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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
  • MY HOUSE IS A WRECK! Messy To Minimal Clean + Declutter | MINIMALIST cleaning "routine"
    If you are new here, hey! I am Natalie - follower of Jesus, wife to my childhood best friend, and homeschool mama to three.
    I’m also the ORIGINAL creator of “MESSY TO MINIMAL”- a widely-popular extreme decluttering and home organization series that I started in 2020. In the course of about a year, my husband and I worked to simplify our home and lifestyle. With our first pass through our home we got rid of over 80% of our possessions.
    Nowadays, we’re not keeping track of the number, because decluttering is more of a maintenance task to invest into the health and simplicity of our home and family life moving forward!
    I continue to share this series as a way to completely DEMOLISH the idea that decluttering is a one and done activity (especially in a home with young children!) I am here to give you non-judgmental encouragement and some gentle motivation for your own decluttering and simple-living journey!
    If you’re just tuning in to this series or would like a refresher here’s that full playlist: • MESSY TO MINIMAL SERIES
    I love sharing about my life as a mom and homemaker/homesteader. Around here we embrace the coziness in the chaos and the magic in the mundane. I believe simple joys and a home filled with love (not STUFF) are more important than "keeping up with the Joneses." I'm glad you stopped by!
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Комментарии • 300

  • @laurajane1900
    @laurajane1900 Год назад +7

    Clear out your fridge when you write your grocery list, that way you can check for ingredients at the same time 😊

  • @CH-sw1bg
    @CH-sw1bg Год назад +70

    Hailey dancing in the rain melted my heart 🥹 💖 rainy days are beautiful too!

  • @yvettehernandez369
    @yvettehernandez369 Год назад +18

    It’s women like you who help us feel better about ourselves, that cleaning/house chores are on going. That we are not alone.

  • @wendymassey9963
    @wendymassey9963 Год назад +15

    This may be unpopular but I have a cleaner come twice a month to clean everything thoroughly. I’m a clean freak and it helps me mentally so much and I budget it as part of self care.
    Of course there are daily tasks and I freshen things up every few days but it’s peace of mind knowing the big stuff will get done!!

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +5

      I LOVE this for you! NOTHING wrong with hiring help if you're able to. ♥️

    • @lindsayvlogslife
      @lindsayvlogslife Год назад +5

      We do this too. I’m a mom of 4 (ages 6m to 6y) and some days it feels impossible to catch up on everything. It’s so nice knowing that every other week, every single room in my house will get cleaned all at once! Even if it doesn’t last long with all these kids 😂 We originally hired her when I was extremely pregnant with my third (and dealing with a lot of pelvic pain that made it difficult to get any cleaning done some days!) but her price is so reasonable ($20/hr and it only takes her 1.5 hours so $30 plus a tip!) that we feel it’s well worth it.

    • @HAppytobeHer
      @HAppytobeHer Год назад +2

      Same here! My cleaners save me from mental breakdowns

    • @ashley.hulsey
      @ashley.hulsey Год назад +1

      Same! I have had a cleaning crew come every other week for almost 10 years. I am super organized and tidy, but my house is too big to clean alone! It take four women two hours and it is the best money I spend every month.

    • @Siures
      @Siures Год назад

      It is not a bad thing. But because cleaning was my part-time job for five years while studying ( cleaned a kindergarten and a disabled friends flat) I somehow think it would be strange to pay someone else to do MY job. Just a psychological barrier.

  • @trishawall9619
    @trishawall9619 Год назад +2

    Yes, I eeek out ALL my toiletries ! I cut my Burts Bees handcream tubes in 1/2, put them in a ziplock bag, and use them up entirely! I use some every night and can get almost a month's worth this way!! I " dig" for the last of the lipstick and lip balm. I cut open toothpaste tubes. I use the slivers of soap . I add water to shampoo and conditioner bottles, shake them up, and use it up.....
    You are not alone frugal mama! 😉

  • @KS-gc9ov
    @KS-gc9ov Год назад +7

    I recently created a cleaning checklist once we started our family. It keeps me focused on certain tasks during each day so I can spend the weekends enjoying time with my family instead of feeling like I have to clean the entire house. It also stops me each day after I get certain tasks done instead of jumping from one task to another because I know those tasks are for another day. Keeps me in check.

  • @GirlMamaOf3
    @GirlMamaOf3 Год назад +1

    For things like lotions, toothpastes, shampoos and conditioners you can cut the packaging open and scrape the rest into a little Tupperware to continue using from there. You'll be amazed how many days of use are still left inside!
    Nope. I need to develope a cleaning schedule. Sometimes things get forgotten about for waaay too long. And it's a problem.
    I love your bins for the kids! We've done something similar where I make a pile and ask them to bring it to their rooms. But it's still me asking them to do it. I love how the bins get it out of your way but keep it THEIR responsibility to take care of. I will be trying this for sure with my 3 and 4 yr olds.

  • @Noname-qk6qp
    @Noname-qk6qp Год назад +5

    I love having these videos on in the background while I work remotely. It definitely brings up the mood and makes me want to work productively too.

  • @Busybasoreboys
    @Busybasoreboys Год назад +26

    Thank you for always being encouraging, especially when it comes to not comparing and acknowledging that different seasons of life have different realities. We just had our third baby and minimalism has helped but our house is just dirtier right now. Instead of stressing over not cleaning it all, I focus on what I am able to do in 5-10 minutes.

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +5

      This is such a great, realistic mindset!

    • @laurenharris9510
      @laurenharris9510 Год назад +3

      I'm about to have our third baby, so this is a great reminder!! 😅❤

  • @fandomeditsbykatie
    @fandomeditsbykatie Год назад

    People tend to assume I'm very organized, but I have drawers that bother me because I can't seem to keep them organized, but I do well. I even created a shopping list of items we can buy for our house to help with organization or cleaning.
    On the minimalist side of things, I've been working on minimalizing our home. I've decluttered (almost) half of our kitchen since it's just my dad, brother, and me.
    I've gotten to a point with my clothes so I can keep everything out year-round without worrying about it being stuffed in a tote. There are better ways than that, but I only have a few winter clothes, and most of what I'd wear for the fall-winter months I have to wear for my job.

  • @k.frandsen7004
    @k.frandsen7004 Год назад +6

    What i luv about this channel is that you, Natalie, actually read subs comments. That is one reason folks feel an attraction to ur channel. You are so real and genuine.

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +2

      Oh wow! Thanks for the kind words. I LOVE my community and enjoy the conversations we get to have in the comments! ♥️

  • @actuaryaltair6280
    @actuaryaltair6280 Год назад

    16:20 you are so refreshing to hear, these ideas were also brewing in my mind for a long time.

  • @rhoobarb3
    @rhoobarb3 Год назад +7

    My partner and I keep a cleaning schedule to make sure we’re evenly splitting the chores
    If we leave it to chance then I’ll do everything so it makes sure I’m not overloaded without me having to tell him to do chores- it helps us feel like equal partners with no awkward conversations

  • @jessimaness7927
    @jessimaness7927 Год назад +12

    Great to see the kids so willingly jump in. Good for you and your hubby for raising such beautiful, caring kids. And I too, was melted when Hailey was dancing in the rain - such unadulterated joy. We could all learn from that.

  • @amystair8308
    @amystair8308 Год назад +12

    I totally agree with the idea of staying on top of the daily tasks, and I love that you discuss how it's finding what works for you. I'm not naturally an organized person, but I thrive with structure; it wasn't until I made a daily/weekly/monthy tasks list did I ever make cleaning a sustainable habit for myself. Also, my list is always adapting based on what tasks need to be daily seasonally and just what is and isn't working. Bloggers sharing their cleaning lists is lovely, but it wasn't until I started adapted them to my life and my home did I feel like it was attainable and helpful. There's no one right way :)

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses135 Год назад

    I appreciate your peaceful music selections 💕

  • @caitlinladuke3874
    @caitlinladuke3874 Год назад

    Awh I’m from western WA too. Lived in Kent/Federal way/Tacoma area my whole life. My husband and I moved to Arkansas a few years ago, and it’s such a change. I love it here but I also miss that PNW weather and scenery. It’s currently an oven here in the south. Living vicariously through you!

  • @morgan.mccrea
    @morgan.mccrea Год назад +7

    Your “gentle motivation” verbiage is one of my favorite things ever ❤️ it’s exactly what you provide in your videos!

  • @ednarose86
    @ednarose86 Год назад

    1. Seeing your garden out the window when you were cleaning it, totally made me feel a Peter Cottontail kind of moment! That you could totally go outside and little bunnies would hop right up to you and birds would land on your shoulder.
    2. I 100% use the last of the product! I would cut the end of the tube so I could get the last bit out.

  • @shittletonmiddleton
    @shittletonmiddleton Год назад +1

    I TRY to at least clean our kitchen daily. I’m 4 months pregnant currently so it’s not really daily anymore, instead now I just try to at least tidy my toddlers toys daily while she’s napping but sometimes mama needs a nap too!!

  • @donnawiseman9311
    @donnawiseman9311 Год назад +4

    Yes, I use the last drop of everything before discarding the bottle. No need to waste. 😁. I used to follow the fly-lady system of cleaning and I loved it. Now I’m disabled and in this season of my life I have established a system of cleaning one room a day. I simply can’t do more than that, but I’m so thankful that I can do that much and that pretty much keeps everything going. I always look forward to your videos. They are so uplifting!

  • @yvettehernandez369
    @yvettehernandez369 Год назад

    I have a schedule but I don’t use it all the time. I don’t get overwhelmed like I used to but when I do; I go back to my schedule to know where to start and that makes me feel better.

  • @peggyjeanspaide7262
    @peggyjeanspaide7262 Год назад +3

    Hailey asking for tea and having a cozy tea time after dancing in the rain, tugged at my heart!

  • @jennyjenkins877
    @jennyjenkins877 Год назад +1

    A couple weeks ago, "Vicki Marie Living Life" posted a video where she talked about "responding in the moment" when it comes to cleaning. This was so validating to me because I could never stick to the various cleaning schedules that I've sort of tried, like I'm not going to wash baseboards with no visible dust or dirt on them! If I see prints on the windows, I wash them. If I see dust/crumbs/mess/whatever, I just take action at that time. There are certain things I do every day because resetting the bedroom and kitchen fit with that "responding in the moment" philosophy but there are plenty of other things that only get done every week or 2 or more 'as needed' rather than according to a set schedule that inevitably sets me up for failure.

  • @shelbyd576
    @shelbyd576 Год назад

    Love this!
    Ya I definitely feel overwhelmed and like how do I heal my body from multiple health issues that affect my daily life(just found out), grow spiritually in my walk with the Lord, disciple my four children 8 and under, grow in my marriage, homeschool, cook as healthy as I can, clean, declutter and still be present and loving my kids and husband and that’s not even exercising😵‍💫 all while sleep deprived and sometimes mentally not doing well🥴

  • @Hosenfeld24601
    @Hosenfeld24601 Год назад

    I'm a bad subscriber and save your videos for days I'm not feeling motivated. Mostly I know that's not ideal for the algorithm. But thanks for encouraging me to work with you. It works!

  • @mimikels9443
    @mimikels9443 Год назад

    Hailey dancing in the rain brought back memories. I loved dancing in the rain as a little girl, cuddling up with a book in a window seat as a teen. I tried to cultivate that love with my kids, but only the girls grew in it. I have 1 that still loves to go walking in the rain & curls up in a window seat staring out at the storminess...dreaming. ❤
    As for checklists... I loosely follow flylady. I use it more as a suggestion. Lol. As a homeschooling mom of 5 littles, I needed checklists to remind me what needed to be done and what got done. My brain felt frazzled much of the time. Today, I am homeschooling my last in his last year, and things are slower. My brain is much less frazzled. 😅 But, I still find myself referring to flylady tips, suggestions, etc. I do have a power hour each Monday to restore order from the weekend. I still vacuum and mop on Mondays and Thursdays. I dust on Mondays and Thursdays. I do laundry on Tuesday, Friday, and Saturday. Hubby just moved my clothesline to its new location closer to the house, and I am loving it. I change my bedsheets on Friday. It's a small way of helping my husband relax and leave the workweek behind him by crawling into crisp clean sheets Friday night. I reset my bathrooms daily as well as my kitchen and living room. I try to have the kitchen all buttoned up before bed, but there are other souls in this house who don't go to bed when I do. 😂 Flylady has helped me in the decluttering. I'm such a hoarder at heart, and there are some things I will never get rid of. But in this new season, I need to declutter homeschool books, and that is hard for me. It's emotional. It makes me weepy. I miss my littles. But decluttering schoolbooks and donating them is what I am doing this week....as soon as I get the dust off my ceiling fans. When did that get there? 😮😊

  • @adriennehart7453
    @adriennehart7453 Год назад +1

    I vacuum hardwoods everyday along with dishes, laundry, and wiping counters. As far as a schedule I wash sheets and vacuum carpets on Friday. Clean out the fridge every week before garbage day and mop when it’s done raining, the ground is dry, and no rain on the forecast 😆
    Bathrooms and dusting happen randomly.
    I’m also a naturally very tidy person. I’ve been that way my whole life. So cleaning and maintaining my home comes very easy and naturally for me. I joke it’s the only thing I’m good at. 😆 all those blogs you see like “10 habits of tidy people” I could have written every.single.one.of.them. 😆
    Minimalism most definitely helps maintain a home no matter if you’re naturally tidy or messy.

  • @jessicaosterman6265
    @jessicaosterman6265 Год назад +5

    I think comparing myself to others is what used to get to me. I love your channel so much! You are so real. And I feel like your encouragement has gotten me out of the need for a cleaning schedule. I dont like that pressure. But I just like you have things that need to be done weekly. My goal is simple living as well!❤ thank you

  • @sandihansen8743
    @sandihansen8743 Год назад +1

    Lol. I grew up having to clean with my siblings every Saturday. I couldn't go play until it was all done to my mom's perfection. She wanted everything cleaned and baked for Sunday incase we invited someone over for dinner after church. Monday was wash day. Tuesday was ironing . I can't remember what she did on Wednesday, but on Thursday she would go visit grandma or her sister. I hated Saturdays so much that to this day I refuse to clean😂 unless we're going to have someone over on that day. You would think I would be over that since I'm 70😅😅😅 I hate schedules. But I do have a morning routine that keeps my house clean but it's my routine. 😊

  • @brookeparler7452
    @brookeparler7452 Год назад +3

    Love being encouraged and motivated to clean alongside with you, Natalie! And I have felt the same way in my current season, doing away with cleaning a room of the day or whatever. I just do it as I can. And sometimes that means a day or two reset and thats ok! Love how you feel about company coming over too. I'm with you on that. No one cares about the pile of laundry or dirt in your house. After all, we LIVE in our houses. Thank you for your authenticy and sharing all the fun side things you do. Real life, coffee, cutting hair, mopping 3 days later than you were shooting for 😜

  • @mmL16
    @mmL16 Год назад +3

    The light at 8:47 in the school room looks like it’s smiling at us 🙂 so cute!!

  • @mjadler2096
    @mjadler2096 Год назад +1

    Honestly, I have a cleaner because with a fulltime job and a small child cleaning is just daunting! We just do small top cleaning in between visits, like hoovering and wiping down the bathrooms. My husband cleans the kitchen and I do the laundry. We try to do household tasks weekday evenings so weekends can be relaxing family time

  • @debbiepalmer1094
    @debbiepalmer1094 Год назад

    2:26 that look of mom love is so sweet! What a great moment of unbridled joyful dancing to capture, and what an awesome song choice 'summer rain on a window'! 🥰

  • @lorizielinski227
    @lorizielinski227 Год назад +1

    Great video! Miss Hailey dancing in the rain and drinking tea knows how to enjoy life ❤, so sweet!

  • @sarasingleton9967
    @sarasingleton9967 Год назад

    Thank you for mentioning that you don’t keep cleaning schedules and checklists. I am such a messy person and have been working so hard to declutter and reframe my thinking and it is always so encouraging to watch you say that you kind of wing it too! I stress myself out with lists if I don’t get them done the day I say I’m going to do. You’re one of my favorite RUclipsrs these days as I feel like I’m a couple years back from where you are, starting a minimalism journey with young kids! Thank you for always putting out such relatable content!

  • @AtHomeWithAllie
    @AtHomeWithAllie Год назад +1

    I am glad I found you! Yes I appreciate your journey of where you are at! I just started this little corner & invite you to my real journey as well. It is very difficult to share real life sometimes because it's embarrassing for me, but I decided to take a risk and share that not all on yt is perfect pretty. Some of us are real people with real struggles lol. I love your personality! I always say progress over perfection and I am taking baby steps! I look forward to seeing more of your other videos that I will be binge watching! lol. Many Blessings!♥✨🐝💛🦋📒📒🌟🌻✨💛💛♥💛❤❤❤

  • @korneliakingamajkut8403
    @korneliakingamajkut8403 Год назад

    Anytime I tell people I have a cleaning schedule they look at me like I have two heads 😅. M/Tu/Wed/Th it is laundry day for each member of our family. Thursday is a clean day. So that my Fri/Sat/ Sun is only dedicated to family, friends and fun time or just relaxing.

  • @barbaradevaney4904
    @barbaradevaney4904 Год назад

    I love watching because you are real - I don’t get the RUclipsrs who mop and hoover everyday and change the bedding three times a week! This last few weeks have been sunny in the UK ( yes it is sunny here sometimes) so we have spent our time in the garden - the house can wait until it rains - just like you. A few times a year we have big family get togethers and the house gets blitzed ( next one in August) the rest of the time we clean as we go. It’s always tidy as I’ve decluttered and our kids have grown but the cleaning gets done when required - life’s too short for constant housework. Thanks for all you do ❤❤❤

  • @NJ-vp7fe
    @NJ-vp7fe Год назад

    I appreciate how real you are and show what a real home looks like.

  • @sunnygem21
    @sunnygem21 Год назад

    I really appreciate hearing that you don't have a fixed schedule. I'm in baby and toddler world right now so I just try and keep up with the basics.

  • @aprilschrock2181
    @aprilschrock2181 Год назад +1

    Love that you state progress over perfection.

  • @twoods2914
    @twoods2914 Год назад

    I dont have a routine with many house things. Towels weekly, sheets F/N. Bathrooms weekly, kitchen as we go. Dusting and vacumm/mop of rest of house is what I struggle with. I'm saving for a robot vac/mop to help me be on top of this stuff. Thx for your encouragement and how your family runs. So sweet.

  • @JPHealth-j1w
    @JPHealth-j1w Год назад +2

    I loved watching Sweet Hailey sipping on her tea! The boys getting their haircuts were fun to see!!

  • @shellyschooler
    @shellyschooler Год назад

    My family and I spent the last 8 days in the Tacoma, Puyallup, and Bonney lake area. The weather is exactly what this Arizona family needed in the middle of the summer. We visited Owens beach and the Zoo and the Hands on children's museum. It was all so nice, and again the weather was amazing!

  • @rebeccalitardo6250
    @rebeccalitardo6250 Год назад +3

    I have a laundry schedule/ routine but not a cleaning one. Definitely a work in progress. Love how Hailey is enjoying the rain and tea time. ❤

  • @charitylutchman641
    @charitylutchman641 Год назад +3

    I’m physically not at a great point right now but I started with this video and have been doing an easy slow tidy the rest of the day. Even got to decorate shelves that have been an eyesore for weeks.

  • @trishawall9619
    @trishawall9619 Год назад

    I love the music you play in your videos! 😄

  • @BrightonDestiny
    @BrightonDestiny Год назад

    We just moved into our first house and I think I’ll need to make a cleaning schedule for this first season of living here so I don’t get so overwhelmed with the amount of work we have to do now.

  • @Silver.Maple.Cottage
    @Silver.Maple.Cottage Год назад +1

    Girl!! ❤ I had been in such a slump since a massive surgery in December that almost took me out. I had a HARD time finding myself again. Somewhere along the way i discovered you... You gave me my inspiration back. Motivation. Passion for my simple life again. I feel like I lost my why. Your gentle and kind ways of sharing your life got me motivated again. I just had to say a BIG thank you for your kindness. We all go through hard times and have to get back up, that's normal. Having your videos and insta helped me mentally so much. Just wanted you to know that ❤ I'm doing GREAT now, but felt the urge to say keep up the great job with your home and family. Spreading kindness never gets old ❤❤❤

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +1

      Wow! This comment brought tears to my eyes. I’m so very honored and humbled to have been a source of motivation and encouragement for you. 🥹 it’s why I do what I do!

    • @Silver.Maple.Cottage
      @Silver.Maple.Cottage Год назад

      @@NatalieBennett it definitely shows in the beautiful videos you share. Nothing is forced or put on. Just a friend encouraging a friend ❤️ have a beautiful day, Natalie.

  • @nicoleszpila4934
    @nicoleszpila4934 Год назад

    I've had to take a break from watching vlog type videos for a while now - and yours is the first I've watched since then. I just want to *thank you* for being so real and gentle and encouraging. This video felt like such a welcoming space and just the reminder I needed to love my home and the season I'm in. Be well!

  • @charlisutton2137
    @charlisutton2137 Год назад

    I have tried so many things to be more organized with cleaning-i even bought the Passionate Penny Pincher organizer in the hopes that having something that tells me what to do each day would help and it still didn't work 😕. Decluttering and getting rid of stuff like you do on your channel has helped more!

  • @lmw333
    @lmw333 Год назад

    This is the first time I've watched your channel I love it!

  • @amandabarton7030
    @amandabarton7030 Год назад

    “Just pick something and clean it.” YES! Thank you for giving me motivation today!

  • @nijntje666
    @nijntje666 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this video. My life is crazy busy right now and we have a heatwave here. And it shows. My house is a mess. You reminded me to be kind to myself and that good enough is good enough. ❤

  • @ashleyt6237
    @ashleyt6237 Год назад

    I love your clean with me videos. I’ve been using an app that helps me keep on top of odd cleaning jobs (baseboards, light fixtures, etc) as well as regular ones. I love checking things off and the little “ding” it gives me when I get things done.

  • @amarie1463
    @amarie1463 Год назад

    I don't have a cleaning routine or anything written down. However, I would like to. We do sweep after every room since the baby drops food. We also do all the dishes every day. Other than that we do things as needed.

  • @autumntrimble2102
    @autumntrimble2102 Год назад +2

    Absolutely loving how cozy and real this intro feels 😊

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +1

      I’m so glad you enjoyed

    • @adriennehart7453
      @adriennehart7453 Год назад

      I clean out the fridge every week before garbage day. I wash the sheets on Friday and vacuum the carpets. I mop when it’s done raining and everything is dry and there’s no rain for the foreseeable future haha. That probably wouldn’t work in the PNW.
      I do laundry, vacuum the hardwoods, wipe counters and dishes everyday.

  • @klcks7814
    @klcks7814 Год назад

    about the using the very last drop, i thought i used the last drop of things like lotion and toothpaste until i met my husband. he cuts the tube open and you wouldn’t believe how much product is left in the corners! 🤣🤣 needless to say i’m a convert who gets 5 more brushes out of my toothpaste tube! 🤪

  • @MomofTheo
    @MomofTheo Год назад +2

    Thank you for being willing to show the reality of life with kids and daily messes! I had someone comment "wow how can anyone live like such a slob" to a reel I posted about how I am reorganizing our homeschool/dining room. Seriously...you try it and me know how that goes 😅🤦‍♀️

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +1

      I’ve already gotten a few of those comments/ messages! So unkind of people to say things like that when they have no idea what it’s like to live in MY house with MY children!

  • @theklp1
    @theklp1 Год назад +1

    Idk what it is about this season but I am totally with you!! My house is a disaster and I feel like I can’t keep up. I need to rewatch your decluttering videos ago give me some motivation to get it under control!

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 Год назад

    I'm totally the Type A needs a checklist telling me what to do or I'm just frazzled and forget.
    I just updated my daily and weekly tasks. More or less adapted FlyLady to my needs. I have some liats in my phone and some on paper. Both work for me.

  • @findingaway5512
    @findingaway5512 Год назад

    Thank you for talking about what works for you in real life and in this current season. It really is helpful for me to hear how other like minded to me people do it. Maybe without having a brain that is super list oriented ..... As much as we may desire to make them if you don't use them. Not needed. 😜

  • @HollyGrafx
    @HollyGrafx Год назад

    Natalie, I continue to be so thankful for your comforting, honest content, you’re such an encouragement to me in my mothering and homemaking 💓 Even my 3-yr-old son votes for you by name when I browse for a “mom video” on RUclips on occasion in the morning 😍 Thank you for sharing your talents and your home life with us!

  • @janicerepass6996
    @janicerepass6996 Год назад +1

    If you ever want to switch away from whatever window cleaner you're using, I bought the purple Norwex cloth and it just needs water and leaves beautifully streak-free windows and mirrors! Definitely worth it. I have one for upstairs and one for down. My daughter has started taking her three kids into one room and working with them for just 30 minutes to declutter/clean. After 30 minutes, they are done, whether the room is finished or not, but it's that same teamwork concept as well as the idea of making them stewards of their home. I do that with my husband for an hour at a time, but not every day. But I'm short, he's tall, and sometimes there are things I just can't do without him. Teamwork gets'er done!

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +2

      I use the E-cloth window cloths! They don’t require any cleaner-just water, but I add some window cleaner just for fun!

    • @janicerepass6996
      @janicerepass6996 Год назад

      @@NatalieBennett Yes, I've heard great things about those as well, but haven't tried them yet because I have two of the others. Also, can I add, you're just so sweet! Beautiful soul!

  • @stephanie7776
    @stephanie7776 Год назад

    I also clean the bathrooms before guests, I have boys too! I use a passionate penny pincher planner that has weekly and daily lists. I don't check them all off but it helps me know when I've done stuff and helps keep me accountable to myself. I've had chickens a year and just have started getting into the habit of checking the fridge for giving them the leftovers. My fridge has really stayed cleaned up easily now!
    Love the authentic, cozy corner of the internet you've created. ❤❤❤

  • @senseijoyner
    @senseijoyner Год назад

    I used to have a cleaning schedule that worked well most of the time for weekly things and bigger things just got done as needed.
    Then pregnancy with the youngest happened + two depression diagnosis and things went down hill from there. So now two years later and finally realizing that old routine just doesn't work anymore, but we desperately need cleanliness, routine, and order for all of us to function better, not to mention we start our homeschoolingforbthe firsttime in the fall to add to the craziness. So I've decluttered a ton over the last two years, and currently starting to experiment with the flylady app to see if zone cleaning will be better and adjusting her sysytem to fit with what i already have in place that does work.

  • @HeyitsjustRaisa
    @HeyitsjustRaisa Год назад

    I literally folded laundry that has been in my living room floor since 1weeks before finals and college graduation! Super grateful for my westside bestside RUclipsr! All the love from the dry side! -Raisa

  • @charmingintrovert3240
    @charmingintrovert3240 Год назад +2

    Hi Natalie, I never understood daily housework lists. When something needs to be cleaned, it needs to be cleaned right then. It wouldn't make sense to wait around until my chore list tells me I can tend to that task.

  • @sorahkline9136
    @sorahkline9136 Год назад

    Love the calming effect of this video! I love the self acceptance, its really helpful to me.

  • @VickyClrmnt
    @VickyClrmnt Год назад +3

    Aww little boy wanting to clean the bathroom's floor. So cute.🧡 I really enjoyed that video as usual. You did really great with cutting your boys's hairs :) xxx

  • @nadinezarowny6216
    @nadinezarowny6216 Год назад

    Love this video thanks. The main schedule that I have for our family of 5 is a laundry schedule. I do one load a day that way I don't fall behind and I wash each person's laundry basket full at a time. This eliminates sorting into multiple people. The kids get device time if they fold and put their laundry away. It has been an amazing thing for our family.

  • @emmaanderssonliljedahl
    @emmaanderssonliljedahl Год назад

    7:34 That's one happy lamp!

  • @sarahholmes2138
    @sarahholmes2138 Год назад

    Cleaning schedules don’t work for my family either. I work rotating shifts, and especially in this current season (pregnant with number 2) I have to do what I can when I have the energy and motivation to do it.

  • @pauleengould998
    @pauleengould998 Год назад

    Oh that Haley dancing out in the rain is just beautiful xxxxx❤ I don’t need the check list I just love being part of watching your cleaning up. You’re an inspiration 🎉

  • @carolynridlon3988
    @carolynridlon3988 Год назад

    The only regular "scheduled" chore is something I picked up from Kallie B from But First, Coffee - today's Carol can do something for tomorrow's Carol. I always make sure to wash my dishes/ clean kitchen every night so that i wake up to a clean kitchen tomorrow morning. It has helped so much & it's incentive to do other things.

  • @Teresaanne
    @Teresaanne Год назад

    Watching a week late because I was out of town last weekend but I watch your videos every Saturday and do ALL my cleaning while watching (and after as well 😅). It's a great motivator when someone else is doing it too!

  • @MalinaCC
    @MalinaCC Год назад +1

    I cut open lotion or toiletry bottles when they are on their “last drop”. Usually I can get several weeks or a months worth of product! I clean on Saturday mornings and throughout the week.

  • @BolandFam04
    @BolandFam04 4 месяца назад

    Thank You for sharing. I needed this boost.

  • @kimberlylamitie2869
    @kimberlylamitie2869 Год назад

    Your windows and views of the garden, chickens, and your greenhouse are amazing! 😊

  • @whitneyweiss7072
    @whitneyweiss7072 Год назад

    my housekeeping routines: clean fridge out before trash day. clean kitchen up fully after each meal. pick up house before bed. fresh sheets on sundays. when i don’t want to clean the kitchen i just make it a 'gift' to my future self lol

  • @Chell1496
    @Chell1496 Год назад

    Natalie, what Era-20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s would you of liked to live in? I would of loved to live in the 50’s. 😊🌸 I just clean the house during the week when needed. I don’t have a schedule. I just make sure I wash sheets and towels every Monday.🌸 I am so happy you have found a less demanding way of getting your house clean and your receiving less stress. So wonderful! 🌸

  • @Elemiriel
    @Elemiriel Год назад

    Yay! We are doing a living room *lite* remodel this summer as well! Perfect motivation for me to get the toom prepped! Painting the ceiling definitely needs motivation 🙃🪛🎨

  • @meghanmulholland5503
    @meghanmulholland5503 Год назад

    I don't really have a cleaning schedule. I clean daily and as needed. I have 3 teenagers and a 5yr old so bathrooms tend to get wiped down daily. I also try to declutter as I go. I used to stress out about it but have learned to relax and give myself grace!

  • @annewhittemore3771
    @annewhittemore3771 Год назад

    Just had to say, I'm watching this a few hours after my daughter was born. Nursing her now, exhausted, and amazed. After miscarriages and a super early preemie we just had a baby born a day after her due date! God is so kind so us in giving us this beautiful, healing birth and healthy baby. 😭😭
    Just had to share, because a few times my "favorite things to share has been that she made it to x number of weeks. 😊

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад

      Oh wow!!!!!!!!! Congratulations, Anne! I’m so very happy for you. ♥️

  • @sharonsomers5513
    @sharonsomers5513 Год назад +1

    I love your big windows looking out towards your garden 🌸

  • @susanatwell8274
    @susanatwell8274 Год назад +1

    Nothing better than dancing in the rain Hailey (sp?) . . you go girl. She makes me smile all the time because (except for the glasses) she is almost identical in looks to my 6 y.o. granddaughter - white hair and all - who ALSO loves to dance to her own tune - in the rain or out !!!!!.

  • @Anupamakiran
    @Anupamakiran Год назад

    Hailey dancing in the rain was sooooo beautiful and requesting tea…. Too cute. Your kids are darlings. I was hoping to see your outdoor green house in the cosy atmosphere. Beautiful video and it feels like I’m chatting with a friend. Bye…. Time for me to do the dishes 😀

  • @yvettehernandez369
    @yvettehernandez369 Год назад

    Thank you for doing these videos.

  • @livancarr5321
    @livancarr5321 Год назад

    I always enjoy our Tuesday visits! ❤

  • @EmilyfHouse
    @EmilyfHouse Год назад

    Hi Natalie :) I just wanted to tell you that I haven’t been much of a RUclips watcher for a good couple of years, but I have watched each and every one of your videos since before your boys were born, haven’t missed one. I appreciate you!

  • @Betsykay
    @Betsykay Год назад

    Natalie, your home has come together so beautifully since you guys moved in. Love the aesthetic! ❤

  • @aprilinalabama9074
    @aprilinalabama9074 Год назад +1

    Love all the windows and openess of your home ❤️🏡

  • @kimberlymayeux-maillet2363
    @kimberlymayeux-maillet2363 Год назад

    Natalie, when my kids were growing up, I cleaned faithfully every week. Now they are grown & on their own, I just roll with it, lol; as needed. :)

  • @jenniferstrobel3908
    @jenniferstrobel3908 Год назад

    I love your messy to minimal episodes! You should get the Bissell vacuum and mop that the Wads channel uses to clean her floors. I caved and got one after watching several of her videos and it’s so nice to mop and vacuum at the same time that I mop/vacuum everything at least once a week instead of a biweekly schedule.

  • @AtHomeWithAllie
    @AtHomeWithAllie Год назад +1

    looking forward to the announcement and also the closet declutter which is what I just did, but now I need to figure out how to organize it. My closet is tiny but I want to make it mighty hahaha. TFS! Many Blessings!♥✨🐝💛🦋📒📒🌟🌻✨💛💛♥💛

  • @jessicawarner7634
    @jessicawarner7634 Год назад

    I have a wipe-clean folder on a magnet with a hand-written task sheet slipped inside. I wrote the days of the week with a few tasks under each and can cross them off as I get them done (not necessarily on the "correct" day). Keeps me organized with a 4, 2 year-old, and 6 month-old. I wish they made that chai drink without all the sugar! Sounds so good.

  • @MystiqHorse
    @MystiqHorse Год назад

    Love your channel!
    You mentioned you're in Washington. Have you done any videos on what it's like living there? My husband and I are thinking of moving there but we don't know anyone who lives there that can tell us their experience.
    If not, no worries! I still love your channel and always look forward to your new videos 🤗

  • @shannonhiggins2102
    @shannonhiggins2102 Год назад

    Love this! I always appreciate your honesty and authenticity. Can't wait to see the living room transformation! Your style is so inspiring!

  • @samanthacostello3792
    @samanthacostello3792 Год назад +1

    LOVE having my notifications on for your videos! One of the best channels to body double with and get some work done around the house! 💕

    • @NatalieBennett
      @NatalieBennett  Год назад +1

      Oh wow! I’m so glad you enjoy the content!