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My REALISTIC Night Routine + raw & real thoughts on being single.
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You're no help
I am single✋ I am 23 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm waiting in the Lord for a good husband. You inspire me! God bless you 💖
Cielo Ruiz yeah same. Lets just rely on God🙏🏻
Same here! God is faithful and His timing is perfect 💖
Same here! But never settle I really believe the Lord has a perfect person for everyone ♥️ I have a video on singleness on my channel as well 🥰 God bless you
Same ! 24, never had one .
You go girl! No baggage for you!!!
It’s crazy because I was just in the shower around 6 this evening praying and asking God to be my every thought in this season of singleness so that I can focus on being who He wants me to be. You’re right! The thought of being married so bad can consume you especially when you want it so bad like I do so it’s important that you recognize your thoughts and the patterns. I’m glad that I’m able to recognize it for myself. Whatever you do in life especially while being single should be done for you and God. Not for your husband to come. Be complete in God before your husband comes and your husband will love every bit of who God has shaped and molded you to be. Good word sister!! Be blessed! I love y’alls channel by the way!!❤️✌🏾
God told me this two days ago, and I was battling with this because I was so selfish being like “no God I know I’m ready”! But this is confirmation that God wants us to seek him for HIM and not for his HAND
Thank you for sharing this sweet and encouraging comment :) I will be lifting you up in prayer! May the God of all strength strengthen you and fill you during this season!
Jazz Loyal Amen!!! Let’s keep each other lifted in prayer!!❤️
Kentra Jackson amen sister!!
Look at a brother Joshua Eze on You Tube
🖐🏻 Single and 19 years old. You are definitely not alone in your desire for a biblical marriage. I pray that God’s plan does have a husband for me in the future, but I’ll die single and a virgin if that’s in God’s will.
I completely agree. Marriage is a nice thought, but it should never be the motive behind your reasons to be coming no better person I’m getting closer to God. Marriage is a gift, it’s definitely not a sin, but I’m also willing to never have a husband or be in a relationship if that’s what God has called me to do. Also, if there’s just never an occasion where I find a guy that’s godly enough to meet my standards (I promise my standards aren’t impossible lol) then I will gladly stay single forever. God bless!
amen!!!!
Amen, sis.
Same:)
Amen me too.
I'm single, I will be 56 Sat, I want to say, don't rush into wanting a boyfriend or a husband. I did this and it was totally wrong! This was before I really got serious with the Lord. Take this time and enjoy you, enjoy spending time with God and pray and ask God when it is time to send someone, I wished I had of done this first. Love ya all🙏♥️
Rhonda Zappa Lewis thanks for this encouragement❤️
Rhonda Zappa Lewis wow! Amen!! Thank you :)
Thank you Ma'm. You're very brave. I respect that alot. God bless you🙏
Hi I was married wasted four years of my life and now I'm happier being single your not alone believe in God as much as I do X o
I know I’m older than probably most of your audience. I’m 30, and will be 31 this summer and was single until a couple of weeks ago. It could easily become a season I go through again, but being patient for God honoring relationships is so worth it, even when it’s hard and lonely. Even when all your friends are married, engaged, dating, etc. it’s worth it to focus on the Lord and the relationship and man that will bring glory to Him. Praying for you during this time. I too tend to steer away from christian married couple videos because I struggle for that longing, especially when most of them are a lot younger than I am. It’s easy for Satan to try to take something good and beautiful and stir up bitterness and jealousy in our hearts because our story is different than other christians around us. I think it’s so wise for you to recognize that weakness and flee from it.
thank you so much for this sweet and encouraging comment! It made my day :))
I m turning 30 I'm a few months
so relatable! I'll be 29 next month. I don't want to feel or be jealous of ppl who are in Christian relationships or marriage in 2018 I really battled and struggled with that. Especially when church a lot of the times their focus is on married ppl ( in my opinion) God opened me eyes and I realized that I was making being single and longing for a relationship an idol. I do still have my moments here and there, but I dont allow it to become something to obsess over anymore. I praise God for that!🧡
I'm single, 27, and I do not desire marriage! I feel that God has called me to singleness...at least right now! Who knows...maybe He'll change my heart one day but right now, my heart does not want to ever get married haha
I LOVE THAT!! THAT IS SO AMAZING! I will be lifting you up in prayer and asking God to fill you with his strength, love, and joy!
Coffee and Bible Time thank you so much!!! I will be lifting you up in prayer as well! You are such a blessing and encouragement ❤️
Thanks for sharing!! I think many would find a struggle in sharing this because of how much we promote marriage!! I'm sure the Lord is doing a beautiful work in you!!
Coffee and Bible Time I have a prayer request. My cat Glen, who was my baby, she was my soul cat, she passed away unexpectedly yesterday. Please pray for this time of mourning and that I would press into God who understands first hand death and loss.
Laura Wipff prayers up!!
So fun! I felt like I was at a sleepover, having girl chat. I’m also in a season of singleness right now. Sometimes the longing and desire to be married is really overwhelming. Your words encouraged my heart. I need to enjoy this season of singleness and my time with just God and I. Thanks, girl! 💕
Me too :) it's not easy but it will be worth it!
i felt exactly the same!!.. like it was a girl sleepover... so relaxed.. i felt I was there in the room sharing christian girl talks..😍
I just got married 6 months ago.
After I got saved at 22, I was single for 3 years. Honestly, I struggled with marriage, it was my idol. I went like crazy it consumed me so much. Then I let it go. I met my husband 1 month after that.
wow! that is an amazing story!! Praise God!
@@coffeeandbibletime thank you :) all glory is His
@@adelorosz5262 Wow! God is soo good! :D
I’m a pastor’a wife. I wish I would have had your wisdom when I was your age. Love all your videos, and telling my youth to watch you!!!
I’m 28 and have never been in a relationship. I love that you said that you are still a complete person no matter what and it is you and the Lord...Amen!! I go back and forth on my desire to get married...If the Lord wills a relationship then I def want it to come to fruition. I just know whoever I end up with is going to push me deeper into loving Jesus and ministry.
amen :)) thank you for this comment!
I'm single too 29 years old but..yes So much bless to have this relationship with the Lord..
I am single and happy with God 🙋♀️
Christine M ❤️❤️
:) amen!
So am I
So am I!
But you can even be happy with God even in when your married?
I’m 23 & I’ve been single for a year after a 6 year relationship. I’m still struggling on learning to be alone during this season..
But I’m so thankful for it, all my attention is focused on the Creator & that makes my heart so happy!! ❤️
amen :)
It's struggle for being single.
I'm in my early 30's and have never been in a relationship. I've always longed for marriage especially because my parents are such good examples but ever since I became a Christian, my longing for marriage resurfaces ONLY when people around me point out that I should be married by now.
It's pretty hard because I am the only single lady left in my group of friends. It somehow pains me when I show up alone on our gatherings while all of them are with their partners.
But at the end of the day, if the Lord will still bless me with a relationship, I would be thankful. Otherwise, I'd still be thankful. If His will is for me to be single, then I'll follow. He knows what's best for me.
amen! It's not easy - but worth it! God has a good plan through this :)
@@Capricornbeats Thank you! It's encouraging to read your comment, based on a Christian perspective. :) Another struggle I have is that my family and friends feel that I am incomplete without a partner or boyfriend (which is completely false) that's why they're pushing me to have one but I don't want to settle. And I am the only member in the family who became a Christian, so.... :(
@@coffeeandbibletime Yes! ^_^
By the way, I know you've been doing your quiet time with Jesus every single morning. But do you also do it every night?
fivemystifiedhearts Are all your friends married? If not then you have nothing to be pained about 🤷♂️
Because God doesn’t except fornication we are supposed to be married in a relationship!
Better of being single 4 da Lord 👍
I am 29 and single too as my friends pastor says its good to stay single as long as you like we are dating jesus.
I'm single and 26 and those are my exact thoughts thanks for this
:)
I’m single! 23 and want a husband! I had to stop watching relationship videos, and put my mind more on God. Make more videos for us Single Ladies 😌
I should be sleeping but I saw this in my subscriptions and couldn’t not watch. God bless you and your family and I pray you guys are safe! ♥️
I don’t watch couples on RUclips either. I’m 26 and have been single for about 4 years now? 🤔 This year is the first year I’ve been serious about finding my way through God and he’s helped me realize I’m not ready for something like marriage yet. Society will make you feel like you’re behind or that something is wrong with you for being single but I know that God has someone for me, and with wanting marriage I want to marry the *RIGHT* person the *first* time. Someone I can continue to grow my faith with. Meeting *that* person is worth the wait. 🥰🥰
Also, I keep a water bottle by my diffuser so I don’t have to keep unplugging it every time I want to fill it up.
amen!!! Thank you for sharing this!! (also great idea about the water bottle!!!!!!)
Thank you for this! I'm a single woman with two kids. I've been divorced for 7 years, and long for a partner. Just in the past month I've decided to work on my relationship with the Lord. that's the relationship that truly matters. So I know I might not be your typical 20 something viewer, but I appreciate your message ❤
Ashley Pineda :))) so happy that you are seeking the Lord!! ❤️❤️❤️ praying for you!
I'm a single 16 year old christian girl😊 I am longing for a real, christian man to come into my life and a lot of times i think "I'm so ready for a real relationship and marriage" but I also realize that i have a lot to learn about God before any of that, and I need to focus on being the right person instead of looking for the right person. Thank you for being such a wonderful inspiration!!!
Hey! I'm a christian guy, and I love watching your content. They really help me with fixing my own routines and techniques on how I'm going to draw closer to God. Thank you, and I hope to see more of your stuff. Continue sharing your thoughts and advises. Thanks for being a blessing to some.
Btw, I'm also single but I'm reserving myself for someone and she's a Christian too, but as I watch this... I have this realization that if it's not the time, then maybe I should focus to my relationship with God. :)
Who ever pushed thumbs down is probably in need of our prayers.
I am recently single and 26 years old. Devastated to say the least, prayers please!
PRAYING!
Hey there. I’m 19 years old and single and to be honest sometimes I think I idolize having a husband so much and like being a mom and having a family that I forget to enjoy the season I’m in now and often don’t even know how to enjoy it..
the thought of being called to singleness for my whole life scares me if I’m honest.. I think the idea of not knowing is what scares me the most. I want to draw close to God and fall in love with him but I also am not sure of where to start..? It’s hard seeing other happy couples out there wondering when my time will come you know..🌸 and with all the negativity going on in the world I also wonder how long till God comes back for us and because it seems like it’s so soon and the end times are near I also question if these desires of mine to be married and grow old will even be fulfilled.. it’s all just a blur to me right now. Lol sorry for my long vent ❤️
Girl, you are so beautiful! God has already hand picked the man for you. I used your idea of spending a day with God last Saturday. I had prayer walks, memorized scripture, listened to sermons, and did a painting. I enjoyed it so much that I am thinking about doing it again this weekend.
awww YAY PRAISE GOD!!!!
I am so grateful to you guys, for being real about singleness because you’re right Ashley, there isn’t enough content out there for girls who are single. I want to be intentional with this time I have being single, I get often times consumed with the desire for a relationship (even though I know I have stuff to work through and that I want to feel the feelings that the world promises a relationship will bring) rather than work on my relationship with God and just find out who I am. Like who am I without a man in the picture? I want to and need to figure that out. So I think I’m going to do it, an intentional year of singleness even though just saying it is daunting in itself, with God I can do all things. But yea, your words really encouraged me to do it because I want to feel complete with God without needing a man to do that. Thank you guys :)
Last year I felt God calling me to intentional singleness and I have been enjoying this season so far. I relate so much to your comment because I also get caught up in the thought of really wanting a relationship but at the same time I know I have a lot of work to do in bettering myself and most importantly my relationship with God. So far in the few months I have been single God has really revealed to me much about myself and I have really discovered myself. I am excited for what He will continue teaching me. I would definitely urge you to pursue singleness intentionally but first pray and seek God's will on that. All the best
Sorry for the Long comment😂😬
I totally understand how you feel! It is so hard- but I believe God wants to draw you near to His heart and show you that HE IS ENOUGH! :) I will be praying for you :))))
I'm 23 and I'm single. I am new to having a life fully committed to Christ, and singleness is amazing! Thank you girl for all you put out here, you are truly amazing and God is using you in marvelous ways!
It's so hard being fully committed, I struggle daily
You (both) are just precious and truly an inspiration to this single middle-aged woman. If I had been blessed with daughters, I’d want them to be like you!! Embracing the singleness is the way to go!! Reading what the Bible says about it is insightful too, and I’m sure you’ve already done that...your miles way ahead of me! I can only imagine what the conversation must be like between ABBA Father and Jesus when talking about you guys. Wow, I imagine He’s tickled pink over you both and sooooo in love with you! Thank you for sharing this wonderful video. God bless you and your family 😊😊❤️
OK that with l 🕢🕗🕣🕘🕤🕙🕥🕚🕦
Im 32 and single, i love my life as singleness❤️
LITERALLY READING A CHRONICLES OF NARNIA BOOK RIGHT NOW!!!!!!! lol reading "The Magician's Nephew". I will never outgrow them :) and thanks for the talk about singleness. As a girl who's seen just about every girl I know dating, getting engaged, or getting married. I've never even dated yet. But I know he's out there. I know he's gonna be just what God wants for me. (The man I marry will have to put up with my love for classic movies, shows, songs and my love of sports! LOL) thank you for being a sister for all of us! God bless and may your family be safe!
Football Lover9 heheh!!! Love ya! ❤️❤️❤️
I’m married and I love your thoughts on singleness. Your thankfulness and contentment about your season of singleness makes me sooo happy 😊 yes we need more godly and joyful single youtubers 🧡
Loved the video. I am married. I'm 35, I work with young adults - and what you said about being single is true. I believe that there's a lot of young adult Christian girls that are afraid of being alone, and that's why they "need" to be in a relationship even if it's not someone that God has for them. Many of them loose their focus. Yes! Enjoy this stage in your life, to have great memories and really enjoy.
Love this video! the chronicles of Narnia is a must read! I am 28 and still watch Harry Potter every year hehe. Besides, being single is a huge blessing for me;.. I have never wanted to get married anyway :) But people should consider this time as a time when they can do so many things!
25, single, longing for marriage. Thank you for being transparent and opening up your heart for us ♥️
Thank you for this amazing video!
I am 23, single, and never had a boyfriend before. I want to continue to walk in my purpose according to God’s will and wait upon the Lord for that future husband. ❤️
Praying for you! God is more than enough :)
Omgoodness my late uncle bought me and my sister the Chronicles of Narnia when we were little girls and I have loved the entire series ever since.
The end of this video totally transported me back to the early 2000s when I was in Bible College. Some of the deepest conversations happened late at night when we were in bed, or just hanging out in our PJs, and completely exhausted from the day. At 37, I too am single and enjoying it. Yes, sometimes it is hard, when friends are talking about their kids or I see happy couples or I start wondering who will care for me when I am too old to care for myself , but I have learned to be content and trust God with my future.
I’m 23, with a God fearing husband who loves me like Christ loves me, and we have a beautiful baby girl named Shekinah. ❤️ your videos minister to me so much and remind me of the intimacy that belongs to just The Lord and I. You’re so right about this season and things will look different as you and your husband become one and you start having beautiful blessings from heaven. I just want to say thank you for your videos 🙏 I’ve only been married for two years, and my life has changed drastically, but in every Good and beautiful way. Marriage is a gift and He will give you the desires of your heart because you truly put His kingdom above all else in your life! Blessings on you on this season and in each to come sister 💕
Alexis Turner awww THANK YOU!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Trust me when I say that Lord God is the only one that can full fill a person completely. You are young, beautiful and smart, you have plenty of time to enjoy life, and maybe after college Mr.Right will come alone. Good Night
:) thank you!
Amen
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I’m single and I’m in love with spending my time with God and my precious 9year old son ❤️ I am in a place in my life where I want to get to know myself more and better even though I’m 30years old. I am focused on loving myself and enjoying every second of my life ❤️ May God fill all those single people who envy others relationships instead of being patient, happy for others and loving the single moment learning how to be what God needs them to be ❤️ May God fill those lonely people with love and positivity and acceptance ❤️ Amen amen amen
amen :)))
Love seeing your beautiful gratitude in this season of singleness! I’m single and I have many highs and lows, but I’ve found that It’s such a wonderful time to grow in the Lord and become deeply rooted in him.
Yes girl, I feel you about longing for a beautiful Christ-centered marriage. I did an intentional year of singleness last year too-and am still single. But know that you are making such an impact and are such a role model for lots of needed souls out there. This time is so rich to seek Him. Enjoy it!
Usually in the evening or at night to go to sleep I listen to abide which is a Christian meditation and it is just amazing to fall asleep listening to the word of God. I really hope this will help people as much as it has helped me xx GOD BLESS Xxx
Love that your sharing this and needed to hear this. I'm 32 and just ended a 2 1/2 year relationship because God gave me a pit in my stomach and an ache in my heart about the guy I was with. I have been far from God for many years but he convicted me to end it. I spent a few nights crying, but God healed that hurt and put me on a different path!
I'm 25 and engaged 💕 the way you use your time with so much intentionality inspire me so much ! Thank you so much for your channel 🙏
I love this video, I’m currently single and it hasn’t been easy seeing couples on RUclips, it can be really difficult but I’m thankful for this period cause I believe being single is a very important period/time in anyone’s life, it’s a time to develop urself, build ur relationship with God and discover urself. ❤️
I’m single, 26, and I’ve been single for almost 4 years now! I’m enjoying this singleness season. I get to spend more time with God and pretty much do what I want to do, when I want to do it. All I want to do is to continue to flourish and become whole. I do have my days when I struggle back in forth but I know God will
bless me with a husband one day. I’ve realized that I can’t stay on social media too long or watch a lot of couple channels on RUclips either. I agree, there needs to be more videos on singleness.
Dominque Ashley :)))) thanks for sharing! So relatable to me!
Another single girl here!! 20 years old and I’m waiting on my man of God also! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on singleness ❤️
I am single and Im 23. Im waiting on God because I’ve had two bad past relationships. But I am calm and focused on God because my time will come. Waiting on God and focusing on yourself is the key to everything. God blesses those who are faithful to Him!
Faith Muñoz
I’m 22 and I’ve been single my whole life. Being single is truly a gift from God.🌸 This is the time where I can learn new things, travel, pick up hobbies , grow personally and just serve God wholeheartedly. Embrace your singleness ladies, enjoy this short period that will shape you into amazing women you will become.💕
Single Girl from the Netherlands here 🙋🏼♀️ i love the way you talk about being single, it is very motivating! Thank youu 💕
Hi
You were talking about how we need more single christian girls who are youtubers and you inspired me to start my channel! Keep up the great content, I love your videos. They are always so inspiring and inspirational. May God continue to use you girly !!♥
I love that you are content in your singleness and actively seeking the Lord in this season of your life
I am single. It is great to know that there are other young women who are single too. I think to myself, well of course there are other girls who are single but the fact that it is being discussed is really helpful. 💜 Thank you!
Thank you so much! I don’t normally comment but you and your sister are such an encouragement to me. I have been following y’all for awhile now and love your videos, but this one really hit me. I struggle with being single and you just encouraged me sooo much. Love you and thank you.
22 and single 👋! Appreciate this reminder to embrace my single season now. Some days are harder than others but I'm trying to use this self isolation time to spend time with family, work on myself and grow closer to God through books, music and his word!
I am 28, I married at 24. Enjoy the time that you have now sweetheart. Marriage is beautiful but when it is time your husband will come. You are so inspiring to even me. Thank you for your obedience❤️
I’m grateful for this season of singleness. 🙏🏽
I’m 19 and single! Thanks for sharing this Ashley🤍 You really opened my eyes and seeing that I’ve been the same way where marriage has been consuming my mind too lately. I’ve had a couple of boyfriends who weren’t walking with the Lord, and God had DEFINITELY shown me what that’s like and what to actually look for in somebody. We’re all in this together sister!🤍🙌🏻
Heyoo ! I’m 20 and i got engaged last July. Ive been following your channel for A WHILE and i just love to hear God speaking through you and it helped me when i was single to focus on Abba and not just long for a boyfriend and things. A few years ago I broke up with my boyfriend and decided to stop dating and focus solely on God. I said “Abba I dont wanna fall in love again if it’s not the one you have chosen for me”. and i spent over a year just focusing on God and spending time with Him and i just grew soooo much and learnt a lot. Finding your videos and other Christian you tubers really helped me to surround myself with biblical wisdom. And even now that I’m engaged this is so important to me. So thank you for being here and for letting Abba use you ! Love ya !
I'm married and your channel is such a blessing. Somehow it helps me before my quiet time to focus and set my mind off from a list of duties as a wife and mother, and focus on God. Keep up the excellent work all for Gods glory! And you are absolutely right, marriage will change your priorities especially when you start having kids. To read and study your bible for hours and to write in your journal is a luxury when your season change hehe God bless
I love this!! Thank you for talking about singleness!! I’ve recently just had to tell a guy that I don’t wanna be with him bc it was effecting my relationship with Christ...i have been single my whole life...20 years! I’m definitely going to take this time to focus on God and not boys...for awhile! And just be happy about it :) thank you I needed this!
🙋 yes single girl right here. I really enjoy you authentic videos. Thank you for being so open with this community! Praying many blessings over you.
I am single! I am 19! ❤️ Thank you for this video! God bless you!
Just subscribed. I love how humble you and your sister are! Can’t wait, to do Bible study with you. :) I'm single, I didn’t always enjoy being single. There was a time in my life when I so badly wanted to be married. But then I started seeking the Lord, Now I am so- loving being single because I get to seek the Lord with all my heart, and soul. At the end of the day sisters, we have to pray that God will provide. The man that is hungry for him, and chases him, and loves him. A man that loves his wife like Christ loves the church. 🥰❤️Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. Ephesians 5:25
I've been single for a long while waiting for the man God has set aside for me! I hope to find him soon so I can begin a family. Being single has taught me a lot about myself, i have been able to see the value of myself and learn that i deserve to be treated right. You truly inspire me to be a better Christian woman. I have had a long battle but I still stand faithfully by Gods side. Thank you for being such an amazing role model for me and thousands of other women. May God continue to bless you and tour family! 💜🙏🏾
I totally relate to what you are saying that sometimes it’s hard for the single Christian girl watching the married Christian RUclips couples. I definitely have watched these videos and pondered what it would be like to be married like that one day. But I’ve come to a point in my life where it can’t consume me! I still watch these videos but instead of looking at them through a lense of I wish that was me. I remind myself through watching their God written love story that if I continually trust in the Lord he knows the plans he has for me and if one day that is marriage He is more than capable of scripting a better love story than anything I can conjure up in my brain. A couple of years ago I had a really bad heartbreak. Right after a year of intentional singleness I dated a guy and to sum up a long story we both realized we weren’t ready, we weren’t who each other thought we were, and we weren’t putting God first so the relationship came crashing down in little as 1 month. There I was heartbroken and so confused. I didn’t understand why God let this happen. At this point in my heart (whether this was right or wrong) I had already decided I wanted to be this guys wife. After the 1 month and the sudden breakup I felt defeated and destroyed for so long. Christian youtube marriages helped me to break free from that past relationship because I saw that when you really do things right and wait on the Lord to move in His timing and not trying to make something a God thing on your own agenda amazing things can happen. Sorry this is so long 😂 just a snippet of what I’ve been learning over the past couple years in singleness. I also redid an intentional time of singleness in which I am waiting until the end of the academic school year next year to date anyone. “The Lord is my Shepard. I shall not want.” ♥️ Encouragement for the single ladies: “You can patiently wait for the right guy to find you because Jesus already found you.” -Rich Wilkerson Jr. (VOUS)
I’m 21 and still single! You’re not alone, friend. The longing is there and always has been, but I’m choosing to embrace this season. ❤️
Isabella Francis amen!!!!
I’m not single, and I’m normally here to watch your bible study videos, but I LOVED your reflection on being a single Christian girl! My niece is 12, so there is about to be more pressure on her to “find the perfect guy and be in a relationship”, so I’ll for sure be sharing it with her because it is 100% okay to be single! I am so impressed by your thoughts on it and your purposefulness into making this time about God instead of making it fully about being single!
I’m married with my first kid and if I could give one piece of advice, it would be to not rush! Treasure the time you have now like you said. You will have so much less time to do these things when you’re married/have kids. Enjoy your single season!
I’m intentionally single as you and I loved your point of view, this video just encouraged me to enjoy this time, that is what I was looking for to hear. Thank you, just keep doing what you are doing like you are doing, God is doing his will and a great purpose for you, is the first video I watch from the channel and just felt that from you. God bless you
"This is quarantine"😂😂😂 Love you Ash you're gorgeous no matter what
Love this video ! I started watching your videos last year ! Smiling because now you're married ! This video is so inspirational for all the Christian singles out there, including myself. God bless you and Coffee and Bible Time !
Single. Longing for marriage. And loved the nighttime encouragement to me and other singles!❤️ The part about cutting out things, at least temporarily, such a YT marriage couples, really encouraged me to be firm in cutting out the unhelpful to help myself in this special time with the Lord! Blessings to you girls in singleness! Let us keep pressing in to Christ!
I am glad you are sharing you thoughts about being single as a young Christian. I wish I had someone like you to watch that sets such a great explain to young women. Now, I am a happy married women. But I didn’t get myself a chance to be a happy single person. I looked to much married couples and wishing so much that it would be my life. God bless has blessed me with my husband and the age of 32 now I am 34. It is a totally different life being married and having a family. While their is a lot of love there is a lot of responsibility. God bless you. Kept sharing your positive thoughts. Young women need to hear this. ❤️
I love reading each night to help me fall asleep.😊
I'm single too! I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend. As you said, we're already completed by the Lord, so we don't need to be anxious about it, our father is always in control 😍❤
Hello
Night routine is so important 😊
I love discussing this with people!
I think if you get the morning and evening right it goes a huge way to having the best day possible 😁😁
I felt a call to be single for a year too (started in August) and honestly I am SO thankful for this season. It's been such a sweet time to get to know the Lord better!
So crazy as your video popped up on my suggested and I’ve never watched your videos before though have heard of your channel. Your call for single Christian RUclipsrs was SUCH an encouragement as am only just starting out and have been second-guessing my decision to start. So amazing to see how Jesus can use people thousands of miles away to provide unexpected encouragement! Thank you xx
can you do an updated Christian girl/Bible journaling essentials video? ps i love you 💛
Single and will be 20 on the 21st. Your mindset about biblical marriage is definitely what I needed to hear through my longing for a relationship
I'm so glad for you that you have this attitude about singleness. I was single until I was 42 with no boyfriends since my very early 20's. I now am going on being married for 13 years. Let me tell you that you are so very correct in your knowledge of your Fulfillment being found in your relationship with Christ. I had a lot of unrealistic expectations on how marriage would be and it wasn't, and the first several years were extremely difficult. But, because we were both certain that our marriage was the Will of God that certainty is what has kept us together. Being in His Will is ALWAYS better than being in our own desires. I pray that you continue to stay in His Will.
I’m 30 and have been single for 3 years now. I battle with being alone...Since I was 17 I was in and out of relationships. I started following Christ whole heartedly when I was 28. It’s been challenging because I want to do the will of God and not go after my old ways. Every attractive guy I see, I wonder if that’s my “next”.. I hate even thinking that way because I just want to be free in God. Not thinking of any other man. It’s like my past want let my mind be free. So in this season I’m asking God for confidence and to be delivered from my past so I can walk with him in freedom. Thanks for posting this video. Your Transparency and Humbleness it’s why I keep watching. 💕
Girl yall’s channel inspires and challenges me sooo much you don’t even know!! I am single and desiring marriage as well 🤚🏽I completely agree with you that there is a need to guard your heart during your single season and always seek to find the good in whatever season your in!
I’m not single BUT, you are spot on that this is a wonderful time for you! I used to feel like I wanted to hurry through that time when I was single and now I just, 🤦🏻♀️! There will be no other time in your life like this! You have hardly any distractions and get to really choose what you want to do when you want to do it. Not saying marriage isn’t wonderful, but singleness is too!!! ❤️
single but young haha im 15. and i am thriving !! right now i just really want to learn more about God and grow in my faith and read His Word ❤️ just found ur channel and love it soo much!! super helpful thank u. u r doing God’s will right now
We both are in the same phase I guess ashley . I am intentionally single for 4 years now ... and I vowed on being single till I'm 23 when I was 18+ ..and I'll be turning 23 this may believing that My God will provide what's needed in due season .. but likewise I too have thoughts... many thoughts because all of the social media ... and the amazing wedding posts and boyfriend tags ... point where I want to be happy for them as well ... and I'm always encouraged by the thought of How I'm not the only one .. there are millions of girls out there who are seeking God willing relationships... and now I'm happy to know that you're one of them too ashley .. a big hug to you and to all other girls out there just like us . Our time will come and it's going to be the best love story ever written .. also encourage you to listen to hollyn 's song called Issac . Our Issac will be saved !🥰😘❤
I'm single and you inspire me so much!!!! keep doing this girl!!! love your confidence!!!!
It was really great to see this video, it felt like a sleepover because I was in my bed, before sleep and it felt so warm in my heart, just like “chat” with a friend.
When it comes to a relationship I always say to my roommate, back to university, that she has to put her heart to rest and calm. She’s not Christian but she feels the same way. She doesn’t lie to herself! When she doesn’t like a guy she doesn’t force it in a way that I’m so used to see in a academic reallity around me everyday. I admire her for that because we see so much empty relationships around us and if you’re not strong in your values and certainties it’s really easy to fall on that trap!
Also, like you said, we see so many lies that spread in social media and it’s so sad to see the way people try to feefild their lives and search for “happiness”. God is our rock and only certainty! We need to search for Him above all so all thoes thing come to us, in His time and by His plane.
I love your chanel! I pray for your ministry that has blessed us so much!
Single and 25 ♥️ the Lord is blessing us with this time to learn who He is so we can be sure to not place our hope in anything else but Christ!
I am so blessed by your channel and seeing how much you love the Word of God! Beautiful
Love your Night Routine so much may God Bless you and your Family .
Hi Ashley! I am single (but kind of intentionally right now), and your videos and Godly encouragement has helped Christ guide me back! :)
I hate that you're not even wrong about how much I'm on RUclips. Love you girl. Keep shining. God bless. Xo
These comments have definitely helped me feel like I’m not the only one!! 27 and single! ✌🏼
yeah i struggle with singleness..and i’m trying to enjoying it as much as i can but i’m definitely longing for marriage and i pray to god that it comes... the way you put it really pushes me and encourages me to enjoy my singleness!!
Ashley you are beautiful inside and out. I wish I had the encouragement you put out everyday when I was single. Keep your head up God knows your heart he will get you thru this. I love your channels and your podcast. And your journal I have one now. It’s wonderful! You have helped me so much with my bible study. Thank you for all your encouragement!
Amen, girl! I’m so grateful to be single and happy than married and miserable! May God bless you with your heart’s desires!! But what a great life we live single!! 🥰
I'm 22 and single, and like you I desire marriage. It's great to see your joy and super encouraging for you to say "even I don't get married, I'll trust the Lord". Love! 💕
I'm 41 years old and your video made me smile. I got married when I was 22 then we immigrated to the USA :) don't worry about being single, God will bring someone into your life when he's supposed arrive. God Bless ❤️
I’m a single girl Christian you tuber. Everything that you just said was what God told me last Saturday. I can’t believe I got confirmation that God just wants me to be happy and enjoy only him for now while I’m single. Thank you for your videos I appreciate you so much