ebenezermaroveke
    @ebenezermaroveke 8 дней назад +2

    Weirdly, I once was in a relationship that was toxic. I prayed for the power to let go, God one day just gave me the power to let everything go. I totally agree with his advice

  • @Luckystoic
    @Luckystoic 14 дней назад +13

    My sweet sweeeeeet STEPMOM passed away from Cancer, bacterial meningitis, lungs infection, kidney failure, fits,strokes internal bleeding and finally heart failure. She was only 48 year old ,but I know she’s in Heaven!!! She wasn’t just my mom, but my best friend. Please pray for her.

  • @trishisfeld4239
    @trishisfeld4239 Месяц назад +40

    It's been 4 years & I am still praying to GOD about letting go. I am healing but it takes time and I am still living my life ❤

    • @TUFFGUY-xp1hk
      @TUFFGUY-xp1hk Месяц назад +2

      I often need to leave public places to shed some years all alone and it's only been almost 4 months. I feel for you for going though it for 4 years. I hope you get better and the sadness goes away for you.

    • @trishisfeld4239
      @trishisfeld4239 Месяц назад

      @@TUFFGUY-xp1hk Thank you 🩷

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX Месяц назад

      Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
      1 Corinthians 7:39 - The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      Matthew Chapter 5
      31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
      32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
      Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
      1 Corinthians Chapter 7
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

    • @siddharth3485
      @siddharth3485 Месяц назад +3

      God bless u

    • @trishisfeld4239
      @trishisfeld4239 Месяц назад

      @@siddharth3485 And you 🩵✨️✌️

  • @janeroberts1354
    @janeroberts1354 Месяц назад +17

    I am married to Jesus first!

  • @michellesmith5436
    @michellesmith5436 Месяц назад +54

    Romantic love rejected is unfortunate but parental or filial love rejected is tragic.

  • @zakstrazdas9221
    @zakstrazdas9221 Месяц назад +15

    My wife decided to betray our marriage with another mans comfort. 10 years down the drain. Im broken 31yo man now, and i know there is a reason why, but i found out after i found her unfaithful. I was not a 100% believer but what happened that day, I believe it’s an act of God! He knew i was suffering , but i was too weak to let this marriage go.
    So thank you lord! ❤

    • @Firstlady398
      @Firstlady398 19 дней назад

      I pray you find the healing you need.
      May you also be sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit in your life.

    • @ntaleefrance5650
      @ntaleefrance5650 17 дней назад

      Thank God, that was revealed to you. There's a reason for everything. Take heart my dear

  • @garylines5755
    @garylines5755 Месяц назад +43

    People don't love each other they use each other and are afraid to be alone .

    • @akeishaharris
      @akeishaharris Месяц назад +4

      Exactly..

    • @thelovelylife7451
      @thelovelylife7451 Месяц назад +2

      I’ve always had this same thought. It irks me that people can’t just be alone. I have deep sympathy… but, it still irks me. Unfortunately, I believe many relationships are inauthentic for this exact reason

    • @user-pc5dg3ij1j
      @user-pc5dg3ij1j 18 дней назад

      Deep Words...

  • @ThereseAnderson-xp7hy
    @ThereseAnderson-xp7hy Месяц назад +36

    I think most of us have been through something like that. You love them but they don't love you. I have been there a few times. Just because i can only think about how it hurts emotionally and physically, i cannot think logically. Later on after some time, i realized it was better we didn't end up together. We didn't share the same values and our lifestyles were not complimentary. I also realized that the person they ended up with was better for them than i would have been.
    Take time to heal. God isn't finished with you yet. It is just the beginning of God's story for you. The single season isn't forever. Maybe just take time to focus on your growth with Jesus. May Jesus' peace be with you!🌸🌸🌸

    • @saundralunsford4870
      @saundralunsford4870 Месяц назад +1

      Jesus knows the beginning from the end of all our lives. Sometimes, He protects us from ourselves. It is so difficult and heartbreaking when you're going through this valley, but please know that Jesus NEVER LEAVES YOU OR FORSAKES YOU.

    • @MezzoMamma1
      @MezzoMamma1 Месяц назад

      Good comment.

    • @melaniedileo5232
      @melaniedileo5232 15 дней назад +1

      God bless you❤

  • @nicolettelindsey6902
    @nicolettelindsey6902 Месяц назад +55

    All I do is pray after my husbands illicit 20 mo affair. It’s terribly painful, but I know God has a plan. Jesus I TRUST in you!

    • @Spawn08th
      @Spawn08th Месяц назад +8

      I’m kind of going through the same thing with my wife. Has this changed for you yet? Is it better? I will pray for you regardless.

    • @RyeCooter
      @RyeCooter Месяц назад +1

      Im sorry

    • @TashaLeigh-qk1bb
      @TashaLeigh-qk1bb Месяц назад +2

      I'm sorry, I understand how you feel, praying for you

    • @Tjikkko
      @Tjikkko Месяц назад

      You may do worst

    • @Spawn08th
      @Spawn08th Месяц назад

      @@Tjikkko what are you trying to convey?!

  • @frankgeary7574
    @frankgeary7574 Месяц назад +34

    Lord Jesus. I ask that you mend my heart. My girlfriend that I love oh so much decided to break up with me. Perhaps I thought it was love but I guess it wasn’t for her. Heal my heart as I am broken and weak. I need your strength God more than ever so I can let go. Thank you Lord for restoring what you need to restore. Amen

    • @mainpurpose2512
      @mainpurpose2512 Месяц назад +6

      This is extremely hard to do to. To pray while heartbroken. well at least for me it was. the fact that you have the strength to do this speaks volumes. just stay focused and everything will work out. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus and He will bless you more than you could ever imagine.

    • @frankgeary7574
      @frankgeary7574 Месяц назад +3

      @@mainpurpose2512 thank you I appreciate it. It still feels like all this is not true. When I wake up I feel as if I am next to her then I quickly realize she really is out of my life. Prayer is the only thing I can hold on to.

    • @mainpurpose2512
      @mainpurpose2512 Месяц назад

      @@frankgeary7574 well, I know you may not want to hear this, but it may be in God’s will. you are turning to Jesus now and you may have been on a path to your own demise not knowing it and he has woken you up. You may still get her back you never know, but it may be a process that you have to go through, just try your best to trust the Lord’s process brother. Much love man

    • @williamc6564
      @williamc6564 Месяц назад +1

      True love will find you. Do not look for true love in the empty heart of the packaging. You are being guided to your love and this lesson is so you can understand love is not in looks or body but in heart and spirit. Love will find you and delight you. Be glad she has freed you now and not when you are in prison with her in a loveless marriage.

    • @annsaunders5768
      @annsaunders5768 Месяц назад

      Make short prayers, asking God to direct you then listen for what He sends your way...​@@mainpurpose2512

  • @GraceKamaesini
    @GraceKamaesini Месяц назад +47

    Lord, I pray that you heal my heart.

  • @Sheislove144
    @Sheislove144 Месяц назад +43

    I love you bishop mari ❤ he is precious and hilarious 😂 Jesus is Lord hallelujah❤

  • @josephtermeer5196
    @josephtermeer5196 Месяц назад +29

    I married a woman at 26, she had 2 children from a former marriage. She is very intelligent. I think she was a Christian. 19 years later she committed adultery to a drug addict. What is wierd, I always had a feeling she would do what she did. But, I thought it was just me. Pay attention to those doubts before the commitment.

  • @getachewworku-dg8hz
    @getachewworku-dg8hz Месяц назад +35

    Jesus of Nazareth is the light, the truth, and the way. God guide all of us towards the right path , IM FROM ETHIOPIA

  • @juliebraunschweig2108
    @juliebraunschweig2108 23 дня назад +10

    Struggling with colon cancer and 7 heart stents and have been praying so hard for so long I'm exhausted... My son married, moved his wife , her son, her sister and her mother into my home. A year ago he was baptised. Within months of his baptism he promptly abandoned all of us to fend for ourselves. The wolf wasnt at the door...he was inside! I pray to God to end the conflict we have between loving him as Christians and despising him for what he's done. Brokenhearted here... please pray for us!

  • @user-yw1rp4rj4u
    @user-yw1rp4rj4u Месяц назад +15

    people must learn to be happy in their own company, only then can Quality relationships flourish because it is a natural attraction, not a fixated need…

  • @daves2822
    @daves2822 Месяц назад +20

    You can love someone but not like them. Sometimes, all you have left for them is prayer. At some point, they have used your good graces, and you reach your limit. Pray for them and do what you must with as little pain. Their inflicted pains on you are their stones in their baggage. You need not carry it. Keep them in your prayers and ask god to help you and them.
    All praise to the holy name of Jesus Christ and his righteousness, mercy, and grace. Bless al of you, my brothers and sisters

    • @jenb7772
      @jenb7772 Месяц назад +2

      Well said this has been
      my situation for years
      I love but cannot tolerate
      The years of abusive
      treatment any longer.
      Unfortunately this person
      Uses the word of God to
      bludgeon and twist the
      Circumstances to add
      To the abuse already
      suffered by using Gods
      Word to justify their abuse

    • @jwc713
      @jwc713 Месяц назад +1

      @@jenb7772 Sounds like a narcissist. Run!

  • @Chuchutato
    @Chuchutato Месяц назад +18

    I've become numb. After 20th times of that,
    Got used to it, although I drink lots of beers back then. But now Since I stopped I also stopped drinking then I met peace and silent. I still get this slight jealousy on people with relationship but I'm more than happy. God is the only person I need.
    I've seen the paradise and I wanted to go there more than ever.

    • @annsaunders5768
      @annsaunders5768 Месяц назад +3

      Don't be like Judas who killed himself so he could never ask forgiveness from our Lord who is Love and mercy. I'll be praying for you...

  • @LizuQadaria
    @LizuQadaria Месяц назад +19

    :( im 16 yo, my first love left me saying he deserved better than me, now i feel like world is over for me, i can't fight this feeling. Lord Jesus Christ, son of god, have a mercy on me, sinner. May god bless you all

    • @LizuQadaria
      @LizuQadaria Месяц назад +2

      @@iqunknown786 Jesus is only one I have in life right now.. may god bless you

    • @benjisea
      @benjisea Месяц назад +2

      Hope you feel better! I know that feeling

    • @Mr.Obongo
      @Mr.Obongo Месяц назад +1

      You’re 16 relax you’ll be fine, you got your whole life ahead of you.

    • @lovelycanservative8315
      @lovelycanservative8315 Месяц назад

      You’re only 16 hon trust me I know the feeling of being 16 and with someone you love. I got to marry mine at 16 and 16 years later he’s still saying he deserves better than me after everything he put me through and has no remorse. Use this time while you have no kids and single to focus on God and know God loves you and is getting your future husband prepped and prepared for you so you can be with someone who actually wants you. I was cheated out of life thinking he loved me I never got the proposal or the pictures of being pregnant and happy and in love I married my first love and I’m still in love with him but it’s not reciprocated the same way. Find a God fearing man and he will treat you right. It’s not the end of the world just like he said he deserves better so do you. God Bless❤

    • @Miracx3
      @Miracx3 Месяц назад +2

      I'm sorry sweetheart, I remember going through the same thing, the sorrow was real but I know 100% that it will pass. Promise! but be strong in Christ, life is goong to be a Rollercoaster. You need to stay close to God, don't forget Him, you're going to need Him everyday. God bless!

  • @XWZ757
    @XWZ757 Месяц назад +11

    I agree with you Bishop Mar Mari. We need to pray asking God if that person we like /love is the one to be our partner in marriage. 🙂

  • @Amabella3020
    @Amabella3020 Месяц назад +13

    I just had the biggest heartbreak with the person I called my mum, am broken oh lord help me

  • @iulianax
    @iulianax 24 дня назад +7

    I want to share this for those who are struggling with walking away. A year ago I left my one year relationship, we were close, no marriage but just two naive kids. He didnt believe in God like I did, he was cold and i realised he is pushing me farther away from God due to the things he wanted to do and i didnt. It took me months and i mentally broke up with him before physical doing it. The regret is rushing into relationships as a young teenager, its not a joke. It damaged me. And i am healing and have healed. I have prayed, lots for him and for I. I have prayed and i had the strengths to leave even if i was hated for it. You can do it. I was a teenager, naive and i rushed. Dont do that. God bless you all.
    You can do it.

  • @abrahamelias5240
    @abrahamelias5240 Месяц назад +15

    That's me in print, 25 years of life in pain. THANK GOD IT'S OVER

    • @serafinatruth4029
      @serafinatruth4029 Месяц назад +1

      Same here. 25 years. Then he died.

    • @serafinatruth4029
      @serafinatruth4029 Месяц назад +1

      Same here. 25 years. Then suddenly he died.

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX Месяц назад

      Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
      1 Corinthians 7:39 - The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      Matthew Chapter 5
      31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
      32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
      Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
      1 Corinthians Chapter 7
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

  • @MonsterArmz
    @MonsterArmz 28 дней назад +7

    I am 31 and i am suffering depression.. i was broke and heart broken at the same time couldn't find a girl who can truly love me for who i am or who i came from.. i am always asking to God to heal me.. i need it.. ❤ good thing i found bishop mar mari Emmanuel with the use of social media.. he let me understand very well who is Jesus Christ to us.❤❤ God bless this man ❤

  • @Mary-xc2gu
    @Mary-xc2gu Месяц назад +9

    Give your Love to Christ 🙏

  • @DennisPrinsze
    @DennisPrinsze Месяц назад +11

    Bless all who read this my Lord Amen! 🙏

  • @newgreatcreation5964
    @newgreatcreation5964 Месяц назад +5

    Difficult topic. Yet love is part of life. Some times it's there to educate us. We don't know the future. People get married for different reasons. Some for real friendship. Lasting commitment. Some people want to feel this thing called love. The first thing you must
    understand that if you have all this love inside of you it's great. Appreciate it. The second
    Part is getting the other person to freely accept it. The important word here is freely.
    You don't want someone to come without freedom free will. You will feel guilty.
    If you love some one and your not receiving it back then its time to just stop. Put cold
    Water on the fire. Don't buy anything if it's not on offer. It will hurt. A lot. Give it to christ.
    If you still feel the same way do the sensible thing. Give it time. Time has all the answers
    In the world. A reasonable amount of time. Then if nothing happens move on.
    Best wishes to all.

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 Месяц назад +9

    Simple! Give them to God! 😊❤

  • @DumbzaUseless
    @DumbzaUseless 29 дней назад +4

    I wish he gave me this advice all those years ago I would have never wasted years of my life being depressed over one person. These were the answers that I needed at that time when I was only 20 years old.

  • @ronahermo9239
    @ronahermo9239 Месяц назад +3

    True genuine love is very hard to find now a days. However genuine love is very very painful 💔 and always hurts. But it's a very beautiful gift from God to be able to love truly 💕

  • @MorningRain732
    @MorningRain732 8 дней назад +1

    Yes Lord if he's not a man of God, please show me to let him go. He's constantly lying to me. I see things that should not be a part of life and I will continue to pray for myself to get out of this toxic relationship. I'm not in love with this guy. I was single before I meant him..I was a lot happier without him

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 Месяц назад +10

    I pray for healing. Like He said, whe there are kids involved, its a different thing all together for the kids will suffer. I pray for my healing lord. My heart is heavy.

  • @FikirTedla
    @FikirTedla Месяц назад +2

    በህመሜም ውስጥ ፈገግ እንድል አርገህም በመንፈስም ትንሽ ከፍ እንድል ጠቁመሃኛል እናም ምናለ ቀደም ብዬ ባወኩት አልኩኝ ምንምንኳን ሁሉም በሰአቱ ቢሆንም .... እስኪ ደሞ በህመሜ ውስጥም ሆኜ .... ህይወት ይቀጥላል እግዚአብሔር ይስጥልኝ ❤

  • @awfelia
    @awfelia Месяц назад +2

    Being married to an unbeliever is very difficult so my advice, after 40 years in such a situation, is to look into the issue before committing because it affects one's children and grandchildren as well! ♡

  • @lindasmith3391
    @lindasmith3391 Месяц назад +3

    You don’t let go. Our Holy Father loves us and never lets go of that love. Our Holy Father does not say love is blind. Our Father says that love is the greatest. You keep praying for that person. Do not give up on your marriage, but pray , because with our Holy Father all things is possible. Our Father hates divorce and division.

  • @JacobMaine-sl6pv
    @JacobMaine-sl6pv Месяц назад +6

    Thank you Father Mar Meri Emmanuel for making me a young wise man, for I'm just 20 without such a boy girl relationship.. ( from PNG )

  • @tanjasmit7535
    @tanjasmit7535 Месяц назад +4

    Aaaahhhh and the bishop has a sense of humour too😅
    What a wonderful, beautiful soul in Christ! 🇿🇦❣️

  • @AWayOfLiving84
    @AWayOfLiving84 Месяц назад +15

    I'm glad I haven't got married. And hearing this and knowing people in the world why would you...

  • @wpietrus
    @wpietrus Месяц назад +5

    This priest is so authentic 🎉❤… thank you 🙏

  • @viceciaviccy9749
    @viceciaviccy9749 Месяц назад +3

    I pray to God to give me a genuine man.Amen and Amen...God is Good.

  • @vernitajames8541
    @vernitajames8541 Месяц назад +5

    Lord have mercy on us all!!
    What a world!!
    Love is everything!! The greatest gift.

  • @MoiraLomax
    @MoiraLomax Месяц назад +9

    We love you so much get better I pray for you always xxx❤❤❤

  • @marlenecastle8511
    @marlenecastle8511 10 дней назад

    I absolutely love this Bishops Mar Mari his preaching n teaching style is gold. ❤❤❤

  • @moriturite
    @moriturite Месяц назад +8

    Incredibly hard and painful thing to do. I've been trying for the past a 1,5 year. And even though he's been rather cruel to me, I just can't seem to stop loving him.

    • @TheJesusArena
      @TheJesusArena  Месяц назад +2

      Wow! Receive the help of the Lord Jesus by deliberately asking Him to come and help you and see the difference he will make.
      May god help you and when he does , please come back and share a testimony

    • @glowieokenney7915
      @glowieokenney7915 Месяц назад

      Get out!!!!!!!

    • @WarriorOfChrist74
      @WarriorOfChrist74 20 дней назад

      Jesus loves u, u r unique and precious ❤❤❤ may Lord give you peace and grace

  • @user-ed7kx5ki1c
    @user-ed7kx5ki1c Месяц назад +5

    In our lord Jesus' power you can overcome . anything

  • @marvelousministry9434
    @marvelousministry9434 19 дней назад +1

    One sided Love ends up with those who DONT love God in Hell.
    He loved us to show us His love and His love will change us to love Him IF we have FAITH in Him.

  • @Dan-lw7xd
    @Dan-lw7xd 5 дней назад

    32 with a daughter.All my relationship is failing because most men i dated don't want God.I am tired of trying. Am just trusting God and leaving it in God's hand.GOD'S REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION.🙏

  • @williamporter9742
    @williamporter9742 27 дней назад +1

    When you finally meet the one true love of your life you realise what true love really is.❤There only can be one and that is still second to jesus christ.

  • @sweetpollypurebred1139
    @sweetpollypurebred1139 Месяц назад +3

    Praise the Lord for your excellent sermons to us.

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 13 дней назад +2

    Problems only exist because you perceive yourself as worthy of suffering.
    Get out of your head, choose uplifting thoughts only.
    I don’t have to carry this anymore.
    If you can have a thousand bad thoughts a day,
    you CAN have a thousand uplifting thoughts a day.

  • @andnowyouknow3363
    @andnowyouknow3363 17 дней назад

    4:54 *POWERFUL*
    This is exactly what people need to hear and not let themselves be gaslit into feeling bad for leaving despite having their hearts genuinely invested. You often hear people say "those who truly love do not leave their partner". This is a DANGEROUS belief, because many people remain in toxic relationships.

  • @AnnetteCarolanFourie
    @AnnetteCarolanFourie 12 дней назад

    This is when we need as ive learnt to trust God because he is protecting us and letting us know they arent for us or meant to be in our lives

  • @vanessadsilva7577
    @vanessadsilva7577 7 дней назад +1

    With prayer marriage is never broken

  • @jocelynlojares1723
    @jocelynlojares1723 Месяц назад +5

    Me too, I have a bad experienced for the father of my daughter and no choice to became as my husband. Since it begun for wrong and sinful we separated when my daughter was 6 years old. I let him go because I dont want to see us have an argued with my kid. Because my ex was not contented of one woman. I was only the one who supported my daughter since 6 to present 29 years old. But Thanks God I have move on after 3 years. I forgave him even he didn't yet asking forgiveness. I just want to live out of stressful life. Thank you Lord God in the Name of Jesús Christ for healed the pain. 😇❤🙏

    • @TheJesusArena
      @TheJesusArena  Месяц назад +2

      Wow! such a touching story. May Jesus come through for you, may He surprise you. A year by this time you will share a testimony on this platform on how much love and joy Jesus has done for you. In Jesus name, amen 🙏

  • @charlotteburton9483
    @charlotteburton9483 Месяц назад +9

    IMHO it's not always they don't love you, it's been they can not love me the way my Lord does.

    • @jwc713
      @jwc713 Месяц назад +2

      No one can love like YHWH. Unfair comparison.

    • @AliceInWonderlandWasHigh2020
      @AliceInWonderlandWasHigh2020 Месяц назад

      @ jwc713 AGREED!! I think as Christians we tend to overthink things. No one is perfect, we are all unique and when in relationships we should give each other grace, patience, love, forgiveness etc. We as Christians tend to place high expectations on fellow believers, such that when they fail in some way while dating them we automatically think that we are unequally yoked with them. I think the most important thingsto look out for in a person are one, if they are a believer and how their heart posture is towards others.

  • @binsu731
    @binsu731 Месяц назад +11

    I've been married for 10 years.. we have two kids aged 6 and 8. All these years I was trying to hold this relationship only for the sake of my kids and in the faith of the Lord's words.but now I am tired..I cant bear it anymore..still I dont want to divorce my husband..but don't know what to do. Please Bishop Mari..or anyone who read this , give me an advice. I am totally broken.

    • @callmepistol
      @callmepistol Месяц назад +2

      Praying for you. Look up standing for your marriage for testimonies of restored marriages . God can change any heart if you let him

    • @jwc713
      @jwc713 Месяц назад +1

      @@callmepistol For if there is first a willing mind, it is accepted according to what a person has, and not according to what he does not have. - 2 Corinthians 8:12
      We must allow God to change us.

    • @user-oh5ls8fv9k
      @user-oh5ls8fv9k Месяц назад

      Dear sister, don't loose your hope. Continue to pray for your husband, God will change him, for that you have to change your ways. It's only 10 years, in another 10 years, you will know he is your best life. partner.

    • @Monalisa0622
      @Monalisa0622 Месяц назад

      Please if I may. Enter the secret place and ask the Lord to give you understanding. I don't know the details of your marriage. But I hope you know your are loved by the Lord you are His precious child. Whe you hurt He hurts. My realization came when these words came to me "Christ came to set me free so why am I in bondage and in slaved to the man I am married to". I had to leave for my safety and that of my children. But I also knew the Lord was telling me to walk away. Everyone yold me to be patient and pray for my marriage. Was marriage 12 yrs before I left with our 2 children. It's been 4 yrs separated now. I prayed for the lord to gove me comfort to gile for divorce but the Lord was not letting me. This dec my estranged husband took his life. I say all that to say. The Lord will guide you. He will reveal to YOU what He wants you to do. I hope you are safe and well.

    • @Monalisa0622
      @Monalisa0622 Месяц назад

      ​@@user-oh5ls8fv9kthis isn't always the case. And can be extremely dangerous. I stayed with my husband for the same reason. Pray more be patient and fight for the marriage. When i was being abused when he was an addict. Only by the grace of God my children and I are alive. I know you mean well. I know that you have faith in the Lord and so do I. He can change anything and anyone in a second. But He will not go against someone's will. My estranged husband took his life after 4 yrs of separation. I wish I would of been obedient and left him sooner as the Lord was telling me to get out. Now my children and I deal with intense trauma. But I know the Lord is with us and we will heal.

  • @GladysBanda-vs4hd
    @GladysBanda-vs4hd Месяц назад +7

    Lord have mercy

  • @elenamartinez465
    @elenamartinez465 17 дней назад

    Balance between Men and Women Masculine and Feminine Amen To love and To be loved is the bedrock of our existence A sacrament of life heart and

  • @viceciaviccy9749
    @viceciaviccy9749 Месяц назад +2

    You can love someone for real but someone wakes up 1 day and is done with you and start cheating with other women as if you don't matter...it is really painful...but life must move on

  • @user-nf4zg5xg5t
    @user-nf4zg5xg5t 7 дней назад

    Bless you man of God be safe with Jesus Christ son of God blood 🙏 you are truly amazing man of God bless you 🙏

  • @davidpruiksma8014
    @davidpruiksma8014 Месяц назад +1

    This guy is great, funny and profound.

  • @jenoop60045
    @jenoop60045 8 дней назад

    Jesus is my heart and soul, not my religion. Thank you GOD for you i know will understand this. I am blessed in my life however I gave too much to someone who took it for granted. I feelbI do the same towards myself. So I cannot even talk. In jesus name Amen. Xoxo

  • @JoseEduardo1594-
    @JoseEduardo1594- Месяц назад +1

    If it’s meant to be it will become more powerful if it’s not it will fizzle out. Gods will be done, amen

  • @chochilifezm
    @chochilifezm Месяц назад +2

    If it's one way it's selfish love , he went hard on that part ❤❤❤ . Love is powerful praying for you mari get well 🙏🙏🙏

  • @galadrielwoods2332
    @galadrielwoods2332 Месяц назад +1

    People confuse feeling needy for a person with love. Love in its true definition has nothing to do with needing another person in one’s life.

  • @merrylin5951
    @merrylin5951 Месяц назад +2

    I love listening to your preaching, bishop, Mari

  • @user-nf4zg5xg5t
    @user-nf4zg5xg5t 7 дней назад

    It's true man of God bless you 🙏

  • @user-7lf7w
    @user-7lf7w Месяц назад +1

    In my painfull times God reminded me sometimes on how many of them i had before, and even forgot about them like they never existed.. same will happen soon with this situation im facing (emotional pain, feeling of rejection ...)

  • @demaji82
    @demaji82 12 дней назад

    I pray he battles his demons, I’ll always love him. I pray for his health, healing and happiness

  • @Yourself1303
    @Yourself1303 12 дней назад

    Absolutely love your message and teaching ❤appreciate you

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 Месяц назад +4

    when and how will my life ever change for the better?
    all I do is suffer, and it's been this way since I got here, 44 years...
    I drown in loneliness and despair, have so my whole life.
    I cannot wait to die. death cannot come for me soon enough.
    I hate my life and I loathe being alive.
    both my best friends abandoned me.
    they were part of my everyday and they are strangers now.
    I am desperately alone. I long to be normal. I long for a normal life.

    • @pollypandor5890
      @pollypandor5890 Месяц назад +2

      You r not alone. Hang in there

    • @rickydi1321
      @rickydi1321 21 день назад +1

      Praying for you

    • @matterismind
      @matterismind 10 дней назад

      Try the Happiness Challenge ! For the next couple of weeks look up a happiness quote every single day and share it with others. Look for Happiness around you and see how this makes you feel. I tried this and managed to shift the depression that was setting in. Check out my other channel HappinessQuotes to get you started. All the best !

  • @sunitak9752
    @sunitak9752 Месяц назад +6

    Pray 4 me

  • @sweetpollypurebred1139
    @sweetpollypurebred1139 15 дней назад

    Amen. Everyday you'll grow when you lean on Christ. Pain and disappointment last for a little while but it will dim. You will heal.

  • @Caggor
    @Caggor 7 дней назад

    Please 🙏 Jesus I trust in you

  • @womanhoodisnotacostume7648
    @womanhoodisnotacostume7648 16 дней назад

    This 11 minutes bring so much tears out of me. I will pray and let the Lord to decide.

  • @dpemedia6387
    @dpemedia6387 Месяц назад +3

    Amen 🙏🙏

  • @Hannahjenit0173
    @Hannahjenit0173 Месяц назад +3

    Amen ❤

  • @marileedent8499
    @marileedent8499 28 дней назад +1

    God has my heart always has first and above all.. family my husband friends

  • @BlondeWick
    @BlondeWick 15 дней назад

    I firmly believe you can meet the right person at the wrong time. Unfortunately the experience leaves you completely different, almost akin to having a part of yourself die. Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find another person that piques my interest beyond a fleeting thought. Regardless I've loved and lost to the fullest of my capacity, and all I can ask for is the genuine happiness of the person who invoked those emotions once. Praying for them washes the sorrow and heartache that's now only a distant memory. Also allowing me to open the door to happiness via countless other avenues.

  • @kimberlymayes4061
    @kimberlymayes4061 Месяц назад +2

    I'm struggling now with not wanting my Dad in my life. I love him so much but almost every time I'm around him, he brings me pain, mainly emotional. My journey is now, as much as possible, to be clear of ANYONE bringing me pain.

    • @Monalisa0622
      @Monalisa0622 Месяц назад

      Precious child. I am in a similar situation. The Lord says to guard our hearts. I see that, that means I am responsible to guard my heart. You can love your father and pray for him, and give yourself some space and time to heal. The Lord love's you, you are His precious child spend time in the secret place. He will heal and mend your heart. He will give you wisdom to know when it's ok to let your dad in and when it's time to take a break. I hope my advice wasn't over stepping my boundaries. I just understand as this is with my mamma the woman that means the world to me.

  • @shminongshli2076
    @shminongshli2076 Месяц назад +2

    You are very right my bishop thank you so much for this explanation. Even me ive been married now five years but still within those two three years i find so hard to forget my past relationships but i prayed every time and aks power from God yo forget that person and now i am completely fine with my husband and kids

  • @jackal7707
    @jackal7707 Месяц назад +1

    God bless

  • @MW-he4cp
    @MW-he4cp Месяц назад +2

    I like the idea of giving a priest a paper with the two names to pray for on the altar... however i think most oriests would look at us like we're crazy if we suggest that.