Most men or women born to an insecure parents are married to their parents. Any woman/ man who is unhappy with her own husband/wife who cannot meet each other’s needs of a secured life will keep the son/daughter in an enmeshed relationship with themselves .They are in an enmeshed narcissistic relationship with their children. These parents will never let the son or daughter live happily with their spouses. This will be a viscous circle as this unsecured man or woman will be in the same situation. It will stop when an individual understands and sets up boundaries in the relationship. Those parents who can never be outside the boundaries will kill their own child’s relationship. And the child will always be the surrogate spouse for the parent. Typically the one who sacrifices all boundaries will survive the relationship but has no happiness in the life.
Very well said, true words that one can't understand or explain it to their partner. Why everyone is talking about women side is because, the system is still woman getting married to man and going to his house, lives the life under surveillance of his parents. Men are also affected but not equally to the women. It would be nice if they conduct one separate show for this *mently married to their parents* topic.
Well said antha ponnu pesiyathu romba unmai kulanthaikaga than poruntha life 25 years oditu iruku aduvum yen annangal vvip avangalukaga yen life sacarifi panniten but ippo 5 perla 4 per illa vittutu poiruntha rani pola paathirupanga but yen son yenna aagirupano avanuku nenaivu therintha naalirunthu avan paathathu sandai, adi mandai udaithal than ippo 23 years aaguthu ippavum yethuvum avan appava yeenu kekka maatan what to do chi nu vittuten vithinu iruken ithanaikum na double degree, teacher but marriage aanthum work anupale
The first lady said that guys are "mentally married to their parents"! Does she agree that if she has a son, he too will be like that!!!!??????? Women forget that when their sons get married, these women will see History repeating itself!!! Fathers and Husbands are never selfish, It's Mothers and Wives who are Possessive!!!!!
@pot8735 then it's the responsibility of the son to set boundaries with the mother, to the point that her dependency doesn't stunt or hinder his relationship with his wife... it's applicable to women too ... nobody should allow their parent to be the third member in their marriage ...
@@dofleu6524 he just need to take care of his family in a way that's good for everyone. He need to take care of his wife, kids and also his mom and dad and family. Whats the boundary are u talking about?
Most reasons for family life are wife's mother and wife's father. These people raise their daughter like dad's little princess and finally one innocent guy and their family is ruined
@@hemmapermal-me7jo oh nee taan andha real dad's little process eh Ada unnaku kobam varuthu. Nee solra Madiri Thani kuduthanam ok taan. But most daughter take separate home very near to their dad's home. So mostly couple life le interfere panradhu andha maanam ketta princess' dad taan.
You are right. Yes. Because we don't have to stay with men who cannot look at women as equal "humans" to them. Work has given women the independence to leave situations of dominance and abuse.
Most men or women born to an insecure parents are married to their parents.
Any woman/ man who is unhappy with her own husband/wife who cannot meet each other’s needs of a secured life will keep the son/daughter in an enmeshed relationship with themselves .They are in an enmeshed narcissistic relationship with their children.
These parents will never let the son or daughter live happily with their spouses.
This will be a viscous circle as this unsecured man or woman will be in the same situation.
It will stop when an individual understands and sets up boundaries in the relationship.
Those parents who can never be outside the boundaries will kill their own child’s relationship.
And the child will always be the surrogate spouse for the parent.
Typically the one who sacrifices all boundaries will survive the relationship but has no happiness in the life.
Very well said. This shows are always one sided to woman. The truth is man are equally affected because of wife. And no one takes this topic
Very well said. Sacrificers will survive in the relationship but they will have no happiness in life
Oh my god ! Very well said 👏👏👏
I understood this toxicity after marriage .
Very well said, true words that one can't understand or explain it to their partner. Why everyone is talking about women side is because, the system is still woman getting married to man and going to his house, lives the life under surveillance of his parents. Men are also affected but not equally to the women. It would be nice if they conduct one separate show for this *mently married to their parents* topic.
First show avaruku pudichadhu pota adhuku avar enna panvaru😂😂
Vera theatre ahe illaya avangaluku pidicha padam odura theatre ku poga vendiyathu thanae
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Well said antha ponnu pesiyathu romba unmai kulanthaikaga than poruntha life 25 years oditu iruku aduvum yen annangal vvip avangalukaga yen life sacarifi panniten but ippo 5 perla 4 per illa vittutu poiruntha rani pola paathirupanga but yen son yenna aagirupano avanuku nenaivu therintha naalirunthu avan paathathu sandai, adi mandai udaithal than ippo 23 years aaguthu ippavum yethuvum avan appava yeenu kekka maatan what to do chi nu vittuten vithinu iruken ithanaikum na double degree, teacher but marriage aanthum work anupale
Correct
Well saidma
Full link of this episode??
Pesame thaniya pona superaa irrukume.
Some are married to friends or pubg!
Kadaisiyila pesuna ponnuku Avanga Appa vali puriyave illa. Life ah romanticism panni vachirukku
The first lady said that guys are "mentally married to their parents"!
Does she agree that if she has a son, he too will be like that!!!!???????
Women forget that when their sons get married, these women will see History repeating itself!!!
Fathers and Husbands are never selfish,
It's Mothers and Wives who are Possessive!!!!!
@Asmi.tha123 And that's precisely my point - History will repeat itself!!!!
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@Asmi.tha123 even women who has loving husbands they still depend on their son coz they are also the future one to maintain family..
@pot8735 then it's the responsibility of the son to set boundaries with the mother, to the point that her dependency doesn't stunt or hinder his relationship with his wife... it's applicable to women too ... nobody should allow their parent to be the third member in their marriage ...
@@dofleu6524 he just need to take care of his family in a way that's good for everyone. He need to take care of his wife, kids and also his mom and dad and family. Whats the boundary are u talking about?
Most reasons for family life are wife's mother and wife's father. These people raise their daughter like dad's little princess and finally one innocent guy and their family is ruined
Lusu paiyanatha kevalama valakaranga Vela seiyama eruka
Husband behaves like mom's little prince. Ungalukku vantha rattham matthavangaluku vantha tomato ketchup ah. Kalyanam aana husband wife thani kudithanam poi kudumbam nadaththamum. Maathavanga thalaiyeedu irukka koodathu.
@@hemmapermal-me7jo oh nee taan andha real dad's little process eh Ada unnaku kobam varuthu. Nee solra Madiri Thani kuduthanam ok taan. But most daughter take separate home very near to their dad's home. So mostly couple life le interfere panradhu andha maanam ketta princess' dad taan.
Pesa vidurala paren😂una lam kalyanan panavan pavam than polaye😢kannadi butti😂
This is what is called male dominance even a women speaking u can't accept it
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Aangal la ipdi dhan veikanum
Ava crct ah tha pesra you shut up and go
First lady is absolutely wrong, since women started working divorce case is increasing
You are right. Yes. Because we don't have to stay with men who cannot look at women as equal "humans" to them. Work has given women the independence to leave situations of dominance and abuse.
@@rajaduraik6593 if you have that much problem with men why you are getting married. Better live alone
@@renganathanreports2483that's what women started doing nowadays...they started delaying or avoiding marriages...theriyaadho?
Women no match to men the world is slowly realising this all bravado of this women will disappear once things go downhill