"I Can't Escape These Big Back Women!" | Jess Fix My Mess
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Jess out here pregnant 🤰🏻 eating on the radio, breaking up relationships 😂 I love it 😈😈
😂😂😂
Lmaoooo
LOL
That ish is ghetto
I really do🤣
That last caller had to be TK Kirkland!😂
I was thinking that too! It sounded too much like him 😂
Hell yeah it is 😂😂😂
I swear I just typed that! That’s definitely him
It definitely is once I heard him laugh I’m like that gotta be TK
It do sound like him😂😂😂 incredible back's 😂
I don’t understand why y’all call in as married people asking Jess for advice 🙄
Exactly.. I was thinking the same thing
Facts!! Is she even married! No
Deadass, I was just about to comment the same thing!
Seriously 💯💯
But she gave such sound advice to caller 2.
First caller sounds like he is leaving out details… lol
Yep!
Yep! I heard that too! He sound like he a dusty(in my Shera 7 voice)
I thought I was the only one who thought that
@@tinasmith6720 Calling him a dusty is a dead giveaway that you're a single bitter BW
Exactly why wouldn't you want to spend any money on your wife. I don't care if it's only one income so you don't want to even buy you wife dinner, a single rose is $2 to $5 sometimes it's the little things . How did he get this lady to become his wife
That truck driver is just stressed .. man y’all missing that
Second caller, like Jess said, relationships go through rough patches, stick it out! 14 years and 6 kids is not worth throwing away
Right 🙏🏽
I would end myself 😭💯I’m going to to sosua & soy 6
Facts
Its not throwing it away if your spouses refuses to make time for you, have a date night and be LOVERS instead of roommates
My mother had six children with my father when all were under the age of ten the youngest just four she got involved with a married man on her job. He pumped two children into her and stayed with his wife, the grass is not always greener and this woman calls herself a Christian to this day. She told my father she needed more child support because she had two more children and he laughed in her face!
Caller 2: Sometimes life gets tough and we just have to tough things out. 14 years and six kids, where are you going to go? Communicate with your husband and work things out together. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Too many people throw away good marriage is over temporary problems. You aren’t going to be happy all the time. That’s life. The sooner people accept that, the better off they’ll be.
Preach
yes 26 years people think our relationship is perfect we chose to keep working at our marriage communicate and compromise. Talk about the disconnect and get back to it stuck to what we needed from each other now our kids are grown and its back to the beginning just me and him, AND WE ARE DATING EACH OTHER LIKE CRAZY.
@@patricialilly6782love that. That sounds like a normal relationship though. The couples that ignore things and pretend everything is fine end up getting divorced after a few years
God bless you and ur man !
That trucker does not like that woman anymore. The wife still loves him but he definitely don’t love her
No they don't. If they go to therapy, this issue will be discovered in a couple of weeks. They got together as teenagers so they may be more going on thanbshe's saying. They are moving towards a full on crisis.
‘Try one big back’ what is this the state fair😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
I’m cryinggggg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Last caller..
T.K Kirkland.. The voice and laugh gave it away!! 😁 Smh Stop playing on the phone 😂
Nah..its close but that's not him...😂
How can you NOT LIKE JESS?!!! ❤❤❤❤ her advice for the wife in school with the truck driver husband, was on point! And she’s HILARIOUS! ❤❤❤
CThaG is loving this too much. His uncontrollable laughing lol
The one who called about the big backs sounds like one himself
I was thinking that. Everything about him sounds like he's never even walked by a gym, never mind went inside.
Black married couples need to understand that their marriages benefit the entire Black community. Functional families are the building blocks of functional communities.
Our communities are ghettos because our families are either splintered or dysfunctional.
If there is no cheating or beating going on, we need you all to make it work!
We don't need marriages to have a functional community we need healed and healthy people for a functional community. 👌🏾People should be marrying for love not for the community.
Our communities are only ghetto because yt people created that stereotype out of hate of BP and conditioned everyone including us to view it that way. There's plenty of single yt parents that exist but no one calls it ghetto...this stereotype needs to jump cease to exist as it's rooted in hate not reality. 👌🏾
If someone is mentally and emotionally abusing that's still abuse and people should leave. 👌🏾 Staying in a miserable marriage will never benefit anyone no matter how hard you try to make it work. 👌🏾
You are right! A solid foundation can create generational wealth, teach your children that it’s ok to receive love. If a person is in the right relationship, yes there will be issues at time but they will receive, unconditional love, support, stress less and a in house counseling to vent to. Vice being single. It’s ok to be single, but it’s better with a village and not having to worry about if you should phone a friend or family member to burden them with your problems. Look how it’s less marriages in the black community and now how kids are overtly sexual and having soul ties with anybody.
THANK YOU!
@@Love-dv6ml But your family and friends are part of the village so it wouldn't be a burden to call them for help if needed. 👌🏾kids are only overtly sexual because society created it to be this way instead of view people as human beings. Male rappers have made sex and hook up culture what it is and women just followed what they were taught by men. 🤷🏾♀️
I agree with you to an extent but I think the key word is functional marriages. I also think education is more important to a successful community.
She just smacking all in the 🎤
First call just need a budget for birthday and holidays.
I was thinking the same thing. A birthday/holiday account for those occasions.
Shoot it sounds like he don't want to do either. Talking about they agreed I tell you what I better have Valentine, Mother's Day, Birthday. and Christmas, you don't have to spend all you got but I expect for you to spend something. These things come every year. It's called plan accordingly.
The husband makes more money. He should just pay all the bills and let his Queen use her funds for all the extra expenses like birthdays and holidays.
I enjoyed what Jess had to spill this morning , the growth is definitely showing . Great job Jess. On this Sunday morning 6:27 from California .
It truly is
🌎Worst times are coming in the world but GREATER is coming in the kingdom 🙌🏾
Make sure you're in the Kingdom!!!!💜
I can't get over the title😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
6 kids? Yeah, you’re cooked.
Exactly where she going? she better work that out lol
Real rap 😂😂😂😂
@@SmooveTV718where he going is the question? Child support gon be nutz😂
@@SnakeyD8468he got a better chance at another person than her
That guy took too long to tell the story 🙄
Absolutely....He is a LONG TALKER 😮😮😮😮😮😮
Nigga was pausing like a mf 😅
Yep, he loves the Big Backs for real! 😅😂
Exactly all the denial and roasting is a dead giveaway he want some big back😂😂😂
👋Very proud member of the Big Back Brigade here! Hubby is a Big Back too, and... We have so much FUN together 😆😆😆!
we not built to be too big , be curvy and not skinny that is ok. watch out for blood pressure and possible diabetes. y'all need to be very careful. i want my BP to live long healthy lives with minimal physical stress.
@@PHlophe Skinny ppl get hbp too hon. I know a lady right now who is very healthy looking and she just got diagnosed. I also know very chubby vegan ppl who have never eaten unheard a day in their life. I agree that ppl should stay fit though
At least yall confident
That man was disrespectful asf. His laugh mad annoying too. You don’t like them, ignore them. Tf.
I know she not eating on air yo lol 🤦🏾♂️
😂 who gonna check the pregnant lady
She’s pregnant.
This whole big back sh!t is wild!
Shelle, very wile SMH !
6 kids and one bread winner yup that alone is a lot
So called "Big Back Women" are some of the Best women a man can have. They are loyal and treat a man like he wants to be treated. I would Never pass on a so called "Big Back Woman" because I know from experience they are Diamonds in the rough 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
More for you.
Damn. Sucks for you
Everybody cheats. Even big backs
@@doingit2deathBe clear. Everybody DOESN'T cheat not gets cheated on. STOP applying the trash you feed yourself mentally and emotionally and applying it to the general public. IF YOU are the one getting cheated and/or doing the cheating, that's a PERSONAL issue. You need to figure out what it is about YOU that keeps attracting ain't ish 😺 and/or 🍆. Or whatever you're into . Don't make your personal experience the burden on the public.
I don't judge but that's like being part of my crack addicted husband. I don't think you should be shamed for going through addiction but that's what obesity is
Every time I hear the term big back women I think of the movie Silence of the Lambs and size 14 shirts. It puts the lotion on it's skin
@bigolbabyhuey Well damn…
JESS YOUR NOT MARRIED WAT R U TALKING ABOUT😂😂🤦🏽♂️😂
The black community could stand to raise it's standards, less Meghan and Trashy Red.
The caller sent for her.
Broken home? YOu need to be worried about being broke with no home if her spending gets crazy. But it sounds like you don't know how to have fun and forced her to sign into a agreement of never spending money which is crazy.
Yeah….and that’s called being a slave. Might as well be single.
Agreed. Especially since she’s working. Sounds controlling.
@@bluebutterfly5684 yep!
Sounds like he knew who she was when he got with her and tried to change her.
@@brittanyjohnson375 true
Y'all will never understand how many times I rewinded Jess's reaction to the last caller soon as he opened his mouth bro 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
As a married woman this is weird calling for real advice from someone who’s never been married let alone engaged! Lol😂😂
PRAYERS TO THAT FIRST HOME..LETS GO DAD.
That nurse she going through it, shout out to the nurses
I fw DJ Envy “you want me to hang up?” 😂💯
I watch breakfast club faithfully now because of Jess . Good addition to the radio show
Big back is a highlight discussion nowadays on the breakfast club👌👌👌
Ikr😂
Did CthaGOD coin the term? Cuz I swear I didn't hear it till he started saying it.
The term bug back has been out for many years. But it's become highlighted within the past year@@SmooveTV718
@@SmooveTV718 he did
@@SmooveTV718 Term been around for a while, he might just have re-popularize it…🤣
Is that TK Kirkland?
Why that last caller sound like my dad lol
😂😂😂
I have been married 26 years. I am not qualified to give relationship advice. What has worked for us will not work for someone else.
12:34 plot twist the brother gon be like "Not again! She do this with every dude I hire"😂🤣
"Go ahead and lose that job brotha." Lmao
The last caller definitely sounds like he got a big back 😆😆😆
Was on point with that 3rd caller regarding the boss's younger sister.
Jess said there’s a reason for that big back. 😂😂. Don’t knock it till you try it.
Jess should not be giving advice I swear
Thank u
Big back gang 🤘🏽😝
Maaaaan the big back caller took me out ⚰️🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 like seriously tho I wonder what he looks like😏 from what I've learned it's always the ones that don't look all that themselves trying to read someone else's look🥴 Fr tho Incredible Back was funny as hell😂
I don't think a comedian I qualified to fix nobody's mess.
He said my cousin Charla messed with 😂😂😂
Call it out 😂😂😂
Harmony is the best way to restore your peace in one another forgiveness and never putting yourself above or below the ones you love 💕
Dis ninja holding you and 6 kids down and you tried of him, SMH.
The second caller needs to work it out, maybe they should see a marriage counselor
Nobody who isn't married or has a successful marriage should be giving marriage advice.. That's crazy
3rd caller don't crap where you eat especially with the boss sister.
Can yall stop eating on air? Seems so unprofessional
I hate that shit! I will click off my favorite RUclipsr's video if they start out eating. I hate it!
The advice you gave to Tre was some good advice. You try to keep your home together but there are some dealbreakers that you can’t ignore.
these married couple need marriage counseling and not asking advice on the radio
That first caller didn’t say a word about “How” he celebrates holidays or birthdays, etc.
While the woman may be overspending and absolutely needs to get it in check. The man sounds selfish and inconsiderate.
We don't know what he considers over spending though
That last caller doing too much. I guess it was funny a couple seconds but you was dragging it.
“Lose that job” man why is Jess giving advice lmao
I 💭🤔 the same thannng
First caller need to just separate they accounts and she can pay for her bday wit her money
Asking a 2x BM for advice is crazy!!!
With the 1st caller, his wife is going to cheat on him. Any time a woman say something about you not caring about them or loving them the same( no matter how ridiculous it is), they're going to go out and find someone to fill that "void".
To be honest, she probably already did. Women always have a dude or two that's just a phone call away. Cut your losses and move on, especially if no kids are involved. Early thirties is a perfect time to find someone new.
Y’all both sound stupid
Facts
@bradleyjames1379 they have 2 kids
@sherondaness7505
My statement still stands. He needs to find an escape plan while he is still relatively young. A woman questioning your love over Shiney things is already gone.
@3:00 Get three bank accounts. 1) Yours 2)Hers and 3) a joint bank account. She can't touch yours and you both put in a percentage of your income into the joint bank account (that should be for the home and kids expenses).
I don't know whether to ask them for their phone number or their autograph. I'll admit that was funny. 😂
Not the guy exposing Charla 💀
Why do people ask her for help lol , but whatever it’s entertaining.
This was a great segment. I'm so proud of Jess
I’ll never forget that photo of women in the 80s - 90s
What photo?
Last caller is trying too hard to be a comedian 😏🙄🌽🌽smh lol
That title lol😂
JFMM is cool but a married person asking a single woman whose never been married for advice is wild lol
6:21 A women telling a man what she don’t play that” is wild. Fellas don’t let NO woman stop 🛑 your 💰because she will cheat & leave after hindering you.
Jess noooooo the sister work at the job too! No way
@5:00 Six kids is 4 too many. They should have stopped at 2.
that's TK Kirkland on the phone
Yeah 6 kids he knows where the stress is are we serious don't need counselor
I can't imagine having 6 kids this day and time. That's constant stress with the cost of living these days.
@@kathyrodriguez820True. Even if you do got bread like that, if you’re an active parent, you aren’t getting ANY days off.
Still need a counselor to help them navigate handling stress in a healthy way… they’re failing at doing it on their own
@@craziinancy1 money and time that's all we can do with counseling they know that
Put the big backs in The gym. They look terrible and its unnecessary.
Dude needs to look elsewhere.
Get a budget and stick to it. Stop buying overpriced food and non food just because you can or you frontin' and stuntin' cause you may have a few coins. You can fool others that you got money..but you can't fool yourself.
What are you even babbling about?
@@dee27206I was thinking the same thing 😂😂😂
Michele Obama said she hated barrack for 10 years lol. But they been together for 30. So 20 good years.
I still don't understand why she'd admit to that. That's something she should've kept to herself out of respect for her husband.
She's said that one too many times. I started side-eyeing her for it because between the two, he DEFINITELY seems more likable.
@@sharonjo7630 Agreed. It also makes her sound extremely annoying every single time the topic comes up.
The show's Candid, Precise and Genuine👏👏👏!
Charla is becoming a know it all and arrogant. Since Jess joined the show.
You got 6 kids by him. Get over it and deal with it.
By the way is this chick a certified counselor? Yall better be careful who yall rant your problems out to.
You will sometimes get an advice that will destroy your marriage
Y is Jess speaking on marriage tho ? I wldnt take marriage advice from an unmarried person.
6 kids you dont have time to date. Who you putting all them kids on? C'mon son. The more kids you have the less money you have and less time you have for yourself and your relationship. It's only 24 hours in day a third your working, a third you sleep.
It’s crazy she was considering ending a 14 relationship over temporary feelings. How is it that easy and where would she go from there?
@@asdfghj13579fly I Having no time for your spouse is not temporary it is long-term term depending on how old the kids are. With. 6 kids the options are few and far between.
I can’t take marriage advice from a woman who’s not married 😂
Yayyyy black people no longer think being built like lizzo and rozay is cool anymore. 👏🏿👏🏿🎉
How am i gone take advice from someone that aint even married man make it make sense
Because the married ones not even making things work. And married people were once single. Hell some of them act pure single!!
I hate this thought process
@@SCStudios1right because they use this wack ideology for everything. Oh why is somebody who never went to college telling me to go to college. Oh why is so and so..? Like the eff? Ppl are entitled to give advise.
He gone lose half if he leaves. That math aint mathin either
Somethings should be off limits..dude you at your job. Why confuse the scenario by giving in to your need to get with your boss sister. Sometimes men you just have to just say no to your lust and maintain your position at your job. It's more important to have a great job to go to without all the drama thats gonna come by you hitting your boss sister up. Keep your workplace just that.."your place of work"..not a club atmosphere where you trying to hook up.
and if it doesn't work out, his last check and an exit box will be awaiting him.
Big Backs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That idea is terrible. Dating the boss’ sister😂😂
How do Jess know about marriages , y’all better not listen to her lol . Ok I’m done
The second caller needs to see a marriage counselor.
First caller, yo wife a gold digger not a goal digger
First caller is a control freak. I feel like holidays and birthdays are a good time to spend a little money. Thats why I'm GLAD i make my own money.
I love Jess. I don’t know why people hate on her. I love her on the show.
Women really do be having a lot of things going on,that make it hard to lose weight and keep it off but men have no excuse. To even lose weight in a healthy manner,testosterone has to be present and being that .. this is the thriving/ dominant hormone, so if a man can’t seem to stay lean and muscular, how could they be so hard on women, with all the things that naturally work against them staying lean. I’m a personal trainer and I’m in the south but I tell these brothers all the time ,that they make it easy for brothers that keep their bodies in A-1 condition . These women bear children and all and that changes their bodies majorly.. after the fact. From what I see from most American black male population ,especially in the south, get y’all health in order and be a reflection of what you preach and you’d be surprised, how they would be inspired by you and change the way they go about health and fitness. You gotta show em though. Talk is cheap. Men are supposed to to show and prove.. anything less is slackness.