I haven’t even watched your video yet and already I feel like crying… having tubular breast deformity is NOT easy. Suicidal thoughts are a regular for me
Oh my gosh 🥺 i hope you are doing okay! I know how hard it can be, please please hang in there and have hope 🙏🏼 you can get this fixed and feel better. Sending you lots of love ❤️
Hey babes I have the same condition nd did u know that it’s a real medical condition nd ur insurance will cover it my surgery if free!! This condition ruined my whole life I’ve never had a stable boyfriend always compare myself to others want to look pretty ina wedding dress nd to know so many other girls feel inadequate hurt me deeply just keep ur head up no know where there’s a will there’s a way 💕 ur never alone so before payin a ridiculous amount of money try going to ur primary doctor Nd get a referral to plastic surgery I did at Kaiser my mom is a nurse I’m on her insurance till I’m 26 hope this opens something up for someone 💕🪴 never give up
Its a medical condition without any evidence?? And they call it a deformity???!? To me it looks like a painted fairytale to make money. Im a guy and to be perfectly honest; i think tubular breast are so hot! I googled and watched a bunch of them and to me they look sooo damn attractive. What some industries push as attractive traits has nothing to do with nature and reality. It hurts my heart to read that you feel so bad over your breasts. Be strong girls, don't let media dictate your feelings about your bodies. We guys love breasts in all kind of shapes, breasts are breasts 😉 Small, big, pointy, not even sized, even sized, cone formed, round, hanging.. and the list goes on.
@@newtoniantime8804 yes I strongly agree all are beautiful nd I agree social media has made everyone think we r supposed to look a certain way but it is wht it is nd being alone for the rest of my life cuz there’s not a lot of homely wonderful accepting men out there like u , so we must change. I’ve been bullied nd made to feel bad about mine so I’m getting surgery the reality of it is devastating how woman r treated nd r made to feel not good enough it’s sad we don’t feel like a real woman if u don’t have a b or c cup it’s sad we appreciate a real man like u thank u for ur kind wishes
@@Urmom666. Im so sorry for what has happen to you. Being bullied and treated bad because of others personal insecurities. I have been bullied too once, when I was young. So I know how much that hurts your self-worth and self esteem. But it can also make you very strong if you find the right way to cope with the situation. If you could only run into that right confident man. Because Im sure there are some men that will find your breasts beeing their "dream-shape", b and c sized breasts are NOT the MOST attractive for all men! Sometimes ppl need to be reminded that beauty is not objective. I have five close friends and all of us find diffrent female traits extra attractive. Sometimes I think "how can he find her so attractive?" and then I realize how funny nature is because my friend would think the same thing about the girls I prefer. Anyway: You should do what YOU want, not what men want. I just tried to give you another perspective on your situation. Good luck in whatever you choose to do.
I am 23 and now looking into getting this procedure done because I can finally afford it. Both of my breasts are tubular and look almost identical. Ever since I was 10 I knew I was different, my breasts didn't look anything like the other girls in my gym dressing room, and my friends breasts. Shirts looks so weird on me when I am braless, the extreme 'perkiness' and zero roundness of tubular breasts look very strange and unnatural without a bra on. And I have never in my life worn a bikini top. I have never let a doctor give me a breast exam because of the shame. The existence of this deformity for me is the very root cause of my intense body dymorphia I have now, and my intense self esteem issues. I feel like my teenagehood was actually stolen from me. I have had two boyfriends and neither of them I had/ have ever seen my breasts, I literally simply would not let them see. I would always be wearing at least a bra. My ex no doubt cheated and left me because I was so insecure about my body, and didn't let him see me. My current boyfriend of THREE YEARS hasn't even seen them, other than like maybe once when I was drunk as hell. Even now I cant tell my boyfriend *why* I am getting a boob job, only that I am, because I am THAT self conscious about him even knowing of the existence of this deformity. My boyfriend is against a boob job but he doesn't understand the extent of this issue for me at all. I will be updating here when I get the consultation done, and finally the exam. Pray for me girls
Girl! I hope you find some relief about this situation. Doesnt matter how we looks , we need to give the acceptance ourselves first. Nothing else matter
i can tune out the fact that mine never developed and are tubular most of the time…but today was HORRIBLE. i cried for the first time in a long time. this video motivated me and reminded me that i just gotta work towards my goal😭 one day! ONE DAY!
I love this video so much, I have tuberous breasts and have struggled with body image issues since I was 12-13 years old. I would wear multiple bras to look like I had ‘normal’ boobs, I didn’t show my first boyfriend my boobs for a long time because I was so scared he would think they were disgusting, even now with my partner of 4 years I will cover my boobs when I realize he is looking at them. It is my absolute dream to have this procedure done after I have children and even the thought of seeing myself afterwards makes me emotional. Both of my breasts are tubular and are identical, there are days I feel somewhat happy with them but for the most part they make me so sad. I am so happy for you girl!!
I found out this year what TBD was from tiktok (of all places), and I'm 23. I have hated my breasts sooooo much throughout the years. But now I am on my journey to get help. I'm just waiting for a date for the surgery now, and I can't wait! It is sad that I never ever heard anyone talk about this.
Im a guy and to be perfectly honest; I think tubular breast are so hot! I googled and watched a bunch of them and to me they look sooo damn attractive. What some industries push as attractive traits has nothing to do with nature and reality. It hurts my heart to read that so many girls feel so bad over their breasts. Be strong girls, don't let media dictate your feelings about your bodies. We guys love breasts in all kind of shapes, breasts are breasts 😉 Small, big, pointy, not even sized, even sized, cone formed, round, hanging.. and the list goes on.
Tuberous breasts here too! I’ve had two consultations and cannot afford surgery and my credit isn’t good enough to finance. I’ve often found myself wish I could I die in my sleep and wake up in heaven no longer miserable. I’ve been cheated on in every relationship and I think it’s because my low confidence and self hate attracts those kind of men :( now I have two boys I fake a smile for daily but deep down I hurt and spend a lot of time crying.
Sweetheart you are telling my story. We could practically be twins. Except I am much older than you. I used to be skinny and my boobs weren’t as bad but I gained a bunch of weight in the past six months due to some health issues I’m having and…it’s been devastating to experience these changes. They are so so bad now and I feel so ugly. I’m a beautiful woman but the weight gain was hard enough. Having this deformity has been torture. It helps so much to hear from other people what this has been like for you. I just want to hug you. I’m so happy for you that you were able to get this fixed. I’m going to do it too when I’m in better health. I just can’t take it any more.
Girl I was crying right along with you! I have small tuberous breasts so they’re easy to hide, but they lack volume and are mostly just herniated areola. I’m terrified of surgery but I also feel like only half a woman with what I have.
Same and even after surgery they look horrible. I honestly dont know what to do anymore, my parents paid for my surgery but they look the same but bigger. I dont want to live like this
@@jiafei4511im getting the surgery soon and I’m worried they will look the same but bigger. My problem is the puffy nipple and cone shaped breast. I’m worried implants won’t change that. 😢❤❤❤ im hopeful tho. I’m curious what makes you think they look the same after surgery?
Thank you for making this video…I never knew what tuberous breasts were till I was about 20. Now at 23 I’m finally getting the surgery. Thank you for telling other women what this condition is and that it can be fixed ❤️
when you talked about how happy you are and said you finally feel like a woman, that really hit home for me. I thought to myself “that’s how I want to feel!” 😭 I’m 23 and have tubular breast deformity as well. Since the age of 12 I knew something was off about my breasts I never filled out a bra I was over weight but my breasts never grew and were odd shaped. I looked online to figure it out when I saw “deformity” and that hit me like a ton of bricks which proceeded to throw me into so many horrible years of body dysmorphia, I lost so much weight and got into health when I was 16 but I could never be truly happy with my body or proud of myself bc of my breasts. I went in for a consult at 19 and the cost was insane for me at that age, and I kinda just stuffed it down like you did, I did come to appreciate my small weird boobs but it does still hold me back in more ways than I’d like to admit. I really feel like I’ve gone over soo many reasons as to why I shouldn’t get it done, “it’s vain, it’s expensive, it’s risky, breast implant illness, etc, etc.” but this has genuinely pushed me to really look into getting this done for myself. thank you for using your platform and your voice to help others not feel so alone!
I got my surgery 2 weeks ago and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. my doctor was incredible and my boobs are literally perfect now I couldnt be happier I have 0 criticism. I really already feel so much more confident and like I can't wait to wear a bathing suit and I want to take my shirt off!!!!!!!!! like what???? 10/10 recommend if you aren't putting yourself in debt, find a really good doctor and get it done
I’m looking into getting my breast done, my dr said I would have permanent rippling around areolar since it’s stretching my skin too much since we need to do donut lift. Did this happen to you? I also have tubular breast!
I’m looking into getting my breast done, my dr said I would have permanent rippling around areolar since it’s stretching my skin too much since we need to do donut lift. Did this happen to you? I also have tubular breast!
@@allisongodinez714 I did not need a donut lift or a lift at all. my incisions are around the areola and while I do notice one particular spot where the skin looks rippled, it really isn't noticeable and I'm pretty confident once the skin gets used to the stretch it'll go away. I lost weight before my surgery which made my boobs smaller and why I didn't need a lift. the surgery itself is sorta a lift anyway, but some people want/need an additional one. I would check another doc's opinion as I haven't heard of rippling being a reason to dissuade someone from having the surgery
@@Sarah-vi4cx I had a baby 8 months ago & breast fed so unfortunately I do need a lift. I have my procedure date for next month.. was just disappointed that he said the rippling around my areolar will be permanent since my skin is constricted cuz of my tubular breast, but as I’m doing more research about tubular breast and breast argumentation I really don’t see much surgeons says rippling around areolar is a permanent thing if someone has tubular breast. I hope it goes away after my skin stretches and adjust to the implants 😭 I wonder if it’s just the way my surgeons stitches or something that causes his patients to have permanent rippling
Thanks for this video. Anyone who has this condition I'm sure would so appreciate your openness and honesty and message of self love and hope ☺ looking forward to your updates too!
Pretty much the same here. And the small amount of tissue I do have is saggy with a puffy nipple. I had two kids and they didn’t even grow with pregnancy:(
@@eternalwizard776 how did you manage breastfeeding them? even i have tubular breasts, will leave it the way it is, not interested in surgery or any thing as am alrey in mid 30s and not worried anymore of the world any more
@@diauser3327 I wasn’t ever able to exclusively breastfeed but I still offered it to my sons until I was dry. I think by my second pregnancy I would maybe maybe make 12 ounces tops in 24 hours so it wasn’t much but I made sure I continued as long as possible. Then I’d supplement with donor or goats milk after each feeding. I just did my best to give as much as I could so at least the boys got good antibodies etc.
@@diauser3327 oh I forgot to mention I’m 33 so we must be pretty close in age! I honestly do want corrective surgery although I doubt it will ever happen. I keep getting really expensive quotes and I refuse to have them sever the few milk ducts I do have 😅
@@eternalwizard776 good to know, btw me no kids and no plan as well, as have already crossed the usual child bearing age and dont want to trouble self for it now :)
I just found this video because I just found out I had it from the same article. I haven’t told anyone not even my mom I’m too insecure to tell her even though I feel like I should tell her. This has recently become an insecurity of mine and seeing other people share their story has brought me to tears because I thought I was the only one. I started to notice because I’ve seen people have underboobs and I was like were are mine. I mean I even have difficulty taking showers because I mean I have to wash them and well it’s hard touching them knowing it’s something I’m insecure about. Hopefully I will one day get this procedure not because I care what others think but because I don’t want to feel this hatred towards myself.
Thank you so much for posting this. I am in a very similar situation, although both my breasts are tubular, there is at least a two cup size difference. In my years of going through puberty and as a teenager, there was basically nothing I could find online of people in similar circumstances, and I know seeing this would’ve meant so much to me back then, as it still does now. When I’m writing this, I have my first surgery (breast lift) in two days, and I’m so excited. While it’s going to take two operations before things are even, I can’t wait to be able to wear all the tops and bikinis I never have before, and like you said, feel like a sexy woman for the first time in my life. Because of the deformity and large size disparity between my breasts, I was actually able to get my surgeries covered by insurance, so for anyone in a similar circumstance thinking about surgery, I urge you to at least check out your insurance policies, because you might able to get coverage.
Good for you, Destinee! You have overcome so many things head on and with such a determined spirit. I obviously don’t know you personally, but I’m so happy for you! Your breast story will be sure to be a motivation, comfort and reassurance to others who have this condition.
thank you SO much for this ❤️i’m so insecure about it and i don’t know what to do :( totally related when you said you just push it away and act like it doesn’t bother you 😢
I literally just found out what this was last night. I knew I never had “normal” breast. I never saw any photos with my shape. I’m so glad to see this. I have a consult in a few days. I guess this is going to be more expensive than just a normal augmentation?
would you ever consider sharing your surgeon? it's such a different procedure from a regular aug/lift that finding a surgeon that you can feel confident in knowing how to do this procedure well is scary - been searching for months :/
If this does not affect your health, I think it is total fine whether your have tubular breast deformity or not. Just do things that you feel comfortable. I came from you keto video. You are super cute in them.
Thanks for sharing! I have this. I know this. Hopefully this coming year I can get surgery. I'm hopeing and praying because I can't handle staying like this anymore.
Omg I’m in the same exact boat. My right breast is tubular. The left might be as well but the right is very obvious and it is 2 cup sizes smaller than the left. I had been wanting an augmentation when I stumbled upon tubular breasts and immediately knew what I had. Now I’m feeling discouraged but I’m planning to set up a consultation with a surgeon soon. They make me so self conscious I don’t even like looking at myself in the mirror.
Also I know this video was posted 2 years ago but there is a reason why tuberous breasts develop it is due to a shortened and constricted chest muscle. The chest muscle needs to be cut for the breast to release. Now it is a simpler fix and you may not need breast implants to fix the deformity (if your breasts are not uneven, if they are, the bigger breast may need to be augmented to help with evenness). Look up more with MD Barrett
Im 13 and i have type one and im so so so insecure i’ve always thought i just had small boobs but no i feel like ive been cursed, unlucky like why me? But turns out its very very very common.. i want to get surgery as soon as i turn 18
hey, i can sooo relate to you!😩 the difference is mine are just reaaaallyyy small and not round at all plus my nipples make them look weird … I’m only 18 so i will take time for making a decision if i do surgery but also building up more self love and working on my inner self. For me tho, the decision is really really hard because on one hand, I’m actually scared of the surgery (especially breast implant illness so that I have to do explant and it will look even worse!😫) but on the other hand, i suffer and the surgery would be so good for my confidence and also intimate relationships…😫 it would be a dream to feel good in my body 🥹🥹 but it seems like i can’t find a solution here because both sides seem very problematic… i don’t know what to do 😢 Btw, you look really gorgeous, before and after ❤
Thank you for sharing your story! I’m so happy for you and this new chapter! I struggle with the same deformity. I’m smaller chested though. My left breast is my “good” boob it’s a small B and my right boob is an A cup. I’m 28 years old about to be 29 in June and I’ve been so insecure in my body all through my teenage years through my twenties. I am a mother of three and I can say my breast did their job and I was able to breastfeed all three of my babies over 12 months each. It was probably difficult than most because of the deformity but I did it thank God! Fast forward I’ve finally saved up the money and I’m doing my research on tubular breast reconstruction with implants and well I’m reaching out because my question to you is did your surgeon have enough breast tissue to comfortably placed implants in the breast pocket? It was he/she concerned that the tissue in your troubled breast wasn’t big enough to place an implant in? The surgeon I spoke with looked at my A cup tubular breast and questioned if a size D implant would fit. Also, how is the healing process? Was the incision around the areola? Do you have feeling still? Thank you again. Congratulations!
I´m going to surgery tomorrow and doing the last bits of research haha. Absolutely shi1ting myself mainly because I haven't even seen my surgeon, I only had a consultation with a nurse but I´m sure everything will go great:). I´ve been hiding it the same way as all the other girls', whos stories I´ve read but thankfully I found out from quite an early age that it´s something that can be fixed so I started saving up for the surgery already when I was 15... I do this fun thing called ignoring my problems and honestly, it has been working out great so I haven't really let it affect my mental health but I´m glad that starting tomorrow I can slowly start forgetting all about it and living my life to the fullest.
Hey Destinee thank you so much for sharing your story, it's really amazing you look beautiful as always, Stay blessed and happy life is all about to be happy and enjoyment. Thank you dear friend.
I’m so glad you were able to feel more confident. Unfortunately I’m susceptible to the risks of surgery, let alone not being able to afford it. Do you have any supportive groups/videos for LIVING with TBD without surgery. As much as I love seeing people with their newfound confidence, it’s hard being only shown surgeries when trying to find support & confidence embracing this deformity! Sending love 🥰💖
I totally understand, and I wish I had resources to provide you with, however I don’t know of anyone 😔 I know it’s really scary but maybe you could start your own support group & add your voice to the community. I’m sure there are a lot of people like yourself that are in the same situation, who feel the same way. Just remember you are brave and beautiful no matter what ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your story.!! I would like to know how did you go about seeking professional help like for example which doctor did you speak with about this or did you go directly with the plastic surgeon ? And also the cost of the surgery. Thank you!
i too have TBD both sides and dint realize this is a deformity untill i googled recently a couple of years ago, untill then struggled to get fitting bras, never got a perfect padded bra, and tried to do some exercsies etc but nothing helped, but anyways my only concern is just to find correct fitting bra and padded ones if am lucky, and not plannning to ever get it fixed as am already in mid 30s and why to fix something for someone else.
Hey great video! I myself just had my surgery june 25 lift augumention. I also had tubular breast. Did u experience the shooting pain in your nipples ? Mine is just the right side but I never heard anyone talk it and the pain is at times unbearable! I'm happy with my results but this has been my only bother. You look great.
Thank you so much for sharing your story❤️ I noticed that my breast at the age of 18 my breast were droopy, was symmetrical and not perfectly normal. At first I thought maybe it would grow more as I get older but I have noticed now that my breast are not growing. I am now 21 and every time I wear a bra , there is so much extra space on the top and I get really annoyed😒I do not feel insecure I always love my body but the fact I am a double D in bras and the extra space I can’t just do it anymore😩. I’m not sure how the procedures are and what not about how to get them done but just a cup to make them round would be perfect!
I’m looking into getting my breast done, my dr said I would have permanent rippling around areolar since it’s stretching my skin too much since we need to do donut lift. Did this happen to you? I also have tubular breast!
Thank you very much for sharing ❤how much was this beautiful transformation for you? How much time it took for you before you could go back to work and how significant are your scars. Thank you
Wow so much respect. You're very beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story. Im sure you'll help so many people. My breasts are different sizes. I used to cut clothes and sow pads into one side. I feel sad for my teenage self. When you see teenagers now with tab and hair and nails and full confidence and boobs! I wish I could get mine done.
I'm wondering.. if all us girls who have tubular breast were harassed sexually during development, an that that may have stunted the growth? Sometimes I feel or think it is as if my body tried to protect itself by not producing enough estrogen.
I have a similar idea, pieced together from anecdotal evidence mainly. I’ve been reading The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk and he says that many women who go through childhood sexual abuse go into puberty earlier. And I heard on a podcast by a gynaecologist that early puberty may be a factor in tuberous breast (stunted growth, like you said) because certain female hormones are not being produced at that age. It’s interesting, isn’t it! I was abused as well and got my period at 12.
I cried with you girl, that’s my biggest insecurity that I have from 14 years old, now I am almost 17 and I hope my parents will let me to get the surgery, mine are both tubular and they said the shape will probablly change but I don’t think so, I wouldn’t wait another couple years for that so wish me luck
I really want to get checked for this because I know mine are different from all my friends and I hate when my best friend who does have big breasts constantly says stuff like “oh what boobs” but mine are definitely more tubular shaped and haven’t ever filled out -I’m 16 how old do I have to be to get diagnosed ?
The diagnose will confirm that they are uneven . This is due to your hormones. If it bothers you and you want to discuss, hit the orange Q on the left to find me
No. Actually they lack tissue in the breasts, and have more tissue around the nipple. Because of the dense tissue, people with tubular breasts have a decreased chance of forming breast cancer.
I haven’t even watched your video yet and already I feel like crying… having tubular breast deformity is NOT easy. Suicidal thoughts are a regular for me
Oh my gosh 🥺 i hope you are doing okay! I know how hard it can be, please please hang in there and have hope 🙏🏼 you can get this fixed and feel better. Sending you lots of love ❤️
Hey babes I have the same condition nd did u know that it’s a real medical condition nd ur insurance will cover it my surgery if free!! This condition ruined my whole life I’ve never had a stable boyfriend always compare myself to others want to look pretty ina wedding dress nd to know so many other girls feel inadequate hurt me deeply just keep ur head up no know where there’s a will there’s a way 💕 ur never alone so before payin a ridiculous amount of money try going to ur primary doctor Nd get a referral to plastic surgery I did at Kaiser my mom is a nurse I’m on her insurance till I’m 26 hope this opens something up for someone 💕🪴 never give up
Its a medical condition without any evidence?? And they call it a deformity???!? To me it looks like a painted fairytale to make money.
Im a guy and to be perfectly honest; i think tubular breast are so hot! I googled and watched a bunch of them and to me they look sooo damn attractive. What some industries push as attractive traits has nothing to do with nature and reality. It hurts my heart to read that you feel so bad over your breasts. Be strong girls, don't let media dictate your feelings about your bodies.
We guys love breasts in all kind of shapes, breasts are breasts 😉 Small, big, pointy, not even sized, even sized, cone formed, round, hanging.. and the list goes on.
@@newtoniantime8804 yes I strongly agree all are beautiful nd I agree social media has made everyone think we r supposed to look a certain way but it is wht it is nd being alone for the rest of my life cuz there’s not a lot of homely wonderful accepting men out there like u , so we must change. I’ve been bullied nd made to feel bad about mine so I’m getting surgery the reality of it is devastating how woman r treated nd r made to feel not good enough it’s sad we don’t feel like a real woman if u don’t have a b or c cup it’s sad we appreciate a real man like u thank u for ur kind wishes
@@Urmom666. Im so sorry for what has happen to you. Being bullied and treated bad because of others personal insecurities. I have been bullied too once, when I was young. So I know how much that hurts your self-worth and self esteem. But it can also make you very strong if you find the right way to cope with the situation.
If you could only run into that right confident man. Because Im sure there are some men that will find your breasts beeing their "dream-shape", b and c sized breasts are NOT the MOST attractive for all men! Sometimes ppl need to be reminded that beauty is not objective.
I have five close friends and all of us find diffrent female traits extra attractive. Sometimes I think "how can he find her so attractive?" and then I realize how funny nature is because my friend would think the same thing about the girls I prefer.
Anyway: You should do what YOU want, not what men want. I just tried to give you another perspective on your situation. Good luck in whatever you choose to do.
I am 23 and now looking into getting this procedure done because I can finally afford it. Both of my breasts are tubular and look almost identical. Ever since I was 10 I knew I was different, my breasts didn't look anything like the other girls in my gym dressing room, and my friends breasts. Shirts looks so weird on me when I am braless, the extreme 'perkiness' and zero roundness of tubular breasts look very strange and unnatural without a bra on. And I have never in my life worn a bikini top. I have never let a doctor give me a breast exam because of the shame. The existence of this deformity for me is the very root cause of my intense body dymorphia I have now, and my intense self esteem issues. I feel like my teenagehood was actually stolen from me. I have had two boyfriends and neither of them I had/ have ever seen my breasts, I literally simply would not let them see. I would always be wearing at least a bra. My ex no doubt cheated and left me because I was so insecure about my body, and didn't let him see me. My current boyfriend of THREE YEARS hasn't even seen them, other than like maybe once when I was drunk as hell. Even now I cant tell my boyfriend *why* I am getting a boob job, only that I am, because I am THAT self conscious about him even knowing of the existence of this deformity. My boyfriend is against a boob job but he doesn't understand the extent of this issue for me at all. I will be updating here when I get the consultation done, and finally the exam. Pray for me girls
dont do it for some one else dear, bf/relationships will come and go, but you shoud be happy with self.
btw how are you doing now?
how are you doing ?
Girl! I hope you find some relief about this situation.
Doesnt matter how we looks , we need to give the acceptance ourselves first. Nothing else matter
i can tune out the fact that mine never developed and are tubular most of the time…but today was HORRIBLE. i cried for the first time in a long time. this video motivated me and reminded me that i just gotta work towards my goal😭 one day! ONE DAY!
You will get there, I know you will ❤️ best of luck girl stay positive 🌟
I love this video so much, I have tuberous breasts and have struggled with body image issues since I was 12-13 years old. I would wear multiple bras to look like I had ‘normal’ boobs, I didn’t show my first boyfriend my boobs for a long time because I was so scared he would think they were disgusting, even now with my partner of 4 years I will cover my boobs when I realize he is looking at them. It is my absolute dream to have this procedure done after I have children and even the thought of seeing myself afterwards makes me emotional. Both of my breasts are tubular and are identical, there are days I feel somewhat happy with them but for the most part they make me so sad. I am so happy for you girl!!
I found out this year what TBD was from tiktok (of all places), and I'm 23. I have hated my breasts sooooo much throughout the years. But now I am on my journey to get help. I'm just waiting for a date for the surgery now, and I can't wait! It is sad that I never ever heard anyone talk about this.
Im a guy and to be perfectly honest; I think tubular breast are so hot! I googled and watched a bunch of them and to me they look sooo damn attractive. What some industries push as attractive traits has nothing to do with nature and reality. It hurts my heart to read that so many girls feel so bad over their breasts. Be strong girls, don't let media dictate your feelings about your bodies.
We guys love breasts in all kind of shapes, breasts are breasts 😉 Small, big, pointy, not even sized, even sized, cone formed, round, hanging.. and the list goes on.
@@newtoniantime8804 Good for you, but I want to change them for me, not for men.
@@YoyZieee Okey, then you do it for the right reason! Good luck with the surgery, recovery and aftermaths.
Tuberous breasts here too! I’ve had two consultations and cannot afford surgery and my credit isn’t good enough to finance. I’ve often found myself wish I could I die in my sleep and wake up in heaven no longer miserable. I’ve been cheated on in every relationship and I think it’s because my low confidence and self hate attracts those kind of men :( now I have two boys I fake a smile for daily but deep down I hurt and spend a lot of time crying.
Omg girl stop this comment made me want to cry I have the same thing and im always self Cautious about showing my breast
Sweetheart you are telling my story. We could practically be twins. Except I am much older than you. I used to be skinny and my boobs weren’t as bad but I gained a bunch of weight in the past six months due to some health issues I’m having and…it’s been devastating to experience these changes. They are so so bad now and I feel so ugly. I’m a beautiful woman but the weight gain was hard enough. Having this deformity has been torture. It helps so much to hear from other people what this has been like for you. I just want to hug you. I’m so happy for you that you were able to get this fixed. I’m going to do it too when I’m in better health. I just can’t take it any more.
Girl I was crying right along with you! I have small tuberous breasts so they’re easy to hide, but they lack volume and are mostly just herniated areola. I’m terrified of surgery but I also feel like only half a woman with what I have.
I almost killed myself because of TBD, ever since the age of 12 I hated myself absolutely.
Same and even after surgery they look horrible. I honestly dont know what to do anymore, my parents paid for my surgery but they look the same but bigger. I dont want to live like this
@@jiafei4511Try manifesting ♡ nothing to lose atp
@@jiafei4511 hey! please look for a surgeon who specializes in tubular breasts operation. it's more common than you think
I hated myself too, but I got surgery and all good after that.
@@jiafei4511im getting the surgery soon and I’m worried they will look the same but bigger. My problem is the puffy nipple and cone shaped breast. I’m worried implants won’t change that. 😢❤❤❤ im hopeful tho. I’m curious what makes you think they look the same after surgery?
I finally got my surgery yesterday. I’m so excited to see them. I also had tuberous breast
😭😭😭😭 I’m dealing with this… an it’s sooooo hard ! Thanks for being brave and sharing …. This brings me strength ❤️
Nice to see another black girl that has this we gotta stick together!!💕
Thank you for making this video…I never knew what tuberous breasts were till I was about 20. Now at 23 I’m finally getting the surgery. Thank you for telling other women what this condition is and that it can be fixed ❤️
when you talked about how happy you are and said you finally feel like a woman, that really hit home for me. I thought to myself “that’s how I want to feel!” 😭 I’m 23 and have tubular breast deformity as well. Since the age of 12 I knew something was off about my breasts I never filled out a bra I was over weight but my breasts never grew and were odd shaped. I looked online to figure it out when I saw “deformity” and that hit me like a ton of bricks which proceeded to throw me into so many horrible years of body dysmorphia, I lost so much weight and got into health when I was 16 but I could never be truly happy with my body or proud of myself bc of my breasts. I went in for a consult at 19 and the cost was insane for me at that age, and I kinda just stuffed it down like you did, I did come to appreciate my small weird boobs but it does still hold me back in more ways than I’d like to admit. I really feel like I’ve gone over soo many reasons as to why I shouldn’t get it done, “it’s vain, it’s expensive, it’s risky, breast implant illness, etc, etc.” but this has genuinely pushed me to really look into getting this done for myself. thank you for using your platform and your voice to help others not feel so alone!
Tuberous breast is NOT rare, many women suffer from it but are just silent…
I got my surgery 2 weeks ago and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. my doctor was incredible and my boobs are literally perfect now I couldnt be happier I have 0 criticism. I really already feel so much more confident and like I can't wait to wear a bathing suit and I want to take my shirt off!!!!!!!!! like what???? 10/10 recommend if you aren't putting yourself in debt, find a really good doctor and get it done
I’m looking into getting my breast done, my dr said I would have permanent rippling around areolar since it’s stretching my skin too much since we need to do donut lift. Did this happen to you? I also have tubular breast!
I’m looking into getting my breast done, my dr said I would have permanent rippling around areolar since it’s stretching my skin too much since we need to do donut lift. Did this happen to you? I also have tubular breast!
@@allisongodinez714 I did not need a donut lift or a lift at all. my incisions are around the areola and while I do notice one particular spot where the skin looks rippled, it really isn't noticeable and I'm pretty confident once the skin gets used to the stretch it'll go away. I lost weight before my surgery which made my boobs smaller and why I didn't need a lift. the surgery itself is sorta a lift anyway, but some people want/need an additional one. I would check another doc's opinion as I haven't heard of rippling being a reason to dissuade someone from having the surgery
@@Sarah-vi4cx I had a baby 8 months ago & breast fed so unfortunately I do need a lift. I have my procedure date for next month.. was just disappointed that he said the rippling around my areolar will be permanent since my skin is constricted cuz of my tubular breast, but as I’m doing more research about tubular breast and breast argumentation I really don’t see much surgeons says rippling around areolar is a permanent thing if someone has tubular breast. I hope it goes away after my skin stretches and adjust to the implants 😭 I wonder if it’s just the way my surgeons stitches or something that causes his patients to have permanent rippling
How much did urs cost?
Thanks for this video. Anyone who has this condition I'm sure would so appreciate your openness and honesty and message of self love and hope ☺ looking forward to your updates too!
I’m so proud of you to everyone that needs to hear it
I have tubular breasts. They're so small they look like only huge nipples. I hope to correct them soon. Thanks a Lot for sharing this. 💕
Pretty much the same here. And the small amount of tissue I do have is saggy with a puffy nipple. I had two kids and they didn’t even grow with pregnancy:(
@@eternalwizard776 how did you manage breastfeeding them?
even i have tubular breasts, will leave it the way it is, not interested in surgery or any thing as am alrey in mid 30s and not worried anymore of the world any more
@@diauser3327 I wasn’t ever able to exclusively breastfeed but I still offered it to my sons until I was dry. I think by my second pregnancy I would maybe maybe make 12 ounces tops in 24 hours so it wasn’t much but I made sure I continued as long as possible. Then I’d supplement with donor or goats milk after each feeding. I just did my best to give as much as I could so at least the boys got good antibodies etc.
@@diauser3327 oh I forgot to mention I’m 33 so we must be pretty close in age! I honestly do want corrective surgery although I doubt it will ever happen. I keep getting really expensive quotes and I refuse to have them sever the few milk ducts I do have 😅
@@eternalwizard776 good to know, btw me no kids and no plan as well, as have already crossed the usual child bearing age and dont want to trouble self for it now :)
I just found this video because I just found out I had it from the same article. I haven’t told anyone not even my mom I’m too insecure to tell her even though I feel like I should tell her. This has recently become an insecurity of mine and seeing other people share their story has brought me to tears because I thought I was the only one. I started to notice because I’ve seen people have underboobs and I was like were are mine. I mean I even have difficulty taking showers because I mean I have to wash them and well it’s hard touching them knowing it’s something I’m insecure about. Hopefully I will one day get this procedure not because I care what others think but because I don’t want to feel this hatred towards myself.
That is not necessary, too. For starters, it IS quite normal. Secondly, this is private for you, and what you need is acceptance and confirmation.
Thank you so much for posting this. I am in a very similar situation, although both my breasts are tubular, there is at least a two cup size difference. In my years of going through puberty and as a teenager, there was basically nothing I could find online of people in similar circumstances, and I know seeing this would’ve meant so much to me back then, as it still does now. When I’m writing this, I have my first surgery (breast lift) in two days, and I’m so excited. While it’s going to take two operations before things are even, I can’t wait to be able to wear all the tops and bikinis I never have before, and like you said, feel like a sexy woman for the first time in my life. Because of the deformity and large size disparity between my breasts, I was actually able to get my surgeries covered by insurance, so for anyone in a similar circumstance thinking about surgery, I urge you to at least check out your insurance policies, because you might able to get coverage.
Good for you, Destinee! You have overcome so many things head on and with such a determined spirit. I obviously don’t know you personally, but I’m so happy for you!
Your breast story will be sure to be a motivation, comfort and reassurance to others who have this condition.
thank you SO much for this ❤️i’m so insecure about it and i don’t know what to do :( totally related when you said you just push it away and act like it doesn’t bother you 😢
I literally just found out what this was last night. I knew I never had “normal” breast. I never saw any photos with my shape. I’m so glad to see this. I have a consult in a few days. I guess this is going to be more expensive than just a normal augmentation?
Same here!! Im only 18 but i was shocked to see it had a name i never saw my breasts anywhere before and now i have mixed emotions
Thank you for sharing a such personal and sensitive topic...Glad you feel better about yourself
Thank you ❤️
You look beautiful! You are so brave and you will bless others by sharing your story.
Thank you ❤️❤️
would you ever consider sharing your surgeon? it's such a different procedure from a regular aug/lift that finding a surgeon that you can feel confident in knowing how to do this procedure well is scary - been searching for months :/
I had tabular breasts, and I couldn't look in the mirror at them for 6 years until I had a breast augmentation at 21.
Same
If this does not affect your health, I think it is total fine whether your have tubular breast deformity or not. Just do things that you feel comfortable. I came from you keto video. You are super cute in them.
Thanks for sharing! I have this. I know this. Hopefully this coming year I can get surgery. I'm hopeing and praying because I can't handle staying like this anymore.
Omg I’m in the same exact boat. My right breast is tubular. The left might be as well but the right is very obvious and it is 2 cup sizes smaller than the left. I had been wanting an augmentation when I stumbled upon tubular breasts and immediately knew what I had. Now I’m feeling discouraged but I’m planning to set up a consultation with a surgeon soon. They make me so self conscious I don’t even like looking at myself in the mirror.
Also I know this video was posted 2 years ago but there is a reason why tuberous breasts develop it is due to a shortened and constricted chest muscle. The chest muscle needs to be cut for the breast to release. Now it is a simpler fix and you may not need breast implants to fix the deformity (if your breasts are not uneven, if they are, the bigger breast may need to be augmented to help with evenness). Look up more with MD Barrett
Thank you for doing this and letting people know they arent alone
Im 13 and i have type one and im so so so insecure i’ve always thought i just had small boobs but no i feel like ive been cursed, unlucky like why me? But turns out its very very very common.. i want to get surgery as soon as i turn 18
I have tubular breasts too and I’m the process of getting mine fixed 😊
How? How old are you
@@Pinklove7479 30 and I was referred to the breast clinic by my gynaecologist due to another problem that’s caused the tubular breasts
@@IzzyandShadow I have them due to pcos, how much did they say you have to pau
@@Pinklove7479 nothing I’m in the UK due to the other issue I have that’s caused it I’m getting it on the nhs
@@IzzyandShadow oh so do you think it’s likely they will fix due to pcos? Who do I have to talk to just a regular gp?
Thank you for being brave and sharing ❤
hey, i can sooo relate to you!😩 the difference is mine are just reaaaallyyy small and not round at all plus my nipples make them look weird … I’m only 18 so i will take time for making a decision if i do surgery but also building up more self love and working on my inner self. For me tho, the decision is really really hard because on one hand, I’m actually scared of the surgery (especially breast implant illness so that I have to do explant and it will look even worse!😫) but on the other hand, i suffer and the surgery would be so good for my confidence and also intimate relationships…😫 it would be a dream to feel good in my body 🥹🥹 but it seems like i can’t find a solution here because both sides seem very problematic… i don’t know what to do 😢
Btw, you look really gorgeous, before and after ❤
Thank you for sharing your story! I’m so happy for you and this new chapter! I struggle with the same deformity. I’m smaller chested though. My left breast is my “good” boob it’s a small B and my right boob is an A cup. I’m 28 years old about to be 29 in June and I’ve been so insecure in my body all through my teenage years through my twenties. I am a mother of three and I can say my breast did their job and I was able to breastfeed all three of my babies over 12 months each. It was probably difficult than most because of the deformity but I did it thank God! Fast forward I’ve finally saved up the money and I’m doing my research on tubular breast reconstruction with implants and well I’m reaching out because my question to you is did your surgeon have enough breast tissue to comfortably placed implants in the breast pocket? It was he/she concerned that the tissue in your troubled breast wasn’t big enough to place an implant in? The surgeon I spoke with looked at my A cup tubular breast and questioned if a size D implant would fit. Also, how is the healing process? Was the incision around the areola? Do you have feeling still? Thank you again. Congratulations!
thank you for sharing your story, you're such a strong woman! ❤
Thank you ❤️
I´m going to surgery tomorrow and doing the last bits of research haha. Absolutely shi1ting myself mainly because I haven't even seen my surgeon, I only had a consultation with a nurse but I´m sure everything will go great:). I´ve been hiding it the same way as all the other girls', whos stories I´ve read but thankfully I found out from quite an early age that it´s something that can be fixed so I started saving up for the surgery already when I was 15... I do this fun thing called ignoring my problems and honestly, it has been working out great so I haven't really let it affect my mental health but I´m glad that starting tomorrow I can slowly start forgetting all about it and living my life to the fullest.
How did the surgery go?
can you tell about your surgery
Thank You you're going to help so many others with this.🙏🏼💙💙💙
You are so brave, beautiful and generous. Thank you for sharing with us! 💛🌸 ENJOY GIRL! 😁
Thanks so much for making thiss! It really helps. When will u post the before and after pictures?
I will in a few months, stay posted 😉
I knew something was wrong but I didn’t know what until I almost starved my son not realizing I had this issue or what it was.
Hey Destinee thank you so much for sharing your story, it's really amazing you look beautiful as always,
Stay blessed and happy life is all about to be happy and enjoyment.
Thank you dear friend.
I wanna get surgery so bad but I’ve never had surgery before. Can you talk a little bit about your experience?❤
Thanks for the transparency 🙏🏻
I just find out I have tubular breast I am 35 years 😅. Thank you for the information
I’m so glad you were able to feel more confident. Unfortunately I’m susceptible to the risks of surgery, let alone not being able to afford it.
Do you have any supportive groups/videos for LIVING with TBD without surgery. As much as I love seeing people with their newfound confidence, it’s hard being only shown surgeries when trying to find support & confidence embracing this deformity!
Sending love 🥰💖
I totally understand, and I wish I had resources to provide you with, however I don’t know of anyone 😔 I know it’s really scary but maybe you could start your own support group & add your voice to the community. I’m sure there are a lot of people like yourself that are in the same situation, who feel the same way. Just remember you are brave and beautiful no matter what ❤️❤️
there is so much available only about correction and no resources to help with living with it like proper fitting bras, etc...
Thank you for sharing your story.!! I would like to know how did you go about seeking professional help like for example which doctor did you speak with about this or did you go directly with the plastic surgeon ? And also the cost of the surgery. Thank you!
I will answer in the next video ❤️
Thank you for this❤ i hope we all get thru this together
i too have TBD both sides and dint realize this is a deformity untill i googled recently a couple of years ago, untill then struggled to get fitting bras, never got a perfect padded bra, and tried to do some exercsies etc but nothing helped,
but anyways my only concern is just to find correct fitting bra and padded ones if am lucky, and not plannning to ever get it fixed as am already in mid 30s and why to fix something for someone else.
Hey great video! I myself just had my surgery june 25 lift augumention.
I also had tubular breast.
Did u experience the shooting pain in your nipples ? Mine is just the right side but I never heard anyone talk it and the pain is at times unbearable! I'm happy with my results but this has been my only bother.
You look great.
Omg you got yours a day after me how funnny! I haven’t not experienced any shooting pain in my nipples, I’ve been experiencing numbness actually 😵💫
You are so brave 🥰🙌🏾🙏🏽 yay to the “new.”
Thank you 🥰
Thank you so much for sharing your story❤️ I noticed that my breast at the age of 18 my breast were droopy, was symmetrical and not perfectly normal. At first I thought maybe it would grow more as I get older but I have noticed now that my breast are not growing. I am now 21 and every time I wear a bra , there is so much extra space on the top and I get really annoyed😒I do not feel insecure I always love my body but the fact I am a double D in bras and the extra space I can’t just do it anymore😩. I’m not sure how the procedures are and what not about how to get them done but just a cup to make them round would be perfect!
I’m looking into getting my breast done, my dr said I would have permanent rippling around areolar since it’s stretching my skin too much since we need to do donut lift. Did this happen to you? I also have tubular breast!
Thank you very much for sharing ❤how much was this beautiful transformation for you?
How much time it took for you before you could go back to work and how significant are your scars. Thank you
Wow so much respect.
You're very beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story. Im sure you'll help so many people.
My breasts are different sizes. I used to cut clothes and sow pads into one side. I feel sad for my teenage self. When you see teenagers now with tab and hair and nails and full confidence and boobs! I wish I could get mine done.
I'm happy I'm not alone
I'm wondering.. if all us girls who have tubular breast were harassed sexually during development, an that that may have stunted the growth? Sometimes I feel or think it is as if my body tried to protect itself by not producing enough estrogen.
I have a similar idea, pieced together from anecdotal evidence mainly. I’ve been reading The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk and he says that many women who go through childhood sexual abuse go into puberty earlier. And I heard on a podcast by a gynaecologist that early puberty may be a factor in tuberous breast (stunted growth, like you said) because certain female hormones are not being produced at that age. It’s interesting, isn’t it! I was abused as well and got my period at 12.
Interesting!!! I’ve never thought about in that way… possibly!
In my case I was a late bloomer
I was abused and I got my period at 10
Still didn't finish the video yet but you are so gorgeous like wow...God bless you
You are so beautiful thank u for sharing💛
Also one question: since you got a lift, do you still have issues with scarring? I’m most afraid of the scars.
I wish I had thousands of dollars to get surgery I’m so insecure about my breasts and it upsets me so bad
I cried with you girl, that’s my biggest insecurity that I have from 14 years old, now I am almost 17 and I hope my parents will let me to get the surgery, mine are both tubular and they said the shape will probablly change but I don’t think so, I wouldn’t wait another couple years for that so wish me luck
Same! I’m almost 16 tho
It really depressing i wish i see help in ma countrt but there is nothing like that here
I really need help
I died at “bra’s giving birth”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
👏👏👏👏👏 thank you for this.
Will you be doing a follow up video?
Don't let it get to you men don't care? There's no such thing as a bad breast :)😊
just to let you know, tuberous breasts and actually really common
Yeah but no one talks about it, my doctor told me it’s a lot more common than we think.
Destinee you're gorgeous....You were beautiful before but now wow ....Whats your secret ?
Lol thank you ❤️ the secret is self love
They never come out perfect though . Besides at one surgeon. Can you share where you went.
I really want to get checked for this because I know mine are different from all my friends and I hate when my best friend who does have big breasts constantly says stuff like “oh what boobs” but mine are definitely more tubular shaped and haven’t ever filled out -I’m 16 how old do I have to be to get diagnosed ?
The diagnose will confirm that they are uneven . This is due to your hormones. If it bothers you and you want to discuss, hit the orange Q on the left to find me
@@qrpcoaching8198 cool thank you
@@sarahmaybearhave you been checked already?
Tubular beasts are actually not really rare
What’s the name of the brand of your implants?
Are you going to replace your implants every 10 years?
Don’t you afraid of breast implant illness?
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I have this also and want to get surgery if everyone can donate me £1 I might get it 💌
I hate having tubular breaasts
Are tubular breast breast cancer ?
No. Actually they lack tissue in the breasts, and have more tissue around the nipple. Because of the dense tissue, people with tubular breasts have a decreased chance of forming breast cancer.