Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet (ﷺ peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was shown the Jahunum and that the majority of its dwellers were nisa who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husband and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you." - Bukhari 29, Iman.
Nisa are not leaders, their insecurities make them short term thinkers. Ahl bida have no guidance or structural thinking like the sunna, this needs to be taught not just to us too in time. But I don't know if saying the fighting is a right of passage more like a fact of life.
Thank you for your lecture and may Allah reward and protect you!
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
The Prophet (ﷺ peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was shown the Jahunum and that the majority of its dwellers were nisa who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husband and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."
- Bukhari 29, Iman.
Nisa are not leaders, their insecurities make them short term thinkers.
Ahl bida have no guidance or structural thinking like the sunna, this needs to be taught not just to us too in time.
But I don't know if saying the fighting is a right of passage more like a fact of life.