Bless you for what you do. It takes a very special person to dedicate themselves to caring for the elderly & the terminally ill. My mother passed from cancer a year & a half ago. The hospice workers who cared for her were all compassionate, patient & considerate, and my mom was treated with dignity & respect. Thank you for all you do. 🙏💞
Stumbled on this, and it is so real and true, I have secondary breast cancer and there’s no cure but we are managing this diagnosis lifestyle is everything and live your best life people 🙏💕🙏💕 faith and positivity and gratitude is everything 🙏
I work at an assisted living facility and try to bring them as much joy as possible. I take them out shopping, bowling, i taught them rummy this week. I let them order Margaritas at the restaurant and when we do karaoke i listen to the house of the rising sun one of their favorites. And I always joke with them Im not grown enough to hang out with them! Lol. A 91 year old told me this week she watched the fish for an hour. "Why?" I asked. Her response " I just noticed for the first time in my life they were having sex. So i watched them have sex for an hour. And then when their done they make a fish face..." lmbo. I tell you Im not grown enough for these ladies. On the opposite side of this.... I sit with lots of them while they transition. I touch them and rub their hands and arms. And do energy work (in my mind) on them. Its really weird but I really enjoy being their for them and the families during this time. Just giving that last bit of love to them is amazing. ❤
Marjorie Richardson my momma just passed recently and I’m having the hardest time bc she was also my every day best friend. I don’t work anymore and I have the hardest time every day. It happened unexpectedly sept 22 after a blotched surgery that was only suppose to be a three day stay and then home again. I can’t get a hold of myself. I haven’t had a dry day since. How does one go about working with the elderly without a degree... as in volunteering? I need to be around them ... I need to help them. I need to find someone that reminds me of my momma. I need to see her again. She was only 81 and she was still so full of life. She drove, cooked, cleaned, shopped. One surgery and gone. 😢 💔
@@valkh83 Im so sorry for your loss. The unxpected loss of a loved one can be extremely hard to cope with. I am also finishing my degree in counseling and I would first suggest to seek out a counselor to help you through this time. But ro answer your question, just call up the local places around you and tell them what you want to do and whos the person you nees to speak to. Where I work that would be me. I am the Director of Life Enrichment. But it can have many different titles. Theres probably a form you fill out with your info. And then your off and running feom there. Good luck! sending light and love!
@@valkh83 Deepest condolences. I would recommend that you contact your local hospice, you can join a support group for adults who have lost a parent. It is tremendously helpful in dealing with your loss. After that you can ask about volunteer opportunities there or at other facilities that serve our elders.
The first thing I think about when to talk about someone dying, "let them have tequila" is my Uncle. My Aunt and Uncle lived next door. They were like my second set of parents. More times than not they WERE my parents. They came from a place of Love. There was no judging. So when he finally went to the doctor he already knew it was cancer. They convinced him to do the chemo and radiation. This was a man that had drank a beer every day in his life. After the chemo, beer never tasted the same. I felt like this thing he did every day and enjoyed was stolen from him. It was the same for my Father, he loved smoking a cigar. When they found the cancer it had already spread. I wished that he would not do chemo but he was a Great Fighter and felt that he was in that 1% that could beat it. He stopped smoking his cigars and went into treatment. Of course what it gave him was a year and a half of sickness and hell. I wished often that he had just continued on with his life and enjoyed it. Sitting on his back porch smoking a cigar and watching the river flow by. At his funeral I put a couple cigars in his pocket forgetting the lighter so I'm sure he is still asking for a light. He visited me 3 times after his death. Each time he seemed a little more at peace. The last time he was actually laughing so knew he was finally happy. So yes, if they had a couple drinks or smoked a cigar let them have those things. What else do they have but our Love ???
🥰 I worked in a US government run nursing home (totally _not_ the best option for your loved ones, btw 😪) and one of my fav residents was Jack. He was 62 and wheelchair bound with a terminal illness. He had such a positive vibe and had a joke ready for any occassion, always making me smile. He would smell us employees coming in from a smoke break and lament how much he missed "a cold bud and a ciggy". One day I took him outside and gave him one of my cigarettes (apologizing that I couldn't supply the Budweiser too) and he was the happiest I'd seen him in months. Two weeks later his illiness took him home and though I missed his presence, I'm just thankful I could be one of the last moments of his freedom of choice while on this Earth. I imagine him now, younger and dancing at a sock hop in his Navy uniform, a Budweiser in one hand and a pretty gal on the other. 😊
Patricia Kness. I’m sorry you have having a hard time. I hope you will be able to focus appreciation of things like nature’s beauty and if you are a believer, the love of God. Sending you love.
OMG. I just got home from visiting my moms lock down dementia center. She was a strong confident in charge woman before this disease. I cry all the way home each and every time knowing she doesn’t understand why we lock her away. I too take pastries and pass them out. I too think they need a margarita or wine dispenser in each wing and wish they would allow them all the CBD they need to cope with this horrible disease. I fix faces and hair while I’m there. A little blush a French braid does wonders for their disposition usually. Thank you for this little video. You made me feel like I’m doing the best we can in this life. I am a subscriber.
Johnsons In Texas me too. Dad I out of State dementia lockdown unit. It’s so depressing I only get to visit him once or twice a year. Good for you for helping out.
Love the idea of margarita's in all the elderly home, but you're so right they should be able to have fun and do what they love whatever it is at that age. I care for my grandparents that have dementia they are 90 and I feel blessed to have this time with them before they pass even if they don't remember me now I know they will again one day. Thankyou for sharing❤
This video is so good. It’s raining here in Ireland (shocker! 😂) but im going for a walk..as she said, even if it’s raining, you’re alive, at least you get to experience it. Love it ❤️
This was beautiful..I'm old too(Lol) my story is much the same as the 82 yes old..I just lost my last if my three brothers..he had terminal cancer..he decided to choose the time he left..I have children..grandchildren..great great grandchildren..I love them dearly..he left this earth early Easter morning..I can't seem to heal my loss..I asked him to take me with him..he said you need to finish here..Randy had absolutely no fear of death..he had spent the last month of his life saying goodbye..I still want to go with him..part of me feels bad for this..well thank you for listening..
gigi McClung , Thank you for your story. I can understand a sibling loss, but your brothers right....you’re not finished here! Blessings of comfort to you 🥰💐
Stay as long as u can for ur grandchildren and great grandchildren ~ their time with u will become very precious memories when u go to join ur brother. Love & light.
This was so very much needed. People need to wake up and realize what's going on around them, concerning their loved ones in hospice, and in our nursing homes. Give them that last fantastic meal! Right on Allison!! Thank you again! Strong Message! !! Me and my mother for a short time...only. All we need is hope. And for that, we have each other. Thanks again :)
Thanks, ya'll! When I was by the side of my first late husband (I've had 2!) when he died, it was wonderful. I told him he could go, and that I would be okay. And he left. I felt him lift up & go to Heaven! I haven't been around any of the other people that have died in my life, but I would recommend it to those who can. It's very rewarding to help them pass.
Joanne Donovan my father in law waited for all of us to leave room with only Mother and brother in law in room because he knew they were the strongest of us all .
Oh I just love you Allison! You are Such a phenomenal woman with such a sweetheart of a personality! And I adore your humor 😂 “Give em’ tequila they’re dying anyway” Sooooo much what you said and everything in between! I was into nursing before I got Crohn’s disease & Multiple Sclerosis, and the best few years of my career were the ones I spent in a nursing home 🙌🏼💯♥️ The stories that I got to hear and the people I got to know & love were such the biggest blessings! A patient on “my hall” in particular that I absolutely adored and it reminded me of what you said here (about the above referenced tequila) He was dying of terminal lung cancer. His daughters wouldn’t allow him to continue to smoke, so would not provide cigarettes for him 😢 He would always be out on one of the patios where the employees would go to have a smoke break, etc. and I have to admit I’m among the few of us working there that are guilty of giving him cigarettes 😝💯🙌🏼♥️ Like what the hell hes dying anyway, LET him smoke!! ♥️🙌🏼💯😍
Allison I watched another of your posts, where you said 'Don't think of it as another day away from the person who passed, but another day nearer to seeing them again'. This helped me so much, as I miss my best beloved husband Philip, who died 2 years ago on the 6th of this month.. I talk to him every night and tell him what I've been upto during the day, always tell him 'I Love and Miss him' and hope he and all the other 'Above the Cloud Angels I have' are waiting for me and will come get me when it's my turn to leave this mortal plain.. You also said here that we are here to 'learn' and change something from a past life, that we haven't learned yet.. I wonder, in a previous life, if I were dismissive or cruel, as I have lost my Grandparents, Parents, Husband, my Sister and our Son... So maybe a life lesson I have here is 'empathy' to either teach it or give it and my time freely to others.. Best wishes to you from Wales UK..
This was exactly what not only I as a Stage IV terminal cancer patient needed to hear but also for the living to understand being more at ease with death and dying. Allison you were so on point with people don't want to be around death I thank you for explaining that🙏 it's hard to adjust to. Appritiate and validate life and your loved ones today for tomorrow is not promised to anyone. After all life is terminal. Many blessings Tom and Allison Thank You So Much🙏💌
Dear Bek, when you are not in your body, you will be with angels and loved ones. You will experience true love and peace. Read some of the many accounts of nde's on youtube!
Thank you for your comment about allowing the elderly in nursing homes to have fun, to have drinks, etc. I worked with the elderly for nearly 30 years and I agree with you 100%.
Very interesting. I came here breach birth, into a life with many sexual issues(abuse etc) aggressive and violence around me..only now, almost 60 and finally learnt to say no..and live the life I wanted to. What a difficult journey!
There are so many more spirits of all those across the veil that hold you in their embrace and will ease your transition whenever that time may come. Until then, live your life as large as you can, and know you (and all of us) are eternal, loving spirits experiencing a brief earthly life.
I just lost my middle brother and my mother. They both were very negative and troubled souls. Half of my being is relieved I don't have to deal with their issues anymore. (I did way more than I could to help them out). The other half misses them terribly. It's so confusion. I don't even think they have crossed due to the great deal of unfinished business they had. I keep praying for their souls, hoping they are well.
Thanks to both of you it makes sense, my 86 yr old mum just passed with dementia and breast cancer, and she loved and lived life, her passing was so peaceful, she seemed to just float away xxxx
Perfect messages folks! Take it from the experienced. Make sure your loved one's have what they want and need on the last leg of their journey. Weather it be spirtual, or material. Thanks Allison!
Thank you Allison & Tom. It made me think to enjoy life. Today, was my last day at work before my retirement. It was actually not planned until this August but due to a toxic work environment, I gave my resignation & have to move on. There is so much in life that I missed because I kept working for 40 Years & missed some of those opportunities. Now, I will enjoy these moments & just be happy that I am still alive & healthy. I know that my guardian angel & spirit guide is with me always guiding me in to the right direction.
Great message and great energy, I just love you two together! I was lucky enough to be born into a family where visitations from those who've passed over wasn't unusual. This knowledge of an afterlife has brought me much comfort throughout my life. Every day we are just that much closer to being reunited...until then, to Quote Auntie Mame "Life's a banquet and most poor suckers are starving!"
I actually am a certified Continuing Care Assistant and you nailed it Tom, it is such a painful thing to watch everyday. Especially during the pandemic… poor souls. All I could do was love them and keep their dignity and respect their humanity. People need to come back to being patient and mindful
Thank you so much for this video. My dear friend died of MND in her thirties and she knew she was going to die. She had a reading with Alison before she passed, and I have a photo of her and Alison . I never got to talk to her after the reading but It gives me such peace knowing that you helped her at such an incredibly difficult time. Thank you 💕
Margaritas sound like a great way to go! Lol Love the idea of honouring our elders by providing them with an extraordinary and FUN life! By God they deserve it! We don’t do enough to celebrate our elders. I just love them and it makes my day to bring a smile to anyone’s face but especially those who are nearing the end of this life’s journey. They have been my greatest teachers. It’s not a coincidence that babies and the elderly go together! They are so much themselves, often so authentic at the fringes of life, beginning and end, alpha and omega, no wonder they adore each other!
I love you Alison and your guest has got such a beautiful energy of love, compassion and sensitivity that emanates from him it is unreal :) it’s as if he was not from this world...You both are amazingly beautiful souls ❤️thank you for incarnating to help the humanity . It’s a gift to have you with us 🙏💐
Allison is 100% on her views of convalescent facilities where a lot of our seniors end up. For a short time, I worked in one as a CNA. Long story short, I left that job and I never ever want to be in a long term care facility. Yes, let them eat and drink whatever they want. Whatever makes them happy is such the better way to go. I'd always ask my patients what music they loved to listen to and I'd make it happen for them, at least when I was in their room.
I really understand what you mean, I don't know, but having to spend the last moments with my grandmother who was also my Mum( she adopted me), she was 95yrs, in my culture we have our love ones at home with us, when they die they are still with us for 3 days. I must say those minimal times I had with her, we're so beautiful, she would wander in her mind, to the other side and then back to us, and talk about her father, who she would see, and who was waiting for her, my mum also, conveyed messages from the other side as well, it was absolutely beautiful, and sad to hear these, I truly agree with you, about how this makes other people feel, but I felt Sad, but happy to know she was not alone, alone. It was hard to tell her to go, and that it was okay, and that I would be okay, I knew she was fighting to stay, I miss her abundantly, it will be a year June 20, My. Her birthday is 11/10/1924 and me 24/02/74, Mum was meant to walk me down the aisle, on 22/02/2020, I know she was there, as it rained a little, not so much, just a little and not for too long, as once my car drove up and parked the rain slowly stopped, Tears of joy from above, says my wife.again this too is also a cultural meaning. Sorry for the long story, I just wanted to share and let people dying doesn't need to be a scary thing, and yes about the food thing you mentioned, we gave mum what ever she asked for, like coke, and pie, lollies, food her daughter told us she couldn't have, ohh yeah and a beer..lol...and when we got the ” don't feed her that or let her eat that, I thought, what difference is going to make, she's in pain, she's asking for these, what difference is it really going to make. Mum was the only left here on earth, there was 14 of them, so I'm jealous now, that she's in heaven with them all, but ohh so happy for her at the same time. Xx Arohanui Whaea xxx aka Lil nanny, aka Blue Nanny, aka Nanny Garden.❤️❤️❤️❤️🌼🌼🌻🌻
Oh my land Allison we are in total agreement ! I have chronic pain and when I see wrinkle commercials it drives me crazy! I would take wrinkles over pain any day! Have you ever touched on your thoughts making up your world with those who have crossed? I also believe bland diets for people whose taste buds are not working well is a crime. Every person should have the option of choosing how they want to live at their end of life. If they want to watch what they eat and get every second they can good for them! If they want to eat what they want and leave sooner good for them. It shouldn't be up to the Doctor or family or anyone else but the person.
I deeply share that feeling, too, Paloma, but get the sense that once we return home and heal, something compels us again. Love to you on your journey, wherever that takes you! 💖🤗🙏🌈
My favorite saying...Live & Let Live! This video was so much more enjoyable than I thought! And all because of the positive energy you both emanate. I am currently a Lady Sitter for a 95 & 97 years young pair of ladies whom have been friends since high school! They reside in Independant Living and show no sign of leaving anytime soon but even if they were, they would still be treated with the upmost LOVE&RESPECT! Thank You so much for Your insight💜
Very good to listen to. I have a good friend who is dying. I feel privileged to be there with her and for her and I was grateful to be able to hear what these two insightful are generously sharing. Many thanks.
I love your video, Allison DuBois, the topic and points you make, as well as your sense of humor! Thank you for sharing the story about the 60 year old man. That story helped me because I think my fiance who had terminal cancer did the same thing with medication at the end and this helps me deal with it better. I'm just happy he is free from that body that caused him so much pain at the time, but still alive somewhere close to my heart
Thanks for discussing this deeply meaningful subject. My partner who recently passed over and I met in our mid-50s. We only had a few years together before he went suddenly but they were very loving ones for him which gives me comfort. At the end he was comatose, I told him it was okay, to call his dogs and go with them.
That’s like me I m surrounded by animals, I love them all. No abuse, I m safe. Not scared of the afterlife I met my grandfather from the other side on 3 occasions, to me that was the only affirmation I needed. I also got a big hug from one of my late cats she gave me the gift of peace after her passing I d really struggled to get over her lose until she hugged me - next day no pain, no upset it had all gone. I do regret not being there for my grandma when she passed in hospital. I knew she was dying that night but didn’t go, I did know that one of many came to collect her, but wished I could have held her hand at the moment of her passing.
You are both quite the "Dynamic Duo" each with a special energy that keep you bantering on such a taboo topic. Seldom do folks dare to speak about this I watched two of my sisters pass in mid-life, due to cancer. Knowing there is another side where we'll reunite is comforting. In the meantime, Alison you're so on point about living your best life in the here and now....loved this session!
Thank you both so much. I am 52 and two years ago I went legally blind and people treat me like I'm dead. I'm okay but looking at ur objectively it's really sad because I have so much to offer
So soothing, insightful and funny!! Been following since Medium on TV days. So Glad you are able to continue teaching!! Soooo much LOVE you bring!! Thank you from the fullness of my heart!! Carol Oakland/Berkeley/Stockton. I'm loving listening to Linda G, Psychic Violetta and other Sensitives, Intuitives and Tarot readers during these turbulent times.
Hey thanks I’m new here but loved your show and that held a lot . Got emotional but hopeful . I’m still waiting for love after 60 years and abuse and illness . Talk about bad karma which I’ll never fully get it as it doesn’t make sense to me no matter what I’ve read . It’s just cruel really. . If it’s to love oneself then why is that the hardest thing to achieve and for what reason ? Having survived 4 major incidents that could have killed mr I’m still here but I am still managing a health crisis but I’m alive . I don’t feel my time is up yet but I’ve been told though my cancer was caught early I got spoken to like I was going to die inspite of my good result . Very traumatised by the whole awful experience. All I can think is I must have been a total bastard or something to have received so much family hate neglect abuse which seems to have affected my soul too deeply from hurt . I’m hoping and planning to do more than be a victim till I die but it’s hard to be alone in this . I really don’t know how to be anymore . I just want to love again and at least not be afraid to love anymore even family . Thanks again and bless you guys 🙏🏽❤️
I’ve always believed basically everything you guys have just said. So thanks for the confirmation. Also my son unfortunately never got to meet my father in the physical life, yet the amount of physical mannerisms, traits and general outlook regarding life that they share proves so much to me. Even more so that no one else in the family has these mannerisms etc. I am convinced my son spent a lot of time with my father before he came to me or maybe he is my father. I know in time I’ll know the answer for sure. In the meantime I’m happy to enjoy the time we share in this physical life and the lessons we teach each other. Thank you for a great video. Xx
Kardelian Moon I wonder sometimes if my son is my father. Similar likes in food and mannerism, walking, whistling, poker playing ....he’s really going for it in what he wants to do in life too. It seems like it would be the next logical step for my dad in a new life.
I remember when my oldest daughter was born I was in labor for over 19 hours, her umbilical cord was wrapped around her & every contraction cut off her blood supply. My water never broke & the doctor had to break it. I wasn't able to raise her after five years old, but she & I do not always get along w/each other after I reconnected w/her. Now my youngest daughter was a quick delivery & her and I get along fine. I would think she probably didn't want to be born, my oldest. ty for the video Allison & friend!
Wow.. too numerous a thought come to mind with this video. I received an ethereal whisper that I’d go before my mom.. I’m Aquarius with Pisces rising various visions shared with me, strange sightings, a semi OBE, a sleep paralysis. I was told I was open ? Not sure why I’ve had these experiences. I do see and feel the beautiful life experiences. Life is so strange. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you Spiritually to both Alison and Tom for bringing 'spirit wisdom,' along with your life experiences in this important work together. Philip conscious-spiritual-awareness, Australia.
Great video, Allison when are you coming to London in the United Kingdom? If possible can you do a seminar if you come? So many people would come to see you and get readings 😊
I just found your channel!! You two without doubt have the absolute best content!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing. I lost my son 1.5 years ago to drowning & it has been rough to not know how he is doing... 🙏
I have a lot of death anxiety and watching your videos have really helped me and have given me some peace. I would love to have a reading from you one day
We remembered watching you on The Housewives and You were such an Amazing friend when you stood up for Camilla it was Awesome! Anyways, I wanted to Thank You because im 29 years old and ive been so fearful and sad about death. Im Not scared of dying im scared of my grandparents dying before me. I know thats how its suppose to be but i couldnt live thinking about them being gone and after watching your mothers/fathers days readings you have Helped me in so many ways to feel better about where we all go and knowing that our loved ones and pets are Not our Past but our Future. Ive watched them with my grandparents as well because I wanted them to also know that we will all be together again and i think they also got a sense of relief i guess in knowing that their parents are up their waiting for them as well. THANK YOU AGAIN! Love & Light
I love what you said about the elderly not being children! Yes!! Why shouldn’t they have a drink if they should wish, or a cream cake, or decent food with taste. As Alison said, they are not going to live forever, so let them have treats! Oh and btw, we are all terminal. No one gets out of this alive, so make the most of it!!
Hi! Thank you for your time and precious info. I enjoy your videos. Especially, today's topic about how one exits their life and the manner in which he/she returns. Fascinating...✨ 🌸 😊
Thanks guys so informative yes you’re right live for the moment and enjoy and make changes now so you don’t have to repeat until you get them right so true we waste too much energy on the negative and not the positive I’ve written these things down and every morning I’m going to look in the mirror and repeat them love you both xxx
My dog was ill 20 years ago. I spent almost £3,000 with the vets not being able to tell me what was wrong with her. One day I left her at home with my 2 sons. When I got home my eldest son said our dog, Polar, hadn’t been good all day so I picked her up and cuddled her on the sofa and felt it was probably the right time to have the vet come to the house and put her to sleep as I thought she was in pain. I rang the vet and stayed by Polar’s side waiting for the vet to arrive. As soon as he got to the house but before he walked into the lounge where Polar was laying on the sofa, Polar looked into my eyes and died. It was as though she had waited for me to come home before she was ready to go. All my dogs, when it was time for them to leave this world, have either been put to sleep or died in the lounge laying on the sofa with us, their family holding them. I will see them all again at Rainbow Bridge when it’s my time to leave this world and we will all walk in the fields with the sun shining on us for all eternity. 🐕 🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕 🐕🐕🐕
I wonder why i am here on this earth. If there's something i should be doing in my life now at 60. I would have never thought i would be living alone and be on my own at this stage in my life. If you could please point me in the right direction as to where i could go and set this part of my life in a right direction...💝💝💝thank you
I've also worked as a hospice RN. Deaths can be quite like births- Some are an incredible transformation and some are more difficult. My first born was definitely working on a bunch of Karma with their appearance! Still working through more now. 😏
How do you pick how not to come back? I do not want to live again I choose not to do we have that choice?? My daughter was murdered 3 weeks shy from her 21st birthday I have lived 6 years in HELL wanting out of this life and when I get to be with her I'm not coming back here and it's hard for me because I wouldn't have picked this life for me no mother would have picked this pain for her child to die brutally and then continue to live...
I'm a Hospice RN and some of my best, most real, raw, powerful and positive relationships are with my patients and their families.
I am sure you have many interesting and enduring stories to tell. 👍♥️🤗
Bless you for what you do. It takes a very special person to dedicate themselves to caring for the elderly & the terminally ill. My mother passed from cancer a year & a half ago. The hospice workers who cared for her were all compassionate, patient & considerate, and my mom was treated with dignity & respect. Thank you for all you do. 🙏💞
Thank you so much for doing for doing this important work.
Can you share about the "rally"? 😊
Stumbled on this, and it is so real and true, I have secondary breast cancer and there’s no cure but we are managing this diagnosis lifestyle is everything and live your best life people 🙏💕🙏💕 faith and positivity and gratitude is everything 🙏
I pray for you
I pray for you 🙏 🌻
I’m so sorry Jeannie..... 😢
Sending you love 🙏🏼❤️
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I work at an assisted living facility and try to bring them as much joy as possible. I take them out shopping, bowling, i taught them rummy this week. I let them order Margaritas at the restaurant and when we do karaoke i listen to the house of the rising sun one of their favorites. And I always joke with them Im not grown enough to hang out with them! Lol. A 91 year old told me this week she watched the fish for an hour. "Why?" I asked. Her response " I just noticed for the first time in my life they were having sex. So i watched them have sex for an hour. And then when their done they make a fish face..." lmbo. I tell you Im not grown enough for these ladies. On the opposite side of this.... I sit with lots of them while they transition. I touch them and rub their hands and arms. And do energy work (in my mind) on them. Its really weird but I really enjoy being their for them and the families during this time. Just giving that last bit of love to them is amazing. ❤
Marjorie Richardson my momma just passed recently and I’m having the hardest time bc she was also my every day best friend. I don’t work anymore and I have the hardest time every day. It happened unexpectedly sept 22 after a blotched surgery that was only suppose to be a three day stay and then home again. I can’t get a hold of myself. I haven’t had a dry day since.
How does one go about working with the elderly without a degree... as in volunteering? I need to be around them ... I need to help them. I need to find someone that reminds me of my momma. I need to see her again. She was only 81 and she was still so full of life. She drove, cooked, cleaned, shopped.
One surgery and gone. 😢 💔
@@valkh83 Im so sorry for your loss. The unxpected loss of a loved one can be extremely hard to cope with. I am also finishing my degree in counseling and I would first suggest to seek out a counselor to help you through this time. But ro answer your question, just call up the local places around you and tell them what you want to do and whos the person you nees to speak to. Where I work that would be me. I am the Director of Life Enrichment. But it can have many different titles. Theres probably a form you fill out with your info. And then your off and running feom there. Good luck! sending light and love!
Marjorie Richardson thank you for what you do because i can’t be there for my dad.
@@valkh83 Deepest condolences.
I would recommend that you contact your local hospice, you can join a support group for adults who have lost a parent. It is tremendously helpful in dealing with your loss. After that you can ask about volunteer opportunities there or at other facilities that serve our elders.
@Marjorie Richardson ..... You’re AMAZING, blessings from afar✨
The first thing I think about when to talk about someone dying, "let them have tequila" is my Uncle. My Aunt and Uncle lived next door. They were like my second set of parents. More times than not they WERE my parents. They came from a place of Love. There was no judging. So when he finally went to the doctor he already knew it was cancer. They convinced him to do the chemo and radiation. This was a man that had drank a beer every day in his life. After the chemo, beer never tasted the same. I felt like this thing he did every day and enjoyed was stolen from him. It was the same for my Father, he loved smoking a cigar. When they found the cancer it had already spread. I wished that he would not do chemo but he was a Great Fighter and felt that he was in that 1% that could beat it. He stopped smoking his cigars and went into treatment. Of course what it gave him was a year and a half of sickness and hell. I wished often that he had just continued on with his life and enjoyed it. Sitting on his back porch smoking a cigar and watching the river flow by. At his funeral I put a couple cigars in his pocket forgetting the lighter so I'm sure he is still asking for a light. He visited me 3 times after his death. Each time he seemed a little more at peace. The last time he was actually laughing so knew he was finally happy. So yes, if they had a couple drinks or smoked a cigar let them have those things. What else do they have but our Love ???
There's a lot of wisdom in this, Diane, thanks for sharing.
"Get off the social media". Before my stepdad passed away I was always on FB. When he passed on, social media no longer seemed important.
Very true
it has it's use. but is mostly crap.
🥰 I worked in a US government run nursing home (totally _not_ the best option for your loved ones, btw 😪) and one of my fav residents was Jack. He was 62 and wheelchair bound with a terminal illness. He had such a positive vibe and had a joke ready for any occassion, always making me smile. He would smell us employees coming in from a smoke break and lament how much he missed "a cold bud and a ciggy". One day I took him outside and gave him one of my cigarettes (apologizing that I couldn't supply the Budweiser too) and he was the happiest I'd seen him in months. Two weeks later his illiness took him home and though I missed his presence, I'm just thankful I could be one of the last moments of his freedom of choice while on this Earth. I imagine him now, younger and dancing at a sock hop in his Navy uniform, a Budweiser in one hand and a pretty gal on the other. 😊
OMG! I LOVE YOU ALLISON! "I turn on Facebook and people are just griping and complaining about just stupid shit!"
Thank you. I'm 79. Not afraid of dying but scared of living. Very little finances, Not much to look forward to. Feel so worthless.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you find purpose and happiness.
Patricia Kness. I’m sorry you have having a hard time. I hope you will be able to focus appreciation of things like nature’s beauty and if you are a believer, the love of God. Sending you love.
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OMG. I just got home from visiting my moms lock down dementia center. She was a strong confident in charge woman before this disease. I cry all the way home each and every time knowing she doesn’t understand why we lock her away. I too take pastries and pass them out. I too think they need a margarita or wine dispenser in each wing and wish they would allow them all the CBD they need to cope with this horrible disease. I fix faces and hair while I’m there. A little blush a French braid does wonders for their disposition usually. Thank you for this little video. You made me feel like I’m doing the best we can in this life. I am a subscriber.
Johnsons In Texas good for you! My dad lives in one out of state so I can’t see him. I call a lot but not the same.
That’s so kind of you to spread your love around in the elder center!!! Good karma!
@@lindalamb7512 travel then. My parents are 78 and they travel all the time. Love knows no bounds
Johnsons In Texas me too. Dad I out of State dementia lockdown unit. It’s so depressing I only get to visit him once or twice a year. Good for you for helping out.
Ee J I do. Just not as much as I’d like. 3000 miles away and I’m working
" We come back in as we leave off". I have always believed in that death was never a end but the beginning.
The love the two of you exude is so amazing. I don’t know if you realize how much comfort you bring to everyone. I thank you both 💙
Love the idea of margarita's in all the elderly home, but you're so right they should be able to have fun and do what they love whatever it is at that age. I care for my grandparents that have dementia they are 90 and I feel blessed to have this time with them before they pass even if they don't remember me now I know they will again one day. Thankyou for sharing❤
how sweet
This video is so good. It’s raining here in Ireland (shocker! 😂) but im going for a walk..as she said, even if it’s raining, you’re alive, at least you get to experience it. Love it ❤️
And it's still raining in Ireland today ☔🇮🇪🍀😢
This was beautiful..I'm old too(Lol) my story is much the same as the 82 yes old..I just lost my last if my three brothers..he had terminal cancer..he decided to choose the time he left..I have children..grandchildren..great great grandchildren..I love them dearly..he left this earth early Easter morning..I can't seem to heal my loss..I asked him to take me with him..he said you need to finish here..Randy had absolutely no fear of death..he had spent the last month of his life saying goodbye..I still want to go with him..part of me feels bad for this..well thank you for listening..
gigi McClung , Thank you for your story. I can understand a sibling loss, but your brothers right....you’re not finished here! Blessings of comfort to you 🥰💐
Stay as long as u can for ur grandchildren and great grandchildren ~ their time with u will become very precious memories when u go to join ur brother. Love & light.
Sending my love. I hope in some way you can feel it 💗
You are awesome
This was so very much needed. People need to wake up and realize what's going on around them, concerning their loved ones in hospice, and in our nursing homes. Give them that last fantastic meal! Right on Allison!! Thank you again! Strong Message! !! Me and my mother for a short time...only. All we need is hope. And for that, we have each other. Thanks again :)
Totally needed to hear this! It touched my heart and soul, taught me a lot as well. Eased my mind about passing. Thank you 🙏
“Make this run a good one” yes thank you for the pep talk towards the end. 👍
Thanks, ya'll! When I was by the side of my first late husband (I've had 2!) when he died, it was wonderful. I told him he could go, and that I would be okay. And he left. I felt him lift up & go to Heaven! I haven't been around any of the other people that have died in my life, but I would recommend it to those who can. It's very rewarding to help them pass.
Joanne Donovan my father in law waited for all of us to leave room with only Mother and brother in law in room because he knew they were the strongest of us all .
@@cindyfitzgerald4500 my grand pop waited till my mom left. I think he didn’t want to upset her in that moment...
Oh I just love you Allison! You are Such a phenomenal woman with such a sweetheart of a personality! And I adore your humor 😂
“Give em’ tequila they’re dying anyway”
Sooooo much what you said and everything in between! I was into nursing before I got Crohn’s disease & Multiple Sclerosis, and the best few years of my career were the ones I spent in a nursing home 🙌🏼💯♥️
The stories that I got to hear and the people I got to know & love were such the biggest blessings! A patient on “my hall” in particular that I absolutely adored and it reminded me of what you said here (about the above referenced tequila) He was dying of terminal lung cancer. His daughters wouldn’t allow him to continue to smoke, so would not provide cigarettes for him 😢
He would always be out on one of the patios where the employees would go to have a smoke break, etc. and I have to admit I’m among the few of us working there that are guilty of giving him cigarettes 😝💯🙌🏼♥️
Like what the hell hes dying anyway, LET him smoke!! ♥️🙌🏼💯😍
Allison I watched another of your posts, where you said 'Don't think of it as another day away from the person who passed, but another day nearer to seeing them again'. This helped me so much, as I miss my best beloved husband Philip, who died 2 years ago on the 6th of this month.. I talk to him every night and tell him what I've been upto during the day, always tell him 'I Love and Miss him' and hope he and all the other 'Above the Cloud Angels I have' are waiting for me and will come get me when it's my turn to leave this mortal plain..
You also said here that we are here to 'learn' and change something from a past life, that we haven't learned yet.. I wonder, in a previous life, if I were dismissive or cruel, as I have lost my Grandparents, Parents, Husband, my Sister and our Son...
So maybe a life lesson I have here is 'empathy' to either teach it or give it and my time freely to others..
Best wishes to you from Wales UK..
Sally Ann Loveday m
This was exactly what not only I as a Stage IV terminal cancer patient needed to hear but also for the living to understand being more at ease with death and dying. Allison you were so on point with people don't want to be around death I thank you for explaining that🙏 it's hard to adjust to.
Appritiate and validate life and your loved ones today for tomorrow is not promised to anyone. After all life is terminal.
Many blessings Tom and Allison Thank You So Much🙏💌
Bless you sweetheart xo
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Dear Bek, when you are not in your body, you will be with angels and loved ones. You will experience true love and peace. Read some of the many accounts of nde's on youtube!
I know now which makes us too hard to stay...just saying so many loved are waiting and sometimes I feel I'll be better on the other side.
Thank you for your comment about allowing the elderly in nursing homes to have fun, to have drinks, etc. I worked with the elderly for nearly 30 years and I agree with you 100%.
Very interesting. I came here breach birth, into a life with many sexual issues(abuse etc) aggressive and violence around me..only now, almost 60 and finally learnt to say no..and live the life I wanted to. What a difficult journey!
You’re story touched me, I’m so sorry for what happened to you:(
Glad it’s better for you now ☺️
I’m crying just watching this, so powerful it all makes sense com3e on people let’s live! 💗⭐️💖
Me too Marie!
There are so many more spirits of all those across the veil that hold you in their embrace and will ease your transition whenever that time may come. Until then, live your life as large as you can, and know you (and all of us) are eternal, loving spirits experiencing a brief earthly life.
I just lost my middle brother and my mother. They both were very negative and troubled souls. Half of my being is relieved I don't have to deal with their issues anymore. (I did way more than I could to help them out). The other half misses them terribly. It's so confusion. I don't even think they have crossed due to the great deal of unfinished business they had. I keep praying for their souls, hoping they are well.
Thanks to both of you it makes sense, my 86 yr old mum just passed with dementia and breast cancer, and she loved and lived life, her passing was so peaceful, she seemed to just float away xxxx
Perfect messages folks! Take it from the experienced. Make sure your loved one's have what they want and need on the last leg of their journey. Weather it be spirtual, or material. Thanks Allison!
Death with Dignity Act should be legal nation wide. Some seem to have more empathy for a suffering animal than a human.
I worked in nursing homes as an aide. I tried to give love and attention to my patients. Now, I look forward to joining my husband.
Thank you for what you did. Your kindness is beautiful and sadly rarer than it should be.
Thank you Allison & Tom. It made me think to enjoy life. Today, was my last day at work before my retirement. It was actually not planned until this August but due to a toxic work environment, I gave my resignation & have to move on. There is so much in life that I missed because I kept working for 40 Years & missed some of those opportunities. Now, I will enjoy these moments & just be happy that I am still alive & healthy. I know that my guardian angel & spirit guide is with me always guiding me in to the right direction.
We are pet crazy in Australia too. My pets are priceless souls!
and they feel the same of you*
Glad another Aussie thought the same
Thanks guys. I'm not coming back either. So many other paths & adventures to take.
Great message and great energy, I just love you two together! I was lucky enough to be born into a family where visitations from those who've passed over wasn't unusual. This knowledge of an afterlife has brought me much comfort throughout my life. Every day we are just that much closer to being reunited...until then, to Quote Auntie Mame "Life's a banquet and most poor suckers are starving!"
I actually am a certified Continuing Care Assistant and you nailed it Tom, it is such a painful thing to watch everyday. Especially during the pandemic… poor souls. All I could do was love them and keep their dignity and respect their humanity. People need to come back to being patient and mindful
I just lost my 90 year old mom and your words helped so much. Thank you
Love your sense of humor, Allison - plus the nuggets of wisdom buried within it.
Thank you so much for this video. My dear friend died of MND in her thirties and she knew she was going to die. She had a reading with Alison before she passed, and I have a photo of her and Alison . I never got to talk to her after the reading but It gives me such peace knowing that you helped her at such an incredibly difficult time. Thank you 💕
I hope it brought her peace.x
Margaritas sound like a great way to go! Lol
Love the idea of honouring our elders by providing them with an extraordinary and FUN life! By God they deserve it! We don’t do enough to celebrate our elders. I just love them and it makes my day to bring a smile to anyone’s face but especially those who are nearing the end of this life’s journey. They have been my greatest teachers. It’s not a coincidence that babies and the elderly go together! They are so much themselves, often so authentic at the fringes of life, beginning and end, alpha and omega, no wonder they adore each other!
I don’t feel that the man is authentic because he is vain and dyes his hair and eyebrows. He would look so much better if he looked natural.
I love you Alison and your guest has got such a beautiful energy of love, compassion and sensitivity that emanates from him it is unreal :) it’s as if he was not from this world...You both are amazingly beautiful souls ❤️thank you for incarnating to help the humanity . It’s a gift to have you with us 🙏💐
Allison is 100% on her views of convalescent facilities where a lot of our seniors end up. For a short time, I worked in one as a CNA. Long story short, I left that job and I never ever want to be in a long term care facility. Yes, let them eat and drink whatever they want. Whatever makes them happy is such the better way to go. I'd always ask my patients what music they loved to listen to and I'd make it happen for them, at least when I was in their room.
I really understand what you mean, I don't know, but having to spend the last moments with my grandmother who was also my Mum( she adopted me), she was 95yrs, in my culture we have our love ones at home with us, when they die they are still with us for 3 days. I must say those minimal times I had with her, we're so beautiful, she would wander in her mind, to the other side and then back to us, and talk about her father, who she would see, and who was waiting for her, my mum also, conveyed messages from the other side as well, it was absolutely beautiful, and sad to hear these, I truly agree with you, about how this makes other people feel, but I felt Sad, but happy to know she was not alone, alone. It was hard to tell her to go, and that it was okay, and that I would be okay, I knew she was fighting to stay, I miss her abundantly, it will be a year June 20, My. Her birthday is 11/10/1924 and me 24/02/74, Mum was meant to walk me down the aisle, on 22/02/2020, I know she was there, as it rained a little, not so much, just a little and not for too long, as once my car drove up and parked the rain slowly stopped, Tears of joy from above, says my wife.again this too is also a cultural meaning. Sorry for the long story, I just wanted to share and let people dying doesn't need to be a scary thing, and yes about the food thing you mentioned, we gave mum what ever she asked for, like coke, and pie, lollies, food her daughter told us she couldn't have, ohh yeah and a beer..lol...and when we got the ” don't feed her that or let her eat that, I thought, what difference is going to make, she's in pain, she's asking for these, what difference is it really going to make. Mum was the only left here on earth, there was 14 of them, so I'm jealous now, that she's in heaven with them all, but ohh so happy for her at the same time. Xx Arohanui Whaea xxx aka Lil nanny, aka Blue Nanny, aka Nanny Garden.❤️❤️❤️❤️🌼🌼🌻🌻
Oh my land Allison we are in total agreement ! I have chronic pain and when I see wrinkle commercials it drives me crazy! I would take wrinkles over pain any day! Have you ever touched on your thoughts making up your world with those who have crossed? I also believe bland diets for people whose taste buds are not working well is a crime. Every person should have the option of choosing how they want to live at their end of life. If they want to watch what they eat and get every second they can good for them! If they want to eat what they want and leave sooner good for them. It shouldn't be up to the Doctor or family or anyone else but the person.
As spirits on the other side, we are Not forced to come back? And I as one will not come back ever..🥰
I deeply share that feeling, too, Paloma, but get the sense that once we return home and heal, something compels us again. Love to you on your journey, wherever that takes you! 💖🤗🙏🌈
I won’t come back either..my life has been 💩
@@JaneH1954 Feel that, Jane. Hope unexpected joys are around the corner for you 🙏
These two were awesome together! Great messages !!
This is the best video to watch "TODAY". So many are deciding to leave us. Love you Guys.
So happy your channel popped on. The information you share is so healing. Thank you 💕
My favorite saying...Live & Let Live! This video was so much more enjoyable than I thought! And all because of the positive energy you both emanate. I am currently a Lady Sitter for a 95 & 97 years young pair of ladies whom have been friends since high school! They reside in Independant Living and show no sign of leaving anytime soon but even if they were, they would still be treated with the upmost LOVE&RESPECT! Thank You so much for Your insight💜
I bet you have some wonderful stories!
Very good to listen to. I have a good friend who is dying. I feel privileged to be there with her and for her and I was grateful to be able to hear what these two insightful are generously sharing. Many thanks.
Thanks again for what you both do for us......Vince
Thank you God for Allison and Tom! 🙏🏾
I love this.
As a healer I love this work so much. I’m 75 now. But hospice has been so rewarding
I love your video, Allison DuBois, the topic and points you make, as well as your sense of humor!
Thank you for sharing the story about the 60 year old man. That story helped me because I think my fiance who had terminal cancer did the same thing with medication at the end and this helps me deal with it better. I'm just happy he is free from that body that caused him so much pain at the time, but still alive somewhere close to my heart
Thanks for discussing this deeply meaningful subject. My partner who recently passed over and I met in our mid-50s. We only had a few years together before he went suddenly but they were very loving ones for him which gives me comfort. At the end he was comatose, I told him it was okay, to call his dogs and go with them.
That confirms it for me. I don’t want to cross into the light. I’m going to hang around as a ghost. I do not want to be forced back here, I’m done.
That’s like me I m surrounded by animals, I love them all. No abuse, I m safe. Not scared of the afterlife I met my grandfather from the other side on 3 occasions, to me that was the only affirmation I needed. I also got a big hug from one of my late cats she gave me the gift of peace after her passing I d really struggled to get over her lose until she hugged me - next day no pain, no upset it had all gone. I do regret not being there for my grandma when she passed in hospital. I knew she was dying that night but didn’t go, I did know that one of many came to collect her, but wished I could have held her hand at the moment of her passing.
You are both quite the "Dynamic Duo" each with a special energy that keep you bantering on such a taboo topic. Seldom do folks dare to speak about this I watched two of my sisters pass in mid-life, due to cancer. Knowing there is another side where we'll reunite is comforting. In the meantime, Alison you're so on point about living your best life in the here and now....loved this session!
You pair are amazing thank you luv from Australia 🇦🇺
You have both opened my eyes to a new way of thinking, thank you, so much
Thank you both so much. I am 52 and two years ago I went legally blind and people treat me like I'm dead.
I'm okay but looking at ur objectively it's really sad because I have so much to offer
So soothing, insightful and funny!! Been following since Medium on TV days. So Glad you are able to continue teaching!! Soooo much LOVE you bring!! Thank you from the fullness of my heart!!
Carol Oakland/Berkeley/Stockton. I'm loving listening to Linda G, Psychic Violetta and other Sensitives, Intuitives and Tarot readers during these turbulent times.
Hey thanks I’m new here but loved your show and that held a lot . Got emotional but hopeful . I’m still waiting for love after 60 years and abuse and illness . Talk about bad karma which I’ll never fully get it as it doesn’t make sense to me no matter what I’ve read . It’s just cruel really. . If it’s to love oneself then why is that the hardest thing to achieve and for what reason ? Having survived 4 major incidents that could have killed mr I’m still here but I am still managing a health crisis but I’m alive . I don’t feel my time is up yet but I’ve been told though my cancer was caught early I got spoken to like I was going to die inspite of my good result . Very traumatised by the whole awful experience. All I can think is I must have been a total bastard or something to have received so much family hate neglect abuse which seems to have affected my soul too deeply from hurt . I’m hoping and planning to do more than be a victim till I die but it’s hard to be alone in this . I really don’t know how to be anymore . I just want to love again and at least not be afraid to love anymore even family . Thanks again and bless you guys 🙏🏽❤️
I love people and wish I had the ability to help people in this way. Bless you Alison.
I really love listening to you and Tom! This is a great conversation. ❤️
I’ve always believed basically everything you guys have just said. So thanks for the confirmation.
Also my son unfortunately never got to meet my father in the physical life, yet the amount of physical mannerisms, traits and general outlook regarding life that they share proves so much to me. Even more so that no one else in the family has these mannerisms etc. I am convinced my son spent a lot of time with my father before he came to me or maybe he is my father. I know in time I’ll know the answer for sure. In the meantime I’m happy to enjoy the time we share in this physical life and the lessons we teach each other.
Thank you for a great video.
Xx
Kardelian Moon I wonder sometimes if my son is my father. Similar likes in food and mannerism, walking, whistling, poker playing ....he’s really going for it in what he wants to do in life too. It seems like it would be the next logical step for my dad in a new life.
This was one of the most enlightening "lecture" I ever heard. Thank you.
I remember when my oldest daughter was born I was in labor for over 19 hours, her umbilical cord was wrapped around her & every contraction cut off her blood supply. My water never broke & the doctor had to break it. I wasn't able to raise her after five years old, but she & I do not always get along w/each other after I reconnected w/her. Now my youngest daughter was a quick delivery & her and I get along fine. I would think she probably didn't want to be born, my oldest. ty for the video Allison & friend!
Wow.. too numerous a thought come to mind with this video. I received an ethereal whisper that I’d go before my mom.. I’m Aquarius with Pisces rising various visions shared with me, strange sightings, a semi OBE, a sleep paralysis. I was told I was open ? Not sure why I’ve had these experiences. I do see and feel the beautiful life experiences. Life is so strange. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you Spiritually to both Alison and Tom for bringing 'spirit wisdom,' along with your life experiences in this important work together. Philip conscious-spiritual-awareness, Australia.
So much wisdom in your advice n so much compassion. I see why you r given this gift. Both of you thank you for this service to humankind. Namaste
This was my favorite video so far. Alison I really got to see your personality here. I dig it!!!!
Love this! A not often discussed topic, but so healing for people, and such wisdom for us to learn from! Thank you! 😘❤️😘❤️😘❤️
They should be given all their favourite things at then end definitely. ❤️
thank you so much for being there for so many of us, your honesty is liberating, love and gratitude to you both
Very interesting and comforting. Thank you. 🕊
Great video, Allison when are you coming to London in the United Kingdom? If possible can you do a seminar if you come? So many people would come to see you and get readings 😊
What a fun and true video! Thanks for the joy!
Really informative and interesting video, thank you👍😊. Love and blessings to you both!❤️🌺🌈🙏
I just found your channel!! You two without doubt have the absolute best content!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing. I lost my son 1.5 years ago to drowning & it has been rough to not know how he is doing... 🙏
I have a lot of death anxiety and watching your videos have really helped me and have given me some peace. I would love to have a reading from you one day
We remembered watching you on The Housewives and You were such an Amazing friend when you stood up for Camilla it was Awesome! Anyways, I wanted to Thank You because im 29 years old and ive been so fearful and sad about death. Im Not scared of dying im scared of my grandparents dying before me. I know thats how its suppose to be but i couldnt live thinking about them being gone and after watching your mothers/fathers days readings you have Helped me in so many ways to feel better about where we all go and knowing that our loved ones and pets are Not our Past but our Future. Ive watched them with my grandparents as well because I wanted them to also know that we will all be together again and i think they also got a sense of relief i guess in knowing that their parents are up their waiting for them as well. THANK YOU AGAIN! Love & Light
I can so relate ❤️ but knowing that we will all be with our loved ones ( including fur babies) does help ❤️
I love what you said about the elderly not being children! Yes!! Why shouldn’t they have a drink if they should wish, or a cream cake, or decent food with taste. As Alison said, they are not going to live forever, so let them have treats! Oh and btw, we are all terminal. No one gets out of this alive, so make the most of it!!
Yes.... live and let live and dispense from badmouthing people complaining on FB.
Beautiful and God bless you both xxx
Hi! Thank you for your time and precious info. I enjoy your videos. Especially, today's topic about how one exits their life and the manner in which he/she returns. Fascinating...✨ 🌸 😊
I’ve never thought about using my gift in that area 🙏💜
I really enjoy all the videos. So much interesting information to extract from them. Thank you both and blessed be ❤🙏
"a professional courtesy" love it!
Thanks guys so informative yes you’re right live for the moment and enjoy and make changes now so you don’t have to repeat until you get them right so true we waste too much energy on the negative and not the positive I’ve written these things down and every morning I’m going to look in the mirror and repeat them love you both xxx
Thank you for this video! You two are so inspiring!! 🙌🌈💕
My dog was ill 20 years ago. I spent almost £3,000 with the vets not being able to tell me what was wrong with her. One day I left her at home with my 2 sons. When I got home my eldest son said our dog, Polar, hadn’t been good all day so I picked her up and cuddled her on the sofa and felt it was probably the right time to have the vet come to the house and put her to sleep as I thought she was in pain. I rang the vet and stayed by Polar’s side waiting for the vet to arrive. As soon as he got to the house but before he walked into the lounge where Polar was laying on the sofa, Polar looked into my eyes and died. It was as though she had waited for me to come home before she was ready to go.
All my dogs, when it was time for them to leave this world, have either been put to sleep or died in the lounge laying on the sofa with us, their family holding them.
I will see them all again at Rainbow Bridge when it’s my time to leave this world and we will all walk in the fields with the sun shining on us for all eternity. 🐕 🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕 🐕🐕🐕
I wonder why i am here on this earth. If there's something i should be doing in my life now at 60. I would have never thought i would be living alone and be on my own at this stage in my life. If you could please point me in the right direction as to where i could go and set this part of my life in a right direction...💝💝💝thank you
every video inlight my understanding of life and way of life. thank you . love your videos.
I'm with you! I'm not coming back and I know it!
I've also worked as a hospice RN. Deaths can be quite like births- Some are an incredible transformation and some are more difficult. My first born was definitely working on a bunch of Karma with their appearance! Still working through more now. 😏
This is wonderful. Thank you for sharing this.
I’m di glad I found your channel. I love you guys!
I like you two together expressing your knowledge.
Absolutely loved this. Spot on.♥️♥️♥️
Thank you both! ❤️🌻
How do you pick how not to come back? I do not want to live again I choose not to do we have that choice?? My daughter was murdered 3 weeks shy from her 21st birthday I have lived 6 years in HELL wanting out of this life and when I get to be with her I'm not coming back here and it's hard for me because I wouldn't have picked this life for me no mother would have picked this pain for her child to die brutally and then continue to live...