Michael was completely honest about his feelings, which I respect. Despite them not being close, Peter Tork was part of his life for 50 years; which meant when Peter died, a large part of Mike's past life died with him.
i do like that he was that honest with the interviewer. he's saying we could not stand one another but we put up with each other because we had to. it was a business relationship not a friendship. i think that when he got the news his own emotions surprised even him much like i think they surprised him when he did this interview. but you are right though on how long he had been in his life. & it still feels unreal that we only have 1 monkee left now
@@rolandofgilead43 I think a lot of us could sense this about them. I feel bad. I am a long time and devout Monkeemaniac. I miss those who are in the next life. I saw Davy and Micky in 1976. It was a fantastic concert. Timmy Boyce and Bobby Hart were there also. 🐒❤🐒❤🐒❤🐒❤
one part that is not mentioned Peter Tork Stayed with Mike and his Wife doing Beginning of The Monkees Tv Show, and so did Davy Jones,but at different times.know it was fun Mike and Davy living together and Celebrating there Birthday on the same day, Maybe Mike Wifey Made a Double Birthday Cake for her House Mates
I remember them back in the late 60's. I don't think I started school yet. I can't say anymore because it's been so many years. First grade September 68. Great show
@@robertr.9419why would Jimi Hendrix' opinion of The Monkees hurt any of us who happen to be fans of theirs? Don't get me wrong, I'm a fan of Hendrix too. But his taste in music isn't going to influence my taste in music or my opinion about anything else for that matter. So I don't give two 💩 s about what he thought of The Monkees.
@@GooberpeanutI was six months old. A product of the 'Summer Of Love'. I recall listening to my mom's record she had of 'The Monkees' , and watching their show on TV, which was in syndication during the late 70's and early 80's. Found memories.
This cuts off too soon but Micky says to the interviewer "Do you have siblings?" When she says yes Micky says "Need I say more?". For better or worse the Monkees were brothers. They may not have always liked each other but at the end of the day they did love each other.
and most know that Nes was an only child. so any very long term associations begin to feel like family, albeit possibly not the closest. He was the only only child of the four boys, which might've tied him more closely to all 3 of his band mates.
This is going on with my two sons and it breaks my heart. The problem is between the wives and my son's are standing behind their wives. If I say anything I get shut out of my grandchildren lives, so I stay silent. My heart hurts. I'm not getting any younger and I think the only way they will be civil with each other will be at my funeral. Between them they have 8 kids between them who don't know their first cousins even though they are young adults.
@@pinkythechihuahua3156 I'm so sorry, my wife and I spoke to our sons and said family should come first . It doesn't make a difference who's family, just that there's no division between anybody. Life's to short for B.S. If the wives are causing the drama then they should man up and the four of them should sit down and discuss the issues. Good luck.
That is a true brotherly love. Im 68. I belonged to the Monkees fan Club. I think its a horrible way that Hollywood treated those very talented men. They brought such happiness in my young childhood.
…..you will often find in cases like this that this grief is to do with his own personal guilt and shame knowing that there was a great deal left unresolved between the two of them
Their dislike towards each other was mainly a music thing. They had different styles when it came to music. Mike would make fun of a lot of Peter’s outtakes like Lady’s Baby which may have driven a bigger rift between them. They were both however the true driving forces in helping the Monkees gain their freedom to record what they wanted and play their own instruments, and their chemistry on Headquarters, especially on the track You Told Me shows they had a lot of disagreements, but they both respected eachother a lot.
I met peter Tork in A small club in Massachusetts.He was performing with his blues band he sat at a table for a few minutes talked and signed autographs.He is the sweetest most kind man.I've known
I met Nez after a show in SF at the Great American Music Hall. People paid for a meet and greet and I just waited outside hoping to get a chance to say hello and get a guitar signed. Nez was the nicest guy you could ever imagine. He said "hey yeah I saw you in the front there during the show. Thanks for coming to the show" We chatted for about 5 min. He took the time to ask me questions and I had questions for him.We talked about his gear, Pontiac GTOs . A few different subjects. He could have just brushed me off as someone who didn't pay for meet and greet time ,but no. I can't even convey what a wonderful moment in time that was for me. I grew up watching the Monkees. Mike was always my favorite. Getting a chance to meet him as an adult and have him be such a great person to just another fan meant the world at that moment. His legacy is well deserved. R.I.P Mike.
@sdgakatbk yeah! A great guy he was for sure. I has a 65 than a 68 then a 70 GTO back in the mid 90s you could still get them for about three to four thousand in good shape. Those days were fun times!
In 60 years old. Not many people who have passed on bothered me as nuch as Davey , Peter and Mike. For their music and tv show , they are special to me. 😢
They were all part of something really special. They meant a lot to millions of fans. I will always remember them in my younger years. THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES!
Guess they were actors who were only put together for the show, hence the uncomfortable vibes that happened between them, as they were simply acting out their roles. They also never expected the huge popularity they found as people thought they were really a band who had a TV show.
It gets easier the older you get I've found. Wisdom brings many truths & by the time you get up there in age you have more appreciation & drive for peace, serenity, & forgiveness. Don't sweat the small stuff & let it go, kind of thing.😘
I'm sorry the real man part you should have did that when he was alive you have one life and one opportunity to be the better man towards a person and you lost that opportunity that he chose don't cry now because that's false sympathy how is that making h i m a better man that makes him a weak man😢
Not sympathy. You didn't understand what he is saying. They shared an unbelievable life, as brothers who loved what they shared, even loved but did not like, each other. It's a missed opportunity, yes. He realized it, and realized how he actually felt. Another piece of an era, gone. Another portion of his own life that has gone forever. No one gets through this life without regrets... praying you have better luck...
Mike wrote a beautiful tribute to Peter on social media when he passed away. They may not have "liked" each other, but there must have been mutual respect.
Peter was one of the kindest men I ever had the pleasure to call a friend. He was a free spirit and upbeat through his illness with such a strong will for life and peace.
Wow, cool. He seemed like a decent guy. I read that Mike was prone to anger outbursts. He put his fist through a wall as some meeting. It's funny that we forget that everything is temporary and you have to try and enjoy it. If you cannot be happy when in a band with the world at your feet then you just cannot be happy, I guess.
Honestly, you four men, made more people happy, more people smile, I am old now, and some of best memories, was watching the Monkees TV show with my Mom. My first album was the K-tel best of the Monkees ,that my Mom bought for me. C.O.D through the US mail delivered to the house.
It doesn't really matter how close you are to a person. When you've been around them for a good part of your life, you're going to feel it when they're gone. That's the reality.
Even though they didn't like each other, when one dies, you still shed a tear for them. Probably even more.😢 Rest In Peace Peter. You were always my favorite.
Brothers in arms and the two who were the best and truly musicians in the group, Davie and Mickey considered themselves actors though they were incredible singers and Mickey has one of the best rock voices ever. Yet they are not in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. I don't care who wrote their music or if the wrecking crew played on most of their releases, they are Rock and Roll History and deserve to be in the Friggin Rock and Roll Hall of Fame!
@@JW...-oj5iw when the other David Jones changed his name to David Bowie it was his only option, otherwise he too would have been relegated to Tiger Beat and 12 year olds. Little Davy Jones represented the low point of 60's music. Bowie on the other hand was one of the high points of 70s music.
Sometimes there are people we know whom we're not so fond of, but in the end they tend to be much closer to us than we think, and when they're gone it hurts us like losing a loved one.
This made me so incredibly sad, and it made me more emotional knowing the fact that it’s the one year anniversary of Mike’s tragic passing. I miss both of them so much, and I wish they would’ve had better friendship. ☹️
Oddly, they were very much alike in many ways. And repected each other’s talent absolutely. I saw Mike just before he died and he said much the same thing but added they “were brothers.” Family can be hard.
I met Peter Tork back in the 80's when I was a Corpus Christi Police Officer. I was working security at a Concert that was featuring the Monkees (minus Mike Nesmith) along with several reunion tour bands. I must say that Peter Tork was one of the NICEST people that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting! ❤ I asked him for an autograph and he told me that he didn’t have anymore pictures with him but that when their set was finished, he would go back to his bus and get me one. I thanked him but I thought to myself, "Not gonna happen.." Later that evening, as I was working security, I saw him coming through a crowd of people toward me and when he reached me, he said, "I'm going to go get the picture for you. Come on and I'll get it." I followed him and waited outside of his bus for him and he came back out and said, "Here it is and I signed it for you!" He was such a genuinely nice man.
Very true. So many things don't matter at the time of our passing. The fights, the disagreements, money and superficial things. Love, pain, creativity. These are the things that last..
This is a great lesson. Show kindness, and respect even to people you don’t like because we are not here for a long time and regret is a terrible thing.
The death of someone you've known for so long, suddenly leaves a big hole in your life. Your own life is changed forever. I miss my loved ones but I'm at an age that I'm losing long time friends and I have to say it's a different kind of really deep sorrow. I'm glad I am growing older, but I hate this aspect. A lifetime of friendship can never be replaced.
It's hard to imagine anyone not liking Peter Tork! He was such a sweet guy with such a cool smile! Peter seemed egoless. Peter seemed so approachable. Peter was my favourite Monkee! Of all The Monkees, Peter is the one I would've liked to have met. Did Peter ever say that he never liked Michael? It must've been a personality clash between Michael and Peter. I always admired the fact that Michael wrote "Beat Of A Different Drum"! Linda Ronstadt did a great cover of that song with The Stone Poneys in the 60s. The Monkees brought a lot of joy to my life watching them on television back in the 60s as a 9 year old. Great times! Rest In Eternal Peace ~ Michael Nesmith, Davy Jones and Peter Tork.
If anyone wants to watch the full interview there are several channels that have it. Micky was just on tour, saw him at Penn’s Peak in PA. It’s very obvious how much he misses Mike, Peter and Davy. His tributes to each are right from his heart. Mike is just being honest and open about his feelings here, even if he didn’t like Peter he sure as heck loved him.
The Monkees have like 10 classic songs. To have 1 is great. “Pleasant Valley”, “Stepping Stone”, “She” are really strong hits. Monkees were a great band.
Absolutely Amen 💖 peter knows you loved and cared, you just didn't know how to share your Spirit. We can see you absolutely cared too ❤ Absolutely Amen 💖🥰🌹
It was 1997 I was 13 and Nick at night aired a random show called the Monkees... They became my whole world. I had the comic, tv show recorded on VHS and every album records and CDs. I was in complete love with Micheal. This really touched me. 😢❤❤❤ I still know ever word to papa Jean blues❤
I've seen MN in many interviews ... and he seemed a genuine individual. Genuine character of kindness - even while becoming a millionnaire at a young age.
When Mike Nesmith talked about Peter like this . I think he didn't know how to show his love to a monkee member until something happens .And that's when the real love comes out cause they were like a family band.
I love this level of honesty, if one’s not liked in life it’s so hypocritical on death to claim the opposite. Mike demonstrates they didn’t see eye to eye but acknowledged the importance of his existence in Mike’s life. Now they are both gone and found peace.
There are family members sometimes that don't get along any further than being civilized, but they are part of us in spite of that. And we lose a part of ourselves when they are gone... these four young men shared unbelievable experiences for decades... it's the end of an era in all our lives. We miss them. Thank you for sharing this...
Which is why grace for each other is so vital. A lack of forgiveness and grace is the #1 root issue within our society. It’s possible to be confident but not a jerk.
I was too young when The Beatles hit the world. But I was seven years old when The Monkees TV show came out. The Monkees introduced me to the world of Rock music. I owe them my everlasting thanks. 🎸🤟
@guitary. I watched the show for the songs too, when it first came on the air in 1966 I believe. I was only 6, and I was too young to understand the humor. 😊
Mike said in another interview that The Monkees were comrades in arms. I agree with that. Having said that Micky is the only soldier left on the battlefield. R.I.P. Peter, Michael, Davy, and Bob Rafleson the creator of The Monkees.
I grew up with the Monkees. I own every album they ever made, I watched every episode of their show, saw them in concert, and saw their movie. They are my childhood. They made me happy when it was hard to find anything to be happy about. They were and always be in my heart. Blessings to you, Mike, Davie, Peter, and Mickey. ❤
…..we often find in cases like this that this grief is to do with his own regrets, personal guilt and shame knowing that there was a great deal left unresolved between the two of them. We can be pretty self absorbed us humans
Just like when Davy died I remember peter did the same thing Broke down U know It happens U always Feel guilt in the end Even after that Frenid and bandmate is Gone rip davy peter and Michael
I met all of the Monkees in different parts of life. Peter did a segment for 207 while performing in Maine. He was one of the most genuine people I have met. I met Davy in Connecticut of all places. Mickey... Met him in California when That was then This is now came out. Michael was at an art fair. Maybe 1983 or 1984. They were separated by then but also had a genuine connection. They were brothers in the literal sense. Michael was the most reserved. Peter was the most thoughtful. It's hard to imagine they didn't get along, but they were musicians. And style and taste for the profession can bring chaos. But as they got older and closer to death... They put aside all differences and performed as a band. True respect for the pioneers of the boy bands that came after. They didn't like it, but they did their job and entertained us for years.
Nesmith was always kinda pompous but to see him break down here is heartbreaking. Because it shows how you shouldn’t take anyone for granted in life. Peter Tork was a part of his life which really was a good life.
Yeah he always acted bored like this job was beneath him. I always thought the shows writers made them all look like buffoons but I did like a lot of their music.
His tears are from a place in his heart knowing no matter what he says now Peter Tork cannot hear them. The Monkees were an iconic part of the baby boomer generation. I myself was a fan of the show and find it sad there wasn’t a reconciliation and peace before Peter’s death. It’s never too late to bury the hatchet.
It's hard watching your past fade away . Friends , memories , music it seems like it all gets smaller and smaller . I believe in an afterlife and I worry that some or all of this life won't be remembered . I'm not in control of that ...I love it for now . PK
You can have eternal life with Jesus. Once ur in heaven you won’t remember the past and you will have a new heavenly name and a job!! The angels will sing if you accept Jesus ❤❤
I grew up with these guys and have several of their songs on my phone and listen to them over the intercom at my job. I miss them so much. My sisters and I were born in Houston. I found out recently that Mike was born in the same hospital as my little sister. Love you guys. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Peter was my favorite but I LOVED LOVED LOVED you Four with my WHOLE HEART! I was your target audience; I’m closing in on 70 but I’ll always be a 15 year old Monkees Lover till I take that Last Train to Clarksville!
Moved out to LA during the 80s. Got a gig with the New Christy Minstrels. Suddenly I had access to people and places through that connection. Met all of the Monkees. The press and public at large were a bit dismissive, but when seen up close they were all quite exceptional musicians. Especially Peter Tork. He was astonishingly good. They all had major respect inside the industry. At bar-b-cues there was always a whole set of Monkees songs played and sung. They had alot of love and respect as they became elder statesmen.
So in reality he respected him. Sometimes you dont like the people you love , you butt heads, you tolerate each other. He broke into tears because it hurt him that they didnt get along
This goes to show don't wait to tell someone how you feel about them .Friends or family because we all here for a short time not a long time rip mike ,peter and davy.
Im astounded !! Mike and Peter were my 2 favs....so sweet and soft spoken. I never knew this. I watched their show bk in the day. The show was so great. You would never know ! 😢
You should cry! You two made history together! You were both loved by millions! You both should have appreciated what you had! It's sad that it takes someone passing to make you realize what ya had !
Michael was completely honest about his feelings, which I respect. Despite them not being close, Peter Tork was part of his life for 50 years; which meant when Peter died, a large part of Mike's past life died with him.
i do like that he was that honest with the interviewer. he's saying we could not stand one another but we put up with each other because we had to. it was a business relationship not a friendship.
i think that when he got the news his own emotions surprised even him much like i think they surprised him when he did this interview. but you are right though on how long he had been in his life. & it still feels unreal that we only have 1 monkee left now
@@rolandofgilead43 I think a lot of us could sense this about them. I feel bad. I am a long time and devout Monkeemaniac. I miss those who are in the next life. I saw Davy and Micky in 1976. It was a fantastic concert. Timmy Boyce and Bobby Hart were there also. 🐒❤🐒❤🐒❤🐒❤
one part that is not mentioned Peter Tork Stayed with Mike and his Wife doing Beginning of The Monkees Tv Show, and so did Davy Jones,but at different times.know it was fun Mike and Davy living together and Celebrating there Birthday on the same day, Maybe Mike Wifey Made a Double Birthday Cake for her House Mates
@@ninja51ify I think heard about that maybe them living together is what started their dislike for each other?
@@carolkenyon5063 , I wish I had seen that.
That's called RESPECT. It hurts his heart .
I remember them back in the late 60's. I don't think I started school yet. I can't say anymore because it's been so many years. First grade September 68. Great show
This might hurt too but Hendrix hated all of them. Called them a clown show. I can't bear it, I gotta go.
@@robertr.9419why would Jimi Hendrix' opinion of The Monkees hurt any of us who happen to be fans of theirs? Don't get me wrong, I'm a fan of Hendrix too. But his taste in music isn't going to influence my taste in music or my opinion about anything else for that matter. So I don't give two 💩 s about what he thought of The Monkees.
@@robertr.9419 his drugged up ass left too late.
@@GooberpeanutI was six months old. A product of the 'Summer Of Love'. I recall listening to my mom's record she had of 'The Monkees' , and watching their show on TV, which was in syndication during the late 70's and early 80's. Found memories.
This cuts off too soon but Micky says to the interviewer "Do you have siblings?" When she says yes Micky says "Need I say more?". For better or worse the Monkees were brothers. They may not have always liked each other but at the end of the day they did love each other.
Wow. What Mickey said was a perfect analogy. Thx for giving us that information. ❤
It's like that saying, "What I say about him is one thing. How I feel about him, is another.
Yes, the future seems to teach us all a lot. Not all of us see the lesson.
and most know that Nes was an only child. so any very long term associations begin to feel like family, albeit possibly not the closest. He was the only only child of the four boys, which might've tied him more closely to all 3 of his band mates.
That's not Mickey. That's Mike Nesmith.
Like two brothers who aren't speaking to each other for years... there's still love between them.
Certainly you can love, yet really dislike and feel deeply for someone. Happens all the time. We are complex beings for sure.
Hearing mike talking , it hurts to hear they did get along at the end , that’s what counts.
This is going on with my two sons and it breaks my heart. The problem is between the wives and my son's are standing behind their wives. If I say anything I get shut out of my grandchildren lives, so I stay silent. My heart hurts. I'm not getting any younger and I think the only way they will be civil with each other will be at my funeral. Between them they have 8 kids between them who don't know their first cousins even though they are young adults.
@@pinkythechihuahua3156 I'm so sorry, my wife and I spoke to our sons and said family should come first . It doesn't make a difference who's family, just that there's no division between anybody. Life's to short for B.S. If the wives are causing the drama then they should man up and the four of them should sit down and discuss the issues. Good luck.
Not necessarily.
Brotherly love doesn’t mean you have to like each other.
That's a true statement.
What???
@@kingofallwhitestheir statement is dead on accurate. Sorry if you do not understand.
@@kingofallwhites like and love are not the same thing. Similar, but not the same.
Absolutely TRUE 👍🏾
That is a true brotherly love. Im 68. I belonged to the Monkees fan Club. I think its a horrible way that Hollywood treated those very talented men. They brought such happiness in my young childhood.
Mine too I love the Monkees. Can I have some of their songs on my phone.
Ohhhh… I loved them too!! And I’m sure they knew how much their fans loved them. 🥰
For 2 people who didn't get along, Mike deep down loved Peter
…..you will often find in cases like this that this grief is to do with his own personal guilt and shame knowing that there was a great deal left unresolved between the two of them
One can love someone but just don't like them.
@@cspace1234nzThats a good point
How do you know what he felt deep down?
Their dislike towards each other was mainly a music thing. They had different styles when it came to music. Mike would make fun of a lot of Peter’s outtakes like Lady’s Baby which may have driven a bigger rift between them. They were both however the true driving forces in helping the Monkees gain their freedom to record what they wanted and play their own instruments, and their chemistry on Headquarters, especially on the track You Told Me shows they had a lot of disagreements, but they both respected eachother a lot.
I met peter Tork in A small club in Massachusetts.He was performing with his blues band he sat at a table for a few minutes talked and signed autographs.He is the sweetest most kind man.I've known
How long did he stay there??
The sweetest most kind man you’ve ever known ???? You talked to him for a few minutes ??? Sheesh this is accidental comedy gold . 😂😂😂
I met Nez after a show in SF at the Great American Music Hall. People paid for a meet and greet and I just waited outside hoping to get a chance to say hello and get a guitar signed. Nez was the nicest guy you could ever imagine. He said "hey yeah I saw you in the front there during the show. Thanks for coming to the show" We chatted for about 5 min. He took the time to ask me questions and I had questions for him.We talked about his gear, Pontiac GTOs . A few different subjects. He could have just brushed me off as someone who didn't pay for meet and greet time ,but no. I can't even convey what a wonderful moment in time that was for me. I grew up watching the Monkees. Mike was always my favorite. Getting a chance to meet him as an adult and have him be such a great person to just another fan meant the world at that moment. His legacy is well deserved. R.I.P Mike.
Cool story. Yeah, I like GTOs too.
Remember this ....Her name was Joann and she lived in a meadow by a pond . The song Mike did after the band broke up. I had the 45 record.
@sdgakatbk yeah! A great guy he was for sure. I has a 65 than a 68 then a 70 GTO back in the mid 90s you could still get them for about three to four thousand in good shape. Those days were fun times!
I loved all 4 of them, i tried to pick a favorite, but i just couldn't. I still can't..i truly was crazy about that band🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@AprilW-ls6bdI loved that song.
With age comes wisdom..And the heart softens..
In 60 years old. Not many people who have passed on bothered me as nuch as Davey , Peter and Mike. For their music and tv show , they are special to me. 😢
I'm almost 50 now. I loved the show as a kid growing up. It's sad we all just fade away 😢
Really?? Why? Because we watched them copy the Beatles after school?
@@markfrost2707 yup 💯 and the monkey's were funny 🤣🤣
67 here. I enjoyed the show on Saturday mornings too. They are part of our past and good memories.
@@markfrost2707 Copy the Beatles? Maybe in the Help movie that way.., never thought of them copying the Beatles.
They were all part of something really special. They meant a lot to millions of fans. I will always remember them in my younger years. THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES!
The Monkees were more talented than they were credited with. Great band....even if they started out as a TV show.
@@mindeloman Absolutely!!
I loved those guys, Mickey Dolenz is the only one left ! RIP to the three who are no longer with us ! Thank you for the memories, all four of you.
When asked recently in an interview how he was doing, he answered “I’m still here”
Mickey was my dream boat
Amen
So many people don't realize that liking someone and loving someone are not the same thing.
Good on Mike for telling it how it was and being human. ❤
Love can be a funny thing.. When it blindsides you - IT BLINDsides you.
100% agree.
I had no idea they weren't friends. I just assumed. RIP Peter. RIP Mike and Davy.
Guess they were actors who were only put together for the show, hence the uncomfortable vibes that happened between them, as they were simply acting out their roles. They also never expected the huge popularity they found as people thought they were really a band who had a TV show.
This touched me.
Despite our best efforts to the contrary, we cannot prevent our hearts from loving, 😢
Some brothers never get along. But, they are still brothers.
Still had enough respect for him as a human being to mourn his passing. That's grace .
Not easy to be honest after someone dies. But Mike showing raw emotions 100% real. A real man.
It gets easier the older you get I've found. Wisdom brings many truths & by the time you get up there in age you have more appreciation & drive for peace, serenity, & forgiveness.
Don't sweat the small stuff & let it go, kind of thing.😘
I'm sorry the real man part you should have did that when he was alive you have one life and one opportunity to be the better man towards a person and you lost that opportunity that he chose don't cry now because that's false sympathy how is that making h i m a better man that makes him a weak man😢
Not sympathy. You didn't understand what he is saying. They shared an unbelievable life, as brothers who loved what they shared, even loved but did not like, each other. It's a missed opportunity, yes. He realized it, and realized how he actually felt. Another piece of an era, gone. Another portion of his own life that has gone forever. No one gets through this life without regrets... praying you have better luck...
It's very easy
Peter was such a gentle soul. R.I.P.
Mike wrote a beautiful tribute to Peter on social media when he passed away. They may not have "liked" each other, but there must have been mutual respect.
I got choked up when Mike did. I always liked each member but Mike and Peter were always my favorites.
Peter was one of the kindest men I ever had the pleasure to call a friend. He was a free spirit and upbeat through his illness with such a strong will for life and peace.
Peter was my crush, Mike 2nd place, lol.
@@franceshaypenny8481Peter was mine too.
Peter was always my favourite from the first time I saw them as a kid.
Wow, cool. He seemed like a decent guy. I read that Mike was prone to anger outbursts. He put his fist through a wall as some meeting. It's funny that we forget that everything is temporary and you have to try and enjoy it. If you cannot be happy when in a band with the world at your feet then you just cannot be happy, I guess.
That's awesome that you were friends with him! Why did he and Mike not get along?
Shared history is powerful. His pain at losing someone from that history is palpable.
He never liked him but he loved him.
I'm not so sure. He may have had guilt for the way he horribly treated Peter when he was alive.
Such a true statement.
Sounds like family
Maybe remorse
sometimes you learn too late@@suzanne9622
Honestly, you four men, made more people happy, more people smile,
I am old now, and some of best memories, was watching the Monkees TV show with my Mom. My first album was the K-tel best of the Monkees ,that my Mom bought for me. C.O.D through the US mail delivered to the house.
I loved these guys. Watched them as a child.
I still watch them. ❤
Watching these generational icons of the 60s and 70’s pass has been sad. Every emotion possible displayed by them.
Rest in Peace Mike. You were closer with Peter than you realized. Peter, Davy Rest in Peace🙏🏻💖🙏🏻💖
That's what you call admiration and mutual respect.
The emotions are deep. They're in your gut. You don't have to "like" someone to have a bond.
Honest yet still, a heartfelt response.
It doesn't really matter how close you are to a person. When you've been around them for a good part of your life, you're going to feel it when they're gone. That's the reality.
Even though they didn't like each other, when one dies, you still shed a tear for them. Probably even more.😢
Rest In Peace Peter.
You were always my favorite.
Brothers in arms and the two who were the best and truly musicians in the group, Davie and Mickey considered themselves actors though they were incredible singers and Mickey has one of the best rock voices ever. Yet they are not in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. I don't care who wrote their music or if the wrecking crew played on most of their releases, they are Rock and Roll History and deserve to be in the Friggin Rock and Roll Hall of Fame!
I'm with you! 👍🙋
So many great songs by them.
Who didn't use the Wrecking Crew?
"Steppin' Stone" is one of BEST R-n-R songs of that era and has been covered multiple times.
They should be in the RRHF!...... Just for the inspiration they've given to Millions.
The Monkees put out a lot of love and joy with their music and show. Never forgotten. Rest in peace.
Honesty.
RIP Mike, Peter and Davy
Bless you boys!
We love you Mickey
Little Davy Jones was annoying
@@gerry9306 , Jealous much?
Davy Jones was a Tony award-winning actor who was adored by young beautiful girls everywhere he went.
And you??
@@maskedmarvyl4774 Look Mack, he was adored by 12 year olds and by you. I'm jealous, yeah. 🙄
Sorry to disrupt your jabs, but Davey Jones' step into the limelight created a phenomenon known as David Bowie.
@@JW...-oj5iw when the other David Jones changed his name to David Bowie it was his only option, otherwise he too would have been relegated to Tiger Beat and 12 year olds. Little Davy Jones represented the low point of 60's music. Bowie on the other hand was one of the high points of 70s music.
Whenever times were tough, listening to the Monkees always brought me up.
Thank you guys. Your music smoothed the bumps of life.
I didn’t care that they didn’t play their own instruments for a while. I loved their music then and I still do today.
Rest in Peace Davey, Peter, Mike
Just adding. Mike and Peter were musicians. Mickey and Davey were not.
Peter was good friends with Stephen Stills and they use to jam with Hendrix.
But it is true for a while the company on the TV series when it let them play their own instruments@@O_Towne_Bear
@@O_Towne_BearMickey was a great singer though, so a musician.
@@O_Towne_Bear Mickey played guitar. He learned to play the drums to get the role.
“It’s never too late to reconcile” that’s my takeaway from Mr Nesmith’s heartfelt testimonial
He didn't say that
@@barbieblue3336 and if you read it carefully again you will see I never attributed the quote to him. It’s MY takeaway.
Sometimes there are people we know whom we're not so fond of, but in the end they tend to be much closer to us than we think, and when they're gone it hurts us like losing a loved one.
I just can't understand that.
So true
@@bobsebring2819 same here. It's hypocritical
Very well said.
So you watched this video and came up with that? Great observation, a true original!!
A very honest, yet caring man. That's okay, Michael.
Michael was always the down-to-earth and honest Monkee. Makes me aad to see Michael break down.💔
Michael was a fab singer songwriter RIP dear man xxx
Love is more powerful than liking or not liking someone.
This made me so incredibly sad, and it made me more emotional knowing the fact that it’s the one year anniversary of Mike’s tragic passing. I miss both of them so much, and I wish they would’ve had better friendship. ☹️
I'm breaking into tears 😢
Then you definitely don't want to watch the last concert with Nez and Mickey.
The Monkees were a joyfully fun relief for me in a violent household so I'm thankful to Mike and Peter for not making their animosity obvious.
Oddly, they were very much alike in many ways. And repected each other’s talent absolutely. I saw Mike just before he died and he said much the same thing but added they “were brothers.” Family can be hard.
I met Peter Tork back in the 80's when I was a Corpus Christi Police Officer. I was working security at a Concert that was featuring the Monkees (minus Mike Nesmith) along with several reunion tour bands. I must say that Peter Tork was one of the NICEST people that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting! ❤ I asked him for an autograph and he told me that he didn’t have anymore pictures with him but that when their set was finished, he would go back to his bus and get me one. I thanked him but I thought to myself, "Not gonna happen.." Later that evening, as I was working security, I saw him coming through a crowd of people toward me and when he reached me, he said, "I'm going to go get the picture for you. Come on and I'll get it." I followed him and waited outside of his bus for him and he came back out and said, "Here it is and I signed it for you!" He was such a genuinely nice man.
Someone once asked me if, when someone dies, is there anything you'll regret not having said or done with them? If yes, then do it now.
What if that thing includes telling them what an evil piece of slime they are, and throwing them out of a window?
@@maskedmarvyl4774That's totally up to you!
@@sucappaert9260 , Thanks, that's what the voices in my head keep telling me!
Very true. So many things don't matter at the time of our passing. The fights, the disagreements, money and superficial things.
Love, pain, creativity. These are the things that last..
@@sucappaert9260iii is out ú😮😮😮Ty just wanted 😢y😢😢😢😮
This is a great lesson. Show kindness, and respect even to people you don’t like because we are not here for a long time and regret is a terrible thing.
We can still love people that we don't really like .this is a perfect example of that love.
The death of someone you've known for so long, suddenly leaves a big hole in your life. Your own life is changed forever. I miss my loved ones but I'm at an age that I'm losing long time friends and I have to say it's a different kind of really deep sorrow. I'm glad I am growing older, but I hate this aspect. A lifetime of friendship can never be replaced.
It's hard to imagine anyone not liking Peter Tork!
He was such a sweet guy with such a cool smile! Peter seemed egoless. Peter seemed so approachable.
Peter was my favourite Monkee!
Of all The Monkees, Peter is the one I would've liked to have met.
Did Peter ever say that he never liked Michael?
It must've been a personality clash between Michael and Peter.
I always admired the fact that Michael wrote "Beat Of A Different Drum"!
Linda Ronstadt did a great cover of that song with The Stone Poneys in the 60s.
The Monkees brought a lot of joy to my life watching them on television back in the 60s as a 9 year old.
Great times!
Rest In Eternal Peace ~ Michael Nesmith, Davy Jones and Peter Tork.
If anyone wants to watch the full interview there are several channels that have it. Micky was just on tour, saw him at Penn’s Peak in PA. It’s very obvious how much he misses Mike, Peter and Davy. His tributes to each are right from his heart. Mike is just being honest and open about his feelings here, even if he didn’t like Peter he sure as heck loved him.
The Monkees were great! Their songs will always be loved and remebered! Ilisten to them to this day.
The Monkees have like 10 classic songs. To have 1 is great. “Pleasant Valley”, “Stepping Stone”, “She” are really strong hits. Monkees were a great band.
...I think they have like 75.
Believer was the best
No they were not a great group they were manufactured
@@xxlionroarxxxxxxxx4438 "...a manufactured image with no philosophies", you mean?
They were there eras version of a boy band.
Absolutely Amen 💖 peter knows you loved and cared, you just didn't know how to share your Spirit. We can see you absolutely cared too ❤
Absolutely Amen 💖🥰🌹
He was always so real.
It's sad that two members of a band who were SO BELOVED by their fans couldn't share that love between themselves.
He may say they never liked each other. But Mike did lovePeter
You really liked him Mike, you just showed the world my friend, it's OK and I really believe he liked you, your both likeable guys.
It was 1997 I was 13 and Nick at night aired a random show called the Monkees... They became my whole world. I had the comic, tv show recorded on VHS and every album records and CDs. I was in complete love with Micheal. This really touched me. 😢❤❤❤ I still know ever word to papa Jean blues❤
I was a huge Monkees fan in the 80’s. Bought tapes and watched them on Nick at Night all the time!
@gatorsmid. Did you first see them on MTV around 1985? They became so popular again after that, they started touring again. 😊
@oldiesgeek454 no I was born in 82. Just a weird kid who loved 60s/70s music and Lucille Ball , M.A.S.H., and Columbo 🤣🤣
@@oldiesgeek454 I believe so? I know I had some tapes around age 13(1984).
@lanareed. 😊 👍
I've seen MN in many interviews ... and he seemed a genuine individual. Genuine character of kindness - even while becoming a millionnaire at a young age.
When Mike Nesmith talked about Peter like this . I think he didn't know how to show his love to a monkee member until something happens .And that's when the real love comes out cause they were like a family band.
That was going to be my point... some people may not like each other but I feel Papa Nes loved Peter.
You can love without liking.
I love this level of honesty, if one’s not liked in life it’s so hypocritical on death to claim the opposite. Mike demonstrates they didn’t see eye to eye but acknowledged the importance of his existence in Mike’s life. Now they are both gone and found peace.
There are family members sometimes that don't get along any further than being civilized, but they are part of us in spite of that. And we lose a part of ourselves when they are gone... these four young men shared unbelievable experiences for decades... it's the end of an era in all our lives. We miss them.
Thank you for sharing this...
Which is why grace for each other is so vital. A lack of forgiveness and grace is the #1 root issue within our society. It’s possible to be confident but not a jerk.
I was too young when The Beatles hit the world. But I was seven years old when The Monkees TV show came out. The Monkees introduced me to the world of Rock music. I owe them my everlasting thanks. 🎸🤟
They taught me humor. It seemed when i was a toddler, every show on tv had songs or singing performance.
@guitary. I watched the show for the songs too, when it first came on the air in 1966 I believe. I was only 6, and I was too young to understand the humor. 😊
I love Mike Nesmith’s honesty. And it’s true, you may not like each other, but you are brothers as someone said.
An honest, wonderful gentleman.
His soul overcame the egos that they had. God Bless them both ❤🎉
Mike said in another interview that The Monkees were comrades in arms. I agree with that. Having said that Micky is the only soldier left on the battlefield. R.I.P. Peter, Michael, Davy, and Bob Rafleson the creator of The Monkees.
I loved them both. Peter lived near me and I met him a few times at local events. He was a good person. So is Mike.❤
What a beautiful expression of unconditional love, and no attachment to what was true feelings, very honorable, not often seen or felt
I grew up with the Monkees. I own every album they ever made, I watched every episode of their show, saw them in concert, and saw their movie. They are my childhood. They made me happy when it was hard to find anything to be happy about. They were and always be in my heart. Blessings to you, Mike, Davie, Peter, and Mickey. ❤
…..we often find in cases like this that this grief is to do with his own regrets, personal guilt and shame knowing that there was a great deal left unresolved between the two of them. We can be pretty self absorbed us humans
Thank all four of you...together
We will truly miss you...together
Together you were great...thank you
Just like when Davy died I remember peter did the same thing Broke down U know It happens U always Feel guilt in the end Even after that Frenid and bandmate is Gone rip davy peter and Michael
I met all of the Monkees in different parts of life. Peter did a segment for 207 while performing in Maine. He was one of the most genuine people I have met. I met Davy in Connecticut of all places. Mickey... Met him in California when That was then This is now came out. Michael was at an art fair. Maybe 1983 or 1984. They were separated by then but also had a genuine connection. They were brothers in the literal sense. Michael was the most reserved. Peter was the most thoughtful. It's hard to imagine they didn't get along, but they were musicians. And style and taste for the profession can bring chaos. But as they got older and closer to death... They put aside all differences and performed as a band. True respect for the pioneers of the boy bands that came after. They didn't like it, but they did their job and entertained us for years.
Nesmith was always kinda pompous but to see him break down here is heartbreaking. Because it shows how you shouldn’t take anyone for granted in life. Peter Tork was a part of his life which really was a good life.
I always thought he was the douchey one too but seeing him be honest about their relationship makes me feel more for Mike’s journey.
Yep, he may have been a good musician, but he was a snob about the opportunity that came his way.
Yeah he always acted bored like this job was beneath him. I always thought the shows writers made them all look like buffoons but I did like a lot of their music.
@@shahn9916Well they especially made Pete look the buffoon. That's not the easiest or best role to get handed .
@@carmensandiego7749I don't know why not. Everyone wants to be the funny guy in an act and not the straight man.
His tears are from a place in his heart knowing no matter what he says now Peter Tork cannot hear them. The Monkees were an iconic part of the baby boomer generation. I myself was a fan of the show and find it sad there wasn’t a reconciliation and peace before Peter’s death. It’s never too late to bury the hatchet.
It's hard watching your past fade away . Friends , memories , music it seems like it all gets smaller and smaller . I believe in an afterlife and I worry that some or all of this life won't be remembered . I'm not in control of that ...I love it for now . PK
You can have eternal life with Jesus. Once ur in heaven you won’t remember the past and you will have a new heavenly name and a job!! The angels will sing if you accept Jesus ❤❤
I grew up with these guys and have several of their songs on my phone and listen to them over the intercom at my job. I miss them so much. My sisters and I were born in Houston. I found out recently that Mike was born in the same hospital as my little sister. Love you guys. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
This was so touching. They went through a lot together and in the end they obviously had more than just “a civil truce”.
Thank you guys so much, for making my youth such an enjoyable life.
I have new respect for Mike. I loved their show and their music.
They may not have liked each other, but they loved each other. ❤
Lesson is to put aside the things holding you from making peace and sharing with family and friends. Tomorrow isn't promised to us.
Peter was my favorite but I LOVED LOVED LOVED you Four with my WHOLE HEART! I was your target audience; I’m closing in on 70 but I’ll always be a 15 year old Monkees Lover till I take that Last Train to Clarksville!
Me too! They were my first concert, and I was such a huge fan! I’ll be 70 this month, and they were a large part of my growing up.
Moved out to LA during the 80s. Got a gig with the New Christy Minstrels. Suddenly I had access to people and places through that connection. Met all of the Monkees. The press and public at large were a bit dismissive, but when seen up close they were all quite exceptional musicians. Especially Peter Tork. He was astonishingly good. They all had major respect inside the industry. At bar-b-cues there was always a whole set of Monkees songs played and sung. They had alot of love and respect as they became elder statesmen.
So in reality he respected him. Sometimes you dont like the people you love , you butt heads, you tolerate each other. He broke into tears because it hurt him that they didnt get along
Sometimes your enemy becomes your inspiration. You wanna out do them. This is raw and real and beautiful.
Time, age, wisdom, and hindsight will eventually render forgiveness and love. You guys did good, Mike. Live and be in peace.
This goes to show don't wait to tell someone how you feel about them .Friends or family because we all here for a short time not a long time rip mike ,peter and davy.
You never know when you truly love someone until you lose them!!! Always be kind and civil, nothing wrong with being humble!!
Wow! Thanks for the great music guys! Never realized there was only one left! The Monkees were my favorite group. Still listen to their songs.
Im astounded !! Mike and Peter were my 2 favs....so sweet and soft spoken. I never knew this. I watched their show bk in the day. The show was so great. You would never know ! 😢
I loved those guys. A huge part of my life as a teenager. So hard to know they are gone.... And here I am. Miss them.
I can’t believe they didn’t like each other. They both seemed like such decent fellows
Peter had great stage presence, he held that bass like a rock star, nice and low
You should cry! You two made history together! You were both loved by millions! You both should have appreciated what you had! It's sad that it takes someone passing to make you realize what ya had !