The way that you were unimpressed with these coaches is how all of us normal people also feel 😂. Who actually thinks these google answers are something eye opening 🤔
Problem is that these coaches appeal to people who don’t have good examples of what to do in real life (ie their parents) so they look to the internet to supplement. What’s basic to _you_ is eye opening to them.
“We don’t FIX toxic relationships, WE LEAVE.” EXACTLY 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 the goal is to work on your own toxicity or character flaws that get on the way of healthy relationships, but once a relationship turns truly toxic, it stays toxic until the bitter end
Not gonna lie, that second guy on that push and pull, two steps forward, 3 steps back thing was pretty on point lol. I've stupidly fallen for it, as have many women I know. He's probably the only person who made sense because I needed it to be verbalised like this by my mum for me to realise and leave. But yes, toxicity = no go.
If he does come back...RUN because he's only in it for the game. He thinks you're playing "hard to get". The gal at approx 8 minutes is wrong. Do NOT let him come back into your life. He's NOT worth it. The advice about focusing on yourself and moving on is great but the part about him coming back into your life isn't. He's not someone you should have in your life if he only shows interest after you've moved on. That's gross. That's also a VERY RED FLAG.
8:03 No, No mam. If he starts ignoring you all the time, but when you get your life better he comes back, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK. It is his loss. Give him the L and keep living your better life without him. If he was making your life suck then, he'll make it go back to sucking now.
My husband & I dated in our early 20's for 6yrs, bought our first house & lived together for 2yrs before getting married, moved into our 2nd house & had kids where we've been for 6yrs- because he's my bestfriend first & foremost. My cousin spent $70,000 (now debt) on his wedding after dating her for 2yrs & they got divorced 11months later 🤷♀ it's not the timeline that's important, it's the relationship!!!!!!!!!
Oof. That's a red flag as far as I'm concerned, when a bride is willing to spend $70k on a wedding. Sure, there's people out there rich enough to be an exception, but I sure as heck ain't one.
I’m 29. All of my peers form high school and college who got married and had kids early are either divorced, baby mommas, or stuck in miserable marriages wishing they waited. The people who waited are still not married, but are much happier because they’re staying true to themselves. Of course we don’t want to let a guy string us along, but this whole waiting 2 years is just nonsense to me. You don’t even know each other like that yet, and if you think you do, guess again cuz there is a huge period of growth from early 20’s to late 20’s, so you and your partner could end up being very different as most do
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Before engagement, would you say dating 3-5 years during 20s is more suitable, whereas if the two are in their 30s, dating 2 years before engagement makes more sense?
“It _should_ be obvious.” But it isn’t to people who haven’t had good relationships modeled/explained to them. That’s who dating coaches target-the vulnerable, the socially awkward. People are surprised at dating coaches’ popularity until they realize how many grew up in poor situations. It’s also possible to just be socially awkward. If you’re like that try to find people in successful relationships in real life to get advice. Don’t be duped by bad dating coaches and don’t be discouraged. God bless ya. ❤
SPOT ON. I love her but I really didn't like this video because of those overly dramatic reactions. I'll admit they were funny and I understand her POV... But even if it's really basic advice, this stuff gets popular because there's a lot of parents that literally bring a child into this world only to teach them nothing.
Dating coaches are just so confusing to me. If you have questions or problems in your relationship, go to couples counseling. If you think your partner is toxic, go to a therapist that you trust and clique with and talk to them. And honey, if you're wondering if you should leave, just leave! You probably wouldn't be questioning that if you're really that in love
I am in the third year or my relationship but damn we aren't ready for marriage, no money, students , 22 years old and 23 him... I think thinking in the way of "marry in two years " is immature, people have to have stability before marriage, otherwise no wonder the divorces rates are so high
Honestly I feel this as well even as someone older. Living situations, finances, and also mental state really play into it as well (if you're neurotypical and have no issues lucky you for reals wish I was). But also like....what if one or both sides are demi romantic? Was my first thought when he was spouting off that. Couldn't relate.
@3ofClovers I have a bunch of mental problems and am not neurotypical and so is my man, I would marry him right now tbh and he expressed the same but yeah too many situations to say "let's do it after two year maximum ".. Like.. Whoever says that... Will you pay the ring since he is studying ? Will buy us a house since I am studying too? Will you pay for the wedding ? Will you pay my bills ?! Those people look to me a little bit out of touch tbh
Yeah (married *over* 25 years here) we discussed marriage after a few months, our plans, heck even chores we expected the other to do, (didn't stay that way as plans often go wonky, one of us was injured badly) etc but didn't get engaged for over 2 years. But we knew that's what we both wanted to be once everything was good. He wanted to pay off all his best 1st. I had none ex my car, luckily. Example: we wanted to be able to get a house, not live with someone or apartment 1st (very cheap one mind you, we worked our butt's off fixing it up, it was in poor shape😅 no heat, old wires, etc (look up the show Green Acres wasn't that bad but it was nicknamed that) but ya gotta start somewhere). Now we love our home, and our marriage had a nice wedding (no debt🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞)
Best relationship advice is simple trial and error. Try, if you fail. Try again. Find someone with the same goals, beliefs, and life style. Don't over think it. Also remember, internet people are not real people. Not everyman is a red pill, Andrew tate incel fan boy. And not every woman is some gold digging, high maintenance, only wants 6 foot only fans chick. Be respectful, take a no when your given one, communicate, and put yourself out there. It's not that hard guys. 😂
@@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4keIf he is a traditional man looking for a traditional woman then yeah no issue. But seeking them out just for money with no support system ? Then no Same with a man who wants a “traditional woman” but refuses to be a traditional man who can support that life style .
Worst advice i ever took in college wasnt from a dating coach, but someone said “men fall in love after theyve been around you for a while and after theyve slept with you” 💀 i wish i ignored that but because i was so unsuccessful in dating at the time i tried doing it this way and SURPRISE- it didnt work and was a bad idea 😂 DO NOT take dating advice from someone whos unmarried lmao
The ladies who want the tall men are just louder than the rest of us who really don't care how tall a guy is as long as he's a good guy. I dated men that were 5 feet to a guy that was 6'4" so. They all had one thing in common. I thought they had a good sense of humor and they made me laugh and I made them laugh. That was it. I've dated guys who were actual models and ones who just as plain as I am. It was always what we had in common and our sense of humors.
My advice to my fellow ladies is stop looking for Mr. Right and stop waiting for a knight in shining armor to rescue you and get rid of that list of characteristics that your "dream man" must have. Every relationship I had I learned what I didn't want in a man. My older sister was always obsessed with finding her "knight" to come and rescue her and she had a list that she wanted her "dream guy" to meet. Please don't do that. I'd recommend having a list of characteristics that you DON'T want your "dream guy/gal" to have. Also, remember that you cannot "fix" or "change" someone so don't ever go into a relationship thinking that person will "change" to be with you or that you can "fix" them because they probably don't think they're broken like you do. Then there's the part about YOU not needing to change or fix yourself to please others either because YOU'RE NOT BROKEN either. I count myself as lucky because I never was a lonely person even when I was alone and lived on my own. I liked being alone. I liked cooking and baking and taking all of my leftovers to work and sharing with people in the building. I liked hanging out with my friends too but I really liked hanging out at home with my cat or dog (when I had a pet) or just reading by myself. Before I ever had a relationship, my older sister asked me is I was lonely and if I missed having a relationship. I had to explain to her that I couldn't "miss" something that I'd never had and that just because I was alone didn't mean that I was lonely. She used that line (as her own) several years later when a friend of hers asked her if she was "lonely". I thought it was great because it showed how much she'd grown as a person. When I met my husband, we had exactly one date before I knew that he was the one. I have the journal that I wrote the comment..."he's the one" over 22 years ago. I've still spent more time out of a relationship than in one (consider that...yes...I'm old). He was everything that I didn't want in a guy! Those lessons that I learned from the relationships (very few & very short but enough) gave me information about myself and what I wanted out of a relationship and who I wanted to be in a relationship too. I wanted to be myself. I wanted someone who loved me for me and not me pretending to be whatever the guy wanted me to be. I wanted real love. Honesty. Someone who made me giggle. Someone who liked to laugh and make me giggle. Someone who wasn't afraid to show his softer side. It was all stuff that was on my list of "this is stuff that I don't want in a guy" -- the number one thing was I did NOT want a guy who was afraid to show his emotions. My man (an alpha male) will cry when our cat is sick or when there's a sad part in a movie and that moves me. That makes me love him even more. When he cares about my family and worries about me, that makes me love him more. When he smiles at me because he's caught me smiling at him and watching him play with our cat or caught him talking to our cat like he's our child, I know that I found the right one. Here's the other thing...I wasn't looking for a relationship when I found him. I was joking when I told my boss to "set me up on a date" with my now husband. Just remember that you do NOT have to be in a relationship just because everyone you know is married with children. I was the only single person in my friend group. I didn't get married until I was over 30. It didn't bother me that I wasn't in a relationship. It didn't bother my friends either. None of them were...'when are you getting married' or 'when are you having kids'. They knew I was happy being single with my cat. You do not have to be ashamed of being single and enjoying it. You also don't have to be ashamed to be in your 30s and living with your parents. It's your life and you only get one so live it how you want to live it but also remember to treat others how you want to be treated (it's how you get respect). Much love & good luck!
I think the main problem with these “dating coaches” is that they don’t talk about people like they’re people. They talk about people like they’re problems to fix, a machine that if you know how to tinker with /just/ right, you can get to function to your liking, and it’s like… no. People aren’t things. You can’t approach a person like they’re an object that you need “instructions” to. Everyone is different, and the only real way you can get to know someone is to actually speak to them like a person and present yourself authentically. But people hate to be authentic because society has convinced them that if they don’t come across a certain way, you’re automatically “cringe”. These coaches just encourage you to put on a mask, when you don’t really want to do that if you want a genuine connection to another person.
I agree with your statements from what I saw here. 2 years may be too short of a time for some people, for example. Or maybe they don't want to live the married life, but still be together. Maybe that commitment is too much and they just wanna live a platonic relationship? Why would someone say that "if they're not asking you in X years" or "they will know when they have The One" if they may not know that the other person does NOT want to get married / engaged, but rather just live like they are without the extra commitment to everything? Does 1 - 2 years give you enough time to TRULY learn EVERYTHING important about someone? The whole discussion about "asking about you" also made me kinda shudder as someone who doesn't feel comfortable talking about my life. I'm nothing special, just an autistic entity who lived a sheltered life, identifies as a non-human (robot), and otherwise creates personal OCs and artwork. I'm not the president, or a daughter of a war hero, or royalty. I'm average - and I'm fine with that. I also don't look "pretty", but wanna say I have an okay personality - which imo, is where it matters most. I feel that I'm much better online, due to my being very awkward around other people and preferring my own space. I also quite frankly don't wanna hear a life story. I'm not gonna ask about them either, it's none of my business! All I would want to make sure of was that they weren't a criminal or support things like that, as well as that they're not racist, anti-gay (I'm not gay, but I have friends who are), and the like. Just like I would only want them to know that I'm also not a criminal or supportive of bigotry. Plus they're kinda treating everyone like a stereotypical sense too; Things may be different in other cultures or communities. We may not have arranged marriages, but people shouldn't feel like they have to play by these "rules" or they lose the game. FYI, I also don't want to find anyone, and if they think I'm someone who wants to commit to a relationship that's not a platonic friendship or think I wanna get married and have kids, well...They're dead wrong. I want none of that, and I want to run MY life the way I want. I want to remain the boss, and not worry about commitment to anyone.
If my husband had proposed to me before a year, I would've said "No." Too many men have played my family & friends. Too many times I've seen a man pretend to be someone he isn't, so well you'd never know, then after a quick marriage flipped the script. It happened so much at the church I grew up in. But, they typically couldn't hold out over a year, so if you wait a year you'll get the time to see the real them. Marriage is a lifelong thing, even divorce, it stays with you for life that you did it, don't rush into it ever. I've seen enough women get divorced, and wasn't willing to rush into anything and ruin my life like others have.
Though do be careful. My husband waited two years, then dropped the mask on the honeymoon. There were red flags, but he kept that mask on, despite being so lazy at heart that he would literally spend 20 hours a day watching tv.
@Orquet-qj2nf I'm sorry you went through that. I've been with ny husband since 2016 and we align well but it is good advice for all young couples, always be wary & very sure, people aren't always what they seem ☹️
13:17 my husband said he knew on the first date that I was the one. He proposed 2 months after meeting me… married after 9months. Our 15 year wedding anniversary is next week. He dotes on me daily still!
My husband knew on our first date. It was only a lunch date so there wasn't anything sexy going on. We both had jobs and had a lunch date because we were both very busy. We moved in together within a few months and were married within a bit over 18 months of meeting. We've been married for 20 years and together 22+ years. He knew. I knew. I was 30 and he was nearly 40. The odd thing was that he had been in a relationship and had broken it off about 3 months before we started dating. He had even purchased an egagement ring but decided at the dinner that he wanted to break up instead. Fate. Thankfully, he knew that it wasn't the right relationship for him. I'm so grateful for whatever popped into his head and told him "no".
Oh.... the only one that really stood out as confusing (outside of the obvious ones that were creepy) is " not engaged or married in 2 years" That needed more explanation. it really depends on the situation. I don't really believe the 'a man knows' either. Since that doesn't mean he's going to know and be loyal. If he wants to spend the rest of his life with someone, but plenty of men marry whoever is there. So... What??
Keep in mind that this is talking about you people who are dating to marry not just dating so if you make that known from the start, yes two years is long enough if you're both ready to marry
@@aesinam It’s not because you don’t see what a person is all about in 2 years. Just wanting to marry does not mean you’re seriously betting your partner or communicating well. That’s why for many 2 years doesn’t work, and even if you are doing those things. How do you know your man is going to be loyal, or not turn mean? People hide who they are and when you’re in “love” it’s easy to excuse the red flags cuz you’re desperate for marriage.
You're wearing your 💛 yellow 💛 marigold blouse again with the ruffles! Yellow 💛 is definitely your colour. I had to yelp out a hoot when you gave the "mango" comment 😆 "Honey, you have to let that man-go!" Love your videos! 💟 Most of these dating "coaches" look desperately single. Edit: You're also on point: Just leave!
In my opinion, life will be more simple if people just got with people who like them 💀 if you have to overthink your relationship and seek this or that advice from a dating coach, there's a problem. I want to add that all those "advices" are just common sense.
7:30 what in the world lmao. You should be strengthening your relationship with yourself regardless if a potential partner is ignoring you. You should keep up with your hobbies, hang out with friends, and do things that make you happy anyways haha. You don’t need someone ignoring you to give you permission.
The lady at 15 minutes is wrong. Someone who just wants to get you into bed will PRETEND to be interested in your life, especially if they've gotten you into bed and they enjoyed themselves with you! They'll even go so far as to say they love you to make you think you'll be serious but they just want to have play dates but they'll pretend it's more.
I feel like a single person could very well give this same advice; Like I can also tell you that holding your phone while driving is also against the law - despite not having a license or being an officer or someone in the law enforcement. Though instead, I'll give this advice: It's also okay to have a platonic relationship AS WELL AS stay single. If you're like me and realized years later that you never had that childhood dream of having a partner or family aside from maybe a pet, then being in a relationship may not be priority and it's completely okay! Love yourself first, always. :)
as someone that goes out, i agree with your point of approaching someone in the club to ask where you been. i'd honestly assume they had been following me from bar to bar if thats how they choose to start the conversation 😭😭
Back when I was clubbing, what would have happened was you were up dancing with your pals and a guy would edge in a bit to try dance with you, if you didn't turn round when the guy got the go ahead, but if she turns, that's a rejection signal. Next stage is asking to buy her a drink and then outside to the smoke bar (even those who don't smoke smoke in the smoke bar) 😂😂 comes a little chat after that and maybe swap numbers or add on Facebook. worst part about meeting at the clerb is that normally your too blatoooed to remember the cubby. You never message and then months later you're going through your contacts and you notice a lads name you don't remember and delete it 😂
And if they are married they’re cheating on their spouse. People used to use dating services/match makers that you’d call you’d pay them to hook you up with a couple of people who were looking for the same things as you. It’s not as prevalent now but there’s some that are still out there. Those are the real professionals.
Okay...I was told by my male best friend (a straight guy) to NEVER, as a woman, go on a first date to an ice cream shop or get an ice cream on a first date. There are reasons that are NSFW. Use your dirty minds to figure it out.
Girlfriend or boyfriend, to me, shows commitment ("going steady" is the old vernacular). "Girl/guy you're dating" is more low-key. You could be dating more than one person.
Thank goodness I watched the whole video because I was planning to make a comment about 'dating coaches', but it seems like only two of them made perfect sense and gave fair advice. I was invited to a talk by my friend, where a 'relationship expert' was talking about well relationships. Sadly we couldn't attend. We both had separate phone consultations with the said coach; my friend's consultation was twenty minutes (she could talk for hours), while mine was 5 to 10 mins. It was simple questions, however my friend probably told her life story... I have seen my friend go through many up's and down's over the years with guys she has dated. She dated a guy for nearly two years, but he didn't even want to acknowledge her in public. Then last year she dated another guy whose English isn't their first language, however when things went sour she bombarded him with messages even went through his socials... Nowadays, she is trying to get us to go to speed dating events in London (where we live), however the dating scene in that city is meh. I had a Bumble date with a Spanish guy, but didn't go any further sadly. Yep dating is hard these days
My husband is 5’6.. the exact same height as me. I always thought I wanted a taller guy, was naturally attracted to them… That’s a given. However, I had a crush on my husband since he was just my best friend’s older brother in sixth grade…. As adults we fell in love and started a family. And now I find there are all kinds of benefits to us being the exact same size. We literally fit together like puzzle pieces and I honestly wouldn’t have it any other way.
13:08: my mom and dad met a year before they started dating, and my dad made my mom wait seven years before he proposed. Now it's been 15 years, thier married, and don't talk to each other and on the verge of divorce.
My first question is,”What are your qualifications to be a dating coach”? Secondly are you in a relationship, how long have you been in a relationship, and if I asked your significant other, would they consider your relationships successful?
ssshhhhhhhh 🤫 dont say that when my boyfriend is listening 🤣 he thinks hes not tall enough😂 he was my neighbor and i always wear platform shoes so he thought i was tall ! we started talking on fb and never talked face to face and when he asked to see me, we met outside and i ran up to him and literally jumped in his arms and he says the first thing he thought was "yaaayyyyy shes so tiny" (i didnt wear platforms) 😂
y’all wanna know the best way to completely avoid men who aren’t in it for marriage purposes…? STOP SLEEPING WITH PEOPLE BEFORE MARRIAGE you can be mad over it, but 100% if a man isn’t actually invested in you he will walk away once you say you’re waiting. you have to be prepared to see a lot of men walk away though, but TRUST me you’ll eventually find the right one.
respectfully, FUCK NO. Imagine getting legally married just to find out you're not even compatible. Or he sucks at it or is so small you can barely operate on it with chopsticks. Hell no. And now what? divorce? that's so much fun :D wtf kind of childish logic is this??? did you even think about what you wrote BEFORE you wrote it? Doesn't look like it. Looks more like you have a some kind of fetish.
I could say so much about this topic been with my husband 20 years But I feel like to majority are On that I want I want BS while rejecting the guy that’s right for you Good luck out there 🤷🏽♀️
I don't think you are the problem because I feel the same way whenever I watch these lifestyle and dating coaches. But I think they know their viewers don't want long-winded solutions. Some viewers want bite-size pockets of information like most people with short attention spans. Lol I have to agree with the gentleman that stated, "he will know within six months", my first husband and I were married after 2mons and we were married for 10yrs. My current husband proposed to me within 5mons maybe, I can't remember because we will have been married 10yrs next year. A man knows when he wants a wife and not just a woman to have his child.
Yay!!!! Preach girl....I roll my eyes at them too...every job requires experience....if being a dating guru is their full time job then where's experience and results....crickets... One day I got headache listening to this bs cuz I was so angry....now I think bad advice as a rage bait and laugh it off.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 P.S. But, girrl lemme tell spill the tea for u...when I was young and dumb I was swooning for a manchild and he manipulated the shit outta me.I was super confused...but thanx to some of these sensible tips I gained my life back. And after I had my life got together and some common sense I finally got that these gurus were explaining things out of common sense mostly and the foundation of all advices are mostly similar. But, can't lie some really helped me tho.😅🎉
i’m 4”11. mostly all men are taller than me by a lot. i don’t really care about height. but i realize most girls didn’t stop growing vertically in 6 grade. 😂
The last guru the black male one ...he know what he's talking about....my friend got proposed to after a year of dating....while I was here waisting YEARRRSSSS to get married..( also let the record show I am still not married...but I am also single so..yeah).....now I'm not waisting any of my time
Umm...YOU shouldn't have to "reignite" or "rekindle" a relationship, especially if you've only been dating (DATING). Leave. You're both wasting each other's time. You shouldn't have to put in any "extra" work to make nor keep someone interested...no matter who you're dating. If only one of you is putting in the work, then the other doesn't want to be in the relationship. A guy or gal who's interested in you and doesn't want to let you get away because they love you will NOT push you away. IF they do, THEN they're playing games and you don't need to play any reindeer games. (sorry it's the holidays and reindeer came to mind...lol)
Yeah...if you've broken up and gotten back together over & over then you really should be getting therapy and LEAVE the relationship too. There are people who'll say "but the children" or "you need to stay because of the children". As someone who grew up in a broken (normal) family, the children are aware that y'all hate each other. You may not fight in front of the children but you're fighting under the same roof and the kids can FEEL that and sometimes HEAR it through the walls too. The kids do NOT want you to stay together "just for them". They'd rather have two happy households than one miserable one. Yes, it will take the kids awhile to learn that the parents will be moving on but most will be okay with that, especially if they're under 3 years old.
i know its easy to say just get out but for some people this kind of "love" is all they know and might of also been the only or best/most loved they ever had. some people just grew up with no love or abuse type from parents and when humans look for mates they look for something similar took me 5 years to realise i was slowly entering a horrible relationship like my parents. in other words if you have daddy issues go to therapy, get some self love, unpack your problems first before finding love or ya gonna end up with someone just as bad or worse
The way that you were unimpressed with these coaches is how all of us normal people also feel 😂. Who actually thinks these google answers are something eye opening 🤔
Problem is that these coaches appeal to people who don’t have good examples of what to do in real life (ie their parents) so they look to the internet to supplement. What’s basic to _you_ is eye opening to them.
Half of these dating coaches aren’t even dating/married. I don’t listen to half of them. 😂
I had seen a woman who was complaining online about men not wanting to pay for her drinks😂why is she giving dating advise on her tiktok just a mess
THANK YOU!!!!! Like she said “the blind leading the blind.”
True true.
no literally, they just be single and talking to talk
I read roaches😂
“We don’t FIX toxic relationships, WE LEAVE.” EXACTLY 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 the goal is to work on your own toxicity or character flaws that get on the way of healthy relationships, but once a relationship turns truly toxic, it stays toxic until the bitter end
You look so good in yellow 💛💛💛 also that’s like if i was morbidly obese giving weightloss advice to people
Not gonna lie, that second guy on that push and pull, two steps forward, 3 steps back thing was pretty on point lol. I've stupidly fallen for it, as have many women I know. He's probably the only person who made sense because I needed it to be verbalised like this by my mum for me to realise and leave. But yes, toxicity = no go.
If he does come back...RUN because he's only in it for the game. He thinks you're playing "hard to get". The gal at approx 8 minutes is wrong. Do NOT let him come back into your life. He's NOT worth it. The advice about focusing on yourself and moving on is great but the part about him coming back into your life isn't. He's not someone you should have in your life if he only shows interest after you've moved on. That's gross. That's also a VERY RED FLAG.
8:03 No, No mam. If he starts ignoring you all the time, but when you get your life better he comes back, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK. It is his loss. Give him the L and keep living your better life without him. If he was making your life suck then, he'll make it go back to sucking now.
That is so true, especially Miss pearly things and she's single as a pringle but yet she's giving people dating advice
My husband & I dated in our early 20's for 6yrs, bought our first house & lived together for 2yrs before getting married, moved into our 2nd house & had kids where we've been for 6yrs- because he's my bestfriend first & foremost. My cousin spent $70,000 (now debt) on his wedding after dating her for 2yrs & they got divorced 11months later 🤷♀ it's not the timeline that's important, it's the relationship!!!!!!!!!
Oof. That's a red flag as far as I'm concerned, when a bride is willing to spend $70k on a wedding. Sure, there's people out there rich enough to be an exception, but I sure as heck ain't one.
I’m 29. All of my peers form high school and college who got married and had kids early are either divorced, baby mommas, or stuck in miserable marriages wishing they waited. The people who waited are still not married, but are much happier because they’re staying true to themselves. Of course we don’t want to let a guy string us along, but this whole waiting 2 years is just nonsense to me. You don’t even know each other like that yet, and if you think you do, guess again cuz there is a huge period of growth from early 20’s to late 20’s, so you and your partner could end up being very different as most do
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Before engagement, would you say dating 3-5 years during 20s is more suitable, whereas if the two are in their 30s, dating 2 years before engagement makes more sense?
“It _should_ be obvious.” But it isn’t to people who haven’t had good relationships modeled/explained to them. That’s who dating coaches target-the vulnerable, the socially awkward. People are surprised at dating coaches’ popularity until they realize how many grew up in poor situations. It’s also possible to just be socially awkward.
If you’re like that try to find people in successful relationships in real life to get advice. Don’t be duped by bad dating coaches and don’t be discouraged. God bless ya. ❤
SPOT ON. I love her but I really didn't like this video because of those overly dramatic reactions. I'll admit they were funny and I understand her POV... But even if it's really basic advice, this stuff gets popular because there's a lot of parents that literally bring a child into this world only to teach them nothing.
You don't need dating coaches... They just want your money.
Not Busiswa lowkey crashing out in this video lmaoo 💛
Dating coaches are just so confusing to me. If you have questions or problems in your relationship, go to couples counseling. If you think your partner is toxic, go to a therapist that you trust and clique with and talk to them. And honey, if you're wondering if you should leave, just leave! You probably wouldn't be questioning that if you're really that in love
Busiswa swirling in the chair at 14:42 has me WHEEZING! Baby is tired of these "gurus" 🤣
I’m so over them 😂
I literally and totally the comments to say this same thing 😂
I am in the third year or my relationship but damn we aren't ready for marriage, no money, students , 22 years old and 23 him... I think thinking in the way of "marry in two years " is immature, people have to have stability before marriage, otherwise no wonder the divorces rates are so high
Honestly I feel this as well even as someone older. Living situations, finances, and also mental state really play into it as well (if you're neurotypical and have no issues lucky you for reals wish I was). But also like....what if one or both sides are demi romantic? Was my first thought when he was spouting off that. Couldn't relate.
@3ofClovers I have a bunch of mental problems and am not neurotypical and so is my man, I would marry him right now tbh and he expressed the same but yeah too many situations to say "let's do it after two year maximum ".. Like.. Whoever says that... Will you pay the ring since he is studying ? Will buy us a house since I am studying too? Will you pay for the wedding ? Will you pay my bills ?! Those people look to me a little bit out of touch tbh
Exactly. Not everyone is ready to get married in 2 years
Yeah (married *over* 25 years here) we discussed marriage after a few months, our plans, heck even chores we expected the other to do, (didn't stay that way as plans often go wonky, one of us was injured badly) etc but didn't get engaged for over 2 years. But we knew that's what we both wanted to be once everything was good. He wanted to pay off all his best 1st. I had none ex my car, luckily. Example: we wanted to be able to get a house, not live with someone or apartment 1st (very cheap one mind you, we worked our butt's off fixing it up, it was in poor shape😅 no heat, old wires, etc (look up the show Green Acres wasn't that bad but it was nicknamed that) but ya gotta start somewhere).
Now we love our home, and our marriage had a nice wedding (no debt🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞)
I actually think that’s a fine time to get married. Plenty of students do. It’s not things like that that destroy a marriage imo.
Best relationship advice is simple trial and error. Try, if you fail. Try again. Find someone with the same goals, beliefs, and life style.
Don't over think it. Also remember, internet people are not real people. Not everyman is a red pill, Andrew tate incel fan boy. And not every woman is some gold digging, high maintenance, only wants 6 foot only fans chick.
Be respectful, take a no when your given one, communicate, and put yourself out there. It's not that hard guys. 😂
I don't see anything wrong with a woman looking for a man who has money if she can have children, cook, and clean
@@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4keIf he is a traditional man looking for a traditional woman then yeah no issue. But seeking them out just for money with no support system ? Then no
Same with a man who wants a “traditional woman” but refuses to be a traditional man who can support that life style .
Here is my dating advice. Dont chase someone who wouldn't choose you. Period. Dont give your time to someone who doesnt want it.
The audible DUH took me out thank you for the laugh 😂
Worst advice i ever took in college wasnt from a dating coach, but someone said “men fall in love after theyve been around you for a while and after theyve slept with you” 💀 i wish i ignored that but because i was so unsuccessful in dating at the time i tried doing it this way and SURPRISE- it didnt work and was a bad idea 😂
DO NOT take dating advice from someone whos unmarried lmao
Single dating/relationship gurus and recently laid-off/jobless career coaches have got to be stopped
I had no idea there were so many people out here promoting themselves as a dating coach! Like, is there a school or certification for this?!
B was extra sassy and silly today. Love it
The ladies who want the tall men are just louder than the rest of us who really don't care how tall a guy is as long as he's a good guy. I dated men that were 5 feet to a guy that was 6'4" so. They all had one thing in common. I thought they had a good sense of humor and they made me laugh and I made them laugh. That was it. I've dated guys who were actual models and ones who just as plain as I am. It was always what we had in common and our sense of humors.
The yellow gives oprah luxury vibes❤
Thank you, but Oprah is so EWWWWW!
@@BusiswaG😆😆😆
@@BusiswaGSome call her "Oprahgarch" 😂
Busiswa, you’re killing me with your hilarious reaction faces! 😂😂😂 love how you see straight through the BS
“eyuhhhh” leave me alone, busiswa!! 😭
My advice to my fellow ladies is stop looking for Mr. Right and stop waiting for a knight in shining armor to rescue you and get rid of that list of characteristics that your "dream man" must have. Every relationship I had I learned what I didn't want in a man. My older sister was always obsessed with finding her "knight" to come and rescue her and she had a list that she wanted her "dream guy" to meet. Please don't do that. I'd recommend having a list of characteristics that you DON'T want your "dream guy/gal" to have. Also, remember that you cannot "fix" or "change" someone so don't ever go into a relationship thinking that person will "change" to be with you or that you can "fix" them because they probably don't think they're broken like you do. Then there's the part about YOU not needing to change or fix yourself to please others either because YOU'RE NOT BROKEN either.
I count myself as lucky because I never was a lonely person even when I was alone and lived on my own. I liked being alone. I liked cooking and baking and taking all of my leftovers to work and sharing with people in the building. I liked hanging out with my friends too but I really liked hanging out at home with my cat or dog (when I had a pet) or just reading by myself. Before I ever had a relationship, my older sister asked me is I was lonely and if I missed having a relationship. I had to explain to her that I couldn't "miss" something that I'd never had and that just because I was alone didn't mean that I was lonely. She used that line (as her own) several years later when a friend of hers asked her if she was "lonely". I thought it was great because it showed how much she'd grown as a person.
When I met my husband, we had exactly one date before I knew that he was the one. I have the journal that I wrote the comment..."he's the one" over 22 years ago. I've still spent more time out of a relationship than in one (consider that...yes...I'm old). He was everything that I didn't want in a guy! Those lessons that I learned from the relationships (very few & very short but enough) gave me information about myself and what I wanted out of a relationship and who I wanted to be in a relationship too. I wanted to be myself. I wanted someone who loved me for me and not me pretending to be whatever the guy wanted me to be. I wanted real love. Honesty. Someone who made me giggle. Someone who liked to laugh and make me giggle. Someone who wasn't afraid to show his softer side. It was all stuff that was on my list of "this is stuff that I don't want in a guy" -- the number one thing was I did NOT want a guy who was afraid to show his emotions. My man (an alpha male) will cry when our cat is sick or when there's a sad part in a movie and that moves me. That makes me love him even more. When he cares about my family and worries about me, that makes me love him more. When he smiles at me because he's caught me smiling at him and watching him play with our cat or caught him talking to our cat like he's our child, I know that I found the right one.
Here's the other thing...I wasn't looking for a relationship when I found him. I was joking when I told my boss to "set me up on a date" with my now husband. Just remember that you do NOT have to be in a relationship just because everyone you know is married with children. I was the only single person in my friend group. I didn't get married until I was over 30. It didn't bother me that I wasn't in a relationship. It didn't bother my friends either. None of them were...'when are you getting married' or 'when are you having kids'. They knew I was happy being single with my cat. You do not have to be ashamed of being single and enjoying it. You also don't have to be ashamed to be in your 30s and living with your parents. It's your life and you only get one so live it how you want to live it but also remember to treat others how you want to be treated (it's how you get respect).
Much love & good luck!
Can’t wait to see the new T-shirts, “hoeing is never the answer”😂
I think the main problem with these “dating coaches” is that they don’t talk about people like they’re people. They talk about people like they’re problems to fix, a machine that if you know how to tinker with /just/ right, you can get to function to your liking, and it’s like… no. People aren’t things. You can’t approach a person like they’re an object that you need “instructions” to. Everyone is different, and the only real way you can get to know someone is to actually speak to them like a person and present yourself authentically. But people hate to be authentic because society has convinced them that if they don’t come across a certain way, you’re automatically “cringe”. These coaches just encourage you to put on a mask, when you don’t really want to do that if you want a genuine connection to another person.
I agree with your statements from what I saw here. 2 years may be too short of a time for some people, for example. Or maybe they don't want to live the married life, but still be together. Maybe that commitment is too much and they just wanna live a platonic relationship? Why would someone say that "if they're not asking you in X years" or "they will know when they have The One" if they may not know that the other person does NOT want to get married / engaged, but rather just live like they are without the extra commitment to everything? Does 1 - 2 years give you enough time to TRULY learn EVERYTHING important about someone?
The whole discussion about "asking about you" also made me kinda shudder as someone who doesn't feel comfortable talking about my life. I'm nothing special, just an autistic entity who lived a sheltered life, identifies as a non-human (robot), and otherwise creates personal OCs and artwork. I'm not the president, or a daughter of a war hero, or royalty. I'm average - and I'm fine with that. I also don't look "pretty", but wanna say I have an okay personality - which imo, is where it matters most. I feel that I'm much better online, due to my being very awkward around other people and preferring my own space.
I also quite frankly don't wanna hear a life story. I'm not gonna ask about them either, it's none of my business! All I would want to make sure of was that they weren't a criminal or support things like that, as well as that they're not racist, anti-gay (I'm not gay, but I have friends who are), and the like. Just like I would only want them to know that I'm also not a criminal or supportive of bigotry.
Plus they're kinda treating everyone like a stereotypical sense too; Things may be different in other cultures or communities. We may not have arranged marriages, but people shouldn't feel like they have to play by these "rules" or they lose the game.
FYI, I also don't want to find anyone, and if they think I'm someone who wants to commit to a relationship that's not a platonic friendship or think I wanna get married and have kids, well...They're dead wrong. I want none of that, and I want to run MY life the way I want. I want to remain the boss, and not worry about commitment to anyone.
I love busiswa shes getting more unhinged with each video
The problem is pretty much 100% of all toxic relationships point the finger at the other person has being the toxic one
If my husband had proposed to me before a year, I would've said "No." Too many men have played my family & friends. Too many times I've seen a man pretend to be someone he isn't, so well you'd never know, then after a quick marriage flipped the script. It happened so much at the church I grew up in. But, they typically couldn't hold out over a year, so if you wait a year you'll get the time to see the real them. Marriage is a lifelong thing, even divorce, it stays with you for life that you did it, don't rush into it ever. I've seen enough women get divorced, and wasn't willing to rush into anything and ruin my life like others have.
Though do be careful. My husband waited two years, then dropped the mask on the honeymoon. There were red flags, but he kept that mask on, despite being so lazy at heart that he would literally spend 20 hours a day watching tv.
@Orquet-qj2nf I'm sorry you went through that. I've been with ny husband since 2016 and we align well but it is good advice for all young couples, always be wary & very sure, people aren't always what they seem ☹️
13:17 my husband said he knew on the first date that I was the one. He proposed 2 months after meeting me… married after 9months. Our 15 year wedding anniversary is next week. He dotes on me daily still!
Exception. Not the rule.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Lol, right?! At LEAST a good year or two of dating before proposal. But hey, I guess homeboy wanted a wifey asap
My husband knew on our first date. It was only a lunch date so there wasn't anything sexy going on. We both had jobs and had a lunch date because we were both very busy. We moved in together within a few months and were married within a bit over 18 months of meeting. We've been married for 20 years and together 22+ years. He knew. I knew. I was 30 and he was nearly 40. The odd thing was that he had been in a relationship and had broken it off about 3 months before we started dating. He had even purchased an egagement ring but decided at the dinner that he wanted to break up instead. Fate. Thankfully, he knew that it wasn't the right relationship for him. I'm so grateful for whatever popped into his head and told him "no".
Oh.... the only one that really stood out as confusing (outside of the obvious ones that were creepy) is " not engaged or married in 2 years" That needed more explanation. it really depends on the situation. I don't really believe the 'a man knows' either. Since that doesn't mean he's going to know and be loyal. If he wants to spend the rest of his life with someone, but plenty of men marry whoever is there. So... What??
Keep in mind that this is talking about you people who are dating to marry not just dating so if you make that known from the start, yes two years is long enough if you're both ready to marry
@@aesinam It’s not because you don’t see what a person is all about in 2 years. Just wanting to marry does not mean you’re seriously betting your partner or communicating well. That’s why for many 2 years doesn’t work, and even if you are doing those things. How do you know your man is going to be loyal, or not turn mean? People hide who they are and when you’re in “love” it’s easy to excuse the red flags cuz you’re desperate for marriage.
You're wearing your 💛 yellow 💛 marigold blouse again with the ruffles! Yellow 💛 is definitely your colour. I had to yelp out a hoot when you gave the "mango" comment 😆 "Honey, you have to let that man-go!" Love your videos! 💟 Most of these dating "coaches" look desperately single. Edit: You're also on point: Just leave!
Attention is a drug. And reality kicks in “. So used wisdom and test their fruits.
You always had wit and charm but your personality is really coming out in your late videos and I'm loving it!! 💗
In my opinion, life will be more simple if people just got with people who like them 💀 if you have to overthink your relationship and seek this or that advice from a dating coach, there's a problem. I want to add that all those "advices" are just common sense.
7:30 what in the world lmao. You should be strengthening your relationship with yourself regardless if a potential partner is ignoring you. You should keep up with your hobbies, hang out with friends, and do things that make you happy anyways haha. You don’t need someone ignoring you to give you permission.
10:21 “One of the most important things to do to start a conversation… is to simply start a conversation “
15:25 YES. There are players where that seems like it's literally their specialty, the nice-guy really getting to know you schtick.
“You were the survey” is WILD! 😂😂
the active listening is sending me they really are talking like they’re blowing our minds 😂
"The blind leanding the blind" is so damn true when it comes to majority of these dating Coaches.
*6:55** these are no-brainer things that I tell my teen children since they have zero experience in life*
If a guy I’m interested in doesn’t reciprocate my communication, he will not be hearing from me. It’s that simple 😅
Oh you were not having it today 😆 and rightfully so. Also you look so pretty in this outfit/hair etc 😊
7:23 if he’s losing interest and pulling away… he’s not the one. Find someone else
The lady at 15 minutes is wrong. Someone who just wants to get you into bed will PRETEND to be interested in your life, especially if they've gotten you into bed and they enjoyed themselves with you! They'll even go so far as to say they love you to make you think you'll be serious but they just want to have play dates but they'll pretend it's more.
I feel like a single person could very well give this same advice; Like I can also tell you that holding your phone while driving is also against the law - despite not having a license or being an officer or someone in the law enforcement.
Though instead, I'll give this advice: It's also okay to have a platonic relationship AS WELL AS stay single. If you're like me and realized years later that you never had that childhood dream of having a partner or family aside from maybe a pet, then being in a relationship may not be priority and it's completely okay! Love yourself first, always. :)
People be dropping buzzwords and thinking that it's advice. Like what?
WHO IS WAITING A YEAR TO BE A GIRLFRIEND?! 🤣
as someone that goes out, i agree with your point of approaching someone in the club to ask where you been. i'd honestly assume they had been following me from bar to bar if thats how they choose to start the conversation 😭😭
then again, i'm a hater when men approach me in the club period. why you tryna pick up women who are inebriated?
I read the title as “Aman knows” and I was like… okey, what DO they know??? …it was a confusing first few minutes when I clicked 😂
Back when I was clubbing, what would have happened was you were up dancing with your pals and a guy would edge in a bit to try dance with you, if you didn't turn round when the guy got the go ahead, but if she turns, that's a rejection signal. Next stage is asking to buy her a drink and then outside to the smoke bar (even those who don't smoke smoke in the smoke bar) 😂😂 comes a little chat after that and maybe swap numbers or add on Facebook. worst part about meeting at the clerb is that normally your too blatoooed to remember the cubby. You never message and then months later you're going through your contacts and you notice a lads name you don't remember and delete it 😂
4:09 this whole section is so funny to me 😭 the voices 😭😭
And if they are married they’re cheating on their spouse. People used to use dating services/match makers that you’d call you’d pay them to hook you up with a couple of people who were looking for the same things as you. It’s not as prevalent now but there’s some that are still out there. Those are the real professionals.
Okay...I was told by my male best friend (a straight guy) to NEVER, as a woman, go on a first date to an ice cream shop or get an ice cream on a first date. There are reasons that are NSFW. Use your dirty minds to figure it out.
6:07 why do people say “guy that you’re dating” or “girl that you’re dating” instead of gf and bf?
Girlfriend or boyfriend, to me, shows commitment ("going steady" is the old vernacular). "Girl/guy you're dating" is more low-key. You could be dating more than one person.
Cause its another "step" like "talking stage"....u have talking stage, dating, situationship....so basically a lot of bullshxt. I hate these stages
ALSO I love you, you are SO funny. I'm laughing out loud the ENTIRE video at your authentic reactions. New sub!
I know it's about to be interesting🍿❤
THREE VIDEOSSS??!?? BABES!! O HAVEN'T EVEN FINISHED WATCHING THE VID ABOUT THAT MOM... ANYWAYS I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH. ❤️❤️💕💕🫶🏽💕🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank goodness I watched the whole video because I was planning to make a comment about 'dating coaches', but it seems like only two of them made perfect sense and gave fair advice.
I was invited to a talk by my friend, where a 'relationship expert' was talking about well relationships. Sadly we couldn't attend. We both had separate phone consultations with the said coach; my friend's consultation was twenty minutes (she could talk for hours), while mine was 5 to 10 mins. It was simple questions, however my friend probably told her life story...
I have seen my friend go through many up's and down's over the years with guys she has dated. She dated a guy for nearly two years, but he didn't even want to acknowledge her in public. Then last year she dated another guy whose English isn't their first language, however when things went sour she bombarded him with messages even went through his socials...
Nowadays, she is trying to get us to go to speed dating events in London (where we live), however the dating scene in that city is meh. I had a Bumble date with a Spanish guy, but didn't go any further sadly. Yep dating is hard these days
My husband is 5’6.. the exact same height as me. I always thought I wanted a taller guy, was naturally attracted to them… That’s a given. However, I had a crush on my husband since he was just my best friend’s older brother in sixth grade…. As adults we fell in love and started a family. And now I find there are all kinds of benefits to us being the exact same size. We literally fit together like puzzle pieces and I honestly wouldn’t have it any other way.
13:08: my mom and dad met a year before they started dating, and my dad made my mom wait seven years before he proposed. Now it's been 15 years, thier married, and don't talk to each other and on the verge of divorce.
My first question is,”What are your qualifications to be a dating coach”? Secondly are you in a relationship, how long have you been in a relationship, and if I asked your significant other, would they consider your relationships successful?
Your reaction to these made my morning 😂 ugh yeaaaaa 😅
9:53 thank you for being honest. So many people lie to themselves 😂
The way I just cackled! People listen to the Lordt! Wait on the Lordt!Just that simple!
ssshhhhhhhh 🤫 dont say that when my boyfriend is listening 🤣 he thinks hes not tall enough😂 he was my neighbor and i always wear platform shoes so he thought i was tall ! we started talking on fb and never talked face to face and when he asked to see me, we met outside and i ran up to him and literally jumped in his arms and he says the first thing he thought was "yaaayyyyy shes so tiny" (i didnt wear platforms) 😂
y’all wanna know the best way to completely avoid men who aren’t in it for marriage purposes…? STOP SLEEPING WITH PEOPLE BEFORE MARRIAGE
you can be mad over it, but 100% if a man isn’t actually invested in you he will walk away once you say you’re waiting. you have to be prepared to see a lot of men walk away though, but TRUST me you’ll eventually find the right one.
respectfully, FUCK NO. Imagine getting legally married just to find out you're not even compatible. Or he sucks at it or is so small you can barely operate on it with chopsticks. Hell no. And now what? divorce? that's so much fun :D wtf kind of childish logic is this??? did you even think about what you wrote BEFORE you wrote it? Doesn't look like it. Looks more like you have a some kind of fetish.
It is funny how a high percentage of the people on social media giving dating advice are not in a relationship themselves.
I could say so much about this topic been with my husband 20 years
But I feel like to majority are On that I want I want BS while rejecting the guy that’s right for you
Good luck out there 🤷🏽♀️
I don't think you are the problem because I feel the same way whenever I watch these lifestyle and dating coaches. But I think they know their viewers don't want long-winded solutions. Some viewers want bite-size pockets of information like most people with short attention spans. Lol
I have to agree with the gentleman that stated, "he will know within six months", my first husband and I were married after 2mons and we were married for 10yrs. My current husband proposed to me within 5mons maybe, I can't remember because we will have been married 10yrs next year. A man knows when he wants a wife and not just a woman to have his child.
13:31 Getting married in two years?? Idk about that, if anything talk about how you feel about marriage first before that year.
LOVE the yellow!!!!
I HAVE THE SAME SHIRT AS YOU OH MY GOD TWINNING💗💗
Yay!!!! Preach girl....I roll my eyes at them too...every job requires experience....if being a dating guru is their full time job then where's experience and results....crickets...
One day I got headache listening to this bs cuz I was so angry....now I think bad advice as a rage bait and laugh it off.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
P.S. But, girrl lemme tell spill the tea for u...when I was young and dumb I was swooning for a manchild and he manipulated the shit outta me.I was super confused...but thanx to some of these sensible tips I gained my life back. And after I had my life got together and some common sense I finally got that these gurus were explaining things out of common sense mostly and the foundation of all advices are mostly similar. But, can't lie some really helped me tho.😅🎉
No girl, you a better dating coach than all these fools. Love the content 🙌
You're so silly, I love it😂❤❤❤
I cannot relate to this matter honestly, it's like i am disinterested in dating.
The 304 thing kills me. Cuz 304 is my area code. 😂
i’m 4”11. mostly all men are taller than me by a lot. i don’t really care about height. but i realize most girls didn’t stop growing vertically in 6 grade. 😂
Omgoshhh you look so good auntie ❤❤❤❤
Hahaha I love you! You look beautiful in yellow too 💛
I love how your exasperation over their spewed nonsense clearly shows.
The last guru the black male one ...he know what he's talking about....my friend got proposed to after a year of dating....while I was here waisting YEARRRSSSS to get married..( also let the record show I am still not married...but I am also single so..yeah).....now I'm not waisting any of my time
Yellow is your color 😍
I also believe if you are not sexually compatible, leave!!! You don’t have to be 100 on everything but yeah it is important
Umm...YOU shouldn't have to "reignite" or "rekindle" a relationship, especially if you've only been dating (DATING). Leave. You're both wasting each other's time. You shouldn't have to put in any "extra" work to make nor keep someone interested...no matter who you're dating. If only one of you is putting in the work, then the other doesn't want to be in the relationship. A guy or gal who's interested in you and doesn't want to let you get away because they love you will NOT push you away. IF they do, THEN they're playing games and you don't need to play any reindeer games. (sorry it's the holidays and reindeer came to mind...lol)
Yeah...if you've broken up and gotten back together over & over then you really should be getting therapy and LEAVE the relationship too. There are people who'll say "but the children" or "you need to stay because of the children". As someone who grew up in a broken (normal) family, the children are aware that y'all hate each other. You may not fight in front of the children but you're fighting under the same roof and the kids can FEEL that and sometimes HEAR it through the walls too. The kids do NOT want you to stay together "just for them". They'd rather have two happy households than one miserable one. Yes, it will take the kids awhile to learn that the parents will be moving on but most will be okay with that, especially if they're under 3 years old.
i know its easy to say just get out but for some people this kind of "love" is all they know and might of also been the only or best/most loved they ever had. some people just grew up with no love or abuse type from parents and when humans look for mates they look for something similar took me 5 years to realise i was slowly entering a horrible relationship like my parents. in other words if you have daddy issues go to therapy, get some self love, unpack your problems first before finding love or ya gonna end up with someone just as bad or worse
Why do you look so incredible in yellow?! Omggg
The majority of the coaches were cringy. And the last coach was standing on business!!!
I have to say I am afraid of too tall men. I prefer them about half an inch shorter.
I saw my good sis Weezy in the thumbnail and clicked so fast. Because how’d she get in it 😂
pt 2 needed this was funny
Why do I find it funny that I am agreeing with every coach because I may or may not be high
Remember Derick Jaxon😮...